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@tracydavis148 Жыл бұрын
No Dating... and I have been Able to Sift and Sort My Connectionss ... I have another System, based on Biblical Principles.
@abe_nat3358 Жыл бұрын
helo ave one all arownd the woled pless help me i jest need 1000$ to serviev to my life am singl mom pless hel me God bles all
@מלי-ש4ג Жыл бұрын
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@maggywairimu8122 Жыл бұрын
@@tracydavis148❤❤😊
@maggywairimu8122 Жыл бұрын
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@dimarisortiz Жыл бұрын
“The man who is healthy, is looking to serve. The man who is toxic is looking to be served.” This! This hit my soul so hard. Dealing with a man who only wanted to be served, it was the most draining experience. I just thank God for bringing me out.
@BaKheru Жыл бұрын
I would modify it slightly and say, A healthy individual can serve while allowing others to serve him. There has to be balance. Too much serving is just a toxic as too much taking. Love is unconditional; Relationships are not. Relationships are a delicate dance of give and take on both sides.
@ashtonjmonroe6030 Жыл бұрын
Yessss🤦🏾♀️ then when you question why they arent pouring into you it becomes a problem
@blessedchildofgod9112 Жыл бұрын
exactly
@sanders4911 Жыл бұрын
Amen Amen and Amen
@honesty.integrity.respect Жыл бұрын
This hit me hard as well! I had to turn the focus of who I am... Shadow work.. digging deep into my childhood and the abuse and coming out the other end following the important investment I made investing in myself and self LOVE! 🙏💖
@ChosenDulce Жыл бұрын
Wait… wait! 🗣️ “A man who is healthy is looking to be of service. A man who is toxic is looking to be served.” 😮💨🎯💯🙌🏽💎💎💎 That part alone! 🔥
@bobbybluebuckets89379 ай бұрын
A heathy person*** is looking to be of service. A person who is toxic is looking to only be served.
@taghazoutmoon50318 ай бұрын
my ex literally would ask me "what do you have to give to me? what do you give me?". he was living with me and driving my car. when i kicked him out and didn't let him borrow the car, he broke up.
@gracesofGod6 ай бұрын
So the non toxic behavior is for both to build a table and service one another. We must teach the children how to build tables and serve one another! We all build together and bring what we all want and need to said table!💯
@annettescroggins3905Ай бұрын
Smart man😅
@b.w3057 Жыл бұрын
Don't compromise in your core beliefs. He was spot on with that statement.
@livelifewthanks5684 Жыл бұрын
True!!❤
@prismonthethehorizon5793 Жыл бұрын
100% 🔥🔥
@ronaldcoleman1688 Жыл бұрын
True, just wish he was asked to elaborate on core beliefs.
@dorothymatthews6690 Жыл бұрын
Yes, so true because your core values are the core of who you truly are. Don't settle or compromise your core values, or you will be miserable and are soon divorced. Oil and water don't mix. You need more than love. I'm a witness!
@livelifewthanks5684 Жыл бұрын
@@ronaldcoleman1688 core beliefs: values your inner self knows better to keep and respecting them: always no matter who comes your way. You won’t give up on those core values; (sets of lessons learned or wisdom shared with you or that you may have observed and liked) that you have found defining who you are growing to be like, your beliefs are backed up by proofs that it’s working… and sincerely committing to keep them.
@largmargeuryferg4736 Жыл бұрын
"love is not enough to overcome differences and CORE beliefs" yes!!! Amen! Recognize! Truth! Fundamentals❤
@maryihezie1190 Жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@kevapickens3955 Жыл бұрын
That is such a profound statement.
@kazkazzie3906 Жыл бұрын
Wow! That is a powerful statement.
@nikkyshamz2696 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@ojala5555 Жыл бұрын
But first: how can you fall in love with someone whose core beliefs are completely different from yours? What is it that you think you love about another person when you two are so different on a basic level? In this case it cannot be love at all, but only attraction 🤷♀️. Learn the difference between love and attraction first!
@donnajojean3217 Жыл бұрын
Faith based people MUST have a partner who has the same values. Agreed.❤❤❤
@shontasmith9362 Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@venuselectrificata Жыл бұрын
Yes I’m agnostic and when i was on my quest for finding a partner i met my husband who is also agnostic ❤ it was important to me to not involve myself with a religious person
@florencebowden3980 Жыл бұрын
❤HALLELIJAH
@florencebowden3980 Жыл бұрын
A TRUE FACT!!!
@victoriamakhmaltchi3177 Жыл бұрын
I was amazed at fake Christian men,using faith to victimize ladies of pure faith
@fabianafran927 Жыл бұрын
"Instead of looking for love, be ready to receive it". I´ve always believed in this! We live in a world of vibration and attraction. 👏
@emanuelandvictoriasasmr70384 ай бұрын
Amen. Let God bring it to you
@elenarotestan5823 Жыл бұрын
This entire interview goes to show how important clear and active communication is in relationships. Do not expect your partner to guess your wants and needs.
@taghazoutmoon50318 ай бұрын
you can tell them what you want. they still won't listen or apply it or even purposely do the opposite to spite you.
@lorebay25933 ай бұрын
@@taghazoutmoon5031 Humm…narc vibes, plan, move on, no return address.
@asteriamoon1817 Жыл бұрын
Always listen to your gut. Don't allow anyone to cross your boundaries and if they do, I hope you have the strength to walk away. Get to know yourself, spend time alone, heal, work on yourself and then everything else falls into place. We are always growing and learning.
@Lifeofadognow Жыл бұрын
Yeah but doing Something will make Fall it into place. But i am avoiding ahhh
@maceyr.6583 Жыл бұрын
It's so hard. 😢
@asteriamoon1817 Жыл бұрын
@@maceyr.6583 it's the hardest. The older you get, the less bullshit you tolerate.
@noneofyourbuizness Жыл бұрын
@@asteriamoon1817that why as a woman I could wait to get older. Nearly 30 and my mindset start to change . I love who I am becoming mentally
@asteriamoon1817 Жыл бұрын
@@noneofyourbuizness me too. I'm 37 and I finally know who I am and I don't tolerate disrespect anymore. I walk away
@coreenacorbett9576 Жыл бұрын
To hear a man openly say he’s working on himself and not passing blame on any past mistakes but learning and evolving through the pain and using the wisdom gained from the pain to evolve into his truer nature and character is incredibly inspiring, amazing interview on core beliefs and not compromising who we are to obtained the relationships and connections we feel we need to be whole and validate our existence. 🙏🏽👍🏽
@vitalinsights4112 ай бұрын
Respect
@q_d9264 Жыл бұрын
I'm proud of him. He's doing the work.
@TerriCason Жыл бұрын
He is going to find his Queen!
@annettescroggins3905Ай бұрын
Yes. So proud..smart man 😊
@annettescroggins3905Ай бұрын
It sounds like he is on the hunt again 😅
@trinjuwan4422 Жыл бұрын
I've often shared this message with women in my circle..when a man approaches you attempting to date you (& there is mutual attraction) the discovery phase starts upon him opening his mouth. As soon as his language does not align with your standards/core beliefs(assuming you have them bcuz you know your worth) dont proceed any further. The short term lust & excitement/good time being offered is not worth the wasted time & 💔ache you will experience when the 🔥 goes out.😢
@joycefuraha640311 ай бұрын
Very true..my story as it is now
@sunnyhunn93154 ай бұрын
I’ve NEVERRR heard such truer words.
@dannigirll Жыл бұрын
God is using this man!! God is going to connect him to his forever partner, because he has learned so much through his past relationship. I respect him for truly being intentional and doing the work!! I’m on the same journey as him! You gotta love you first, work on yourself and be willing to receive when GOD shows us our partner. I’m excited for what GOD is going to do, because I believe I’m worthy to have the BEST!! 🙏🏽
@TubeYouInger Жыл бұрын
Same here. Aho! ❤❤❤
@stephaniecespedes5959 Жыл бұрын
I’ve met someone who needs work done on himself, inner work, shadow work. Needs to love himself and work in his traumas… he doesn’t see nor understand this. I maybe came into his life to show him this, for he has hurt me and disrespected me emotionally and I’ve called it quits because I simply cannot be in a place where my feelings are dismissed. I adore him but I’ve only been stressed and feel like I’m just counseling him. And it’s draining
@letsbefruitful545710 ай бұрын
Amen 🙌🏾
@angiepie44364 ай бұрын
@@stephaniecespedes5959he is a narcissist and will never change..if they don't care about your feelings...you haven't lost him. You gained.😮
@slingeerulz2 ай бұрын
13:00 Therapy, life coaching, reading, journaling, praying, meditation, watching sermons.... doing the work💯
@mocouzens95 Жыл бұрын
I SO needed to hear this!!! Being a woman with 28 years of sobriety & unfortunately a few divorces.....I have tried to date social drinkers & even marry one & it doesn't work for me. I am healed from my past, I have worked on myself for all those years of sobriety. I just needed the reminder that my sobriety & positivity IS a lifestyle & a core belief & I NEED that in a partner! Thank you!
@Laura-gx9jr11 ай бұрын
The healthiness of this man is outrageously attractive.
@annettescroggins3905Ай бұрын
Yes. Smart too
@nomandlambanjwa389 ай бұрын
I agree about understanding and not compromising on core beliefs. These cannot be ignored despite how you feel about the person
@legacybuilders5557 Жыл бұрын
Devon's spiritual maturity is so attractive. God bless him and his purpose🙏
@kednalejulus8771 Жыл бұрын
I like this version of Devon. You can tell he has done the work and he's in a place of peace, love, transparency and healthy.
@hggirl Жыл бұрын
Taking time to rebuildi my self-esteem and self-ide😮ntity, post divorce, has been one of the most profound and important chapters of my life. At first, it was dark and painful. Now, three years later, lots of counseling, meditation, writing, embracing sobriety, embracing a Higher Power and changing what I eat, my Self and world have entirely changed for the better. DeVon's share is awesome .
@chaniawillow Жыл бұрын
''Doing the work on me!!'' Yes!! I totally receive this message. Feeling worthy enough to set standards and communicate them clearly with kindness.
@thebestone11-r9y4 ай бұрын
There is a book called Casanova optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, It's the real deal
@mwapek Жыл бұрын
I'm currently going through a tragic breakup and dealing with severe heartbreak. It's been a week now and this entire interview is healing me. DeVon's experiences and advice, man he was calling me OUT!!! But definitely words I needed to hear. Loved every bit of this interview.
@brittakawinga7257 Жыл бұрын
Can relate as well, been three weeks. And this time, I am going to work on me. I still believe in love and am ready to receive it in the way that I give it. Am going to give healthy love and receive it healthy.
@tru_kru_bahbee246 ай бұрын
Yess!!! My divine creator is so magnificent and endearing.. to place this video in my path when I needed it the most. Wow..how beautiful is the life? To know that we will ALWAYS be loved and supported regardless of what may be happening in front of us. God always have our backs, we just have to believe ❤.
@maryihezie1190 Жыл бұрын
I love how Devon Franklin truly knows himself, his core values, and is self-assured. I admire that he doesn't do things just to fit into the culture. I can imagine there are plenty of women aligned with his core beliefs and values. He will find that special woman ;) ❤
@cwhite8860 Жыл бұрын
I'm not sure how people are so QUICK to be back in the "Dating Streets" without spending time HEALING! HEALing is process!
@smartkookie7 ай бұрын
Healing is similar to grief. You can't tell someone how long they should take to heal.
@cwhite88607 ай бұрын
@smartkookie Define healing? No grief and healing are 2 different processes. There's griefing first THEN comes the healing process. Research it, and if you haven't experienced it, you might not understand. Be blessed.
@leannwiederanders1844 Жыл бұрын
WOW Lisa, please know I actually stopped in my tracks when you said “Oftentimes in relationships we abandon ourselves” I’ve most of my life felt Abandoned, therefore “abandonment issues” It only came in loud & clear to me (your words being the impetus) I’ve abandoned myself. Enough of that shit!!!! 🫢😆 Onward in a healthy way!!’ ❤ Thanks for being you Lisa. ✌🏻🙌🏻💓✨💫
@attorneyyaidaford11 ай бұрын
The question “What do people do when they are hungry?” WOW!!!!!!!
@AthifaMohamed4 ай бұрын
Yaa. That hit hard.
@yvonnemcfarland339711 ай бұрын
Wow, he said some of the same things Dr Cindy Trimm said, boundaries and self prospective, a must! Work on self, it is a constant journey. Learn from your mistakes.
@DEEDEE-gw7hl Жыл бұрын
“Everything is working together for my good!” 🙏🏼
@annettescroggins3905Ай бұрын
Yes
@porschelehman4986 Жыл бұрын
This is what I needed to here.... I'm about to finalize my divorce. I'm a woman of God and to find someone that's on my same level or having the same core values seems hard. I have found that men say they are living for God but that really not everyone that says there a "Christian" there not. My faith is my everything and doing God's will. I'm loving myself and I'm worthy to have my standards. I love taking a stand for standards and feeling worthy. Devon is so real with this.... I can relate.... The pain I have experienced I will help other women. By listening to this has help me and inspired me. Keep shining Devon!!!!❤️ Our testimony is powerful!!!! You're helping many!!!!!
@jamelbryantbishop Жыл бұрын
Pain brings a lot of clarity…. If you let it❤❤❤❤
@joycefuraha640311 ай бұрын
Instead of looking for love,be ready to receive it...beautiful piece from Devon.. 😍🙌🙌
@phyllissimpson2078 Жыл бұрын
Don't compromise, I am worthy, evaluate. Amen
@shellyanncunningham36069 ай бұрын
That's so true 😮 toxic men wants to be served, they only see what you can do for them but healthy men wants to be of service to you they try to see what they can do for you
@charlottembabazi6757Ай бұрын
Lisa, I love how you let your guests speak without interrupting them. Thank you for doing that
@florettelavia3537 Жыл бұрын
Love listening to Devon for his wisdom, transparency, truth He is so inspiring. God bless you Devon!
@JocobsComments Жыл бұрын
I really feel bad for this dude. He really wanted and worked hard for that relationship. Glad he is moving forward and rebuilding. Stay strong bro.
@Nature-w4k Жыл бұрын
“Sorry for him”. He is strong in his faith, his beliefs, seems like a wonderful, intelligent man. Envy should be more like it. He’s an upright man!
@lavenderangel2655 Жыл бұрын
Right, and she and he worked hard to determine they were not a match and that is not a loss, it just brings them closer to the right one. That is a blessing!
@JocobsComments Жыл бұрын
@@lavenderangel2655 I can't argue with that. Same with my relationship.
@Vv-fl2rm Жыл бұрын
“He really worked hard for that relationship” 🤡🎪😂 and of-course you know this because you know him personally?
@JocobsComments Жыл бұрын
@@Vv-fl2rm “You know a man by his work”. A tree bears it’s own fruit whether it’s good or bad. Judge a tree by its fruit.
@JocobsComments Жыл бұрын
Lisa hands down this was the best interview I have seen. And watched it twice already. I have been critical of some of your guests. Much respect here.
@mozartrn1 Жыл бұрын
I agree fully with you. Absolutely priceless!
@karenreategui4753 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! Best guest ever, best interview ever!
@jaqualenephasha Жыл бұрын
"Love is not enough to overcome Differences and Core beliefs" 😅😊
@dulcemaria22120 Жыл бұрын
I love Devon Franklin. I always learn so much from listening to his interviews. Especially the scarcity mindset discussion.
@tjenkins76 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽 he is sharp and Beautiful and this is my first time ever hearing him and it definitely want be my last as I will be a Fan for Many Years!! Thank you 🙏🏽 for Sharing!!
@evaslife-vlog454 Жыл бұрын
Dang this Man is a mountain and volume of inspiring self realization. He is raw in his teaching. It takes experiencing “it”to present “it” to this extent. ❤
@loveislight7486 Жыл бұрын
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve said Amen throughout this interview. 😊 What a blessing you are to us Devon and Lisa! ❤
@celiaspringle4444 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness Devon just broke down my entire healing journey. He just articulated EVERYTHING I’ve been trying to put into words for the past 10 years of healing. Thank YOUUUU Your show is always soooo good Love you Love Devon Keep the impact coming👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@missadug Жыл бұрын
Devon seems like a really down to earth common sense person. I'd just like to sit down and have a conversation with him about life.
@MM-cl9zf Жыл бұрын
I love his message! I have been following his one of one series and it has changed my life! We have been taught wrong all our lives and it shows in society. Needing validation from the opposite sex is not it! Loving yourself and knowing what you want and need is crucial and non negotiable. I am really appreciative of him sharing his message and journey it is really helping ppl thru a lot. ❤
@TejubescDM Жыл бұрын
Yeah. And women are taught to squeeze into whatever is expected from us instead knowing ourselves and our values. It's better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you are not. As a recovering ppl pleaser I remind this myself daily.
@tjenkins76 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽
@Acpacer Жыл бұрын
Just went through my journey of healing and knowing my self worth. God put me in isolation for 7 months till I understood myself and what I want and what I won’t except! To love me first and to be happy with self! No one can make you happy. You must get with like minded people.
@propertiesbymarisol3 ай бұрын
This is SO true!! If you are not aligned it ain't going anywhere!!
@treatubotanical7459 Жыл бұрын
Devon be dropping some very important gems right here. Beautiful session
@mariea227710 ай бұрын
Wow what a powerful statement “most people are not seen they are projected‼️”
@kelliprice389 Жыл бұрын
These are things I’ve been learning in the last 8 months thru watching sermons. I have changed so much for the better. I have less now but I am so happy especially with myself. I love me, I love my own friendship. I’m happy just being me. I’m not desperate and it’s so nice to say I’m sure you are a great person but you are not for me. And then go out to eat or to a movie right by myself. I even go on vacation with me.
@dorothymatthews6690 Жыл бұрын
Powerful! So wonderful to see his growth! He finally got it right! When people show you who they are the first time, believe them. Thats your compass and guide! Thank you Devon! Your interview confirmed alot of the situations I'm going through in my life! What I've learned from this podcast is that compatability and core values are key to a lasting relationship! Powerful Devon! I salute you Sir!
@ru1431 Жыл бұрын
Listening to him speak. I don’t even understand why the marriage didn’t work out. He has such a hood head on his shoulders. Great points
@lolitaramsey55956 күн бұрын
It was the core values. They didn’t have the same core values
@nikkyjackson6500 Жыл бұрын
I need to listen to this. Glad I came across his interview, everything He said was spot on 💯. I realized I was thirsty to keep up with BS from low vibrational Men even though I created healthy boundaries but it was hard to let go. I deeply want to connect with someone special so we can bond together however, I’ve been ghosted and gaslighted many times. This past week was my last straw because I chose my happiness over the fantasy of who they are not. Thank you so much for sharing your story I can relate 💯💯
@productofaprayingmom Жыл бұрын
If “I learned a lesson” was a person! 🙏🏾❤️
@joycefuraha640311 ай бұрын
😅😅
@Vita-jxtn Жыл бұрын
Whatever he has spoken is everything that I was experiencing..and have been through I thank God that i was able to listen to him today because best believe am not staying the same
@nalalal8228 Жыл бұрын
🎊🥰💝🎉...THE NEXT TIME I DATE, I WILL REMEMBER THIS MESSAGE!! I FEEL GOD WANTED ME TO LISTEN AND IT'S BEAUTIFUL!! 🙏 💃 💕 🕺 🌹 THANK YOU!! 🤗 🌹
@paulinerolle20 Жыл бұрын
Yes I agree! Don't compromise on your core beliefs!
@annabanzon313 Жыл бұрын
I do agree that dating n marriage are just mirrors reflecting where we self sabotage or where we actually accept ourselves unconditionally.
@valkiria19869 ай бұрын
This man has so much wisdom to share! Thanks so much for your words ❤
@DorothyHolmes-lq2sz Жыл бұрын
I really enjoy listening to Devon Franklin. It seems like his wisdom regarding relationships has grown to a new level.
@SD-ld1wlАй бұрын
Thank you Pastor Franklin for your transparency and helping us to see how God values us and how we should value ourselves. Decide to stick with our core values and not compromise and allow manipulation to lead to being desperate for someone , while rushing and settle for disappointment; when we have been there too many times. It's time to not cheat on Jesus and ourselves and stick with our core values convictions and be content with one self and love yourself. God is there to lead and guide us through our trials and errors that we may learn from them.
@fatimabarnes-bey8668 Жыл бұрын
💗 Awwww…. I’m Loving this Guy. We’re on the same journey. I’m taking notes 📝. I’m praying I’ll find someone who understands what he’s teaching /preaching. 😊
@AngelaMartinezMusic Жыл бұрын
I do believe love is enough!!! Not because you say you love them. But if you truly love someone and they love you, you build and mold yourselves to each other and the future that you both want together.
@Helen-jy6br10 ай бұрын
Yes!! I think he’s more so referring to maintain a relationship ..love isn’t enough. But you are correct in that when you find your person ..i believe your soul mate..love is enough!
@milarepa1234567 Жыл бұрын
Great episode! Cutting edge awareness for becoming a stronger person who doesn't settle for mistreatment and who also treats others well and becomes worthy of the same in a partner or a friend. Thank you DeVon Franklin, I will be playing this again and maybe several times more!
@SiriusAspirations Жыл бұрын
Loved Devon's clarity...not changing for the benefit of getting someone but for yourself, deal with that hunger 👌🏾
@purplelady5844 Жыл бұрын
I love this … if you are not happy now … you will not be happy with someone else .. ❤❤❤❤❤
@AllThingsSoul Жыл бұрын
Great quote: "I love you and now I need to learn you." Communicate your expectations to each other. Devon is handsome, brilliant, and dedicated to growing himself a person so he's a better man for his next love. She will be a very lucky lady and I hope it happens for him very soon!
@riseandthryve_estare9170 Жыл бұрын
That is soooo true,you must be crystal clear on what your core values are and be spiritually aligned with who you date.
@leatricewalker803810 ай бұрын
This was awesome! I never thought or heard it broken down like Devon broke it down about (Women wanting to be seen) men who serve will see you but men who want to be served will not see you🔥
@jenniferwilliams1999 Жыл бұрын
This prayer is for you Devon Franklin Lord God, we thank You and praise You for the gift of marriage. We ask You to help Devon find a virtuous spouse, so that he may have a holy and happy married life. Our years of singleness can be very lonely and can often feel like they have no purpose. But You are able to use Devon single years profitably. Put Gods first and all good things will be added unto to you. All things are possible with God. Greetings from Toronto Canada. Stay blessed and trust in God.🙏🙏🙏
@joycefuraha640311 ай бұрын
Amen and it shall be unto him Devon
@tmarie9609 Жыл бұрын
This message blessed my life! I’m taking some much needed time with myself and valuing my own core beliefs. I’ll be ready to explore a relationship when I can clearly articulate my core values to myself and feel empowered by acknowledging them 💯
@cathyandresiak Жыл бұрын
I agree we have to believe we are valuable but I still know love from another can help heal a soul !!! I have seen it many times.
@socol76 Жыл бұрын
If they’re lucky enough to find someone who is securely attached.
@virginiaholzer73589 ай бұрын
Full of wisdom, profound conversation, am grateful 🙏 God bless you ❤ 🙏 ❤
@Kemosabe_International Жыл бұрын
This conversation is excellent. And it's interesting, to see that a celebrity man is going through the same kind of stuff that women are going through. Devon's wisdom is necessary.
@miissbree1 Жыл бұрын
Love this message ! I did this is my first marriage . Put my core beliefs and values to the side and ignored it
@ChakaKhanian Жыл бұрын
I need to get quiet with myself and really determine what are my core values that I refuse to compromise on because sometimes, you think you know, but something or someone comes along and you start to say, ‘well, xyz isn’t that bad…’
@mameafrane1725 Жыл бұрын
Devon, if this message finds you: listen do not compromise your faith and core beliefs. If you truly walk with God, seek him and he will guide your path to your future. Pray and let God show you who you are. The call on your life is big and one of the areas the enemy uses destroy men is through the area of mirage. Samson was destroyed by Delilah. Don’t compromise. Stay with God and don’t compromise. Your best is coming
@zionking9701 Жыл бұрын
Yes! It happened to me. Terrible relationship, wonderful in fantasy. Had to leave it in the past😊
@melissanorthcutt7242 Жыл бұрын
WOW! Thank you for putting out quality content! The first 2 minutes are awesome for general rules or lessons on most areas of life - if we can be honest enough with ourselves. Most of us probably need 3rd party/Qualified outside source to assist with seeing Real Truths and not just the unconscious "stories" we tell ourselves. Blessings to all on this journey.
@nalalal8228 Жыл бұрын
💝🥰🎊I LOVE WHEN HE MENTIONED FAITH!! I FEEL THE SAME WAY!! I WANT A MAN OF GOD LIKE HIM!! AWESOME MESSAGE!! THANK YOU!! 💃 🤗 💕 A MAN LIKE THAT HARD TO FIND BUT I KNOW GOD WILL BLESS ME BIG TIME!! HE LEARNED HIS LESSON AND NOW HE WAS BORN AGAIN!! CONGRATS!! 🎊
@hortensemason4073 Жыл бұрын
For me, being seen does not have to do with commenting on my looks or wardrobe but honoring my preferences if they persist after discussion. I wanted a medium size ice chest but my boyfriend insisted I needed a big one. I wanted real flowers, not silk, but he insisted on giving me silk. Even though I told him I wanted to wait until marriage to have sex, he did everything he could to manipulate me into it. I felt unheard and disrespect. I was quickly disappearing as a person. Being seen means being heard and understood. I don't want to be tied to someone who devalues, disrespects, dishonors, refuses me.
@RealLadi228 Жыл бұрын
Then they say you are being petty when you stand your ground 😤 Old paradymes no longer apply
@hortensemason4073 Жыл бұрын
@@RealLadi228 yes, lots will say that, you got that right. It no longer matters to me what others say. Hey, it is my life and I am looking for something else.
@RealLadi228 Жыл бұрын
@@hortensemason4073 Hello!!!🙌🏾🙏🏾
@mupeM Жыл бұрын
Amen sister
@RealLadi228 Жыл бұрын
@@mupeM Crazier we have those that pretend to see you hear you til you let your guard down then BAMM MASK FALLS! Just pay attention to everything move@ a snails pace toxicity doesn't respect healthy boundaries major red flag!!
@kaypressley3893 Жыл бұрын
This is the most beautifully conscious conversation that I have ever heard from this great Man of Faith! Every man or woman should listen to this and start Evaluating themselves first and NOT COMPROMISING THEIR CORE VALUES! "DOING THE WORK ON ME! "
@deverelleedwards2384 Жыл бұрын
Wow! Message of substance. I value your core values....mines are very similar. I am at that stage of my life now where I am doing the internal work and asking God to bring me up higher. I am one of one! Well said DeVon.👏👏🙏💪
@maggiemiddleton8760 Жыл бұрын
Sobriety is a core value!! Yes. Enjoying life does not require substance use!! Is that person already happy. Yes emotionally healthy 😊
@chooga4eva Жыл бұрын
"this is good" - so much to chew on this little story that Devon shared. Thank you Devon for being the blessing you are.
@jaylindiamondnique Жыл бұрын
“Ok, not what I wanted, but this is good.” 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 this is just the word I needed.. thank you 💜
@valentinestumpf25887 ай бұрын
💞Lisa… thank you sooo much. This message with Devon 💪whoa… hit my core. I cried, laughed, recognized, acknowledged and in the process of releasing. 44 minutes in. In the process and finding my way out… with your genius 💚💜🐯💥💥💥💞💞💞💯💯💯🔥🙏
@valentinestumpf25887 ай бұрын
🤯… 👀
@valentinestumpf25887 ай бұрын
So concrete Devon… thought stopping to the next level🙏💞💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@valentinestumpf25887 ай бұрын
Lisa… you have such a gift for keeping it simple 💪🔥💞💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 relatable 💪😂💯 context 🐯💞
@valentinestumpf25887 ай бұрын
Omgoodness 😢… today walking towards the grocery store. A mother and daughter walking towards but the mom was literally walking into me like I was invisible 🫥 this happens often. I Literally STOPPED in my tracks. So hard💯 I felt myself get frustrated and then…. 👀 I noticed a couple coming out of the store … saw what I saw. Feeling 💯💞🙏🔥🐯
@valentinestumpf25887 ай бұрын
555💞🔥🙏
@ashantric3 Жыл бұрын
Wheeeww! Such a powerful interview with great wisdom. I really needed this. Thank God for leading my spirit to listen.🙏
@siphokaziluzipho4197 Жыл бұрын
Why are you enduring this? Why are you putting up with this. Love that. May we ask ourselves this always.
@DiamondStar2012K Жыл бұрын
Terrific podcast!😊 I haven’t dated in a few years and I have come to the conclusion that, I don’t want to date a man unless he has a relationship with God and date with an intention of something serious AND be comfortable with platonically dating me without dating others. Healthy boundaries. He should feel self love and participate in self care, mind, body and soul. The world is so very worldly but really getting to know each other and not allowing social media or his associations to negatively influence our relationship. The right man will be willing to make the investment. I’m open to receiving who is right for me, when the time is right.
@phyloshix41539 ай бұрын
This gentleman is*oozing*wisdom...he is such a good vibe...I have learnt alot..
@elsieatieno4421 Жыл бұрын
So good! authentic and well-thought-through conversation, very good use of my time.
@endless4175 Жыл бұрын
listening to devon is so refreshing. so much wisdom and understanding and emotional intelligence
@lisca2866 Жыл бұрын
So clear and empowering thank you
@yeukaimukogo63154 ай бұрын
Sharing faith, sobriety, positive mindset,
@rochellbrown7752 Жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord... Thank you Devon i resonate with this message 100% and I've been using my experience to create content for women about relationships, first with yourself and God before entering a relationship with someone else....
@KJ1965Prime Жыл бұрын
Straight gems he is dropping
@porschelehman4986 Жыл бұрын
Our thinking is so powerful 😍 we can have love, standards and patience to have the right one for us!!!! This message is so helpful for love and being ready to receive it. I will listen to this message over and over again. I could relate so much with this message.
@gabrielacprado5 ай бұрын
I am in minute 16:14 and I can already say What an episode! So much wisdom coming from this man, satisfying to hear all of this from a guy. God keep blessing his life!
@nbc940928 Жыл бұрын
I'm barely at minute 10 and I'm already so grateful for you sharing your non negotiables this is crucial exactly what my relationship is suffering from is bc I didn't choose wisely enough regarding my/his values, now we invested but this clarity helps immensely understanding!!!