Women should rethink their Inheritance | Leila Seth | TEDxGatewayWomen

[@Lotus-Subliminals-Shorts]

"Don't let your daughters down - and they will not let you down.". Such words of Truth.

[@vickipedia3253]

Daughters never let you down irrespective

[@cherylmoniz4012]

how did those males get here , ??? is the first question , gratitude and respect is the outcome

[@gangadin2873]

@@vickipedia3253 I can introduce you to some daughters I know. Sorry.

[@shivbaba2672]

If a dowry is used in a positive way, the girl can build up a strong family along with a good husband, But the truth is not all husbands are good husbands, then it is not just dowried it is the husband that is the issue.

[@gangadin2873]

@@shivbaba2672 Not all girls/wives are good either. What about that?

[@miniaturecreature]

There are fathers who trust their son in laws more than their daughters when it comes to property inheritance, so many 80s movies are based on this theme

[@shivangitripathi2151]

And so such Movies are also culprit for depriving woman condition in socially.

[@sandhyasingh2836]

Insecure ahem

[@kit-nun5476]

@@shivangitripathi2151 You're right. This whole cr@p about "eve teasing, stalking and harassing girls, to make girls love them" also came from the movies. "Portraying career oriented women" as devils, and portraying "women who take in abuse & torture from husband & in-laws" as the right sanskaari thing, have also been created / reinforced by movies and serials.

[@GeetaBapat]

@@shivangitripathi2151 Absolutely as all most all of these movies show women fulfilling demand even at the cost of their lives and then termed as ideal women and daughter in laws!!!

[@miniaturecreature]

@@sandhyasingh2836 just stating facts

[@premanand7803]

My grandmother on mother's side was a vegetable seller her husband a daily wage worker both used to work from morning 8 to evening 6 ,She had six daughters, she made sure that each and every child got a good education and pushed them to their limits in education and scold them if they have failed in any subject she made sure everyone had a degree with either first class or distinction and made everyone get a good position in their respective fields in government departments Each and every child of her stood on their own legs She is a torchbearer for her children and for me

[@vsgeethakumari9664]

Madam, First of all,let me give you a standing ovation!..You are really a fine human being.Your speech was mesmerizing and I listened to it as l would listen to a beautiful poem...I hope the ideas you were trying to put across would reach more people and bring about the change that we all need so badly. Hats off to you and I appreciate your efforts!...

[@swatigupta2064]

Women have been discrimated not only by in laws and society but discrination starts the day she is born as Suttle as girl child born so now her brother required.if boy only born then no sister required is still the mindset in most families.

[@ClarityDetermination]

It's so insane. From Canada.

[@daisiesof7778]

Very dynamic lady her children and family environment are very lucky.

[@ankitashah6341]

The attitude also needs to change regarding who can and should and must take care of aging, ailing parents: sons? daughters? both? Is a daughter allowed-accepted-supported to take care of her parents? How many families do that? Why do daughters have to sit back and sulk for not being able to be available for her parents as much as she wants to?

[@somebody-hv4wq]

Right! It is the default setting of Indian marriage system that the sons take care of their parents and live with them while the daughter has to live with her husband's family and take their responsibility. Even if she wanna serve her parents she still can't do the way a son can. Also i think this is one more reason why parents generally want a son..I'm tired of hearing things like 'bete ke bina tumhare chita ko shanti kon dega'

[@talkswithvigy7860]

Your absolutely spot on with your words here, the entire flow has to change.

[@latika612]

agree with what u said

[@SD-ld5lz]

Its extremely common for daughters to look after parents atleast in Bangalore urban families.

[@sulekhag]

@@SD-ld5lz thankfully things are improving but still a lot of ppl - read in-laws - are so steeped in hypocrisy and selfishness that they don’t even allow the daughter-in-law to go visit her parental house much, let alone take care of her parents. In fact, the greed and selfishness is so much that if the girl is an only child too, they expect other relatives like siblings of the parents to take care of them but the girl must inherit all the wealth of the parents.

[@seevic9821]

It all boils down to this: Educate your daughters just like you educate your sons. The emphasis at all times should be on education of your child, regardless of gender. Once the girl flourishes with her capabilities, she will not only have the confidence to say *no* to a dowry-demanding family, but also the financial independence to take care of herself. Marriage will happen when she's ready and the right boy comes along. Parents shouldn't feel the burden, but rather pride on the daughter's achievements. Smart parents divide their assets *equally* among *deserving* children. Any child who shows signs of selfishness or whose spouse is a troublemaker should be kept away from the family inheritance. Until such a balance is reached, someone or the other will be unhappy in the family. Bottom line: A girl should move heaven and earth to educate herself, and stand on her own feet. She shouldn't wait for a Knight in shining armour to come rescue her from her situation. No one messes with a nice, capable, stable, confident, smart and financially independent girl.

[@ClarityDetermination]

Actually parents usually pressure educated smart stable girls. Also once they have children, many times they aren't supported in their career which they worked as hard as others to obtain.

[@maya-cc2sx]

@@ClarityDetermination what’s the solution according to you then? I’m curious

[@ClarityDetermination]

@@maya-cc2sx if there actually is a solution, I'd say to go in the direction of not pressuring girls or boys to marry and to support them both in education until they choose to marry and/or otherwise move forward in their chosen work.

[@aanatusingh7989]

She highlights the bitter truth. Much respect and salute to your courage and bravery ❤️❤️

[@saradak8151]

Such a great woman.

[@kalpanab2689]

Excellent presentation of my thought.

[@sheejan5267]

Thank you mam 🙏🙏

[@palampallipranitha4285]

Really well said ma'am 👏👏

[@Jumiiz]

Why am I crying, watching this?! I got married when I was 23, to the love of my life. We were both against dowry, he stopped his family from the talks about it, I stopped my dad my giving a single penny. We even bought our wedding clothes with our own money (that's all that we could afford then). As years went by, I told my father that I do not need any part of the inheritance because we earn well and did not feel the need to claim the share. Always been proud of my decisions, but this speech is eye-opening. Inheritance is a right and daughters shouldn't be deprived of it. Thank you Madam.

[@poonamkaul673]

Those from an economically stable position should also think that the practice of giving and taking of dowry, and also denial of inheritance, is copied down to the last rung of the society. It has a crippling effect on all, but it is blithely accepted, as an acceptable 'given'. My first cousin sister, an only parent, has made arrangements for the short stay of only one hundred of her would be son in law's wedding entourage( It could be less if the threat of coronavirus leads to a reduction in the number of wedding guests allowed. But the pre booking has been made. Hotels have ensured that 250 guests can be accommodated, by UP state law, in an open air setting! And she has paid in advance.....) as they are residents of another state

[@vipashibarua6932]

i cried reading your story, i don't even know why.

[@mountain85]

It is our right ! don't shy away from it or let any man or woman emotionally blackmail you into thinking you do not need inheritance

[@lunafringe10]

should be for the Father or mother , whoever has the money, to decide what to do with his her money,

[@tasouloupaulh6051]

really emotional for me too.

[@tulsibhatia2823]

My widowed sister in law who stayed with her brothers in her parents home almost did not get a share of her fathers property. It would have been disastrous if her brothers had not been forced by me, to give her a share.I'm married to one of her brothers who felt that she could live with any of her brothers for a few months of the year.But I put my foot down. Today she lives happily in her own apartment sndanages her life well.

[@madhutalaari]

we dont see sis in laws like you these days.. some sis in laws want complete share of the property to her husband not even his brothers forget about sisters..

[@harshithahv7539]

U are great!

[@nchl5340]

You're amazing. But Indian women's fate cannot be dependent on the rare good hearts like you. People like you are rare. We need laws to protect women's inheritance. As per Islam laws, women get only 1/3rd share to that of male. My father and his brothers put their foot down and made sure that they and their 4 sisters got an equal share. However, my mother and her 2 sisters hardly got anything as her brothers were adamant about keeping almost everything for themselves.

[@gulabjamun1988]

@tulsi Bhatia you've done a great job 💎👍

[@alphb386]

❤️❤️❤️ Most people do not share not because there isn't enough for everyone, they don't share because of greed. You're a wise woman 😊

[@ashrithharith3474]

I’m so proud of my grandmother who said she wouldn’t give her daughter’s hand to a family that demanded dowry, and this was 30 years ago! We have a long gap to fill in then attitudes of people. God alone a if that’s ever going to happen!

[@vivianklaus6185]

Granny power!!!!!!!

[@aravindhsm1287]

why should we give a daughter to someone,isnt it a mutual relationship?

[@nehakarmakar7141]

@@sunp852 never marry to a family of greedy people..goes both ways

[@kpatel1947]

Yes absolutely right! Same in our family, if they want dowery they don’t have any morals, you don’t marry daughters to such scoundrels, no matter who ever they are. However you can support your son or daughter of your own free will afterwards but it’s never requirements.

[@kpatel1947]

@@aravindhsm1287 It’s not interpreted correctly, we don’t give daughters, they go to live with their husbands but they don’t belong or own her, she is still free to change her staying, if not comfortable, DON’T EVER MAKE COMPROMISES, THAT WILL LEAD TO WASTE AND DEPRESSION, STAY IF YOU LIKE OR GET OUT.

[@manjory7563]

My mom when she talked about her equal rights she was called out as greedy and cast out of the family completely even though she was never demanding anything, all she did was bring up this topic once in the discussion

[@1989rakesh]

Exactly same thing happened with my mother. But I am very much proud of my mother for taking a stance on this even though she is illiterate and faced criticism by his brother and brothers family. But I can proudly say my mother is much more educated than the ones who hold degrees and don't do justice.

[@aarvind3901]

The attitude of parents should change

[@aarvind3901]

My mother didn’t have anything to inherit from her parents except the jewels that was given by her brothers, hence she too repeated the same for me jewels and a car for which my husband didn’t even have adequate funds to maintain. The money in lieu of promised ornaments were all spent by my husbands parents for the marriage expenses too. I am a very smart girl who didn’t have any qualms of letting go, so I sold all my jewels and purchased a 2 bhk in banglore in 2001 ie the wisest thing we have done in life. So at present I too doesn’t have any inheritance from my parents property as they claim it was given as dowry Sambhavami yuge yuge

[@sidhitendulkar137]

She should say it over and over again. That's how the laws and right of people will be known.

[@Jahannam...Hellfire.]

🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

[@khushiyadav1289]

She was given a chance. Imagine what you can achieve if you're given one. We, women, are half the population. We don't need the world. The world needs us!

[@eaglemgtow2789]

You don't need the world? Image if Earth Vanishes or loses its atmosphere wtf you gonna go.

[@khushiyadav1289]

@@eaglemgtow2789 sure. But by world, I meant it's people. And if by world doesnt need you, you mean its people dont need you... then what are you even doing here?

[@eaglemgtow2789]

@@khushiyadav1289 I am not here to please people's needs. I exist as an individual for my own needs and wants. For my own Survival and reproduction.

[@eaglemgtow2789]

@@khushiyadav1289 And you are dependent on the society for everything. We are inter-dependent, for food, Money, shelter, clothing, resources, Oil, technology, entertainment, goals. Imagine a world where no one exists but you. There would be no goal, nothing to live for or by... complete Nihilism. 😂 So don't tell me this Bs that you don't need the world. Dude, the human collective can live without you just fine.... Maybe you need the society more

[@khushiyadav1289]

@@eaglemgtow2789 I'm sorry I don't see where all this is coming from. But I can tell you where my words come from. Look at ma'am Leila Seth. When she was struggling to get good legal guidance, the people didn't know its worth and pushed her away. But looking at what she achieved after all these years, its pretty clear that the world needs people like her more, than otherwise. But I also respect your views, although they are completely off the point I wanted to convey.

[@swathis163]

I lost my dad at age of 13, I had a 1.5year old sister at that time...my father's family abandoned us..my father had not made much property by then.. we did not have anything.. my mother's family agreed to take care of us...now after 15 years they took all my mother's earnings and they are not willing to give us my mother's share also.. what is the value of girl child in this country??? Even if my mother goes legally and flights she might get property but she will get a big title that she is selfish and stole her brothers rights.. instead I believe in earn your property and don't depend on any one... specially when you are born as girl in this country..it's a sin asking for property!!!

[@ClarityDetermination]

It's not a sin to ask for what is yours. It is a sin to not ask for what is yours and to give heed to what others say.

[@v.ar1234]

It's really sad to hear your story. It's really horrible the ways of the old culture about bias between sons n daughters. Hope there will be a law that dictates equality between male n female. By the way, I'm a guy writing this. 😄

[@fatimayahia3522]

We suffer the same problem in Muslim Arab countries, from Algeria

[@namratagandhi3381]

@@v.ar1234 since 2005 daughter have equal property rights

[@snehacherry6]

Seriously in laws says this is not ur house n our parents says this is not ur house. Where should we go . Nothing is ours. Seriously 🥺. Ridiculous Culture. Women r never treated equally. In parents house brother has given priority n in laws husband. We r nothing to anyone. 🥺🥺🥺😟😟😟 Kaas me ladka hoti.. Kaassh..

[@Nina-oi1qk]

Women have to make their own homes. Get an education, get a job that pays well and make your own home. Cannot rely on fathers and husbands.

[@snehacherry6]

@@Nina-oi1qk right nina, but they have to give us chance na. Y boys rely yaar, we all are same den y this differentiation.

[@ClarityDetermination]

Knowing what you wrote will set you off in a better situation than others to make good decisions for what to spend your energy and time on ...

[@snehacherry6]

@@ClarityDetermination hmmm

[@ClarityDetermination]

@@snehacherry6 I mean that I don't spend quality time around people who don't value me. If I must visit then I offer very little energy to try to change things. I save it for when I'm someplace else to be happy and that will build my future.

[@rashmisahu9724]

Once I just casually asked my father why is that the father's unheritence is only given to the son even when the law says it should be shared equally to the daughters as well. On hearing me it almost angered my entire family. I was blasted with all possible invalid explanations. I was infact told I have a greed over his property and only the son is going to feed them and take care of them in their old age. Thankful to my husband for not demanding any dowry and i was neither gifted anything during my marriage. 5 years past that conversation today things are different. They demand me take care of them and I am reminded of the legal rules that the daughters are supposed to take care of their old parents. Even without the law I am ready to help my parents any time and also don't expect any shares from him. What hurts me more is the mindset of the society which never changes no matter how educated we become. Highly appreciate this video. 🙏some where the change has to begin.

[@miracline1841]

Education alone cannot change the mindset.. Need basic humanity

[@sulekhag]

Yes the hypocrisy and the double standard is very detrimental to the society as a whole.

[@mahtazdin]

I was not given inherent because I have a leaning disability.

[@vulpix.]

@@mahtazdin you still have a right to inherit and state should name a guardian to ensurebyounhave access and can spend your share as needed

[@vulpix.]

remind your parents thatbalthough you are happy to help, it is not fair they leave everything to your brother...if so then brother should step in and do most of the helping

[@chanakshapawar2571]

When she said. "If they were 6 brothers they had happily shared their inheritance., why not with 3brothers and 3 sisters.' It changed my whole perspective .

[@nsntchauhan5814]

Bcoz lakhs are spend as dowry on their wedding

[@VishalSharma-pu9sw]

Cause when the women is married her husband heritage will be her too, but if she is given heritage from her brother she will get double heritage,

[@shreyasridhar3323]

@@nsntchauhan5814 not like it's our choice.

[@shreyasridhar3323]

@@VishalSharma-pu9sw the husband also owns what's her's. So your point doesn't really make sense.

[@VishalSharma-pu9sw]

@@shreyasridhar3323 it makes sense, if my sister takes a piece from me it will be shared with her family but i will left with less, and i don't want my wife heritage cause i have enough,

[@neenasingh9491]

I salute her. Mam, I have been fighting for Daughter's rights. Discrimination begins at home itself. Parents must not Discriminate. Neena Singh Advocate

[@aarvind3901]

Hi Neena I agree, I am a lawyer too but my parents just got me married off paying dowry as per groom side demand, I didn’t have the guts at the age of 23

[@vvn5912]

@@aarvind3901 its ok everything is notin our control..don't feel guilty about it ..we learn as we go..awareness is important..

[@vidyaranyavijayapura1121]

These days groom should be put to shame if he keeps silent on demands put by his family during marriage on brides family.Even demand for 3 day marriage in the name of tradition is a shameful thing.

[@ramanipalle-swaraamrutham7229]

Absolutely!

[@pushpakathpal7812]

@@ramanipalle-swaraamrutham7229 This is huge problem that so called parent’s boy an Munna’s are not boys when they are taking dowery. They are worse than animals. Try to be human for the mother who gave you a birth. Our so called society is no longer society that they demand such rules of dowery. It’s a greed. Pure Greed, that has grown in men’s blood. Women have to step up to stop this. Which will change the thinking of so called society.

[@vvn5912]

True sir ...

[@vidyaranyavijayapura1121]

In in of my niece marriage helplessly watching. There is no dowry, but they want! Marriage on 3 days grand scale. Bride family reduced to entertainer as well as sponsors of entertainers for not just groom family.But to their relatives and friends as well!!

[@ramanipalle-swaraamrutham7229]

@@pushpakathpal7812 You're absolutely right, Pushpa ji! And I have already put forward my idea within my family that neither am I going to set up my son for sale, since he is invaluable, not valueless, nor am I going to buy my sons-in-law who also cannot be valued against a sum of money. These are pure relationships that we are going to build with love as the current, not bargains that we decide upon against currency.

[@supriyadev699]

That's how powerful a woman looks ...if she has equal opportunity....👏👏

[@ferozasayyed4987]

In islamic sharia no dowry but inheritence for girls

[@ferozasayyed4987]

@Hikers Himalayas inheritece from parents Halala actually not practised i have not seen any body doing it

[@rupikasrivatsav8232]

@@ferozasayyed4987 Is the inheritance sharing equal between men and women ? I dont think so. It is equal to 1/3 of the men, and through the same sharia, you cannot equal yourself to the men in your own community. And through sharia, there is even more humiliation for a women. So please, dont even start.

[@rupikasrivatsav8232]

@@ferozasayyed4987 however, here she is not following sharia, and thats why she is where she is.

[@ferozasayyed4987]

@@rupikasrivatsav8232 dear Rupika male gets double of female and female get s inhertence from his husband also

[@sailakshmi7626]

If we raise our voice for inheritance then people will say she is not raised properly As a girl

[@sailakshmi7626]

Parents will never take the words if a girl raise a voice bcz they also followed same dowry rule and they will continue that for the rest of their life

[@pritesh0117]

But, that’s exactly what we need to standup against! Demand for your rights!

[@PMcse]

@@sailakshmi7626 Then, take stand for yourself instead of simply cribbing about the wrongdoings. You are also the part of the society. So, bring the change that is needed. All the best !! 👍

[@beautifullife0987]

Being a girl its better to create our own life and then fight legally because these mentality needs a tough fight.... So be it .

[@minniebonnie6781]

You’re right when you talk about inheritance your parents start seeing you as greedy beings out there to rob them. Bollywood culture has also contributed to this paranoia by showing that after distribution of wealth parents are thrown out by their children. Only those children who give up their rights are worthy.

[@harithap1778]

this video need to be dubbed in all regional languages of india

[@triptisharma5121]

Yessss!

[@dontbeafraidimhere5421]

I appreciate you because instead of just 'Hindi' you have added all the "regional languages" 🙏

[@samsaraatiger]

Every language in Asia, actually....

[@ashathomas5913]

I am so proud to say that my husband didn't ask bribes. My daughter too got married to a boy without dowry.We gave her an equal share of our property. We did not demand dowry for our son too.

[@truthwisdom1824]

Your wisdom highly appreciated! Such attitude and action make difference in a way you don’t know!

[@sureshpolali8685]

ASHA THOMAS Madam -- your society , your native place , and your up bringing makes lot of difference -- I have seen even Bride groom side is sharing expenses of marriage day function . Those are all honorable exception and I call them model to this society .

[@sunitaswami4799]

I read news of dowry deaths in local newspaper every second day. And in every case the parents of the lady knew that she was being tortured by her husband and in-laws. But instead of supporting her and taking legal action. The parents asks their daughter to adjust. And at last many such women who are not supported by their parents are forced to suicide or murdered.

[@sunitaswami4799]

Yes.. women shouldn't get married without being financially self-dependent. It is because of lack of education and proper guidance, they start thinking of getting married instead of becoming self-dependent. I think teachers can play a big role in this by telling them why it is important to become self-dependent and how it can save them from domestic violence. Also government should increase marriage age of women to 21.

[@radhikag3291]

@@praveenkumarsilaniya8074 Solution marry only a financial stable man who doesn't obsess over a woman 's paycheck or baby bearing ability. If a woman is leaving the parents house, also earning and doing domestic chores then what extra does man bring to the table is a serious question to ponder about. Not to forget forcing to have kids.

[@suchitradas7442]

I think this kind of parents who cannot see their daughters miseries they just wanted to get rid of their daughter/daughters by marrying them off....they don't care about her wellbeing or whether she will survive that marriage.... If their daughters are murdered by her husband or in-laws that's totally acceptable to them as long as she doesn't die unmarried at her parent's house...

[@vvn5912]

@@radhikag3291 that extra that a man or for the matter a woman would bring to table might be - a companionship n a bond of friendship trust etc..

[@sureshpolali8685]

@@suchitradas7442 What parent can do ? Can Parent call back their married daughter ? will socieity accept that ?.. I have live case where in very close relative was ditched by her husband and she is educated girl -- But she was not prepared to go to Father's home -- Father had decent life with independent house and agriculture land etc.. YET daughter did not go there due to social pressure .. Father carries burdon from the childhood of girl baby and once marriage is done father feels his burdon is over .. Even aftr that if daughter is facing problem at husbands house what do you expect father to do ?. Only solution is No marriage -- No children - Only ZOMOTO and Swiggy ordering throughout life

[@vikastulsi]

Don't take dowry and demand your inheritance. This I agree. But I would go one step further (surely while advising my 2 daughters) : - Marry after you are in a position where you are capable of taking care of yourself. - Have kids when you are capable of partly bringing up that kid as well. Key issue is that girls remain dependent on father or husband or son through their life...

[@satyavathinemani4739]

If girls are given the opportunity equally in her education compared to her brother educated enough and supported by parents until they are independent as they do to their son there is no question of dependence of het on brothers or parents

[@DK.9831]

And why do men depend on women for their food, laundy, cleaning and so many other things. Let me tell you I am self sufficient earning lady and my income is no less than my hubby. My hubby also helps me in household but that is his favour/grace ( एहसान) ... mine earning is duty towards family, his performing household is extra care/ being extra good. If I make a mistake I.e. blunder. His blunders are to be ignored.... as they say to err is human... we need to change mentality, attitude towards women not the system...

[@DK.9831]

I would like to hear your opinion on that too...

[@abcbdr6928]

@@DK.9831 I completely agree on your point. At home chores we aren't allowed to make one mistake, which doesn't even matter really. But when a man does mistake in his business or socially there is no one to call him out or make him accountable.

[@abcbdr6928]

Despite the fact that that would have a huge impact on the family.

[@neetasharma600]

Brilliant talk delivered so carefully that each word is meaningful and precious. Love this lady and her commitment to women's welfare. Bless her.

[@vshah9973]

Her Ted talk brought tears to my eyes.....what an empowering and touching speech ....what an inspiring lady

[@zaaraboothapalli2829]

We are 2 daughters and I was rejected by many only because I upfront told the boy that I am against dowry and would not give a pit.but I assure that I will be contributing myself by working as I have been given a good education. As wished by God I got a perfect better half who respected my decision. So it's the change in us we must bring inspite of parental or societal demands.. and that has to be respected by our parents and others.

[@jessicascoullar3737]

I think that may be the only way to change things, respectable and successful women refusing to marry anyone who asks for a dowry and making it a shameful act that no decent woman will tolerate.

[@vincegowd6690]

Are you going to inheritance your father property? Both are money involved right.

[@ClarityDetermination]

I'm so happy to read this!

[@AlmaSdance]

can't understand what kind of fathers are those who discriminate against their own daughters like this! criminal ones. same situation in my country except for dowry

[@mrnanji1]

how you are brought up/beliefs , when you are uneducated (not degree) in life . its very complex , changes with time. in west it was the same.

[@delmanpronto9374]

preservation of resources down the paternal line. i've seen instances where notwithstanding the love and affection between fathers and daughters, fathers are still reluctant to part with property for their daughters. that said we have also seen the other extreme these days, where women are exploiting men in divorces and reparation payments. education (not degree) is actually very scarce in this day and age. we seem to really struggle walking the path of moderation.

[@AlmaSdance]

@@delmanpronto9374 women are not raised to be independent subjects hence the hesitation of fathers to part with their property. It's a sad world to have half the world on their knees. Patriarchalism sucks and greed and wars are logical consequences of its barbarism

[@bhargaviyathiraj5597]

This used to happen in west as well in UK the inheritance of the father only goes to his elder son

[@priyasindhu5734]

I am one Example of this. Were he wants to stop me to pursue my masters. It is discouraging but teaches you to be strong.

[@madhavinadimpalli1532]

Namaste such a powerful oration ! N she is an achiever an empowered woman who is a beacon of light to the rest!

[@aasthalovesudit]

I wish my brother saw this. My father's and mother's legal will was to divide everything equally, yet my brother did not respect it. Our relatives advised that he is your only relative alive, keep the relationship and forget the money, he will give whatever he can. I feel terrible about all this, even more after watching this video. I don't want to be the weak daughter anymore, the one who's father empowered her.

[@friendlyneighborhoodoreo679]

If your brother loves you enough why does he care about the property. It's sad that money is more important than family to people. You are her only relative too. Why shouldn't he try to save the relation?

[@hayag]

Apply Hindu law Inheritance and fight....you will be married and your brother may need your help

[@aasthalovesudit]

I am an NRI and not sure how it would play out to file a case against him in India. But i will definitely explore my options.

[@nitishab8802]

Same thing happened with my friend. Although she didn't had even a single documents of the property inherited from her parents. Today she won the case in her favour. Truth take time to out but be determined to do it. If the siblings doesn't care to share equally fight for it.

[@ZeeMol6950]

Aastha Sabharwal, I know exactly how you feel. I had a cousin sister who faced the same problem. The brother was so arrogant and insolent that she filed a case against him, and got her share of the family property. I pray your brother changes his mind and gives you what is rightfully yours..🤗

[@DrPadmavathiBhamidipati]

Dear madam, your talk should be a true eye-opener to many in our country, who discriminate against a girl child. Ironically even in the 21st century, a girl is not treated equally to a boy child. I wish all fathers, brothers, mothers take your appeal seriousely.

[@ndsharada2658]

That's true madam .

[@aarvind3901]

I am a victim

[@DrPadmavathiBhamidipati]

I am saddened by your reply Aga Arvind

[@kanakkaradbhajne7105]

@@aarvind3901 expand

[@kanakkaradbhajne7105]

hello mam. i am a boy and i dont care about boy or a girl child,giving birth to a healthy child is what i want...and mam most of the mothers and fathers dont discriminate at homes...many people have both son and daughter but they dont do such things...but discrimination on girl child happens in villages ...done by fools... god bless u mam

[@JayJay-bo5kl]

This lady is gracious and cares for women she doesn't even know how compassion can change the world. I admire her courage and strength and hope my children have the same principles and determination to change the mindsets. The subjects this lady touched are so profound and can mould and direct a woman's future life because injustice in any form is hurtful

[@sreevidhyakeshava3515]

She came to lime light after 4 years of her demise. Grateful that we came across her. Om shanti 🙏

[@nidhiraghuwanshi4862]

The youtube algorithm brought us here ✨✨✨

[@aparnak]

Unfortunately ppl who dont see this are the ones that need the lesson

[@urvashiwakode9515]

💯

[@prithitiny9690]

RIP Good and stern speech.Daughtersm should get the chance to come and stay

[@aparnak]

@@prithitiny9690 I am talking about those Indian father's and mother's who can't understand English and illiterate who need this lesson the most

[@divuirfu]

Its 2021 and I still know alot of people expecting dowry.

[@pushpakathpal7812]

Well May be you should start something to stop such acts. Or spread the word to do so. We are to be blamed by watching such dowery business acts. It’s about time for every women to be taking charge of they life and others. Please help them who needs help. You may be the one who have saved some ones life.

[@divuirfu]

@@pushpakathpal7812 oh thanks for the suggestion. I already did my part. Hope you do your part too!

[@pushpakathpal7812]

@@divuirfu Thanks Divya, yes I continue to do so. Message is not all that easy for, so called people who take advantage of families and women. This a total abuse on the name of so called society.

[@vincegowd6690]

I think Dowry is okay if parents have money because sons gets all the property .

[@reynag.2410]

@@vincegowd6690 ...what

[@soumitasankarkarmakar2591]

I told my grandparents very clearly that I want my mother's share . Though my grandparents are very loving individuals , they have a very old fashioned mindset that only my maternal uncle should inherit everything. But atleast one should raise voice against this ill culture right ?? Now guess what ....my grandparents are totally convinced by me after I explained everything logically to them. Finally the awareness is spreading ! ❤️💫

[@irmar]

If you succeeded in convincing old people to change long-ingrained beliefs, your speaking skills must be great. (Maybe you should become a lawyer?)

[@simarkaur9486]

The brothers who were not giving their sisters legitimate equal right in property today at present what we're those sisters expected from such brothers in future they will help thier sisters I don't think so brothers were not hesitant even one bit to take their sisters right today what help can u expect from such brothers in future I wonder brothers were greedy n sisters were scared afraid n self sacrifial in vain inlaws will do something wrong in future may or may happen who knows for sure but brothers did injustice to their sisters for sure in present time isn't it so

[@happyplease4093]

True....brothers are equally responsible for this...

[@ClarityDetermination]

If your parents shared among all of you for inheritance then it was their will. If sons protest then they can be told they are going against their parents' wishes.

[@purnimatripathi7722]

This ted talk must be viral . Many of us think we know what is right and wrong but when the times come, all cowardice comes to the surface. May Indians have the power and will to do the right thing.

[@gangadin2873]

Realize that she is a judge. She has not heard of the huge pile of inheritance cases in Indian courts - many of them between brothers? Yet she is pretending there are no problems there? Now sisters also have to join court battles. Which is good for her profession - lawyers - but bad for families. Congratulations. You created new problems and didn't fix old problems.

[@sushankumar3921]

@purnimatripathi7722 you are cute❤

[@Reichheaimel26]

I think, the groom should give the bride dowry which should be a security for the girl and her children for any challenges down the lane.

[@PriyaGupta-ge9pm]

This video had literally opened my eyes. Passing down the father's inheritance to their sons sounds okay and fine but when a daughter asks about her share she will become a greedy person who had no shame . This double standards and attitudes had been deeply rooted in our mind and you can easily understand it by the live example mentioned in the video.And now it's high time to talk about our rights without holding back anymore..

[@varshamittal5417]

Just today i am discussing same with my brother,about my share in the property,he was looking like i was joking but i am not i am serious,he also looking like i am greedy

[@sureshpolali8685]

Solution for sharing inheritance -is having only one Child or not getting married - This sharing business will never find its satisfactory level and there is nothing called equitable and just behavior by parents etc.. Parent perceive what is right they do it.

[@deeptirana9976]

When she said brothers can share their father's property happily with their brother but not with their sister it shattered me.

[@ClarityDetermination]

Perhaps you just never allowed yourself to say it out loud.

[@gangadin2873]

Or perhaps you have never been to a civil court to hear cases of inheritance between brothers. which is fine. Most people don't. But what is the excuse of this "judge" to not know such simple fact? OR maybe she is just saying things she knows are not true just to push a particular narrative.

[@ClarityDetermination]

@@gangadin2873 of course these are not absolutes. I think you know that the judge is aware of court cases between brothers.

[@brendabendigo27]

Everyday I learn something new. I hope the new generation break that habit , we are living in a new world. Let us educate, educate & educate It will make a difference.

[@urmilap101]

Good point, we need to educate them and bring awareness.I didn't get any inheritance more dowry was paid. Forced marriage which ended up in divorce. parents distance me the day after my marriage. I like to inspire women through my book Mila Rising, if I can make it, you can too!

[@mohammedsharooq3265]

As the new youth of India ..we support your views and insights and we shall not repeat the injustice which was done to our ancestors. Jai Hind.

[@mbangroo]

💪💪

[@garimakilledar5810]

I smiled while reading your comment. There is hope.. 😊

[@ramenomirice2767]

Islam is even worst

[@samsaraatiger]

Yes. I believe in this generation and the new youth of India.

[@samsaraatiger]

@@ramenomirice2767 He is correct, why bring his religion into this? This is the reason Muslims are hated across India. STOP.

[@ittichiri]

It's so sad to see so many dowry deaths in Kerala in 2021!! The current Kerala Governer, Arif Mohammad Khan has demanded that parents sign an anti-dowry bond while admitting their children to college and only by showing this bond can the student get passing away certificate from universities on completion of course👏

[@Poojachauhan54236]

This grace and persona of a lady is very hard to find these days ! Absolutely wonderful speech here :)

[@ClarityDetermination]

??

[@amo7348]

My mother didn't get a penny . Her father died and her two brothers took all the property with out informing her and the most painful part is that her mother took the side of her brothers . My mother never fought for it

[@miniaturecreature]

Same

[@vaishnavipotdar2560]

Same

[@aarvind3901]

Same

[@plum_loco]

If she did not fight for it, then there is not much anyone can do. Obviously neither her mother nor her brothers loved her enough to do the right thing. Let's hope all you daughters whose mothers did not fight for a share, fight for yours if and when your fathers die without a will.

[@ndsharada2658]

Parents should give property equally to their children . Son or daughter .

[@RS-yz4is]

Shamelessly still many educated people give and take dowry. Don’t know why anyone wants to have such marriage ..

[@ArchanaKumari-oo4lh]

One of the best speeches I have ever heard . She has the ability to persuade masses with her speech .

[@priyas7257]

I just want to mention that her reference to a 'suitable boy' at 4:11 was a pun which many in the audience seemed to miss. Not to mention, a great personality and way ahead of her time.

[@abcbdr6928]

What pun?

[@priyas7257]

@@abcbdr6928 Her son authored a novel by the name 'A Suitable Boy'.

[@triggermet]

It's difficult to demand inheritance from your own father. My dad didn't give any dowry but neither any inheritance. But I created my own inheritance..bought my own house with education he gave me...

[@mimis.5139]

It's like bare minimum he did for u... You were his daughter not a foster kid

[@Vk-bw9cv]

It was his responsibility, he had to do it even if you were male. Don't get much sentimental when you don't get anything.

[@kshigupta6827]

🎻THE HINDU SUCCESSION ACT-- 1956 🎻 THE DOWRY ACT-- 1961 Really ma'am I've no words after your words... Bcoz your each and every word is just heart touching ❤️

[@RAlishaSMECS]

Leila seth's mother is the reason why Madam is on the stage now motivating us

[@elva136]

Daughters are third class citizens only for show and prop to show for a family as openminded. They have no self respect once they become of marriagable age as they are coerced into marrying a well off family and take care of them. No acknowledgement of the Daughters within the family nor their careers nor anything. Still wondering why my parents birthed me, they never tell the truth but I know it was social pressure to have a daughter and they did and now don't have the guts to admit that they are ashamed of me. They tried their best to get me married but I did not want to and now they have openly declared all their wealth to be given to my brother so that he can purchase a house for himself. I feel like a dustbin in my own house. 😅

[@neelamrani12]

No you don't have to feel like this...the people around you probably do this in order to make you feel like this..but at the end you have to make yourself stand and fight against the odds..🍃🤍

[@shatakshipandey8014]

get yourself a career sis its usual for sons to inherit all the wealth of the house while the daughter is married off to a well off family

[@elva136]

@@neelamrani12 Thank you sister. Means a lot.

[@elva136]

@@shatakshipandey8014 I do have a career sis. I am earning as much as my brother is. But he gets the shorter end of the stick because he is the male. That's what bothers me. My parents are aware that I can take care of myself financially and am doing well. That's why it hurts more when they still discriminate.

[@shatakshipandey8014]

@@elva136 oh that hurts me too that whilst having equivalent carriers males have the benifit when it comes to inheritance its usually because of the legacy sons carry whilst the daughter is supposed to support another person's legacy , but still dads should give their daughters atleast some inheritance that she can flaunt saying its her maternal family's legacy

[@white_rabbitt7111]

Its saddens me that women are going through this today. Still being treated less than equal to men.

[@tmprasadtm5148]

Son is a son till he gets a wife... Daughter is a daughter all her life 👍

[@ClarityDetermination]

Each person can begin to change that ... just a little at a time.

[@gopisettykalyani]

No words to say 👏👏👏👏 But only one thing is distrubing me through out her (long) speech, she is standing. At the age of 80+ they could have given chair for her while giving speech.

[@ginamann225]

I agree but she is a strong woman

[@rahnuma11]

She probably refused one because she is a strong and proud woman!!!!

[@DivyaAgarwalDb105]

Healthy and happy ageing - active

[@mitsioupp]

Why is no one talking on how she so perfectly alluded to her son's (Vikram Seth) novel A Suitable Boy in her speech. 👏

[@vaisha1i]

Because there are FAR more important things to be talked about than just a mere allude to her son's book.😇

[@tushitatravel2710]

@@vaisha1i so true

[@charu2774]

Damn! I had no idea that Vikram Seth is her son. The whole family is dope

[@hessu3]

Very inspiring to listen to this brave woman. I am from middle Europe and here we women are so lucky for having achieved almost total equality to men. But this was a long and difficult process. I am so proud of and so thankful to all the women who were tough and stood up against society and managed their own way. The most difficult process is probably to stand up against other women and own relatives. Best regards to India 🌻

[@sudeshnamukherjee3685]

Please also read her autobiography -on balance ,changed my life.

[@geetad4068]

What is her name?

[@sudeshnamukherjee3685]

@@geetad4068 Leila Seth

[@annapurna.k5877]

How it helped you may I know bcz even am looking for a change in my life.

[@gyanagayatry1934]

Mam you are my role model... Every lawyer woman gets inspired by you....lots of love, respect and salute

[@ClarityDetermination]

Ok now carry her torch forward.

[@mirashah7245]

How can we take such talks to the rural areas where they can bring about change. These talks should be dubbed into local Indian languages.

[@urmilap101]

Good point but before bringing these talks to the rural areas, we need to first educate them and get the awareness of where the world i=is moving to. My book Mila rising tells, why my mother tried to kill me.

[@drmerine]

This is the root of all injustice to women in our country. Wish this presentation becomes the most talked about and brings about real change for all communities.

[@beingmealways8563]

I can't express my feelings after listening to her...I don't know how this video got recommended....but her words are pure gold. I could feel the truth in every word of hers. My sister who was married 2.5 year ago. My father spent almost 35 lacs in her marriage...bt still she was not happy n now has filed for divorce. Spending money n giving dowry doesn't ensure that ur daughter would be happy. My parents n my family ...we support her. She's still studying...doing different courses. My father took so many loans and debts for her marriage. Now we are financially unstable.Still he's spending so much on her,my n my brother's education .... Taking debts...so that we can stand on our own feets. I know after a year or 2 we will be financially good. Educate your daughters please.... If they are educated enough you can stand against dowry. I won't give dowry....neither would my brother take one. These small steps taken by every individual would change the society slowly.let the change begin from us.🙏

[@gangadin2873]

"Spending money n giving dowry doesn't ensure that ur daughter would be happy." Absolutely true. You have to have a good mindset to be happy. Unfortunately too many parents today are thinking that being financially stable is happiness too and are using their daughters to provide additional income to themselves.

[@1102Noob]

This lady is so enchanting

[@vinniethebee479]

As Raja Ram mohan roy said, that the main cause of backward status of women is lack of property rights and inheritance

[@BaneCodes]

@@Shashank-bp7xr lol

[@ritu1100]

Leila Seth is a legend !! We need more path breaking women in India like her !! INSPIRATIONAL & MOTIVATIONAL🙏🙏

[@expressionsunlimited9393]

We, five sisters, are so proud that our parents raised us like, what they would have done if they had sons. Thanks ma'am, so well said attitude change is the main thing.😔🙏🙏

[@expressionsunlimited9393]

Thanks 🙏

[@mbords01]

"Be legal; not illegal" Judge Leila Seth, inspiring indeed; so much so I cry to tears. Whoever thought a soft spoken, with such disarming manner has a motivation/will as strong as steel for the good of us women....I am sure men get benefits of her sense of equality too.

[@user-ey2qv1xk9u]

My uncle (dad’s brother) tried to force my mother to give up her share of the property when my dad passed away. My mother stood her ground. I am so proud of her. Clearly no one was around to support her. And today the same moochers try to milk out of her whatever they can when they can.

[@ClarityDetermination]

Please tell her good wishes from Canada. I'm glad she showed you what she did.

[@summerday3172]

That happens in the USA, too. My own brother tried to coerce my father to change his will and trust after our mother died...until I stood up for myself and my sister.

[@sindhu16.7]

"Inheritance, not dowry." What about parents debts and their responsibility? is it taken by only sons?? Girls should not only get assets, also should share parents responsibility and liabilities equally.

[@madhutalaari]

I think when inheritance is equally shared by all siblings irrespective of gender, then parent's loans and responsibilities must be shared equally, that is a natural thing..

[@nityah6815]

Agreed, will the womans husband agree to it? This parayadhan nonsense is propagated by in laws as well and sometimes demand preferential treatment

[@priyankask6814]

Ya exactly 👍

[@marydivya3696]

Yes,treat son and daughter as equal,let them earn on their own.i am seeing my colleague who took loans to marry off his 3 sisters,spend during each delivery and dowry as a maternal uncle....with no inheritance or asset from his parents...all burden is put on son's shoulder....

[@kshitijasawkar1961]

Yea they should and they do it

[@kezangpenjor4849]

Wow, truly inspiring! Is it any wonder that her son is Vikram Seth, writer extraordinaire?

[@ssharma876]

Amazing, we need women leader like her in our society.

[@ClarityDetermination]

We also need you to follow her to make a difference for everyone.

[@ketulmakwana3345]

The orginal dowry system was about inheritance only. It was a way to give daughters their share of their father's property when they get married. Unfortunately, the system got corrupted.

[@chinmayeerandive7617]

I think there's a lot of difference between giving the daughter gold ornaments and the son getting acres of land!

[@sulekhag]

@@chinmayeerandive7617 it was about movable and immovable assets or those that could be carried with her to her in-law’s place which may be a different village or town. But some changes should have been made with the times.

[@chinmayeerandive7617]

@@sulekhag You're right... But I think it's also about fair distribution. And dowry system has been an awful practice since it began. Also, in most cases, dowry was not given by the father. It was the mother's 'stree dhan' that was passed onwards (as mam rightly said in the video above).

[@kavishwarmokal124]

@Ketul Makwana .. Rightly said.

[@vincegowd6690]

@@chinmayeerandive7617 what is the difference between Dowry and Inheritance? Both money involved right.

[@chinmayeeshenvi3708]

"Inheritance, not dowry!"

[@tanayatupe4973]

I feel there should be an equal transaction from both the families for a good going wedding.. only if this really does happen life would be much more easier for the bride and her parents ❣️

[@tejashreeketkar8111]

By dxc cvmmnb. Looo_&__

[@rishabh3920]

RIP Mam. This was such an enchanting speech. Loved it.

[@shilpisaha4151]

Such a wonderful speech,it goes not only to brain but at the end to heart.

[@nidhiraghuwanshi4862]

Mam gives Professor Minerva Macgonagall vibes 🙌🙌✨✨

[@harshitrathi6765]

Honorable ma'am and every respected citizen of India, it's bad to hear the bitter truth of the way we discharge our duties towards the nation. We can't deny the fact that every person would move the way we want, as spoken earlier. But what we can do is to create opportunities for the needful. I came up with a twin benefit strategy for our motherland. Instead of reserving jobs on basis of casts, why don't we do the same on the basis of gender, i. e. reserving equal or one-third jobs for each gender so that every single Indian can progress from every background. It is humble request that this simple notion reaches to the mass at large so that it can be implemented sooner. Hoping for the best toward our nation. Jai Hind!🙏🏻

[@ClarityDetermination]

Isn't cast system illegal as well?

[@drjayabharathithangaraj6903]

Not only Women empowering moves and laws, it's the total mindset that needs change, rightly as Mrs Seth has put it, fast-forward the change, else this huge patriarchal society would crush thousands and lakhs by its dominance 😔 Nice talk madam, thanks

[@ClarityDetermination]

Ok now carry the torch forward ...

[@meghamathew2914]

Wonderful.... she is an example of never judge a book by its cover. Also She's one of the luckiest... Bcoz some people even if they don't demand dowry they treat daughter in law as if they own her or bought her. So people in India can't be predicted according to their not demanding a dowry attitude.

[@preetipanda4548]

I just married for six months with no dowry system n my inlaws are caring me just like a kid I'm so much lucky n my husband loves me the most

[@kshitijakhangte5274]

Highly inspired 💯. Madam's knowledge, grit and elegance is an awareness in itself. A perfect example of a Beautiful Woman.🙏💐

[@aditiakut7972]

Very true, girls just want equal status and they prove how much they can do for both the families. From childhood itself we should treat girl with respect and dignity. Allow and involve her in making decisions for family and herself, and see how much she will care for you in your old age.

[@celesteinman56]

About 10 years ago a news broadcast or special on tv showed a poor poor young woman who was a beautiful young Indian woman. She burned 3 percent of her body except for her nose and upper face. Her husband did it to her, her dowery was rejected by him because it wasn't enough. I have never forgotten it. The poor girl died from her infection of the burns.

[@pallavimundhe4744]

One of most heartouching yet reality check to society and an inspiration to me

[@kanikasikligar5254]

This is what I expect from a TED Talk; : impactful .... Put it just how it needs to be heard.

[@sandipagrawaltalks]

Amazing, we need women leader like her in our society.

[@jayavarthinijothi997]

Inheritance being emphasised & explained articulately without biasness towards any gender . Loved how she carefully chose words to put the matter in front and make us all sit, listen, think and take action against dowry and injustice in inheritance sharing .

[@ndsharada2658]

Very NICE .

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[@kratijain]

Amazing talk!! Just worried - How will most of India understand when they don’t understand English.. Wish this was in Hindi

[@blackyatchp6630]

Equality means equal rights AND EQUAL LIABILITIES. If inheritance must be split 50-50 between sons and daughters, then debts and liabilities should also be split 50-50. Demanding equal rights without equal responsibilities is privilege, not equality. Of course, daughters who are willing to accept equal responsibilities should have the same rights as sons... But what if the daughter voluntarily refuses equal responsibility? In those cases, why should she be given equal rights as sons?

[@Mhojito53]

Omg the whatabout-ery in this comment. This is like saying " the law should be more strict about medical insurance for old people but what about that old man who cheats? " 🤦🏻‍♀️ This isn't even ABOUT the law, dude. The law technically has equal property rights for both- it's about how families DON'T let that law be implemented.

[@BaneCodes]

@@Mhojito53 use your Neurons in ur brain and read what he wrote! u will surely get it! just read the 1st sentence

[@reynag.2410]

Yes. And this goes both ways. The daughter can dent responsibility and still inherit a part of the property just like the son can deny his responsibilities and still inherit property.

[@tayatrisha11]

Well daughters are ready to take equal responsibility as well but only if she was given a chance to prove her abilities... my father has 3 kids, 2 daughters and a 'younger' son, he went on to spend more than 2 crores on his education from most reputed foreign private universities, will give all his inheritance to him.. me and my sister have mangaed to crack clat and neet from general cat without coaching but still we are not trusted... i graduated law school last year and when i went on to assert the rights he politely dismissed me saying that i and my sister dont belong and carry their name, we both are expected to be selfless and be happy for our brother which we are buf the ignorance of his is what hurts me the most... The question you potrayed in the end only signifies the presumption that daughters will take the property and run away or that she will definitely refuse to share the responsiblities.. my point is there are numerous cases still where sons voluntarily and expressly betray the parents after taking the inheritance but are still trusted, then why are you so scared to trust the women?

[@Mhojito53]

@@BaneCodes Aww, personal insults are the best most logical arguments yay

[@prakriti217]

She is such an inspiration to all ..RIP such a great soul 🙏🙏🙏 After hearing this...i feel really lucky...i am a single girl child of my parents...yet my parents never raised me under any kind of stereotype...and they support me in every way they can so that i may study well and succeed in my life...my parents say that I am their fixed investment 😅😅 and that i would fulfill all their wishes they have...and i would surely do it....!!! Many of our neighbours used to ask my mother what would you do after she is married...you dont have a son....then my mother used to tell them that 'i dont care if i dont have a son...my daughter will take care of me'....and my parents always tell me.... achieve ur dream and show the world what a girl can do..... I AM SO LUCKY...I AM PROUD OF MY PARENTS.... 😍

[@RamyashreeBECOMEAFINISHER]

Same story here

[@darshanashetty3467]

My mother took care of her ailing mother on her own and my father supported her. Her brother only visited our house when she died to take care of her last rites. Better to not have sons if they are like my uncle.

[@indiangirlypiano8431]

not only NorthEast even Buddhist families don't have dowry system...as I'm myself Buddhist and I live in west India