SEDUCTION vs ATTRACTION: What is Appropriate for the Elegant Woman | 8 Tips to attract man

Hi Ladies!
Wondered why some relationships crumble before they even started and why some actually stand the test of time? Ever heard the expression 'You lose him the same way you got him'? Well ladies, when it comes to matters of the heart, the foundation you lay is so important.
What route should an elegant, high-value lady take when she has set her eyes on someone she is attracted to?
In this video, I explain the difference between Attraction and Seduction and the approach women who are striving for excellence should take.
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[@blueazura]

1. Smiling - Smiling automatically makes you look more attractive, appealing & approachable. Look the man directly in the eye, maintain eye contact and give him a smile from time to time. 2. Dress Neatly & Smartly - Clean & tidy at all times, ensuring that your dressing fits the occasion. Men find bold colours such as red quite fascinating and attractive. Don a red lipstick, a beautiful gown or dress, paint your nails red, carry a red handbag. Wear more colours, don't dress in all black or in a single shade but don't go overboard. 3. Show A Little Skin - But never appear trashy (e.g. off shoulder top with knee length skirt) 4. Don't Hide The Curves - Play up your assets, accentuate your curves with a less revealing attire. 5. Makeup - Good makeup highlights the good features of your face and tones down the not so pleasant features you might find. Wear makeup to match the event. 6. Keep Hairstyle Attractive - Make sure your hair is tidy and attractive at all times. A woman's hairstyle is one of the first things that a man notices. 7. Accessorise - Put on attractive but simple hair accessories, necklaces, jewellery, a lovely handbag. Use them to enhance your look, don't go overboard. 8. Smell Nice - A beautiful scent, something that is different and alluring, has the power to drive men wild. Do not neglect your daily hygiene routine, perfume cannot mask poor hygiene.

[@pamelamunyama7884]

Thank you

[@orinatelove8765]

God bless you @blueazura

[@peacewithangelamarie]

Thank you so much! Saved time taking notes.

[@serendipitysdream7634]

Thank you very much!

[@faviolafikir2181]

✔️

[@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071]

Thank you for this needful and very useful information. As a married lady of almost 22 years, I can tell you that the teachings you're doing will help those ladies who truly desire the right man for their life. Glad I did it the right way...your way. I didn't throw myself at him. He was attracted to me because I carried myself like a lady. He's STILL happy...he's still in love with me. You're awesome! Again, thank you!

[@WomanOfElegance]

I'm so glad♥ Thank you so much

[@elefoundation3703]

But all for the man who provides not for broke dusty men

[@sallymrombeds2888]

@@elefoundation3703 😃😃😃

[@Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook]

Sounds like my life

[@jamiepaulse9898]

Please never stop investing into us, young ladies. You're such an inspiration to me! I value your teachings and I am becoming so mindful of my manners, poise and presentation. God bless you! This is your calling! 🌷

[@Nancytheredhead]

9:25 You're laugh is so beautiful! In contrast with your more professional tone it stands out as simply invigorating! 😂🥂😍 You're definitely portraying your previous point to a tee💥

[@sabella69]

Thanks for this excellent video. This time we live in oversexualizes women. Many men don't respect and value this. It's good to talk about these matters. Bless you!

[@benoriezayzay3976]

Agreed!

[@Peep1988]

All your points on how to be attractive are accurate. If a woman does not sincerely smile at a man, it is actually a turn of for most men. A woman right of the bat wanting to seduce a man sends a man a message that she is not marrying kind.

[@SeaMee]

Thank you for schooling me on the difference! This makes so much sense for a lot of things going on in my dating life. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@ritaamolegbe5200]

I stumbled upon your channel yesterday and I have been hooked! You give valuable contents! And you are exactly what you preach, an elegant woman. Hope to be here for long.❤️

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you so much❤

[@dubbyx8490]

Excellent advice! As an aspiring high-value man I desire to be with the attractive woman you described in your video

[@leashines9937]

Thank you very much for this insightful video Vivienne. These tips can be used even in my mariage. I hope to hear your own leveling up journey one day. You are an inspiring woman.

[@MsViva710]

Yes do share your journey miss Vivian

[@geniealison7785]

I can’t help myself from laughing while watching this video. I’m in my 40’s, honestly I had never seduce a man. I was married and I had many relationships but never into seduction part. I just simply smile and just be me! I never intentionally dressed or do extra effort to seduce a man! That’s completely not in my vocabulary to seduce a man even if he’s attractive!

[@scooterlovya]

You THINK YOU didn't

[@madhusagdeo9406]

Right...even i dint try....

[@Salvation123..]

That's a good reminder ..

[@janetmash]

Yes you right

[@scintillatingddl]

You look like Serena Williams

[@AmalyaHunter]

This hair color and makeup colors look soooooo good on you! I can't stop admiring!

[@ShamimMunywanyi]

Thanks darling, you really helped me make up my marriage after realising my mistakes

[@odidijemima6235]

I love ur mastery of our bad conducts and how u come so proudly, confidently and with alot of love to teach and impart in us good manners and habits. #journey to elegancy💙🥂

[@l.christinejones8164]

Vivienne, you have such beautiful teeth & skin.💜

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you so much♥🌹

[@l.christinejones8164]

@@WomanOfElegance You're welcome.🌹

[@Judah-pu5lc]

Yup that's right respect yourself and you will be respected.

[@bfoodii3237]

I have learnt so much from you my elegant lady. God bless you loads💞

[@supermodeljaz6829]

"A slither"I love it. Thank you, Beautiful Vivienne!🌹

[@mabvutosilomba-cr8us]

Great and good teaching this wonderful,,, exactly

[@aesthetic_9239]

Advance congratulations for 200k Iam following you since 90k subscribers. Iam so happy that you are reaching to people.Lots of love to you mam 💗💗

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you so much❤❤❤

[@kathyabeauty]

I really am enjoying your video lessons. Such good advice! Thank you!

[@sandrascrib]

i am so glad i discovered your channel... Been catching up on old videos and am really learning a lot.

[@olivettenkafu7332]

Nice hair that matches with your skin tone

[@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071]

You always look very pretty in your videos!

[@yishertgrueso3145]

I love your content, it has helped me a lot to practice my English and also to be my best version... If you have any book that you recommend to those of us who are starting on this path, I thank you, greetings from Colombia.

[@ohsostylish60]

You are so right Vivienne! Thanks for another great video - I will also try out that perfume you suggested! ♥️

[@reelmermaid8844]

Vivienne I love your videos, such a broad array of topics that women of any age can use. I'm sharing these tips with my young nieces who have started to notice that they are not attracting the type of man they want to build a life with. Keep up the great work and cheers from Canada!

[@CoachAdeja]

This is so important, thank you!

[@haniamakram3399]

Great video! I love it 😍 it was worth the wait

[@bargainoutlet7784]

I really enjoy listening to her that projects beauty and class. I don't know how I got here but this will help a lot of women to get that quality man and be more classy.

[@sexylove3326]

Thank you for your amazing information love to listen to you I love to always learn new especially when it's to help others 🙏🏼❤️

[@mansurprecious249]

Dear Vivienne, thanks for the good work... Please what types of books would you recommend for the elegant woman?

[@lamandadavis9135]

SLITHER!!! YES! Diptique is my fav brand for fragrances

[@angelaferrante7234]

Thank you so much Vivienne. Your videos are so eloquently informative.

[@sheriffokuta4617]

Thank you so much ma all your tips are exactly what I want at the moment. I gave birth 8months ago to my first childt and sincerely all the pregnancy processes to birth played alot of germs in my mind and I'm not that ladylike I use to be, in the area of self-esteem, carriage n packaging. I really wanna jack back up! I wish they can be a video specifically for such people like me

[@muta_othernames]

♥️ Take heart. Congratulations

[@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071]

Chanel 5...that's my favorite! My husband loves it too

[@sulusu4812]

Coco by Chanel is beautiful too

[@yvannenora998]

l think you doing a beautiful job sister, thank you.

[@nyaradzochatikobo2569]

Now this is gold. Thank you Viv.

[@elohoroghorodi196]

Thank you for these very educating tips on elegance.

[@feminineone9610]

I just looked up the perfume… they should give you a fee.. bc I will purchase it👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🇯🇲💜🌺🙏🏽

[@pamelajohnson9810]

Hi I'm new to your channel I love it it's so true what you are teaching.I love you and Anna Bey.

[@user-eq5fd6hi4k]

Red is my favor colour❤❤

[@diomariscapellan5919]

Thanks❤ I am learning a lot from you 🙏🏼❣️

[@teenah2494]

I have been looking out for your next video. Thanks so much for these lovely tips 🙂

[@alirashada2006]

Sister keep up the good work i think your doing a beautiful job.

[@snowvale8815]

New follower of yours! You share a great concept😊 Is there or will be there a video of your beginnings? Since becoming elegant is not going to happen over night.

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you🥰. Sure. I will do a video on my elegance journey

[@strawberrylover999]

@@WomanOfElegance im so excited!

[@anapierce8204]

I like this wig on you very much.

[@akoskumako9725]

Wow thank you

[@Yieldedtojesus]

💜💜💜. Thank you Vivian

[@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071]

My other favorite I've found that works well for me is "Beautiful" by Estee Lauder

[@anele5696]

Thats a very lovely perfume.

[@sulusu4812]

Ooh yes! Grace by philosophy.

[@am-harris7458]

You look a lot like Serena Williams!🤩🤩🤩

[@deborahwalker695]

Thank you so very much for all this knowledge 🙏

[@godsmercy760]

Thank you

[@madhusagdeo9406]

Thanks dear...your vedio is very helpful for me.. i realky follws these valuable tips...

[@sarahadekola]

Love this channel ❤️

[@fisayomioluwasuyi655]

Thank you so much ma'am for the videos especially the point that says smell nice.

[@ramcess6075]

I’ve subscribed I love your videos

[@shesanne2]

first time here and i really learned a lot thanks

[@tambekongenowebot641]

I subscribe because of ur language manner u speak so well please how can I lean to speak like you

[@stellaschnell6652]

Lovely thanks for these tips. Powerful!

[@katiekrupa6608]

Very interesting 🥰 thank You for your precious time

[@She_is_P]

I enjoy your videos so much. Thank you!

[@jessicamazloomi3057]

I love your lessons .

[@bintyhasiatuturay2906]

Thanks very sister I love English so much

[@deborahwalker695]

Thank you so much! You are absolutely beautiful!

[@divadynastyllc377]

What do you think that having natural kinky hair ? Does is make a woman less elegant as apposed to having straight hair? I remember when I started pageantry I was told to relax my kinky hair to seem more like an elegant beauty queen.

[@elegantsoyabean]

Hello, sweetheart. Please don't do it. There is more beauty and elegance in rocking every part of you in its natural state -hair included- as long as it is neat and clean❤️

[@sulusu4812]

Oh my gosh, no way. You're elegant & gorgeous with kinky hair. Never think otherwise my dear. It's true. Whatever our hair is in it's natural state, but healthy & loved hair is the best.

[@Chahlie]

I feel your pain- I am Caucasian, with 'Viking' hair. Thick, curly and lots of it! Sometimes I think I will never be polished :)

[@christychristo7433]

Unfortunately i have a problem with perfume because of sinuses. So i use antiperspirant deodorants

[@BrigitteStanley33]

New subscriber. Just found your channel so I'm making my way through your videos. Lovely content. So important especially in the day and age we're living in. Unfortunately I nearly jumped out of my skin seeing MM in that red dress. IMHO she does not fit into my idea of classy or elegant. Just my opinion however. Looking fwd to watching all of your videos

[@delaliabena4423]

Thanks for sharing...

[@Starrr-ro8hg]

Your the best ❤

[@ctrldeletealt4648]

I have to start smiling more 😊

[@memonagull408]

Lovely lady ❤️

[@pamelajohnson9810]

You and Anna Bey are good inspiring teachers and you both are from the UK and so knowledgeable.I love you both.👌

[@Dee.Ola_]

Great video

[@dmwarui]

You turn heads alright....❤

[@elvifontiani4133]

Thank you so much 🙏🏻🤗

[@chinyereotaka7517]

Beautiful

[@alexandrax4331]

Thank you so much for sharing this with me 💞

[@wendymurangi]

From Namibia wendy murangi

[@naaatswei7179]

Thank you, I love this video and l have learned something new from it

[@sofiaondemand]

Learning how to be elegant

[@TechKeenah]

Thank you so much for this maam

[@HephzibahFrances]

Thank you so much

[@bukonla]

Thank you for the advice. Do you have a video on where to met high class men? I don't meet any in my industry unfortunately, but I would love to meet a man who is a professional i.e. working on the sciences for example.

[@terraiznajem105]

❤thank you

[@mcfashion9385]

Dressing Elegantly doesn't mean dressing like a nun🙌🙌🙌

[@dabrenajohnson5142]

Awww I love your voice

[@easterndakondja4328]

Awesome

[@DailyHoroscopes111]

Thank you for this wonderful Video. Can you let me know where you purchased the Parfum? I tried looking it up, but it was in a different bottle. I wonder if the package was recently changed.

[@WomanOfElegance]

Hi darling thanks very much. Mine was purchased from Harrods. Link: www.harrods.com/en-gb/shopping/alexandria-iii-pure-perfume-50ml-16525994?gclsrc=aw.ds&gclid=Cj0KCQiAw9qOBhC-ARIsAG-rdn77_69lPmKQ5IN8GrgQGgRnHdngYPME7sw5J-Ob3Ge9gHJGo4kq2YgaAp4FEALw_wcB

[@lolashewa]

But still not the same bottle as yours.

[@dmwarui]

What am I going to do with this adorable girl...way adorable...go 👧 😊😊

[@scintillatingddl]

I love you so much omg youre a saviour

[@victoriacutshall7170]

How do we keep our figure looking great..without any added surgeries making us looking over balanced with our must larger chest ...?

[@nklynworld1612]

Good message, Pls put the name of the perfume here, I couldn't get the name correctly as you pronounced. Thanks

[@WomanOfElegance]

Hi dear. It's Xerjoff Alexandria III

[@ugoezechinwe6234]

@ Woman of Elegance, thank you

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🥰 lovely video.

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love you😍

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Thank you lovely l really love that.

[@Linda-ot3pj]

We don’t have to prove anything to men about our sexuality until it’s a honeymoon night. If he can’t wait he is not worth it

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@10:10 Gorgeous🌹

[@prophetchrist1994]

❤

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U just got a new subscriber.. love the contents. Do u ve a Facebook page? Would love to share ur posts👍

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🤗😊👍