YOU ARE ENOUGH: SELF CONFIDENCE, FAILURE & RISING UP ABOVE IT ALL

[@bumploveug]

What are you good at? We're all good at something, whether it's cooking, singing, doing puzzles or being a friend. One thing we've realised is that having a healthy level of self-confidence can help you become more successful in your personal and professional life. Your level of confidence even affects how you present yourself to others. Join us as we talk about self confidence and how to build it. A good place to learn more about personal development beyond self confidence is at the Annual Personal Planning Getaway. Physical Session: 📍 Innovation Village Ntinda 📅 8th - 9th November 2024 💰 UGX 980,000 Online Session: 📅 15th - 16th November 2024 💰UGX 800,000 Start making partial payments here pay.iotec.io/p/appg For inquiries, contact us via [phone] 🥳🥳 Shout out to our amazing glam teams for these amazing looks! MANUELA'S GLAM; Wardrobe: Cadia Fashion House Make Up: Tina Brows 0779 790379 Hair: Zuri Uganda BEVERLEY'S GLAM; Wardrobe: Arija Fashions BARBARA'S GLAM; Make Up: The Sununu Effect Wardrobe: David Kabenge Jewellery: The SN Store Hair: Viluxe Beauty #bumplove #selfconfidence #motherhood #personalgrowth

[@annegachina8504]

Good job girls. You are looking good. Please now that @Manuela is in the education sector,could you please do a topic on teachers and pupils. I have seen incidences where teachers look as if they are bullying children. It almost feels okay for teachers to shout,grap and handle children in a wild way. Then,go ahead to handle the parents disrespectfully. Just do something around these kind of scenarios. Thanks.

[@hikimahnabukenya8819]

I also want to attend public speaking, please how do I enroll

[@jacintaabwooli]

I really am falling in love with Barbara... She's growing on me 😍

[@HopeJovia.S]

Hello, BUMP LOVE. After Manuela spoke of the "thief" narrative in relation to confidence, it came to me that CONFIDENCE is a spirit. Now, the scripture says God did not give us a spirit of fear but of power, including boldness/ confidence, love, and self-control. Back to the thieves 😅, it's an evil spirit of wickedness in the heavenly places that works in that to gain the " confidence " to do evil 😈. In conclusion, honourable members 😅😂 confidence comes from the Lord and who we're in Him. By the way, I'm very confident 🎉. Yours Truly Hope Jovia Ssekitto ❤

[@nuwevirtue8652]

Yours truly ❤😂😂

[@manuelap.mulondo]

This was clearly not revealed to you by man

[@faithamong2389]

Teach yourself to allow other people to shine . Appreciate and compliment 😊 so mindful

[@ten06659]

This has been so helpful for me guys.....cause atleast I know now why I was jealous about everyone around me cause I lacked confidence in my self...thnx guys ...this has been therapy

[@elizabethnamanya7151]

Barbra really looks good. ❤

[@babramugeni2966]

Thank you ❤

[@alberttravis256]

Change was hard but here we are. Loving the crew more; day by day.

[@toinimwandingi5188]

Sometimes is not about confidence it’s about knowing your potential and looking at where you are

[@akengojacqueline8506]

When you are confident in yourself you don't have time to pull others down.

[@mirembehellen5387]

Chimamanda Ngonzi is one of those ladies whose level of confidence is top notch, so admirable.

[@RachelKing-rh4kh]

Only Bev can pull off that ensemble,its so her,I love that the people that put the ladies together have understood their personalities

[@SsentamuMawejjeRebecca]

Barbara is becoming more confident yeah I like how she laughed when they complimented her dress. She is starting to be her now. Love you all guys.❤

[@brendadawa4165]

Wow,wow, wow. Ladies thank you for giving me a dose of self-awareness. I now understand my level of self confidence and what shutters it. I'm like Manuela. Failure shakes my self-confidence. There is a prestigious scholarship that I always wanted to apply for at Masters level. But I had to wait for at least three years. I wanted to first grow my career to a certain level, to associate with high profile professionals in my field so as to make it easy to get a good reference letter. And when I applied for it, I got it on the very first attempt. I either start and go all the way, or I don't start at all. If I were an animal, I would be a zebra. Zebras don't care for spots. I consider contentment. Contentment doesn't cancel desire, it cancels desperation and it doesn't mean that you have everything. While I don't become desperate in certain situations, I reserve my discernment to embrace what I desire because I very well know what I don't desire. This in turn builds my self-confidence.

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Failure shutters confidence......

[@agathanankwanga3748]

The way I love Barbara's calmness. You are smart Barbra

[@babramugeni2966]

Thank you❤

[@angel.angel.636]

My self confidence came from purposefully, intentionally pursuing self awareness in solitude- spiritually and mentally... Thanks ladies, that was a topic well analysed❤

[@thoughtsofgertrude8163]

Confidence really does come with experience. I've seen my confidence grow since I started staying alone because I started doing certain things more and failing at them then learning.

[@manuelap.mulondo]

I agree that it does

[@esther7975]

Never really followed the previous bump Love like i do with this🎉. These messages are going to truly make us better women ❤

[@gloriahangus1]

Me too

[@Nambozobev]

May you thrive.

[@natukundaloyce6859]

A parent must love n discipline their child. Thats a gem 📌

[@marionr4319]

Not me liking all the time before i even start listening ❤❤love you ladies. Well done.

[@ggalawinnie1711]

I never used to watch this show... until I saw Barbara Ichumar... the wife to my boss Humphrey ichumar. Such an interesting person. You drew me to this show and now I love all these ladies. You guys rock!

[@babramugeni2966]

Thank you Winnie❤

[@HawaMayanja]

My confidence comes from home particularly courtesy of Daddy.Can’t tell me nothing and I’m not talking about arrogance here. ❤

[@robertakrugunda]

This issue of parents competing with children 😮😮😮 and body shaming needs to be discussed.Great conversation ladies. ❤

[@ceciliamwebaza9377]

My confidence grew with time, after experiencing certain things and pains, I feel stronger. Peer pressure doesn't work on me, like friends are having kids, and am not, it's ok. I came to understand, God has His timing. It makes me calm about life❤❤ Thanks for the show

[@nantalejoan5223]

ladies you look stunning! Barbra i like your maternity dresses, wow!

[@babramugeni2966]

Thank you ❤.. the dresses are made by @davidkabenge

[@tshyllah]

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[@namubiruchristine7544]

Almost thought there wasnt an episode today, been refreshing since 10am as well. Thank you for not disappointing

[@nakittohellen3934]

Controlling the level of comparison is really healthy

[@julietkutegeka1513]

Bev you are on point, Manuela always intentional and on point, Barbra good reminder on complementing others

[@Asha_Ashemeza]

my skin of late😊😊😊it gives me alot of confidence ❤❤❤❤❤

[@ConquererAnita-ns7qu]

I have a 10 when it comes to condidence ,the bible has taut me this ,experience and pipo around me. Thank u bump love. Then the holy spirit is something else. I have learnt alot so I decide better.

[@Pamelakittyy]

Am at 6/10 this reminded me of my first at work as an accountant my boss make me feel like I was in the wrong career he is good at belittling others however I now know that I am the best accountant I can be now and I am going to be even better in time to come so now I can say as an accountant 8/10 confident ❤ Thanks a lot for sharing , I bless the Lord for you and the show 🙏🏿 I am grateful

[@immaculatenakivumbi2090]

On a scale of 10 i believe am 10 out of 10. For me, my confidence comes from within. I believe in myself as an individual and never try to look like anybody.

[@rakmadarkness3066]

Manuela...Lionesses are the hunters of the pride...but most certainly not the leader! there's a reason there's several Lionesses and 1 male in a pride! not a pack...that's dogs. love you guys!!!Mpologooma clan member and (aspiring) future clan patriarch 😂😂

[@deborahkalunginsubuga1448]

Barbra you design er is on point. you look soo beautiful

[@babramugeni2966]

Thank you❤ , the dress is by @davidkabenge, hair is by @viluxebeauty, makeup by @thesununueffect.

[@Forna1519]

I had to press pause and comment on the point that Beverley made about children wanting parents that are grounded, it's true. Even in relationships, personally I'd prefer a man that is grounded and not a yes man or let's me have my way😂 because am quite a force to reckon with 😅. So yes, I agree with you Beverly. We need parents and partners that can guide.

[@afrowordsmith1]

These ladies really speak from a point of knowledge. When Bev spoke about what animals they would be, what immediately came to my mind were pets (cats, dogs, etc) until they spoke about animals I would never think about 🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾

[@RachelKing-rh4kh]

Wama can you also teach us ko personality types those things of Sanguine,even if it's in those short introductions you do,It would be nice to see which personality types you guys are and how you handle strengths and weaknesses associated with the temperaments,thank you.

[@imacayebazibwe]

I support this with a like

[@Nambozobev]

Great idea😊

[@teddiekasendwa827]

Thank you ladies, I like the topic

[@musiimentarosemary2851]

26:00 Bev's insight on parenting wow ❤❤❤❤

[@Nambozobev]

Thanks so much! it is quite the journey.

[@elisenamakoye6841]

Wooh. The best bump love episode i have watched. I love you ladies. You are all so intelligent.

[@immaculatenatuhamya2364]

You ladies you are amazing

[@DearDora]

Been here refreshing KZbin since 10am 😂😂😂😂

[@Asha_Ashemeza]

me2😂😂😂😂😂now i blinked and 28mins have passed😭😭

[@carmelahsylvia5530]

Same here, so i decided to back and watch some old episodes 😂

[@tessa_vahn_]

Same!!

[@ceciliamwebaza9377]

I thought my data had an issue 😂😂😂😂😂

[@nabukenyakevinsikyoomu3564]

Haha

[@Robinnah]

'self-confidence is alot about what you say to yourself' ❤

[@ACHUROCaroline]

Love being here to learn ❤❤

[@ConquererAnita-ns7qu]

Like Barbrah, i love to compliment others ans learn thru dat therefore

[@magalienia6958]

Complimenting others is such a beautiful trait & it takes nothing away frm the one giving the compliment. Complimenting someone always reminds me of that saying abt, "a candle loses nothing by lighting another."

[@janerose5068]

If you surround yourself with people who make you feel bad, it lowers your self confidence so it's better to stay away from them and try to be around people who are positive because self confidence and positive attitude go hand in hand.

[@kabagyeniphionah448]

There's a way i waited for Bev to do the Manuella way of standing up and showing us some more of her dress .... I can imagine, it looks so pretty... Weldone ladies.... Always here to learn from you ❤❤

[@Nambozobev]

hehehehe. everyone has their turn.

[@naturally_jovayah]

Dear ladies thank you for the video. I believe that self confidence is also affected by one’s age and that the older we get, the more self aware and confident we get.

[@Nambozobev]

That is the ideal way. Not always. Certainly ideal. Most of my friends 45 and over are effortlessly confident

[@alicemusubika8996]

Some how, I see my self in Barbara ❤❤

[@babramugeni2966]

❤❤❤❤

[@musiimentarosemary2851]

Alice is that you ❤❤❤❤

[@VictoryKomagum]

Very helpful insights on self confidence. Thank you. I am a work in progress 😊

[@DaphineMutamba]

Manuella your ...can't even explain.just woww

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Awwwwwwwwww bless your heart

[@ShineProssy]

It's been a great jazz 🎉🎉🎉🎉 honestly am a Liones 🎉🎉🎉 and most often i always say "am blessed assured 🙏"

[@manuelap.mulondo]

I super love this

[@julietkutegeka1513]

I think this self confidence thing comes with accomplishments, given one's purpose in life and the timelines set.

[@julietkutegeka1513]

Hahaha I assure you people will forget about the big nose once they see your accomplishments. They will just follow u

[@natsmartha7475]

True

[@aggiekisakye674]

Bev's point on nurturing📌 like the bible says, "Perfect love casts out fear" being loved right and believed in does make one confident. Before even the experience, just someone giving you a task and they let you know they believe in you, it makes you want to deliver hence the experience. But guys, God and His Word are biggest confidence booster❤

[@Nambozobev]

Thanks, Aggie.

[@kembabazidoreen9927]

Thanks ladies, for the show

[@susankabajuma3648]

The conversation was hot!We felt the AURA from you all.

[@leticianamazzi473]

Beautiful episode ladies..❤

[@winniekusasira7602]

But ladiesss❤❤❤❤❤this is very lovely...much love from Dublin❤

[@brendanassiwa6907]

Y'all are looking fab...Runs back to watch the whole video

[@YvonneMutesi-h4q]

Jxt love these conversations on womanhood and evolving ❤❤🎉🎉Tnx bump Love

[@shamimkagere]

😂😂😂😂"the one who came last was on ice cream" the Manuela mimic😂😂😂😂

[@KibetengaAlice]

Thanks for this wonderful show.... Self confidence comes from knowledge and experience if someone is not well informed about certain things they can't express themselves well I have been a victim at some point

[@nakittohellen3934]

Good message thanks bump love

[@musiimentarosemary2851]

❤❤❤❤ you guys look fabulous... thank you for sharing

[@Flourish_today]

You're so right Beverly some people have no buisness being confident in themselves.😂😂😂😂 It takes me to the show XFactor or Americal idol. All these people who come to audition with their horrible voices and when the judges tell them they can not sing to save their lives, they say " but my parents told me I had an amazing voice". Parents, please mpola, mpola with the praises you mount on your children because this world is very cruel. Yes, complement your children, but be honest and nurture talents you see, not talents you do not see.

[@Nambozobev]

life is so interesting, that way

[@imacayebazibwe]

It's only on bump love where I don't skip ads, Mukyaala Mulondo warned us😊

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Oh bless your heart

[@ungwerobanda1854]

Fridays are the best becoz of you ladies❤❤........love from Malawi

[@hildamwase605]

Team Malawi in the building! I love these ladies.

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Our sisters. Welcome

[@nabukenyakevinsikyoomu3564]

Great work ladies.

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Thank you

[@DianahMusiime]

Asante Santa.love you all.

[@shamilabiira450]

Wow am feeling energized with this show ❤❤

[@Robinnah]

The Title got me liking 👍 before hearing what you all got to say 😂

[@andreaturukekopel9581]

Since I woke up I have been on this page waiting for the next Episode. Smh 🙄 The wait is finally over. Bump love 2.0 just keeps giving me a nice high in every episode. With love from the 254 ❤

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Absolutely love you our sisters

[@carmelahsylvia5530]

just amere hearing about the topic, had to first pose get a pen and paper, Self confidence oh God!

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Glad you took the advise to buy the notebook

[@Vivilaks-075]

You remind me of the form two confidence where people compliment you and you are like “ Since primary one😂😂

[@beingndeshyk4602]

Love from Namibia❤

[@Nambozobev]

Love from 🇺🇬

[@atimjuliet-t1u]

out of 10 i am 9/10 in most cases i take up any task as it comes, my body and face i dont care what people have to say i am confident am not doing bad

[@Thatgirlcharlene]

Among the first today😩🥳 finallyyyyyy

[@JoyNakato-j2o]

Hey Ladies, always listening in from Cali. Thank you for a wonderful show. @Babra I would really love to meet you and engage. You carry something I really like. I love it 😊

[@babramugeni2966]

Thank you Joy ❤

[@user-nantexa]

I swear ..failure shatters my confidence 😢i feel i hv disappointed myself😢

[@kahundeanita7609]

Barbra ,you look amazing girl.😍

[@babramugeni2966]

Thank you ❤

[@monicaareeba7582]

Barbara is stylish ❤

[@babramugeni2966]

Thank you ❤

[@ireneaber8157]

Yeahhhhh❤❤❤

[@sunshineheaven1802]

I love this always. Gorgeous ladies always. I love separating business and pleasure. I love it when people keep it professional and deliver 100% not half deliver because we know each other socially. I am like Barbara on the reading manuals and making sure things are put together right and then I am also a matriarch. 😅 I cannot think of an animal I relate to. Self-confidence can be built from home, my parents really affirmed while disciplining me at the same time so much, and I got the confidence from there. There was so much love and lectures on everything. I lost it along the way just a little, in a few things. There is a way society can shake things up when you are unprepared for the environment you are in. I lost confidence in some spaces in which I had no experience and had not invested. When you lack knowledge of things, you cannot have confidence there. Now, I work on those areas that I am weak in or need to improve. Prepare, read, study, get the training, and enrich yourself with things of interest that help you then confidence will be there. Failure also used to cripple me because I never knew you can try again and again. Now, I embrace it. Speaking of great MCs, Malaika Nyanzi gave a great tip in one of those interviews about how she has always been confident and so good at what she does; she clearly stated that she always prepares well enough and covers her bases, leaving no stone unturned. So, because she has done her homework well, she has nothing to worry about on the delivery side. That helped me so much. Happy new month.

[@Nambozobev]

This is a well delivered feedback. Thank you.

[@namwanjeviolet4911]

Thanks ladies for the show For me failure used to shutter my confidence but I learnt learnt to give my self second chance and I love and appreciate myself....am now really confident❤❤❤

[@sumayamya357]

Affirmations help you speak good about yourself and then your subconscious believes and it boosts your confidence. then you become better with time.

[@melmo88]

Manuella i love the fringe hairstyle and the outfit darling....very demure! Great conversations ladies, you make my friday coffee breaks cutesy! Bev, when i come to uganda i will enroll in your class☺️

[@thechristianperspective]

Nice comment lwakuba akagambo demure kalina engeri gyekantamamu these days......Manuella is always looking nice.

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Oh thank you

[@OrishabaRuth-hy3no]

Comparing your self to others can shutter yo self confidence. U start thinking like maybe yo not enough and this affects how u Express yoself.

[@atimjuliet-t1u]

I want to be Bevely's friend, i need that energy, i will meet her one day. I feel her energy

[@mutambasheila5200]

I feel I am also like Manuela. Failure shakes my self-confidence and knowing God made it worse.🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@marykipingili]

Today's episode was mwaaa❤

[@Nambozobev]

Thank you

[@amazingvlixd4]

❤

[@sumayamya357]

Naye Manuella nkwagaala nyooooooo

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Awwwwwwwwww ❤️

[@Grace-kx8yr]

Am learning..❤

[@bridgetkaremente4027]

Barbra, you look beautiful in all shades of yellow.😍

[@babramugeni2966]

Thank you❤

[@jenniferamojong7630]

We Friday is everyday ❤

[@Seapila]

Love from Kenya 🇰🇪 always here.....😂

[@vivianbabirye2416]

My point is about the 'AURA" It's actually a name of a student in my class, But I don't know how people realize the aura around you and start hating on you in workplaces. Even when you don't know anything about something people insist that you know.

[@joykironde5906]

Oooooh Bev.... your parenting tips are intruding !!! Always eager to listen to more

[@Nambozobev]

Thank you, Joy. Parenting is a lifestyle that we adapt to

[@sarahnanyonga4500]

Thanks for the show ladies. I also like to join the public speaking classes, kindly advise on how to proceed.

[@karungiolive4661]

Experience.. Manuela 💪

[@manuelap.mulondo]

😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@ShineProssy]

Ayeyoooooo🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉la Friday la fun here iam 🎉🎉🎉

[@DianahMusiime]

Barbra you look great.

[@babramugeni2966]

Thank you Diana ❤❤

[@treasureatuhaire]

I think am at an 8 on the scale😊...I'll work on the 2 using lessons learnt from here.