Has a family member denied your FaceTime or phone calls?
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@peppa_pig_6 жыл бұрын
"they try to facetime you on the low and see what you looking like...DENIED..no boo" lmfao same
@BlackGirlLovesAnime66 жыл бұрын
Bertha Lovejoy 😂
@Myaccount9236 жыл бұрын
Bertha Lovejoy yep!! Niggas do it all the time. You’re gonna see me when I’m done up boo get over it
@sarahadams74376 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@Auraureole5 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@johnanon31913 жыл бұрын
And to see who you wit
@josephine429016 жыл бұрын
Tamera is so genuinely sweet.. I like her spirit.
@Sara-sm4ck5 жыл бұрын
La_Trolette who tf r u
@newname30215 жыл бұрын
Sara oh they trash, you couldn't tell?
@latrolettteeeeeee5 жыл бұрын
@@Sara-sm4ck I AM LA TROLETTE
@AmbyJeans5 жыл бұрын
La_Trolette Naw just a good ol fashion troll that belongs back under that bridge ➡️
@latrolettteeeeeee4 жыл бұрын
@Rebel Sara YOU ARE ALL SO MEAN TO ME
@RoodianneTide6 жыл бұрын
Lol I love Tamera’s “offended” face. “Ohmaigoish” 😂😂
@mrsx25966 жыл бұрын
Larianne & Roody I thought I was the only one, I kept replaying it, so freakin cute😍
@abigailgarcia35996 жыл бұрын
And immediately takes a drink lol
@DEsha295 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of sister sister days 💕
@Dominique9106 жыл бұрын
We all got that one friend that talks about NOTHING!😂
@HewanYitagesu6 жыл бұрын
I’m that person ☠️
@miimonalisa6 жыл бұрын
My cousin
@unnderneath6 жыл бұрын
When your friend circle is nonexistant
@des86796 жыл бұрын
Revival same
@fabx7256 жыл бұрын
Dominique Jones Im that person lol😂
@carlaeyyy6496 жыл бұрын
Tamara's so cute. "I just sit there and listen"
@mrsb02156 жыл бұрын
Carlaeyyy Yesss! Love her ❤️
@Pr1ncesssierra4 жыл бұрын
Carlaeyyy Yes! I’m the same way. She’s a cancer and we love to listen lol.
@UnyikQueen6 жыл бұрын
Tamara looks so pretty today 😍 Love these ladies!
@UnyikQueen6 жыл бұрын
Yes :) Love them!
@kr0324-b9y6 жыл бұрын
She always looks amazing !
@Torihappyness6 жыл бұрын
I need the tutorial!!!
@SafexTrip6 жыл бұрын
Tamira
@alexismum6 жыл бұрын
*Tamera
@sunkissgirl8186 жыл бұрын
tamera is such a good and humble person 💗
@alexiastargirl6 жыл бұрын
I like talking on the phone. It's more intimate. I rather it than texting when I have free time
@crystalmorrison16166 жыл бұрын
alexia gordon I rather text and VN
@xo_fattie6 жыл бұрын
I hate texting because text messages can come off the wrong way that's why I love phone conversations and to actually hear the other person voice is better than texting
@Nzitani6 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@jennyoyster50546 жыл бұрын
alexia gordon I hate calling. People talk too much and don’t know when to stop. I prefer texting because it’s on my own time. I direct everything. Plus, I can express myself better.
@No1superjuicey6 жыл бұрын
+Jenny Oyster i totally agree wit u! these days people think just because u have a phone your always avaliable smh
@Notrequired43216 жыл бұрын
This gonna seem soooo disrespectful....but i just hang up mid chat and then put phone to flight mode for 10mins. Ill usually text back hours later saying my phone died or some nonsense. I should really stop doing it tbh LOL sorry, not sorry
@maharawchaa6 жыл бұрын
ICU Booboo lol ! N I thought I was the worst jst not callin my grandmas cuz thy dnt e txtin
@honeybutter79536 жыл бұрын
ICU Booboo Lol..good idea..I will be using that!
@thatssocrystal57156 жыл бұрын
SAVAGE
@TheOnyxNightshade6 жыл бұрын
That is SO fucking rude. I'm gonna start doing it 😂😂😂😂😂
@tianamiller68206 жыл бұрын
This is kinda rude but hilarious too loool😂 I couldnt get away with doing this though because people already know I hate phone calls so they would know something was up
@kirky30516 жыл бұрын
Jeanie’s “keep it 100” reminded me of Tamar
@goooglia6 жыл бұрын
i noticed this season in particular, tamar hasnt left the show. shes inside jeannie.
@mssr1316 жыл бұрын
That was exactly what I thought too when Jeannie prenounced 100 that way since Tamar used to do that
@Kirwina6 жыл бұрын
I cannot recall Tamar doing anything to Jeannie, what are people talking about?
@shuntelajuarez18426 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeeesssss!!!! She is really cramping Tamar’s style.
@lilp23506 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@Kiarakaior6 жыл бұрын
Right here Jeannie #androidgang
@gloriah77556 жыл бұрын
Kiara Campbell
@meriem07106 жыл бұрын
What if it's an emergency if someone keeps calling back ?? I always pickup my phone and call back !! Y'all ungrateful people need to be thankful that someone actually picks up the phone to call u and hear ur voice in the texting/chatting era
@honeybutter79536 жыл бұрын
Meriem Brik And ask to borrow money, to live with you, to use your uber account...etc..people only look to come up off of you these days. I let it go to voicemail. If its important, I will return the call.
@tianamiller68206 жыл бұрын
Honey Butter if its contant calling during a small period then yeah I would call back but if the person only calls once then thwy are clearly not that serious about needing to speak to me. But yh thats another way to look at it too it is a nice thing that they actually want to hear your voice.
@Serenityblu236 жыл бұрын
I have family members that call trying to get in contact with my mom for a family emergencies. Every time I pick up the phone and I tell them she's at work ect. They won't tell me what the emergency is so they will have another relative in other state call to tell me about what's going on. Sad thing is we live 30 mins away and they could of just told us no need for a relative in another state to call us and tell us.smh
@LaDimplez915 жыл бұрын
Preach!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽💯
@catalinaunda73375 жыл бұрын
I read this with my mom’s voice😂
@mirdjineprevilus9176 жыл бұрын
Been loving the wigs lately Ms.Loni Love
@sirenal43976 жыл бұрын
Jine Armindo Loni always has the best wigs. 💟💟
@ReisWorld6 жыл бұрын
Yes Loni I hate pictures because my family takes pictures of everything eating cake at a birthday etc than post it on facebook
@Jess_cool256 жыл бұрын
lmao Adrienne is just a bad friend. If it ain't her family or her husband, she ain't here for you.
@meriem07106 жыл бұрын
she became like that after she got married she lost all that fun hip personality
@goldenflower63376 жыл бұрын
And I love that about her. My close girls are considered sisters, with that being said. Yep only here for family ❤️
@meriem07106 жыл бұрын
You Tried It! naaah Tam is married and still have fun , Ade starting to sound like a snob
@meriem07106 жыл бұрын
Music I SAID TAM STILL WANNA HAVE FUN !! UNLIKE ADE I FEEL LIKE SHE'S DONE WITH HAVING FUN ON THE SHOW SHE'S TOO I DON'T KNOW LIKE PRUDE AND JUDGY !!
@xoxohayaati6 жыл бұрын
Jessica Valdes she think she boujee
@annalovesvanna6 жыл бұрын
I love these girls!! I love how free our girl Jeannie is now that Tamar is gone. She's so much more bubbly and outspoken.
@aleesharenea78676 жыл бұрын
annalovesvanna Tamar been gone.you Late girl
@1douglagyal6 жыл бұрын
I'd quicker say "since her divorce" seeing as that's very recent and Tamar has been gone......
@annalovesvanna6 жыл бұрын
Aleesha Renea I know she's been gone for over a year, but I was watching older videos right before this notification came on, and it was a very different vibe.
@lovexoxo2516 жыл бұрын
Lord I wish people would stop talking about Tamar now she been gone so long. And Jeannie has always been bubbly, she never stopped.
@fromthemoonandmybed6 жыл бұрын
so why did tamar leave, just curious? still not in the loop.
@thatssocrystal57156 жыл бұрын
I don't like texting or taking on the phone unless it's important or really juicy lol but other than that I rather just set up a date and talk to someone face to face!
@Pinkfond6 жыл бұрын
I like calling people when I have to cook or clean.. makes things go faster and catching up with the latest gossips 2 birds one stone ✌😉 #Housewifetricks
@Pinkfond6 жыл бұрын
Chiamaka your mom is my people 😄
@Pinkfond6 жыл бұрын
absolutely ridiculous if it's really juicy I'll sit for it 😅
@Pinkfond6 жыл бұрын
Amna Shafi yes girl🙋
@MANAL836 жыл бұрын
Quoteme K I do the exact same thing I go thru my contacts nd pick out the person that will most likely talk 4 the length of duration of whatever chore I'm doing. Like cooking will be reserved 4 the biggest chatter who has alot of time, and light cleaning will be for a friend that I spoke to not too long ago so there wont be too long a convo.
@mrsb02156 жыл бұрын
Agreed! I love FaceTiming while I’m in the kitchen or I just watch KZbin lol
@ahhhrealmonsters5 жыл бұрын
Tamara is just such a nice person. You can tell from her demeanor, voice and just overall person.
@CourageDearHeart3166 жыл бұрын
Jeannie I officially love you. #TeamAndroid
@BigbossBonita6 жыл бұрын
I really believe that since Adrienne was a childhood star that a lot of her friends let her get away with being rude inconsiderate and just overall a bad friend. I would never have her as a friend based off half of the stuff she says on the show. She just seems self absorbed and man crazy to consider anyone outside of that bubble
@user-cv5rb5cj1y6 жыл бұрын
Meh, I agree. She should appreciate her friends wtf is the matter with her. She always gives off the vibe that she thinks her friends are exhausting, that's not normal
@queenlanapepsicola23386 жыл бұрын
Dude life is too short to worry about being perfect. She seems fun , I would def be friends with her.
@hlengiwezungu81525 жыл бұрын
U really must not like her. I don't like talking on the phone either coz most ppl wanna talk about nothing and repeating yoself for 3 hrs. I get her
@shawncasey43313 жыл бұрын
Same, I feel like when she got married she thinks she's better than everyone.
@kamicam29886 жыл бұрын
Peep Loni's shade towards Jeanie (i think) from 2:07 to 2:18 lol. That friend that talks and talks...and talks
@DrHen-xd3rv5 жыл бұрын
U made me go back to check out. I see it now. Smh.
@refentseroxanne4 жыл бұрын
That’s not Jeannie ,😹😹 that’s Adrienne
@ineedya1236 жыл бұрын
Boii Jeannie delivering the story so happy, when it's actually very sad for a young man to feel abandoned by his loved ones...
@stanbalo6 жыл бұрын
I am no fan of Justin but it seems he really is lonely and need that real talk with someone
@omphilemoerane25696 жыл бұрын
stanbalo But the question is WHY are they denying his calls? Makes me suspect he was doing the same when he was busy living the high life on tour and now that he's got some down time he has time to call them. Maybe they're just giving him a taste of his own medicine
@Beaneabean6 жыл бұрын
Omphile Moerane Its possible that he’s not that amazing irl to people who actually know him, considering hes not a celebrity to them, but family and a close friend.
@stanbalo6 жыл бұрын
Of course to his relatives he is just plain old Justin. But seriously, when u are thrown like that in the public arena At Such A Young Age, Things will Be Difficult And Can Really Play Tricks On Your Mental Health.
@lovlymine56425 жыл бұрын
Me2😂
@user-oq2eh1fo2s4 жыл бұрын
Omphile Moerane you can’t blame him for not always answering their calls when he’s in tour. Tour is very, very busy.
@AlisonRyce6 жыл бұрын
My parents had 5 children & ALL 5 of us LOVE to spend HOURS talking & joking on the phone. We have each other, so we do that almost daily. That way, our friends don’t get tired of us.
@briyannamcbride15706 жыл бұрын
I love how genuine Tamera is! I would be like that if I did not have so much pride.
@setaparttalk6 жыл бұрын
@2:10 Loni really wanted to say 'Girl, that friend is you' lool
@emanuel90636 жыл бұрын
2:08 Loni is probably like Jeannie that’s you😂
@ravenwillis63826 жыл бұрын
I love actually talking on the phone... hearing my mans voice is so precious.
@claudiawaithe31486 жыл бұрын
Talking over texting every time. The fact that someone wants to hear my voice makes me feel that I matter. I can even put the phone away easily just to talk to you cause no tech, email, or messaging app can replace what you to do me everyday.
@truustruus9806 жыл бұрын
Why do i feel that Adrienne is being mean about her friends...
@avasd596 жыл бұрын
amira amira I'm with her on this one 😂😂
@truustruus9806 жыл бұрын
Yes but it seems like she is always kind of putting her friends down. I can remember an episode where she said that she doesnt really want to hear about her friends hartbreak. And also on an other episode she said she doesnt like to do the things her friends like to do because she is married now......
@avasd596 жыл бұрын
amira amira yeah I know what you mean
@LIZZyNIqUZZ106 жыл бұрын
Face time sucks 😂
@Jess_cool256 жыл бұрын
I ain’t even gonna lie. Can’t forget all the times Ade shaded and side eyed Jeannie while she was Tamar’s groupie. And now she is speaking a totally different game... but she still the same in her actions.
@ultimereine6 жыл бұрын
Loni tried to point at 2:09 and ended up playing it off! im dead!
@allisonl60116 жыл бұрын
Loni looks AMAZING! & the SHADE from her when Jeannie was talking about declining someone who talks too much was REAL lol 😂
@hxh29986 жыл бұрын
Is this the week to hate on Adrienne? She's been getting bare hate for the pettiest things...like c'mon
@shaanh25096 жыл бұрын
#teamAndroid
@mulattomo90516 жыл бұрын
Loni & Tamera are like a perfect TV show friends lol the audience laughing adds the effect lol
@charla7126 жыл бұрын
Loni you are GORGEOUS OMG
@HewanYitagesu6 жыл бұрын
I never face time. It’s all awkward when you don’t want to have a long conversation.
@shanforshort87136 жыл бұрын
Adrienne loves her bloody husband 😂🤷🏽♀️. I think she’s happy being married to Israel the multimillionaire. She’s that person who strives to have a perfect almost envious life.
@tiaraw8726 жыл бұрын
Shan Parke you must look at her Instagram a lot. That’s why you saying that. Because she never even says or acts like she’s perfect
@MouseCrusader6 жыл бұрын
wow someone actually happy in their marriage. what a concept.
@dianaapplehead88156 жыл бұрын
Shan Parke wish she gets pregnant...
@teeanna6 жыл бұрын
Shan Parke you sound like the biggest hater ever
@teeanna6 жыл бұрын
Why is she not supposed to love her husband? You sound stupid
@Kiarakaior6 жыл бұрын
Yes me 2 I hate talking on the phone cuz it end up being dead silence I like texting more
@unnderneath6 жыл бұрын
When you don't have anyone that calls you, my phone is dry 💀
@nanaabenadarkowaah18006 жыл бұрын
"I don't have a choice." 😂😂😂😂
@Dodocita926 жыл бұрын
Tamera is soo cutee lol “I just sit there and listen “ wonderful human being
@Angelface116 жыл бұрын
Be kind to your friends..as they won't be there someday. Tamara is the nicest. Good mom those girls have.
@ladidodi89125 жыл бұрын
Loni is a great friend. I love her honesty. She is the kind of friend that will always tell you when you are looking stupid. And she is always there when you need her. She actually said that she answers in case she needs helps with the kids...NONE of my blood even does that😩
@sajaa.6 жыл бұрын
I LOOOOVE talking on the phobe with my peeps and especially Facetime and my friends always pick up! 💛
@ghanaiannn6 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo Tamera looked so hurt when loni said it's cause she got kids. 😂😂😂 there there tam
@kenya23236 жыл бұрын
Jeannie talking about having the camera away from your face and waving/ Loni talking about putting the person on mute and just letting them go on is so me.💯 Just like Jeannie there’s certain calls I don’t pick up cause they just talk too much and I hate that.
@Myluxury1stHair6 жыл бұрын
lmaooooo. Some people do talk a long ass time about the same thing over and over and I just be like... "That's crazyyyy..., yehhh..., uh huh.., oh worddd?" lolllololol
@chatwithchante6 жыл бұрын
Huh? Lol Tamera says she likes texting more. But a season or two ago she said she would rather hear laughter than to read a text that says “LOL” 😂
@anita54096 жыл бұрын
I prefer texting but would still prefer to hear someone laugh then read Lol. You don't even know if someone is laughing with Lol, lol.
@chatwithchante6 жыл бұрын
anita abbey eastoe that’s true, but I just quoted what she said lol. Hmmm..so I wonder which one she REEEAALLYY likes
@Ohmide6 жыл бұрын
We all change. Tastes change There is a time n season for every. Lol
@riss56936 жыл бұрын
Olamide Ajewole agreed. I was gonna say people change 🤷🏽♀️
@nevermind76176 жыл бұрын
For me it depends on who’s calling. I only talk on the phone with 2 of my closest friends. One of my friends legit we FaceTime for sooo long. Lmao sometimes we don’t even talk I would just be doing my hw and she’s doing hers or watching a show or something. But anyone else, um deny lmao text me if you wanna chat.
@AndreJohnsonWriter6 жыл бұрын
When Tamara said she just listens. the audience said "aww" 😂😂😂
@jonnydavis60666 жыл бұрын
I thoughtTamera was gonna say "uhuh ok what's up shut up"3:53 😂 #trickDaddy
@truthshetold6 жыл бұрын
So We not gonna talk about Loni about to point at Jeannie, cus she's the friend that talks too much? 😂😂😂
@imisipeletu5 жыл бұрын
TruthSheTold I meannnnn...😅☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️
@summerlyric5066 жыл бұрын
Yep Jeannie you kept it real as usual. Only people I can tolerate phone convos with is my husband and mom. Why call when you can text???
@hafsahussein3656 жыл бұрын
what if I'm the one declining the FaceTime because I don't wanna get caught looking busted
@SoshiStars5 жыл бұрын
*2:07** Loni was going to point at Tamera but she stopped cause it would be shady 🤣*
@Kiarakaior6 жыл бұрын
Loni don't answer my phone calls😩😀
@Sugafied086 жыл бұрын
Jeannie wit the Android!!!!! God I love her 😂😂😂😂
@lesleywillis36506 жыл бұрын
Loni stay hurting Tam feelings. Tam learn something new about their relationship everyday 😂😂
@alyssa96466 жыл бұрын
tamera is so pure i swear 🤧💖💖
@AngelAngela5 жыл бұрын
Tamera is on the side like “I am that friend”😂👏 she’s too cute😩😂💕
@user-os3gp6pv5h6 жыл бұрын
adrienne is an unreliable friend
@raf_zilla6 жыл бұрын
The fact that he quoted a part of his song in his caption totally flew over Jeannie Mai's beautiful head. She's adorable
@4everu9846 жыл бұрын
I love these ladies!!! ❤️💙💜💚💕💓
@xo_fattie6 жыл бұрын
I really dislike this new generation wanting to text all the time! Like no dammit call me on the phone. I'm old school 80's baby so I'm used to wanting to hear the other person voice on the phone instead of conversating through text. Why text your fingers off text when you can just talk on the phone....I can't deal with this generation smh
@bb59404 жыл бұрын
Ok boomer
@carlypena82624 жыл бұрын
Tamara is just so humble and sweet ❤❤
@kennettabradford65663 жыл бұрын
Awww. Tamera so sweet I just sit there and listen. She's my fav
@lenaa13636 жыл бұрын
Now that tamar is gone‼😞Jeannie has been so much happier💙 edit:for the ppl saying im late or wat ever ik tamar been left but jeannie just seems so much happier now since tamar left like her mood is better now so..💯‼
@MimiHawk6 жыл бұрын
TK Girls Tamar been not on the show tho.. lol
@lenaa13636 жыл бұрын
Smyrne Hawkinson ik but u can still see she happier
@lemonandtootsie98976 жыл бұрын
Yep- I love them four and their dynamics
@aleesharenea78676 жыл бұрын
TK Girls Tamar been gone
@taybluejay6 жыл бұрын
lets not do that, she’s been gone for about a year now no need to bring that up
@grechellgodoy30556 жыл бұрын
jeannie at the end.. LMFAOOOO
@nikanikigrbec6 жыл бұрын
everybody glass be full but tamera be sippin that drink like its her first time drinking 😂😂 turn up girl.!! 😍😍😍
@neverever82646 жыл бұрын
They are looking so gorgeous today, Especially Tamera, Jeannie and loni. I love their hairstyles. Jeannie this weave is so good on you
@tiffanymatsvai19296 жыл бұрын
You need to book an appointment with me if you want to facetime
@joannaherodotou14916 жыл бұрын
Nice how Loni and Tamera are now besties. Loni really cares about Tam and her family. It's very nice.
@violethuang92366 жыл бұрын
I have friends that we can talk about nthn forever but have a good time either way
@Kissmenai5 жыл бұрын
Yo when I see my family members calling ,I just stare at the phone until it stops ringing 😂😂
@aLifetoLove_2 жыл бұрын
Yes sis! I love this response 👏🏾
@MegaSizeBunny6 жыл бұрын
Tam is just a complete sweetheart. She’s basically totally innocent which is kind of the opposite of Tamera in Sister Sister. I just love her lol 😂😘
@usafab51136 жыл бұрын
I love Loni and Tameras relationship its so cute :)))
@honeybutter79536 жыл бұрын
Face time? I don't like talking on phone or texting..let alone face time. My people have 8 cylinder motor mouths..
@zineb84946 жыл бұрын
when someone that talks nonstop calls me, I put my earphones on and answer them, put the phone in my pocket and carry on with my life, keep doing whatever I was doing
@emmanuelmuzumara85046 жыл бұрын
2:07 LONI POINTING AT JEANNIE AND TAMERA LAUGHING 😂😂
@lifeascort27883 жыл бұрын
Fast forward to NOW😂 Loni facetimed Garcielle and it didn’t go well😂
@abigailgarcia35996 жыл бұрын
Lol Jeanie at the end 😂
@sushilover96 жыл бұрын
Adrienne would be the worst friend lol
@alyssaramirez42536 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. sometimes we are not FaceTime ready!!! lol 😂
@LIZZyNIqUZZ106 жыл бұрын
Jeannie throwing shade to her friends lmao
@yasminramirez11606 жыл бұрын
Honestly such a fan of all of them. I would genuinely love to just sit down and drink coffee with any of them and not make a big deal of them being celebrities, but much rather a friend.
@cwengamgadle236 жыл бұрын
Loni been looking goodt lately and them wigs baby😍😍😍
@jmo-justmyopinion-classy78516 жыл бұрын
Wow Loni... “I only answer cus you have kids”.... poor Tam Tam
@Tee-of1rr6 жыл бұрын
Chileeeeee catch the shade Loni was throwing when Jeannie was talking bout that one friend that takes too long on the phone
@elliebee77965 жыл бұрын
My mom still says I need her for something to get off the phone, I’m a teenager. 😂😂😂
@vickymary994 жыл бұрын
Yo Duo is the perfect FaceTime bridge between Android and Apple! Better quality
@alexandriapinkstar6 жыл бұрын
I live 600 miles away from my parents and siblings...so when they don’t answer and I’m really just frustrated at life or just need to see them to see what they’re up too, I get so much more upset.
@Lilka200619906 жыл бұрын
I like calling because the business is taken care of right away and with no confusion, texting takes too long.
@trinigrl096 жыл бұрын
It's interesting that Adrienne acts like she can't be bothered with anyone……It's fine that she's not a FaceTime person but she just seems kind of narcissistic to me…..I have too much to do? All the time though?? I remember her saying that she didn't want to listen to her friends' problems in a past episode……..I bet if her friends treated her as dismissively as she treats them she would be complaining about them not giving her the time she deserves……There are some real emotional leeches out there that expect you to pour into and support them AT ALL TIMES BUT WOULD NOT BE WILLING TO DO THE SAME FOR YOU….
@brittneyhall16015 жыл бұрын
Have a great show The Real show keep Rick and God bless make me smile 😊
@mariefalzoine48735 жыл бұрын
Tamara has such a pure heart.
@Charlenedoesstuff6 жыл бұрын
I hate Face Time...we need an appointment for that!!!.....and Jeannie is speaking my language!!! That mute button...I have cleaned the kitchen, vacuumed, used the bathroom, fed the cat, folded laundry...LOL... just through in the occasional "uh huh"....that mute is my friend...