You CAN Find a Girl That Does Car Stuff With You: Here's How I Did (Where NOT To Look) Project Car 3

In todays episode of Project Car I sit down with my girlfriend Logan to talk about some things that will help you find a girl who is the type of person to support you for who you really are. It's a hard world out there for us car guys when it comes to females. We are so dedicated and absorbed with what we do that our lives never have an off button when it comes to cars and racing. That lack of diversity isn't tolerable by most average females and more often than not a dude curbs his real desire to expand and enjoy car related things because of it. It hurts everything and kills passion. It kills the best avenue for personal growth guys like us could ever have. Don't let that happen! I hope someone out there learns from this and saves themselves time and energy when it comes to who they allow into their life and spend time with. You build the car...it builds you back!
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[@Stapleton42]

One of the key points of this video is to AVOID “car girls”… you find a girl that’s not involved in car world at all and start with a blank slate. If they support you and enjoy doing things with you…they’ll be by your side in the garage too. THAT is my point here 🤟🏻 Merch link: Stapletonautoworks.com

[@mickycoveyduck185]

My phone is full of photos, of pot plants , weed , cars , videos game cars , and pics of me and the wife together or my dog , less photos of the wife me and the dog then , weed and cars. Also dont have social media at all no snap , insta, face, Twitter or anything only things are discord for gaming, twitch for gaming and KZbin to watch gamers and car videos. Love you 2 keep up the awesome videos.

[@von...]

@@mickycoveyduck185 the American dream imo.

[@mickycoveyduck185]

@@von... or Canadian dream cuz I'm from Canada but still a good dream

[@dmbryant9942]

I enjoy this informative look at you and Logan. From my perspective your young and just getting going BUT you’re doing things right. Be the person you would want to spend time with. Plus be “Partners in Crime”. Plan and Stick to the Stuff that Works. You’re love language speaks volumes. Logan is sooo in love with you Mitchel she’s expresses it in her touching and calming you. Did you notice that ? She’s your calming force to your bull headed, full speed ahead, personality. Celebrate that and let that grow. Show us you letting her touch you. You don’t show that when you work. Plus touch her more. During this installment she did all the touching. You just petted your hands. Watch your body language. We are. Love you guys, DM Bryant

[@ismaro8676]

Very good advice

[@joebolognese4469]

Everyone needs a Logan in their lives

[@jaredmartin408]

fax

[@dmbryant9942]

Amen Joe

[@malteins]

The most factual comment I've ever seen ;)

[@TheReaper42069]

Man that’s so true it almost makes me tear up

[@chuckfinley4757]

I need to be in Logan.

[@BocaChevy]

How I met my car woman: Was working at a target and a girl I thought was cute started a couple weeks later. We had talked a couple times before but I didn't know anything about her. One day I'm leaving to go home and saw her sitting on the bench out front and asked "hey do you need a ride home?" She laughs and says "no I have my own car", and as a car guy I ask "what do you drive?" She responds " the Z28 Camaro"! That just happens to be the freaking car Ive been drooling over the last couple weeks 😂. Turns out she has been drag racing with her dad and has been super competitive racing for a couple years. Man did I feel like a dork trying to take her home in a 90' c1500. We've been married for 13 years and have 3 kids together, and she still has been down the quarter mile faster than me 😆

[@Stapleton42]

That’s awesome 😂

[@nicolashoyt5341]

Man that's what I want, a girl that not only is able and willing to do these things but can even start to do better and push me harder!

[@colton7373]

That’s a great story man hahah

[@CamaroAmx]

I think their comment about not dating a car girl was meant to be don’t go with a poser car girl (the one who has the racing/car channel shirt but drives a Camry with no interest in actually owning or modifying a car). If she drives a Camry because she’s saving up for that chevelle or she grew up in a car family, then that’s fine. Never go for the girl driving a car that her ex modified for her years ago and hasn’t been changed since or improved on.

[@KZ-qp1ui]

"Because I love you and like doing stuff with you and its fun." That's all that need to be said.

[@Stapleton42]

Yes 100%

[@tirbomax]

this!!! 20000%

[@evo7836]

End of story.

[@kenmumford5583]

Nice

[@billsanchez2665]

RIGHT!!!!!!!!!

[@nancydwyer4583]

Nancy's guy Frank here, just had to say that you folks have some great advice... I'm a 75 year old guy, who was 25 years old when I did exactly the same thing you suggested (after trying every other way possible, yes, I guess I was a slow learner). I was in Radio/TV back when it was all live, and it was difficult to find a lady who would put up with a guy in broadcasting, the industry was/is very unstable. Using the method you mentioned it all worked out. I can say it worked the same way 50 years ago just like you said it would... So you can say it IS TIMELESS advice that works. Be your self, be truthful and up front. Thanks Great video!

[@blackout6919]

This video definitely gave me motivation when I actually needed it. My fiancee passed away almost a year ago and I've been slacking these last couple of months. My kids definitely deserve more from me then what I've been giving these last couple of months. Thank you and Logan for making these kind of videos. You guy are definitely making a difference.

[@Stapleton42]

Dude that’s terrible. I’m glad you commented though. Knowing we have the capability to benefit someone in a situation like yours makes me speak up when I don’t feel like I should. Glad you’re here man. We’re here for you.

[@lpe655]

I love Logan's personality. She seems like the nicest biotch ever and can throw digs /insults like one of the guys while holding her own. It doesn't hurt she's easy on the eyes. But still commands the respect she deserves.

[@joehealy5479]

I’m just gonna say it.. This might be the most diverse car channel i’ve ever watched. And i love it for that. Keep it up!🇺🇸

[@Stapleton42]

That’s the goal! No one trick pony here

[@ppeters480]

I have to agree with this statement I just started watching great content on a lot of stuff

[@clemzahrobsky2137]

the wife and i went on our first date in high school to a dirt track stock car race. later in life she raced our corvettes and supported our son driving a pavement stock car

[@degener8ed370]

I lucked out. My wife grew up in a mechanic shop. She survived my craziness over 3 deployments, raised our kids and put up with my car shit. They are out there fellas!!!

[@Stapleton42]

Retweet lol. Listen to this guy! Gotta believe it’s out there to find it!

[@degener8ed370]

@@Stapleton42 it's just like your 10mm socket. You can search for hours and never find the damn thing. Then boom one day it's right infront of you.

[@BUD420MAN]

Thank you very much for your service @De Gener8ed

[@MikeSkateTV]

Amen, brother

[@chace5249]

12 minutes and 20 seconds in Mitchell says if you want to high quality person in your life you got to be one it reminds me of another quote of his.. if you want someone to like you for who you are...you better start being yourself. Mitchell quotes 💪

[@drutang]

mitch-isms

[@Stapleton42]

Same principle..different words 🤟🏻 you know the deal

[@chace5249]

@@Stapleton42 and that's why it sticks with me

[@robertlarrett8282]

This story sounds a lot like my story. Been building, repairing and painting vehicles with my honey for about 20 years now. Nice to see there's good honest people in this world now adays that have found each other and seem to be genuinely happy.

[@eldrath]

Sounds like you found a girl that will love you for you. Congrats man that's a hard thing to do. She's a keeper. I thought i did once i was wrong.

[@joeschlotthauer840]

Find a woman that compliments you and supports you in your endeavors in life, vice versa... Communication is key... I've never taken a "selfie" and I don't do Snapchat or Instagram...

[@ricvis44]

To this day, my high school buddy always brings up the fact that I always had the girl and that he was too shy. He’s a millionaire now. I think he resents me and some ways. He had girls that was interested in him, but he was too afraid to talk to them. I hooked him up several times, and he was just too shy to talk to girls. I talked to everybody! Big, tall, small I talk to them all!

[@TimothyJ]

In the woke world we live in these days it is such a breath of fresh air to here people that are bottom liners and will not not put up with the bs. Thanks for sharing and being open and honest.... not many people are doing that these days.

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks dude. That’s exactly why we do it. It takes people of “influence” or whatever you wanna call it…to speak up and make the difference happen

[@caputo4141]

Tbh I needed to hear this. Been single for 5 years now, I’m 26, My love for drag racing took over and I started racing more and more and lost my girlfriend of 4 years because of it. She wasn’t the one cause she didn’t support my dream that I am now living.

[@Stapleton42]

You’re absolutely right man

[@CamaroAmx]

I’ve been too busy with my cars to even get a girlfriend, not that there are many to choose from in my area. Kinda sucks these days though. I don’t drink, so bars are out. The malls closed years ago. There is no other real social place in my area outside bars. Car shows are usually filled with families. So I just keep doing my thing and she comes along, then great. If not, oh well. I’m almost 40 now. I’ve gotten pretty used to the idea of living alone for the rest of my life. Some negatives to that, but a lot of positives to it as well (no drama, a lot less expenses like college funds, weddings, and so forth). If I’m open to having a girlfriend or wife but at this point, if it doesn’t happen, then whatever.

[@chancesteffens5456]

My wife has always "helped" me with my projects. She's getting a lot better nowadays haha. Sometimes I am an asshole when I get frustrated, so she gets bonus points putting up with me 🤣🤣

[@Stapleton42]

It’s frustrating lol the ones who understand that are definitely keepers

[@aribpm]

You should hear me working on a “project” poor kids need ear plugs. I can cry for hours over the tiniest bolt. Never have a 3rd hand or someone strong enough to close while I turn.....

[@RyanlaBlue51]

I used to weigh 400lbs. 3 years ago I decided not to be as hard on myself by failures. Failures is how we learn and grow so just do it! Im now 215. Work out, had a push up Contest with a 25 year old and beat him by 5. Lol. Im turning 48 June 16. Still cant find any females but Im at a rough age for that. More race car dough and SRW gear! Thanks for your videos man even though I'm sure I'm older I still learn from everybody. Keep growing!

[@ryanlove5332]

Had this on and was listening whilst working on the GT40. Cheers you two. Regards, Ryan, Melbourne Australia 🇦🇺

[@Stapleton42]

Thank you Ryan that’s awesome!

[@ScottBranleyRacing]

I was listening to this an wrenching and she said .I had snapchat since the 8th grade lol. I realized im a old person now

[@2Wyteboi]

My guy is right. My girl was a hipster from Northern Virginia in a high end part of town and wasn't in the car scene at all. Now I got her pulling radiators and installing manifolds in the Yukon Denali. Of she loves you and has your best interests, she'll at least try and learn the ropes. She wants to feel what you feel when you are working on something or racing. And thats sharing a vibe. Which may or may not be the whole point of life. Again huge fan bro, but honestly I got to chill. Just got my latest ticket 3 months ago....that was my 8th ticket. ALL my speeding tickets are in Yukons 😅🤣😂😂😅😅🤣😂 they are so fun to make fast.

[@Stapleton42]

That’s a very good observation about feeling what we feel….interesting point

[@shanevermij4780]

I just want Logan to know she does not need to be the least in anything, I saw her on a yellow belly and was rolling with laughter at Logan's comments. She is hilarious and got guts to be in environment she finds herself in and holds her own

[@Vashtorical]

Build that person in your head, did that years ago, I found that person last year and couldn't believe how perfect she is. And believe it or not we've been living together for the last 7 months, and I proposed. She said yes and supports the car habit.

[@Stapleton42]

That’s awesome man

[@jimbroiles6905]

Mitchell and Logan are way ahead of where I was in my 20s. At least I figured out that I needed an education and got a degree in electrical engineering. But, I didn't get my life in gear until I met and married a woman who was the complete opposite of me. I was much like Mitchell. Cars and Guitars and Racing. I'd make a dollar and spend two dollars on stuff. Lots of toys, debt and no plan. There is something to be said for being with someone who has a different perspective and strong opposing views. She pushed me to realize my shortcomings and make changes that have led to achievements far beyond anything I could have done without her.

[@elvissking]

Logan is a woman that wants to learn about the auto industry. You both make a great couple. I always learn different things every time I watch a video.

[@rmachetti9717]

You both are real genuine people! Hard to find that these days and I am glad that you founds each other! Awsome couple! I wish you both a long, happy and blessed life together!

[@shanevermij4780]

I think Logan is adorable as well as a beautiful young lady, I love her sense of humor too, she is quick and finds alot of things funny. I think she also deserves to be treated with the same respect she gives to you.

[@rob16268]

I Sent this to my 14-year-old daughter. I hope she watches it. Lots of good life advice here. Tks!

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks dude that’s awesome

[@jaredfarney675]

I skipped over this video because I thought it was clickbait around the time I subscribed. I am glad that I have gone back and watched it. Something made me search for it. I'd say that I became that broken protect car of a person around my divorce that never sold on craigslist. It's taken 8 years of failed starts and missing parts like any project. I'd say that I'm 4 years into a "frame off" restoration on myself, but the professionals have helped. Just like a car. And you are right, others can't fix broken people. But broken people can fix themselves, but it's never going to be show quality. Just a good damn daily driver is all, just like some projects cars.

[@rickjames4270]

Guys you have no idea how much this is helping me right now. I'm going through a breakup where I'm fighting for somebody to come back that doesn't match any of this criteria. It really puts it into perspective that if she wasn't the right one it's not going to work regardless of how much I try. This episode has probably helped me more than I can ever put into words. Just because it was unexpected and from a source that I trust. Thank you guys for doing this. You may have just saved me from a huge mistake.

[@Stapleton42]

Dude that’s awesome. Exactly why we do it. Man I’m so glad you watched this video. I hope you’re doing the right thing 💪🏻

[@dontask8979]

"....because I Love you, and I want to do things with you" Nothing else matters.👍

[@davedennis6042]

I saw a commercial once of an older couple fishing. You hear the voices of the grandchildren say, "Wow, grandma really loves fishing!" Then another grandchild says, "No. She just loves being with grandpa." Logan said it right. She's a keeper, man.

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks man

[@KnuxCardDad]

My buddy dated a girl for 9 months that grew up hunting. He was over his head because he also grew up hunting and thought he found a unicorn. Until bow season, “my dad did it this way” “my dad always did drive hunts” “my dad did blah blah blah” they started dating in late January. She moved in in July, she was moved out by the third week of bow season. He learned his lesson.

[@Stapleton42]

THIS. It often parallels to car world too if they’re brought up with it like that lol

[@stephenbooth9448]

All of it solidified what I preach to everyone I can going through any time of relationship, self image etc issues. I married my best friend it was the best day of my life. She popped into my life in one of my rock bottom moments. My favorite trait is bot matter what my passion happens to be that week she supports me whole heartedly! Y’all are awesome glad I heard this little “pod cast”

[@garyoneill8868]

Great video guys. Logan is a breath of fresh air regarding young girls/women nowadays. She's a gem. And this from a 66yo old school married man.

[@Stapleton42]

Thank you Gary! We appreciate you

[@kd-qf3iq]

Perfect timing just sat on the throne!

[@Stapleton42]

Ayyy. Let it rip 🤟🏻

[@redubskie]

She tolerates the hell outta you because she cares about you. You can see she isn’t really thrilled about being in front of the camera but she’s a trooper. Much respect 🚌 💨

[@Stapleton42]

You’re spot on. She didn’t wanna film this or really be filmed at all ever lol

[@jordanknowlton4584]

these videos seriously never disappoint, whether it’s wrenching, racing and especially these style videos. it is disappointing to see these videos not get the views they really should be getting, but that never stops either of you from putting in the work and trying to help and inspire everyone watching. keep doing what you’re doing and have a fantastic memorial day weekend. p.s. logan, coming on camera even though you don’t like it just goes to show how dedicated you are to Mitchell and his lifestyle and that’s amazing. hope cyclops is doing well.

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks man you hit the nail on the head. We are glad you’re here

[@jordanknowlton4584]

@@Stapleton42 couldn’t be happier to be here

[@nightfallgrayrs1601]

You are both lucky to have found each other. It's not easy, and I spent a lot of my younger life trying to please girls that really had zero interest in me and my likes.

[@jeremiahjohnson5610]

We have waited for this vid from the start of thw logan era. People we are watching the start of a takeover of a car channel plus Mitchell plus a Logan....the inception of an idea that made it to real life. Logan and Mitchell i will be here till the end.

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks man. What do you want mean takeover of a car channel?

[@jeremiahjohnson5610]

I mean take over of the car channel community with a different style of production and the journey through it. English is hard sometimes and when i wrote it it looked awesome until you asked🤣

[@bjetpilot]

Right Logan. People that do good for goodness sake are considered great. People who do things for the sake of greatness are forgotten.

[@krisjones2265]

"you gotta know what you want before you can find it". Trying to figure that out right now with my job.

[@byranbunn2773]

Thanks to both of you. It helped me to realize what I've been doing wrong. You guys are great. Stay strong.

[@drutang]

i committed myself to raising my daughter by myself.. my kid comes first. the women who came into my life didnt like that so much. they wanted to be first. so i stayed single for 20 yrs and still am. best decision ive ever made. maybe ill find one now. maybe not. great advice, yall! 💯👍🏼👍🏼

[@Stapleton42]

Someone will eventually appreciate you sticking to your guns. That’s the right thing to do and your mindset is admirable 🤟🏻

[@Matty_710]

Man y'all are goals this really helped me not just with the whole finding a girl thing but what you said about when you went to college and being who you want to attract and what she said about being on your own thank you.

[@MisterAjxr6]

Life would be a lot better if there were a lot more people in the world like the 2 of you and the silly part of it all is the 2 of you are so honest and that's the easiest thing to do.. Well in my opinion anyway 💯

[@josephsummers7923]

Mitch you have a hell of woman, and have a hell of a back story. I haven’t seen anyone sacrifice what you have to live the life you do, keep pushing, chin up high and keep pushing yourself and your content to do cooler more awesome things

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks man. It’s all worth it

[@lonmcclellan2414]

Stay true to each other . always... A love like her's is a very rare gift... Lon from Ohio...

[@AaronsSpeedShop]

You guys are just awesome. I’m 38 now and just finally going after what I truly want in life. I hope to someday find my version of Logan. You guys are awesome and totally inspirational even to an older dude. Rock on. 🤙🏽

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks man we appreciate you 💪🏻

[@JayPdaFifth]

Def a fan of story time, I drive tractor trailers for a living and always have stuff going on, so it’s nice to be able to listen and not have to watch. 🤘🏼

[@Stapleton42]

That’s awesome I’m glad this format works for you 🤟🏻

[@1010chris]

Thank you both for being candid and sharing yalls experiences. I came to this channel for the uncle rob build. I stayed and binged this channel because of the authenticity of the projects. I drive a lot so I miss most of the video but it's still entertaining. I hope I get to start a turbo build. Thanks for the knowledge.

[@joshuashanahan4359]

Hell yeah. I’ve been waiting for another episode of this. I really like these videos of you sitting down and just talking real life man. Thanks for the content man.

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks dude I’m glad you appreciate these. They appeal to a narrow band of people and every single one of you is important to me…because I know you know the deal 💪🏻

[@SkywardOne]

"Because I love you and want to do things with you.' Beautiful.

[@So0nerMag1c]

This channel is absolutely great for its intended audience of real G’s. You’re a giant source of inspiration and motivation. 🤜🤛 grateful for channels like yours (which there aren’t enough of)

[@Stapleton42]

REAL GS UNITE 💪🏻

[@mwicker777]

This is old school but it is a good one - The Bronx Tale Door Test. First thing I thought of when you were talking about Instagram selfies, etc.. I met my wife when I was 18 and married her at 21, she is the best and we are still married and going strong. I am 45 now. She passed the door test and we continue to work as a team.

[@nonameneededsailing]

The whole reason I subscribe to you A year or two back is because you always said things on camera that no one else would. all the information that we were always left wondering you always filled in. I just sent this to one of my buddies for a Guide. I try to live by this video but have a hard time expressing it/explaining it to others. So I am glad to have this tool to use from now on. Might listen to it once a month just to keep that motivation.

[@Stapleton42]

man thats awesome. exactly why we do this stuff. the cars and things are just bait to draw people into the real information like this. the things that change lives and can help people be better.

[@kawheeler711]

Great video. Great perspective of how to live your life. It took me 27 years married to realize I was with the wrong person. Sounds like you both are on a strong path. Wish you both the best.

[@waynold78]

I think you guys are absolutely hilarious, and I love that you guys are just so random. I know personally I’ve found that my other half does her own thing barely bugs me for anything and I never bug her for anything, and we just collaborate at the end of the day, and never go to bed angry.

[@Stapleton42]

That’s awesome man. Glad you’re here 💪🏻

[@oldschoolbudgetracing1458]

Something stupid, something stupid, something stupid.... lol. I couldn't help myself. You are not wrong with a lot of what you were saying. The whole "build your ideal woman in your mind". I have done this my entire life. I would always get the idea in my head of what I was looking for and it would happen. Then if that relationship didn't work out in would take what I learned from there and edit what I was looking for. Eventually you get to who you are supposed to be with.

[@HuntGamingProductions]

"where did you come from" me- where did you go where did you come from cotton eyed joe

[@Stapleton42]

😂😂😂

[@deadheadrevival]

Great minds think alike!!!!!!!

[@DuheSpeedShop]

Bro I’ve been with the same women since 2011 and married to her since 2017‼️ but I sat here listening to this entire video😂 I love y’all’s vibes💪🏻

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks man 💪🏻

[@dalemenke9046]

Been married for 23 years. We couldn’t be more different. She know how to check tire pressure. Anything more she says it’s my dept.

[@hyperbluewrx]

hey I've been watching a few videos on the channel since the review you did with thatdudeinblue and your dope Escalade, and this video got recommended. It's nice to see people that are close to my age sharing their advice and experience about this stuff. I have struggled with my self confidence since I was a teenager. I am a pretty skinny dude and my high school experience was very hard on me, didn't talk to anyone and had no real friends outside of classes. Never been on a date in my 22 years of life, but I just keep doing my thing and try to work on being a better version of myself everyday. Thanks for sharing!

[@loganerwin42]

We’re glad to have you here! Being the most authentic version of yourself will attract the right one

[@Brainstangs]

Liked everything u guys said. You got me re-committed to making the gym a daily part of my life. I like your take on stuff. I too wasn’t in the cool crowd in school, but it drove me to do badass things, to build awesome stuff and be me. I love your outlook. Best to both you guys. I wanna race you soon. Get that glade hauling ass again and let’s have some fun one day. I’ve already got a race with ladybug killer in the fall hopefully. Rock on.

[@jesusserrano5034]

Home is where the opportunity is at !!!! What a powerful way to look at things 🙌

[@Stapleton42]

Always 💪🏻

[@RearEngineShop]

I found mine on eharmony 11 years ago. She didn’t care about cars. She supports me and helps at times. Likes to go with me to car shows. I like to go with her to greenhouses and help her with her gardens. If you love each other you support each other. Logan said it best man “Because I love you and I like doing stuff with you, it’s fun”

[@Stapleton42]

Exactly. That’s awesome

[@itsfrickinmint4636]

Please keep the project car/ playlist going! Both motivating and insightful; I greatly appreciate how in depth you both will go “doing your homework” so to speak no matter how diverse the topics can be. Super glad I stumbled onto this channel months ago 🤙

[@Stapleton42]

That's the plan! I am glad you're here man

[@itsfrickinmint4636]

@@Stapleton42 much appreciated! Hope to run into you at one of these many events in the future! Always down for brain picking and benchracing 👌🏻

[@jamesrudd6029]

I think we all agree you found a good one right there

[@bcg462]

I think it's great you two found each other I'm 59 years old and haven't been able to find someone to put up with my lifestyle; I drive a truck for a living so I'm not around much and it's difficult to find someone who is willing to put with that or be with me on the road so congratulations on find each other I love all your videos because you're real people

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks man. We’re glad you’re here

[@Westie_NZ]

Love Logan's comment about the "Instagram" girls. I follow some car channels, and a few hosted by women, and it's hard to find channels that are not hosted by "Instagram" girls. This one is one of the very best. Very cool to watch (and now I'm hooked in to Newells as well, thanks for that!).

[@Stapleton42]

very true man. the lack of substance with most females in the automotive industry is just annoying lol

[@irondiver292]

Love the “audio based” idea for car/project guys. Great idea

[@mattrzewnicki6343]

Mitch and Logan, you two are amazing! Thank you for the insights. We all see the life you two live by the videos you post or the pictures you post. We all know, whether we want to admit it or not, you have lives off of social media. I'm sure the balance for the relationship is what you do for her when the cameras aren't on, since the channel isn't about that. Relationships take 2 people, with same or different interests, that are willing to put in the work of doing what their partner loves. For you, it's cars, for her, well, we don't really know and it isn't our business if you don't want to share. Share the experiences with each other. Laugh with each other. Do the things you both love, be it together or not.

[@rycryco2592]

People always say good ones are hard to find, you’re 100% correct that you must be good to get into that arena.

[@968porsche9]

I have noticed that she is very observant. She will point out smaller details that are interesting and have meaning. I have seen her getting down on the deck and looking for something underneath the vehicle. She fills in stuff while you are doing most of the interviews. And working on the mustang/welding is impressive.

[@lb4771]

again man you and logan nailed it and spoke the truth and it was the same way in the dirt track world ... keep it up yall ... love this

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks dude we’re glad you’re here

[@MM_in_Havasu]

My wife of 27 years has always been supportive of me and my mechanical hobbies(she even rode on the back of my turbocharged motorcycle on numerous occasions), and she knows it keeps me out of the bars and out of major trouble. She does revel in the fact that I've tweaked her '14 Chrysler 300C with 5.7 hemi to where it is a sleeper car now and faster than my '12 hemi/manual trans Challenger R/T. She may stay out of my garage and I may stay out of her kitchen, but she is always willing to help me with my mechanical stuff if I ask, and I'm also an accomplished cook as is she, and I do help her in the kitchen each night by cleaning it up after she makes us our meals. I could go on and on but would take up most of the page here.......we are there for each other, she is my queen and I'm her king, and neither of us has sole control in our relationship. We are in it together as one. Key statement in point my wife made when I brought the '12 Challenger home from the dealer in late 2012: " Damn, now that car is f'n' SEXY!" This only reinforces what I said about her being supportive! Love the statement at 12:20 in the video when you said you have to be a high quality individual if you want a high quality individual in your life.......well-spoken statement! I also hear you on the tall & lanky thing in high school, was 6'5" and 160 lbs and, if I stuck my tongue out, I'd have looked like a f'n' zipper. Keep up the great video content, love it!

[@Stapleton42]

This is all around a great comment. I’m glad you took the time to type it and I hope others read it too. Thumbs up this mans comment if you’re reading mine right now!

[@MM_in_Havasu]

@@Stapleton42 thanks, man! Appreciate your frankness in this video too!

[@mr.phasfun6044]

I guess I did not need to watch any further as the answer to everyone's Q? Was answered so uniquely at the 3 min 30 mark.......good answer and so nicely said Logan........blessup

[@pr23t97]

You both make great points! Mine has been helping me (or putting up with my craziness) for over 30 years. She will help me out on projects, car related or not. There are times where I have participated along side her in the activities she likes from time to time as well. It takes a balance, not always an even 50:50 split. Both have to be willing to help/support/ guide and listen to the other. They are out there.

[@Stapleton42]

Great comment man 💪🏻

[@michaelmarker4512]

I absolutely love both of you. You got a good one with Logan, she's a real woman! Favorite KZbin couple out there by far.

[@daveincity]

These videos you're doing are very good. This coming from a car guy that peaked about 10 years ago. We all have room for improvement in our lives and I think these videos that you're doing are great to point out to people that there's always room for improvement in your lives and may maybe you haven't peaked in your life you haven't reached your greatest so thank you for that

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks man. I’m glad you made this comment. Hopefully it’ll help people too

[@milesj6064]

I enjoyed this video, it was nice to learn how you and logan got together. From the few videos where Logan has been involved in, she seems very nice. I totally agree with you, you have to be a real person, don't try and be someone who you are not, as eventually you will be found out. So it is good to have a partner who has a few differences to yourself, so you have something to discuss. So basically if you don't have respect for yourself than you won't find someone who will have respect for you. I love how you both are real people, and you have grown as a couple. I have enjoyed your videos, and I also like your merchandise as I enjoy wearing my shirt that I bought from you. It is a nice comfortable shirt. Take care and Happy New Year

[@Stapleton42]

thank you miles!

[@michaelh6667]

You guys are so on point!! You 2 make the perfect pair and are actually a great example for people.

[@89androyd]

Keep up the good work. Good content! You remind me of a good quote: “I’m not saying I’m gonna change the world, but I guarantee that I will spark the brain that will change the world.”

[@hendo337]

I'm in a similar boat, I work with Uncle Tony's Garage, I'm friends and work with Dallas Brown the owner of the AHRA, I've met and interviewed Finnegan and Freiburger, friends with guys from Sloppy Mechanics, met Tony Angelo, Mike Musto and interviewed him. I am a disabled veteran, I live in a trailer in TN, I spend most of my time working on cars and trucks. I have a 2004 GTO in storage in Arlington, TX that is all disassembled and ready to put an engine in. Got a couple trucks I want to do interesting builds with. I have been looking for a good woman and it's really, really tough. I'm sure it'll come when it's time.

[@wesleybateman5837]

I appreciate you two taking your time out (uncomfortably ) to share wish us . I appreciate the fact that you both get in and do work

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks man. We appreciate you watching

[@daverich267]

I stumbled upon this one when looking for Uncle Rob vids and wow... here I am at almost 62 getting life advice from you guys. I could have made better life and partner choices had I looked at things this way. Thank you guys. BTW, I agree that car stuff (problem solving) translates to the rest if the world. I know this is an old video and maybe you won't see this comment but, well done!

[@Stapleton42]

Thank you Dave!

[@hockeyrj117]

“Lanky pale hockey player kid who didn’t talk to anyone” realizing more and more why I love this channel so much

[@Stapleton42]

Ayyy lol

[@KarKamp]

My wife and I got together in a crappie way in the crappier time in each others lives and the moment I realized we would stay together was when she could care less about my driving. No matter how fast or dangerous she never said a word an I knew right then, I could trust her the same way she trusted me..

[@alantalley1268]

I absolutely love everything that yall talked about in this video. This is great advice and Im glad you are saying these things. I was lost in my life and thankfully was able to figure most of this out on my own before I got to old and stuck on the wrong path. Ive always had a feeling that you were a super real legit couple but watching this just affirms how I feel about yall. Out of pretty much any youtuber I watch I could say I would want to be friends with folks like yall more than any other. I relate to everything you said in this video as I feel like Ive lived it. I dont know how old you all are but you are definitely wise for your age. The one thing I feel as if should be a capstone to this conversation is once that woman is found make sure you constantly appreciate uplift and love that woman unconditionally. I know I am a bit older than yall at 30 years old but I am blessed to finally have found my partner and will be married later this year. Love and cherish your woman. So long as she is the right woman, a GOOD woman, she will compliment you and make you stronger in all that you do. It is just as yall said to those who have not yet found their Bonnie, dont look for a woman because she is in to cars, hell dont even look for a woman. Focus on yourself and what makes you a happy and more fulfilled person and soul. When the right partner presents thyself they will want to immerse into your world just because it is where you are. In the end HOME is not a place but where ever my partner is. Once you fulfill your life and find happiness a partner will desire to join your life so they can also share you "success". Keep on keepin it real brotha and sista the world needs more people like yall and us! Yall are officially my favorite channel. And oh yeah, PUT A RING ON IT BUDDY!! I know that level of commitment can be scary especially with coming from a dysfunctional family(I know from experience) but trust me when I say if you know you know. Waste no time becoming one, time is our moat precious commodity. You found yours buddy now boot up get to work and live life with love!! Much love brother, the best of luck to yall!!!

[@Hybridhatch]

it was cool to watch this video, my wife and I have been together for 25 years, our first date was to the street races, where I broke my car and she bought me a tow rope to get it back to her house, she came from a non automotive family that took there cars in for repair, and I came from a family of race car builders and drivers, she has always jumped in head first to help with the building of my street and race cars, and now that I am disabled and can no longer turn a wrench, she does all the building of engines, your story is looking to start off kinda like mine did, and I hope 25 years from now to see you posting something close to this here, but not the disabled part, speaking of which, treat your body good, its the only one you got!

[@Stapleton42]

That’s a great story man I’m glad you shared it. I hope others read it too. We go to the gym and walk 2.5 miles almost every day. Logan makes great healthy food. Lots of chicken lol. It’s definitely something that’s important to us.

[@anthonyharley2543]

Love these project car videos, honestly bring a lot of reflecting and thinking to the table. Just makes me think I need to chill out and let what happens happen. Been through a lot of shit the past year and a half, ups and downs making it so stressful. But hearing these have helped me just smooth the roller coaster out a little with the reflecting on myself. Keep all the videos comeing, enjoying the in depth of the builds.

[@Stapleton42]

Dude that’s awesome. Winners put points on the board every day. Not always slam dunks. Boring lay ups win games

[@larrysutton6530]

Even if this doesn't help me and I'm sure it will help me in some way I have to appreciate the fact that you have the balls to make a difference in people's lives. THANK YOU BOTH 😊

[@Stapleton42]

You’re welcome man. Glad you’re here 💪🏻

[@donaldbrown6044]

Logan you don't suck, the fact that you think you do and still did it tells me all I need to know. You guys are great keep doing you.

[@aribpm]

Got a wife that does not share my passion for Guns but she has gotten a better understanding of my life hobby as we have gotten older. Sometimes opposites attract and she is my stabilizing force.

[@boredcnj]

Yo keeps rock 🤘🏻. Keep up the great content on both your channels. I’m trying to catch up on your older stuff now. I will be getting some more merch soon too. Take care and keep it up. Stay safe 🇺🇸🤙🏻🏎

[@Stapleton42]

Thanks chuck we appreciate you!

[@Hollarmoto]

I made that comment about my fiancé in your last video about how she use to watch me race but doesn't anymore cause it scares her.. anyways my fiancé was not from the motorcycle world and now 5 years later she has her own bike rides and loves it and now she wants us to go through her bike do a lot of work to it together and will video it I got a good one ..... so the ladies we have are rare but they are good ones... good video both of you ..

[@Hollarmoto]

oh yea and bike girls are the same way we call them tank skanks not good stay away from them lol

[@Stapleton42]

That’s awesome 🤟🏻

[@dylan237_1]

I didn’t even need to hear this to find a girl, I needed this to more so to motivate myself, and I think this video also helped me figure out why things haven’t been going my way. Thank you for this.

[@nigelbunn4653]

It is soo true about finding your mate not from the same playing field you are into, when they become interested in what you do, and you become interested in their’s That is when you know you have something real

[@Stapleton42]

Well said man

[@amd6570]

Don’t go looking for a significant other at all. Just let it happen.

[@Stapleton42]

Yep. That’s what happened here