10 FEMININE HYGIENE MYTHS DEBUNKED! | Don't believe the lies! Feminine Hygiene for the Elegant Woman

[@camilegrimes29]

I'm Jamaican, and here we bathe every day. We are very aware of our body odour, when we haven't bathed. At times, even twice a day, because here the sun is hot. We often need to cool the body, and washing the flower, is part of the package.

[@NeneLouisy1991]

Same here. I have actually take two real showers (soap and water) and if I am hot I will pass water on me to cool down. I don’t play frowzy smells.

[@deniseparkes6919]

Me too, and I wash my underwear by hand

[@rachaelr8044]

Yes, same here

[@louisel.sinniger2057]

My word! I agree with Registered User. I too am a nurse of many years and find your info spot on. I cringe at how many people have poor hygiene practices! I am new to viewing your channel and I must say you are stunning and eloquent in your presentations. Thank you .

[@gutchiespencer1227]

I wish I had these valuable teachings as a young girl my life would be different; however, its never too late to learn......❤️

[@DominiqueFrancon]

Thank you, Vivienne, for such straight forward information. You mentioned the flower as being a self-cleaning organ and it is. However, the surrounding petals consist of folds and tiny crevices; these areas hold bacteria that can cause odor and infection. All you have to do is smell the crotch of your underpants after wearing it all day to understand that a moist area will grow bacteria and therefore, odor. I have always worn cotton underpants because they are breathable and far more comfortable than scratchy lace. Thong underpants are simply not comfortable. It is nothing more than material floss and does not allow air to circulate. I learned a lot more about my flower after my first child was born. The nurses in my postpartum care explained a lot about flower hygiene. After hearing of cases of toxic shock syndrome caused by tampons, I stopped using them. This may sound odd but becoming better acquainted with my cycle made me more aware of how perfectly formed and beautiful the female body is and how connected to the universe we are. It is a privilege to be a woman.

[@thelmathomas9399]

Facts!!!

[@BlvckshadeMarle2265]

I learned that self probing your vagaina is an effective way of cleaning yourself. But it takes se practice and getting used to . Then your able to practice with ease.

[@maureenlesa131]

Well articulated there thank you ❤

[@Holistretch]

Wow, you’re so detailed, compassionate and non-judgmental. Such a beauty to watch and listen to! 🙏🏼💗

[@IevaKambarovaite]

I love that you mention we shouldn't be using harsh soaps when cleaning our flower. I think too many disrupt their natural ph levels by using scented products and wearing synthetic underwear. That disrupts our bodies. There's also so much shame around the natural scent. Love your video!

[@IevaKambarovaite]

@@zinab2blessa one of the reasons nowadays people are finding challenging to find a suitable partner is because all the natural body odor is killed by unnatural scents. But I can't see myself not wearing a deodorant 😁

[@nyaradzochatikobo2569]

So informative. Here in Zimbabwe people don't tell you if you are smelly unless it's someone very close like siblings or parents. Outside of the house however people will readily speak about you the moment you leave their presence and the comments will be pretty rude. I agree with you completely that it is upto me to take great care concerning my personal hygiene.

[@pamelamunyama7884]

True

[@richauntie316]

Same in Uganda

[@auksilliarufarochabvutagon1091]

Say that again Nyaradzo..it is said that only a dead person can be smelly.. even though you still aren't allowed to directly say it..

[@AmarachiDuru]

I love this. In Africa, people don't mostly speak to you directly about it but will definitely discuss when with others. This in some cases might be because the person involved might not take the corrections or might act up, so it takes someone so close to make this approach. Thanks always ❤️

[@tfamily5561]

Thank you so much for this video. I was horrified listening to a co worker tell the myth you shouldn't bathe every day. Maintenance is needed during those monthly moments. Proper techniques of hygiene you explained should .be in homes and schools.

[@35djlwarren]

Thank you for confirming that I am doing everything appropriately and effectively. Hygiene is a paramount. I have a morning and a night care routine from head to toe. Thank you for helping ladies to become more confident and the best version of themselves. By the way you are very elegant and very beautiful! Be blessed Vivian.

[@checkurfruit1st]

Hi, I happened upon your channel when wanting to see if there were any new etiquettes that I should become familiar with. I grew up in the American Midwest in the 60's & 70's. My Mom was hard on me concerning manners, proper behavior, and etiquette (my dad retired from the USMC - so my brother and I had to conduct ourselves like a little gentleman and a little lady). I thank God for her because when I went into the military I was in shock to see the lack of home-training [especially hygiene with the females]. You most certainly have a gift - thank you for sharing with us.

[@BloomWithBlossom]

UTI’s can also be caused by not drinking enough water 🤗

[@sonjagamble2903]

Some of the hygiene products cause uti

[@naiyapatel4262]

I'm a medical student and from what I've studied i can say Vagina is self cleaning so it should not be washed. When it comes to vulva...it should be washedwith plain water and that's it bcz as many products mention that they're not harmful...they still disturb the pH balance down there which is necessary to protect it from infections (fungal/uti) Plain water is great but if one still chooses products then the pH has to be maintained.

[@TheBlvdjewel]

If you have hair down there, you need to wash it simply because the hairs will retain bacteria, urine, blood and discharge - and then there will be odor.

[@Queen-ConsciousYa]

@@TheBlvdjewel yes you can wash the outside of the vagina with soap and water, just not the inside because it’s more sensitive.

[@lilianmukisa3291]

Thank you for clearing my doubts. It's the vulva not vagina to be cleaned. Besides urine doesn't pass anywhere close to the vagina

[@Elena-nl8de]

Oh what a pleasure it is to watch you present. So glad I came across your youtube channel. Thank you for your work, Vivienne. I hope these additional non-straightforward tips will help the girls and ladies: - If you bike or if your long trip makes you sit for hours (on a plane, a train, car etc.) - please use the special feminine wet wipes that get rid of bacteria and restore the pH balance. Always wipe from front to the back. Bring a change of underwear with you and use it. Sometimes yeast infection develops simply because of the way we ladies are "designed": when we sit down for extended periods of time, the "flower" gets squished naturally and this is when bacteria may travel easily from the back to the front. That's the same reason why thongs are a no-no. They are a toy; - shower and especially clean your "flower" right after any activity that made you sweat - don't go out and about after a gym until you have showered. This will help prevent yeast infection and is simply respectful to yourself and the others; - mouths contain more bacteria than areas down below, in normal circumstances. Don't let bacteria travel from your mouth to your partner and then into your "flower", get it? :) or 10 days of antibiotics and repeat - your choice :) - if your muscles are strong enough, please avoid sitting on any toilet seat outside your home. Hover over it. You can't trust a surface in a public washroom or at somebody's home; - cotton, silk, viscose are the best materials for your underwear and active wear. Studies show bacteria multiply much faster in polyester and nylon, and the odor is less likely to disappear after a wash cycle. These natural materials let your skin breathe too; - the hair.. oh the hair. Of course it is your choice but.. hair holds odor and it's just tedious to constantly watch it, isn't it? - daily liners - if you find you can't do without them and there is no physical damage to your "flower" (I hope not!), it is most likely time to see a gynecologist. The normal flora down there is when you experience no discomfort whatsoever; - always use only your personal, clean towel. Never drop your towel on benches etc. If it fell and was on the floor for more than 20 sec - wash it; - don't sit on random surfaces in a swimsuit or if your skirt or dress are so short your skin or underwear will touch that surface. This is what gynecologists recommend too.

[@diva3588]

Not shower everyday? No way! I MUST shower two times a day. Not even negotiable.

[@IevaKambarovaite]

I'm once a day kind of shower lady. But I've stopped cleansing my face with a cleanser in the morning and I have to say my T zone is less shiny.

[@norad2822]

@Diva Yes that one surprised me lol. I didn't even know it was a thing especially for a woman.

[@racheljoseph7135]

Yes ohhhhhhhh thou shalt shower 🚿

[@friedchicken892]

In the US here if someone smells crazy I just walk the other way more than likely their most like homeless. Happy to see you as feminine / elegant influencer talking about this , some people think its taboo or maybe too childish in my opinion to do it , Thanks for the video

[@sulusu4812]

I have some good friends who are homeless. ☘️

[@friedchicken892]

@@saratrevorrow2788 Thats true my apologies Ik people who were homeless but in shelters. I was just trying to describe it , Happy you hot out

[@friedchicken892]

@@saratrevorrow2788 Thanks its all by the grace of God. I try not to judge people because yo have no idea! What anyone is going through?

[@snowvale8815]

I really like the authenticity when you said you read our comments and you know we want to level up. Can I ask for some video about clothing - I really like your clothes. Or how to talk in front of people so you do not embarrass your husband with your behavior? Thank you!!

[@Pam-fh4ji]

Such good content..Here in India it is absolutely essential to have a bath..once in the morning and once before retiring to bed .Almost all Indians bathe twice daily..

[@lmiller6675]

Not the ones I know in America

[@djshockafrica4330]

Some of these actually shocked me that you had to point them out, like showering every day, brushing our teeth and wiping ourselves after doing a short call. I would also add wearing deodorant, natural or otherwise, something to keep one from smelling after showering. Washing hair too is also important. Also, putting a little capful of Dettol in one's bath water or washing could do the trick to kill germs

[@AngeliqueTraveler]

I applaud you for discussing *these issues* and with such decorum. Believe it or not, I have more than once heard a falsity that a woman during menstruation should not bathe/wash. I could not believe my ears!

[@synnsayneenterprises]

My great grandmother use to say this. As a child, I found that to be so weird and wash during that time anyways.

[@stella8538]

Vivian is such a life saver,Thank you for the tips❤

[@ummaliyah6211]

Thank God, as Muslims our faith encourages us to do this already. 🙏 thank you though.

[@Denisebemmett]

Thanks for the video. Please shower everyday, Urine, feces, sweat, sex. Please wash flower after all forms of intimacy. Please change underwear after intimacy and sheets too. If there are any women that didn't know about these myths before listening to this video, please follow the excellent advice. By all means please follow all these tips.

[@bookbutterfly2408]

About tip #1 -- it's true that some soaps are harsh, but that means you should switch to a gentler soap. I found my skin after using one La Roche Posay. It's a bit pricey, but worth it. My skin doesn't dry after showering (even with hot water) since switching to this soap. I can even shower 2-3 times a day if I really need to now. I hope this helps someone.

[@rumbienets]

Dove soap bar doesn't dry skin

[@AdaUnleashed]

@@rumbienets I think my problem with dove is, it doesn’t lather probably.😩

[@BlessingIduh]

Thank you so much Viviane😊 I really enjoyed the video. Please kindly do a video about decluttering and how to maintain a clean home.

[@Necky.N]

Everything you said really worth practicing.I really want to level up.Many thanks for sharing my black beauty

[@ashlaraque4135]

Ladies please don’t use Vagisil or summers eve or any feminine hygiene products. The best products to keep your flower clean is 100% pure Castile soap. Also you can keep a spray bottle in your shower with 50% water 50% apple cider vinegar and you spray your armpits and flour then a wash with the castle soap. It doesn’t burn as long as you don’t rub it into your flower too much. If you do rub it into your flower too much you might feel slight discomfort for 30 minutes after your shower.

[@ruthanyasi8290]

There's nothing wrong with vagisil or summer's eve

[@She_is_P]

Hello Lady!! You look gorgeous!

[@samadenz4992]

Yes gurl, u just gain urself a subscriber Ur videos are amazing 😍

[@DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES]

It's refreshing to see your entire face! A different hairstyle that suits you. Thanks for the video.

[@karencollins2440]

You look beautiful, Vivienne. Thank you once again for another excellent video. I've shared your channel with my mother who is now also a fan.

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you so much❤❤

[@michellesc0711]

People don't wipe after urinating?? I'm more in shock that, that is a question.

[@Inny_]

Urine doesn't come from the vagina but rather from the urethra.. The vagina is self cleansing. The vulva is not. It's important for us to know the correct anatomical terms before we have this conversation.

[@WomanOfElegance]

The point is that the whole female genitalia should be cleaned.

[@shoot4themoon406]

This is true. However, considering its proximity, urine or residue can easily transfer to neighboring areas if hygiene is not optimum.

[@kathyryder828]

​@Woman Of Elegance the inside of the vagina does not need to be cleaned. Telling people to do so is spreading harmful information.

[@IevaKambarovaite]

*euphemistic* - adj, using or of the nature of a euphemism. *euphemism* - a mild or indirect word or expression substituted for one considered to be too harsh or blunt when referring to something unpleasant or embarrassing. Love learning new words from you.

[@rimaben9469]

Same here,i'm not native speaker and I watch her for her informative content and her language and sophisticated word

[@IevaKambarovaite]

@@rimaben9469 I think very often the language is simplified by many creators on KZbin. I know I do it. That's why I appreciate coming across words that I may not necessarily use myself.

[@rekhamenon4381]

Thanks, our life is getting improved because of you.

[@bernicekusi9003]

Wow so insightful. Thank you

[@reanetsentalo6272]

Thank you so much Vivian for this channel, it’s always so informative and I’m learning so much. I’m enjoying my journey of being a woman of elegance all because of you. 🥰

[@reanetsentalo6272]

Love from South Africa

[@AyeshaRameez]

I always love your videos and learn so much from u! I wanted to ask, how to you speak so eloquently. By that I mean how what advice would you give to improve daily vocabulary so that we sounds more elegant?

[@jessicahijarunguru4117]

This is a full course on hygiene, thanks so much..

[@dawnpersephone]

Thank you for the beautiful video💐 if I may add two beneficial practices that might be of interest to any lady is oiling your belly button after cleaning (for it is a very important center of our bodies) and oil pulling for an additional oral hygiene step ( rids one of bacteria,bad breath and promotes heathier,whiter teeth and gums)

[@sandras2479]

Fantastic teaching! This teaching should be given to us by our mothers and aunties.

[@delaneybucknor3710]

If you wash after exercise (sweating on yourself), why wouldn’t you wash after sexual activity with your partner? I didn’t even know that not wiping after peeing was even a thing 😮. Keep up the educational videos.

[@bernfran1313]

You are adorable. I wish such a presentation was available for middle school health education programs.

[@dakeys3342]

I wash my undies with regular clothing and have never experienced a problem down low… *Helpful Tip: Ladies, wearing panty liners DAILY is essential. I’ve been wearing them for over 30 years. It keeps you dry and free of any fluid & moisture and it helps to control odor. It will also leave you feeling more clean, secure and confident. 🧼😊🌺

[@AAA-ys9jv]

Pantyliners cause an odour for me, I prefer tissue although it’s less convenient

[@mercyedoh5830]

Can I like twice? Oh, thank you, Vivienne. Valuable content, as always. ❤❤❤

[@yaseminesarafoglu2677]

Great tips except for the "wipe after you urinate". Wiping is not enough! You must rinse your "flower" with water every single time you 'go' to the bathroom!

[@OctaviaH-u3q]

We bath at least twice in Maryland. One in the morning and one time before bedtime to wind down and relax. When my great great grandparents were on the Maryland black settlements they built, it was much less, They used tin tubs and filled them with boiling water. Today, my home has to have a standup shower and a soaking tub. Bathing and being clean I believe is etiquette at the most simplest form.

[@gifturanta9582]

I can't even stay a day without bathing two or three a day Am Nigerian and it's very important to keep clean and wipe after urinating I think using water to wash and drying up is the best

[@Nzingathegem]

Good to know about washing underwear separately!

[@roxyb8549]

This video was so informative. You were able to candidly tackle the most embarrassing 🙈 topics with great ease. I appreciate you so much Vivian, because at age 52 now, I’ve been making so many of the mistakes you mentioned in your many videos. I often go yikes 😬 when you pinpoint them. Gladly I have 3 granddaughters and hopefully because of you they won’t make my mistakes. Thanks Vivian.

[@lvettesonai]

I love your straightforward manner and making the points clear. Thank you for your channel. 💖

[@mtngrl5859]

Vivian, I enjoy your videos so much! For your edification, US is a large country with different cultures, so some people are more direct than others. If one is in the Southern States, one will find that people are more reserved and far less direct than people in New York. I'm a native of California and I find people far less direct here than in New York.

[@bintmuhammad3171]

Please do a video on how to properly care for the skin; eg: the amount of water the skin needs on a daily basis, the very right pomade for different shades of skin, the urge to bleach, and these recent times we've been made to believe toning is natural which I noticed it is secondary to bleaching, Sis, in a nutshell, I really want to keep my natural skin tone without tampering with it in the least. Bleaching has become "the normal" in Africa and it feels so sickening 😢 and nowadays almost all beauty products in the African market are shipped to us from the West🙆 help a Ghanaian 🇬🇭 sister 😩

[@giftyofosu1632]

I’ve used shea butter all my life and my natural skin toned has not been tampered with. I’m 30 years old

[@LifestylewithKesiena]

Consult a dermatologist. They'll recommend products based on your skin type. And yes, you won't have to change your skin complexion.

[@correctableme]

@@giftyofosu1632 i too use shea butter for the last 6years and its perfectly okay.

[@emilyfarris3510]

This is really sad to hear. Black is Beautiful. I pray that people love and accept their skin tones.🙏🏽

[@seifatiemo3151]

Coconut oil is good for dry weather. My face is prone to hyperpigmentation, so I use body shop vitamin c daily wash and serum to maintain a glow and keep my natural colour

[@renatacantave9588]

Love your videos, you are on point on so many issues

[@giagia3733]

Hey beauty..love your channel.. could you make a video on how to remain feminine classy and wise when in negative situations..🌹🌹🌹

[@allthingdranabeauty]

I’m stay in country very cold but I take shower every day omg icant stay even one day without take shower so true I agree with you

[@sophialove4114]

Great one my dear! Thanks for sharing and reiterating on these so so significant topics . You are Appreciated

[@user-xf7mu7ub9d]

The belly button one is something that we all should do. You have no idea of how much strong and bad smell it can have if you don't clean it often.

[@igboticchioma1787]

Ohh my goodness Came across your channel and fell in love with my sister Vivian’s channel 🤣. I immediately subscribed and I love everything. Thank you 🙏🏽 We avoid you here in Nigeria even by family well all depends on your location.

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you so much Chioma❤☺

[@charityngandu1066]

Wow! Perfectly said. Thank you dear Vivienne.

[@WiseWomanLola]

I never heard of the term "flower" for a woman's private parts. I might have to use that term.

[@giftyofosu1632]

I use lemon and water on my 🌺

[@cecegichau9785]

Can you please do an elegant MORNING routine 💞💞💕💕❣❣ Love your content 😃

[@TheKlenam]

Much love my dear sister Vivian.

[@lovethildah7340]

Priceless Information, Thanks Hun!

[@Tgill122]

This is good information, especially the washing machine tip. Thank you!

[@angiesmixy2349]

Love your hair 😍 please do a tutorial x

[@talkwithbliss8637]

Nigerians won’t tell you ,they’ll gossip too rather and one day you’ll hear bout it !

[@obasiigwecomfort1407]

I'm Nigerian and I know this. It's true.

[@talkwithbliss8637]

@@obasiigwecomfort1407 fr I can relate ,Nigerians ehh

[@nashonharris7805]

I like you and I can adjust myself a bit and appreciate all your videos.Thanks🌺

[@gardencali-arkansasstyle6995]

Dear Vivian.. is it still true as of November 2022, that you have Not visited America??- I live in California. I just found your channel a few weeks ago. I love your channel! Thank you girl. As a black girl born in Arkansas, I feel everyone should visit California. How do I give you my info to learn more, so you can visit? Real talk.

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you! This is true, I'm afraid! 🙈 Please do contact me on [e-mail] xx

[@talkwithbliss8637]

Wow thank you for this never knew I should clean my belly button . A very educative and informative video

[@tennilledebysingh5819]

I am in shock anyone from any culture would think that washing your flower is unnecessary. It is basic hygiene and health, as well as dental hygiene . How do these women function? Not to sound mean, but it is sad that people actually believe these things. Good for you to mention things women should know.

[@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071]

Thank you for another good and helpful video.

[@loisthomas5465]

Awesome message. Thank you so much.🙏🏼

[@sherenedrammeh4166]

If you have done so can you please do a makeup tutorial ?

[@Asknursesosa]

I thank God for the gift of you ma’am…. Learning a lot from you,thank you!

[@olabisiomotayo9344]

I was wondering where has she been. I love you ma'am, thanks for the information.

[@anastaciathomas1215]

I need to quit shaving again. Flossing daily has been a life changer.

[@temiaghedo4754]

Excellent Sister. I learnt a lot. Bless you

[@amstecy8444]

It's not common for Kenyans to wash undies with others cloths. We wash undies before or after bathing.

[@correctableme]

yah of course, never heard of undergarments being washed together with other clothes too...

[@esthermutua1287]

Thanks alot for this so informative hagine is very important for a lady

[@delightharriet1711]

You are the best Vivienne

[@Ri_chaelsbl0g]

🥰 thanks Aunty vivian

[@benethadoerue9540]

Good morning Vivian, thanks for the information. I shower before going to bed, else I will not sleep

[@Maria_Svetlana_5923]

Bathing/showering 2x -3x a day is important esspecially when you live in the tropics is very important! No baths?? Are we in versails ???? Bathing is important 😱

[@aliceqt6710]

I can't believe that there are women who don't wipe after urinating in the 21st century 😶 Thank you Vivienne! ❤

[@MaggietheSubstituteTeacher]

Great info. Even the common sense ones need to be shared!

[@dianejohnson9573]

Hello from the US an Wow! Just seeing your channel pop up on KZbin for the 1st time an love that you're talking Hygiene for my mother taught us how to clean our naval/ bellybutton an the Importance of keeping it clean and you're so right even as a grandmother today I still Gently clean my belly button, So much dirt it holds for such a little tiny hole. ❤ your channel

[@AngelPorAzar]

Excellent! ✨

[@sabitarijal1944]

Thank you very much for all information. 😊😊

[@18QueenHearts]

I giggled when you mentioned belly button. I remember this guy who was very unkept and untidy. He attended university with me and was in fact our guild president for a long time. He was interested in a friend of mine and he did something really silly so we were turned off. She complained about how he showed up to a date; veryyyy untidy so I joked and said he looks as though he doesn't clean his belly button LMAO! For me, I wash my navel then I use some oil (olive oil is pretty good for the area) or petroleum jelly to massage the area. It gets gunky and tickly lol. Then I use some methylated spirit or peroxide to clean it out. Always gets the job done!

[@lvettesonai]

I almost fainted when I heard my sister-in-law say she doesn't shower daily. My eyes were like saucers looking directly at her. I'm American, by the way. My mother raised me to shower/bath every.single.day.

[@stormy8092]

LOL, yes we Americans are like that. My boys favorite Christmas gift was bubble bath. Even after they were grown both of them loved bubble bath! They say we are too clean, I don't know that one can be too clean!

[@lyricst.germaine1153]

Oh lord; I wash everything all together and do not know the last time I suffered with UTI (thank gawd). Yes, I def clean the belly button. Also, we are off grid and wash all loads in cold water (ay yi yi). I wish we did have hot for whites; but we don't.

[@a.b.2405]

Do people…not wash their belly button? Do women not wipe after urinating? That is concerning…

[@tormapea1987]

Love your channel ❤️

[@doreennabulime7529]

In my country, women are told to shower 3 times a day if possible so i didn't this thing about no showering

[@blanchendifor1809]

Thanks Vi Vi

[@idaayertey4298]

Thanks sis I learn so much thanks

[@meedahhameedah2370]

Thanks sister Vivian

[@PrizzT]

I don't understand the invention of dry shampoo until I realized and was shocked to find there are people who don't shower everyday. I can't even sit on my bed until I showered. Maybe I am from Asia and the weather is hot and humid. It will be so uncomfortable feeling sticky and sweaty after a day's out.

[@carinewanyama1475]

Beautiful insight love you