SHOULD SUCCESSFUL WOMEN DATE ABOVE OR BELOW THEIR LEAGUE? | High Standards in Dating

[@bumploveug]

For some it is not a big deal to date someone of different financial status, but what about you? Would you date someone at a lower social/ economic status than you? We can't wait to hear from you! Let us know in the comments why / why not. Enjoy unlimited internet with Airtel. Airtel Xstream Wifi is here to support your streaming experience as you watch our Friday episodes with blazing-fast upload speeds. Dial *125# or call 125 to activate #AirtelXstreamWifi If you enjoyed this video please like it, share with someone who will relate and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one. Follow us on: Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove Twitter twitter.com/bumploveug?t=kR7O... #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove

[@julietkutegeka1513]

Rachel, our best news anchor. You don't even have to explain yourself in order to gain our respect. Your gift moves with you everywhere girl

[@user-en1zc5vd6y]

As someone that’s been on the lower social class end, it helps when the one on the upper isn’t snobbish. They have to invite you to their world with an intention of sharing the experience together, not treating you as a victim or as ignorant. Then again the one on the lower has to desire to experience better coz I’ve also seen people who are completely resistant to progress, talking like they don’t need better when in actual sense it’s fear that’s keeping them from pursuing more

[@zaneleshongwe6133]

I totally agree with you other people are resistance and stubborn, you can't force something to someone who is not willing to try or put some effort, it's so frustrating

[@lawrencelarry252]

This is my Ex gal friend, she could be like honey we r contented by here what we have 😂😂😂😂

[@bettyna_bebby]

Ooo Manuela, I can relate ... that bad part about being poor is embarrassment, I was recently called over by my friend to cafe javas.. I was badly dressed , so messed up..n with lugages instead of a simple bag. Ooo Ooo I even failed to eat when I looked around and even how she had dressed. I was sooo lowwww. But from that day onwards...i decided to dress well n care about myself well. Even if I don't expect any date .

[@eronnabatanzi8929]

My husband grew up from the village in Fort and i grew up from Munyonyo. He was the first person to get a first grade in primary in his school. But when u meet my husband right now, he's actions and social life is for a muyenga grown up. I feel its about what someone wants and work towards that. He is even better than me a Munyonyo kid. 😀😀

[@syliviakemigabo-nc1jk]

Fortportal is not a village...lol😅

[@patriciaayebare4883]

I think she meant that his village was in Fort​@@syliviakemigabo-nc1jk

[@jeefalina5259]

My dear ,fort has villages also ,only that she wasn't specific for her personal reasons

[@godsfavoritechild3187]

Racheal’s opinion on the topic especially her perception of social status was spot on👏🏽📌It goes without saying she is such a good communicator!

[@kemiomeke1120]

The BEST!!

[@kagimurebeccab5854]

I loved it too!

[@keshieywanjiru4474]

Rachel issa gem

[@kentechsoft7265]

Exceptional perspective

[@tiny_k738]

Almost at the end where Angie is advising anonymous but I'm still at proffesion Vs professional! 🙈

[@ritabusingye3853]

Manuela is so funny. I love how she owns her background. It’s courageous actually cause the thing about being poor is the embarrassment. I feel like she overcame that embarrassment and has been able to progress. Live your truth

[@asianakawunde330]

I love the way she doesn't pretend Abt her back ground.i respect her for that

[@faithamong2389]

Am telling you

[@ritabusingye3853]

I admit I’ve been in situations where I felt like I needed to fake it just to level up. These social circles can have classses

[@magalienia6958]

​@ritabusingye3853 & that's the proverbial ferris wheel that never stops; once u start faking it, anti u never stop coz at every angle there will be something new to live up to...so draining & exhausting.

[@3-ps-in-apod-expatriateliving]

I agree! It’s inspiring! Young people take note

[@doreenkatusiime5689]

Coming from the same social status doesn't guarantee happiness. Angie Very true

[@NaikobaLavender-lv1mp]

Growing up my stepmum told me never to mix levels...iam glad I listened.

[@kuteannie]

Manuela reminded me of a dating experience I had in my twenties with a guy from a prominent Baganda family. Even though I was not from money, I was lucky to have been raised by an educated relative who gave me exposure to fine things including vacations abroad. Anyway, I had a drive in me after university to make money and couldn’t understand my then boyfriend who would wait for his dad’s office to give him an allowance every Friday. I remember telling him to find a job independent of his dad, which he did but only lasted two weeks. 😅. Needless to say, I broke up with him and went on to pursue my dreams outside the country.

[@annapatricia292]

Love Angie's age-old advice! This level of humility is not easy for us women today. But necessary. Thank you.

[@emilynabaasa4913]

I just can't stop admiring Angie ...every advice she gives really works for me....rich or poor.... Her advice is always fit for everyone....cuddos Angie

[@kemiomeke1120]

@@emilynabaasa4913thank you sweetie😘

[@kemiomeke1120]

Humility in handling relationships is goals💪🏾

[@keshieywanjiru4474]

Same here

[@stellapreciousmulungi9069]

The way I wake up on Friday waiting for bumplove. It’s like Friday doesn’t start until the episode comes. So excited for your take on this topic.

[@mfsoul6908]

Friday 🎉

[@jennyunscripted86]

Me too

[@zaneleshongwe6133]

Thank you for bringing this topic cause it's something that is sensitive but it's a reality. Sometimes you marry someone because you have seen something good on him but when time goes on, you realize that you don't share the same perspective and goals about the future. I always say that some people are addicted to poverty, they are fine with the way they live and what they have because they grew up like that but on the other hand you grew up in the same situation but you want your life and that of your children to be better than what you have when you grew up, guys this is so frustrating

[@__fyc]

Dear Manuella and Pamla, we thank God for the hilarious and high vibes personalities you are. Never a dull moment with your shows! So much loveeeee from Rwanda ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love right back to Rwanda ❤

[@desiredoreen7916]

Love from Rwanda *2 ❤❤

[@christinebirungi7168]

Wow. Key words for me. Potential, love wins, statuses change any kind of way. In my opinion: if you have similar values, dreams for the future or goals, passion and ambitions. Love will win the rest. Thanks Ladies. Great talk.

[@iraenhe286]

The CONSISTENCYYYYYYYYYY of these ladies 🎉🎉 kudos 🥂

[@alicemunyepiwa9559]

Girls you are now my addiction. thank you for being real and discussing some of the most challenging issues of life. Much love from Zimbabwe

[@nakityoroseddumba]

from this session, am going back to school so that my social status can be uplighted, cheiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, Manuel you have really explained my life, i was dumped by two social class guys simply because of my self esteem which was soooooooo poor, i couldn't express my self in his family gatherings, would seat in one place poorly dressed, at one family event i was called out to usher the other guests simply because i looked different from them, Kyanuma🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, i thought they wanted the good manners... kumbe...kneeling and being humble is not what was required. Am on an assignment to have it simplier for my children👌👌👌👌, They have joined Chess, they have joined social events just to get connections.... for the money to fund them, it will come. naye balina okufuna obulamu bwenasubwaaaa...

[@lilianmukisa3291]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you've made this show for me with your experience that has reminded me of what I almost did at a gathering. Am purposing to be social.

[@deborahfrimpong9071]

Wow!!! Very deep . Lord help us!!!

[@RosesandBliss6767]

Ohh sweetheart. I feel you, been there though not in the dating aspect but yes. There's a way you are naturally are different when you are in a society you don't actually belong to even when you try your level best. They can tell you don't belong. Such events are never fun😢

[@nalwogabelinda4032]

Am nolonger feeling guilty of saying "I am allergic to poverty" I am not going through it again.thanks ladies

[@Flourish_today]

Please never feel guilty. God did not put us on this earth to suffer from poverty.

[@sonianandagire]

Man!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm in awe of how real you all are. The courage to share your personal experiences is what gets my attention. Here praying for some meet and greet sort of affair where I can get to physically tap into this wisdom. Much love.

[@namuwengeracheal6865]

Hi bump love ladies. Kindly rely my admiration to pumla. To me, She is the smartest analyst on this show. Very comprehensive preambles to topics and extremely detailed objectivity when giving advise.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh Racheal. Compliments received. Thank you.

[@Kate-Akiiki]

Woww! Angie's last shots hit really deep!

[@leodinaaero9333]

I share your view on this @Angie. Looking out for better than yourself for yourself without necessarily basing the decision on money. It’s also good to know your level and understand who you’re and what you potentially attract. I love that you own your truth @Manuella. This helps with being our authentic selves and how we can grow. Great conversation.

[@mumbimacharia4926]

I love Aggies advice. This mama is so wise

[@nakamatteshamimm5665]

I always close my bedroom for no interruption whenever am watching bump love, full of fun and educative

[@MogranieNyangoma]

Wow, I just love Manuela's back ground story and that hunger thing with the ex boyfriend, maybe it's that hunger for hardwork that has made her what she is now, thank you guys for the wonderful lessons I have learnt, ❤

[@jackienakangu8954]

Eeh! Angie, im humbled by your advice bambi. I hope she finds happiness 🙏. And yes! Social status can change over time...

[@biyinzikahellenliz3988]

Thanks alot for today 's show it was so loaded with alot of advise.And regarding village life , a family can set up a standard home in the village with everything in the house like a nice inside kitchen. And when my guy who had his village in Entebbe was surprised that our village house and way of living in Luweero was better than there's.

[@esthermusembi2632]

Everytime I see that notification...even my mood changes instantly!! And the things you address are just what I need. I love you ladies

[@ainebyonaesther3466]

Same here🎉❤

[@kemiomeke1120]

Love you too Esther❤

[@sharonmukisa9318]

My friend and I call you Ministers , For we learn alot and each day there is need to observe and Annalise things before making a decision in different aspects of life . Thank you Bump love .

[@anonnona6433]

Great point Manuela on the information part 😂😂😂 😂18:05 We were busy saying the oil curse, sijui whatnot while folks were studying for phDs on fully funded scholarships 😂

[@lilianmukisa3291]

I hear in West Nile around my district there is oiloooo, I now have information 😄😄😄😄

[@anonnona6433]

@@lilianmukisa3291 Go for a phD ASAP

[@nabiryeasia9091]

True dating in 30s is golden I understand many things and aspects of life I didn't know before thanks bump love 🙏

[@bendealice6538]

Banange before I even finish the show, Manuela your 😂😂😂😂 your explanation of your time at Buddo. I can completely relate. Excited vibes only🎉🎉🎉🎉 It happened to me when I got to Hormisdallen, I was like we are given fried fish and chicken at school. Kids would be complaining Abt Chicken and fish 😮 nga I be like do you know what people eat in other schools. Cheeiii I have enjoyed your experience. Now let me continue 😅

[@carolineobbo5854]

I love u Manuella ....I have laughed so hard during this session because of your testimony....

[@irenequeenofPeace6228]

Thanks ladies for your submissions. Nabacwa, you said it well when you said that you asked yourself if that's what you would really put up with when you're dating a middle class guy. I believe a class is a mindset. I didn't grow up in a high class family and from my childhood, I well knew that that's not where I belong. Right now, I can confidently say that I'm in an upper middle class moving more because that where I wanna be and it's the energy I have put into the universe. Would I marry a below average person than my class? If they have potential, ability and they believe in themselves to elevate to my standard, Yes. Nabacwa, I can tell you're well brought up given your background and the way you carry yourself. You're so humble, respectful and knowledgeable. I can't get tired of giving you your flowers .

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Irene. You are so kind. Thank you ❤

[@SandraRNatukunda]

Angie with her wisdom again... Thank you for sharing.

[@doreengift458]

My mother's child Pumla, we didn't come this far to suffer. Angie i am on the floor, i almost died! You all are so hilarious.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We didn't come this far to suffer 😅. P

[@doreengift458]

@Manuela! I am so proud of you, your school story resonates so well with me. The truth with being authentic is those who love the truth will stay. I am reminded of a friend who mocked me if my porridge even had sugar yet she could not share even when she had enough. Guess what, we are friends up to today over 10 years. So, low or upper class, i really would not mind as long as one is able to unlearn and relearn the bare minimums. I know some friends who also fell from grace to the bare ground. Thank you ladies for the show!

[@aggiekisakye674]

It's always a joy finding a new video from you ladies🥳🥳 very intriguing conversation. Anyways personally, I would really prefer dating a man of either same status or higher. My reason is simple, am a woman and as a wife, I have to submit to my husband. And I simply just can't submit to less...in so many aspects.

[@Floinspirations]

I love Angie's submission on this

[@kirundazuena9219]

I am actually glad that you have opened and given Ms.Anonymous a way on how to work it out. That was so beautiful 😊

[@rashidahkakimba8996]

Oooh Mauela...... Even tears came!. we really need to work so hard as parents banange

[@christinemetzner4567]

Angie sees things in different angles und Analyses them with sense of maturity .I salute u for the good advice u giving the young girls.

[@RungibyT]

Angie's comment... 😂😂😂 Thanks for the show. It was educative!

[@marionnamusoketv7882]

WWawooo.i love Angie and pumla. U gals speak my mind..I loved this topic .truth is compromise is painful and deadly .go for better .

[@judithpeace001]

I have watched this episode two times.........Angie you have been so phenomenal for this episode

[@teoprecious3438]

Am revising this episode, Manuela, I love your vulnerability and authenticity

[@julietkutegeka1513]

She's a unique lady, a representation of the real African child who also fights through every obstacle to still Excell and yet acknowledge her past

[@julietkutegeka1513]

Don't lose someone coz of something that's fixable. Thanks Angie

[@katusabemargret9347]

Ooh,here in fort we love you,I like the last talk about questions to ask before we go to marriage,it was good ,but can you get some time and talk about the importance of being rised by both parents than a single parent,much love❤❤❤

[@annetnansumba9082]

You have changed our lives ladies. Thank you for helping mothers

[@kemiomeke1120]

❤

[@bettyna_bebby]

Oo Rosette ...ur dearly missed, banange I just enjoy listening to all of u ladies, those stories n life experiences give me a balance to my own life. Thank u .

[@ahimbisibwegloria8660]

I can relate to Mrs mulondo's background coz I am not any different. My ka scholarship brought me to Kampala for high-school but the whole school would know that poor mukiga won't miss food. Even in O'level they would write me on the notice board for not missing food the whole term. Now how do I date anyone below my social class coz any lower I go I will be underground 😅😅😅😅. Pumla with your Nigerian organisation eating Peper, u gal u have seen days🤣🤣🤣. Angie u look so amazing but talking of people who studied under the tree, u Kampala people will never beat us in class. Thanks for the show ladies

[@gloriamutoni5137]

Manuela cracked my ribs with the story in highschool...OMG

[@nambaasaevelyne7353]

i like the Pumla explains the status thing. As a person, ladies you have taught me a lot and thank you for the experiences and the extra research you. i feel like you should think about dropping two episodes a week at least

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Kyoka Nambaasa. You'll pay us how much to abscond from our 8-5 jobs to come for a 2nd episode? 😅

[@Flourish_today]

​@pumlanabachwa8668 maybe do one from your bed😅😅😅😅😅😅. Tukubanja! Just kidding.

[@kemiomeke1120]

@@pumlanabachwa8668😅😅😅 ikr!

[@keshieywanjiru4474]

​@@pumlanabachwa8668 Yes pumla ...😂2 episodes per week

[@viola_K.5]

I so much admire Pumla's 'educated' reasoning. For some reason I want to be 😊

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh! Thank you Viola

[@kisakyejustine2196]

Kudos entire team❤

[@daphinedash2704]

Banange these powerful conversations, thanks ladies! ❤

[@sheilahkaima4351]

Thank you Bump love. Some of us grew up in the village but as village princesses.

[@martinmwesiga]

Oh oh ladies thanks so much I have learnt alot in this video. I'm a single dad but b4 I look for someone alot of things to put in consideration. Thanks its wonderful.

[@oliveisingoma9659]

Thank you Rech for being real.

[@ayopamella]

Manuellaaaaa😂😂😂😂 that Budo story has to become a movie

[@brendabeinomugisha8826]

waoooo@Angie...the lemon with sugar is a tick for me.

[@kemiomeke1120]

We shall make that lemonade girl! A tall icy glass full of it! 🥂🍾

[@catherinebyabashaija9013]

I love you MM! You are too honest! I love it!!!

[@muhammedwalugembe9195]

I liked Angie's wisdom and the way she articulated her points in the submission. Good job to the rest of the ladies!!

[@kemiomeke1120]

Thank you Moody😊

[@tenpenceonyeakwa2399]

Weldone ladies I really enjoyed your conversations. But some times you can't stop amusing me.

[@janicein3820]

You all are different in a beautiful way... thank you for sharing ur experiences with us

[@jariatnakitende3393]

Pumla my love 😍 😍😍😍but Angie takes long to engage .. she’s a real princess

[@karungipeluce1351]

I like how Angie and Rachel listen and let the other tell their views wholly

[@lweendomoono4881]

Thanks Aunty Yunike for sharing this. I have had that experience too. I have seen a number of people behave that way before dying. Most recent a certain lady I knew insisted on moving into another of her many houses. She even evicted her tenant on short notice. Immediately the tenant moved out, she moved in. Three weeks later, she died.

[@eunicenyamasyo6300]

Good advice to the anonymous lady's question. I admire your humilty as you share your own experiences on tackling the issue at hand. Thank you for the truths you've shared on how, in your own lives, have navigated some tricky situations you've found yourselves in to make them work for you and your spouse- family. Angie, thank you.

[@africakyazze3722]

Good display of ideas and knowledge, but getting a partner is a real issue, and personal.

[@natureebadamalie2207]

This is really.. Entertaining....😂😂😂😂😂😂but I also want my share of the good things....

[@jalianaziiwa1998]

Angie is literally speaking to me👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@martinanagasha3665]

You guys talk cheerfully about marriage. I on the other hand have opted out. Marriage is hard and it's to much.

[@twisharize5685]

Could we have the guys' views on social classes? There is always something new to learn when it comes to these ladies. Thank you a bunch. My current partner and I are from different social classes(he is too polite he calls it two different sides of town😂😂) At first we really struggled with the differences but slowly we got our ways out by focusing on the good sides of us. Btw i am the one from the low class 😂. I have learnt a lot today, i cant thank you enough ❤

[@bettynakitende7958]

n i will say that this is the best show ov the year. thnk u so much ladies luv u❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@baramassarah5094]

Racheal❤❤❤❤I love your opinion on this... U are sooo realistic ❤

[@asmasu]

Thank you, Bump Love. Angie, thank you for so many words of wisdom. You were on point, as if in my head.😂

[@kemiomeke1120]

Awwww. Thank you. It feels lovely when we make an impact in the community.

[@atukundakahara483]

Racheal my fellow P.K, we share so many values and beliefs. A lot of money for what?? I listen to you and see me in you surely.

[@naturindablessing5330]

Am here with you 😂

[@elynajohn1079]

WOW!!! JUST WOW!!! this has been so enlightening and affirming to me. Thanks once again ladies, YOU ARE THE BEST

[@flaviabingi8647]

Yes ready for unique and awesome content

[@AngomBenaAwio]

You people have made my evening... actually just like Mrs Mwine said..I enjoy watching Pumla in her class..I can't imagine the show without her. But where is Rosette anyway..I love you guys very big..I was really ready to watch the show for even one week...

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Always glad to have you here

[@thurayyanaslo3478]

Angie Angie Angie Angie, you spoke to my soul today

[@who_me4321]

Rachael, your heart is a well on wisdom. That was beautiful wisdom❤❤

[@gasanadiana3837]

Thank you ladies for you advices and love towards us.

[@nakityoroseddumba]

Ku My proffessional instead of my proffession wenkomye 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pumla🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@annekyarisiima4194]

Thank you for show ladies. We missed Rosette

[@mulindababra5400]

Thank you, Pumla. I hope people understand this.

[@ronaldkwarindinda8697]

Thank you Pumla for the intro! however, you have forgotten the social class of Ethnicity, in some societies it is even more powerful and significant than any other social classes. Financial status and Education are secondary to how good your clan is. But I understand that is a very hard part to penetrate for now😂 I am enjoying thank you ladies

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

You are right about ethnicity in the reality but as you intimated, it isn't something we can delve into here

[@outps]

Ethnicity is a social construct but it is usually used as an excuse; if someone is of a higher social status ( especially financially and by a great margin) most families will over look the ethnicity aspect.

[@twebazejoy6182]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 As a really big fan, let me start by saying I love you😁and it is with this same love that I'm going to disagree with you. Ethnicity is a giant minefield, but I believe the time is ripe for us as Africans (in our different countries) to delve into the harshness of it, face it and fight it. Because spade a spade, discriminating ourselves on this front is holding us back in many areas. Yes we have differences, but I'm pained that to this day we still see our differences as separating factors rather than unique factors to appreciate and celebrate.

[@ckmatovu]

😂😂😂 This discussion is so authentic ladies. It got me through several emotions of 😢😮😅 and more. Let's all aim for the yacht in our different ways.

[@karuhoko7044]

@@outps social class as well is a social construct

[@NyandengAGarang]

This episode is gold. Being on the same page is very important when making long-term decisions! Thanks ladies 🥰💖!

[@mablenabasujja4944]

Naye u girls munsanyusa i have enjoyed the show..... i was patiently waiting for this topic because i knew it would come up one day one time.

[@catherinekamuli7756]

Thanks, ladies, for the show 😘

[@kabasiitapriscilla5504]

Woow great show ladies...I have learnt quite alot over the years on this show. Thanks for the show ladies

[@faithamong2389]

Me my humbleness helped me some point during convid when u got us praying in a gathering

[@nampalamastulah4240]

Missed resett's touch though. I must admit the fact that every episode of bump love i watch, i learn at least a new vocabulary. especially from Rachel n pumla

[@carolynekirabo4811]

Ladies. Thank you. Thank you so much. What can i say? Thanks ladies. Really want to meet and greet

[@nalubowafaridah1619]

U lady's u really inspire me seriously thanks so much ba dearest big hugs 😊

[@gracenamugerwa6489]

Great show

[@ceciliacissy9012]

Thanks Angie I was love your contribution to those topics...u make life simpler for us.😊

[@PrideHotelPride]

Love you ladies so much, you've impacted positively in my life. I just can't wait for you every Friday