Woman Is Tired of Paying Off Appliances in Ex’s House | Part 1

[@joeshab123]

One thing I like about JJ is she never looks down on anybody's job/career. To her there's "working" and "not working" and that's it. If someone says they were working at Lowe's or Subway or something like that she's just as OK with that as she is any other job.

[@apollosperineum]

she seems to not have many biases in general !! (i may be wrong.) it’s probably part of what makes her such a respectable judge, tv show or not.

[@captainman2clever351]

But looking after the child and house IS also working

[@omikatiwari747]

@@captainman2clever351 "Working" in legal terms means a job that bring money. Although taking care of your kids is it's own kind of labour, but, doesn't count as "working/employment"

[@Limpbiscuitprince]

I think what the OP meant was "gainfully employed" nobody is arguing she didn't have responsibilities or duties

[@joeshab123]

@@Limpbiscuitprince Yes exactly. Good grief, there's always someone like captain man around, trying to stir up trouble for no reason.

[@brittneyrobinson2761]

The fact that JJ has a fly swatter ready is hilarious. 03:49 Wait, she has two! One for Bird LMAO 04:05

[@gc6432]

jhahhahahaa

[@deenikki9690]

😂😂😂

[@venkkandadai6042]

JJ should have fly swatted the plaintiff

[@phyllismarkley7878]

And that fly was going to heaven once JJ swatted it. Lucky fly.

[@luv2luvujc]

😆😆

[@mobayhottitude]

I think JJ wanted to lighten the mood with that whole fly bit because the plaintiff was getting too emotional. Also she hates flies, she has not 1 but 2 fly swatters

[@rwinchester9351]

Sorry. I've seen thousands of Judge Judy episodes, she doesn't give a rip about anyone getting emotional. She'll even say to not waste tears on her, she doesn't care. Or don't even bother with a sob story about your dead mother or sick father or any of that, that she DOESN'T CARE. Then reiterates that she DOES care, but it is NOT relevant.

[@sterlingforbes3872]

Agreed, that was definitely her being kind to the entitled crying woman.

[@amandageyman8033]

I agree, I don't know why anyone is commenting that she is showing any kind of kindness to the lady who is crying for no apparent reason. JJ hates when people show emotions. She usually tells them that she does not give a "rats behind" and that they are on the wrong show, he'll I've seen her get angry at a child who was crying because tears don't work on her. If I was her I'd feel the same way, she's held her position for decades and emotions have no place in a court of law.

[@mobayhottitude]

@@amandageyman8033 that's just my opinion. I don't think she tried to comfort her per se or make her feel better, I said she tried to lighten the mood. In the end when she was starting to cry again she seemed very unmoved and unimpressed. The first time I thought she was going to actually tell her she didn't care about her crying but instead she did something that made the court giggle about the annoying fly.

[@Seemsayin]

2 fly swatters? Wow. Had I not watched the video, I don't think I would have believed it.

[@TheNosePickler]

As soon as that man started talking.....I was instantly reminded of when Michael Scott thought the Mafia was after him. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rosevilla7511]

HHahha OMG YES

[@raintree3383]

who ? thanks !

[@rosevilla7511]

@@raintree3383 Michael Scott from the office lol

[@damarapapaefstathiou8795]

I'll have the gabba-goul

[@apoliticallevi]

Love when she was having her crying moment everyone was more concerned with the fly lMFAO even her mother is like oh well no use wasting these tears lmfaoooo

[@charliekliewer2643]

haha aint no tears it was as dry as the sahara in her eyes

[@Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego]

@Life In Progress. I like your profile name and picture. I don’t know what your plans are but you will accomplish your goals. Remember this message 😀.

[@johnsmi213]

I think Judge Judy knew the woman was trying to manipulate her and didn't want to seem callous so she turned her attention to something lighthearted.

[@apoliticallevi]

@@Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego I changed it! I wanted to do haircut reaction videos! But thank you! Happy holidays!!!

[@quetta561]

The way judge Judy cared more about a fly than her tears😂😂😂

[@Kris-xy3kh]

I thought it was Jugde Judys way of trying to lighten the mood and help her collect herself

[@michellequinsey710]

@@Kris-xy3kh no, her crying was annoying, so JJ was rightfully ignoring it. The lady was just used to not working and getting her way...now she has to put on her big girl panties

[@Zenobiadream]

Sooo good

[@dreamcatcher5644]

​@@Kris-xy3kh

[@linnieduplessis8169]

A ridiculous grabber like that should not come for grsbibg the little contribution she gave after 3. 5 year's living eating clothing and wanting her little contribution back. The court is not a crying den for her.

[@webblake6227]

I love when she goes for the fly swatter.

[@sarahhuggins736]

i was fine until the second one for byrd came out LOL

[@cryospiral]

@@sarahhuggins736 yeah, that was the critical moments for laughter.

[@mashaallah8249]

LOL the fly heard the warning and never came back.

[@HBBILY]

“You were not married” “We were engaged” “*You were not married*” 😂 my father always told me according to God and the government you’re single till you’re married.

[@millier.206]

On the other hand, in the Bible times, If you left to live with someone and were sleeping with them YOU were married 🤣🤣

[@hera_avria9265]

Americans hate that fact lol

[@polkadots2823]

Well according to God, your father was right 🤣

[@metingordu627]

😂

[@Momo-po5tn]

@@hera_avria9265 they really do smh

[@PrettyMiyaw19159]

JJ doesn’t fall for crocodile tears. 😂

[@zakfred848]

Hello how was your day going?

[@jeffrowisdabest]

I don't think those were crocodile tears. I think she's stressed out from having to work and raise a kid on her own while he contributes next to nothing in child support.

[@gtsound12]

I love how the tears started after she found out judge Judy knew the real story

[@bussinholidays9010]

It least it shows she was embarrassed I suppose 🤔

[@domisthebomb09]

I like how quickly she stopped "crying"

[@johnsmi213]

When you fear you're not winning the case, always just start crying to curry favor.

[@edwoodsmith4243]

Absolutely...I was thinking 'here comes the Crocodile Tears'...

[@terriesmith2616]

Bingo! When losing....here comes the water works. 💦 💦

[@metingordu627]

Exactly 😂

[@tellurye]

Yup - women play the victim, even when the perpetrator. She left him for the "bad boy". Shocked that is didnt work out, now wants vengeance on the guy who HAD a job and PROVIDED for her and their child. Knows shes losing so wait for it.... wait for it.... turns on the waterworks. She could always hock the engagement ring (you know damn well she didnt return it when she left him)

[@mimim8532]

50 cents for “ curry favor”

[@theunexplainablecrumbs4387]

I love how JJ flat out tells them she doesn't care when they embellish their stories yet they continue to do so lmfao

[@Godblessed2]

I hate that we live in a culture that makes a work from home mom look as if she’s living in the lap of luxury and contributing nothing to the household. Cooking, cleaning, laundry, errands, and non-stop around the clock care deemed meaningless because no money is attached. Ridiculous! A stay at home mom is worth 150,000 a year in services with no sick days, she works on vacations if she’s lucky enough to get one, no time off, no bonuses, no applause for her cooking, and very little sleep. My mother says “Men retire and women die” - a woman’s work is never done - if she works outside the home, then someone else is in charge of her children for a fee and in most cases, she still has to do all the house work and meal preparations. Not thrilled with JJ line of questioning on this one. Can you tell? Lol

[@lomelyo]

Hahahahahahahaha and what about before she had a kid and wasn't working? And a mom is worth 150k a year? The hardest jobs of labourers in the US don't pay that much. It's harder to have a shift at Walmart with a shitty boss than taking care of kids. That's why she didn't work before.

[@sarahjane4719]

You are right. Judge Judy is not stay-at-home mom friendly. Sad. Daycares should not be raising children if it can be prevented. And as for the other person who responded to your comment-ridiculous. I’m assuming he has never taken care of children.

[@Yatlick]

In New York (where they apparently live), the average cost of childcare is $14,000 per year. Let's even double that, since it saves the effort of transport to and from childcare, and other benefits as well. That's still just $30,000 a year. That's ~$15/hour. I greatly value and respect stay-at-home moms, but you are kidding yourself about the actual financial impact on the household. Her actual financial contribution would have been greater if she had worked at McDonalds.

[@javierfuentes515]

Well i think the way she treats this mom in regard of her being a stay at home mom Is the reason she's coming to the father of the child to pay for something both of them are responsible for, he's paying for the house and she was paying for appliances and that's for her son mostly, you understand a little why JJ is mean to her? She's not entitled to have money back bc she signed something and got into something on her own will

[@gena4638]

I agree that stay at home moms don't get nearly enough credit. I don't know if there's a set dollar amount that could represent what a stay at home mom does though...I think it probably varies household to household because let's face it, not all parents are good parents. But yes...its a very difficult, stressful and thankless job. I agree with JJ that she's not entitled to her money back, but her line of questioning was definitely rough. Maybe even a bit biased as she can't stand people who don't work...especially if they collect disability and/or welfare. I agree with all her points on that topic every time she speaks on it. The first replier is an idiot.

[@tgcme1]

She’s not against SAHM’s. She’s against not being married. She didn’t marry him but is expecting their break-up to be treated like a divorce. She can’t have her cake and eat it too. She can’t play house without the ring. So, legally, the situation is a lot different than if they’d been married.

[@mmariaveiga]

Using your argument, since they were not married and she was taking care of the child and the home, he should have paid her for the work associated with taking care of 50% of the child. At least during the time of the day he was working. Although my guess, given how much he is paying for child support is that he was not doing much to help.

[@tgcme1]

@@mmariaveiga using my argument? honey, no. my argument is about the splitting of assets, not behavior while you are together? see the difference? they’re called opposites. Being together is not the same as leaving and expecting to take all the toys home with you. Also, the child is biologically his. that makes even less sense by *your* logic.

[@JamZon-zl6xp]

​​@@mmariaveigathat is Peak delusion darling... Judge Judy sees right through her... Another Lost child to this nonsense

[@peppapigthekiller7539]

@@mmariaveigawhy? She gets paid by a roof being over, food being put on the table, and other amenities needed to live. That’s like if the guy said, “you owe me rent for living in my house”.

[@gemsgemsgem8612]

Ladies… listen.. this is why you don’t have a baby and not marry… it wasn’t a one night stand it was with someone she was involved with for 10 years so there is no excuse why he shouldn’t have married her. If you were married you would have reaped many benefits from a divorce .. alimony, child support, half the house, 401k etc etc

[@Josiecat80]

how could she throw it all away??? and most of all ruin her childs life and well being over another man! wow

[@drewizkoollikeicecre]

I believe what he said about her leaving for someone else and it not working out. The tears started when it was brought up. Prob didn’t work out and he wouldn’t take her back and she’s regretting her choices.

[@myyuh99]

i agree

[@cornholio8715]

Judge Judy with the random "DUH" made my day perfect at 5 in the morning

[@vinfeildesca2363]

I liked the way Judge tried to lighten the mood when she started to cry. I see watch she did their,

[@zakfred848]

Hey man, how are you doing?

[@charliekliewer2643]

when people ''cry'' but theres no tears...

[@mashaallah8249]

😅You got it😥🙄🥱Righttttt!

[@jjmah7]

I’m like 5 seconds in and the fact that she couldn’t give a straight answer to a very simple question tells me she’s about to lose this case

[@smutjunkies559]

"My family gave us money too." Ok. Do you think YOU get credit for that? You think Judge Judy will make him pay YOU because your grandma gave you guys money?

[@Enterprise1701J]

Grandma or grandma’s attorney would have to file suit.

[@stevenp25100]

Does she get credit for caring for the child?

[@LEMONSQUEAKER]

She’s crazy for thinking he has to give that money back to the grandma

[@Chalk89]

@@stevenp25100 no, that's literally her job as a parent. I don't seek 'credit' for providing for my daughter, that was expected when she was brought into this world.

[@snsn7251]

She should've made sure her name was on the house in that case. Wasn't very smart since they're not married.

[@DanielGrayWorld]

The way she turned on those tears as soon as she was losing is so manipulative. Glad JJ didn’t fall for them.

[@LaurisaKennedy10]

The fact she has not just one but TWO fly swatters 💀😭

[@user-cq5jz9eg4p]

I hate flies too. They are annoying.

[@Lala1234love]

I love and respect judge Judy

[@snsn7251]

If her family contributed to the purchase of the house she should've made sure her name was on it. Bad luck girl. Learn for next time

[@mrshappilymarried1]

I was thinking the same thing. He was smart enough to know better...

[@captainman2clever351]

Looking after their child and caring for home IS working It's sad that this isn't seen as the value it is

[@amethystthedarkrai648]

That's not working. Parenting is not a job. It's something you just do when you have kids. Taking care of your home isn't a job. You just clean to keep it nice.

[@nilnil7325]

@@amethystthedarkrai648 Its not a job (since a person isn't paid for it), but it certainly is work. Raising children and taking care of a home requires constant work. However, Judge Judy rightfully criticized the plaintiff since she was supported by the defendant for three years and yet wanted money back on the appliances (the only financial contribution she made to the household).

[@k.robertrichardson6779]

Maintaining one's own residence and children is just living life. It's not comparable to being employed, because it's nothing employed people don't also have to see to by default.

[@mariahelenajarvenpaa8834]

It is not a job. But it is not valued.

[@bklyyynn]

Single mothers have to work a job and still do all of those things. I’m not saying it shouldn’t be valued, but it is a luxury.

[@texasplayboy23]

You could tell that JJ let up on the plaintiff a bit when she started to cry. Her tone and line of questioning was WAY calmer😂

[@iamthomasgreenman]

This is unfortunately why people need to be legally married if they’re going to play house. Divorce would have forced them to split the debts and the assets or settle around it. They acted like they were married.. house together, baby together, credit card together.. and now that they dislike each other no one wants to take responsibility for any debts incurred. Legally he might not have to do anything.. but he knows damn well he helped pick the color of appliances alongside her.

[@amberbiggs]

So true. And not to mention he is the one who still has the appliances.

[@Mrussell1980]

Or put both their names on the house

[@purplelove3666]

Silly people and their stupid decisions

[@purplelove3666]

@@Mrussell1980 no. GET MARRIED!

[@lomelyo]

All of her financial contributions are on that card. Who cares if he picked the colors. Morally he doesn't have to pay anything. He took care of her for years without her putting a dime and she has the balls to ask for 3k USD back? Do you know why he didn't countersue for all her clothes and belongings that he paid? Because it's called decency.

[@Mary-pg3lu]

JJ..you were not married? Plaintiff..I was engaged JJ..you were not married? For Christ sake answer the question ⁉️

[@2009richmeister]

I ready knew from the beginning this is not going to be an easy case for her and minutes after the tears started coming down judge Judy is such a meany 😂

[@stephanier1000]

I love how Judge Judy puts her in her place that she didn't work for 3 years

[@sterlingforbes3872]

Yes! JJ is a working woman herself... she knows a leech when she sees one.

[@agatanakonieczny2213]

She was a stay at home mom so she definitely was working but wasn't employed.

[@laura7413]

I figured myself binge watching judge Judy shows. She doesn’t take no one’s crap that’s for sure!

[@OpheliaFantasy]

The chaos of Judge Judy making a bit about a fly, right after the plaintiff started crying 😅😂

[@RXbee2]

Love how whe the truth begins to emerge, the plaintiff immediately begins to cry.

[@user-wm8no6kz6s]

Ohhhhh please! The tears!😢

[@nvythmss]

I just LOL out of my head seeing JJ with a fly swatter..and then getting out one more for the Bird. Hilarious!! :D

[@TommieGun71]

I LOL at the fact that she's suing for a stove that she never used according to the bank statement the defendant provided, all she did was eat out.

[@dhq._nekieshatnt5649]

It doesn't matter if she didn't use it. Who paid for it?

[@tarnw3301]

If she paid for those things, the right thing would be to give them back to her. She has the weight of the child's expenses too.

[@MsBaileyLayne]

The plaintiff and her witness is crying.. for what 😂

[@gabrielsolis6966]

I saw that too🙄🙄😂😂like lady calm the hell down why are you crying!! Lmfaoooo

[@byeee811]

10 yrs together since teens a child a house that’s a lot to cry about and she hasn’t been able to move on cause she’s stuck with a bill for appliances she can’t even use its BS

[@chanelle2819]

@@byeee811 Right! And the fact that JJ made a fool out of her when JJ said "duh" implying that she's stupid because she hadn't worked for 3yrs. Could've been something they decided together.

[@mashaallah8249]

I know🥱

[@ahtaystamcauther9376]

@@byeee811maybe she shouldn’t have cheated and left him for another man??😊

[@tiffyb364]

I love to hear the question you were not married? And they say we were engaged. That’s not married😭😭😭😭

[@jazzyj6640]

Right?! Yes or no question!

[@TheAtheriel]

Gotta love JJ! “Duh!” 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@69misst1]

I totally disagree with judge Judy. If she is a stay at home mother - it doesn’t matter if they are married or not. She’s far too harsh on this lady. She worked before the baby and she worked when they split. Her contribution was childcare and keeping up the house. Her only failure was leaving him for someone else. Cheating is disgusting!

[@MaleOrderBride]

True...but the problem is: these young ones play house for ten years and don't get married!! A marriage certificate is a legal document that would easily help a judge split the assets. These young dumb kids don't get married but live together for 7 years and it causes a headache to the legal system because there is no contract like a marriage certificate when they split. I think Judy is more frustrated that these kids don't get married first and then move in together. They play house and then expect the Courts to sort out their mess when they split with no legal paperwork!

[@brat4535]

He said she cheated, she said she didn't.

[@anotherblonde]

I don't think the plaintiff watches this show often, or she would know JJ doesn't take sides

[@maivang7394]

This is a perfect example that as a woman you shouldn’t depend on your man. Especially financially. Also, this is why a couple shouldn’t share finances together. My grandma’s marriage advice to me was: “remember that the day you get married is the day your financial crisis starts.”

[@mrsjoy8831]

facts

[@psi23k]

Lol. He supported her for over 3 years. And then she left him for someone else. He done a pretty good job supporting his family. She gets 0 sympathy.

[@plavalagun4]

She was a stay at home mom. They supported each other. She could have gone to work just for the whole paycheck to go to daycare fees. They as a family benefitted from that set-up.

[@MissHunterELA]

Not necessarily. Depends on the character of the person you marry.

[@tovah8841]

Not sure, women should PICK better men! We pick them & we as women should REQUIE marriage & not give our bodies for free.. So pick better men stop picking the broke Chads because they are only good in bed & start picking better successful husbands that can provide for you and the children.. & also mostly women file for divorce not men. Stop with this feminist agenda no women wants to be old and alone with a cat

[@iluvcmarie]

Judge Judy is the last judge to start crying in front of. Those tears don’t move her. Lol.

[@alamoja]

If u not married u are not a SAHM. U just unemployed. She found the hard way. Teach them Judy

[@jazzyj6640]

Haha 🤣

[@asmrlilvezzy6601]

She thought she was going to pull that cry tactic and go on a victim rant not just Judge Judy but everyone ignored it 😂

[@jennifergray5499]

OMG are you kidding me! Two fly swatters. That was positively rich! Love it

[@obliviousmode575]

I would have loved seeing Judge Judy take out the fly with the gavel. Lol

[@dharmallars]

Omg I thought the defendant was making a sassy gesture at Judy until I saw the fly. I was like she’ll die for that

[@mashaallah8249]

lol😅

[@antonego7950]

I learn so much from JJ 🖤

[@gc6432]

me too!!!!!

[@reencampbell4481]

@Anton Ego I do too! She’s very good at dealing with the family cases. They’re usually extremely messy and emotional for some but she gets right to the topic at hand.

[@LiftingGunsBibleTradition]

I love those crocodile tears 🐊 She starts crying when JJ brings up her leaving for a new man 😂

[@mashaallah8249]

You got it right 100%😥🙄😅

[@user-oc2nq5cd2z]

The fly I fly is a metaphor for many of the people who come in front of her- pesky and feeding off of others.

[@druw7523]

The emotional manipulation by crying is absolutely revolting to me. It never works on me, and actually makes me hate the person that does it.

[@Seemsayin]

When she realizes that JJ saw right through her nonsense, guess what happens? Yep... It's time to cry.

[@habibrahmeh]

he is a very sweet man. I hope he found someone that respects and appreciates him

[@TheSarah730]

He did! I looked him up and he’s now married to a woman named Nicole volano and they have kids. He seems like such a decent guy. I’m sure his ex regrets leaving him.

[@Stinking82]

How was the judge prepared with not 1 but 2 fly swatters?!! 😅🤣

[@johnisaacs131]

One for flies one for unruly litigants 🤣

[@User84030]

Honestly JJs attitude towards the SAHM is kind of ridiculous. It makes more financial sense for most couples to have one partner in the home supporting the house/kid, that way the other partner can focus on work and not have to take days off every other week for sickness/dr appointments and leave early for childcare pickup. Her being at home offset the costs of childcare and inconveniences for the kid. Doesn’t JJ get that????

[@Pepper9873]

I don't think she has a problem with SAHMs, but more of a problem with people who decide to play house and then expect her to deal with the aftermath of a breakup.

[@ericgranberg8893]

She is old.

[@moniqueengleman873]

Judge Judy likes for daycares to raise your children. She has no idea how expensive it is to have children in daycare.

[@salma_Nella22]

I don’t see where she insulted her for being a stay at home mom or where she gave her an attitude about it

[@moniqueengleman873]

@@salma_Nella22 Then you are blind. Or you don't watch JJ. She hates it when people don't work, even if they have small babies at home.

[@_PAIGE94]

Out of frustration I would have cried too. I’d be PISSED if I still had to pay for appliances or anything in a house I’m no longer living it 😕

[@Chalk89]

The guy paid for the roof over her head while she was a SAHM - appliances are pennies on the dollar compared to five years of a mortgage.

[@allamericanrevert7755]

@@Chalk89 being a stay at home mom deserves some compensation. It’s not easy and if he had paid for childcare it would have been majorly expensive!

[@TheCHELEHB]

@@allamericanrevert7755 or, if they are both working then they can equally pay for child care.

[@umungus518]

@@allamericanrevert7755 she got compensation, she got a roof over her head, air-conditioning and heat paid for, electricity paid for, food paid for etc. Youre literally insane if you dont think thats compensation.

[@Chalk89]

@@allamericanrevert7755 The compensation is the mortgage being covered, the food in the fridge, heat/air coming on during the seasons etc. It's a partnership and for her to turn around and try to collect after the fact is a crock of BS. In part II he makes the claim that he was also paying her school loans - can he ask for those monies back since they are no longer together? FYI - my wife is a SAHM, I'm well aware of the pros/cons.

[@tinasung3814]

JJ hates people that keeps making excuses for why they are not responsible for this/that. Love the timing of when JJ took out the fly swatter when the plaintiff & her mom was doing the poor me crying 😂

[@marielaponce4866]

Hes been one out of a million most respectful man he never bothered to even say one word as she was telling her lies with those fake tears

[@CouldntfindaYTname]

Lmao I swatted at the fly when It first appeared caught me off Guard. I’m also high 🤣

[@TheFortunateWaywardSon]

I love when judge Judy corners her she just starts with the crocodile tears

[@brittneyrobinson2761]

Girl, cry me a river and go be an adult. The audacity of you to be so entitled after he literally supported you the entire relationship.

[@CookieWoods.]

I love Auntie JJ but had she spoken to me like this because I was a stay-at-home mom, they wouldn't have been able to air my episode! And I'd be paying for all my own amenities for not sticking to the script! But oh well! 😂😂😂

[@travet1000]

Well, I'm sure she get's tired of the excuse "stay at home mom" and yet expect to be compensated.

[@umungus518]

Well at least you admit you're an unhinged psycho. Get some help before you hurt somebody.

[@DJCallidus]

@@user-iq9qr5cx3h Or an 'Only Fans'.

[@User84030]

@@travet1000 Her being a SAHM allowed him to work as much as he did, not having to take time off for the kids sicknesses, appointments etc. it offsetted the cost of childcare, as well as the need for another car etc. Her taking a job a Lowes would probably have lost them money each month. So yes, she contributed to the household and deserves something from those years supporting him and their kid.

[@travet1000]

@@User84030 Well than if you can't afford it don't have kids PERIOD!! Especially if you are not married. At this day and age people should know things never end well.

[@damionbujan6218]

They will always begin to cry smdh

[@r.r911]

It's not that he didn't have good credit. When you buy a home and try to apply for a personal loan, banks are afraid to loan more money as the morgage is considered a huge debt. It will take a few years for banks to trust you in order for another loan to be approved.

[@susanl4198]

I don't get how people survive without working. I've steadily worked a job since I was 14 years old, I'm now 64. Do these people sit around all day long and live off someone else?

[@reencampbell4481]

It sounds like she hasn’t really been able to keep a job…. She’s lucky she has had so many people to help take care of her. I’m sure it has a lot to do with the fact she has a child.

[@benzamg32m68]

She was to young too! 17 when she met him? Had the kid a few years later?

[@reencampbell4481]

She was 17 when they met… they were together for 10 years so she was 24-27 when all this happened

[@reencampbell4481]

@@benzamg32m68 let’s stop making excuses for people… if you’re old enough to choose to procreate, you should be old enough to take care of him. I think 24ish should be old enough. People feel bad for the child and so they step in to help - it’s a tactic i’ve seen time and time again. **I edited my comment to give more context for certain people who need it.

[@maryrodger5130]

@@reencampbell4481 With that sort of reasoning, if I may call it that for a moment, then according to *you* a 12, 13, 14 y/o girl "should be old enough to take care of him". A suggestion: move your pointer to the right and 3 dots will appear, click, then click on delete.

[@reencampbell4481]

@@maryrodger5130 you know exactly what i mean…. I gave tons of context but maybe you’re not intelligent enough to GET it. She was in her early 20’s …. People want to have children and not take care of them. Poor kids grow up in this situations all the time. I feel bad for them, not her.

[@floridas_own]

3:37 the crying don’t work with JJ or me. Lol

[@hismiths6649]

I absolutely HATE when women see it’s not going their way they start crying to either garner sympathy or look like a victim 🙄 it’s disgusting 😡

[@Julie-sl8ul]

The fly swatters 😂😂😂😂

[@Whitenoise541]

Haha Judge Judy is epic. Reminds me of Dire Straights Song, Money for Nothing. We gotta move these refrigerators, we gotta move these color TVs 😂

[@dyonamann3916]

As a stay at home mom she should still get credit for that. A daycare pays their employees 30,000 plus a year, A maid makes 20,000 plus a year.

[@Margotrivera1980]

Having kids is a choice.

[@dyonamann3916]

@@Margotrivera1980 yeah and it always ends up most the times moms stay home to cut the costs going out of the house hold. Nobody’s complaining I’m just saying don’t down play stay at home parents

[@tessparel4347]

It's her child.

[@nancyaguirre2307]

Embarrassment to women. She could have worked if she wanted. She wanted to be taken care of…. So sad.

[@FreddyKruegerTheDreamDemon]

she was looking after her child, are you missing brain cells? do you not understand how expensive childcare is?

[@BadgerCheese94]

@@FreddyKruegerTheDreamDemon She wasnt working even before she was pregnant.

[@marleykaufman9710]

I was not expecting that voice from the defendant. Nothing wrong with it, or the refwigeratowr. Just a surprise

[@mashaallah8249]

😅😂💛I know

[@tiffanyeyoung1800]

That's just another example of why you don't give a bf or gf spousal business

[@kennedy98796]

she left for another guy and didnt work out well, and now she has hit the wall

[@starhomesteadindia8999]

She gotta a fly swatter. Best preparedness i have ever seen.

[@jadeinthewoods]

These two were together for 10 years, lived together for 7, own a home, have a child and were NOT MARRIED.🤦🏻‍♀️ So she walks away with nothing. Don’t do this, ladies. Honestly, I think he should pay for half of the appliances, especially if he’s got them. She needs to take him to court for child support and get on with her life. I hope she’s doing well.

[@argentumman7116]

Exactly, ladies...Don't do this. If you are having relations with a so called "man" who won't marry you after 10 years, perhaps it's because you're giving him the cake and he's eating it too. Respect yourself! Hold out until YOU ARE married. If you're willing to get ploughed prior to marriage by multiple men, there ain't no way in hell a real respectable man will show respect. I refuse to invest my money and time on a used shoe that has been worn 50 times by 50 different people. The only reason the real colors of this dude didn't show is because JJ didn't give him much opportunity to speak. They both deserve each other. I feel bad for the kid.

[@jazzyj6640]

Why buy the cow 🐄 when you can get the milk 🥛 for free? 🤑

[@zakfred848]

Hello jade, it's nice meeting you hear. How are you doing?

[@caseyking0917]

Love the dude’s Italian accent.

[@Valoelify]

What the hell is wrong with all you people... Being a stay at home mom and cleaning the house IS WORK. Sure it's not paid, but it's sure as hell important and should be valued because NONE OF US would be here if someone didn't raise us. Yikes. The most important job of all is looked down upon by society, go figure...

[@nowirehangers2815]

It doesn’t pay the bills

[@crimsonite2044]

3:18 thats EXACTLY why she’s suing. No other reason

[@shinwata8396]

I'd love someone to say, why are you such a condescending bully Judge...why make the poor girl cry like that. Then she blames the fly for annoying the plaintiff.

[@doctorartphd6463]

I love Judge Judy. She is the coolest Judge ever !!!! Too bad she isn't on the Supreme Court.

[@DontUNVME]

She gave Burt a fly swatter. That's all i took from this

[@ElvisPresleyfan80]

It's Byrd not Burt

[@mashaallah8249]

😅😂

[@truaswho898]

4:08 even when everyone is laughing he still shows compassion and empathy by not laughing himself .. she lost a good one

[@nyamefieldsREALTOR]

Having a child and staying home with said child is no small feat. Any contribution from her family is from HER.

[@Kennybooy9]

Im going to cry now…poor boo boo..

[@McKelT]

2:02 JJ: “WHAT ARE TOU DOING?!!!!”🤣🤣🤣

[@mashaallah8249]

🗣️🗣️Lol🤣

[@MrRumpunch70]

She's lying, there is no way a dude is paying one hundred dollars a month in New York City/State.

[@rwinchester9351]

No way she's paying her grandmother any rent either.

[@allylove21]

It’s not about where they live it’s about each of their respective incomes

[@unicorn5452]

She not lying i live in nyc and I know people who say a judge gave their child's dad a $25 order cause the man will lie and say he's not working

[@LoveDimashali]

Um...he sure as hell didn't deny it. I'd be going after him for that. And it sure as hell isn't fair that he stayed with everything and doesn't pay for shit.

[@marthal8862]

Lmao there are people paying $16 a month!

[@eldorado1244]

Karen is using the crying card, lm glad Judge Judy brought up the fly....lol

[@DrMoriole]

. . . 😂🪰

[@stratfordbaby]

So she never worked and he supported her for several years. Let her pay for something for once in her life.

[@stratfordbaby]

3:25 The one in the pale blue in the audience must be a relative, she looks like she's gonna cry because the plaintiff is LOSING.

[@jeffrowisdabest]

Sounds like she's in the wrong venue. She needs to take his butt to family court and get him paying support.

[@john.jai.sullivan]

I’m glad you won sir, that lady is out of her mind smh

[@MEGIDIOT]

Fireplace was a Christmas gift, should be hers to take. And being a stay at home mother saves thousands of dollars. I’m not following Judge Judy’s logic.

[@norma5044]

Why should fake tears bother JJ. She has seen it all. She is an awesome lady who is fair and who teaches the law.

[@xoangelicaf0523]

They can’t just answer the direct question

[@laiabarcelo1319]

She also contributed to the house taking care of their son and the husband, because I'm assuming she was cooking, doing laundries, etc. So... Unpayed labour

[@SwiftColt-by3lt]

You assume alot. Doesn't make it true

[@mojo3067]

This Plaintiff is unbelievable. She doesn't pay household bills but yet is suing for the household appliances bill to be paid. GET A JOB!!