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Jackson Bird

Jackson Bird

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@gregorytoner6488
@gregorytoner6488 6 жыл бұрын
I came out when o was 18 in 1980 ... and every day since ... you are so correct you are always coming out and it’s great it is an awesome filter as to who I want in my life and who I can do without!! ❤️
@AndroidInHumansClothing
@AndroidInHumansClothing 6 жыл бұрын
I'm trans and now for the first time ever in a position to be stealth in my new uni. But I'm now grappeling with whether to come out to some new friends or not. I'm just so angry that we have to think about all the consequences that might happen, and at the same time I don't want to be scared to accidentally out myself in conversations...
@faithdiaz8859
@faithdiaz8859 6 жыл бұрын
I’m in a similar situation, it sucks right! But hopefully when the time is right we will both be able to show our true selves to the world. Wish u the best❤️ -from the fabulous Notnamedyet
@sleepyaugust2182
@sleepyaugust2182 6 жыл бұрын
Why dont you ask them what they thing of trans people or the lgbtq community and see how they respond. Then decide after that. I hope this might help and good luck.
@jujubeebles5079
@jujubeebles5079 6 жыл бұрын
I actually did the bandaid thing with a facebook post this morning lol I'm just waiting until my dad inevitably has someone tell him and he raises hell, but honestly I dont even care. I did it, that's what matters. Edit: I DID IT!! I came out to my dad and the rest of my friends and my few relatives, and it went great! My dad is super accepting and is quickly adapting to using the right pronouns, and has even had me pick a kick ass viking name lol Thank you guys for all the good wishes😊
@tibbythewizzrd330
@tibbythewizzrd330 6 жыл бұрын
Good luck
@faithdiaz8859
@faithdiaz8859 6 жыл бұрын
Good luck! YOU’VE GOT THIS!!❤️
@jujubeebles5079
@jujubeebles5079 6 жыл бұрын
@@faithdiaz8859 thank you!!😊
@Amaryn
@Amaryn 6 жыл бұрын
Remember you matter regardless of his reaction. Good luck ❤
@arsonleblanc2005
@arsonleblanc2005 6 жыл бұрын
Have you survived your father or has he not found out yet?
@vic5836
@vic5836 6 жыл бұрын
I relate I’m nonbinary and pan but for me the scariest is whenever I tell a new person I’m nonbinary like still so scary for me and I’ve been doing it for two years and gender is so constantly brought up like ahhhhh
@irism5302
@irism5302 6 жыл бұрын
My school put it (National Coming Out Day) on the school calendar!!
@faithdiaz8859
@faithdiaz8859 6 жыл бұрын
Awwww! Lucky your school at least cares that much
@johnromero9617
@johnromero9617 6 жыл бұрын
That’s amazing!!
@jackisnotabird
@jackisnotabird 6 жыл бұрын
Let's do a premiere for National Coming Out Day! You can chat up in the chat box to the right of the video until the video goes live at 11:30 AM Eastern tomorrow. Then, we'll all watch it together while chatting. After it plays through the first time, it'll be available like a normal video. The chat will freeze and you can leave further discussion here in the comments.
@bonnie5076
@bonnie5076 6 жыл бұрын
Hey I have a question. It's not about coming out but I would like your advice. I am figuring out my gender identity (idk what i id as and its stressful but its whatever) and i find it hard to do skin care for my face because it just feels really feminine to me and yes I know face care and stuff isn't gendered and we should all look after ourselves etc etc but that doesn't change how it just feels... icky. I was wondering if you had any tips on how to make that a better experience? Thank you thank you thank you ❤💛💚💙💜
@kadenasher327
@kadenasher327 6 жыл бұрын
I already came out last year, but today I got my dad to buy me a new binder, a packer, and a joey pouch.
@jamiebisson2752
@jamiebisson2752 6 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to this video. I have been out as a trans man for about a week. Coming out as trans has helped with my depression and some related symptoms. It turns out those were signs of fighting against my own gender identity even more than symptoms of abuse.
@davianlafountain9032
@davianlafountain9032 6 жыл бұрын
Jamie Bisson i can understand what you mean ( I’m trans)
@fudgecake4633
@fudgecake4633 6 жыл бұрын
Same here with being a trans male, slowly coming out to my school. I've been out for around two weeks :)
@davianlafountain9032
@davianlafountain9032 6 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this community
@jjjjjjjilkjij
@jjjjjjjilkjij 6 жыл бұрын
I came out a Asexual and Aromantic a few weeks ago.
@Inucat
@Inucat 6 жыл бұрын
I've been meaning to do that for years but after a disastrous first attempt with my mom (she had and still has no idea what I'm talking about and believes me to be waiting for "the one"), I never felt comfortable doing so again. At least not with people that means something to me (rest of the family, close friends). I don't want to have to explain what the terms mean and what it means for me personally so what I want to know: How did it work out for you? How much did the people you told know about being aromantic and asexual?
@carolynbaird5171
@carolynbaird5171 6 жыл бұрын
EnzictheWolf that’s incredible!! Congrats!
@marsh_all_c
@marsh_all_c 6 жыл бұрын
Congrats!
@sleepyaugust2182
@sleepyaugust2182 6 жыл бұрын
Congrats, i hope things go well.
@jjjjjjjilkjij
@jjjjjjjilkjij 6 жыл бұрын
Yes and thank you all
@jackisnotabird
@jackisnotabird 6 жыл бұрын
And hey, can the notification squad do me a solid? Let me know all the different types of push notifications you got for this video.
@davianlafountain9032
@davianlafountain9032 6 жыл бұрын
Jackson Bird I did
@user-wq9di8ro7q
@user-wq9di8ro7q 6 жыл бұрын
I got a notification of when (i assume) you put the video on youtube ready to premiere (19-20 hours ago) then I go to option to click "set a reminder" so I did. I don't normally look at notifications from the bell icon, rather, from my subscriptions page. But I'll check that just now... Right. I got a bell notification when this went live, but I don't know if that's just because I pressed "set a reminder" I didn't get any notification of the fact that you would be premiering a video later Hope this gives you enough info!
@jamiethekid2464
@jamiethekid2464 6 жыл бұрын
Hhhhhh I didn't get a notification
@Kriisz2345
@Kriisz2345 6 жыл бұрын
I noticed the notification of the premiere with my 'recommended video's' and similary to Mel I clicked the set reminder option. I got a push notification on my phone when it went up, but similarly I don't know if its because I set the reminder or not. I'm pretty sure I always get a push notification on my phone when someone I follow on youtube posts a new video, though...
@chloesutherland2087
@chloesutherland2087 6 жыл бұрын
I got a push notification when the video went live. But I don't even have notifications on?
@hellanistpunk3282
@hellanistpunk3282 6 жыл бұрын
I came out the the people at college today as we were talking about it being coming out day ,I've already come out to loads of other people in my life
@theodoreharvey4814
@theodoreharvey4814 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks after listening to my brother rant anti trans, and my sister suggesting I tell the words i needed to remember safety first. My sister knows but know one else knows.
@rtqpcrxn
@rtqpcrxn 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video Jackson. I am far from "gay-by" by now but every time I have to come out to someone new, I debate for what seems like an interminable amount of time in my head and break out in cold sweats complete with shaky hands. I'm sure it's only seconds or minutes, but when your heart is pounding in your ears and adrenaline is spiking through the roof, concept of time goes out the window. Then if I swallow my tongue or the moment passes, the shame of my indecision follows me for much, much longer. And this is from someone who has never had a negative reaction from someone. The worst I've received is an awkward "Oh." I don't think many people think much about people past their close friends and family until the first instance happens where they have to make that decision. "Do I correct my co-worker? my teacher? the woman in line in front of me at Target?" And it comes as a surprise for me every time how much I hesitate and hold back, and then the shame that comes afterwards. I think this is something that is a shared experience for everyone throughout the LGBT+ spectrum, but we really don't talk about it. Thanks for opening the door to conversation.
@rybur98
@rybur98 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I've been out as trans since June, and today was the first day since August that I was dead named to my face by an old coworker. It was one of the worst of the feelings I've ever experienced, but I corrected her and told her I'm transitioning. Even though it felt awkward, at the end, I came out of the situation feeling stronger. This video reminded me that it does get easier, and I am not alone.
@poppyhughes67
@poppyhughes67 6 жыл бұрын
I came out as non binary in August and I’m still at school so things are difficult trying to explain stuff to other kids. It is much better though when I came out. Let me tell you, it’s worth it.
@Arduran
@Arduran 6 жыл бұрын
When I came out as trans to my family I was terrified that the reaction was going to be terrible. I was ready to have to leave them and never talk to them ever again. Had a emergency bag at a friends place and had moved all my valuables out of the house. Fortunately I didn't have to do any of that and was accepted even though it was awkward for them and they didn't really know how to react. And most everyday since then I have been coming out to more and more people. And yes it does get easier but can be tiresome.
@NoahCanKnow369
@NoahCanKnow369 6 жыл бұрын
I don’t even think I come out anymore. I just say something along the lines of ‘oh I have an ex and she...’ and that’s my coming out. 🤷🏻‍♀️
@madeleineguttormsen3228
@madeleineguttormsen3228 6 жыл бұрын
I recently found out/accepted that I am bisexual and I finally built up the courage to tell my parents today and i feel so good! You and so many other incredible people have really helped me to get here
@LemonSyrrup
@LemonSyrrup 6 жыл бұрын
Happy National Coming Out Day everyone! Remember to be safe and to only come out when your ready and safe! You don't have to today if your not comfy, today is just a day to celebrate coming out! 💕
@zsaszrenton161
@zsaszrenton161 6 жыл бұрын
I’m trans and came out a few months ago to my family and friends. I told my co-workers last month and those on Facebook who know me on Sunday. Everyone has been so supportive and amazing. I want to congratulate those who are out and proud. To those who haven’t, you will find the confidence or safe environment in the future. Stay strong, you’re all awesome!
@thewhy7403
@thewhy7403 6 жыл бұрын
I'm actually not in school because of some wind from a hurricane, so I can watch it if I can escape family while it's going! Yaaaaaaay! I've come out to my mom and my sister in the past few months as FTM (he/him, use peter), and my dad knows cause mom told him, but she took it badly so he doesn't really get it. I'm going to try to bring it up and talk about it with him today, so yeah I'm coming out again. (😉)
@bonnie5076
@bonnie5076 6 жыл бұрын
Hope it went well for you!
@yuvalne
@yuvalne 6 жыл бұрын
Wow, I can relate so much. I actually didn't have a big deal coming out to my friends, because they knew I was questioning before I came out as trans. Alternatively, my "big" coming out was to my teachers, but luckily, I had a lot of support from my friends, and I'm so thankful for that.
@Goozenberi
@Goozenberi 6 жыл бұрын
This is a great message. Very well said. I identify as nonbinary, and honestly I hardly even come out to people because it usually comes with questions or confusion that I just don't want to deal with. It's also a good reminder that the more we come out and talk about our experiences, the more visibility our community gains.
@tywhite3940
@tywhite3940 6 жыл бұрын
I never really came out as bi, I just told my family who I was dating and that was totally cool. Then one day in 8th grade I asked my mom if I could dress more masculine. I'm lucky enough that my mom allows gender expression of any sort. The only issues are hormones and surgery. But every time I've come out to someone they've either been supportive or I've realized its best to avoid them. Honestly moving schools before coming out may have made it easier because my classmates hadnt built any bias. Sometimes I don't remember being trans can get me in harm until in situations because the people I surround myself don't make a big deal about it.
@brookefieschi-rose5245
@brookefieschi-rose5245 3 жыл бұрын
I came out recently (not in the best way mind you, but i digress) and I cannot tell you how true this is. So far only about half my class knows somehow, as well as my main teacher, and exactly TWO people know my preferred name. I'm still have to come out to my parents, my siblings, the whole rest of my class, the staff, the staff my next school, as well as any Starbucks employee who wonders why the name given is a number. Yay, enbies.
@anonimouse5533
@anonimouse5533 6 жыл бұрын
I came out as trans (umbrella term) last spring, and I've been refining what terms I use, pronouns, and my name over the past six months. Also, on the way back from a family trip recently I was "alarmed at the groin" (the tsa agent's terminology) and there was an awkward moment before the tsa agent decided that it was the "wrong gender" that had been picked. I'm enby and bluhhhhhh Anyway, on the whole I'm a lot happier this way.
@cruellykawaii
@cruellykawaii 6 жыл бұрын
I did a Facebook coming out! My family reacted by, unexpectedly, completely and totally ignoring it, continuing to misgender me, and pretending nothing had happened.
@htg12006
@htg12006 6 жыл бұрын
I came out to my friends very quickly after realizing my sexuality but I didn't really feel like coming out to my parents at the time, which is 100% fine. But one of my cishet friends who's never come out in their life and likely never will took it upon themselves to tell me that I needed to come out to my parents RIGHT NOW. Needless to say I ignored them and waited the six months like I wanted to but it was quite annoying considering they have no idea how nerve-wracking it is
@Lavender_Louis
@Lavender_Louis 6 жыл бұрын
Wow. I don't know why I didn't expect a video like this. So powerful! Thank YOU and happy coming out day💙
@benw9949
@benw9949 6 жыл бұрын
So true. Jackson's exactly right on this. -- It took me way too long to come out. But oh, I did not realize I'd have to do it again and again, in awkward situations or easy ones. It's better to tell some people in person. It's OK not to tell someone if you know they won't accept it. It's probably also OK to tell them just so they have to deal with it later, that someone they know / care about really is not straight. (gasp) -- Hmm, and I expected people to be surprised. Nope. I got the distinct impression this was not a surprise to them. People I'd known since high school, for instance. -- I know the usual advice is to let the person come out when they are ready. But it irritated me: Oh, I would have liked to have known I could have talked to those friends and would have been accepted and supported so much earlier. Or if some friend (especially any gay friends) could have helped me out of that closet in a friendly way, oh, that could have helped me. -- I needed a gentle push / pull / shove / tug / something, and I needed some acceptance and, er, some positive experiences testing the waters, so to speak. -- So although I understand the usual advice, I also think some of us need a little help to get there, out of that toxic and too-confining, too-conflicted closet. -- To all of you who are coming out or still figuring things out: It's OK, there are lots of us like you, and lots of us have been through it too, the same sort of stuff you're going through now, whatever flavor of not-so-straight you might be.
@gablison
@gablison 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! It has inspired me to tell my dad after 6 months of medically transitioning (well psych evals only, for now, but hopefully T next year)! so wish me luck! Wishing everyone well! Well... here goes nothing...
@starpasta
@starpasta 6 жыл бұрын
This was awesome, and reminded me to do my yearly celebratory National Coming Out Day post. I've done it twice thus far, and I've been using puns. This year's was "Ain't no lie, I'm bi bi bi" because I'm a proud 90s child AND bisexual.
@brenmoyer4896
@brenmoyer4896 6 жыл бұрын
Love and respect to the elders 💖❤🧡💛💚💙💜✌ Thank you for your bravery ☮
@arithewizard9747
@arithewizard9747 6 жыл бұрын
big yes to coming out being a constant as a non binary person, and that second after u correct someone! thanks, Jackson !
@drewtumlinson1889
@drewtumlinson1889 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for talking about this, Jackson! I completely agree we are constantly coming out for...well...ever. We’re constantly meeting new people or old classmates and coworkers, etc. and being in situations where we may need to come out especially as trans individuals.
@zekethegeek97
@zekethegeek97 6 жыл бұрын
I finally told my parents today
@Fishtastic0303
@Fishtastic0303 6 жыл бұрын
I did the one big coming out on Facebook as pansexual. I had done it last year as well, but it was more subtle. And I had come out to my husband, a couple friends, and one of my sister's before, but not my parents. They called me after I made the post and were very accepting, but I expected that. I didn't want to make it into a big deal and sit down with anyone. I was terrified, haha. But it was worth it :)
@lyricdemers
@lyricdemers 6 жыл бұрын
Nonbinary people having to constantly explain themselves is very true. I try to answer the question of "are you a boy or a girl" quickly and efficiently with my intro: "my name is lyric, my pronouns are they/them, and.." and then I move onto the topic. but even this two second intro has annoyed people. "why are you bringing your gender into this??" ..maybe because I don't want to be constantly misgendered on my own channel? -.- this video was well worded. thanks, jackson.
@rhianaeverest0808
@rhianaeverest0808 6 жыл бұрын
I did the big social media post this morning. That was how my mom found out. We'll see how it goes over.
@ItsRadishTime
@ItsRadishTime 6 жыл бұрын
this is so great. i usually come out to new people by dropping an anecdote about my girlfriend in conversation but unless they follow my on social media, they probably just assume I'm a lesbian so I'm not technically "out" to them as bi. and in the past when I was in a relationship with a guy I just let everyone assume I was straight and never came out at all. there's always different degrees and shades of wihch I'm out to everyone in my life and that'll probably always be the case.
@habojspade
@habojspade 6 жыл бұрын
I had to come out as straight to my coworkers once. Gave me quite the chuckle.
@jessb9070
@jessb9070 6 жыл бұрын
I'm bi and a cis woman and am dating a cis man who I plan on marrying. I came out to my close friends in high school and my boyfriend when we started dating. I recently came out to my mom and it was terrifying. I only feel the need to come out if it comes up or need to defend my LGBT+ brothers and sisters. Most people think I'm straight and honestly I'm okay with that even though I am proud to be bi. Different situations call for different ways for me express myself. I hope someday I can confidently say I'm bi to anyone even though I am dating a guy.
@yiwenw5
@yiwenw5 6 жыл бұрын
Excited to hear that more Transmission is coming! It's a great show and I'm looking forward to more.
@artifedex
@artifedex 6 жыл бұрын
I did the facebook post, because it was like writing a letter to everyone who's close to me (my Facebook is exclusive to close friends and family only). I did it on my birthday, uploaded around the time I was born too (5am), and it was just a big poetic letter. I was so scared to look at my notifications hours later so i had one of my best friends tell me if there were any negative reactions first, and to my surprise there weren't any. My mom was a comment, and she said she loved her new son, and she was the one that I was most scared to come out to (she's my closest parent, single mom yknow that whole typical spiel) and once she straight up said she supported me, that was the bandaid and it was off! Every other coming out after that was/is a million times easier than that first one. 😁
@soldiaz7261
@soldiaz7261 6 жыл бұрын
Ugh, I came out three months ago and I’m still coming out every time I meet anyone and explaining my gender. It’s gotten boring at this point. EDIT: Coming out for the millionth time to the comments, I’m pansexual and transmasc/genderfluid
@melissadomagala5576
@melissadomagala5576 6 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I found your channel! You’re amazing
@vitaminchill92
@vitaminchill92 6 жыл бұрын
This made me cry, Jackson. What a beautiful video.
@theozubek912
@theozubek912 6 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna try to come out to my Mom today..I made a Google slideshow explaining my gender (proud demiboy✨), my new name and pronouns, and it also explains how I need a chest binder and that I’m planning on having ftm top surgery when I’m over 18. So I hope it goes well. She’s said that she doesn’t care what I call myself, but I want her to acknowledge that my gender is real and that it isn’t a phase, so maybe one day she’ll start to use my proper name, and maybe pronouns.
@DGBD95
@DGBD95 6 жыл бұрын
Never really came out, my family just noticed but never said anything, but I do feel accepted by them 😄
@balletgirltwo685
@balletgirltwo685 6 жыл бұрын
So I was going to come out to my mom today but then I was like nahhhh I can wait 2 years
@balletgirltwo685
@balletgirltwo685 6 жыл бұрын
zachparade thank you so much you just made my day
@brenmoyer4896
@brenmoyer4896 6 жыл бұрын
Love this informative video, Jackson. Thanks 💖
@damianaugust8491
@damianaugust8491 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your encouraging words!
@caybay1675
@caybay1675 6 жыл бұрын
I freaking forgot it was coming out day until I got on KZbin because I've been so freaking busy and I'm upset because I wanted to come out today!!!
@backparker9264
@backparker9264 6 жыл бұрын
I came out by just telling people, wasn't really a big deal in my eyes since it's my sexuality (gender is another thing though rip) but after having the biggest disarrangement ever with my aunt I just made a facebook post.
@alexisoutt1428
@alexisoutt1428 6 жыл бұрын
I’m a woman happily married to a man. I’ve never had a girlfriend or even a hookup with a girl. But I’m definitely bisexual. Although my sexuality isn’t heteronormative, my life past, present, and future, is heteronormative. So people might assume that there’s no reason for me to come out. But I decided that it was what was right for me because I didn’t like hearing people in my life talk about homosexuality as if it was wrong, bizarre, or gross. And I thought that if it turned out someone that they already knew and loved or respected was LGBTQ, then it might shift their perspective just a little. Coming out was just my way of giving bisexuality a tiny bit more exposure.
@koutashinji
@koutashinji 6 жыл бұрын
You're so smart and professional, I love it.
@legendair2685
@legendair2685 6 жыл бұрын
I came out to one of my closes friend as Trans and he came out to me as gay
@Jmp599
@Jmp599 6 жыл бұрын
I loved this!!! It's been about a year since I came out as a lesbian to my parents, and although I'm still kinda closeted on the fact that I'm genderqueer, I'm able to express that openly at my college, and I'm at least grateful that my parents were so loving and accepting with my being gay :)
@RoseDeleca
@RoseDeleca 6 жыл бұрын
I haven't come out yet. I tried to once but I'm pretty sure they thought I was joking.(at that moment tho anything I said could of sounded like a joke)
@lazysun1
@lazysun1 6 жыл бұрын
You're the best! Thank you :)
@jamiethekid2464
@jamiethekid2464 6 жыл бұрын
I'm not coming out today because I'm a scared person hhhhh
@jamiethekid2464
@jamiethekid2464 6 жыл бұрын
And I'm just to mentally weak
@camer4459
@camer4459 6 жыл бұрын
Do whatever you feel is most comfortable for you. I hope one day you can live as you're truly meant to, and that people will support you! I believe in you!
@jamiethekid2464
@jamiethekid2464 6 жыл бұрын
@@camer4459 thanks
@jamiethekid2464
@jamiethekid2464 6 жыл бұрын
@@blueblueblue877 thank you so much, I did it h
@arsonleblanc2005
@arsonleblanc2005 6 жыл бұрын
@@jamiethekid2464 YOU DID IT?!!! WHAT HAPPENED
@lochnessmonster6862
@lochnessmonster6862 6 жыл бұрын
Aw man im just gonna be in school when this starts, but ima watch it right after because this looks good
@lochnessmonster6862
@lochnessmonster6862 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah i was right this was good. Happy national coming out day, yall!
@n.c.435
@n.c.435 6 жыл бұрын
"Roonil Wazlib" jhhakhjjks Also I relate so much r i p
@SodaVampire
@SodaVampire 6 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to new Transmition podcast episodes! ^_^
@arsonleblanc2005
@arsonleblanc2005 6 жыл бұрын
Yea... Not planning on coming out to anyone other than my dad and sister for a long time.
@kerplunk2100
@kerplunk2100 6 жыл бұрын
I found a guy at school that looks exactly like you 😂
@NoseInANovel
@NoseInANovel 6 жыл бұрын
I came out when I was 12 or 13 to my best friend. I didn't exactly have the word to describe my orientation, didn't know what lesbian or bisexual meant (which is why we need more queer representation in children's literature). I just told my best friend at the time that I was attracted to women. She asked me if I was also attracted to men, to which I replied, "I guess?" She knew a lot more terms than I did since her cousin was bisexual. Years later I realized I was not sexually attracted to men at all and felt immense guilt for contributing to bi erasure. The thing is, growing up, all I saw were images of heterosexual relationships. LIKE LITERALLY EVERYWHERE. On an unconscious level, I thought that I had to like men in order to be happy. I think the moral of my story is that when you come out, it's okay if you realize that your initial 'coming out' was not exactly perfect. You are allowed to change your mind and clarify yourself after you've had more experiences.
@BeccaMoses
@BeccaMoses 6 жыл бұрын
i both respect and kinda regret how much i didn’t have a Coming Out. Like, I am 100% definitely out as heck - I’ve openly been in a relationship with another girl for more than two years now - but my coming out never was a Thing? The first time i mentioned being bi to my mom (also my best friend and my soon-to-be boyfriend at the time) was in line for a shitty Renaissance fair when I was 12, in the midst of a random unrelated conversation. The only time i really reliably say “I’m bi” is correcting ppl who think I’m a lesbian. I legitimately have never had a moment of telling someone i already know that im queer aside from, like, my parents and maybe the 3 friends i had when I figured it out ? im in a place of immense privilege, and I know that - my family is chill (sometimes weird abt it, but chill), i live in MA, and i figured myself out pretty early on. i think just bc it’s never been a thing that I even thought might hurt me, coming out is really easy for me? like, if someone is a dick to me abt it it’s so much easier to laugh it off bc it’s always a stranger whose opinion i don’t need bc i know all the ppl i care abt like me
@k0tabug
@k0tabug 6 жыл бұрын
I literally love this so much
@In_TheMoonlight
@In_TheMoonlight 6 жыл бұрын
aaah this made me cry good job jack good job
@spiritpop8298
@spiritpop8298 6 жыл бұрын
I wore a rainbow flag to school, it was great
@sharkygames1473
@sharkygames1473 6 жыл бұрын
i told 1 of my friends, but im coming out to my family in like 2 days....... im really nerveus.
@sharkygames1473
@sharkygames1473 6 жыл бұрын
@@zachparade2791 Thanks! :)
@cryyptick
@cryyptick 6 жыл бұрын
The worst thing for me is seeing some of my old friends who have no clue who I am. "Oh hey Jack!" "Do I know you?" "Yea we were in fifth grade together." "Mm no I didn't have any classes with a Jayden." "Hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Oh right, *deadname*?" "Oh yea!!! W a i t ."
@mariafilo2688
@mariafilo2688 6 жыл бұрын
“Did you come out today?” Me: (thinks for a second) no, not today surprisingly. Yay, a full day without coming out again! (Self high five)
@faithdiaz8859
@faithdiaz8859 6 жыл бұрын
Love this so much!
@alexwilson4793
@alexwilson4793 6 жыл бұрын
I’m relating #comingoutagainandagain
@ianaustin5541
@ianaustin5541 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Jackson, you`re awesome! I enjoy watching your vids a lot! =O))
@sleepyaugust2182
@sleepyaugust2182 6 жыл бұрын
Aww i dident know that was yesterday, it might be a Good thing since I'm not 100% sure im ace due to my age. Theres always next year.
@ellensmith5710
@ellensmith5710 6 жыл бұрын
My hardest time we’re my best friends cause I was first out and I didn’t want anything to change
@chaoticmess4266
@chaoticmess4266 6 жыл бұрын
I tried to come out as trans to my mom today and she said she would prefer if I stay a girl (WHICH I NEVER WAS) and that I should wait (WHICH I HAVE FOR 4 YEARS) but that she would love me no matter what. And now I’m confused.
@superstarquins
@superstarquins 6 жыл бұрын
Nope I came out a month later. The first person I came to as lesbian, not bisexual, was my crush.
@Loungemermaid
@Loungemermaid 4 жыл бұрын
“Any chance you could be pregnant?” “Ha! No” “Are you sexually active? If you are, there’s a chance you’re pregnant” “Not the way I do it.”
@davianlafountain9032
@davianlafountain9032 6 жыл бұрын
I came out yesterday to therapist and aunt as transgender (they took it well) my parents (invalidated every thing I say if they don’t agree or think it’s true when it really is) ftm
@davianlafountain9032
@davianlafountain9032 6 жыл бұрын
zachparade thanks. It means a lot. My name is Davian btw
@davianlafountain9032
@davianlafountain9032 6 жыл бұрын
zachparade I forgive you.
@ruthie2794
@ruthie2794 6 жыл бұрын
Im out to my friends but not my family it's sad that i will probably never tell them.
@robertrist2300
@robertrist2300 6 жыл бұрын
You are so cool my Friend!!!!!
@henryjeffpanda
@henryjeffpanda 6 жыл бұрын
I wanted to come out to my parents today but my mom decided to “tidy” my room (it WAS tidy btw) an was a little shit about it so I guessed I didn’t have to
@nikhansen8775
@nikhansen8775 6 жыл бұрын
Oh hay, this is a new thing and sounds fun!
@LovisasMustasch
@LovisasMustasch 6 жыл бұрын
Is it bad that I don’t remember the exact date When I came out for the first time? I feel weird... I should know... It was pretty split up to be honest, and I’m not sure it was the right moment because I got pressure at the moment... I hate it and now I will always remember it...
@Ezra-gx2oq
@Ezra-gx2oq 6 жыл бұрын
honestly. "coming out" is a wonderful thing. but for me, i hate it. i don't like being trans nonbinary. i just feel disgusting and depressed and stressed out. all these bad emotions cuz of trying to figure how to transition and "cure" dysphoria. but, the solution isn't as straightforward as most trans ppl. seeing all these trans ppl showing their "before" and after" pics makes me feel very envious and depressed. like, i'm happy for them but i don't think i'll ever get there.
@catlover2214
@catlover2214 6 жыл бұрын
My parents are accepting of me because i’m pan and i have a huge preference for other girls i thought they knew i’m pan, but i guess not I keep hinting at the fact that i like girls, but they never listen and keep trying to make it seem like i like boys, and it’s really annoying. I just stared crying because of it, because it’s not right i don’t like men it’s not good it’s not right it’ll never feel right it doesn’t feel right and they won’t listen and they won’t accept me. I know that my mom is accepting of gays but she won’t accept me and every time her and my dad make a stupid comment it scares me even more. Some people at school like my friends and other kids i wanted to shut up that for the most part i’m gay, but now i’m scared to tell anymore people that because i don’t know who’s homophobic, the kid who sits next to me in science uses the words gay and lesbian as insults, and it really hurts.
@SCREAMOguy413
@SCREAMOguy413 6 жыл бұрын
fantastic video
@Cole14706
@Cole14706 6 жыл бұрын
Coming out day
@squidwardlikesbeans9543
@squidwardlikesbeans9543 6 жыл бұрын
Dang I’m going to be in school🙁
@samanthanne
@samanthanne 6 жыл бұрын
Fun Fact: My mom pressured me into coming out to my Dad. He refused to use the right pronouns(they/them)
@haruauds2766
@haruauds2766 6 жыл бұрын
I came out lol but not the right day lol it went uh. .let's say it's wierd XD but it's.ok
@davianlafountain9032
@davianlafountain9032 6 жыл бұрын
Are you able to do it later in the day (I’m in school)
@vibewithjules6118
@vibewithjules6118 6 жыл бұрын
Katie_phenix Lafountain There was just a live chat when the video was released, but it should just be a normal video now (I think). So I think so you should be able to watch it whenever. Happy National Coming Out Day :)
@Momo-bu3le
@Momo-bu3le 6 жыл бұрын
You remind me of Tomska and your instagram handle reminds me of Danisnotonfire
@arilarz5679
@arilarz5679 6 жыл бұрын
I’m queeeeeeerrrr
@janistransbian
@janistransbian 6 жыл бұрын
i'm liberal democrat, hillary supporter. also strait cis gender male non-monogamous(polyamory), as well as something of a transvestite(i own a bra).
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