Woman reveals what girls test for in men they find attractive

[@jabba0975]

The real test is whether you care about her games. If you try to pass her tests, you fail. Games within games. Don't play = win.

[@javonmcknight906]

Exactly! why play a woman’s game, where your emotions, time, money and energy is expendable.. where the woman is leading youuuuu.. meaning you lose…

[@alansantos6142]

To some degree yes. I should call her out for the bs but I should never fail the financial test (paying for everything) (her reaching for purse test). And being aware of being taken advantage of is important too. Her doing her femenine duties is must if I'm doing my part.

[@yome7580]

When you dont fight for them, you pass the test. Always be ready to leave her

[@jabril3745]

Interesting how half of women "think" like her while the others assume that if you have time to fight for them it means that you don't have any professional goals to pursue or, worse, that you don't have other options (i.e, other women interested in you). They all contradict each others.

[@romanhoax9014]

*The reason it seems contradictory is because women are giving advice to 2 different types of men* (1) Fight for me to prove you're a man - Advice given to BETA provider. (2) Don't fight for me, don't have time for me - The reality of CHAD alpha *Its hard because men don't understand that women are making rules for 1 man, and breaking them for another*

[@TheStrategos392]

Chad’s do not have to go through this. What she said was word salad to test a simp.

[@jermaineayivoh8263]

Exactly! Most guys don't have enough experience with women to understand this. All women test men to some degree, but if her tests involve you having to bend over backwards in order to please her or give her attention or attain her, all that the dude will have acomplished is displaying that he has given her more time, effort and money than she actually deserves or merits, meaning ultimately she will NOT reward the guy for his efforts. Simps and nice guys constantly bend over backwards to accomodate women, constantly chase them, constantly do everything women claim they want from a guy but what does that get them ? Nothing but disrespect and the worst type of behaviour and entitlement that women have to offer! Chad and Tyrone don't have to put that much effort in because they ultimately understand that women aren't worth that much effort and are easily replaceable! This is why it is said not to listen to female dating advice, because most of them will preach water yet turn arond and drink wine.

[@ShadowPilled]

Not everyone's a chad tho

[@williamvosburg9036]

That is the whole truth, with Chad all those demands are out the window,with Chad she will suck start a leaf blower!

[@williamvosburg9036]

That is the whole truth,with Chad all that is out there window, buffet testing is for regular guys, with Chad she will suck start a leaf blower!

[@radeknosil2950]

chads will go through this if they stay long enough. its why they dont stay long even if they have fun

[@miftahulfadhli1285]

It just proves how insecure they are..as a man we just need to be genuine, if she test you too much just leave her since they are doesn’t trust you as a man (she feels insecure with you). Some girls with trauma is the one who are really insecure as defense mechanism whether it’s sexual harassment or, past relationships or childhood trauma of divorce parents.

[@sMASHsound]

If u fight for them early , it just proves that u Wil take whatever crap they throw at u and still grovel to get them back. ... They just use the word 'fight ' to make it seem like ur doing something noble , but it's just begging them

[@derekphillips4513]

🎯💯

[@cezarypruszkowski9523]

“She’s the best, she’s the most special” 😂😂 Wonderful dissection from DL as always.

[@romanhoax9014]

*You don't have to deal with any of that. If she gives you this attitude, walk away from her. Make yourself as attractive as you can be so you don't suffer from a scarcity mindset. Walking away from a belligerent unruly woman is 100x easier when you know you can get another woman easily* *That's why MEN need to do the basics. Eat right, work out and chase excellence*

[@TruthsSake]

What’s funny is that as she speaks about testing the man to see if he’ll fight for her, it doesn’t occur to her whether the woman must first be worth fighting for to begin with.

[@yaarisacredvibrations]

A woman in an apocalyptic shit hits the fan scenario would be about as useful as a chocolate fire guard, ever notice how they always trip over and fall down in the horror movies… enough said 😂

[@prader1330]

Ahahahahaha!!!

[@cmonkeedo]

The road is a perfect example of this hahahahhahah

[@anthonyrakia]

Testing is really easy. I always test women in the same way, whether they will stay with me if in ten or fifteen years I lose my job and our standard drops, or whether they will immediately find another test subject for their tests. It is very interesting that none of them passed my test. Survival of the fittest!💪

[@DJS4497]

In one of Josten J's videos he said, "why should I have to fight to keep you somewhere that you want to be?". What exactly does she mean when she says fight for her?

[@hyperteleXii]

In my native tongue we have this idiom, "pulling a sled filled with rocks". It means she will be fighting your every decision and effort and wants you to engage with that drama. She's going to create chaos, then judge you based on your ability and resourcefulness to turn it into order. It never stops, so is just demonic self-sabotage.

[@WoodnetRonnie]

Watching this mesmerizing video dredges up painful memories of the recent dissolution of my 4 year relationship. The departure of my beloved, the one I adore deeply, has left me in a perpetual state of longing. Despite my tireless attempts at reconciliation, I find myself mired in frustration, unable to shake the persistent thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to move forward , I'm compelled to share my inner turmoil and the overwhelming sense of missing her here .

[@Roselinekendris]

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[@WoodnetRonnie]

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[@Roselinekendris]

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[@WoodnetRonnie]

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[@sangminlee7451]

All men are like this to some degree. We fall in love deeply madly in love, so it's painful and that longing eats you away from the inside. Men are in it for real love but not women.. there are less and less women who actually want to be in something real. They are in it for the business and benefits and fantasy of it all. The best thing we can do is as men are to not be too vulnerable anymore. Stay opportunistic that there might be someone again but be ready to always leave her if you have to. Men have to be happy being alone so that women are never a priority in our life. They can be just addition or extra but never our main focus. I hope that puts some perspective. Men are destined to be lone wolves.

[@TroyStevens430]

Men: live your life, and forget about chasing women. No woman who wants to be idolized will ever make a good wife.

[@danmslacker6782]

Wow, she went from bad to worse in a hurry. The crazy eyes when she says her tests are easy seem to say "She is easy and can't figure out why all the Smashers are also Dashers." It would be kind of sad if they hadn't done it to themselves to spite our best warnings.

[@tomwalker389]

I give her a 5.5.

[@stephensummers1958]

yeah that's pretty accurate.

[@ryanyoder7573]

Have we forgotten what we learned from War Games? The only way to win is not to play.

[@danielhamilton5094]

Hilarious how full of shit they are

[@plentyandtalis]

Chad and Tyrone not get shittested

[@chilledchad]

She's talkin about the provider. She is sexually interested in the attractive seed, but she needs the help of the provider beta.

[@lujiang2390]

FACTS!

[@romanhoax9014]

*Facts. Why? Because Chad, Brad and Tyrone have OPTIONS. It's very simple. They are attractive to women, so they have options. Therefore they don't have to play games. Rules are made for provider beta*

[@johncracker5217]

Not true. Depends on a lot more than that.

[@XConquerClubX]

Nah bruh….they still test you. They give up that snatch easy, but the drama and games are a constant for any man 😂😂

[@Semper_Fish]

I have yet to find just one woman to pass the test of tying on her own fishing lure, casting, retrieving a fish, and netting it successfully with rod in one hand and net in another. This is the ultimate test and while she's doing that I will be checking her tackle box to see if she is able to survive missing a few lures I will borrow for the day without her complaining.

[@kaizen2095]

my take on this chick is that she is just talking about her own situation as if its universal fact, she probably invested alot into someone who isnt giving back enough so she says that "men need to fight for the girl" when really she means the guy she wants doesnt want her enough, which ironically is probably why she likes him, nothing turns women off faster than desperation as they want the very best mate and the man who doesnt want her makes her assume he can do better than her, therefore he is above her and so a suitable mate.

[@EyeOfScrutiny]

Super arrogant and revolting.

[@meffer]

you just look at her and instantly know what's up

[@teok8855]

Yeah the crazy part is she can test you how interested you are and only she makes the criteria, meaning that she can believe that if you show too much interest you are weak or that if you show not enough interest than you are also not interested in her and she shouldn’t wait. Often times its like a scale of interest that she’s judging you on and you have to walk this fairly fine line between I’m interested and disinterested, but some women might prefer a complete demonstration of interest and some may want a complete demonstration of indifference (which means to her that he’s so confident and has so much options (aka social proof) and that makes him sexy in her eyes). You can pass a lot of shit tests if you simply know what type of woman she is.

[@Khanhhq2k11]

She is correct at some points but the question we need to answer ourself is Does she deserve it?

[@plentyandtalis]

Like he said they have a manipulative correction for everything

[@Sergio_Loureiro]

4:43 "Tell me you are a gold digger, without telling me you are a gold digger." I pass. Next.

[@thescience3000]

I would fight for someone who has proven would fight for me, or someone who worths it (aka, She has proven to fight for me as well) No more fighting for people who would even argue to defend me Said in a philosophical way I would not run a mile for someone who wouldn't give one step to shorten the distance I need to run for us to be together

[@sMASHsound]

Who are u fighting ?

[@budoshi-f2l]

@@sMASHsound figure of speech brother.

[@DailyPaily]

And when you fail, she double down, and insist.

[@RobGordon35]

Thanks Pierre 👍

[@EmilyAdams-q1h]

The problem is that even when you confront women with the demonstrable dishonesty of what they are saying, it doesn't matter. They are perfectly capable of believing whatever self-serving, contradictory nonsense they want to believe and living in an alternate reality and morally mutable universe.

[@Centauro_Grande]

More and more men need to have the abundance mindset to walk away from this type of woman. She behaves like she is the only woman in the world and as if the clock is not ticking for her. As she gets older her attractiveness is only diminishing. She is so full of masculine energy and frame.

[@Attiues]

I never wore a Face Diaper 😷 never got the Jabs and didn't buckle to social pressure There you go

[@misterzonkier5524]

Homie be looking straight out of a 16th century Spanish artwork 😂

[@TheStrategos392]

Chad’s don’t have to go through this. What she stated in the video was word salad for basically a simp test.

[@SuperMBARutgers2013]

C'est vraiment!

[@hyperteleXii]

They do it to Chad all the same. The only difference is, Chad bails earlier because he's got other options.

[@HollywoodCameraWork]

Accommodating a shit test is to fail it.

[@japan-flanders1078]

One of the BEST vid so far

[@AlejandroRasmussen7]

All of this is the fault of either abscent fathers of fathers that never make their daughters accountable and treat them like princesses…. Of course the result is these bunch of self righteous narcissists

[@keithpittatsis4075]

A woman's expectations can be her own ruin. A lot of times, a woman isn't even alpha-widowed... she just hasn't met a man who's lived up to the imaginary man she created in her own mind.q

[@budoshi-f2l]

no thank you HARD pass , hope she finds the right simps tho .

[@willclouded]

She said it's not coming from Ego? ...Yes it is

[@corystovall3544]

Love the first lines my man

[@Garanon5]

Not interested in jumping through hoops, and ultimately putting yourself in HER frame of qualifying yourself is a losing game. Be a man, be your own man, and you’ll pass whatever stupid unconscious tests she gives.

[@DonTrump-sv1si]

Shes testing you to see how much she can get away with

[@ronparker9443]

The only way to win is to not play - Patrice o’Neal , professor falcon

[@SuperMBARutgers2013]

Guys, no woman will respect you if you are not the Main character in the story. The ultimate test but non test is a man she is willing to be part of HIS story

[@JaySmith-pv2mw]

Test her by telling her you lost your job and have no more money. See if SHE will fight for you then. It's not an ego thing, it's just self-protection. 😉

[@princeknight9775]

Fine, girl #1. Then you're going to be tested for loyalty, responsibility, respect, and self control.

[@kemita]

I've gotten the complete opposite experience to what this woman preaches. The least interested I was, the least effort I put and the less f'ks I gave, the more interested and invested women I was with were with me. If you focus on yourself, women will too. Women follow, men lead. If you lead your life, they'll follow you. It's quite simple because it has always been this way. Don't listen to women about advice. Fact is, don't listen to women, period.

[@ArmandoCalderon]

The test will end until you get to the other side.

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Women don't just test for looks - they test how you handle challenges, how confident you are, and how you treat others.*

[@dislikebutton4981]

Unless...

[@chriskey7440]

Women act like they're the prize, their egos are out of this world

[@AlejandroRasmussen7]

Winning the heart of this 6 > storming the beaches of normandy 😂😂😂😂😂

[@patrickvernon4766]

No one has time to keep doing tests over and over

[@japan-flanders1078]

excellent pierre

[@go818win]

Creating you from her fancy rather than from life …

[@alfZbarkada]

Why bro looks like a medieval painting

[@thedailyvibes4033]

Ignore them = win. They will be resentful but they will always love you because you're the only one who they can't voodoo 😂

[@planetarygodzilla]

Spot on.

[@TheInnerCosmos]

Never listen to women and what they say they want. This is not what women respond to. Men that chase and over pursue will get ghosted and she will lose her respect and attraction. If she feels your strength that you're willing to walk away and never look back and be ok without her, she will go crazy for you

[@paulroyal2177]

Interesting... A look behind the scenes, to find out how women can make sense to themselves even if men can't understand them. A guy can see a woman as a potential life partner, only to have her be repulsive with "tests" and "playing hard to get." The absolutely worst test is when a woman tries to make a guy jealous, in the hopes that he will fight harder for her and ignore her infidelity. How do these tests make sense to women?

[@thescience3000]

@@paulroyal2177 man here (just for you to know I'm more speculating than actual fact, but if you can check that? Please do) Women set test on men based on what they think they would do (certainly they don't see it that way, they think humans behave like that, but it's only women) Women get Jealous if they see a man they liked by other women; for them, it's validation from the group, if other women find you attractive it's because you must be and she wants to be the one who gets you, so she thinks men are the same Women never have to learn about men to get one, that's why those behaviour make no sense, they are based on female criteria, if you apply them on a woman instead of a man, they might work We are not women nor behave like them

[@kaizen2095]

the jealousy test is gods way of telling you shes not the one, nothing will make a man disconnect faster than hinting at infidelity and at some level she must know that.

[@harpersnyder2297]

They don't make sense at all. Because they don't think

[@fakadaapada]

also notice she said 'partner' not 'man'.

[@JosephKawecki]

very good

[@problemslayer3538]

So, a woman is prepared to lose a man to a test. Hmm what happens now, is the man should abandon her and go get a better partner

[@shaolinotter]

but if you are a 304 and a cheater, why would he play that game? what is he fighting for?

[@rorymills271]

its all temporary anyway and their standards wants and needs change all the time its really not worth it.

[@ExcitedBirchForest-yu8gy]

Pro tip : it's always a 6/10 or mid value or low 2/10 who does all these games once you get to 8/10 9/10 girls they are more easier to get and kept , coming from a professional

[@chrisolivo6591]

I agree with 99% of your opinions towards these woman in these videos. This one I am going to respectfully disagree. As much as it sounds like she is making it about her (which most woman do in the videos you show), she is actually talking about a legitimate long-term lifestyle. Most girls you show are just about the ‘game’ of dating and what they want, etc. it’s more an ego trip for them as it’s solely about navigating through the dating world. That’s where i think it’s gotten so ridiculous that guys are just checking out. This girl is talking about a legit topic about whether you are tough enough to be the king of the castle when you’re married and have a family. She is being very old fashioned as she doesn’t want some beta male who isn’t going to protect the family. She sounds a 1950’s housewife and she wants a strong-willed father, not some guy who is going to crumble. I hear all the annoying feminists today and they would think the opposite like this girl. And that’s why they are still single into their 30’s and 40’s.

[@FargoFinal]

Women are not always aware of their ways and wants when it comes to testing potential mates or why they feel attracted to one, this also comes from innate biological and psychological ways a women chooses their potential mates (status, wealth or the potential for future security) and their indirectness causes them to "smokescreen" what they truly want or mean making it difficult for us men to understand them. The again they are not aware of this they all think their ways are the truth.. You can't compare a pear with an apple.. Even if they are both fruits 😅😂

[@hengonghuat9876]

Don't follow what she said..the more effort u put in as a man..the more the girl feel she can do better

[@3-y86]

i fucking love you

[@xander1756]

How many women... one, two, a few, hundreds, thousands, all ?

[@Аноним-щ3н]

No one is going to fight for you and sacrifice. Start playing games - good bye.

[@Solutionsarejustcompromises]

Lol she said she is capable of getting through sht in life. Like what lady, what has life thrown at you?

[@MasculineSwag]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@StanlyTPT]

she is dictasting because she is a dictaster... never listen to a dictaster. Cheers

[@oonojoe]

Sets a bad precedent.

[@secondone3249]

Negative Canthal Tilt and extremely thin eyebrows

[@Vyt4s1993]

You can do anything without Jesus Christ without KJV Bible applied practically. And in same Bible written that man should not suffer woman to teach, but woman in church must be quiet and learn not the mention submit to her husband. No man should chase woman, woman must out of free will commit to you, as church out of free will must follow Jesus Christ and obey God through KJV Bible. Men never chase woman it's black or white either woman choose you and submit from day one commit from day one, or not. Free will must be involved. You never can force genuine respect, submission or love.

[@Allforoneandoneforallll]

It isn’t her job to make you the main character. It’s your job to make yourself the main character just as it’s hers to remain the main characters. When two main characters find each other and agree it’s mutually beneficial to join into a couple, there are three entities including two main characters and unified couple. Because it’s becoming increasingly challenging to find a quality partner, many men and women are choosing to remain single. This video made me proud to increase the tests I offer to ensure a man of interest to me is suitable as a partner.

[@xtimator]

Thean is the prize, make them earn your attention and respect.

[@paulharris2025]

4:30 probably many smug players have already "won her heart" for a night with just a smug remark or glance, so honey the bar is really low, let's not use that as a metric which affects the outcome of whether mankind survives alien contact ...

[@AnonymousAssassin7]

Tyrone and his ghetto already been there, done that over a mere glance.

[@luciankristov6436]

Just get a few side pieces and enjoy life why the hell suffer dealing with a whole ass GF

[@niguseabrha681]

Waste time