WOW... This one deserves a re-watch. Thanks George
@Montenegroman1015 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@Job.Well.Done_01 Жыл бұрын
Most men I’ve known who are divorced absolutely have what it takes to be married long term, but they were not informed enough to choose the correct partner for long term success. Leads to a lot of pain.
@edenilson14235 ай бұрын
Absolutely, my wife left me after 9 years of being together with a 6 year old. I was in the most pain I have ever felt the first month, I felt like I had no purpose because I made her my mission, but I guess that wasn't enough, anyway I lost myself and im slowly finding me again.
@capricetony8 ай бұрын
I just got knowledge of my ex getting married, pulled me back two steps, this video came up put me back on track… thanks 🙏 George.
@ListenMySon8 ай бұрын
It feels weird and will eventually be a relief, believe it or not. But you'll be fine.
@johnhoover616 Жыл бұрын
Morning George, afternoon here. Stirring mediocre coffee with the stainless steel spoon of durability 😂
@psalm2forliberty577 Жыл бұрын
That would be nice - Stirring my coffee with my pinky cause I can't find my spoon !
@arkansaswoodsman1582 Жыл бұрын
Stirring my coffee with a blender because I like chaos and noise in the morning 🌄
@richardcipollone70694 ай бұрын
It is a conversation most people don’t want to have nowadays. Knowing your limitations is important.
@Montenegroman1015 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@dwddavidsway71159 Жыл бұрын
Life is Twinkles and Stars above the Wrinkles and Scars . . . My body is a mosaic of Scars . . . My dreams are a plethora of Stars . . . At 64, I can still drop jaws to the floor! Truly! Belief in one’s self and possessing a willful heart is the remedy for a new start! . . . After my wife delivered number 7, she said See Ya! . . . So I laced up my Skates to unleash the dancer that I Am! . . . Video dropping soon! George, you are a part of my desire to Aspire! THANK YOU! Peace brother . . .
@blackandgold978 Жыл бұрын
Sir, I've only become a recent regular listener. My fiance' of 15 months ended our relationship abruptly in April, and I've been in such a downward spiral since. Only in the past few weeks have I regained some of my sense of direction and self, and now I start the long, hard road to healing. You're right; a bad breakup can feel just as awful as divorce......and that literal feeling of dying is not an exaggeration. It's quite real, and an inner agony that I've never felt before. I've never met you, but I've come more and more to regard you as a mentor. Yes, I do not agree with absolutely everything you say but that's fine. I will continue to keep coming to you for guidance, healing, and wisdom...... This may sound strange coming from a stranger, but you've made such a difference. I can't begin to express my deepest thanks to you.
@TylerEatsZombies Жыл бұрын
Not alone brother
@CMD_Line Жыл бұрын
Hope you gents are doing better. Yes a bad breakup does feel like divorce, but divorce feels like bereavement, except they’re still alive. However, in both circumstances the rejection is a total c**t. Knowing we are not alone helps us to rebuild, your friends that stuck by you and have always been there, invest in these relationships. There are acquaintances, friends and the ones you would go to war with, pick the latter.
@blackandgold978 Жыл бұрын
@@CMD_Line Thank you Sir, I am. Landed a new satisfying and well-paying job, and my heart is slowly but definitely healing. I look forward to what the future holds.
@TheGabrielberki Жыл бұрын
I think my biggest RP moment came when I realized that everything I thought was right ie, being the friend, the nice guy... just never worked and caused me nothing but heartache and pain. I had to seek out the truth and like you say it will hurt at first but when you accept female nature for what it is you can be a lot happier. I set boundaries and hold potential mates to a much higher standard than I ever did before. I realize that I have needs and I am not going to feel ashamed or guilty about them, be proud of your masculinity gents.
@Savvynomad225 Жыл бұрын
The key is making sure you only interact with women who bring value to your life. I like to view interactions with women as investing in a stock. Determine if this will bring an roi, or just create problems and losses for me?
@TheGabrielberki Жыл бұрын
@@Savvynomad225 Oh, yes, I have had many times when I did not want to leave a relationship because I thought I had already invested too much into it. Did not want to take the L.
@Savvynomad225 Жыл бұрын
@@TheGabrielberki even further don’t ever take the L with a spiteful type. They are increasingly abundant these days, where if you let them too close you’ll end up dealing with fallout you never thought possible.
@warrenhaven22163 ай бұрын
Amen well said.
@randomlyweirdjeff4638 Жыл бұрын
In my own personal experience I am physically disabled since birth, i've never really felt like a man. I always felt like something was missing. I'm on a journey of trying to discover my inner man. Even in the men's community I have never felt as if measured up. These videos are starting awake a part of that inner man. But I still have a long way to go. I feel like us disabled brothers are sometimes forgotten. This video is a God send for sure. We must look in ourselves and start with us first.
@L8ne4 ай бұрын
I had 15 girlfriends with whom I fell into deeper and deeper relationships through force. Each divorce got harder and harder with more consequences as I got older. The last ones were so hard that I thought about killing myself, but at one point I broke down and my ego died. I realized that I can have any girlfriend, but I will never be able to have a long marriage and children. After that day, things started to improve exponentially.
@maybugz Жыл бұрын
I always recommend your channel to men in YT comment sections who are obviously having a hard time going through shit. Your vids have certainly helped get me through some down times in the last couple years.
@marius33919 ай бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom, it helped a lot with my breakup. It really hit home when you mentioned it's not only the relationship that died but the dream as well. So grateful to have the platform and technology nowadays to actually find content like yours
@dalcassian9098 Жыл бұрын
This was very profound George, a wake up call to reality.. yet you provided (realistic) hope
@DoylesHut Жыл бұрын
I posted a video of yours on TikTok and it did well, and I'm honored you're open to the idea of doing such a thing. You're like the grandfather I never had. Stay anointed!
@ListenMySon Жыл бұрын
Keep doing it. Men need the message of sanity, clarity, and reason
@TheDmoncede Жыл бұрын
Where was this guy like 6 months ago holy cow - I know the answer …laying in wait for the lesson I was about to experience. This just became my favorite channel . Keep it up my Brother - we need you !!!!
@marinosarria81119 ай бұрын
Great advice... thank you.
@jorgeloya64202 ай бұрын
So much information and great knowledge here I don't know where to start, this is so good, this is so profound so good.. Thank you.
@dansparrow1506 Жыл бұрын
Thank you George for your Wisdom! Please continue to give us these moments of clarity. You are a blessing in my life and I'm certain other men feel the same way. You are helping thousands of men on a daily basis. I look upon you as an old friend that I can confide in and receive good advice in return. By all means continue with these sessions / videos. Carry on.! Stay the course!
@ludensregisluciscaelum7636 Жыл бұрын
Hey George, I have found clarity in your words, we must accept our reality and navigate this life being aware of how things are and not how we which it should or could be...hard red pill to swallow, but is freedom.
@Truth-will-set-you-free Жыл бұрын
Thank you George enjoyed the discussion and as promised plenty to consider and put to practice.
@jeffreysmith7274 Жыл бұрын
A most powerful and meaningful episode; I felt like you were talking directly to me. Much thanks for the inspiration and sage advice. PAX
@randomgeezer3456 Жыл бұрын
Let me add my voice to those who are saying this is one of your best and wisest videos yet. It gave voice to my own suspicion that my one long, reasonably happy marriage (was widowed shortly after our 25th anniversary) is the only one I'm ever going to have. Two failed marriages - one before the Real Wife, one after - and being the "dumpee" in several relationships are turning me in the direction of just saying to hell with it, I just don't have the ability to attract and hold a decent-quality woman.
@bigbadvicHo9 ай бұрын
Man you killed me talking about the pain that comes from a breakup and the betrayal trauma that comes from it. Hit HARD
@beardedfishingchats Жыл бұрын
Good show gb! Very good show. Knowing your limits and what you are and arent capabale of doing really is freeing
@levikainalu5825 Жыл бұрын
I listened to this during my calisthenic workout on my walk home from work, I literally finished my last set as this episode ended. One of the “revelation moments” I’ve had is that when I got married that’s when the hard work should have started. In my idealism I thought i could finally relax and “be myself”… nope I was DEAD WRONG. That was the time for the hardest work on self-improvement to begin. Like you said in your other video, a woman calls you on ALL YOUR SHIT.
@eggsackley9435 Жыл бұрын
I needed this video. After I texted you the other day about my situation, I took a walk into a field and sat and realized; over the last two years I stopped going after what I’m naturally inclined to do…in order to chase what seemed more “practical.” Turns out, I was correct when I listened to my gut. I’m designed for something else…and after two years of trying to fit into another mold…I realized it’s totally okay. Why would anyone do anything different? We all have a natural skill set to be used for whatever the thing in question is. We just gotta be honest with ourselves. Also, let me know if you visit the parish again. My oldest boy is serving tomorrow!
@NorthernBell4612 Жыл бұрын
Good Afternoon George, Another insightful and appreciated video. Proverbs 13:12 Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life. Having experienced both I can bear witness to their truth. You’re not broken. Initially it may feel as such yet with time and effort in processing the is-ness and the possibilities of what could be are humbling, insightful and action worthy. Thinking about trajectory, focus and purpose: “If you aim at nothing you will hit it every time”. Zig Zigler I am not a gun person but have heard those that are mention zeroing in their scope. Metaphorically speaking, it is important the lens by which life and circumstance are viewed be properly aligned to better enable achieving positive desired outcomes. If the lens is skewed likely so will be the outcome. Thank you for helping many expand their line of sight with positivity, strategy, encouragement and wisdom. In essence helping those to zero in their scope with sanity, clarity and reason.
@jayb1963 Жыл бұрын
Thanks ‘stranger’ on internet. Your channel is helping a lot during fresh heartsick at this moment. 3 ‘longer’ relationships behind me. 6 years, 7 years and last week a 8,5 year relationship ended. Trying hard to combat stress by walking a lot. Now also a few of your videos a day. Thanks for given advice and comforting words. Greetings from the Netherlands.
@ListenMySon Жыл бұрын
You've got this bro. Talk about it with a trusted brother. It gets better.
@miksantana84602 ай бұрын
Thank You Brother 🙏🏾
@johnboston2298 Жыл бұрын
Excellent message George. I sent this to many men who I know can really use this message.
@clarklindquist81373 ай бұрын
I've been missing notifications, took a look and KZbin unsubscribed me for some reason. Good to see ya again
@rickstrokesOG Жыл бұрын
Just about to start this video, and DAMN did I miss my mornings starting with Mr. Bruno! I'm glad to be back! You're the reason I roast & grind my own coffee. No better way!
@robertwheatley9153 Жыл бұрын
1:54 ... I used to be that way and worry about what others might be thinking. And then realized that perhaps they're thinking the same thing and the perception others have of them. Bottom line I don't really care what others think anymore. Too old for that and it isn't worth it.
@sahand9 Жыл бұрын
This episode was really deep, I have to watch it again to understand it. To really UNDERSTAND it.
@nicholasphilippo6832 Жыл бұрын
Thank you George!
@afflatus444 Жыл бұрын
0:09 😂😂😂 I love that intro, Bruno! One of the most unique one on KZbin keep it up, brother God bless you
@jeffcauthen6434 Жыл бұрын
Listened for the first time. Thank you.
@wholesomestrangejourney4 ай бұрын
DUDE!!!! 23 MINUTE MARK....YOURE THE MAN. TOTALLY APPRECIATE YOU !!!
@Ted1775 Жыл бұрын
George Bruno = The Source of Healing.👊
@gmo709 Жыл бұрын
You definitely have what it takes to be a great KZbinr, podcaster. No one is perfect and relationships dont always last and many times need to end. Cant beat self up. Life is too short for that.
@robham1819 Жыл бұрын
Thank you , you’ve helped me get through
@SIMartin-ih4xn3 ай бұрын
"Don't just listen to a person's story of darkness, Without giving any light to it."
@creatoroftheboundlessuniverse Жыл бұрын
Greetings Brother, Being over a half a century old and never being married to this point sometimes I feel the way you described. However, having dealt with Wombman that were rather promiscuous in their lives and honest with me about it somehow made me take the red pill a long time ago. It made me be able to see the ones who were acting is if they wanted a long term relationship but really did'nt. Even after having had a temporary live in who did some of the things that you mention but during that time I would always make the point that I am just a friend and being of assistance in a time of need. My only stipulation was to be respectful to each other and encouraging her to be mindful of herself and her situation with respect to the real world and at least attempt to make the corrections. What happens is if not careful you will find yourself dealing with a Spiritual Vampire who drains your Energy and attempts to engage you in a habit that can be detrimental to your well being! Sometimes Lessons are hard learned but you have to do it regardless of how painful it may be. Love is Universal and the Healing Power that will save us all but "keep thy heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life" Proverbs 4:23 ✌
@CtrlAltDelite Жыл бұрын
Loweing expectations of others is the best advice one could take
@RR_184 Жыл бұрын
Man is that ever right! I forgive her for the affair, but I’ll be damned if literally everything isn’t a trigger: 15min late, or her work schedule changes, or even a harmless text alert she gets, just the sound. It’s no way to live, fellas. And the heartbreak is real. Few things on earth as bad as being betrayed.
@breakoutpete210 Жыл бұрын
Happily divorced twice, and DAYUMN am i happy 😁
@nikitaw1982 Жыл бұрын
Eatting beef cooked in the foreman grilp and a lot of kimchi for a few days improved my sleep and reduced my anxiety like magic. Had skme ciggarrettes last night and this morning and my productivity up. Not keen on lung cancer.
@IxianMace Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video.
@bigbob4621 Жыл бұрын
Todays message was appreciated as only a few days ago I found myself pondering the thought that perhaps I wasn't suited to "marriage", LTR etc. I intrepet the timing as a sign Im on the right track. The load is now lighter. Thankyou.
@darkman9639 Жыл бұрын
George, this video could be the end of my menosphere journey. I got to know the women and I got to know me. But it's only recently that I'm coming to the realization you summarize so well here.
@blackeagle7765 Жыл бұрын
I needed this Thank you so much ❤
@Giotto137 Жыл бұрын
Hello George, I like your channel and I can say that I have the same conclusion that you talked about. I was really sad, I came a cross people that told me that being alone it’s bad but it’s not true, everything actually opened my eyes more then ever, and people don’t get it because they are still in love with the wrong person till when it’s too late.
@trap7196 Жыл бұрын
This makes me feel horrible for the women I have broken up with as well. My own pain from a recent breakup creates more empathy, I guess.
@Dreckmal01 Жыл бұрын
Just found the channel today. Oddly, ive been coming to the very conclusion you bring up here. Sadly, up until now its been under a negative bent, rather than a practical, realistic one. Subbed. My last red pill moment happened at the hieght of my last intense episode of mental health, occurring right before a catastrophic break up. Had a moment of clarity wherein i saw that i was the lynch pin. I have spent a couple years in therapy, and am on a good road now. Can i get women? Yes. Can i keep them? No. Trying to understand i am not broken has been a key issue.
@KMitchell-n2t Жыл бұрын
Thankyou
@Randooo19666 ай бұрын
The separate bathrooms doesn’t work ! Lol
@theterranceharvey9 ай бұрын
Damn right!!! Not broken!!! To hell with that!!! Be strong sir!!!!
@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L Жыл бұрын
GREAT TALKING POINTS SIR 💯👍🏾 .. SALUTE 👍🏾💯
@BigPapaPerique Жыл бұрын
I am unsure how to answer this self question. I thought i had what it takes. But the common denominator seems to be me. No matter how hard I try I'm not good enough. I have had 2 serious relationships. One I was engaged to at a young age: she cheated twice. Later I got a wife. She walked put one day texted she not comming home. And cheated 3 times. At least I got me kids. But I'm trying to accept the fact I'm the issue and will be alone.
@SingleDadSurvival Жыл бұрын
It can be tough as hell being a single dad... I talk about my own struggles/dealing with child support on my channel if you think it may help you...just to share stories. Keep your head up and fight. 🤝
@deciduousdiscipline9592 Жыл бұрын
Great video. Thank you
@nystateofmind9547 күн бұрын
This is good 👍
@Billybobcan7 ай бұрын
"kill your idealism" - That is amazing. I wish I heard this decades ago. Instead what I got was early childhood Christian education which taught me to pursue idealism and destroyed my observation skills, acceptance of life skill... It is like we are born alright, then bunch of institutions come at us one by one to program us for failure, confusion and eventual implosion.
@BlakeLight722 Жыл бұрын
This is my first introduction into your videos actually, and I must say this first one is really something after which is truth. And I’m not sure if it’s because my only for it all the way you deliver it, but it didn’t hurt as much as I thought once I came to the realisation moment. So thank you for that. I was going to mention what I feel. I have shortcomings in life, but I feel that if I label those things and they might come to fruition through my subconscious, and I don’t know if I want to do that. I’m aware of them, and I think that you making me aware of them now is more than enough and putting them down here. And the comment about what has she lied about as well, well, yeah if I didn’t meditate, I would’ve lost sleep 😂Thank you for that and can’t wait to listen to the rest of you videos for a binge session! 🙏✌️
@jerzygniazdowski6228 Жыл бұрын
GEORGE BE WELL.
@diddymercs Жыл бұрын
I feel less destroyed by my last relationship fiasco and more like I dodged a huge fucking bullet every day.
@Darrenbrown09 Жыл бұрын
I found you from TikTok wish I had know about you 3 years ago.
@jimatreidēs Жыл бұрын
Hi George, Nice video. I knew I did not have what it takes for marriage since I was 30, but didn’t want to accept it. After I accepted it, I was eventually happy. Marriage was and is not for me. Mentally and emotionally I didn’t and don’t have the stamina to deal with it.
@ClarkeIllmatical Жыл бұрын
You are going to save lives
@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L Жыл бұрын
SALUTE 👍🏾💯
@ZA56AA Жыл бұрын
Good video. Even liberating if you think about it.
@victorboone2053 Жыл бұрын
When you get the L ... My parents said when you do all that you can do. That was my personal revelation. I tried to work with wife to fight to stay in but it made more sense for me to abort for my health. . Idk if I will get married again. I have 30 years left. I dont think I want to be robbed my a person who loves me today and hates me tomorrow. I never want to be with another woman like my wife!
@harrisonkasun7542 Жыл бұрын
“It was like how the Grinch Stole Christmas” THATS funny.
@ral819 Жыл бұрын
Just a reflection , what I wanted , didn't want me and vice versa. Just life sometimes. I'm not proud of my past , but I learned from it.
@Underachiever_Files Жыл бұрын
Excellent content. I hate the "it is what it is" catchphrase as well. Gets on my nerves real hard, it's a form of manipulation from person to person, and coping from yourself to yourself.
@t.e.mulato701 Жыл бұрын
Thousands of years of literature show that a successful LTR has been always something very rare, so maybe few people have the tools or only on count occasions the conditions are met. But there's been a sort of conditioning during the second half of the XX century (sitcoms, movies, songs) to make people believe that that should be the norm, and that causes frustration and that frustration is very profitable (meds, consumption of cheap to produce shitty content and food) and makes the enslavement of people easier. Something similar happened with the concept of "marriage by love", which is something very new in history -in his memoirs, Casanova mentions a woman that married by love like something exceptional.
@georgevue8175 Жыл бұрын
When I caught my wife cheating with a coworker I was broken. Any/all love I had for her disappeared & with that I lost all motivation to rake in the $$$. I stayed for the kids but on the inside I have felt dead as we have lived as sexless roommates mostly because I am nothing but her second choice. I wish I never married, before I married I loved dating women & had a blast with them.
@askyourselfwhatdoyoureally3542 Жыл бұрын
It was never meant to be this way...
@omlet1231 Жыл бұрын
4 years with a long beard. You kept me going. Now I want to cut it off like you but I can't do it lol
@carlosferreira77724 ай бұрын
Very nice.
@katadromeasgr6 ай бұрын
I know this is an old video and most likely you won't see it but, imo, people who fail in marriages do so because of their childhood. Took me a long time to confirm it through my relationships with women who also had family issues and random people I met who had the same. Me included. It's the absence of both parents mate... or a severely problematic parent couple. Hence you develop the wrong ideas, you end up in relationships that are bad from the get go (and thus last as long as they end up lasting), etc. Every-single-one of the people I know who had a stable proper good family (both parents being good and with values and present) are now married happily. Simple as.
@cooket12 Жыл бұрын
Nice!
@peacelovejoyandhappiness Жыл бұрын
Look up 👀, we all need to keep our eyes on the man upstairs, live by the fruits of the spirit, obey the commandments and have faith. With God all things are possible. Even when a person may think they couldn't be a person fit for marriage, if this is something you desire then ask God for it. Marriage is a beautiful gift which God would never deprive us of if this is in our heart.
@ListenMySon Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the beautiful card and message. It's appreciated more than you can know Krissy
@MVProfitsАй бұрын
24:37 to the end is THE part to watch, for men in despair/anger/hatred/sorrow for getting dumped by the woman we truly loved. It should be a highlight, a solo video, heavily shared and promoted. Yeah, it's that good. BTW I disagree with the beginning and title related to it, the "we can't stay in a relationship" because our genetic makeup part. First I disagree with the premise. The "modern women" part is HUGE. We all now in 99%of the past, or in many current regions on Earth, we would still be in together as the social pressure/customs would have made her stay, with a least a chance to correct the issues. Second, it would actually mean we would indeed be "broken" if that were the case.
@SteveJones379 Жыл бұрын
Yes, but also MANY women don't have what it takes.
@Uncle-Smart-Alec9 ай бұрын
Fool me once,shame on me.Fool me twice,shame on me.Glad to say I've only been fooled once.
@jagcentral Жыл бұрын
Men who focus on their perceived shortcomings will never be truly happy. Though being an authentic man in mind, body and spirit is an ideal worth striving for.
@TheSpearman-vt3nb Жыл бұрын
I’ve given up on life. It’s been four or five years maybe longer and I can’t dig myself out of this. I won’t Minecraft but I know why people do.
@davidcatanzaro3841 Жыл бұрын
I would add that these videos make you feel bad until the video is over. Its normal. Kind of like a deep tissue massage. If it hurts its working
@ieDekay6 ай бұрын
17:40 hit HARD AS FUCK
@killawattgarage Жыл бұрын
How do you get to those revelation point? I am beginning to realise that fatherhood is a huge area that I fall short in?
@Madosatoshist Жыл бұрын
There is one global, timeless measure of value: The amount of sats you have.
@askyourselfwhatdoyoureally3542 Жыл бұрын
We have only been living this way for around 100 years. Nothing natural about this life. Forget modern women.
@He.Who.Shall.Remain.Genderless Жыл бұрын
Is the picture always crooked? It’s maddening me 😅 No but really… 😢
@grumpysquid Жыл бұрын
Interesting perspective. I always try and use the filter of the holy scriptures, God’s definition of what a marriage relationship is and should be. There takes a ton of intricate discernment to include some other practical info.
@behobina Жыл бұрын
Hi GB! We love you in Croatia. Have you tried Lavazza coffee?
@ListenMySon Жыл бұрын
Yes I have
@franckjoly12 Жыл бұрын
Good morning to you good sir! George, may I call you George? It saddens me to hear you speak this way about yourself. As a younger soul in lack of proper grounded male wisdom advise, I come here daily to help me move forward with more rooted steps into my life as a man. Thank you once again for being here for us all, you are a blessing and I wish you a long healthy prosperous happy upcoming years to come, always, AMEN. I'm 39 years old, divorced once, and still soul searching. Am I wasting my time into a void of disappointment when it comes to women? I may be misunderstanding your points here since english is not my native language but are you saying you are not going to waste your time on a relationships anymore because of the very nature of women or because you feel you are not good enough for that kind of relationship you would like in your life? I know hope is the first step to disappointment, but I somewhat still hold on to it and wishfully believe there is a person out there that fits into my current lifestyle and the ones to be, unconditionally. Your friend from France. Franck
@MrSamadolfo Жыл бұрын
unconditionaly probably not, conditionally + short term = yes ☺️🌴
@SimonSoleiro-hq6sg7 ай бұрын
Do you do online coaching
@anthonyakana5932 Жыл бұрын
I love the interspersed Mr . Carradine....saying bluntly you are a ...
@thegrindeveryday94083 ай бұрын
If you can’t run a mile in under 7 minutes with zero training then a 4 minute mile most likely will never happen.
@primetimejabroni903 Жыл бұрын
Hey George are you doing any coaching?
@ListenMySon Жыл бұрын
alpha5477@yahoo.com
@w.adammandelbaum1805 Жыл бұрын
I can't run a four minute mile but I can ruin a relationship in four months. Do I get a trophy?