Women Alone - The R Spot Episode 22

[@Wilson-vx6ty]

I love the last part where she says "he's looking for you just as hard as you're looking for him". That made me smile. Ok future husband, I'm getting ready for you. I'm not there yet so wait on me. I promise you I'll be worth the wait.

[@gichukimuchemi7164]

mmmmmh

[@gichukimuchemi7164]

yesssss, the last part made me smile too,))

[@god563616]

TheAlpha Femme-fatale WAS JUST ABOUT TO SAY THE SAME THING. THE LAST PART GAVE ME HOPE

[@ririnewt2210]

F

[@shashunrwagner9544]

I am waiting on my future husband

[@appleflower4532]

thank god !!! this women exists on this planet!! shes the great gift. wise, beautiful, charismatic lovely... shes like warming loving mother to me that I had not in my life when i needed at most..

[@TL-kt2ye]

I HAVE NOOOOOOOOOOO WORDS FOR THIS VIDEO.... SLOW CLAPS.... STANDING OVATION.

[@norcalgypsy]

I have been that woman, afraid to be alone. What did I do? I stayed in 2 LONG painful relationships. I don't understand why we stay in hell but we do when we never knew heaven; these relationships hurt more than being alone! In my case, I never knew my worth. I was seeking the love, acceptance and validation I didn't have from my father. So I found men that were equally selfish, self-focused and non-committing. That way, I was "left" daily, while with them. Now I am finally alone and learning to love myself. All I would give to a man I will now give ME.

[@happylindsay4475]

Melo Earth- been there too many times...I am now commited to being self partnered, get clear and focused on what I deserve and practice that for and to my Self. Hope you are finding blessings and owning your worth on your journey. Peace, love, and light.

[@tammylee3681]

You are such an amazing and gifted woman. I am so happy God allowed me to come across your videos in the nic-of-time. My husband left me (Oct 2016) while I was pregnant with our first child. I am still healing from the hurt. Your videos are helping me in ways you wouldn't imagine. Thank you and God bless!

[@beelarehman5992]

Tammy Mitchell he's a dummy x

[@lilibirregah3002]

You are beautiful and you will find anotherone when the time is right.

[@brittanynicole4370]

Tammy Mitchell I hope you are doing better Tammy!! A detour could just be re-routing you to where you'll be celebrated and not tolerated. The best is yet to come!

[@tiffanycobo]

Tammy Mitchell stay strong sister!

[@kazao4403]

As a woman alone I found that inspiring and continue to do the work.... bless you Ivanya xx

[@herwellness1]

COME ON HERE MS. IYANLA! He's not gay, he's not in jail & he's not married! THE VERY BEST STATEMENT I'VE HEARD ALL DAY!

[@amandastephanie3584]

My husband, mmmh...he is 6 feet tall, dark haired, with green eyes. An engineer, spiritually enlightened, and of good character. I know this because we will meet in the summer of 2020. And the universe says...AMEN!

[@kennzcast]

Amanda stephanie have you met him yet?

[@naturallydope6971]

What a message! I am 38yrs never been married. I am getting to the point of being OK by myself.

[@capricorns1st]

T Over The most peaceful feeling ❤️

[@brandypeay5350]

T Over yes me too didn’t think that anyone would say this. It’s ok to be alone doesn’t mean that your lonely.

[@brandypeay5350]

capricorns1st yes very peaceful esp when you are ok with being alone 100%

[@karydiaz74]

Awwww this just made me giggle! So much truth 💗 "the universe will not supply unless a request has been made" wow just wow 😍

[@karenhiggins5237]

what manner of woman is this, I could listen to Iyamla all day. Thank you for your words of wisdom. God Bless you.

[@44Stephieb]

Whew so many reasons I was glad when you came with suggestion at the end. I am doing the work and know my complement with appear at the divinely right time!

[@rhsb553]

I'm alone because I finally learned that I'm better off alone than with someone who doesn't value me. Sadly, so many women feel that "anybody" is better than "nobody". I was in that group for a long time, but I realized I'd had enough. I wouldn't put up with someone treating my best friend like crap, so why would I put up with someone treating me that way.

[@lizettemima]

Toni Spaulding YES!!!!

[@ghettoghost305]

Agreed

[@nicoletteorayn2903]

I dont get tired of listening to u Iyanla, u blew the wind outta my sails everytime. I could do this all day loooong, drawing from ur wisdom. Thank you 🙆❤

[@zikianoel9580]

Nicolette Orayn

[@MelaninMonarchy]

What an excellent R Spot. Need to listen to this a couple few times.

[@lashandraarmour7240]

This made me cry, especially when she said the love you seek is seeking you touched my heart, I have been single for some time now, and I needed to hear this at this moment of my life, I am doing my self work and will continue. Thank you beloved for all you do. Love you Iyanla

[@sosioh]

Your words sowed a good seed and touched a very broken part of me that needed healing and mending. Thank you for using your wonderful gifts to help woman like myself.

[@KB0808]

Wow. As always Ms. Iyanla brings so much wisdom, light, and truth and in a way that is clear, heartfelt, and just simply touchable. I can feel her words inside me breaking stuff up lol in a good way. After being married for 20 years and experiencing betrayal and a horrible divorce, the scariest part to rebuilding my new life has been men. Honestly, they simply scare me. I'm not afraid of men, I feel strong and confident as a single woman again, but I definitely have trust issues and as much as I "know" good men exist, I feel unable to connect with the right man for me. I will apply the tools you shared Ms. Iyanla...working on being healed and whole because I do desire a loving partner who desires me too. Thank you

[@lionesslamb7049]

"Learn from the experience over what u did not what he did" 🙇🏽‍♀️.

[@starlawinter]

I don't do any of those things and I'm still alone. I hardly meet anyone and when I do they don't make the cut

[@texashottie23]

Mother.... god continue 2 bless her

[@cocoadiva33]

I wholeheartedly received this message. I can relate to alot of this and because of that I have put up a shell for years that has now pretty much become a part of who I am and now I find it difficult to put let this shell go because it has become a security blanket of sorts. Sometimes I wonder if its even worth it because the men I meet are so not worth the effort. But I have realized that I have some serious soul searching to do within myself If I truly want to consider being vulnerable(that word alone makes me cringe) to looking for love.

[@sasjaparson8090]

So true, it is a comforting shield

[@variennecloete3962]

Wow great vid. There is someone out there for me !!! I gave up on love such a long time ago but this has certainly sparked me to believe I deserve a good man.thank you

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

God bless you woman of wisdom.

[@sulalubin]

I thank you for this message. I receive it. I welcome the healing and the necessary work I must do.

[@Solemei2010]

Thank you Iyanla! I will make application of this valuable information in my life. I choose to do "the work" in my current situation as well as throughout my life on a daily basis.

[@loveystar78cloud46]

Nothing but pure truth. More women need to hear good solid advice like this. Thank you for you wisdom, Iyanla.

[@arydelossantos6762]

thank you sooo much miss Iyanla I'm going to have this on replay until I learn my lesson and practice loving myself enjoy myself and realize what it is that I want in a relationship

[@misheleclipper5545]

Working this out. My biggest problem is making room for him. I am used to being alone. I am asking the Universe for mine 😉. Giving myself the best I've got!

[@fah232]

I really enjoy being alone, I have a issue with sharing my space with someone ALL the time.

[@evelynj.amponsah8417]

Amen i receive it. Thxs for the uplifting message. Your a Gem.

[@Esi153]

First of all Iyanla is looking radiant and gorgeous. Secondly, I 100% agree that it's about the beliefs we hold. It's taken a while but I know that I'm ready.

[@ottrovgeisha2150]

Bravo Miss Iyanla! You have the gift of logic in psychology, which WAY much more than SO many "experts" online claim to have. Deep compliments from a humble heart!

[@StartheCreoleQueen]

Many valuable points made I appreciate this video. 5'6 and 180, had me cracking up I love your personality

[@Angelsk007]

wow! you are looking so good!!! where did you find the fountain of youth pill? Gorgeous!

[@naelondonuksmith3759]

Black don't crack honey!

[@Angelsk007]

lol!!!

[@priorityemails319]

The "fountain of youth" is MELANIN.

[@KWells-gq1ol]

This is SOOOO good 😊 I'm sharing this with all of my girlfriends 💅🏾

[@mariaaastarr3032]

this was TRULY a beautiful segment. everything she said is the truth...I enjoyed every word she spoke. thank you. Lyanla.👍💝

[@shermoniciaburton1731]

Amazing!! Amazing!! God knows what to send at the right time!!

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

Shermonicia Burton I agree with you 100percent.

[@raincruz5489]

wow thank you so much Ms Iyanla, I love the way you put things into perspective with an eloquent and profound turn of a phrase.. and always with compassion. I will be looking at what stories I tell myself. with much gratitude and love💜

[@cuteintellect3691]

im learning self reflection is a powerful action.

[@khendraKriley]

Thank you for that Ms. Iyanla. I have been a long time fan of you and love the work you do. To no surprise this was much needed and so profound please continue to enrich us with your wisdom.

[@deidremunn6367]

Ms. Iyanla is blessing so many of all walks of life. I thank God for her- I look forward to hearing from her. Thank you for the much-needed help. I'm doing the work! Not seeking perfection but working to be better.

[@g.bullard3254]

I love this woman! Iyanla never ceases to give me hope - in myself - in the Universe - and in the process of the growth that sets before me. I will do my work. Thank you so very much Iyanla, God bless you.

[@nikshante3598]

The universe will not produce a supply until the demand is made!! So nice I had to run it back twice. I legit hollered!!!❤️❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽 Thank you Mother Iyanla your irreplaceable!

[@tsholofelomeje7022]

Before listening to this I was a mess.. Thank you so much this video brought me to my senses....

[@avalonmist254]

I've been dating for 10 years. I know there is a partner for me I haven't met him yet. I'm 60 and love men. Personally I prefer honest, friendly, people that want a relationship vs cheaters , liars, and beaters of any kind. I feel these are healthy characteristics.

[@jeanenefrancis2111]

you are soooo right!! you were dancing on my toes on this issue. I am struggling to be open to a relationship and not lose myself.EVERYTHING you stated is something I am working on.This is a struggle. :(

[@bernitapennick4685]

I've been alone for 57 years and still alone don't know why just existing alone

[@sharijimmy3675]

Dear Iyanla I hope you read it: You are blessing for me! Thank you! I learn a lot from you! I LOVE YOUUUU

[@andreawindrim8235]

Thank you for all your wisdom. You look so beautiful and with such vitality. Blessings.

[@ladileelee1]

Yess Auntie Iylana! You fix my life one video at a time! Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and empowerment with us! I hope to meet you some day! God Bless.

[@ntokozojiyane3415]

Wow. This is so soothing, so healing. I really needed to hear that. It's truth told in love. God bless you Mam. Your God sent.

[@Bsweet7]

Thank you sistah! I am a proud subby (subscriber) lol and I love the part when you said "...he will not break your heart!" I can deal with relationship ups and downs but the breaking my heart is a deal breaker. Pray for me.

[@veex48]

I love you, Iyanla. Thank you so much for the work you do.

[@dovetales3]

YES SHE LOVES US JUST THIS MUCH!!! LOVE YOU RIGHT BACK MS IYANLA!

[@boundsgarneff5157]

i was waiting for ur videos 🙌🙌🙌 thank u

[@shupinyaneng100]

thank you miss iyanla for the r spot.... they help me get by... dont stop...

[@latoyadobson4560]

She is so dope n raw!

[@kenyajohnson542]

Sadden me because I never wanted to be alone it just fell in my lap. I always wanted someone to love me too. I am human and still have interest in men.

[@karziflora]

Love you Iyanla, thanks for these valuable lessons, God Bless!

[@SeductiveLady11]

1st want to say Thank you! I watch you on Tv and here .I felt and feel so lonely for the last 15 years I focus on my children and now I'm in an empty nest as they call it and no one to continue my life with .Its so many people don't know I exist in this world really. I do have a little facal problem so I do stay in a lot because of me trying a relationship 7 years ago for 1 year. He got abusive 1 time, left and told him don't he ever contact me again But it left me needing cosmetic surgery but I'm really tired of being alone and want a true mate

[@chukabucka]

The universe would not supply until the demand has been made. Thank you.

[@Johnitacc]

This is so on point for me.

[@tonyaSINGSjones]

Thank you Iyanla! I really needed to hear this!

[@lioncococ8366]

I am so doing my homework!! thank you for following ur passion Ms. Iyanla. I had benefit and learned so much as I go true my journey. I am thankful and grateful to The Creator for you in my life. May Yah keep you n bless u!

[@701kimmie]

You look beautiful!! You are positively glowing!!! Please bottle and sell!! God Bless You!!

[@MsFitKitty]

This snatched my edges straight but very reassuring that I've grown in my thought pattern towards dating. I agree with her 100%

[@dovetales3]

MsFitKitty not the edges!! LOL I put JAM on mine LOL

[@IyanlaVanzant]

OMG! I love that your "edges" are involved. That means we are getting through! Yes!

[@courtney02161980]

😂😂😂 when she said edges straight

[@happylindsay4475]

@@IyanlaVanzant You are so very blessed,powerful, intelligent, beautiful and appreciated. Keep growing and speaking your truth. You are helping so many of us on our journey... Thank you, thank you and thank you Sister Mother Vanzant.

[@shannonfoote6223]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lisaharris1469]

What an AWESOME message which spoke dearly to my heart. Thank you so much for sharing this message. I will truly take heed and do my homework to ensure I find the love I desire.

[@Wtf_jus_happened]

sound like me✋! most women like me just get tired of the same mess.

[@juicesandberries1]

I love this video! Do the work. My aunt told me the same thing years ago. I didn't really understand what that meant until now. I'm getting my journal today. I have some healing to do. Thank you Iyanla!!

[@dorcasc.1479]

After having been alone for over 10 years, I've almost become numb to the idea of having a Sacred Love Partnership; until very recently, I never felt the need for company; having been fiercely independent all of my life, I kind of rejected the idea of needing or wanting companionship, until I saw, reflected in someone, in a public space, all of the qualities within a man, that I kept hidden in the back of my mind, always believing that ideal was unattainable or that I was unworthy of it. Now, I see reflected in this beautiful, public individual & sacred soul, all of the possibilities of this "dream companion", becoming a reality within my own life, after I roll up my sleeves, cultivate the earth beneath my own feet and allow the universe to complete the final details of this individual that I am calling into my life, as of today... I see every detail of him, from the color of his eyes, to his height, haircolor & MOST importantly, the content of his character & the thought of calling that spirit into my space, is powerful and brings me great joy...Thank you my Soul Teacher, Iyanla. I have had a vision board that I will now put to use as I call my Sacred Partnership into being, while I chisel , form and dust off the pieces of myself I want to call forth & into being, so that I can reflect the qualities of this individual, within me, and see them reflected within him, as well....I say now, AMEN. It is done...☄☄🌟☄💖

[@singerspeak1]

Wow....I've never heard anyone explain this better than she. What an eye-opening blessing this video has been! She just put into words everything I've felt deep down within at some point. I've been working on myself and I will be ready for my king when he comes. Thank you Iyanla Vanzant.

[@petercord4300]

thank you miss iyanla for always inspiring and allowing us inside a beautiful spiritual expierience.

[@Momo_20248]

Love this statement:The love you seek will find you!

[@lebogoslebogo1663]

I love this beautiful amazing woman ...😊🇿🇦

[@kaseysharp7197]

Amen Mother Iyanla. I so needed this

[@NETTY283]

Wow. ....now I know where I've been going wrong. Rewind ...need to write some of this down. Feeling hopeful now. Thank you Ms lyanla Vanzant. God bless you. x

[@rusmiradious1258]

all your video is so inspiring. its give me light to a dark tunnel of a relationship with my men. love you so much! and thank you for the bottom of my heart

[@SupermarketQueen]

Wow! That was amazing, thank you Iyanla ❤️

[@lordbaconabdi8624]

Love your hair style . Looking cool

[@bdyer33]

I needed to hear this message today! Thank you Ms. Iyanla for your wonderful ministry.

[@juanitajean70]

I just found your channel and subscribed, I am looking forward to more and getting caught up on the ones here.

[@mazamir9375]

Hello from London Iyanla!

[@yolandakelly8285]

A very timely word indeed. Thank you IYANLA .

[@georgiaj5301]

WOW! Iyanla what a message.

[@bridgetrobinson76]

Wow. I'm beginning to work on myself. I need to take a long look in the mirror to discover who I really am. God bless you Miss Vanzant xx

[@vmcptvmcpt9669]

I am officially scared of engaging with another man, need to change my thinking however I think I gave up.

[@teeamar]

thnk you sista Iyanls love ur words of wisdom everything u said was right in time #thetruth I will listen to this vedio again later & jot down some notes theres a powerful message in the info u share I identify with alot of wht was said but I have to do my work my husband is out there somewhere & I have to get my right, let go of pass hurt from pass relationship so I can attract him. not ment to b alone

[@Anitsirc25]

Wow...amazing video, to be listened to over and over again. Thank you Iyanla

[@jthomas9023]

Thank you..i needed this...especially that last part

[@ritaking11]

Thank you for those words of advice they will speak to me may God continue to bless you to continue doing what you doing

[@TheSimplesanctuary]

WHAT AN AMAZING VIDEO. my husband is leaving me after 24 years. I don't even want to think about allowing another man into my life. I'm excited to find out the suppressed "me" and find my life's purpose. Yes there will be lonely nights but i will fill those voids other ways. Been hurt too much x

[@normabarros3124]

Amen and yes ma'am.....you called my fear out thank you

[@Niemanntv]

Love it. What do you do when you think you've found that great relationship only to find out he was lying? It's very confusing for my emotions and judgement.

[@Thatzmysh1t]

Hopefully she'll answer but I just want to say don't be too hard on yourself. It happens to the best us. Some men are so hurt that they only know how to hurt others. I wish you all the best..

[@Niemanntv]

Carolyn Jones thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate it. Support in numbers. 😊

[@mangomania7321]

That last part made me my tears fall uncontrollably!

[@ceiamyatt157]

Yes Thank you

[@jenowens9990]

Iyanla you are so wise and gifted! Thanks for sharing! 💜 👏🏽👏🏽

[@TheMsbubblez21]

I was married to a military man for 21 1/2 years. Have three children, one granddaughter. Divorced in 2006 and still single. I wondered if it was something I did to still be single, haven't been on a date since 2010 and the guys were cheap, not honest and not wanting a relationship. God only knows who He has for me, He is preparing him for me and maybe waiting on me to let go.

[@tanachke]

Yes!! Please keep making these videos. They are GOLD! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

[@princessAllDay247]

Thank you Miss Iyanla! 🙏❤

[@shashunrwagner9544]

Thank you for your advice. I needed that.

[@shellyortiz1977]

Thank you do much as i listen to you im rethinking my life the women im my failure in dating....just overall everything. ..life changing wish i would have know this before.

[@chilloften]

Really good topic, thanks for sharing your insight.