Do Political Opinions Matter in a Relationship? | Tell My Story

It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story, Blind Date.'
We are all conditioned with certain biases. In this experiment, we challenged these biases by asking people to guess their partner's interests and past experiences based only on their partner's appearance. When they learned their partner's real answers, they were shocked by how wrong they were.
Now tell YOUR story. What do people assume about you?
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[@aquemini154]

It isn't a difference in politics, it's a difference in values.

[@adembasou]

you nailed it

[@johnnyyip9404]

lulu prince Those are extremely closely related. Values are tied to politics.

[@cookiekhoala]

Your values influence your politics so I see it as interchangeable

[@Beaneabean]

Johnny Yip Nah.

[@Peqqzqt]

THANK YOU!

[@kelli7895]

Still waiting for the day when one of them gets the name right. They were so close

[@Participant]

Getting closer and closer every time!

[@laraozcan3335]

I GUESSED HIS NAME WAS BRENDAN I WAS SO PROUD

[@Jo-chilin]

That thought his name was mike haha

[@jihanemoumni7742]

Lara Ozcan same and I freaked out

[@jaydensmith6528]

Jasmin me too like once

[@carrotcake6987]

“You sure? You losing friends over it..” lmaooo king

[@JesusChrist-ss1qg]

lol

[@user-nr2cg8hh5u]

what did he mean? i didn't get it

[@JesusChrist-ss1qg]

@@user-nr2cg8hh5u The girl saying shea a Republican but not really into politics

[@natemup]

@@JesusChrist-ss1qg She didn't say she was a Republican, did she?

[@leahwalker9151]

carrotcake he’s not wrong

[@RhinoG5sneakerreview]

You telling me they found the chair with their eyes closed

[@Pun1Sh3r_360]

Yup I smelled that too LOL it's some bullshit! 😂🤣

[@kioraunny1351]

ryan they're not really closed their eyes, one time i see the guy said 'I'm scared when i see your red shoes at first' that's mean they're just looking down. Is just to not looking your partner's face

[@katiegiles4874]

I never thought of that yooo

[@gent0069]

@@Pun1Sh3r_360 Or someone helped them navigate to the chair...

[@ericamlca]

They told them how many steps

[@aspebb]

Names were so close.

[@bobcatballer6863]

aspebb ikr closest yet

[@vicc8503]

aspebb I guessed Brendan's name

[@h3834]

Vicc same, he looks like a Brendon

[@Justin-oc6oi]

Anyone else thought the guys name was Ryan ?

[@its_the_animal_famyoutube2090]

Justin 7 Me!!

[@chioosuna4839]

I think he was pretty attracted to her in the beginning but as it went on he was like heeeell nah

[@AndiLoveall]

This is why people shouldn't jump into relationships! lol Usually people find out they're incompatible when they've already been together a while.

[@ilikewaffles889]

Andi Loveall Hey there Andi, can you do the world a favor and shut your stupid mouth?

[@AndiLoveall]

Nah my wise mouth will keep advising people to not make rash decisions in love. Thanks though. :)

[@ExireHG]

...Maybe just give out advice when it's asked for instead of making general proclamations about people you don't know Dr. Lady Love. ;)

[@AndiLoveall]

Nah, I'm going to keep doing what I want, especially since it's annoying you guys so much. :)

[@oitnboitnb4524]

She looks like she came right out of the early 2000s

[@Shokomycoco]

Oitnb Oitnb 2000s women were the sexiest

[@theduke6174]

So does he

[@angieruthw]

Yeah that hair is not doing her any favors

[@oitnboitnb4524]

@@angieruthw she looks beautiful so does her hair just her style is very 2000

[@persona7506]

EXACTLY

[@Ingerstyle]

She does not look 24 at all

[@pettyx008]

exactly

[@samihamir7017]

I think he was just being nice. She looked 27 +/- 1 but he was smart and played it safe. He didn't know the girl and some people can get offended when they're assumed to be older than they are, even if it's still quite young.

[@pettyx008]

@@samihamir7017 She looked more like 38 to me....

[@pettyx008]

@@samihamir7017 I don't think it has anything to do with his guess or offending her. We basically saying she doesn't on her 20's more like mid 30's.

[@samihamir7017]

@@pettyx008 I agree that she doesn't look like any of the 27 year olds I know, but it's actually human nature for him to assume that he would be partnered with someone closer to his age, and as a man presumably with a younger woman. He seemed like a charismatic, nice enough guy, so I still stand with my original comment.

[@cindymadeira8736]

“I have been proposed to by eight different people.” ... I can’t even get a text back. 🙄 February 22, 2021: It has been this long since I commented on this video?! Thank you for all the likes and replies! 😁

[@TheCrazyPUNKIN]

I’ll slide in the DMs I’m looking for a relationship atm😂

[@adyp5176]

thirstworld population of 3 drink some evian, fellahs FFS

[@eduardoguillermo3156]

😅

[@FelixLopez-ok4qs]

I would text you back. Lol

[@himayalaputra4682]

Its because that lady in this video has a fairly attractive face and has a good facial harmony overall! Why do you think she is getting multiple options from different people from variety of backgrounds???

[@ariane7843]

I thought I'd like the girl better but the guy is very down to earth and respectful, like him

[@notusinganymore7477]

Jack& Jude same

[@MyENYO]

Jack& Jude same

[@terryfang]

true, really handsome and mature guy

[@GeorgiaGirl__]

Yeah I like him... she was boring

[@milascave2]

Meh. I don't really like either of them. If a woman has an open heart that you can see through her eyes, take her to an emergency room.

[@serenakamdem6537]

Does anyone else feel like that chair look so uncomfortable

[@ellie_zabeth6843]

Rena's Glamour I like how everyone is talking about politics or whatever and you’re talking about how the chair looks so uncomfortable haha

[@elena7richie]

I actually have the same exact one and it's really comfortable lol

[@serenakamdem6537]

Ellie_zabeth lol yh I mean someone had to lighten up the mood

[@leahwalker9151]

Rena's Glamour back problem squad over here

[@reenaasmr8451]

ya its like a normal chair i think they got it from ikea cus i saw it there

[@Jeanine.mp4]

They were actually really nice to each other, don’t really understand all the comments in regards to her being mean to him

[@ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1]

@Dion St. Michael maybe that's why she's been proposed to 8 times or however much it was. I guess it didn't end well for most other guys lol.

[@benperez7695]

It’s cuz she’s a conservative

[@alexanderherrera9827]

They lacked connection, but both of them seem to be mature and clear about what they want.

[@joaquinc1303]

Alexander Herrera EXACTLY

[@hislord1]

She's a Trump supporter. She's trash.

[@ShamsaShakir]

It wasn't politics. At the end the marriage and kids thing was a deal breaker. They had different expectations. Glad they said no. Shows they are serious and smart individuals.

[@AmyMujagic]

i guess we'll never know if they wouldve dated if they had the same views on marriage and kids, but considering this girl has lost friends and relationships/fiances then she probably wouldnt work out anyway with someone who doesnt feel as she does.

[@Emperorerror]

Amy Mujagic they totally would've dated had they had the same views on kids and marriage. They both talked a lot about how people shouldn't get so incensed about political differences, so they obviously both were okay with their political differences.

[@rvk1522]

Shamsa Shakir I agree. But like always, people are making it about political views.

[@ShamsaShakir]

Emperorerror Yea exactly. And the guy said he couldn't care less about Politics. So even if the girl had strong views they couldnt have gotten into any sort of big arguments over it cause the guy was neutral

[@foureyeswonder]

Shamsa Shakir True that

[@CryoCeII]

“A man with a weak handshake is out” “I’ve lost friends over politics” “8 engagements and 2 fiancés that didn’t work out” she needs to just gtfo never heard so many red flags in one sitting

[@reesereeves5186]

Phillip no she seems like a nice person. Everybody has flaws. Don’t look at the negative, at least try to look at the good in people.

[@ulrichgray5497]

@The Objective Theist Traditional men (gentleman) is not suppose to give a woman a strong handshake, that is reserved for men. You can harm a woman doing that. With a woman you are gentle.

[@skullj2872]

@@ulrichgray5497 I would just grab a woman's hand firmly with a strong arm and hand that isn't limp but I wouldn't squeeze her hand since I wouldn't want to hurt her.

[@johnnymcjohnson1373]

The engagements is the only one I see as a red flag. The friends left her because she isn't a liberal NPC and I do agree that people shouldn't have weak ass handshakes.

[@KnuckleHunkybuck]

A strong woman who knows what she believes in and won't settle for less than she deserves? Guys like you can go ahead and back away; let a real man go ahead and take a crack at it.

[@parkersnow929]

Your politics don't make you who you are, but they reflect your morals, values, and and everything you stand for. So it reflects what kind of person you are. So a couple with different politics and values functioning well is very difficult, but not impossible. I just wouldn't advise it.

[@franknieblas7447]

@overgrow00 exactly

[@mastray4783]

@you’re right butI honestly like your profile name lol

[@andreilyas1426]

@overgrow00 Not true, at all

[@drakecarter1780]

Thats the same thing dude.

[@boomoo5776]

8 proposals , 2 engagements, lost friends because of politics . Maybe the problem is with you bud

[@TheApurva4444]

Come again for big phudge I thought the same. She seems cold

[@josefjerome]

Come again for big phudge, I'm sure you don't live your life or want your life lived through someone's eyes by stats. Life is not a sport after all. Marriage is a huge deal am sure maybe if it was treated as serious and intentional to everyone as it may appear to her we would not have the slight view of marriage as is the case nowadays. Worse is the case for politics which has become a functional religion these days, especially in America where you're not allowed to disagree. Come on let's get the benefit that we'd want for our selves.

[@prairiehorse6168]

😂😂

[@alexarkadios9108]

Come again for big phudge rightttt

[@luhxar2009]

Come again for big phudge I agree and I like your pfp 💕🌿

[@madim9931]

I think political opinions really do matter because it can cause a lot of arguing and could possibly end a relationship

[@thisguy2678]

It doesn't really come up. I'm more conservative and my girlfriend is more liberal. We actually have fun discussing it.

[@unknowna8056]

The ACE Family! I disagree with that

[@RizzyMacguire]

Unless it’s a good relationship

[@madim9931]

Unknown B why

[@unknowna8056]

The ACE Family! Because politics would not dictate someone relationship

[@amritatalukdar4112]

Both are mature, intelligent and strong-headed people with very different perspectives to life and love. Both are looking for different things and are unapologetic about it. Just bcoz 2 people are incompatible, doesnt mean we have to take sides (of our own gender) and bash the other. I liked both of them, and I am glad both stuck to their individuality in the end.

[@jonathanallard2128]

Finally.

[@Alphacentauri819]

Awesome, insightful comment! We need more of your awareness and acceptance in the world!🌸

[@themsmloveswar3985]

He is immature. She is too sensible for him. To the point of intimidating him.

[@TheRealJLion]

@@themsmloveswar3985 you literally did what the comment said not to do, can you read grandma?

[@danielpedraza483]

I was like wtf when she said “ I’ve been proposed to 8 times” but then she said she was Mormon and it made sense.

[@miosnikzycia2913]

Finally a representation with the man as a liberal and the woman as a conservative.

[@Mynessly]

Hey i'm from France and i don't understand what is mean liberal and conservative ? İt's about religion or politics?

[@EliM-fy4zs]

LemonEyes it's two kinds of politics

[@miosnikzycia2913]

Liberal in general refers to an approach that is less restrained than conservative (emphasis on the conserve), but today, both words have political implications. Most Americans (if they know who those 2 are) would consider Macron a liberal and Le Pen a conservative.

[@miosnikzycia2913]

Liberal implies less restraint than conservative (emphasis on the conserve), but today both words have political implications, mostly involving the power of the federal government. Most Americans, if they were familiar with both of them, would consider Macron a liberal, and Le Pen a conservative.

[@iopdu92]

C'est quasiment comme la droite et la gauche en France d'où le "left-leaning" LemonEyes

[@baileybabb2124]

this lady been proposed to 8 times? go her. I can't even maintain eye contact with a guy for more than 15 seconds.

[@stephanieeileen7017]

Bailey Babb hahahaha awesome comment

[@angelinafigueroa4902]

Bailey Babb LMAO

[@cloudnine2450]

Bailey Babb ME 😂

[@troy6646]

idk, that would probably be a deal breaker to me

[@AAarohan]

Bailey Babb uiii

[@gnizz0021]

Am I the only one who felt that she was almost scared of saying she was conservative...?

[@tylaughlin8779]

It is pretty scary to be conservative now a days

[@laughtrack686]

@@victoriamendez9006 yeah. In the modern day liberal driven educational istitutions, getting told you are a horrible person for your political beleifs by not just others but curriculum and teachers also is really messed up. In Canada, everyone is indoctrinated to hate the USA and Conservative values, with few if any of them having as so much as a clue to what they are saying past regurgitation.

[@sherlockholmes1876]

gnizz00 because modern society pushes the idea that conservatives are the idiots when it’s the other way around...

[@ferroboy]

Sure, fear of being attacked.

[@hopearnold9100]

Yes because Liberals want everyone to accept themselves but they won’t accept anyone else’s ideas or beliefs.

[@josiahhaas4067]

She should date Wyatt from the other one

[@mitsukifrancis.forever2617]

Not kidding here . I just saw that one before this and was thinking excatly the same thing . *_*

[@iloveyouall277]

tayyaba shah I don’t believe you girl

[@mitsukifrancis.forever2617]

@@iloveyouall277 well sista ya betta believe in coincidences.

[@gpl992]

Yup she even fitted his physical type description

[@emmanuella4692]

@@mitsukifrancis.forever2617 same thing happened to me

[@kaceface3277]

Every time she said something he didn't like, you could tell immediately. Lol

[@harshpeter]

Actors are usually super transperant in their real lives :D

[@katiegorman9648]

Kacie Lysne jessica

[@graciejohnson2776]

kind of sad though

[@connierakhapu5976]

I see that.But i also see that lady from party of five and the craft..forgot her name

[@connierakhapu5976]

haaaah sorry wrong comment

[@YouVerseUSA]

His face when she said that she'd feel 'uncomfortable' when taking bout sex lmaoo 8:56

[@Scoutn]

Naveen DTube when she said messy marvin he was probably like she can give sloppy top

[@spicyboyclique6969]

Scout Deadass

[@dessa4946]

IM CRYING

[@FallMacedo]

"Well she is consevative and sex boring. NOPE."

[@gtb_greedy7208]

Naveen DTube y

[@Chicha_Rrones]

Why are people hating on her? I didn’t get her being judgmental at all. She just has different values.

[@eduardotorres7645]

dude shes bland af

[@SRBOMBONICA86]

@@eduardotorres7645 so what if she is bland lol

[@urska4769]

@CanadianLoki76 nope, it's not that. In a another their video people were hating on a liberal girl. People just like to hate.

[@thatpotato7166]

She didn’t seem that into him.

[@hamedshirazi1372]

She lost me when conservative has family value after stormy Daniel and putting kids in cage

[@Robert-om8qc]

Haven't even watched the rest of the video yet: "I've been proposed to by 8 different people. A couple of those people a couple times." RED FLAG! "I've accepted two proposals. I've had two fiancés. And it didn't work out with either one." DOUBLE RED FLAG! "I'm at this point, I've told my friend, that if someone proposes to me again, they need to say 'do you want to get married like, tomorrow?'" A MILLION RED FLAGS!

[@eduardotorres7645]

the dude dodged a bullet

[@Xerion1]

Agreed.

[@risankati]

@@user-ln8xk5oc3t I think it is a little redflaggy that her solution to two failed engangements is to get married straight away with the next one.

[@alextalkey4304]

the names are the closest yet no chemistry at all, also his face when she said messy marvin at 4:31 LMAO

[@kauffee653]

Alex Talkey "uhhhhh" XD

[@shayla6447]

that made me cringe so hard.. who tf says messy marvin lmfao

[@andreamartin1458]

Alex Talkey yeeeah she's weird.

[@Katspearl]

idk I thought it was cute and different that she said that

[@onarionaa8359]

it was a little cringy i guess but also unique/quirky/cute. you guys act like she said something insane...i mean it's the nickname her parents gave her so she's just answering the question. >.>

[@aayushi2866]

I knew it.. there was just no chemistry at all..!

[@valeriatg6067]

You could see that when she said it'd be perfect if she was a dog trainer and he was like nope, too weird

[@nw9342]

I felt a lot of chemistry, actually, until she mentioned that she was conservative and him mentioning that he didn't want to get married or have children.

[@Verlassis]

Yeah that joke went way over is head :,D

[@vinitnarula1]

Ava Meyers i

[@vivrepleinementpassionne4409]

Ava Meyers same here no chemistry

[@Feeluck]

24? she looks like in her mid 30s. no offense, she looks very grown up, like someone who can take responsibilities

[@koobs_]

Same, I can’t believe she’s not in her mid-30s

[@davidmajor1508]

I guessed her age anywhere from late 20's to early 30's.

[@WreathStorm]

The guy looked older too. That forehead crease made me think he was in his mid-30's too.

[@rantstips9231]

32 was my guess

[@paf2639]

She's been proposed to by 8 different people?! And she's 27! WTF

[@jackmanne6238]

Who else is binge watching these right now?

[@tristancassidy6522]

Me!

[@stacyhigginson170]

Jack Manne 🙋🙋🙋

[@lydiam147]

Jack Manne meeee

[@davallenarnold6569]

Jack Manne me!!!! Lol

[@prodigy_son7011]

Here

[@nnurad]

the guy is like really trying to be nice

[@LouieVeryRare]

I bet when he was 13 years old he would be the type of dude that would tell to not come to school tomorrow

[@pokyposhy6716]

pineapple ú

[@isitbecauseimmexican7193]

Yup, he tried. I got that feeling that he wanted to pull out a weapon, and destroy Hitler's spawn.

[@nakkisampyla4460]

pineapple he tryna get some tonight

[@b.o.4469]

who hurt you

[@DaDodo7]

She looks like Melissa from pretty little liars

[@blancaherreroespana5035]

Spot on, I was thinking the same

[@minnie_mong]

FINALLY I FOUND SUCH A COMMENT

[@chasingskiess]

That was what I was thinking

[@Wishfull171]

Lol true I see it

[@nohahaggag]

That kiss on the hand really melted my heart. She was really moved by it, too.

[@chameleon1015]

Well of course, it's gentleman behavior, which matters a lot to conservatives

[@maryamyusuf660]

They both give me weird vibes idk why lol

[@zesalamel22]

He comes off as slightly insecure and aloof, although a genuinely nice guy. She seems sweet up front, but has got that "I voted for Trump and I stand by that" vibe that usually carries a lot of... undertones. Also .. Texas.

[@imtheamazingcallie]

this is exactly the type of feel I got

[@klyrixx]

Maryam Yusuf very weird!

[@tylerdelbaugh2394]

I’m pretty sure she did a crappy job of putting extensions in.

[@janicerodriguez8171]

They're uptight lol

[@irmamag8459]

She said she doesn't get into a relationship that's not headed towards marriage... Girl but you had 8 going towards marriage... I'm confused

[@qwer-tj5ob]

Irma Alexander maybe the wrong person.

[@foureyeswonder]

qwer Yup

[@rareads]

Took her long enough to find out. One thing I hate is people wasting your time

[@SerenityReceiver]

Well, maybe there is a very shallow pool of possible candidates were she lives and to even get some the guys had to propose.

[@foureyeswonder]

That could be possible.

[@fluorescenticon101]

Unpopular opinion: She is beautiful! I will say, however, that she is quite intimidating.

[@ElNegringoKreyolito]

I don't know how many people would disagree with that assessment

[@sarfaraz.hosseini]

Spot on.

[@omegachaos32]

I highly doubt anyone thinks she is unattractive... The intimidating part I can see as maybe being disagreed upon.

[@SWIFTzTrigger]

Why intimidating?

[@jonathan1391544]

I think this is a very popular opinion

[@minishcat4756]

Politics matter very much... Your political view don’t just say who you will vote for, it is a scale of your moral integrity, your thought process, how subject you are to change. You can have blossoming friendships with someone who doesn’t align with your views, but a relationship is different.

[@nf4866]

Not really. At the end of the day, everyone just wants the country to be free and fair. Politics is just disagreemnt on how you get there.

[@youwild00]

Minishcat I wholly agree with you. A lot of people don't understand that political views are so much more important than what meets the eye. Political views are also indicative of lifestyle choices.

[@youwild00]

@@nf4866 I beg to differ that everyone wants the country to be free and fair. Much more so with fairness. There are religions sects and groups who want an established religion in government which does not make it far to people of other religions views and atheistic views. There are groups the are anti-[type of lifestyle] who believe they should be put in jail or executed. There are groups who believe that people of different races should be killed or treated like slaves.

[@nf4866]

@@youwild00 there are also people who think their microwave is talking to them. But these people are so fringe and rare that it's not even worth talking about in the context of whether or not you should be dating them.

[@theworstcatholic7247]

@@youwild00 There are also people who anarchy, or communism. The fact is, all those are in the great minority when it goes to either political side of the arguments. It's far more simple than people want to believe, Left and liberals are into Big Government, Right and Conservatives are into Small Government.

[@kidpoloish]

Proposed 8 times ?!?!?! it’s not the guys you’re dating that are the problem, it’s you.

[@ojogbaneamedu2501]

moody sighs This just isn’t how statistics and life works.

[@Missydizzychick1]

My mum got proposed to 6 times and said yes twice, to the first and to the last. Some people have al the luck

[@stacyhigginson170]

She only got proposed TO 8 times. (if anything it just shows what a catch she might be that that many men have wanted to marry her). She only said yes twice (which I think is a bit high BUT idk the particulars of those relationships and why they ended. Better to be single than with the wrong person.)

[@callmegert2118]

i’ve read over this comment many times and i still don’t understand... how is she the problem? lol

[@stacyhigginson170]

Matthew Jenkins 😂😂😂😂 No, we don't. There is no "arranged" anything. We are free to date and marry whoever we want. You must be thinking of the polygamists (it's important to note that they are NOT real Mormons and that we do not support or condone polygamy). I have heard that they sometimes have arranged marriages. But this girl isn't one of them.

[@rileyshowalter7963]

"I have been proposed to 8 DIFFERENT people. A couple of those people a few times." BISH WAT

[@stacyhigginson170]

Riley Xx right?! She's got game! Lol

[@matts5247]

Have you never been in a serious relationship? Or even had the homeless guy or your hopeless coworker propose to you? You’re either way too young or doin something wrong

[@maryem8263]

Riley Xx Yeah my thoughts too

[@sandypersaud95]

Riley Showalter right I didn’t like this .. like why

[@_witherrs_]

Damn DAMNNNNN SUNNN.

[@christinacolville5739]

I love this, they are pretty much polar opposites but they are seem to respect each other. Very interesting to watch.

[@mahekmaheshwari7585]

She looks similar to Rachel McAdams

[@kanavsharma2840]

More to Saina Nehwal I guess

[@mitsukislife]

Don't do Rachel like that 😂😂😂

[@kai.09]

or Rachel Bilson

[@MicaelaLynnDelgadoV]

I was thinking the same exact thing

[@lolamoon7296]

Mahek Maheshwari Kinda like Racheal Ray the chef

[@jebbifer9636]

It sucks when people say they "aren't into" politics. Politics isn't a hobby, it's something that literally shapes the world we live in. For a lot of people, politics affects their livelihood and their day-to-day lives. The decisions of politicians and people in power affect the ability of people to get healthcare, how much money they make at their job, etc. If you're in the position where you can treat politics like a hobby or something that you're able to be detached from, you're living a privileged life.

[@jackparker8759]

I've found that people that don't follow politics are more hardworking and less stubborn than people whos lives revolve around what this or that politician did or said today. It's not a matter of privilege either, the most apolitical people I've met are working class while people who have the time to follow politics are generally middle to upper class.

[@robertjazz3613]

Jebbifer I’m a centrist, and honestly I don’t care about politics that much cause all politics are is inconsistent arguments and issues that never find common ground, and to say someone like me who don’t care that much saying I have a privilege life Hon I come from a Mexican American working class background that has to pay they’re bills and keep a roof over my head I’m far from privileged.

[@pranshuanand4560]

Jebbifer thank you!

[@morgankokic1223]

Not being into politics doesn’t mean you have no interest at all, it just means you don’t regularly follow it. Both people here clearly have stances, it’s just that they aren’t the type to go research or debate or campaign over it.

[@the_creed7969]

I’m with OP here. The United States’ voting numbers are shameful and the people who do vote are often very uneducated about the choice they’re making. We need to stop making excuses for why we’re ‘not into’ politics and start getting to voting booths. What sucks is that people with two jobs and twice as many kids, who stand to benefit perhaps the most from a candidate representing their interests, are the ones with the least amount of time to sit in a voting line for 3 hours.

[@Idah.Waringa]

She gives off a super weird vibe. The fact that it starts with her stating the fact that she's had 8 different guys propose to her like it's a badge of honor...he definitely dodged a bullet with this one. Glad they both said no & didn't waste each other's time.

[@deehines5750]

She specifically said that it *wasn't* 8 different guys. It was a few guys that proposed multiple times. She said it more so to show that she's tired of guy's dicking around and she wants someone serious and ready.

[@deehines5750]

jeppemichael no one was guy bashing, it's what she said seeing as she said "if another guy proposes he has to be ready to get married like tomorrow" and that she wants to be married with kids, so what are you on about?

[@carolellamuch9571]

She's just a trump supporter

[@laurenlocd3180]

Dee Hines I'm no she said it was eight dif guys and from those eight some proposed a couple times get your facts straight and actually pay attention

[@JR-kv6ez]

I think she is the one who dodged a bullet. The guy seems like a bit of a bum to me. I highly doubt he has anything lined up with his "acting" career.

[@name3626]

She’s extremely mature! Acts 40! But is only 27! Crazy! But a smart woman! She knows who she is and what she wants. You go girl!

[@GraceHartman28]

amen to that.

[@ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1]

*Answering Do Political Opinions Matter in a Relationship* ...Yes. The End

[@reenaasmr8451]

It really shouldnt and its sad we live in a world were when we hear a different opinion we block that person out. It shouldnt be that way, opinions about politics shouldnt ruin a relationship period

[@twizzyflizzy5524]

Its lame

[@ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1]

@@reenaasmr8451 I do think that we should listen to eachother more, but I mean...a trump supporter and a antifa 'protester' are not going to get married okay lol

[@ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1]

@Aaliyah 3 Actually about a quarter of hispanics voted for him so it wouldn't be that uncommon.

[@ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1]

@Aaliyah 3 Not necessarily harder. You're assuming all hispanics think like a monolith and that they all have to have the same political opinions.

[@Sethclement96]

He should've proposed to her at the end just to make it 9 hahahahaha

[@skimpysonic]

9 proposal 0 marriage

[@soraiya2065]

Hahhahahaha!

[@FireTiger941]

I would have married her on the spot!

[@TaliaGoodness]

right off the bat, there has to be something wrong with her if she's had 8 people propose to her and none of those relationships worked out, i mean....

[@Beaneabean]

taliaaa 8 people proposed, she said yes to 2

[@mikaylajaber828]

I think the strict military and Mormon house has more of a toll on her than she thinks. She seems very structured and specific about what she wants and demands so good luck to her.

[@shaunfergus2476]

And failed lol. They also asked more than once. So that would be at least of a total of 10 you idiot.

[@shaunfergus2476]

But said yes to 8 or more proposals dumb ass.

[@armaanmodi]

... following

[@sappydrez4559]

It's birds and bees because birds have EGGS and bees POLLINATE

[@valentinelove9463]

SappyDrez Finally I get it now!

[@omegachaos32]

This doesn't help for me. Just because birds have eggs doesn't mean ALL birds have eggs... Bees are a slightly different story from what I understand. The vast majority pollinate, like 99.9%. There are still male birds...

[@joshuagall7252]

Lol ok mate

[@jinxedstray1823]

😮

[@koobs_]

Ohhhhh this is the first time I get it!

[@Gid-J]

Left or right leg joke was good.

[@marissavera8895]

"Pulling out a gerbil, like woah what are you doing!" He's the best. 😂

[@Participant]

😉😉

[@GenevieveThornton]

marissa vera I'm sorry I found that really disgusting and a total turnoff of Brendan. I know it's a joke and referring to the Richard gere rumor, but anytime someone includes animals with intimacy and sexuality it's revolting. 😑

[@GenevieveThornton]

Posterior Pancakes that's your prerogative. Just like it was mine to find his comment distasteful. Ahhh, the joys of sharing your opinions on the internet.

[@ednagirl1]

I think she seems sweet and he seems like a cool respectful guy. She was just raised very differently. I think I'd find it hard to date someone with such different views too. But then getting to know each other was nice.

[@Grayk-ge5vo]

ednagirl1 guy?????????????? Jk😂😂I know what you mean

[@mthprfs]

She would do well with a conservative military man from Texas.

[@jockmaraisasmr5700]

He was such a sweetheart.

[@nemilperez5441]

The problem with politics is people jump to conclusions. I doubt either side wants bad things to happen to the other, they just disagree on how to go about handling the wellbeing of citizens.

[@fratermus5502]

> I doubt either side wants bad things to happen to the other Have you read the comment section? :-P

[@courtno787]

I thought he was going to be the conservative one haha.

[@lincolnkrizz]

Courtny No no way you can tell she was

[@courtno787]

Right!

[@temanbradley8505]

You can tell she was Mormon

[@graceyim8593]

same

[@vanessam2848]

Courtny No as soon as she said she was from Texas , I knew she was the conservative

[@r.flatts3395]

This may just be the most uncomfortable one I've watched yet

[@pinklilac7]

I think these two show a lot of class....different viewpoints but respectful and honest about where they stand. If only every wrong match worked like this.

[@Lukas-kh5gu]

beautiful how there's no awkwardness even though they have very different core values.

[@crosamond]

They hate each other lmfao

[@KM-eb5yo]

what makes you think that?

[@jeezohcheese6874]

That's what I was thinking XD

[@slvrangel22]

I didn't get that vibe at all and actually thought they seemed to get along fairly well. They seem like they could easily have a good friendship. But the views on marriage and children was the dealbreaker and is a respectable deal breaker.

[@slvrangel22]

@Peteto Chibs that's exactly my thought

[@jdtgfgvs1977]

Right? 😂😂😂 he was being nice but he clearly checked out after she said conservative

[@luluhelen9142]

These videos give me the worst cringe sweats, but they're so captivating I can't look away

[@Vesnicie]

Laura Heffernan like a slow-motion car crash ha ha.

[@bribrifunland8170]

Laura Heffernan ikr

[@monkfidelio]

Wow you're even more sensitive about this than I am. I usually ff/skip through cringey parts of movies or videos, but I found this ok.

[@ashwinraj9931]

200th like

[@nadiadimartino4935]

You just put words to my feelings!

[@Yartarb]

i DONT KNOW WHY i GOT SAD WHEN HE SAID HE DOESNT WANT KIDS. hes so handsome has a great personality and would be such an awesome father *sad face*

[@CagedJock]

roxo166 probably family upbringing issue

[@jasonglasser1621]

@@CagedJock I mean it depends on if you think not wanting kids requires a reason. We don't necessarily require reasons for people who do want kids, so I don't really think we should require them the other way either. Granted, I'm a little biased, as I don't want kids and am sick and tired of being questioned about it, but yeah I don't really think we treat both sides the same on this particular issue

[@IRHasDiabetes911]

Didn't know attractiveness and wanting kids were correlated...

[@twdjt6245]

I felt sad because like you said he seems like a genuine guy and all, (just from what I’ve taken from this, who knows, he could just be a good actor and a complete asshat/psycho irl) but that being said, the more people like him, the better imo. Our population is already growing too fast anyways. Better for people to make informed and calculated decisions on whether to have children or not and behave accordingly, rather than to go around “bare” spreading disease, having mistake children, possibly in unstable relationships, before they’re financially ready, or if they just don’t like kids in general.

[@adyp5176]

there could many reasons - biological, abusive parents, or maybe he's looked at the state of the world and thought, why inflict this on another innocent person to inherit some polluted wasteland?

[@hihigh1196]

she gives me SUCH an off vibe. something ain’t right with her.

[@grasshopper832]

seriously. like sociopath vibes. cold, super calculated in how she speaks, and it seemed like she was like 'acting' human emotions instead of experiencing them? like he said he was the actor, but she seemed like she was acting how she thought a human would. totally creepy

[@berlinwall6674]

She's literally fine. They both acted the same

[@IBelievenevermind]

girl group central reply me lol

[@morganstaker4928]

Is it because she’s conservative?

[@rainingstorm4526]

she need jusis

[@bellebreeze]

Yay! A man who doesn't want kids amd is honest about it! Respect!

[@NamaiWalterHeins-re4nu]

Gemini Neils well yea, they should be. They'll only ruin their lives and the girls live if they don't share their feelings... 🤔

[@ceesvanrijckevorsel8454]

Namai Heins Obviously, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't respect it

[@amylaraman]

Gemini Neils when I heard him say that I needed to high five him. I don't want kids so it's nice when you come across across other childfree people

[@lunawolfheart336]

I have mixed feelling about kids in the future

[@noelhuerta8309]

John cena doesn’t want kids

[@veracity-]

It's so naive to think that political opinions shouldn't matter in a relationship. Especially in the US, politics often overlap with your personal morals and values. Knowing if someone's a Democrat/Republican or Liberal/Conservative can hint at their values. I'm not saying you should exclude/include people based solely on their political opinions, but it should be taken consideration.

[@HaloFan117_]

Veracity - yes to every thing ❤️

[@senfnacken]

in many cases politics are just our moral values projected onto a countrie's laws

[@JackGhent]

don't agree at all. if that were the case, then there would only be two cookie-cutter profiles of belief that apply to practically every american. people are way more diverse in opinion than the two-party system would have you believe.

[@synchronium24]

@JackGhent "political beliefs" here is more than which political party someone is registered/aligned with. Even among people who are unafiliated with a political party, there is plenty of political disagreement.

[@JackGhent]

that's literally the point that i'm making. knowing if someone is a democrat, republican, liberal, or conservative is not a good indicator of their actual belief system

[@malia7970]

homegirl is so BLAND

[@sweetaddiction5012]

malia !! Or just normal? But okay, let’s talk. What makes her, “Bland.” Because in other people’s opinion you could be either one as well.

[@king-emperorbotolfzainisem730]

I think there's more under the surface with her

[@wildmoonchild8210]

pfft says who? some rando on the internet calling other people bland lmaoo

[@Amina-mg4ft]

RIGHT LMAOO

[@yantisulthan3164]

she is way more interesting than you hideous sjws

[@sjhorton1184]

I thought they were both lovely people! She was pretty and had beliefs that she held to. She wanted a family and was a conservative. Nothing wrong with either of those. He was a cool chill guy who didn't want kids. Enough said. I thought they had great friend chemistry, but it just didn't fit. Good episode.

[@bodyofhope]

Agreed! So many ppl against the young woman because she's a conservative. She wasn't even a far right, extreme conservative.

[@pacificnorthwesteq5966]

if they are a trump supporter then aren't they all those things.

[@lovemecom3832]

They have different perspectives in life and I like them both because they still stand on their opinions. Even all these, they are very honest on each other, which is good.

[@pyrolopez854]

LoveMe,com I think that is the key for both sides regarding politics today hardest thing for any politician to do is to suck up their pride spit it out and have the balls to look at certain ideas of the other sites party and really talk debate it and think about it people are too stuck-up regarding left and right and middle this is the 21st century it's a shame that we still can't agree on things that should be no-brainers things that touch on what makes us human which is having a heart a soul and a good head on their shoulders

[@triana2618]

666 likes lmao

[@angiehernandez1564]

I remember watching this when it first came out. And now watching it years later being in a different relationship I realize how it is important for you and your partner to have different outlooks but at least to have the same core values as they said. My partners family now has differing views than me but the respect and love doesn’t have to disappear because of some opinions.

[@marcqueetacharles919]

Awee he’s so sweet and I’m happy they understood each other.

[@QtNFluffyBacon]

I know she is reading these comments and I see a lot of negativity. I feel like she never claimed it was the guys' fault the proposals didn't work out, nor did she blame her ex-friends for their friendship ending. It seems like she knows what she wants and I believe that to be very good even though I don't agree with her views and almost any point. Instead of looking to change him she realized that she just had to keep looking for the guy that she fit to. Give kudos where they are due!

[@no-cn5pz]

Actually she did blame her for ex-friends :/

[@NWA744]

That's because a hand shake can tell you a lot about a man. A limp wrist usually means a lack of confidence or backbone. An opinionated girl doesn't need a man who will fold easily.

[@stacyhigginson170]

Bernhard Fritz My guess is that either she's so attractive that the guys lost their minds and proposed WAY too soon (happens lol) ORRRR she stayed in relationships that she wasn't really feeling, way too long. Either way, she has game! lol

[@paigelinville4041]

ugh! this feels so awkward!

[@TijmenJanssen]

yeah, she was too "conservative" imo... He was trying to be funny etc. but she was way too serious about almost everything..

[@wge621]

she seems a lot more mature than her age, but at the same time, really sheltered. kind of a weird combo. would not date

[@jattfitness3136]

she was conservative??? why cant she be more liberal! im triggered!!!111 REEEEEEEE

[@Kariegoz]

This is why you should make Jesus #1 in your life. When you make yourself #1 or some man-made political party #1, then you narrow your options on who you can be with. They both liked the look of each other, but after talking they both decided they didn't want the other. That's because they were both so focused on their own worldly views and desires and weren't attracted to the differences in the other person.

[@NeWorldVision]

You know what, I disagree. I usually think these videos are awkward but I think the awkwardness comes from the fact that they are genuinely attracted to each other, are on camera and are put in a position where they actually need to get to know each other via the subject of opposing views. I think these two could work.

[@keepXonXrockin]

Military Mormons from Texas? Triple whammy.

[@da9z394]

keeponrockin dam I am still laughing LOL

[@nemrac4321]

And conservative!! Yech!

[@theos78]

@@nemrac4321 if only it was fascist mate, that would have been heaps better, ye

[@GraceHartman28]

@@nemrac4321 ...is that bad?

[@gu3sswh075]

C. W. You rather date a liberal? Good luck..

[@alliederubeis6417]

this goes to show, its so important to discuss bigger things before getting into a relationship

[@aribari2434]

This is so sad Alexa play "Despacito"

[@latinafortruth430]

😂 😂 😂 💀

[@neko_doll5122]

Allie*

[@meachie78]

This is the funniest comment on here!!

[@Oopstoobad6275]

lmaooooo

[@aminsh3843]

@@neko_doll5122 *Messy Marvin* *

[@cowgrlbebop]

He seemed pretty chill, but idk about her

[@tessinthecity]

Feel this so much. When he said he didn't want kids, I thought hallelujah, they do exist! I used to hate going on dates with men and having them talk about the gaggle of kids they wanted. I also grew up in a big, lax Catholic family, and the answer he gave is almost identical to the answer I always give. "Love my siblings but..."

[@eller3794]

they were so different but at the same time i feel like they had an amzing connection

[@rightrepublicans133]

Dam I thought the girl would be the liberal and they guy would be the conservative

[@Andre_APM]

It was sort of like that in an0ther video

[@hey-ey6bl]

I thought the opposite

[@kat-yq3so]

oh no that haircut screams conservative

[@gooner5703]

Nope. When he said he is an actor I knew he would be a liberal

[@lepiee]

Why because she looks Hispanic? Bigot exposed.

[@HenriPlass]

but doesn`t she kinda look like melissa from PLL?

[@euphoriabyart2343]

Henriette Plass she does! I spent the whole video wondering who she reminded me of!

[@vanessa-wz2bj]

henri h AGREED

[@j.j.225]

henri h literally why I clicked on the video I thought it was Torrey Devito 😂

[@priscillao1064]

YES!

[@kaylahw6916]

YESSS

[@sampada.07]

Wow. This is why you don't judge a book by its cover.

[@hellapainyo]

is no one talking about how pillowy his lips are tho

[@matthewmcneil216]

hes an actor hes had work done

[@gpl992]

He reminds me of Tom Hardy

[@ishashahid6287]

Matt not necessarily.

[@alexandergutierrez5454]

His is gay period.

[@everythingviral972]

@@matthewmcneil216 Clan MacNeil represent! Barra MacNeils(or McNeils in your case) or elsewhere?

[@kathleen4301]

I hate how she looks at him almost like he's her patient or something. :--(

[@Kuraakka]

She is a addiction specialist what do you expect, when you love your job and do it well you never stop doing that job ask any cop or doctor.

[@xx2ol753]

Kathleen right she acts pretty entitled it’s annoying lmao

[@sharonmorales9520]

shes the worst. I honestly dont know how anyone could stand her long enough to propose.

[@ZIbroweed]

She seemed slightly guarded but this is a blind date. That hardly seems unusual. I think most people would find it a little harder to relax around someone they don't know and are supposed to be assessing as a potential significant other.

[@sorrym8421]

Kathleen i get what you mean, however sometimes it's just hard for people to keep an interested face when someone is talking to them. I do it myself, you just don't realize that you are making a face of disgust or disinterest.

[@KidbuuGODMODE]

When the dude said the "I don't need church or paperwork, to look and say at the person I'm going to be with you for the rest of my life" gave me heart butter flies and I'm not even gay lmao

[@laurenlocd3180]

Wilson Then yes you are

[@JR-kv6ez]

That's really a lazy-man's way of saying hey save me the trouble of all that and let's just say we're married.

[@troy6646]

Kwejeebo lol I'd be ok with that somehow

[@honeyandlavender_]

Kwejeebo That's stupid. Everyone has a different view on marriage. A paper and a church won't make a marriage faithful nor it won't make it last forever.

[@JR-kv6ez]

Ronda METHFACE Rousey But it sure as hell makes it legally binding and harder to puss out from when things get rough.

[@maddie.bolland.7]

I like how respectful they are of the other person's opinion!

[@mayaout7808]

My grandma always says, never reveal whom you are voting for.. cause it can be a cause of friction within family members , even close friends..it's ok to have different opinions.

[@TheZenzen76]

I've never met a guy who doesn't want kids. It's so nice to hear my point of view coming from another person's mouth. Made me feel less alone. And he loves dogs. I would totally date him!!

[@school_pizza]

it's weird how people can be so alike, yet so different

[@bloomlooms1283]

I never really hear other people feeling the same about marriage and kids as me but then the guy spoke and 💖💖💖😭👏👏

[@CM-ee9fg]

This guy's eye contact is impeccable!

[@ei4480]

I just want to be on this to find out what name I look like!! someone please tell me 😭

[@user-dn8pf2op5r]

fr same

[@mikaylaheheheh1201]

[E&I] Jessica!!! You look like a Jessica. What's your actual name??

[@ei4480]

Mikayla Heheheh thank you!! haha my name is Erin :)

[@bellaedwards9575]

You look like a Miranda

[@ei4480]

omg thank u for the feedback 🙌🏼

[@janetwelling372]

She looks like Melissa Hastings for Pretty Little Liars

[@erykapetshop]

Jenny Schneider that's what i was thinking omg

[@TheAvengerShadow]

Yeppp rachel mcadams Plus her name is allie,Same to McAdam's role in The Notebook

[@gabrielleelkhoury180]

Eva longoria

[@btzmttx]

She looks like Emas watson mother

[@TheAvengerShadow]

Neida veid Bruh.😧

[@eller3794]

im addicted to these. i wanna be in one this seems so fun to do

[@itzmagnitude5968]

So we just gonna ignore this man said “it’s like pulling out a gerbil like woah!!”

[@samaaali2258]

Nooooooooooooooooooo chemistry

[@Participant]

"The funny thing about choosing sides is that you don't have to be all the way on one side or the other. It's okay to be feeling like 'this is the one I align with a little bit more, and it's not perfect, but at least there's stuff I can appreciate a little bit more on this side.'" - Allie

[@artnergy4964]

Yeah, I don't buy that. The minute lacigreen (a feminist) wants to start talking to the other side, she got so much backlash from the feminists and former friends on the left and she's not even a conservative.

[@phoenix9999]

Can we get updates on all the people that went on dates?

[@alejandrob6761]

SoulPancake thats a very centrist point of view and very ignorant just so you know.

[@phoenix9999]

@alejandro B How is it ignorant? When I took government class it is actually normal to be more central between both views. The majority of people are not far left or far right. Most of us have more layers and our views are not as straight forward.

[@jamesgivens7132]

SoulPancake I would love to be in one of your shows!

[@brandonezdoofenshmirtz2916]

I like both of these people, they don't obsess over politics. And they are both pretty friendly. Plus she was REALLY good at guessing

[@ppumpkin3282]

I'm not surprised his parents got divorced. His father said "go to church", his mother said "ignore your father".

[@MadeofMysteries]

Disappointed in most of these comments tbh

[@MadeofMysteries]

anna sadly true.

[@johnnyyip9404]

MadeofMysteries It's not sad. KZbin comment section is a cesspool of idiots, trolls with no consequences, and close minded people who think their opinion applies to everyone. It's expected and predictable.

[@Mandy_Grace]

Johnny Yip 100% agreed

[@Beaneabean]

Why. Edit: I see why, I had only read about 4 when I first commented lmao.