Women Don't Want To Hear That THIS Is What Men Want?

[@ajtaylor8750]

"There's a classy way to be sexy" couldn't be more on the money. I love how that gets said right as Courtney's picture pops up 😂 couldn't be better timing.

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂😂 I was so surprised lol

[@jamesg3808]

Correct. Being "sexy" and being "sexual" are not the same thing.

[@scottcoley1906]

That's @JWALLER @CourtneyRyan . He has several women he takes care of because he is non- monogamous. But makes enough money that he can ask them to be monogamous to him as he takes care of their every need. A real man, who just happens to love more than one at a time and can be good and take care of them too which he says is essential if you're going to ask women to share you bur not the other way around.

[@Godfailedyoustophumpinghisleg]

​@CourtneyRyan You were the only person who was shocked courtney, you are adored by peoppe who know you and those who don't.

[@Godfailedyoustophumpinghisleg]

​@@scottcoley1906Ehtical non monogamy? Is this what we want as society, rich guys with 5 wives, poor guys who can't afford 5 guys.

[@patricksteele6247]

They don't want to hear it because it's truthful and it's forces accountability!

[@jsparkz_4403]

Facts

[@Bombadil-ez9ns]

I think a lot of the extremes get more attention than they deserve. (Which is probably what they're going for.) These people do exist, and always have. There may be more of them now, in a time of narcisism and decadence. Or maybe they're just hogging the spotlight.

[@patricksteele6247]

​@@Bombadil-ez9nsI can certainly see and agree with your point

[@gaborkiss3086]

So true Buddy

[@Joshua-eo5hr]

Oh noe not the accountability 😅

[@LatimusChadimus]

Speaking of Hypocrites there was a street interview done where this girl was asked if her boyfriend liking pictures of girls in bikinis was considered cheating and she said yes but then the guy asks her if she posts pictures of herself in a bikini and she became speechless and then proceeded to deflect blame saying that that's not the same thing yet women like that say all men are trash even though they let men in and out of them all day everyday but I can't call them a dumpster which is logically sensible in this context

[@GabrielXDrums]

It’s just norms, you just “can’t” call them anything.

[@danielmocsny5066]

I wouldn't say her boyfriend liking pictures of girls in bikinis is cheating - rather her boyfriend is signaling his desire to cheat, which doesn't mean he would actually cheat if given the chance. You might like your neighbor's motorcycle but that doesn't mean you will steal it. Liking and acquiring are two different things, especially with girls in bikinis because they have veto power. But whether he clicks to "like" the photos or not his reaction to the photos is the same. If a girl wants a guy who doesn't get shall we say turned on by seeing other attractive woman, I'm not sure where she'll find such a guy. That's not how evolution shaped the human male. That would be like wanting a man who doesn't begin salivating when he smells the neighbor's barbecue. Just because my body reacts automatically to the smell of good cooking doesn't mean I'm jumping the fence and stealing the food. Humans can be socialized to keep their hands off what isn't theirs.

[@iamsyourdadi]

@@danielmocsny5066 Of course we know its not cheating but the woman being referred to thought it was cheating but was exposed as a hypocrite

[@danwarner7816]

It's truee if instagram really bugs women like courtney. Then that's them. It's like us men telling them stop following male celebrities. But going out of way and meeting instagram girls is diff story 😂

[@danwarner7816]

​@iamsyourdadi cheating is acting upon it in my op. Looking at diff women is okay.

[@lawrence31415]

The things I look for in a good woman: maturity, humor, and class.

[@lawrence31415]

There are other things I look for in a good woman, but these are three big ones for me. We all want love, but it should not be at the expense of compromising your own values. Gentlemen, what do you look for in a good woman? Ladies, what do you look for in a good man?

[@valentingartner3793]

@@lawrence31415she has to be physically attractive. Not necessarily hot or sexy, but lovely or cute. As important as personality may be, it can’t make up for shortcomings when it comes to physical appearance; at least in my opinion. Being intimate with someone you’re not physically attracted to must be torture.

[@JuanMoreno-wo5yb]

@@lawrence31415 As a male I look first for personality, smiles, eyes. Character covers most everything I look for. Honesty would be great since I feel I have that along with integrity but damn, I may be asking for way too much huh? ❤

[@JohnSkyLey]

Fit, feminine, friendly, and low body count is the key to a good women that is marriage material

[@superbob24]

@@lawrence31415 a friendly presence, supportive and mature.

[@Mikedegot]

I fell in love with someone when I was a teen, but not because she was pretty or flashing skin. Her looks were just a bonus. It was her sense of humor and personality that got me. After interacting with her on a regular basis, my brain was just like, "I want to be in the same room with her as much as possible." It wasn't a sexual thing, it was a I want to be around her thing. People need to try finding someone they actually like, not just someone they are sexually attracted to. Desire fades, life turns into routine, you better like the person you are spending decades with.

[@coolbreeze5683]

Agreed. Some people have issues with going beyond looks and then wonder why everything in their lives are shallow and unfulfilling.

[@thepragmatist]

Completely agree.

[@GabrielXDrums]

Yeah but at least you’re not dealing with a woman that is rude, calls you out on things she doesn’t like and on top of that is ungrateful towards what you do for her… I can go on and on.

[@reanschwarzer2187]

Sure but I mean after school most of it your cold approaching you have to be attracted to them to even initiate. The whole get to know and friends for a bit is a great way to make sure you never dare generally

[@thegritsch]

Yep, feel exactly the same way. And yet, most people seem to completely overlook that fact. Like I can look at my parents, they can't be in the same room for more than an hour without things going sour. Can't imagine myself having a relationship like that.

[@chrialivest]

Advice about women from a female is priceless. I am so thankful that the content is free and thankful that KZbin compensates you for the content you provide.

[@CourtneyRyan]

You are always so kind. Thank you 🥹

[@sumairshirazi]

bruh women don't like other women. women shame women

[@sonofthesOUth77]

I trust a fisherman more than a fish when I’m trying to learn how to catch fish.

[@rogersnick17]

"You can't cherry-pick what works in your favor, and ignore what doesn't." Please tell this wisdom to all of American society. People will grow old, with no meaningful connections, and realize how repulsive their mental state was. God I love this channel.

[@danielmocsny5066]

And a large fraction of people with "meaningful connections" will find that their "meaningful connection" uses divorce to take half their money. But hey, knock yourself out if that seems like a good deal to you. I would bet you're probably wrong about what will happen to people who disagree with you as they grow old. AI is improving thousands of times faster than people can improve, and will very likely provide us with the most "meaningful connections" we can imagine. Your brain can't tell the difference between a "meaningful connection" and a very good fake. "Meaningful connection" is just something your brain manufactures in response to the right kind of signal. When computers can say all the right things in all the right ways like the most sociable human companions, they'll generate all the same responses. AI systems have the potential to do far better than any human, since AI systems can be orders of magnitude more adaptive to the user. But don't take my word for it, just wait 20 years and see what your future computer is doing.

[@multikillerbot3209]

You think this is an issue for just American societies? Lol. This is happening in most if not all societies around the world. America's problems may be a bit worse, but it would have been more appropriate to say " wisdom to all societies" in the world.

[@sdm6054]

One problem, they don't realise they have a repulsive mental state, they just go to their death beds blaming everyone else because they were "perfect"...

[@lccp690]

As your relationship grows, so should you. You and your partner/spouse should mature together. You should accept people where they are at when you first get together only if the discussion has been had that you both have plans that align for the future. The potential for growth helps spur the relationship forward because you share a vision for your future together. Both men and women should want to improve themselves to serve their relationship to the highest possible level. Don’t simply accept someone for who they are, meet them where they’re at and agree to build a life together that fosters growth of both individuals. Your bond will become stronger and your life more fulfilling.

[@barongerhardt]

As a young couple, this is the single most important quality in a partner.

[@henrysilva72]

Courtney is the standard and continues to show her class. Class will win everytime. Men need to be held accountable and stop following\liking these types of Instagram photos.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you so much!

[@kc270352]

i dont understand why they complain about these women so much, but yet still glorify them 🙄

[@henrysilva72]

@CourtneyRyan You're welcome Courtney.

[@marcoi7035]

@@CourtneyRyanthat guy KZbin channel Jwaller.

[@andhisband]

@@kc270352 I don't know if "glorify" is the right word, but men will see those pictures and encourage them because they incite lust. But good men won't want to wife up a woman whose every photo is designed to arouse men indiscriminately.

[@perryshields8469]

Great message Courtney, as usual. I don't understand the confusion between "being controlling" and "setting boundaries" - they are two entirely different things. Being controlling is trying to reshape someone into what I want and expect them to be. Setting boundaries simply means understanding the qualities I know I would find attractive in a person and that would make her compatible with me. Everyone sets boundaries - some people's are good and reasonable, others' are superficial and ridiculous. Stating one's expectations isn't being "controlling" but expecting someone to be something they aren't definitely is. What's being controlling is labelling someone as "being controlling" simply because I don't agree with their boundaries. Put simply, setting boundaries establishes the standards for who I choose to let into my life. Being controlling is letting someone in and then demanding that they conform to my standards.

[@gavinsadventuresinterests.]

Agreed

[@danwarner7816]

In way telling men to stop liking instagram pictures is controlling in my op. Courtney certainly wouldn't like if her husband tell her stop following her fave male celebrities or male friends Instagram is just social network if diff if men going out there seeking them out It's only thing can't agree with her on

[@LisaFenton-h7f]

Perfectly stated.

[@jkbrown5496]

“There is more to sex appeal than measurements. I don’t need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can convey just as much sex appeal, picking apples off a tree, sitting in a chair or standing in the rain.” ― Audrey Hepburn

[@coolbreeze5683]

She was pure class!

[@donaldmackerer9032]

The only thing she had going for was her face. She got way more hyped than she deserved

[@coolbreeze5683]

@@donaldmackerer9032 you must not like classy women then

[@LisaFenton-h7f]

Lovely quote--from a timeless, classy woman.

[@thejohnbeck]

​@@donaldmackerer9032she held underground ballet recitals to raise money for the Dutch Resistance during WW2, also ran messages for them, having guns drawn on her. Worked with UNICEF in her later years.

[@ryans6699]

Love your authentic content & happy to see you are over 600k. Thank you!

[@CourtneyRyan]

You’re so kind, thank you!

[@Rikyus]

Courtney is so classy answering questions and the way she wears as well... cheers from Brazil 🇧🇷

[@ethanmiller5487]

I've been personally been dealing with women who want to "win" the relationship instead of grow it. It seems to me that fear has gripped society as of late. Fear of being hurt, loss, and/or personal discomfort. This fear then makes us go to these stupid extremes. Not every women wants to take all the money you dont have and not every man is going to make you his robot. Those things have happened yes, but its not the norm. The extremes are RARE! Relax! If you slow down relationships and actually get to know each other the extremes can be avoided. You have personal agencie.

[@T_elegram_RealCourtneyRyan]

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[@AwesomeRando]

A woman who is wife material to me is woman who is easy going and doesn’t have many hang ups when it comes to dating. Being controlling and obsessed with following norms is a turn off for me.

[@mikesgamelab6369]

Agreed. I have a weakness for fancy women, but I don’t like women who are too rigid/conservative about it. To me, it’s stifling when a woman I’m with refuses to “show off” a little. Personally, a woman who can do a sundress or ballroom dress one day and go completely punk rock the next has my heart ❤

[@donaldmackerer9032]

Yes it depends on the circumstances and the situation. There are times I don't mind a woman showing a little skin but I also like a woman who dresses very classy at times. If it's something formal as she should be classy if we're together on the beach I don't mind if she does show a little skin if it's in South Florida where it is hot as hell.

[@JasonMoir]

It's not a surprise that the words classy and beautiful are immediately followed by a picture of Courtney.

[@CourtneyRyan]

🥹 thank you so much

[@EazyDuZiTT]

Very well said Courtney. You are perfect wife material. Unfortunately, you’re already married and he’s a lucky man.. but I wish there was more classy women like you out there in this world, and a lot of us wouldn’t be single or end up with women who take advantage of what we have in our lives as far as money and material things. take advantage of us and I’m not saying men don’t take advantage of women, but I’ve been into relationships in 42 years and I have yet to find someone to date

[@nap871]

Men this guy is a classic example of a Beta orbiter. Come on this is not fb where the simps profess their admiration for chicks posting selfies. I guess chick's have online orbiters now.

[@douglasdietz7503]

Poor guy. Get a dog. They're loyal to the bone and never give you guff.

[@donaldmackerer9032]

Thank you for talkin about the difference between controlling and setting boundaries. Thank you for mentioning the importance for setting boundaries. I believe that's where so many people get messed up is because they either don't set boundaries or they don't know how to set boundaries. Some may be so timid that they are afraid to set boundaries but you have to set boundaries for your own mental health and to preserve your personality. Plus it's a major factor to gain self-respect and respect from others.

[@LisaFenton-h7f]

Well said! I'm a woman who still struggles with setting boundaries. I copied your comment into my journal as a good reminder of how to do it. Thanks!

[@bittersweetindustryexecutive]

I commented on Courtney's video 'Why do attractive women date losers?' by saying, I think by making this video Courtney just graduated KZbin school. (Topic, different perspectives, depth, nuances, showing compassion, pertaining to men AND women, her presentation was ace). I think by making this video Courtney has started her own school. This video just screams MATURITY through and through. I like it a lot! Cheers!✌

[@Shageta456]

The guy in the video is named Justin Waller, and yes, he was the guy on the Whatever Podcast that said he didn't want to be loyal to one woman. Now, to each their own I'm not going to bash him for that, but I honestly don't think that's the right move, at least for me. I also don't necessarily agree with everything he says, so I take his advice with a grain of salt but I do think he hit the nail on the head by saying there's a classy way to be sexy and that's what I want to attract.

[@unappealingundesirable2826]

I was born in Seattle in 1973, where I grew up. Japanese-American. Male. Yes, in the late 80s, I used to go to the Japanese bookstores, and buy Japanese magazines, because I loved the models. But, there were women like Shinobu Nakayama, Chisato Moritaka, and Hikaru Nishida, who never dressed scantilly, and my Japanese-American male friend said that "he liked that about them, because it left some MYSTERY to them." When it comes to young attractive women, picture one who has natural C cups. Imagine her with a tight T-shirt, a tight sweater, or a tight turtleneck, and it nicely accents her natural C cups, while she's still fully covered up: That's sexy!

[@nickzaffino471]

I only found your channel a couple of weeks ago, and with total honesty, I must say the content you create is extremely valuable! I can tell you put a lot of time and energy in to these videos, many of which have completely changed my perspective on several different topics in regards to dating and relationships. Thank you so much for doing what you do, and please keep doing it! Wish I found your channel sooner.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you, Nick! You are so kind and I’m glad you’re here 😊

[@tommygunn6901]

Holy smokes! That dude was on that Whatever podcast by the way. To all who watch this, want an elegant girl thats wifey material, this channel is for you. Ive been subbed to you for 2 years and this was way better than content I used to watch. Keep rockin Courtney!

[@CourtneyRyan]

You’re the best, Tommy!!

[@tommygunn6901]

​@@CourtneyRyanI'm honored to be here! Thank you for all you do!

[@davelaz5582]

I got married in 1987 and had a 26 year marriage until my wife died in 2014. I was mildly contemplating dating but I have watched some videos of dating in 2024 and I will happily never date again. I am 66 and my dating pool is small but OMG, all that I have heard an seen about dating rules today makes me so content and at peace when I wake up alone, go to sleep alone and am otherwise home alone. The silence is like heavenly music. Also as a faithful Roman Catholic, I would want a faithful Roman Catholic woman and finding one is an exercise in futility.

[@th3epcplayer958]

That guy said that he could have multiple families, and still be a good father… which to me is wild. Part of being a father isn’t just making good money and putting food on the table, it’s about being an active participant in your children’s lives… which is a lot harder to do when you’re splitting it between two different families, work, and free time.

[@jeremynadaskay7872]

That dude is a scumbag, but even a broken clock can be right once in a while.

[@thejohnbeck]

He's a major contradiction in his views

[@wangtoriojackson4315]

Wow, this must feel like vindication. You go, girl!

[@ChrisW1019]

I love when women dress classy. It shows respect for themselves as well as for me. Classy and elegant are sexy.

[@Michael-vc2cs]

A thought about clothing preferences; My ex made a comment one time about my chest hair. You see, up until this point I'd walk around with not a care in the world. I had NO idea this was a thing. In fact I thought most women didn't like hairy guys. She didn't want other women seeing a bunch of my chest hair hanging out. It's not easy to hide it so I told her I'd be happy to wear an undershirt if it was lightweight and breathable. Had I gotten married it's my view that I'm no longer my own person. I have committed to someone else. Her opinion matters and out of respect for her I would oblige. I fundamentally believe many women are out there not realizing they are revealing part of themselves which catch men's eyes and create some unwanted attention. If I bring this up to my spouse I expect her to view it the same way I did, not controlling but a sign of care for the other person and desire for exclusivity. Men will definitely go after women who have a level of self awareness not to show themselves off to the world. If I meet someone and I perceive she's a fine person but dresses a bit too provocatively I will bring it up, not because I want to fundamentally change her, but because I want to see if she respects me enough to take heed. If she's rebellious and stubborn she'll balk and scoff. If she's a good woman she'll respect me by changing that and dressing like the only man she wants attention from is me.

[@Sound7heWarCry]

While I have never dressed in a provocative manner, I was at one point in time... could relate as to not wanting my man's chest hair/chest exposed. I own every fiber of his 😅

[@visaman]

As a nudist I agree, I wouldn't marry a woman who ordered me to cover up 😂

[@Michael-vc2cs]

@@visaman LOL

[@ShadowwingMD]

What makes an atractive woman for me? Well on the physical side that is: - Natural beuty! A woman that looks good without makeup! Makeup can look good, however it is something not to be overused. And if heavy use is made, it shuld be limited to special ocasions. - A healthy bodytype. A woman that is just skull and bones is not atractive to me. Same goes for overweight. I also never understood why some woman artificially extend there curves. - While I have some preferences on what kind of woman I like (like blone hair with blue eyes or red hair with green eyes), at the end of the day what matters most is that I get a fitting compleat packedge. As long as a woman meets the bacline requirements of "looking good overall", my prference does not realy matter. After all personalety rules! On the personalety side of things I want: - Someone who is loyal - Someone I can cuddel whenever I want - Someone that shows that they like to have me around - Someone that is comfortable with my personalety - Someone I find a good direct way of communication with - Someone that knows what they want and that is not whishy washy, wanting one thing today the the compleat opposit the next day - Someone that is capebel of selfreflection and knows how to admit and deal with mistakes. Making mistakes is human after all and I will make some too. - Someone that is there for me but also gives me the space I need - Someone that is not on the phone 24/7 - Someone that does not brag with there achivements all day long, like an insecure child that wants there parents endoresment/attention - Someone that is not a drama queen - Someone that respects my hobbys and does not judge them - Someone that shares my interests - Someone that shares my morals - Someone that respects my privacy. A lot of things will be shared over time but not everything - Someone that shares my lifegoals in regards of owing property and having children - Someone that is caring and looking out for me on the health side. I am a couchportato so someone that motivates me to do a healthy amount of sports with them is something I'd apriciate a lot. Also having an eye on a heathy diet is something I might need a little help with. If you wanna grow old together health is important. I am not a native english speaker so please apologise for any typos or other mistakes.

[@ScurvyRascal]

What's the long list of what your offering?

[@ShadowwingMD]

@@ScurvyRascalThe question was what man find attractive not what they expect from a potential partner. Your question seems to ignore that. Bysides have you actually read my comment? Or did you just see a long list of things? Many points boil down to someone that is simular to and compatible with me.

[@deanthroop8054]

This is why I want Courtney to be my matchmaker ;) honest, good values, articulate, and knowledgeable. Appreciate your content and what you do. Positive thoughts for you and those close to you.

[@Snarge22]

Heck, just being slender is getting to be a rarity anymore. Something over 60% of people are overweight. Overweight is carrying way over 15 lbs on one's body. So those who are "at weight" and fit is now somewhat uncommon to see in public anymore. Want to increase your success in life? And I don't just mean with the opposite sex, but I mean at the workplace and everywhere else. Just be slender, fit, and have a good demeanor about you. You are now in the top 25% of attractiveness in society. And that gets you results. (For me it one time it got me an job in engineering.)

[@lawrence31415]

Happy Friday, Courtney and All! Hope everyone has a great start to their weekend!

[@CourtneyRyan]

You too my friend!

[@legesupra4275]

all three are of you?@@CourtneyRyan

[@CourtneyRyan]

@@legesupra4275 no, just 2 of them

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

I Heard A Conversation Last Night At Work Between A Couple That May Not Stay Together Long The Woman Was Telling Her Boy friend That He Dose not Communicate On His Phone With Her Well He Could Not Respond Real Well And When She Told Him To Tell Her That He Loved Her He Let Out A Deep Sigh Like He Was Being Forced To Say Then Some Anger Come Up I Got To Thinking Guys Women Want To Hear Emotions In Your Voice When You Tell Them You Loved Them Not Forced That is Why Relation ships never Last so when you date or if i Date So The Love The Compassion Women deserve When You Take them out treat them with Royalty Your Looking At Your Future Guys So Wake Up I Always treat Women with royalty

[@Vegaswill714]

Courtney's advice is the best I have seen online. Everything she has said rings true with me, and she expresses herself exceptionally well. The one thing I feel is not sufficiently emphasized by any dating advice coach online, is that all men and women are different. People who say "all men or women are this way or that", are wrong. We all have different tastes, likes and dislikes and differing preferences. A woman who is unattractive to one man may seem highly desirable to another. Women are the same in this regard. The whole object of the "dating game" is to find someone who you like to be with, who is also attracted to you. At least that is the way I see it.

[@T_elegram_RealCourtneyRyan]

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[@tothra]

I think we all can agree that Courtney is special. She's intelligent, interesting, reasonable, she has wisdom beyond her years. And, yes, she is a beautiful and sexy woman with class. Most interesting about her is that her inner qualities actually outshine her outer qualities, which is simply an amazing thing in todays world. Another great video😊

[@T_elegram_RealCourtneyRyan]

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[@aymanyounes2196]

"The way you present yourself matters" you're so right.

[@danwarner7816]

Truee but telling men not follow girls find attractive is bit hypocrite in way same girls follow their celebrities and male personal trainers online Then women should also stop that if they want be wife material 😂

[@lem7181]

I believe that it was Sophia Loren who said “Don’t show it, keep them guessing.”

[@BALHAM69]

Happy Friday Courtney. 💖 Hopefully everyone has a good weekend. 💝 The table setup is interesting😮 Girls truly do fall for words. 😅 i tagged Courtney before and she didn’t do a reaction video. That is a surprise, Courtney in a tiktok video :)

[@CourtneyRyan]

Hi my friend!

[@BALHAM69]

@@CourtneyRyanhi friend ❤

[@unappealingundesirable2826]

I have a "hypocracy parallel," even though I'm naming fictional cartoon characters: From the Archie Comics: Vernoica throws a conniption fit when Archie even comes close to looking at another girl. Yet, Vernoica looks at and drools over other guys, and she thinks nothing of it. (It's ok when SHE does it, but when Archie does it, she loses her stack) Actually, Archie Comics is great at showing me why I'd never want a woman with Veronica's personality.

[@coolbreeze5683]

When I was younger and immature, I would stare and comment on other guys in response to my bf subconsciously staring and commenting on other girls. He got upset when I did it and didn't realize that I only did it in response to him doing the same thing. The only difference is that he lacked the self-awareness of what he was doing. I eventually learned to just end relationships like that and eventually found someone I was compatible with. Hypocrisy is usually subconscious. Everyone just needs to be more empathetic towards their partners and more self-aware.

[@unappealingundesirable2826]

@@coolbreeze5683 Good point. I think that your former boyfriend was truly unaware of what he was doing. Vernoica is just a clear "I don't give a bleep about anyone else," which is equally angering. I used to take pictures with cheeleaders from the Seahawks, Sonics, and University of Washington at fan meet-and-greets. I was told by women, that if they were my wife, and I took those pictures with cheerleaders, they would have been taken down (from my walls, since I had those pictures in frames). One time at a meet and greet event, a man was there with his two young kids. He took a picture of his kids standing with the cheerleaders. Thinking nothing of it, I offered to let him stand in the picture (with his kids), and I could snap the picture (so that he could be in it with his kids--an occasion they attended together). He thanked me, but told me he "didn't want to get in trouble." (for standing in a picture with cheerleaders, even though his kids would also be in it) That was eye opening for me.

[@coolbreeze5683]

@@unappealingundesirable2826 yeah, it's kinda strange that he felt his wife would be upset, considering he was with their kids. Maybe there's something that happened in their relationship that contributed to his mindset on that scenario. The thing is, if my husband did the same job you did, I wouldn't care at all. He has demonstrated that he's not the kind of guy who likes chasing women or is into superficial thoughts or actions so I don't really worry about him doing whatever he wants. If I was married to someone who had a vibe like my ex bf, I might not feel so comfortable in that situation. Different people bring out different emotions in different people. Just because someone is jealous with one person doesn't mean they are jealous with every person they date. Some people try to make things work for shallow reasons despite the fact they are truly incompatible. That's when problems arise.

[@unappealingundesirable2826]

@@coolbreeze5683 That's all true. It could even be, that a male FRIEND of this father, stood in an innocent picture with his kids and cheerleaders of a college or pro sports teams, and that friend got "banished to the couch" for doing so. Instinctively, maybe this father was afraid that his wife would react the same way. A light-hearted note to cheerleader pictures: Since I was born in 1973, in 2005 i was 32, and most women I dated at that time were 21-30 (mostly 23-26). And, most of them were openly bisexual (which I fully respect). These women would openly drool over my pictures, and they wanted copies of them! The joke was, that these women wanted to look at the cheerleaders in these pictures, not look at me! At least, with these said women, we could all have a sense of humor about it.

[@BGS22202]

“If you want a quality woman, stop following IG models. Get in shape. Get a lot of money. Dress stylishly. Get a dog. Go to therapy. Take the initiative, ask women out and plan and pay for dates.” So if you do all that, you get a quality woman? No, you put in the effort, jump through the hoops and they dismiss you after one date for “lack of chemistry.”

[@deadringer333]

No. Do all that stuff for you if that makes you happy. Then the rest will follow.

[@ankstuhful]

Thats the mindset of having not unlocked your higher self, when you get there, stuff like that is irrelevant and insignificant. Plus, get better at vetting and identifying attraction before the first date. If she likes you it will be easy

[@coolbreeze5683]

Maybe do stuff because you want to grow and challenge yourself. Not to try and impress women. Everyone can see right through people who aren't being authentic to who they are. It's a repellent.

[@deadringer333]

@@coolbreeze5683 exactly!

[@T-NT-WC-JP]

Dressing sexy without looking slutty shows a woman’s class and elegance.I’m glad that man pointed that out.

[@T_elegram_RealCourtneyRyan]

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[@LisaFenton-h7f]

BRAVO to Courtney for defining difference between Setting Boundaries (Healthy!) and "being Controlling" (UN-healthy)--and that the lines can blurr between the two. This is an important topic!--and yes, BOTH women & men can be "Controlling" . (From a woman)

[@marlonhosten4693]

Three things a Man never shares. 1.His Woman 2. His Wealth 3. His most valuable Possessions

[@LordHolley]

Keeping demure but sexy creates a little mystery, something to allow the relationship to evolve and give a man something to discover. Most men will not respect an easy conquest, and certainly not marry her.

[@chriss377]

Dead right about appearances. I purposely dress like a construction worker. It's comfortable and I don't want female attention because I've got a great lady but also so I'm relatable to everyone despite being the VP of a small business. I have definitely noticed a huge difference when I dress up in how women react to me. I've also noticed a different class of women interact with me in each situation. So they say dress for the job you want, well boys maybe dress for the kind of woman you want! And be a gentleman. Insecure women want bad boys. Stable women want a gentleman who has the capacity to protect them and others. There's a line between sexy and slutty for women just as there's a line between violent men and men with great capacity for violence but keeps it under control by choice. Lastly if you need to change your partner you're with the wrong person. By all means we can help each other grow, but never try to force change.

[@carlossantiago9926]

Episode Idea: I loved when you had a panel of women answering questions about their preferences. How about one where you ask men about women's qualities and even have them choose between pictures of women dressed classy-sexy and provocative-sexy. You're obviously helping a lot of men, but I'm beginning to think that your voice and work have the potential to really continue to reshape how both sexes can grow to learn each other better. Bring back more panels! Courtney, You're the best. Thanks!

[@T_elegram_RealCourtneyRyan]

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[@williamturner1441]

100% agree.. A classy Courtney appearance and personality is the most attractive for me. Your husband is a luck man !! Also says how wonderful your parents are too.

[@Raidenmiguel1]

Cheers from Puerto Rico! Keep up the great work

[@anilmenon-b8m]

I'm very impressed and grateful for all your videos. They contain wisdom, kindness, and a deep thoughtfulness that helps us all become better versions of ourselves. Thank you!

[@zachariah380]

There's something important not covered in: "choose someone who aligns with your preferences and values in the first place so you don't control their behavior." When the stated values and other qualities align during vetting, but something in their behavior shows up later after already being in an established relationship that isn't acceptable (like, for instance a specific social media post that's too revealing, or a drunken girls trip to Vegas invite from her bestie she doesn't want to disappoint). These things still need to be addressed somehow, and if it becomes a point of contention, of course the man needs to set "the boundary" of what he will choose if she makes an unacceptable choice; not communicating that would be dishonest. It can certainly be worded like "this is unacceptable to me, and is a deal-breaker in the relationship(boundary)" vs "you can't do this (controlling)", but it has to be understood that there will be things that a man (or woman) must communicate to their partner that may come down to "your behavior needs to be xyz or I'll choose abc (to leave, or whatever personal self-respecting boundary is)." I get that telling woman to not post things on Instagram that she was already posting on instagram before getting in a relationship is "duh. She already told you what her values were...", but other situations do exist where clarity and importance of certain preferences need to be communicated, and that needs to be okay and not twisted into a story of a man being controlling because he communicated a preference and a boundary.

[@x-man5056]

1 chance for 1st impression. Perception is everything. There are more than a 1000 ways for a woman to be sexy without being trampy. When I leave the man cave, I am always put together, not dressed to the 9's, just clean, combed, ready to bump into "her", no mater what my plans are, I don't want to be apologizing for my attire/look when she appears around a corner. Of the dating coaches I watch, Courtney is always the best prepped and frankly elegantly pretty. It is evident that Courtney takes this seriously and practices what she preaches. And for me anyway, nothing is more sexy than...smart. She has that covered in spades. Makes me think maybe we could use some advise from Teddy too. "How'd he do it?"

[@chrishowell9499]

It's quite refreshing to hear this view point. I knew a woman that publicly shows how she just doesn't understand this as I feel many people don't. Sadly her misunderstanding of presentation shows up in her daughters also being ill adjusted to the world. Modern women this they should be able to dress like a tramp and still have the respect of a woman who dresses "classy" I agree with you that you should present yourself for the respect that you would like to receive. Society benefits from having a little class and a little pride in how we present ourselves.

[@T_elegram_RealCourtneyRyan]

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[@xxwallzxx4509]

People date and not every relationship is the same. It depends on them on what they want their relationship based on how they want it to be. Whether accepting or allowing it or they are both just like that. Edit: You covered it all and did an amazing job. If you don't like someone for something. Don't get with them. If she does porn and you are not ok with that. Then that girl is not for you. You can't change people either. They have to do it their own. It would not be a compatible relationship and should not have happened in the first place.

[@cyberfrank-bx2nv]

to get something worth it you need ; 1 - be realistic, see things as they are 2 - good management 3 - know where to draw the line to get someone who shares your values. good show sis

[@awsambdaman]

Just want to say I appreciate your videos. You are a lot more balanced than redpill people. I can’t watch that type of content because it makes me feel bitter and angry and makes me be mean to my wife. It’s important to point out issues in dating and I appreciate how you do it mostly taking the man’s point of view but not just crapping on women. The gender war is tired and a common sense perspective is appreciated!

[@mattfrank5811]

I watched your video on men's facial hair and I have extremely curly black hair, curly to the point where the sideburns curl and stick out it looks like I could poke someone's eye out obviously I trim it so it’s flat on the side ( it's not trimmed at this moment). I'm trying to figure out if I should just continue and grow it out thicker. In terms of hair I've been compared to lou ferrigno In hercules except the beard is more patchy and the hair has more actual curl. I've also had people suggest sorta thick 5:00 shadow. If you need any actual picture let me know. Thanks for all the videos they've been incredibly helpful ( also the watches look great on you)

[@90sshuffle]

Notice how she turns it back on men and throws shade at this dude despite not even double checking that the dude actually said what she disagrees with. Bros dont take dating advice from a woman. Watch these video's like I do...for amusement. CR, like most women can not escape approaching every issue from the feminist frame. This isnt saying she is a feminist but that she cant separate her logic from the false frame of the status quo.

[@CourtneyRyan]

I only made the comment about him because it went along with my tip of advice that I gave directly after lol I wasn’t throwing shade

[@thecaptain3594]

Personally, I think class is less about what you wear as much as the vibe you send out and the way you carry yourself in the world. A classy woman posting a bikini pic is light-years removed from an ethot doing it. It gives off a completely different energy. I have seen art models who go fully nude in their content (implied, of course, it being Insta) who are FAR more classy, elegant, and respectable than the party girls in heels and dresses. And you can sort of tell the difference between the insta model who is just like "Hi, I'm a model and here's my work," versus the egirl who is like "I am an insatiable attention monger and I need likes and views to validate my existence." And these girls we always have a go at are not classless because of the way they dress, they are classless because of who they are and how they carry themselves in the world: loudmouthed, entitled, selfish, promiscuous, just overall trashy people; their apparel is just an outward manifestation of that trashy inner self. Putting a classless person in classy clothing is like putting a gold ring in a pig's snout: it doesn't suddenly make you classy. First you have to BE classy, and just by being classy, you add class to whatever you do and whatever you wear.

[@michaeluphoff4749]

Accountability is kryptonite to the modern woman.

[@gregprince5283]

I'm not one to shy away from my opinion. That being said, I think you have always presented yourself tastefully well. I grew up watching Lynda Carter ( wonder woman) I think she's the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. I would say your right up there with her. I think I speak for most men in that we are lucky we are able to see you. So, I wouldn't put much emphasis on anyone being condescending.

[@venomousninetails]

very true it goes both ways, want a classy girl, be a classy guy.

[@AK-American]

Hey Courtney, would you ever consider doing a blue collar style video?

[@CourtneyRyan]

Of course!

[@thomasdee1980]

I think the dating couch Matthew Hussey hit the nail on the head when he said "we use the weapon we are most familiar with" (it is a metaphor before people ask). I think a lot of women use their looks, figure and sexuality to attract men because that is the "weapon" they are most familiar with and know it will work. But the problem with this is that because that is the aspect of her personality she is showing, then guys will react to that and she will think that men are only interested in a woman for her body. You could have the best personality in the world but if you never show it to anyone how are they supposed to know about it? I think Courtney is spot on with saying you have to be mindful of how you come across to other people as they will respond to how you present yourself

[@JohnnyinCLE]

Agreed, Courtney. In any company, one should be what they desire, by mean of character and virtue. AKA: "We are judged by the company we keep." EDIT: By the way... I am enjoying that you've also given a nice glimpse and insight as to your standards. This is a very warm and candored take that you've given here. I'm used to your measured takes, but in the latter part of this video? You're very candid on your standards. Much respect for that. ALSO: There's great reason why we keep coming to your channel. Not just men, even. I know quite a few women who also frequent your channel. Keep up the great work and content. 🙂

[@ElijahPerrin80]

Honestly I like that the world has changed to be so openly sexual and free to act how people feel or want in the moment even though most content I see is imitation, I think people should find themselves and act how they feel in the moment to either expand on it or get it out of their system. I can tell you it is nice to see people acting so honestly and putting themselves out because it is less altered, less of an act or help to see the real you and I am either attracted to you or not. Personally I like a person who is honest and knows themselves, has lived and loved, lost and grown, experience for me is more important and openness to experiment and explore in a fun but modest way where her sexual outlet is me and if she wants to send me images for me I would be happy to see them but that is for me, she dresses to impress me and I need to be the man in her life or move on. Friends are good and I believe you can tell alot about friends, if she surrounds herself with single men who are struggling but shower her with attention and gifts I can see her interests in friends, if she is the corner of the gossip mill I can understand is important to her and what she likes to communicate about. Someone who has nothing to talk about than other peoples lives or make judgements on others all day, feed on drama and need it can find it on their own. My moral always is surround yourself with like minded people and help yourself to develop a personality that you love and invite someone to love your personality.

[@jsparkz_4403]

They used a great example with a pick of Courtney.

[@GarySaini8]

Teddy hooking you up with beautiful time pieces! I see you girl! Let’s go!!

[@dontokoi30]

It's not just about how someone dresses on social media, there's an entire "influencer personality" that is vapid and unappealing, and aligns very much with the worst parts about being terminally online.

[@loganholmberg2295]

Showing curves without showing skin...hell yes! I don't know why but a woman who can show shes sexy WITHOUT having flaunt a bunch of skin is VERY attractive. Its a bad anolgy but in a horror movie just showing glimpses on the monster can be so much scarierer then showing it. Its why 80s and 90s horror are such classics. And I find in a way its the same for women. That stuff I don't see my subconscious brain fills in the idea of something much more atrractive then what is probably the reality. A woman who dresses well and doesn't show skin can be much more attractive then a girl walking around with an exposed midrift, a low cut shirt and skin tight yoga pants. Less can defiantly be more.

[@BenLukeSmith]

That’s good it got so many views, I find a lot of women unattractive these days because of how out there they are - Onlyfans, IG models, posting selfies everyday for attention, etc. A man doesn’t want to have to share his woman. Self-Confidence without requiring validation from others all the time is really attractive too. As you said, it is about self-respect too and if you think long-term as a man, you want someone who will represent you well. In a marriage, you represent each other. When someone sees you, they think of your partner, vice versa. “Reputation”

[@T_elegram_RealCourtneyRyan]

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[@kennethsmith2030]

this type of awareness and accountability is much needed and actually a turn on for me.

[@virtual240]

Of all the videos you've posted, this is by far your best one. It has motivated me to stop being the victim and improve myself. Thanks, you're a life saver. -Mike

[@scottclark3761]

Courtney, it isn't surprising to me at all that people would look at you as an example of a beautiful woman that dresses classy. Your look is always on point. As for how someone dresses, there's times and places. Folks don't normally wear a RATM shirt and ripped jorts to a business meeting. Right? My wife advises me on how I dress at an interview, colors to wear, et cetera. She wants me to be my best. My father liked hanging out in biker bars. He's a sociopath, and hung out with a few true blue psychopaths. His idea of watching me was to take me drinking with him, then drive home drunk with me in the truck. But I grew up around these guys. And as they have gotten older, there's been benefits, wakes, et cetera. My wife has no experience in this world, and I did forbid certain outfits. Why? Because I didn't want to get into three fistfights at a funeral. These guys are in a different world with different rules. Is it controlling? I dunno, but I was worried about her safety. Some of these folks aren't nice to outsiders. Some aren't nice at all. But there is a connection. My absence would be taken amiss. So it's situational is my point. Generally, I give advice, but she wears what she likes, and so do I. But in certain situations.....maybe listening to your SO is a good idea.

[@francoisbroukx1244]

I really love the way you think, and you're right, if you want to change someone, he/she is probably not compatible. My mother was extremely classy, my wife was...not! No make-up, dirty nails, easy clothes, and absolutely not prudish. She was a sculptor with an IQ of 140 and quite mannish, she would take care of plumbing and/or electricity... I have a formation as dancer, and I was taking care of the laundry, dishes, children...I am quite womanly. Strangely, other people seemed to have more problems than us to accept the situation. Well, the situation went on for 36 year, so... I mostly have questions with all the conditions you have before you start a relation; first meet to know if there is a second, or not, and you build up...My mother would have liked you.

[@derrickmccann8254]

You're absolutely right about modern woman being wife material when they get married

[@andersnielsen6044]

Being sexy is actually more about how you present, behave and carry yourself and not about how much you show or not show. ;)

[@zeiddouak9833]

Oh my GOD May GOD Accepts and Blesses such truthful words and works and advicer. This video is about one of the Axial MESSAGES in this life. May our CREATOR OWNER HELPS us to be more truthful , helpful and especially patient

[@PappaBear_1234]

Courtney has Upgraded to the camera on the table 😊

[@Frontline35]

Long story short, we need more Courtney’s in the world.

[@tod3msn]

It was always been my belief that boundaries are helpful in relating to the world and it is always best to get permission to use people's images beforehand.

[@JohnSkyLey]

Fit, feminine, friendly, and low body count is the key to a good women that is marriage material

[@RealSigmaQueen]

A guy who spouts red pill dogma to describe his ideal woman…. Sorry Ernie, you’re not marriage material. Not saying you won’t get married, but divorce is inevitable. The red pill is the plan B of dating. Will never allow a marriage to survive.

[@Adam_Le-Roi_Davis.]

I agree 100% with everything you say, Courtney. You're a beautiful and classy woman, Courtney so, you shouldn't be surprised when others see you that way too. The guy talking on the 'Whatever' podcast has also been on Pearl's podcast and a Fresh and Fit episode, he has several women who he has ongoing relationships with, but he wants them to be only for him, he has money so the women go along with it for the lifestyle, I don't think that it's healthy, but that's my opinion, if the women allow it and they are accepting of it, that's up to them.

[@gazsilla]

I think you mentioned the presentation of being sexy but in a classy being an indicator of self respect is spot on. But more importantly, and admittedly selfishly is this. As a man, my woman staying classy is respectful to me. I don't need to be loved all the time. However as a man I do need to always be respected by my woman. The love may go but will always come back. But respect of a woman NEVER comes back once gone. And once the respect is gone, the love is not far behind.

[@gavinsadventuresinterests.]

Having preferences & being controlling are 2 very different things. I myself I00% agree with Courtney on this. I prefer woman who have brunette hair. She doesn't have to have brunette hair, she could be blonde or ginger if i like her enough. It's a preference that i like, but is not compulsory at all. They only things that i ask from a woman, (But not demanding at all) and is fair and reasonable is that she treats me with common curtesy, love & respect, and doesn't use me for my money and also doesn't cheat on me either. That's all i am asking from her. But NOT demanding from her. If she can do that to me as a romantic partner & doesn't have a problem with that, then i would be a very happy man. If she can do that, then i will very happily give the same in return. And hopefully she will be very happy with it as well. I think that is very fair & reasonable. I'm not asking for much.

[@Roy60217]

First, I must address Courtney. Why are you surprised to see yourself in anyone's video when they are complementing the way you carry yourself? You are (what I believe) apart of the minority of women who believe and carry themselves with beauty and not with the necessary need to be sexy. That says a lot. You have a blessed husband. God is good🙏🏽 As far as this video goes. I completely agree with what this man is saying. "Less is more". The most attractive thing a woman can do for or to a GENTLEMAN is to leave something to the imagination. Business suite, summer dress, APPROPRIATE jeans and T-shirt. These are all that attracts the right man. Also, yes Courtney. No one should be a hypocrite. Agreed 👍🏼💯🇨🇦

[@aramjelalian3104]

FYI Courtney, it’s Justin Waller and I think he was on a whatever podcast and a jubilee video

[@Roq-stone]

Hm, I was listening to the channel (instead of watching) because I was busy attending to something, But you speak so "gently" I had to subscribe. I like how you express yourself. To me, your are an example of a LADY - a lot of people don't know 'what' that is.

[@kevinlogiudice5458]

“It got over 5 million views, of course”😂🥰🥰 Well of course!

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂🤍

[@WriterProfessor]

"Have more than thou showest." --Shakespeare

[@nanx7062]

I agree find someone you match well with values, lifestyle, and life goals whom you can accept because even healthy boundaries can feel like oppression/control if the two people are not on the same page and are incompatible. good people become toxic when they are with the wrong people, so we gotta pick carefully and wisely.

[@bobxbaker]

it is interesting because i don't think there is a set ideal standard that everyone has to follow, but it's important to understand how you present yourself because how you present yourself will be attracting different types of people who typically have similar interests because clothes and appearance and behaviour is a way how we communicate our interests, sometimes we do it very appearant what we like and dislike or how we are and sometimes it's a bit ambiguous, but just because someone look a certain way does not mean they only are interested in that specific thing and only appreciate that one thing so you shouldn't be that unsure of yourself just because someone you didn't think would like you does like you, people have strange tastes at times and i mean strange because it does not line up with how they present themselves. but typically rule of thumb, girls that dress classy likes guys that dress classy aswell, a death metal enthusiast typically look like a death metal enthusiast and would probably be more interested in a girl that looks like she is too and vice versa, however that don't mean they can't like other things aswell but typically it's a bit outside of their comfort zone. because we all know that some girls or some guys can go for something wildly different to themselves it's just less likely they will get mutual interest back so that's why there's like a bit of a barrier between the two, but sometimes you never know it might just be one of those things that does happen. we all know the stereotype of the pent up librarian whos actually super wild but don't look like it, don't mean every librarian is but there's probably some. so have a hard look at yourself and think about what it is you want and understand your chances, and if you don't like those odds maybe change it up, it's good to try new things after all, variety is the spice of life.

[@kawazukaeru643]

I think that boundaries give your partner choices. Control does not. That is why I want a woman who can tell me what she wants, and allows me to decide how and when (and if) I provide it.

[@T_elegram_RealCourtneyRyan]

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[@AnthonyRusso93]

I think that of the problem when it comes to unhealthy relationships is mutual desire and effort to force the relationship despite a massive incompatibility. Like stop trying to keep that hoopdy on the road the repair costs is a bad idea because the car is totaled "but what if getting another car because availability would cost even more and all car buying is a hassle regardless of price range" you might be supposing. No doubt it is going to be extremely unpleasant to move on the long term outcome you stand to achieve mostly but not always is worth the risk of going through the trials and finding the right vehicle isn't guaranteed. The probability of getting a great deal and not have to worry about upkeep is likely enough not rolling the dice is a dumb choice. The beater doubled over is going to keep Nickel and diming over time + the crappier it is the frequency and amount of nickel and diming will increase Eventually despite how much money and TLC you try to further extend its usefulness will be for nothing because it is completely inoperable.

[@timothybogle1461]

Justin Waller does say some good things but he is a top 1% guy and does believe is one sided monogamy. He is free to sleep around but she isn't. With his status he might get this if he does get married. Lila Rose called him out on Whatever and he was very dismissive of her. To the guys. Don't hate the player, hate the game. Envy of this man does you no good. He is 100% spot on this TikTok.

[@samadams6487]

Okay so let's talk about the clothing situation. Now I've been married for 30 years and it's not an issue but let's say I was young and dating and the girl was wearing something I didn't approve of which probably means I really didn't have a good idea of who she was as a person. If I hadn't made my personal boundaries clear I would have bet time say look I'm not going to stop you from wearing what you want to wear but you can't do it with me. I will not go out with you wearing that and if that is texting that you liked where we're just going to have to part ways. Men: just as you would be willing to walk away or should be willing to wipe away from some sort of deal buying automobile or house or whatever because the negotiations didn't go the way you want, you don't give in- just walk away. Likewise when dating or in a relationship you must stick to your boundaries and not budge ever because it integrity. You did not need a girl where you would trade in your integrity. Never. Ever. Ever. Do that. Make it quite clear to her that you would never dream of making her change her clothing to, let us say something more modest but that he won't be doing it with you. You're giving her the choice and invariably she will walk from you walking away from her speaking to your boundaries unless of course she is doing what many women doing that is to test the boundaries to see if you really mean it. Women can quite often be like children and sometimes you have to treat them that way sad to say but that is because of the emotional aspects that is part of them. Man, you know better than to show any emotions even though you have them. Always act on the basis of rationality and absolutely never ever ever act upon feelings. Acting upon feelings invariably will lead you to personal destruction.

[@alejandroxan]

Many men who are single follow models and influencers on IG. Most can agree that we would not want our own woman to be one of those models. It's all about respect to your partner. Men who have a partner, please do not follow or like those IG models.

[@SquallSZ]

THIS 😂😂😂 the titles with all caps are ....funny to say the least 😊

[@Ezilla82]

First off seeing photos of Courtney in a video that's something and I bet someone would use my photos hopefully not in a malicious intent more like a meme and second, I do got preferences in a woman, but it's more like I need more time to think a bit more on the subject so it doesn't make me sound controlling, manipulative, and etc. Still this is some good information no doubt about it.

[@jasonhurst8599]

I agree that people should not try and change someone so that they will become someone more to their liking; however I don't see anything wrong with trying to HELP someone they care about - and possibly care FOR - change or stop a habit or a thing that they do that is being a detriment or not good for their actual well being; as opposed to just keep letting them do it because of the lame b.s. reasoning of "they're an adult and can do whatever they want" crap. To me if you DON'T try and help, or even say anything, then you really don't give a crap about them whatsoever. I also think that while it would be great to find someone who aligns with ALL of our beliefs and goals and values, etc; that too is almost like looking for "perfection" in as far as our own wishlist instead of being realistic and while still having some "non negotiables" as our pre requisites, we need to be flexible and remember that no one is perfect - especially OURSELVES - so we must compromise and accept a few flaws or quirks, or even minor traits that may not perfectly coincide with how we think. (As long as they are not harmful to us or them.)

[@walkingthroughdusk]

Yeah. Justin Waller was on the Whatever podcast where Lila Rose had a debate with him about loyalty, non-monogamy, & sexual morals. He was also on Jubilee as an Alpha vs. Beta Males.