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[@flint2080]

Need Mrs. W to share what women may expect in a man. Probably a good education for the young bucks that follow.

[@nickhigh100]

This would be a great idea.

[@maxwhitman1878]

I agree. I think it would be a educational video,that I would definitely watch.

[@bobthompson4133]

A woman never knows what she needs in a man and that never equates with what she “wants”. Woman can only advise women.

[@flint2080]

@@bobthompson4133 I see alot of men failing that come from fatherless homes and those with both parents. My wife and I are very clear in our roles. That comes from discussions on both sides.

[@ultrastoat3298]

That's not her place to do that....according to this video lol. You guys are wild.

[@PrimitiveOverland]

This is the last video that my ex girlfriend and I watched together. After that there was an obvious conversation and I thought we were headed in the direction of success, love and happiness. I was in school to become a firefighter the next day and she left me a note saying goodbye. I woke up this morning a couple months later and searched for this video to remind me of the path that I’m on and to remind me that I didn’t loose anything of value. The high road is the one less traveled because it is not the easiest path but often the most rewarding. Thank you mr wranglerstar for your videos. I never knew refurbishing an old axe and watching one of your old videos would spark an interest in me and motivate me to become a firefighter and to do better things with my life than waist it. I only wish I could shake your hand and thank you in person.

[@dsan94]

She probably left you because you have s*** taste in content. Having a direction/goal/life outside of a relationship is a normal part of human existence. The rest of this video is a misogynistic clusterf*** of right wing insanity.

[@kyscott4561]

Growing up, my grandfather told me a story that has stuck with me to this day. The story was that of a stray dog that wondered up and down the railroad. One day the dog fell asleep next to the rail with the end of it's tail upon the rail. A train comes by and the first wheel takes off the end of the dog's tail. It jumps up and swings it's head around only to have the next wheel take off it's head. The moral of the story is "don't loose your head over a piece of tail". And so endeth the lesson.

[@jimrhoads9810]

very good advise................

[@tommcdavid9917]

I'm gonna steal this and post it on Fakebook

[@anagramconfirmed1717]

tHin bLuE LiNE🥴

[@jimrhoads9810]

my dad gave some great advise too. don't stick it in any think you don't want to marry....

[@rainydayz2891]

Love it

[@kbowers8111]

I'm not even finished with this video and I'm looking back. The heartbreaks and the grasping on to unhealthy ideas. 40 now I'm realizing i have waisted so much time. I wish i had heard this years ago. Or maybe could've seen into the future or something. Cody please keep making videos. You have no idea the impact

[@squeelerwheeler7753]

My wife and I are coming up on our three year anniversary in a few days. And I really appreciate these Dad advice videos. Over the past five years I've taken your advice to heart and it hasn't led me astray in all my relationships

[@diggerdog9096]

I could have used this advice 50 years ago ,,, everything you have said is spot on . I have wasted my life . I am old and worn out . I love life , have enough money to live on , but it's lacking . Thanks for sharing your wisdom with those who still have time to avoid the sorrow a bad mate will bring.

[@THENEWWRANGLER]

I would love to hear MRS W's version of this same topic. I think that would be very valuable.

[@patrickgarrison859]

100%

[@zmandan1685]

Same 😆

[@Trdbrglr75]

YES.

[@traviscrane9056]

100%

[@aaronburnett1131]

wolves care little of the opinions of sheep

[@cucumberpepsi]

Honestly I loved this! Something I can bring back home and share with my best friends ! You have the right idea and I respect you for saying it.

[@Chad_N_Stacey_Hopson]

Brother, It's an honor to hear such sound advice.... Thank You for always standing on your Values and showing the world what it is to continue to be a man in a world of many boys. God Bless You Cody.

[@tomashbaugh8891]

I appreciate when you have these talks Cody. God bless

[@bigmule35]

19 years with my wife and four kids , been injured horribly , been very sick and almost died.. These things that you talked about are spot on , my Lady never wavered because she knew I never quite on my goals and what I seen as my job ( the things your described in what your job is ) . She has her role and I have mine , we are very traditional and some people hate it but we are happy and together when we see other couples crash and fail over and over again. I have watched you for YEARS , may be your best video , men and women need to hear this . God bless Pal .

[@posaune814]

Cody, this message is spot on! Young men need to hear this. Especially this generation. Thanks for putting it out there.

[@IndianaDundee]

Former GF wanted me to move to NC from IN. because she got a good job there. Both of my parents had strokes the same week I was going to leave. I made a promise to my parents when I was a little boy. I promised to be there for them when they got older. Parents told me I didn't need to take care of them and that I was free to go. I couldn't look myself in the mirror had I left them, and I don't think that exGF would of saw me as a man had I went with her. Also it was a good test to see if she understood my morales, and had the same... She didn't come back to IN. and good riddance. I did just what Mr. Wranglerstar said to do, I found my purpose. Quality Women started being easy to get. Been with my Fiancee for 3 yrs now. we've had 1 real argument in all that time, and I don't mean screaming, throwing things...we have enough respect for each other and ourselves not to act that way. The X was a GIRL friend, but the fiancee is a woman, My Woman. Men, listen to the advice Mr. Wranglerstar is giving.

[@Ralphgmoney]

Good for you I have made the same pledge to my parents

[@mcl241007]

I am in the same boat.our parents wiped our butts it's time to return in kind

[@gscottbB]

Real man with real words striking soundly. I hear you brother.

I could give the message a thousand times! Just sent this to my 18yrs old son. I tell him things like this but - it’s Dad talk! Thank you for this message!

[@tomanderson2487]

This is GOLD, he is right! I know from personal experience/failure....

[@TinyTJ04]

Goodness, Cody. I can feel the heat you're taking for this one all the way from the Midwest. I appreciate you and all of the effort and investment it takes to create and share your content.

[@gibbyrp]

The last 10 seconds proved you are a wise man. I think this video will plant many good seeds. I lost the love of my life in 2012 and fell into the trap you described trying to replace what was taken. Boy did I learn the hard way. Now, Christ is my focus and whatever God puts before me is my purpose. Thank you for the confirmation that I needed.

[@bthemedia]

Timeless good advice, for every man and especially from a father to a son.

[@betrickey]

I just sent this to both of my boys. It's just the three of us, but they amazing as as based young men as I could possible ask for.

[@hunter-qs1sw]

I dont ever comment on anything but you are right in a way. Every relationship is different. Both my self and my wife work. But you have to have a path and a good woman will stand beside you on that path. She will understand that you will provide know matter what.

[@tibiranca6720]

Please don’t ever delete this video! It’s by far the wisdom that is packed within 15 minutes is unreal! I will be adding this to my favorites and watching it as often as I can to remind myself to follow my purpose and not something that will fail. Thank you so much for sharing these wise words Cody!

[@amyfeigt6715]

As a mother of young men, that's the same advice that I gave them. If you do what you need to do to fulfill yourself, you won't be looking for someone to fulfill you. If you're in a good place in your own life, good people will naturally be drawn to you, both friends & potential mates.

[@cameronf3343]

21 now and 22 in November, I just had my time learning this the hard way last year and into January. 10 awful months that I did entirely to myself for the first time in my life. I found messages exactly like this following it, of “don’t get too caught up”, and now this one, and honestly I am grateful for the authentic side of KZbin. I swear it’s exactly why I’m not about to spend all of my 20s as distressed as I spent 20.

[@bornready3869]

Oh man preaching to the choir I wasted most of my Teens and 20’s on the wrong type of women. Good message young men need to hear!

[@aloft5348]

Preach on Brother!!!! I tell my kids something similar to this all the time. Wisdom is always earned and rarely ever given easily.

[@dangangell9709]

As a 17 year old guy who is recently heartbroken, this is the most helpful video I’ve ever watched.

[@Roscoriver]

Taking this advice will keep you single…

[@scotthuston4308]

Taking his advice is like waking up early... Remember if your on time you're late, if your early you're on time... that advice will keep you healthy, wealthy, and wise...

[@dangangell9709]

@@Roscoriver I disagree, live your life and do the things you enjoy, when you do this you meet the people you are destined to meet. And when you are yourself and do what you love you meet the people that you need in your life, you meet the non judgemental, genuine people. I just needed to be reminded that I only have myself and following my purpose is all that matters, Because if I do that I can trust that I will meet the people I need to meet.

[@chandlermiller1818]

@@Roscoriver you sound like a woman

[@TheDuckMan2523]

@@Roscoriver yes, it will, but that isn’t necessarily a bad thing, it’s healthy to be able to be happy by yourself, and to try to achieve your own goals, the problem is that this is being presented as relationship advice and not as life advice,

[@Cpeezy6989]

Some of the best advice I've heard in awhile! Thank you, I needed that.

[@Ben_M_D]

Strangely enough, the wisdom in biting your tongue at the end gave HUGE credibility to everything said previously. Well done.

[@cylais3518]

"When a man lacks purpose, he distracts himself with pleasure."

[@732brudder]

I've found myself here sometimes most definitely. Could also be said as "When a man is at his toughest of times, he distracts himself with pleasure." It's a form of self-sabotage.

[@CanYouHearTheWhistling]

Lol thats how I live

[@MeldinX2]

Very true. People have to fill the void somehow.

[@jeremyaltom1303]

Seriously man, learned that the hard way

[@1flash3571]

@@CanYouHearTheWhistling Yikes!!!

[@40ozdon]

this really spoke to me, because i’ve sort of lost my focus in life after a breakup recently. definitely needed to hear this

[@that1welder680]

You know what. This is exactly what I needed to hear, You have really inspired me and for that I thank you soo much.

[@gelatofriendlyTV]

I cant begin to explain how grateful i am for you and your channel. You really are like a second father to me in a sense, ( i never really got to know my dad, he died when i was 15) so i was never taught things a father would teach his son. Ive learned so much about not only tree falling tips or how to irrigate, but also how to live life. To live with a purpose, the traditional philosophy. Thank you and may god bless you and your family.

[@E.L.RipleyAtNostromo]

Absolutely right about caving to a woman’s temporary, changing demands; she will act happy you complied, but will ultimately lose respect for you. Been there decades ago, done that.

[@larryag99]

Its a sad state of affairs when men can not speak honestly, without being shamed and cancelled. Kudos to you for making the effort.

[@alec1575]

I agree

[@bobbymulwee7641]

A man who's worried about being "cancelled" or self sensors himself isn't much of a man to begin with. Always say what you mean and mean what you say.

[@larryag99]

@@bobbymulwee7641 with a statement like that, it appears obvious you don't understand the term "cancelled". Cancelled is to lose everything you worked for your entire life. That means your entire family looses also. General Flynn and Roger Stone come to mind, but there are many many more. Does a "real" man ruin his family's life because he wants to speak his mind ? That seems irresponsible to me. But hey, maybe I'm not a real man.

[@jlautomotive6349]

Absolutely perfect advice!! Thank you!!! We need more old school for sure!!

[@kccreations5945]

There is a lot of truth in this video, but I will never tell my wife to take her problems elsewhere. Her problems are mine, her anxieties, fears, and worries are mine to help her walk through. Just as we are called to protect are wives physically we are called to protect them emotionally, mentally, and spiritually as well.

[@thirzapeevey2395]

The sad thing is, having watched them since nearly the beginning of this channel, I know Cody does those things. I'm afraid this provocative video will become the only thing people see about them.

[@wladimirrahn6194]

I am sure he does that. He was talking about the drama queen stuff, not the real issues his wife might have.

[@kccreations5945]

@@wladimirrahn6194 I hope so

[@1flash3571]

Thing is, if your wife bring her complaints to you ALL THE TIME, that would be a problem. Once in a while is ok, but if it is constant, it will bring stress to both of you. If he wife have anxiety about work, she should FIX it, or change jobs, or QUIT. She needs to go to her friends, or to her female family members who can listen to her, but her goal should be to FIX the problem.

[@1flash3571]

@@kccreations5945 He is talking about constant complaints about work, and not the serious mental problems with anxiety. If the wife have anxiety, which is a physical and mental issue, then she needs to go see a doctor. If she has a problem with deadline at work, then she need to fix her problems, by either quitting, or getting another job, or figure out why she is anxious at work so her stress wont be brought to her home.

[@rainydayz2891]

Great message ive made these mistakes it has taken way to long to catch on to my motivations in life!!! Thanks for the reminder on why I keep grinding to capture my own dreams!!

[@ghislainemaxwell8269]

Lol you pretty much raised me. I started watching you in my early teens. I respect you and respect your lifestyle

[@GoingBrokeHockey]

Spot on! There are many young bucks that don't get this talk and many more other preparedness talks.

[@Roadkillstew]

been married 35 years and this is spot on. everything he says is real and truth. great show.

[@winterschill7419]

Sounds more like a military summer camp then a marriage.

[@badoldbiker368]

Man you are so on point with this subject! I have never heard this put into words so well. I hope a lot of your younger male viewers take note of this advice.

[@jimellison9580]

Cody, this videos remind me of ted talks. I’m a 17 year old lad from the UK working on a farm, I find your content extremely informative, important and relatable. Keep it up and keep bringing balance in to our lives. Cheers

[@mycatsaliberal3848]

I have watched countless of your videos and this is the first one I have ever found I disagreed with. I don’t mind at all listening to my wife’s problems, fears or stresses. To me that’s just another way to support and to be there for you. Ofcourse to each their own. What works for us for sure isn’t what’s best for everyone else. I still love the videos. I almost always feel like I come away from watching them just a little better off.

[@GoandLove]

“I can’t speak to women, I’m not one” 😂 Very wise ending :)

[@gotmilk6955]

had me rolling lol, i felt his sigh soo much

[@valorv2665]

My thoughts ecactly🤣

[@JoBles360]

Good save

[@johnl5025]

Cody, this is one of your best videos, if not the best. Thank you for being you and for showing and sharing what it means for a man to know and live his purpose. God bless you and your family.

[@stephennewton4638]

Omg I choked laughing so hard when those three s's of what everyman wants came out of your mouth. I love hearing you just talk to a camera just as much as your project videos.

[@VintageAmmoTim]

Agreed, you don’t hear this “type” of honesty from ANYONE these days because EVERYONE is scared of the backlash they will receive.

[@M5MAGNUM]

I agree

[@charlesjenkins1225]

I fell into this same Pothole about 10 years ago. Cody... Not only are You Spot On. But I wish You had made this video 10 years ago. It would have been priceless free advice back then.

[@tallak9829]

I've always fancied Plato "The first and greatest victory is to conquer yourself; to be conquered by yourself is of all things most shameful and vile." It's silly to marry until you've conquered yourself. How can you be faithful toward your spouse without first learning to be faithful toward yourself. Unfortunately most never conquer themselves until later in life. In the words of my grandfather " You have to first be a man to yourself before you can be a man for your wife."

[@JLneonhug]

Very good. Thanks for the wise words.

[@shadesbear2143]

Grandfather advise is always the best. Thanks for sharing.

[@nathansilver9190]

Now that....was one of the best videos I have seen on youtube. Absolutely fantastic Cody, thanks for the breath of fresh reality.

[@slingflur]

When you lack a foundation and make someone else that foundation and purpose, everything that comes from that foundation is attached to it. EVERYTHING!

[@nickmagma7745]

Thanks for the honesty and talking about your personal life in such detail. Lots of young men need to hear it.

[@seshamblin788]

When you’re a dual income family with kids children those womanly duties also become manly duties because you and your spouse are a team. You have to share those duties to achieve success and happiness to much burden becomes bitterness

[@DV-ol7vt]

Very true but I don’t see to many women tilling, planting, harvesting the garden, building outbuildings, mowing, weedeating, shredding, stacking hay, feeding livestock, chopping wood, maintaining equipment and structures, plumbing, electrical work, fence repair, fence building, roof repairs, auto repair. I think I made my point. I fought with my wife for years over this stuff and I never asked her to do any of it. We both have full time jobs. She always wanted me to help take care of things in the house laundry, cooking, cleaning and babies. I’m not lazy, I can do anything. I’m not limited. I got sick and couldn’t work for a while and my wife was ready to move because the yard was to much to mow and everything started falling apart. I think now she realizes she would rather be inside in the ac when it’s 110 degrees outside. If I have to share the work inside then women need to share the work outside!

[@dzookie1]

@@DV-ol7vt “men” might as well let the woman do all the work these days. Maybe takes dual income because the “man” don’t know how to build a fence lol

[@-Anarion-]

There is much truth to that, friend. In our household, most of the choires get done by the first one that is available to do them, be it sweeping, moppind, laundry, what have you. BUT in the course of years, we see that some things are done better by one rather than the other. My wife cooks better, I can repair stuff. My wife is more thorough at cleaning and organizing, I have a mind for the cars and maintenances or I do the lifting of stuff, and the list goes on. One of the key points in this video is the sharing of responsibilities. Marriage is a two-horse carriage, as my folks kept saying. And now that I've grown older, I see a lot of unhappy marriages- because the responsibilities are not shared. So, it's not a matter of who does what, or if this is a rigid agreement or if it is more of an improvise-adapt-overcome situation. It's about having the same compatible goals in life, about understandimg, about sharing the burdens and eventually the joys of life.

[@tradrodsandcustoms]

agreed, my wife is a hard worker, a bread winner and even my hunting partner...she is also a wonderful mother and drop dead gorgeous. i dont agree that codys life is the only path, very happy it works for them!

[@tradrodsandcustoms]

@@dzookie1 lol youre being silly right? the world is expensive, having children is expensive. only a fool would claim that EVERYONE can make "enough" money in a single income household. my wife and i both work hard, make good money and are still fighting tooth and nail to accomplish our goals which lead to a better life. i can also build you any kind of fence you can dream of!

[@mikejh321]

Not often I agree with things you do or say but always watch your vids as your a honest man who talks with heart but on this one I couldn’t agree with you more your 100% correct a man without purpose is a man lost direction 👍🏼🙏🏼

[@cmw184]

I think its very important to listen to your spouse though. To strengthen your relationship, To actually care for each other. Be a husband, and a best freind.

[@ericthomas3181]

"Husband" and "best friend" are mutually exclusive sets. Best friends come and go... A spouse is a commitment that may require anything from years of patience to an instant willingness to die. The level of honor and sense of duty is much, much higher for a spouse. I'm willing to listen... occasionally and when it's a genuine crisis that may affect us both... but I'm a husband, not a friend... Understanding the difference is key.

[@jenjen2824]

Please disregard Eric's comment. If a husband and wife aren't friends then there is something tragically lacking in their relationship. How very sad. How incredibly self-centered (which is NOT what Jesus said a marriage should be like). Friendship, sharing, laughter, mutual respect, and trust are what a good marriage is made of. If a person isn't interested in having those things in a marriage then it's best to stay single - at least for their spouse. There can be no true, deep relationship without real communication and caring about the feelings and heart of the other. I would consider my life wasted if I was stuck married to someone who considered himself "not a friend" but "duty bound." smh

[@romellstokes7940]

This is the first time I've ever committed on a KZbin video. Thanks for your content keep it coming and keep standing up for us men. So few people like yourself thanks again

[@surreycountyfiddle]

We lost Dad last year. He never knew you were helping him out. Got to thank you for that, brother. All I ask, like you, is that you keep us in your prayers.

[@robertmason1020]

This is the best advise, that young men have to hear!!!!

[@setoredan]

Advice I wish I had been given and hopefully would have absorbed 40 years ago. Sadly I chose the rough and hard path with nothing to show for it. Your son is blessed to have a father like yourself, sir.

[@whatyoumakeofit6635]

Yep me to. No guidance when i was young and my refusal to do things the easy way.

[@sliver108]

Your still alive. Pursuing and falling short is better than the regret of never trying. Live...start now.

[@raypeery6317]

You are not alone.

[@msheldon005]

Ive been praying about a lot of the things you mentioned in this video and I feel like this was confirmation in a sense to me. I don't know if you read these comments but thank you.

[@nellayema2455]

Excellent video, both for the message, and the entertainment value. I'm still laughing at you struggling at the end, and at the same time empathizing with your struggle. I can relate to everything that you said, even though my life's a mess largely of my own making. We truly live in a fallen world, and it is hard. It is much harder when we lose sight of our purpose. Thanks for having the courage to post this video.

[@moparman1962]

Cody thought about saying more at the end of his video...his mind took another lap around the track to think about it...then another lap to think about it some more...and when he circled back around again, he knew it was best to end it right there vs "advising women how to think and behave". Cody is more wise than he was a few decades ago, no doubt. ;)

[@JeeperGary]

This hits close to home. After getting out of the military during the pandemic and going to college, for the first time in my life I'm not chasing women, and I'm chasing success. Your advice tells me I'm on the right track. Thank you.

[@TheOriginalAeolwind]

It hits home, 25 years too late for me, but it is spot on.

[@raypeery6317]

@@TheOriginalAeolwind same here.

[@BigBoi-6969]

You should do more of these. You have an incredibly interesting viewpoint that I haven't seen anywhere else. I'd like to hear more

[@dylanpalazzo4924]

Thank you for sharing! I am 29 now going on 30 soon. I wasted almost all my 20’s chasing women, doing drugs and partying. But thank god up until a year and a half ago I really took a look at my life when I hit rock bottom and did a complete 180. I focused on how I really wanted to get into the operating engineers union and finally got in and blessed with a great paying job, then I focused on how I wanted a place to call home since I never had one, and a year later I have a home..and guess what when I wasn’t looking and i became focused on my goals an a amazing women came along with the same mind set. It’s been a blessing for sure!

[@ptakvm]

" You regret uploading this video". Cody this may be the greatest Wranglerstar post you ever made. I'm really impressed how you "bit your tongue" but we all know your message.

[@davidmerritt5702]

Yes maybe the best ever.

[@setdown2]

Good grief....

[@sonsun9150]

👍

[@sheriakers4341]

As a woman….I totally agree! Good job!

[@NadNotsgnivil]

Cold Hard Truth! Sadly once the dysfunctional relationship model has been established, it's hard to get it righted. This must be taught to young men around age 12-13. AND repeated over and over.

[@johnmeany7004]

Hey Cody I love these longer kind of ethical videos I would personally like to see these maybe once a week it would just be nice also would love to see longer videos

[@wranglerstar]

Understood,

[@benjamonoakes173]

@@wranglerstar Yeah these videos are really helpful. It's helps me reevaluate what's truly important to me. The world is pretty confusing for an 18 y/o, but the good word and fellow believers make the path clear.

[@hermayneMUNSTER]

@@wranglerstar I agree, these "dad" talks need to be heard over and over again. Even those that have heard these growing up, it's always nice hearing a similar reminder from someone else. Thank you!

[@calioutdoorsman9300]

I've never had someone say it this way before.. I appreciate the knowledge! 💯🙏🏻

[@donbyczynski2357]

This is so true. Learned this lesson the hard way. Almost step by step as Cody laid it out. Always keep your family number one. Until that woman becomes part of your family you have to hold back.

[@AaronNW]

I stand by you on this for the most part. I too try and do my part for our marriage. But I'm also watching this while doing the dishes. And that's not one of my tasks! Imaging the smile on my Mrs. W in the morning!

[@dormflyn]

Respect. Happily married for 28 years. Respect, honor and appreciation for each other, 'nuff said.

[@yaa1455]

What does “nuff” mean?

[@livewithnick]

@@yaa1455 he actually said “ ‘nuff “ said.

[@JohnGarcia-oh2le]

You're a real man. You speak the truth. Thank you.

[@kevinhornbuckle]

Good rap. One exception I’d take is that a man should randomly do dishes and laundry and do it well, for the following reasons: maintain your own sense of self efficacy. You need that. And, it gives you empathy for the hard work she regularly puts in.

[@gingebrien2408]

Best advice I’ve heard in a long time. What ever you do , don’t apologize for what you’ve said here. Nothing like purpose.

[@Travis-js5mz]

The only thing I have to add to this is “The grass isn’t greener on the other side, the grass is greener where you water it”.

[@mikejurnak0324]

Nice 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@bcfreedomfighterbcff167]

Really well said man!

[@Trezker]

Lefties would say "Your grass is greener because you stole all the green! You have to let us plow up your lawn to release the green!"

[@Travis-js5mz]

@@Trezker 🤣

[@tinar1967]

You got it correct, define the roles and define your masculine and feminine selves. Do NOT take advantage of one another and do NOT take one another for granted. Simple and sane.

[@andrewcoates8906]

Cody, there’s a German saying that I was taught in school, that I feel sums up what you are saying. It’s just 3 little words that fit together quite nicely “Kirche, Kuche, Kinder” or in English Church, Kitchen, Children. In other words sort out your spiritual self, sort out your home life and sort out your family. If you can achieve that, then you should not need to worry about your future.

[@bulletcasey2310]

I can say with experience of almost 50 years I've had that same exact thing happened that you said and you're a hundred percent right it's a blessing to see somebody actually talk about it thanks brother God bless you and yours

[@thakori]

That german saying is pretty old and it means something completely different. It was used to describe the role of the woman in family/society. Greetings from germany.

[@andrewcoates8906]

@@thakori , thank you for explaining the saying for me. As I said, I learnt the saying when I was at school and I am now over 60. From starting German language classes at about 13 years old and hardly having the chance to practice what I learnt back then I have clearly forgotten much of what I did learn. Alas time has a habit of blurring the memories that are not accessed on a regular basis, to be honest I wasn’t sure about my spelling or the order of the 3 words.

[@jenslarsen5931]

Puh, that's a delicate subject, but I have been through a similiar experience as the guy you are talking about and ... I felt like I had lost my identity because of a a breakup. What you are saying, is so true. I don't mind trying to Help my signifcant other with her problems or anxiety, but it is important to seek help through friends or a therapist. Having purpose is key!

[@bethanyb4478]

When I was in college, I tried to boil down the essence of a good wife into one sentence. "A good wife brings honor to her husband." Several years later, I tried to define a good husband. Not so sure about this one, but I think "A good husband supports his wife" is pretty close.

[@bobitobob3453]

I think Ephesians 5:25 is the best summary of that.

[@fivefivesix3625]

One of the best videos you have put out... I may not always agree with you, but you are spot on with this...

[@agibson1111]

I see why this video has this caption. You don’t often see commentary for men that encourages us to lean towards our strengths. I could see how persons might assume this is offensive to women when it’s really not. The traditional model that your family follows is well defined, and I think that’s the biggest advantage . Both the man and the woman need to have purpose, and a relationship needs to have defined roles. Most men these days can not be the sole financial provider but that doesn’t mean defined roles should not get established. There needs to be agreement on goals, timeframes, family size,… all of it. Lastly both persons need to be accountable and reliable.

[@TheLeedgelodge]

You're spot on. I think there may be a lot of people looking further into this video than intended.

[@jenniferlee7167]

I can tell you that many women can only dream of a relationship like you describe. So many of them have men that expect their wives to support them financially and do all the housework too as well as take care of the needs of the children. Many women would love to take care of a home and family if they could rely on their husbands to take care of the finances and the outside work. They need to be a team. My father and mother had such a relationship and my father can take a car or truck apart and put it back together. You are correct that a man should have a purpose and work in it. My family is entrepreneurial. I totally agree with all you said here.

[@trevin1691]

This side of heaven I don’t think you’ll ever know the impact and guidance that came thru this yt channel today. Cody Sir, Thank you. Got both my teens to listen🙏🏻

[@isaacdejonge4371]

I really love these inspirational speeches. Please don’t ever stop making videos. Thank you

[@Und3adNation4L]

I resonate with a lot of what you said in this video. I’m a young guy 22, and I understand exactly what you tried to convey. I swear I’m an old soul in a young body. Would 10/10 listen to more videos like this though excellent.

[@johnmackey8307]

Real talk from a man of experience to those following behind is what today's society lacks. Thanks for doing these.

[@gianlukeakins6162]

As an 18 year old guy I can’t explain how helpful it is hearing this!

[@JacobOverman]

As a hard working 18 year old from nc that’s been through 1 relationship of 11 months. Thought me a lot of very valuable stuff. I will be 100% on my purpose. I’m waiting for the right one at this point and will be glad to settle at a young age with the right one. Great advice and love the content. Another good joke I heard was “chase women you will always run out of money” “chase money and you will never run out of women” but for real I see the truth. I’ll try my best to be the best

[@pioneerist2839]

First video of yours that I've ever thumbed down, and I do not do so lightly. I consider you the best friend I've never met so I want to express my disagreement with what you said as only someone who is a friend can do. While a lot of what you said is good advice, in respects to not spending your time chasing women, and it's sad your friend is going through such a difficult time, but the perspective that your wife exists to see to your needs and then shut up (the three S's) as if she is some sort of subservient piece of property is more in line with some of the more fundamentalist cultures in the middle-east. Paul said to love your wives as he loved the Church. Never once did Christ look to the Church for what it could do for him. Rather he served the Church without consideration for what he was getting out of the arrangement. We are counseled to be one with our wives, and being one does not mean that one stands above the other. Rather man and wife stand together in a covenant with God.

[@jeffhanks2175]

Cody, can you please do more videos like this. It really hits home for someone in the dating world right now. Thanks

[@Real_Grogg]

This is the best video of yours I’ve seen. And I’ve seen them all. Excellent advice and if I could go back and have a redo of my twenties, damn I’d do that in a heartbeat. So much wasted time. You provide hope though, if at 30 you started getting your plans in order, at 35 I believe I can continue to progress towards my goals as well. Thank you as always.

[@Digger927]

Thanks for uploading this message Cody, I needed to hear it and I agree completely.

[@starkhorn2626]

I completely agree, my wife is absolutely amazing, my best friend and without her we would not have been as successful as we have become because we are a great team who have been married 15 years and I wish everyone can experience what you just discussed!

[@shaneintegra]

I've been in a similar situation. Gotta learn to step back and work on yourself. Woman want to look at a man and see what he's doing, and say. "I would love to live that life with him"

[@metals_etched]

Good grief Charlie Brown, you knocked that one out of the park. This is something every young man needs to hear. I’m going to be sharing this with my son and multiple young men I have the privilege to mentor.

[@earlyriser8998]

You are so right! We have been married since we were 21 BUT we shared a gaol of retire early and go sail around the world ...and everything was focussed on that goal. We saved money, lived overseas for over 20 years, and set up our family to do that, until my back 'blew up' and two major surgeries later we had to define another goal. Having a shared purpose and clearly defined tasks for each of us has helped us reach allof oour goals.

[@nickhigh100]

I’m going to tell my wife about the 3 S’s right now! It was nice knowing you!

[@DavidMN-]

Thoughts and prayers...

[@oldanddisgusted5998]

Lol I love it

[@eyewitness2434]

You might want to kind of eeeeease into that, Nick. Good luck.

[@bujin5455]

It's important to set the expectations upfront. lol

[@M6T7Y]

If yall ain't as tight as the W's, you might need to word it differently, lol.

[@commove9615]

I have a friend who's exactly like a guy you've described. I've never shared a video that fast in my life, great words of wisdom, that is indeed a way to success!

[@Bredddi]

Been missing these kinds of videos. You have great advice which often overlaps biblical stories. Hope you make more of these and maybe even some current events ones on bitchute…

[@evanross5974]

Thanks for the video, some thought provoking content! Do you have a video of your current water filtration system?

[@StoneMountainAdventures]

I guess I just look at marriage differently. My wife is my partner. I strive to love her as Christ loved the church. When she hurts, I hurt. I could never imagine telling her to not bother me with her problems. We support each other in every aspect of life. Thats the definition of a partnership. My vows stated for better or worse, richer or poorer, sickness and health. They didnt say as long as you stay attractive, and feed me. Not sure how I feel about the first half of this video. While I agree with having a focus and a purpose, I see marriage and even the treatment or attitude toward your wife in a completely different viewpoint.

[@evilcryalotmore]

Good man

[@carmend1086]

That's right! ✅

[@OGPatriot03]

The issue with your take is that it seems naively disingenuous. I'm sure you really mean what you're saying but I'm not sure you're honest with yourself with respect to your true wants in a partner, you probably wouldn't label many of your actions as being self centered (Clearly not, you said it's the definition of a partnership) but in reality so often the things you do are done purely out of self interest. ^ Which doesn't mean both parties can't benefit, a wise person is able to recognize what truly gives them the most satisfaction and often enough the best thing for yourself IS to treat other's better, so in a way being nice to others is an outright selfish act. A wise person understands selfishness on a deep personal level, being honest with themselves they can then recognize the selfish nature of their partner and with that knowledge they can calculate the best move to improve his own life, if it's a good relationship that you want to continue then chances are the best move to improve your own quality of life is to keep that relationship as healthy as possible which means addressing your selfish wants which enables you to be cognizant of the selfish wants of your partner. If you're being rational you might realize a few things.. like the FACT that you don't want to stay with a hideous blob the rest of your life, you probably want a woman who takes care of herself- being that honest will then lead you to the following conclusion - Your partner probably expects the same from YOU and being selfish as you are you want to keep the relationship healthy and the obvious conclusion is that you need to keep yourself healthy and reasonably fit whilst also motivating your partner to do the same. ^ Speaking frankly about these things will likely be a healthy development for a good relationship. ^^ After all willful ignorance and delusion never tends to help much of anything.. The way I see it, if I got into a relationship in a physically fit state and then after marriage completely let myself go, then I've just committed an incredibly rude act(that's putting it nicely) and now my spouse has to deal with the stress of entering a relationship just for her partner to stop trying at some point down the road. There's an unspoken understanding between 2 partners that you'll basically be more or less the same person with time as you are now, that's what both parties see in their mind as they dream about their future, violating that unspoken agreement is frankly a pretty awful move and now you're still being self centered, you've just calculated that it's better to do this one thing for yourself(becoming a slob) because you don't think staying fit for the sake of your partner will improve your life and that being a slob seems relatively nice. That's either because you don't love them anymore or you're an awful tactician... Believe me I think most people are just awful tacticians and can't put 2 and 2 together. Recognize that you're a self centered being, come to understand your selfishness, and tactically wield it to your own benefit in a way that improves the lives of those around you because all evidence suggests that in the end that's the best thing for.... YOU.

[@nicholascox32]

Oh man, Ive been there! Except i was a midwest man going to live with a woman in NY. My standpoint now , some years later is always have a support system!