You Believe What!? (Negative Core Beliefs)

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[@michellerbn]

does anyone feel that feeling of 'safety' 'home' and 'at peace' when watching colettes videos?! I honestly have missed her so much and forgot how safe her videos make me feel. it feels like were all getting to come home, again. im so glad she took the time she needed and came back with the videos we all desperately need and also came back doing what she loves! i love it all so much!

[@ColetteKati]

Wow this comment gave me all the feels, thank you so so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@TxMom13]

@@ColetteKati I think that comment gives us ALL the feels 😭🥰 I’m a grown 32 year old woman who feels exactly how that comment explains! Thank you for gracing us with your sweet presence and bringing back that feeling to those of us who have missed you dearly ♥️

[@RayRay.01]

It calms my anxiety. That's for sure.

[@MyUploadedLifeJD]

It’s like going back home to chill with mom & get good advice and comfort

[@TxMom13]

@@usernametaken7971 then why you here bro

[@lillianalopez7775]

You probably won't read this but I remember when princesstard was really young in one of the vlogs you guys talked about holding each other accountable when you said bad things about yourselves. That was such a good way of helping her with her self esteem when she was very young

[@ColetteKati]

I do remember thank you ❤️

[@dianeschmidt17]

This video reminded me of back in the day when you did the Self-Esteem Police with Avia

[@jessicamather8176]

I love how she talks and builds us up like we are her kids. 🤗 Feels good to have my KZbin mom back

[@ColetteKati]

Thank you!

[@jessicamather8176]

@@ColetteKati

[@katielupton6273]

I’m 57 years old and never heard this before, but I’m very guilty of it. While I have built up my children to know that they are enough, I’ve never done this for myself. 😢 Thank you 🙏🏻

[@amaradryden720]

I'm 20, have a 6 month old son who is my world, and unexpectedly pregnant again by his father who got arrested for domestic assault and battery on me. So, I'll have a 1 yr old and newborn next May! Crazy times, but needed to hear this message! Beaten down but coming out stronger and changing each day to be the best mama to my children that I can be ♡ Thank you, Colette!!!!

[@madeleinep7103]

You are a warrior! Congratulations on your sweet babies:)

[@amaradryden720]

@@madeleinep7103 Thank you!!! I truly appreciate your kind words!

[@shayt543]

Your hair girl, is on point!!! You listed all of the above for me!😕 Preach!!! I tell my kids this everyday, I never say anything negative to them, they are amazing beautiful smart people!! I really will try to do this for myself, because your right, we need to be a better role model for them. I do tend to call myself ugly, and I will make a point to challenge myself! THANK YOU!! Please keep uploading even if its once a week, it's really helping me be a better me, loving myself for once. You are a true inspiration and motivational speaker... I hope you see that too! ❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Sending positive prayers and vibes to you and yours!

[@ColetteKati]

THank you! This means so much to me!

[@CentennialCripple]

"We can just mold them like this; they're squishy!" 😂

[@alligordon2670]

She's such a genuine, beautiful person

[@ScorpioBZ4]

When I was in school I used to always say “oh no I’m not” or “this isn’t that good” etc when people would compliment me. Finally one day I decided to just say “thank you” instead of putting myself down. After a while, it didn’t feel so forced and I started to believe when people said it. Just a good tip to try for anyone wanting an “easy” starting point

[@elifgulmen]

I’m in for this challenge, I’ve been so low in my mood this past year, I’m unemployed and stuck at home due to the COVID, it has been challenging mentally especially, but you are right about how our thoughts can have so much power, I will work on my thoughts to be more positive for my future self ❤️

[@leavexmealone]

💜💜Thanks for the message Collette. It’s hard to admit another’s opinion is not our truth and we can change it.

[@lynettez72]

You are so right.... so beautiful.... so inspiring.... and so appreciated. Sending love and hugs your way Collette! 🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗

[@allisoncaseyy]

SO needed to hear this right now. I’ve been extremely hard on myself lately, specifically, being a young professional starting my career during this crazy time & not having a solid foundation. The things I’ve truly convinced myself of are crazy! I did not know where to even start to combat these horrible things I was telling myself but THIS is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for that. I was 15 when I started watching you & now 24, I could have never imagined I’d be here today needing this video😇 Thanks for being the big sis I never had!

[@ColetteKati]

I’m so so happy I was able to help you, thank you for helping me too 🥰

[@seabreeze1436]

I love you Colette ♥️ You really are our KZbin mom. I didn’t realize how much I needed to hear this. Thank you for your warmth and love.

[@TimothyWallace1953]

There was a time, when I believed that my sins could not be forgiven. A person asked me if I were more powerful than Jesus. My answer was, of course not. He pointed out that my believing that my sins were unforgivable, was saying that I was more powerful than Jesus. Faith Love Forgiveness Amen 🙏

[@trumpwon8972]

Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻😊💛

[@TimothyWallace1953]

@@trumpwon8972 Thank you, and bless you too. Thank @Colette Kati for bringing up these issues. Forgiveness of others can be less difficult than forgiving ourselves. I felt that I was minimizing my actions. That is a high hurdle to overcome. #Faith 🙏

[@mariamshah338]

This was really empowering thank you. For me that person is my mother. She is a broken record of “you are not good enough”. I no longer care what she thinks because I am my own person❤️

[@itsjacobjames5518]

I really struggle with anxiety and OCD and it’s so hard to feel like I can get through. I remember when you posted a video a while about fear and it made laugh and cry and gave me hope and I have moved forward in life to always try and think with love. Thank you for being so inspiring and incredible and for being the reason that I vlog and helping me try to choose happiness.

[@hanna5790]

This video really spoke to me. As a person who often criticizes herself and negatively self-reflect, I have had to learn how to challenge these negative self-beliefs and realise that they are untrue and stem mostly from my doubts and fears of failure. Don't let negative self-beliefs stand in your way of accomplishing your goals and being happy!

[@ericaa406]

Can’t tell you how helpful these short videos are for me. Especially knowing (a tiny tiny portion of) your story and being able to relate. we have to help each other because life is hard. Thank you.

[@mamaneedsapanini]

Amen! After I had my first child, I feel like a lot of things changed. I wasn’t so worried about myself and bashing myself because no matter what.. this little human thinks I’m superwoman and she needs me! So then I think I started to see my worth little by little. And yes! You get to a point where you don’t want to bash yourself anymore because no matter what... our kids always want to do and say what we do. And it would break my heart to see my daughter not love herself. 💔🥺 Thanks for sharing! You are always someone I strive to be like as a mother, wife.. just all around person. ❤️❤️❤️

[@LanasEdits]

This video brings me back to years and years ago when I watched your videos religiously. It really hits home and feels so nostalgic. So much has changed but your content is still so on point! You’re still juggling your family and work so well, it blows my mind! I’ve really missed this! ❤️

[@mthomas183]

Thank you Colette.

[@claramaries]

You have no idea how much I needed this. I have watched it three times now and meditated on it. Wow, how powerful! And coming from such a powerful woman! A true inspiration ❤️ thank you for making my childhood and continuing to touch my life as I head to my freshman year in college ☺️❤️❤️

[@MsSomeKT]

We can change our core beliefs. I just learned about scripts and core beliefs in my psychology class and it really out this process of self love and discovery in perspective. We are what we think. I truely appreciate everything about you. You speak to me on a very soul level and it is refreshing. Also yay! 3 weeks in a row! Its a daily struggle. Changing our personal dialog is a challenge but one that is so rewarding.

[@hollywilliams6160]

This is by far the best advice I've ever gotten. 💕🥺

[@lella7265]

You really are such a rock for all of us, Colette! Your positivity is inspiring

[@zaramiller6568]

Perfect timing, I needed this self-love reminder! Thank you for sharing this Colette.

[@brittanymcmillan2162]

You are amazing Colette! Never forget 🤍

[@kelseyfairlie1595]

Yes! Yes! Yes! This is exactly what I'm working on to do. This is actually CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) this is it! I am not the opinions of others in my past! I LOVE these videos you're putting up. They are always in perfect timing for a metal reset.

[@elenawatkiss6354]

Your recent videos have been giving me instant joy, thankyou!

[@andrewm3674]

Thank you for this. This is something that I'm sure a lot of people need to hear. I know I definitely did. I hope you keep making videos like this.

[@lesliebrown4386]

Did you find your way into my brain and know I needed this? My gosh I needed this! Thank you so much Collette!

[@melschehr5310]

Collete, so glad youre back, you're literally the best

[@Husniyeakd]

Thanks Collette x

[@ashmeowed]

Colette, I just wanted to say that I'm so, so happy you're making these videos once again. You've always been such a positive force here on KZbin and I really used to get so much out of these motivational style videos. I've been watching your family's journey for such a long time and it's just so nice now, even as a 26 year old woman, to see you back in this space. I met you guys at Playlist in 2013 in Orlando and will never forget how much that moment meant to me. I love my internet mom.

[@ashmeowed]

Side note: I'm LOVING this hair color situation on you. So cool and unique! It really suits you.

[@werty3116]

Conditioned thinking. It can be damaging. You are right girly!

[@karlijamison4655]

I’m in love with these new videos!❤️

[@HomelessHearts129]

collette i love you, i've been watching your family's vids since i was a young teen (i'm 26 now) and you guys are such a positive light in my life. you're like the big sister/cool aunt i never had. you inspire me and make me feel safe, seen, and happy.

[@RacheyB87]

Thank you for these videos you are posting. They mean more than you could know

[@shannabenjamin]

I want to play this for myself every morning, thank you!

[@ElvJG3]

love these videos! very empowering 💗

[@jessicagill10]

Yes! Moose tracks is my favorite! & I'll do my best with the rest of it. Hope to see you again next week! 😜❤

[@gracel0ll]

I am sooo glad you've started making videos again!! Love this and you Colette!

[@charlidixon1731]

Love your energy x

[@Sunwolfff]

Oh my goodness it is so good to see and hear from you! you always make me smile. :)It took me a while to love myself, but I am getting there even more. Big hugs and I love you so much! ❤️❤️❤️

[@Mommysissy15]

I definitely needed to hear this. You are a inspiration colette!!💕

[@jellyluver22]

ty for the motivation and empowerment colette 💜

[@ruckersucker5119]

I always feel so much better after watching your videos. You're so upbeat and have the best sense of humor! 🤗❤

[@kaidencemaracle9823]

Beautiful as always!!

[@millywhitlock9002]

You are so amazing, thank you so much for this.

[@marystepalavich1469]

This video was like a warm hug 🥰

[@Wxtst.3]

I love this so much ! You’re like an online psychologist

[@ryanb.6881]

Been loving these videos recently :)

[@MyUploadedLifeJD]

Thank you ❤️

[@anahitkhach]

Interview format unfolds Collette more. But if this format works for you Collette for now we looove it! Beautiful soul..💛

[@aliazaluor2620]

Love having you back Colette 💛 thanks for the positvity! Side note: your lipstick looks great with your hair!

[@svietasharpe334]

Please keep making these I actually love these!

[@EmaAtwell]

love this so much colette. thank you

[@CherryBerry48]

i thank you for coming back to the tubez, i missed you!! i still love you all very much!!!

[@yorlinzelaya7021]

This was so awesome and so true!! The core beliefs are so important. And yes they are harmful to yourself and to your children if not corrected. Loved the video please keep posting whenever possible. The vibes are just amazing. ❤️❤️❤️ Love you lots.

[@tara4336]

This was so lovely to watch! I love self love tips, I'm definitely working on loving myself more

[@natemcknight1534]

Thank you soooo much i ve been struggling with this exact same thing thank you so much this helps Collette!😎🤘👍😊❤

[@cindyheaslip3614]

Thank you I am over 50 and my mind still lives in my 20s but my body is year ahead and I find it hard to think of myself as beautiful but I think rather then give in to my age I will try your idea 💡 and hope to love the 50 something year old as much as I did my 20 year old self so again thank you 🙏 gonna challenge myself today 😊👍❤️

[@mariaskittykats9015]

And you are so nice, Colette.👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@excitedmommy]

Such a great word! I’m glad you are back to posting! I think we all, myself included, use humor to make ourselves feel less vulnerable. Let’s be real, you’ve been through some shit the last few years, and you survived! That’s quite an accomplishment and I know you’ve learned so much! I think that enables you to help a lot of people going through similar situations and feelings. I hope one day you’ll feel vulnerable and confident enough to express what you learned, without the comedy schtick, because I really believe you will help many people if you do.

[@fzzypurpleturtle]

So many nuggets of wisdom, such a short video!

[@celina1771jv]

Thanks Mom! Needed that

[@lillianadaniela3163]

Thank you

[@daniellegottfried1875]

You are such a strong, intelligent woman. It is remarkably incredible.

[@WatchDoggyDog]

This is DIRE Mrs. Butler, goodluck in recognizing this and making an actual change: negative can't mean bad if it means feminine, which it does.

[@daniellehall9230]

Keep these videos coming, lady! You're helping my brain, if even just a little bit, with every word :)

[@humameer521]

I LOVE EVERYTHING YOU SAID! Thank you Colette 😘

[@ColetteKati]

Thank you!

[@HailBear15]

Hi Colette, I’ve been watching you and your fam since I was 17! I really love your videos and the positive energy you bring into the world. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! ❤️😊😘

[@homemovies1961]

Hi Collette Love your wisdom, Glad your back 😊❤️

[@anildacruz432]

The answer to your question would be my ex he makes me feel like less of a person.. I struggle with self love all the time due to haters and ex. And I agree with the statement of me believing that im ugly ive always been like that but what i do is atleast 1 or 2 times a day i look in the mirror and compliment myself and each day i do it an extra time.. I thank you for this video i love how you share about your life so i shared a little about mine ❤ I love you i hope you respond someday.

[@ColetteKati]

I'm so glad to hear that you try to counter the negativity with complimenting yourself, it will go a long way!

[@sandyc6569]

You are beautiful the way you are!!! 🤗🤗🤗

[@RayRay.01]

You are so strong. This inspires me to do the same. Thank you!

[@floren1skorpio]

amazing video!! i love all these new videos about meaningful topics

[@millstev1]

Preaching. I just wish it was easier to change the negative stuff we think

[@kathleenl4128]

I love your hair !!! ❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊

[@Mewkeytay]

that hair girl lol i love autumn hair katy

[@METROBOOMKiN218]

Also I love the tapestry

[@23sivart]

I like this!!

[@alexisoviedo100]

Love this video!!! Thank you so much for posting mommytard

[@shaynah7866]

you're such an amazing person!

[@jessdelight]

I love these videos.

[@nickierodriquez7534]

Thank you for a great video

[@sadie4me2]

You are fabulous

[@gimmemoremusic]

I manage to be less harsh on myself since I started feeling old enough to see my young self from the side. I tell myself, "Would you bully a kid for a silly mistake? No? Then why do you beat your younger self up?"

[@lozerluna]

LOVE YOU !

[@gilliancalkins6283]

My biggest negative core belief is that I will be alone forever

[@yay6586]

thank u

[@PrincessPeyten]

Yasss Colette I love that you’re opening the video with destiny child you’re such a legend❤️❤️❤️

[@duramatersoul]

Yes yes yes I love this and you

[@RockysRebels]

Omg I love you, I love your soul. This video. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻 you are a Queen! ✌🏻🤟🏻🙏🏻

[@braydenk.8348]

Thank you, Mom.

[@carol2girls]

Love it did you take drama class in school? I love how funny you are!!!

[@irenet5653]

Colette, You are so beautiful on the inside and out! BTW, You look so young and it’s hard to believe you are not your kid’s sibling❣️

[@zayminaj2191]

Thank you so much 🥺❤️ I remember you I watch your family every single vlog when I was young why are you not posting anymore??💔

[@feebeci]

Please make a podcast talking about self help with people !

[@anahitkhach]

Collette ❤❤❤❤