You don't have to be concerned about me + an Angel Message.

[@oucatfive6806]

Click. I'm 71, and a very high intuitive/empath. I spent my first 65 years "helping and healing" everyone. I believed it was my "purpose." Then I learned to set boundaries and let go of my "helper" ego. I don't have as many people in my life. Many left, including my family, but I've decided that I am much happier hanging out with high-vibe people. We all have to be our true self, and let the cards fall where they may. I get that vibe from you, and that's what keeps me coming back. You do you! I like you! Let's hang out.

[@askthespiritguides]

You’re amazing. Yes, let’s definitely hang out. We are kindred spirits for sure. Thanks so much for being here. 🤗❤️

[@lizcervone1307]

Im 72 and always have been the caregiver, ❤ a nurse in nursing homes. Just still learning to set boundaries, love you 🦋🦋🦋🥰

[@justbreathe2585]

Happy Monday 🎉 Drink coffee and swallow harder!! 😂😂 any morning without coffee is dangerous. Love and Light to the SGs, to you Karen and everyone else.

[@ElenaB_007]

I understand the condescending part. I had a situation pop up this morning with some family members thats very similar to "im worried about you" and what it really translates into is "you're making me uncomfortable". ❤

[@simplypositiveme]

Absolutely 💯

[@milliemitchell58]

I think the being concerned comment is also on the list of things narcississists say and people use to gaslight

[@Marcialhd333]

I agree!

[@simplypositiveme]

Correct.

[@myvortex5D]

Yes and when that applies, it comes across as passive-agressively, condescending, disrespectful --heavily implying you're weak, incompetent and pitiful. Feels like ICK.

[@amandacarrion8383]

Passive-aggressive😀. Sometimes, but not all the time. 🤷‍♀️

[@bonniegareau4073]

Sounds exactly what a covert narcissist would say - in anticipation of receiving "any" reaction back to use as a source of supply. By the way - I find that your channel is honest, interesting and incredibly refreshing, and I highly appreciate that!

[@anitaking26]

My daughter was an Aires, I miss her so much. She was so smart. She was also an empath. When she was about 5 I heard her talking to someone and I went in to ask her who she was talking to, and she told me she was talking to her friend before she came to be with me. She remembered that time. I really wasn’t surprised at all.

[@yellowstonekat]

I’m sorry your daughter has crossed over, Anita. The love you share still connects you, but probably already know this. Hugs

[@askthespiritguides]

Oh my .. I am so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing your story. I am sure it will be as helpful to others in the community as it was to me.

[@evergreenepistles]

That is such a beautiful story about your daughter. As an Aries empath woman who talked to spirit as a preschooler, this is very touching. My sincerest sympathies and support to you. 🙏❤

[@donnabolling3914]

It feels more authentic when you are sipping and gulping with me! Don’t worry about those trying to prevent you from doing your authentic podcast, your way, bed head and all. I love you being you and how you can laugh at yourself. They can do their own podcast and come full circle and have people criticize how they are being annoying. It’s silly and critical in my opinion. Why mention that…

[@dianemertesdorf2749]

I appreciate your videos on those that voted for 45. I agreed with a lot and was interested to learn some things. I know people who I believe are brainwashed from watching the wrong media as I can't believe they would approve of him otherwise. I pray they will be able to release this when they learn the truth. The freedom in Syria tells me things are changing and it is a matter of time until 45 is done.

[@amandacarrion8383]

I think things are changing, and yes, change is hard, but if it's for the greater good, I'll hold on tighter. 🥰🫂

[@jennabean67]

I know some people who voted for him. I used to think it was crazy but I have realized that people have different experiences. I was born and raised in a liberal bubble (Seattle). in 2016 I was devastated, but as I've learned over the past 8 years - you don't know what you don't know until you know it. A lot of people believe that he is good man. I disagree but I suspect the curtain will be lifted eventually. All is going to work out.

[@tammychernow4129]

To me, they’re not concerned, they’re judging. If they dont like what they hear they should find another channel. I love your channel. You’re real. Thank you for what you do ❤

[@ShirleyWilliams-w1q]

You are so right! Offering unsolicited concern can have negative connotations. I would not even approach a close friend stating my take on someones behaviors with: I'm concerned about you.

[@heathertotten2291]

Oh Karen, I thought I was the only one bothered by comments like that. I too always felt that they were condescending and very annoying. Thank you for making me not feel so alone in feeling like that. ❤

[@PeggyHayes-j4r]

Condescending and judgmental for sure. “Go with the Flow” is one of my life’s mantra’s. I follow your flow, your train of thought(s), and delight in how much I connect and understand them. I feel you are a kindred spirit and that helps me. I wish I could have coffee with you in person! I am a retired acting/improv teacher. The study of human behavior is key. I have 3 cats, have lost many. My mom passed 8 yrs ago, my dad died this year. The card reading was so on point. It is completely on target.

[@lavenderquartz6168]

Wow--I'm still tingling from that card reading! About 30 years ago I received an email from an old high school friend whom I had not seen since 1976. She said she had read online that I was into angels and crystals. She was very concerned for my soul and was praying that I would find my way back to Jesus. I replied that I was very happy on my path and hoped she was enjoying a happy life, too. Never heard from her again, but I did read that she had become a born-again Christian.

[@bettinarossi7908]

Things that trigger us emotionally reflect our shadow side...Jung says,that is where your power actually lies. Our shadow side is not a weakness..it is where all our answers live,waiting to be revealed.😽

[@gladysdecelles9951]

So agree.

[@simplypositiveme]

Unless gaslighted

[@kittyconnell8842]

I understand your frustration. It sounds like they think you can't take care of yourself. And you're right, it's probably because they're afraid that they can't take care of themselves. Thanks for all you do!

[@candicek.4659]

My first Coffee with Karen!! You’re so natural and authentic. Really enjoy your channel and what you share with us!❤❤

[@simplypositiveme]

WELCOME 😊😊

[@candicek.4659]

@ Thank you!❤️

[@rebeccaashton5390]

Good morning Karen. I come here to get my dose of sanity. I love your content and your personality. You have helped me in so many ways to think differently about this time we are going through. Love your cheeky monkey mug . Please carry on 👍😄💙

[@PeggyHanford]

Human behavior is so interesting, especially on the anonymous internet. I suspect the whole reason many of us are here is to help us deal with 45! He is a reality that we need to learn how to navigate and try to stay in the light. Thank you for helping us "rescue" ourselves.

[@daniellaplume3840]

Good morning. Yes, that sounds so condescending. I hate when someone asked me, are you alright, or are you sick? I also hate when another man calls me Buddy. My name's not Buddy, and I'm not your Buddy. Have a good one

[@askthespiritguides]

So interesting. My husband had a very public job and people call him buddy from time to time. He feels the same way.

[@Marcialhd333]

Haha:)!

[@theyrnarcissus4975]

I'm Aries also and don't like that. To me it insinuates that I have a problem, when I may see you as having a problem? Once I made a FB post about givers and takers. The exact people I was speaking of, were the first people to like/love my comment in agreement. They were the takers and obviously were clueless that I was talking about them.

[@Ce-bright]

😂

[@CarolynStevens-b4d]

Being an Aries myself I understand what you are saying. I don't need people to be concerned for me. You are doing a great job with not only your approach to your channel but how you send caring vibes to us listeners.

[@JuanitasGrandaughter]

I honor you, your path and your autonomy Karen. Appreciate that you include us on the ride!🥰

[@bettinarossi7908]

Aries butt their horns easily with others. Nature of the Ram. Aries women are head strong and tough. Good qualities in my book.🐐❤

[@anitaking26]

Yes they are, my daughter was an Aires.

[@SincerelyKikiLeigh]

Im an Aries and can fully relate to that statement LOL

[@myvortex5D]

Great qualities if Compassion is involved. Not so great without it imo.

[@christinascibetta1043]

Aries Moon here...cappy sun. I think the comment is a boundary issue and odd to say to a you tube author

[@bonniegareau4073]

As an Aries, I must say; Keep on being you Karen and don't let anyone dim your light. Keep on shinning bright! This is a great channel!

[@jo-anrhoden8336]

Good morning Karen , i woke up this morning , and felt that this week is going to be an intreasting week , like the truth is going to come out this week , i hope you and your family have a fantastic week , also i hope Lucy will continue in good health . love and light from London England . P.S Thank you for your enlightenment

[@rwatson5791]

I hope the truth comes out this week and that Lucy continues to be in good health too.

[@zipporahreshel]

I like the divining rods. Anything productive is not a waist of time

[@TeineUaine]

I have a similar reaction to that passive-aggressive comment whenever I hear it. I hear "I'm uncomfortable with how you're being, and I disapprove. You need to get back to being in a way that I'm comfortable with." Which is pretty much the definition of toxic positivity. The implied disapproval is the part than rankles me most. That being said, I'm an Aries too and eldest daughter and was conditioned to be the take-charge caretaker and fix-it person, always "making sure" of everything and thinking that I know what's best for others. Turns out it was all my own insecurity and discomfort (and disapproval). As a senior I'm still working on breaking this life-long habit! Great message and reminder today, Karen, about not being a co-dependent rescuer (hostage-taker) and instead respecting the path of others! 😻🐾

[@oucatfive6806]

I'm right there with you. Oldest of 9, and responsible for everyone's wellbeing. What a job! At 65, I learned to set boundaries and watched everyone leave because they depended on my fixing everything. Now I say, "Not my circus; Not my monkeys" and let them figure it out on their own. I'm a much happier individual. Blessings to you.

[@RobertaDunn-f5l]

Be in love, light, peace, abundance and gratitude for every day. Hold the balance. Shine on. The greatest of these is love.

[@Bealtaine947]

I am an aquarian (humanitarian) all my life. 4/6 Manifesting generator in Human design. I believe in re- incarnation and signed onto this lifetime, to learn certain things in this lifetime .Supporting others is my job in this lifetime, and how I do it is for me to work through in my own way

[@jerene2]

Me too, Aquarian, we are concerned about the world. It’s beautiful and a f-ing mess. Giving thanks and praying constantly.

[@LightsOn128]

When someone, especially someone you don’t really know, says “I’m concerned about you” or “I’m praying for you” I take it as judgment and them being condescending and not sincere. So I never make these statements to others unless I am truly concerned and they are close enough to me to know my sincerity. Just my thoughts 💕

[@jillrolen9303]

lol, it’s some old stuff bringing up some feelings for you. When I was playing competitive softball, I would hurt myself on occasion and if it was on the field, teammates would see the collision, or injury and ask, “Are you ok?” as I am trying to recover and not cry in pain. It would make me mad cuz it took my energy away from calming myself down. I always thought it was strange because I needed the space to recover or just ice to put on it, not a meaningless question. Now, that I am older, if my wife hears me stub my toe or fall down, she says, “Do you need ice?” And then we all laugh! I am a Taurus and bullish as well! You make me laugh, enjoy yourself! ❤

[@darlatiesling6224]

I love the book The Four Agreements. We each create our own reality.

[@jerene2]

Yes, so simple and so hard.

[@shellycolston4548]

Me too! I once forgot all four, I just could not remember one agreement and I refused to get the book and look. I sat down for ten minutes until I remembered the fourth one and I took it as sign that's the one I really needed to pay attention too!!🦋✨😁

[@darlatiesling6224]

One of the Four Agreements I worked on everyday! I have honestly learned so much working on that agreement! It hasn’t been easy! 😊

[@lindysanz4925]

Wonderful book! I think it is time I read it again. It makes life simple. Thank you for the reminder! : )

[@candicek.4659]

My first Coffee with Karen!! You’re so natural and authentic. You are so right we are on our own paths, we are sovereign beings! Really enjoy your channel and what you share with us!❤❤

[@lindag3650]

In my humble opinion, it’s VERY hard to be subtle with emotions when texting. I think you’re just where you need to be right now.😊

[@kathyudy2943]

It never fails to piss me off when anyone says that to me. It hasn’t happened for awhile. Even when my husband says, be careful, my hackles go up, as if I would do anything else!

[@kathyudy2943]

And I’m a Taurus

[@brandiroberts1129]

I’m sorry you lost your mom❤I lost mine in 2018 and was the most gut wrenching experience I’ve ever experienced.

[@Pippie807]

Good morning Karen and sweet Lucy 💗💗💗

[@ellenwilliams911]

I’m very sensitive to that too. I’m a Pisces.

[@Sprinkles-LittleRain]

Having watched you and share coffee with you, it has been apparent you’re on a journey of learning about human behavior. From my own spiritual growth process, there is importance to understand human behavior because along the way you become aware of your own behaviors. Your awareness of where you hold ground, place light and love, give compassion becomes greater. Your patience grows while holding love and kindness. What I am watching is you growing as I recognize myself growing along with you. I can make this human connection on a spiritual level of growth in the comfort of my own quiet space. As you have been cheeky this morning, you are still trying to work through your issues with a positive outcome for yourself and the community you are building, while working through the understandings of human behavior. Yes we are only human and have our own moments, but I recognize how you overcome, in a better light, and continue in your journey while taking the rest of us along with you. Holding light and love❤❤❤❤

[@patricialighter8793]

You are you just being you and that's great.

[@lindysanz4925]

Another wonderful coffee with Karen. Thank you for being so real. Have a cheeky day 😉

[@kristenmartinelli-l9d]

Mornin sunshine!☀️

[@dorothywalters7448]

Karen, Love your messages, and the way you help me to remain calm as life changes are happening. Your laughter is infectious when you catch yourself being silly, and I'm using your example to lighten my serious nature. I read chat too, and the people are so wise. Thanks for all you, your sister, and your nephew do for us.

[@Sungod31]

Karen, the 53 is for you and for all of us who have experienced the gut wrenching grief you described. There is an angel who hears our grief and comforts us in our time of excruciating emotional pain. Also, I loved how you teased out the reason the comment on your chat felt wrong and unnecessary and wounding. I loved how you got to the authentic emotion….it was a natural uncovering. I like to hear the problem solving. I do the same thing.

[@gladysdecelles9951]

Great video. It reminded me of how my triggers work and how to handle them. Also crying is a good release of emotions. Thank you.

[@carolyoung9198]

My vote is…it was a misguided person. We are human having human feelings. She doesn’t know you. I love your channel❤

[@kristentodd-o2p]

Happy Monday!! So happy to hear Lucy in the background ❤

[@tigger06]

Condescending is the word !! To presume that you know me that well, if at all, is what I find unnerving. I don't like it from anyone. Do not attempt to psychoanalyze me as though you have all the answers, whether intentions are good or not. As they say, You do you...

[@WandaMyles-Authentiq]

You had me at “cheeky” my new favorite word that keeps popping up since a week ago! Wild! Carry on ..with coffee!

[@teresahopemiller1008]

HI Lucy kitty ! Bless her, Aww what a good little angel.

[@Flower-z9i]

When someone expresses concern about me, my response depends on how close I am to them. I don’t mind at all when it comes from a close friend. I don’t like it when it comes from someone I’m not close to as it’s too intimate a question. It’s awkward and intrusive.

[@Bealtaine947]

Good morning Karen and everyone visiting. I am an INFJ-A IN MB. For myself ,when someone tells me they are concerned for me ,it tells me that may be feeling uncomfortable with themselves but unaware ,so yes, deflecting their feeling onto me.

[@amygump1917]

One of the things I enjoy about this channel is that humans are complex and the struggle to stay "in the light" all the time is unrealistic and demoralizing. I love that your ups and downs reflect my own experiences. I love your transparency with the process.

[@tigger06]

Sweet sweet Lucy ❤

[@tigger06]

Good morning !!

[@nancystrauss8678]

Yes, condescending and controlling. We all have our issues. It must be difficult to not take comments personally. I love your approach to handling this kind of thing. Thanks for sharing!

[@jenniferkesler1832]

We all need to learn to understand each other and our motivations if we are to heal this world!

[@eottoe2001]

The Apache never went after the people who were touched. Yay, Monday!

[@janetblanc7658]

I may have said this occasionally to my children when I feel they are not taking care of their health, but otherwise I don't recollect ever using the expression to others. I have asked friends if i can help if they tell me they have a problem.

[@anitakahl3354]

Thanks for the giggle " put'm up"

[@SincerelyKikiLeigh]

I am finding this channel to be very helpful in my journey during these times. Sometimes not being on the same page as you on a given day has been even more helpful in raising my vibrations. It has left me to explore why it might bug me or maybe consider a different view point that I didn't or didn't want to consider. Thanks for being real ❤

[@kristentodd-o2p]

I think it’s annoying when people say I am concerned about you. It’s usually a reflection of themselves.

[@ShirleyWilliams-w1q]

Synchronicity is amazing. Just what I needed from the Angel Card message, thank you, Angels and Karen.

[@suedasage]

And I totally agree with you that we shouldn’t be imposing our will upon others unless they’re asking for our help even then it’s not that we’re imposing our will. It’s just we’re offering any wisdom or resources we have to share that may be of use to them.

[@DotChipsMcGee]

Morning! Happy Monday! What a cute mug!!!! 😊 Cute sweater!

[@marshagreen9759]

Rescue us from the "evil one", everything will work out for our own good. Thanks, for this message.

[@lindamckee7808]

Slammed with arthritis, but made it out of bed. Working part time, too, at 70 years old!

[@kimkeating5985]

I look forward to your daily Coffee with Karen talks. Glad you’re feeling cheeky! Love and light to you! Oh, and you be you! Drink that coffee! Drink that water!

[@teresahopemiller1008]

how we express our energy can ripple out into the community.I learned that of Touchec by a Angel. I did like the show .

[@brahmijpy8632]

I really enjoy your honesty, transparency and self disclosure!! Thank you. Am loving coffee with you in the morns.

[@karenlouise444]

"I'm concerned about you" = "Your are saying stuff I don't like and I need you to change"

[@teresahopemiller1008]

Huh!

[@carolwilder2497]

Yes yes, true! “What is it digging up in you”??! The reflection triggers. Pointing the finger and having 3 fingers pointing back at you. Just don’t feel like a victim when that happens. That’s a trap too.

[@kerryburnette5692]

Good morning! I'm a 65 yr. Grandma. I try not to give advice/help unless it's asked for...unless you're a toddler. 😂 BTW, it's never asked for. I realized when I am concerned it's kind of selfish. Wanting others to be okay for my own peace of mind. Compassion is organic and spirit led. I ask for help from SG's. Much love and light for all. ❤❤❤

[@Sungod31]

Good morning Karen

[@brandiroberts1129]

When I left my Christian church many years ago, I had many people from my church text or comment on my social media saying they were concerned about me. It’s very condescending because they’re concerned based on their worldview and emotions not based on your feelings or words. I was struggling trying to be a Christian when it wasn’t aligning with my values anymore but once I left I felt happy and free. They weren’t concerned about my wellbeing but my leaving their faith. It probably made them question their faith and they’re actually concerned for themselves. I’d respond to those people saying “ I’m really happy but thanks for your concern.” They usually didn’t truly believe I was happy or just concerned I’d go to hell.

[@sarahguidry9802]

I also left behind organized religion many years ago (I am 69). It’s interesting to me today knowing that so many Christians are embracing the political path that is against everything that I was taught while being educated as a child in a Christian family.

[@Pippie807]

Sometimes comments and text messages come out wrong and not what the person really means.

[@askthespiritguides]

Totally. 💯

[@valoriebull551]

So happy i found you...didnt know it was new...🎉😂

[@Sprout519]

Good morning Karen !

[@christinesmith4026]

Cute PJs and mug

[@dgreenway2706]

Perfect message. Guidance is there and it is coming. Runners guide me home is just perfect also. ❤️

[@valoriebull551]

Coffee with Karen is awesome..

[@PsyKatic1]

Hi Karen. So much in this video! The card's message for me is that I have too much noise and distractions around me, which I already supected. I can't hear my guides or intuition speaking. The image to me is that they communicate while I'm sleeping and quiet. I'm no longer remembering my dreams - just a sense that they were important. That's frustrating! BTW, 53 signifies taking your power back. Comments on social media can be draining for me. But, your videos are very empowering. Love this channel. So glad I'm a member.❤

[@angielim4103]

Good Day Karen. Hope your weekend was well. We often need to discuss difficult subjects to bring out our thoughts and feelings so we can understand, process and heal. This is part of the process to stay in the light of things. We can't brush things under the rug, so to say. Thank you for your honesty!😇

[@carolwilder2497]

Rescue message hit home with me. I have always been a problem solver from the time I was 5 yo. I was doing it more for me but when I got older I started to branch out and do that to help others in my circle of friends. Being an empath from an early age I was able to read a room, people’s moods and even clues about danger which I’m sure came from living in an abusive family environment.. when I was on my own things settled down but my desire to help others never went away. That rescue word is still a flashing light for me that I have been working very hard to ignore when it comes to others bc I now know the only one I can truly rescue is me.

[@askthespiritguides]

Your last sentiment is so true .. "the only one I can truly rescue is me"

[@joymoody2372]

I hear you & feel the same. It's very common for people to focus on other's needs vs their own. It often happens when we've been raised to be people pleasers. The healthier path is caring for ourselves first, & then we have energy to attend to others who may seek our help. I can't honestly remember anyone saying they were concerned about me. I'm such an independent soul. I too would take it as a negative, however well meaning.

[@jamesoedwards6393]

Hi Karen, Thank you for clarifying the effects of positive attention on empaths. It is just as overwhelming as criticism is for us. For me it does stem from old programming that hasn't completely been eradicated from my memory banks, lol. So glad we're not alone. We all stray a little bit from the light sometimes. It's a good sign when people throw up a little red flag to us. Thank you for talking about this. 🕉❤️☮️

[@CorinnaShortCake]

Praying for Lucy and your family.

[@betha8761]

Yes, it totally gives out a condescending feeling. My sister had a habit of asking “are you ok?” way way too much for years. She also is empathic like me and my Mom was as well, but she also has issues with projecting and castastrophizing, etc. We had to tell her to stop asking it so much cause it became so irritating. What is funny though too is that she feels the same way when others ask her that. She doesn’t ask it as much anymore but it still triggers me when she does and I simply tell her to stop asking it. I think it can become a habit for some people. 🌞☮️🌞

[@angielim4103]

Wow! Card describes what I have been doing and going through. It's like an never ending rollercoaster. It feels like I have that card stuck to my forehead. Thank you for the confirmed insight. Doing our best to stay in the light.😇

[@brendawheelen637]

In my world we say” mind your own program.” = STFU+ mind your own business. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ellenwilliams911]

Great message! I needed that.

[@debbiechase7762]

It’s like something a teacher would say to a student or a supervisor to an employee.

[@deborahburton2683]

Good morning sunshine and everyone else ❤️❤️❤️

[@deborahburton2683]

Wow this really hit home today. That is funny. My hubby told me before he can hear me swallow, lol. The card hit home. I have an internal battle to finish a bunch of paintings before the weekend. I'll ask for internal help to let it off my mind since it is REALLY stressing me out. ❤❤❤

[@teresahopemiller1008]

nothing like being cheeky.

[@debbiechase7762]

Staying in the light can be like that saying: so heavenly minded that you’re no earthly good. Meaning like your head’s in the clouds and you’re not fully present to deal with anything.

[@debbiekirchner2513]

My guides thought maybe you were sick at the time of that comment! As a fellow Aries my ears prick up if someone says something surprising. I ponder it and listen for any truth. If there is any, I process it, if not, I let it go!

[@moodyscorpio11]

good morning Karen and a gentle squeeze for Lucy 💜💜💜

[@debbiekirchner2513]

I love this card. As a retired teacher, I am waiting for my next road to appear clearly!

[@zipporahreshel]

There's always gonna be haters.. its part of the ying and yang polarity

[@LindaZ-i9b]

I found your videos about 45 very helpful and hope you continue to do that

[@Angelena-o1l]

6 weeks that's fantastic. I appreciate your ease and comfortably. I have learnt a lot from your videos. Kitty is so cute. I have a Kitty, Dolmio and Leonardo. Love the card higher self go within. My spirit guides and Angel. Silence...Know...Heal Within. Thank you for sharing your messages from your higher self and spirit

[@JaimeMccorgary]

Bottom line is that person was trying to judge you and you are not interested in that persons judgement on you. Especially when you don’t even know them.

[@brahmijpy8632]

I agree, it does feel off-putting when a friend says out of the blue "are you alright?" Or "i am concerned about you" when I am doing fine! It is like they have some knowledge of me that I don't have and as a person who is deeply contemplative, this is very off putting to me! I would rather have friends notice when I am doing well even through challenges!