You are that love.

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@thecrapartistx 4 ай бұрын

I didn't start becoming a human being until I was about 45 or so... After I left my mother's personal hell I spent too long trying to be "the best one" to all the worst men.. just continually hurting myself for what I couldn't do or couldn't be. It just feels so damn good to finally feel like I ain't gotta be anyone or amount to anything other than myself for myself. Thank you for singing to us Patrick :)

@Tutume1111 4 ай бұрын

Same here..never feel good enough 😢

@mariekitty 4 ай бұрын

💯 ❤

@Rozes301 4 ай бұрын

🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🫂⭐️

@Coroebus107 4 ай бұрын

@@Tutume1111 One of the worst effects of surviving abuse. I'm just getting to the point after more than a year that I can look myself in the mirror and tell myself I'm enough without breaking down.

@tg_5565 4 ай бұрын

Aww, beautiful words❤

@7auren77 4 ай бұрын

Really beautiful! Your channel is one of most valuable I have come across.

@NightMystique13 4 ай бұрын

On Reddit, in the Raised by Narcissists category, I share your name with people who need good advice. You have a lovely voice! Reminds me of Freddy Mercury, up there is the higher octaves. 🤘

@ErikLeed 3 ай бұрын

Same here...

@SandiTink 3 ай бұрын

I never developed a sense of worth as a child. I still struggle with it.

@AlexandraS-t3j 3 ай бұрын

Me tooo

@suzyhomeacre 4 ай бұрын

Tom is smiling and proud of you, Patrick. Thank you so much to you all, my healing family. 🫶🏻

@Nibiru3600X 3 ай бұрын

Perfect timing too! 🙏 I just got my accessories for my costume… Tom’s Mad Hatter ❤️‍🩹 ⏰🎩 🫖

@psalm148.1 4 ай бұрын

😳.That song has a whole new meaning now!

@Tasha-101 3 ай бұрын

Beautiful voice! Appreciate your musical talent & Expressions! ❤

@tahwsisiht 4 ай бұрын

"good love is hard to find' So true. Especially when you are in the eye of a gaslighting storm. Where is true North? (Ty! For helping to validate what psychologically healthy and for the music. Feelings delivered by music is like a sight of a rose with its fragrant. Music is the fragrant for my heart.)

@tg_5565 4 ай бұрын

I didn’t think I could like your channel any more than I already do. ❤

@missMagbeth 3 ай бұрын

They had our pure and implicit love when we were kids, and they made us hard, bitter, and heartbroken as a payment for being born, fed, and clothed.

@AndreaCrisp 3 ай бұрын

Great playing! Great singing! Great description! Thanks for sharing your talent with us.

@amylandry4108 3 ай бұрын

Beautiful rendition of one of my all time favorites of Tom Petty’s 💙 RIP TP

@MagisterialVoyager 4 ай бұрын

I struggle so, so much with self worth it’s almost debilitating. 😭😭😭 Thank you for this, Patrick.

@sarahjmount9221 4 ай бұрын

Great tune. Gotta love Petty. Patrick, you’re pretty awesome at guitar, too, and your singing the chorus was so melodic. Appropriate song for all of our situations. My parents were damn lucky to have me! I was a precious, smart, creative, beautiful little girl that they took and not only dumped all over but threw in the trash can. They used, abused, neglected, and abandoned the best thing that ever happened to them. I went no contact with my entire family right before I found your channel and was on the path to recovery right away. (I had no idea what CPTSD was until I discovered this channel). I have a grown son who I was adamant about not growing up the way I did. I got lucky because I was a single mother, too. He was the best thing that ever happened to me! I never knew a love like that could exist! How could a parent ever treat their child the way mine treated me? I’m happy to say he’s thriving in life. I don’t understand how I could and can show up for him but not myself? Now that he’s an adult, he sees it and he just wants me to have a better life. Under his advice, I went no contact with my whole family before I even began healing (none of my parents’ grandchildren have contact with them for over 10 yrs now). However, my parents have severely declined since I’ve gone no contact. They’ve been divorced for 50 yrs. They’re in separate states, both in nursing homes doing poorly. My father just lost his horror show of an abusive wife for whom I felt nothing when finding out she died. He has dementia very badly and is suffering, totally alone. My mother is going downhill fast, suffering, completely alone. NO ONE goes to visit them. My mother tried to trick me in to going to see her after everything she did to me until I was over 50. I didn’t fall for it. Not me nor the grandchildren will go to their funerals. They “got lucky’ when I found them at birth and should have showed it. Now they can rot in the hell of their own making.

@Whipporwhill 3 ай бұрын

Good for you.

@sarahjmount9221 3 ай бұрын

@@Whipporwhill Well, thank you. I still have a long way to go on healing myself and will always be a work in progress. Good luck on your recovery journey, too! We’re all in this together. Patrick’s channel helps tremendously. 😊

@tahiyamarome 3 ай бұрын

Nothing as good as good love. My life is filled with good ppl who really know what matters because i decided my parents were broken and i did not want to follow them anywhere. At 58 i am more fulfilled and rich in love than i ever thought i could be. I started working on this 22 years ago and it's been worth every hard step. Don't give in. Don't give up. It's worth it!

@TK-fm5ud Ай бұрын

How did you work on it ?

@Tasha-101 3 ай бұрын

Moved me to tears & yet comforted me at the same time. Thank you for understanding our pain.

@DemocracyWatcher23 4 ай бұрын

What a great video message to wake up to 😊 * cues Tom Petty playlist TY Patrick!

@lynnc5252 4 ай бұрын

Oh Patrick, that was fantastic. Thank you for everything you share with us.

@NolaCaffey 4 ай бұрын

Nice voice - thanks for sharing it!🌷🕊🙏🌈

@mariehughey5390 4 ай бұрын

I love how your channel has grown and changed along with how you’ve helped so many heal and find joy.

@holaCarolina 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Patrick. Lately its been a shit storm and constant gaslighting. I dont believe in anything anymore...and im so tired. But this gives me a new perspective.

@michele4040 3 ай бұрын

❤

@katherinetomasello3661 3 ай бұрын

No way, I didn't know this guy could sing to!? Man you're so awesome 😎

@katskills 4 ай бұрын

So beyond lost right now. It feels like I just traded years of my life for confusion and pain and there’s no do over button. I’m still very young but my father died young and I just struggle with feeling like I wasted half my life. Trying to get back to myself but I lost who she was.

@jennytaylor3324 3 ай бұрын

I'm sorry. A girl needs her dad. Having to guess at who we are sucks, doesn't it. When we were small we just knew we were it! And it wasn't about ego. When I was little I felt something, almost like a sense of how great I was, and all my untapped potential. Somewhere along the line we lost touch with that, but I swear it's still there in us. Sometimes I think the only sane people in the world are the kids. There's a diamond in all of us, but it got buried under all the layers of other people's lies.

@Jillrussell-mj4yw 3 ай бұрын

Beautiful Patrick, you are so talented ❤

@thedifficultdarling 3 ай бұрын

Well done Patrick! Made me smile.. 😊 Seeing me through all the fog had been a challenge but I'm getting there! ♥️

@Subb30 4 ай бұрын

So pretty. Thank you Patrick

@WaterFor3st 2 ай бұрын

“Then go!” ❤❤❤ appreciate ya.

@nayaleezy 4 ай бұрын

Do you have a tendency to just "take it" "suck it up" "let it go"? Might have lost self worth in abuse, neglect. Return to the self, love it, you deserve to be supported & loved.

@INFJ2 2 ай бұрын

And you can sing.... talented soul

@sarahb4513 3 ай бұрын

Aww, thank you for singing for us! It’s great!

@AbbyFairlady 4 ай бұрын

Whoa! The words of an abuser

@narutouzumaki6409 3 ай бұрын

Right? The thing is, abusers are manipulative. They'll turn the hurt around on you, so many of us have heard something like this from them ourselves. Maybe Patrick's intent is that we should reclaim that kind of worth for ourselves. But yeah, I've heard this from some cruel dudes. If you haven't, check out the book 'Why Does He Do That?' By Lundy Bancroft. Helped me realize I wasn't totally losing it, and those guys were not, in fact, Mr Wonderful.

@yourgodismean4526 4 ай бұрын

I just want to offer you some props for using your beautiful voice, Patrick. Ik you’ve talked about being nervous when someone puts a mic in front of you to sing. Ty for modeling getting out of your comfort zone. Also, I apologize for saying how insanely sexy you are when you play-I swear I don’t have parasocial relationships and I never meant to be creepy. In my own life, I ended up w a lot of crap balls bc I would melt if they played an instrument for me 🤷‍♀️ Willing to love n accept myself anyway

@Vwants2knowY 4 ай бұрын

I got lucky when I found your videos, Patrick. 😊 And I miss Tom Petty, the most famous, genuinely kind soul I was fortunate to meet. 😢

@imaniford119 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much, Patrick💙

@UnMoored_ 4 ай бұрын

Perfect sentiment.

@SharonKBM 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for this message. I needed to hear this.

@anner.413 3 ай бұрын

Awesome! You're a great musician.❤

@lesleypocock1158 4 ай бұрын

Thank you , that was just what I needed today ♥️

@melissajaaaay1915 4 ай бұрын

Beautiful ❤️

@SuLawn 4 ай бұрын

Wow!!!

@maryb6529 3 ай бұрын

Beautiful! Thank-you so much!

@mariekitty 4 ай бұрын

Love you, Patrick ❤

@marieldavison5121 4 ай бұрын

so scared of everything - parents are so screwed up themselves.

@sayusayme7729 Ай бұрын

Thank you, love this 💎

@jeannettenoble990 3 ай бұрын

You have a nice voice, it is pleasant to listen to. Great guitar too.

@nathalieduverna6963 4 ай бұрын

Love the 80's tone😊(you got lucky when I found you 😮 oh yeah!!!)

@fairygurl9269 4 ай бұрын

💞*"Something Could Happen" Tom Will Always Live In My Radio 📻 ❤️

@fuzbugg 4 ай бұрын

this is beautiful thank you

@RideForRuin 4 ай бұрын

Wow I just saw your limerence video that spoke to me... and now and subscribing a few hours ago you post this... and I'm a huge Petty fan!! Wow haha

@Sandra-hc4vo 4 ай бұрын

Great song!

@kismypencek6185 3 ай бұрын

🎉🎉🎉 I hear it!

@VondaZimmerman-qi2ch 3 ай бұрын

Awesome 🎉 😊❤

@christophermcneela4493 3 ай бұрын

Parents can be hot messes, indeed. Sad that children look to them in awe.

@justjules6975 4 ай бұрын

That was beautiful♥️

@magpie222 4 ай бұрын

I finally found myself after I had my exhusband arrested and charged with domestic violence attempt murder. I will be whole when he goes to trial and gets his just reward for 38 yrs of abuse.

@janettemartin4604 4 ай бұрын

❤Stay STRONG! Don’t expect any Miracles but stay strong and fight the good fight!

@tihana13 3 ай бұрын

WOW! ❤❤❤

@roxie333 3 ай бұрын

Thank you I love you ❤️

@lieswil 4 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@Latoree33 4 ай бұрын

❤ Love this!

@christophermcneela4493 3 ай бұрын

Love this channel. This guy. However, though a super-valuable tool, psychology is regressional and delves into the past. You go down a ladder only to ascend it which is the ultimate direction. You go down a rung or twenty or back to ground when you forgot or are missing your tools. Then you get them and ASCEND. You RISE. The ultimate imo is non-attachment, non dependcy on the parental introjects. You can’t get blood from a stone. You can maybe understand for the purpose of releasing.