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Kevin Samuels

Kevin Samuels

Күн бұрын

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@lenniamartin
@lenniamartin 3 ай бұрын
Who is watching this right now in 2024 I sure do miss him saying hey big head
@brendap8385
@brendap8385 Ай бұрын
April 2024. I've been binge watching him.
@paperchaser-lv9sz
@paperchaser-lv9sz 25 күн бұрын
I miss my boy dearly…He was The Siccest 😂🤣🤣🤣
@sdot7117
@sdot7117 24 күн бұрын
🙋🏽‍♂️
@CMM726
@CMM726 22 күн бұрын
Yes. I miss KS. I wanted so bad to speak with him before he died.
@carolekelly5384
@carolekelly5384 15 күн бұрын
Me❤
@LeeLee-nf5zy
@LeeLee-nf5zy 2 жыл бұрын
Baby there is nothing wrong with a average man! A man that goes to work everyday, is respectful and kind, is a GOOD man! Been HAPPILY married to 1 man for 26 years. My husband and I are besties for life. We laugh, love a and pray together. My engagement ring that I still wear cost $699.00..My LOVE for him and his love for me is PRICELESS!
@LeeLee-nf5zy
@LeeLee-nf5zy 2 жыл бұрын
My husband is a high value man! We have worked hard together and made a good living financially..but honestly I say this often...I would have lived with him in a housing project..the LOVE , KINDNESS & RESPECT is PRICELESS!..
@ceecee4705
@ceecee4705 2 жыл бұрын
I love it, and wish y'all many happy years ❤️
@bre970
@bre970 2 жыл бұрын
A hardworking stable man is all I ever wanted. I want a man I can truly enjoy life with and he be my best friend raising our kids.
@michaeljones2773
@michaeljones2773 2 жыл бұрын
U r priceless. I've been blessed to find a woman just like u
@LeeLee-nf5zy
@LeeLee-nf5zy 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaeljones2773 Thank you Mr. Jones.
@m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997
@m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997 Жыл бұрын
All Kevin was trying to get a lot of us black women to understand is to be realistic and to date on our level.
@johnstonemuguro3896
@johnstonemuguro3896 Жыл бұрын
...and respect the man in your life without despising them. You miss him and that's it. YOU DIE ALONE. However, if yout picked something out of this God bless you.
@m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997
@m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997 Жыл бұрын
@@johnstonemuguro3896 thank you for your positive feedback 🙏🏾
@MotivatedI
@MotivatedI 11 ай бұрын
I wish many women saw it like this. Most see it as attacks which are not.
@m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997
@m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997 11 ай бұрын
@@MotivatedI It's up to us women individually to take the blinders off
@Doritoboy200live
@Doritoboy200live 11 ай бұрын
Agreed, both ends too, men as well lol. Summary: I met a girl on a dating app yesterday we video called. And she went on a long rant on how she is tired of being a strong woman and she wants to be a stay at home mom etc and wants a man that brings in all the income...She was not in shape, the nice photos she had was her in a wig, how do i know? because she was on the call bare headed...she was quite delusional. I challenged her views by just asking her what she would offer a man like that etc and how does she feel she matches up to it etc she got mad. She was talking about how a guy she met on the app was too nice and she had to cut him off etc, From how she was talking I thought she was a knockout lol paired with her photos, obviously seeing her was a different story. She was all types of delusional, 26 years old and saying she isn't settling for less...but yet she is less. I'm sure there are tons delusional dudes out there too lol but as a heterosexual male I can only talk about my experiences.
@justmontina
@justmontina Жыл бұрын
Kevin’s advice worked for me and my husband proposed within a year and we married 6 months later. Ladies, DO THE WORK!
@eyehashereyehadonai8036
@eyehashereyehadonai8036 Жыл бұрын
Post a comment in 10 years. 3 years isn’t much. - KS🗣️
@justmontina
@justmontina Жыл бұрын
@@eyehashereyehadonai8036 who are you? This isn’t my first marriage so trust and believe, I CHOSE better and know better.
@avontawalker2309
@avontawalker2309 Жыл бұрын
@@eyehashereyehadonai8036 the great I AM
@Alexz5040
@Alexz5040 Жыл бұрын
@@eyehashereyehadonai8036 they aren’t gonna be worried about your bs comment in ten years they’re gonna be living their life something you need to be doing
@eyehashereyehadonai8036
@eyehashereyehadonai8036 Жыл бұрын
@@Alexz5040 🙄Yet today, your Goofy A$$ is commenting. You could have kept that thought to yourself. You need to take several seats 🪑. Focus on these two words, “ SHUT” and “ UP”! Uncertain Hefa 🐮
@lkreinmiller-author
@lkreinmiller-author Жыл бұрын
My husband retired at a salary of about $110,000. That was after getting a practical degree, working at the same hospital for 40 years, taking call and working his butt off, me penny pinching and clipping coupons while raising our kids, taking our "vacations" to see family or going camping, and him retiring at the age of 72. We did it together and both worked our tails off. And we started when I was 19 and he was 22. It takes a lifetime and dedication and commitment and devotion. And these girls think they can fall into it because they "deserve" it. Lord help me!!
@tommyjenkins2598
@tommyjenkins2598 Жыл бұрын
Bless you ,you did it right.
@changeforus1
@changeforus1 Жыл бұрын
The Internet is raising the mindset today. The ability to go through the process is what's missing. Work smarter not harder has been taken out of wack.... Luckily we have his info/content to help those who's ready to receive it.
@twizted3k
@twizted3k Жыл бұрын
Hope you raised some kids to have the same mindset! Did it right!
@lkreinmiller-author
@lkreinmiller-author Жыл бұрын
@@twizted3k 3 great kids, 2 amazing kids-in-law. 3rd kid sees all this nonsense and has decided getting married in this day and age is a dumb move.
@twizted3k
@twizted3k Жыл бұрын
@@lkreinmiller-author Can't blame your 3rd for feeling that way. It's a trap for men the way divorce is set up today. Women don't have to have any accountability for their behavior, leaving men powerless to demand mutual respect. I think marriage can work as originally intended with a prenup, but a prenup itself goes against the point of the vows you take at the alter/judge.
@ThanishaLinares
@ThanishaLinares 2 жыл бұрын
“Until you’re stable, relationships are off the table.” - Bars
@malkum77ify
@malkum77ify Жыл бұрын
Gospel truth.
@RickLipinski
@RickLipinski Жыл бұрын
@Energetic Coach yep
@jmfernelius
@jmfernelius Жыл бұрын
I had this revealed to me today and you have affirmed it for me.
@timothyfelder437
@timothyfelder437 Жыл бұрын
Bars exactly Until you’re stable, you won’t be able to handle anything put on you. DON DEMARCO!
@djschultz61
@djschultz61 Жыл бұрын
forgive my ignorance but what does bars mean?
@emzywillrich7243
@emzywillrich7243 Жыл бұрын
When my younger sister divorced her nice, respectful, highly-educated, and high earner husband for no reason in particular, my mother told her to use her head. She did it anyway. She was equally highly-educated and had been a very high earner too. He found another wife. She didn't find another husband. They did not have any children.
@ODEelephant
@ODEelephant Жыл бұрын
Your sister saved that man tbh. Bet he's living his best life.
@emzywillrich7243
@emzywillrich7243 Жыл бұрын
@@ODEelephant He is indeed very happy. We still remain friends. He is more of a brother than the two I have.
@AA-td1yw
@AA-td1yw Жыл бұрын
IS YOUR SISTER DEAD..SHE CAN FIND A HUSBAND IF SHE WANTS ONE
@waynepoole6120
@waynepoole6120 Жыл бұрын
Amen to that
@CEWIII9873
@CEWIII9873 Жыл бұрын
They cannot conceive of unforeseen consequences because they are ch ildren
@russelldodd93
@russelldodd93 Жыл бұрын
My wife left for the attention and thrill of another man, after abducting the children. All she had to do was lie and say that I hit her and they let her keep the children away from me. Life is already kicking her fast ass and I just sit back and watch. I had nothing 10 years ago after she took everything, but now I'm a Millionaire x2. I live a nice life near D.C. and she lives destitute in the ghetto.
@cklegacymoves7588
@cklegacymoves7588 Жыл бұрын
Hoping you are able to rescue your children from destitute. Wishing you the best and a healthy relationship with someone else.
@SuperMan-qv7nd
@SuperMan-qv7nd Жыл бұрын
If you don’t mind I would like to have a convo on how you became a millionaire
@jacoricksudds2183
@jacoricksudds2183 Жыл бұрын
@@SuperMan-qv7nd I'm curious my damn self 🤔🤔🤔
@Mata_Veli
@Mata_Veli Жыл бұрын
she belong to the streets 🙏🏽
@ScrubDusters
@ScrubDusters Жыл бұрын
Seinfeld “the best revenge is living well”
@f.urfeelings2981
@f.urfeelings2981 2 жыл бұрын
A woman’s definition of Toxic is when the man doesn’t do what she wants him to do. 🤯
@daphuckuwant
@daphuckuwant 2 жыл бұрын
Correct
@dnice287
@dnice287 2 жыл бұрын
FACTS!! Went to couples counseling and she actually said, "if he would just do what I ask, everything would be okay!" The "female" therapist said, "that's part of the problem, you can't put your expectations on others!" Long story short, she was pissed at the therapist and we never went back and we never resolved our issues.
@sleepinghill6484
@sleepinghill6484 2 жыл бұрын
💯
@damrhy
@damrhy 2 жыл бұрын
Yup
@manumaster1990
@manumaster1990 2 жыл бұрын
exactly.
@Redsea1961
@Redsea1961 2 жыл бұрын
I wish like heck I had listened to this man before he passed away. He was the real deal. People like him is always taken away from us. Rest up brother...
@MichaelNunya
@MichaelNunya 2 жыл бұрын
Kevin and Patrice, two legends gone way too early.
@TheMoogaKing
@TheMoogaKing 2 жыл бұрын
I feel you on that sentiment. Found KS two weeks before his passing and can't believe I missed this ride.
@lorenzowright5814
@lorenzowright5814 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheMoogaKing I Feel The Same Way Yo
@dannieisKING
@dannieisKING 2 жыл бұрын
AGREED AGREED AGREED MY CONDOLENCES TO US ALL WHO HE TOUCHED TAUGHT AND TALKED REAL TO REAL WOMEN WILLING AND READY TO LISTEN
@b-north
@b-north 2 жыл бұрын
big facts i didn’t know who he was , and honestly he’s a blessing to me and to our world 🌎
@MarcPlaysDrums
@MarcPlaysDrums Жыл бұрын
When I met my wife I was working at People Ready and she was working in the corporate world making multiple times more that me and what convinced her that I was marriage material was A) when we went on a double date we got a flat and I changed the tire because the guy who’s car it was didn’t know how to, B) when she moved into a new apartment I got my homeboys and we boxed up and moved all her stuff in less that 5 hours and C) one time when we went on a date at an expensive restaurant and I paid for everything which showed her that, knowing the amount of money it cost and that I worked at a day labor company, she knew how much effort it took to save to pay for the date and that if we married she would be well taken care of. She knew that she had a good man who just happened to not have a good job. And once we got married I got a great job so she could be a stay at home mom. Now she has her own private therapy practice(after I paid for her to go back to school to get her MSW). Point is…average guys who work regular jobs many times make great husbands. Ladies, stop chasing the bag.
@MediumValueMan
@MediumValueMan 11 ай бұрын
Congrats Sir!
@imandalton4227
@imandalton4227 8 ай бұрын
Beautiful
@Nicci82
@Nicci82 2 ай бұрын
This!!! ❤❤❤ Takes a hell of a lot more than money to be a high value man.
@Nupedebonaire07
@Nupedebonaire07 19 күн бұрын
Good for you…
@indelible6798
@indelible6798 Жыл бұрын
Kevin looked so tired here. He worked soooo hard. Thanks for everything...I'm still watching, listening and learning. Miss you much 🖤🕊🙏🏾
@jill_the_nurse2918
@jill_the_nurse2918 Жыл бұрын
He looked SO TIRED CUZ he DID SO MANY GD DRUGZZZZ !!! Which is WHY HES A DEAD LOSER NOW !!!! He was a PATHETIC PIECE OF SHIT !!!! Good Riddance …!!
@MillionHiers
@MillionHiers Жыл бұрын
Yeah he wasn’t having the BS on that day
@deathrager2404
@deathrager2404 Жыл бұрын
he died from the stress these broads were giving him. rip king samuels.
@jayryan75
@jayryan75 Жыл бұрын
@@deathrager2404 I definitely think the same.... That or they paid ole girl he was with at the time of his death to kill him. He was trying to help us and they definitely didn't want that
@deathrager2404
@deathrager2404 Жыл бұрын
@@jayryan75 but even if they didnt directly killed him, women are the result of what the system wants. i hope his death was not in vain, simply dealing with modern women = an early death. reminds me of al bundy cha cha cha. youtube that. he points at his wife during the cha cha cha theme and sings: early grave, cha cha cha. its hilarous as hell. and very truthful. just dealing with modern women results in an early death.
@deanogordon2819
@deanogordon2819 2 жыл бұрын
Kevin:"How old are you?" Her:"Guess?" Kevin:"yeah guess these nuts" Never gets old 😂🤣😂
@doubleboe7NYC
@doubleboe7NYC 2 жыл бұрын
Hardcore 💀
@kenardnorman4377
@kenardnorman4377 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 remember Kevin also said, "don't play with me."
@invadingminds
@invadingminds 2 жыл бұрын
@@kenardnorman4377 🤣🤣 yes, that was the cherry on top!
@couponingcharman4423
@couponingcharman4423 2 жыл бұрын
That one never gets old...I laugh every time 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
@DivineFro
@DivineFro 2 жыл бұрын
Right 🤣😂😭
@DMAN-ey1nb
@DMAN-ey1nb Жыл бұрын
I wonder if Kevin ever realised how potent his legacy would be. His videos will live on decades helping people all over the world.
@enjoy-ly7zw
@enjoy-ly7zw Жыл бұрын
He did he said it before he blew up. Saying his channel will be reviewed on in educational channels.
@dameiondarthard3878
@dameiondarthard3878 Жыл бұрын
i got into him after he passed, sucks that he did but since i started late i feel like the amount of videos he has is enough to guide me for a lifetime
@bubullibooooo9928
@bubullibooooo9928 Жыл бұрын
🤣
@AztecWench
@AztecWench Жыл бұрын
He died about a couple of months after this video.
@lahotboy
@lahotboy 5 ай бұрын
I'm pretty sure he knew he was helping in some capacity. I admire his ability to move past the feminist and the few who are still single and will, in fact, die alone. My mother did, sadly! and even she said Kevin opened her eyes at 65 to a lot of the things she felt and later found, to be wrong about.
@ronm2281
@ronm2281 Жыл бұрын
Miss this man. Going on a year and this man is still saving relationships and building character in people. A true legend. Real truth always lives on. R.I.P Godfather
@j.wright3888
@j.wright3888 2 ай бұрын
U pales be all over our folks content quit watching learning stealing and copying from us yall weirdos
@peteruzoma5577
@peteruzoma5577 7 ай бұрын
This man is, I mean, is, and will continue to be a priceless GIFT to the black community, and to our world in general! Rest on my brother!
@tomniebrzydowski3759
@tomniebrzydowski3759 5 ай бұрын
He is priceless gift to the white community too. In fact, he is a priceless gift to all men of all races.
@spondefident5369
@spondefident5369 14 күн бұрын
​​@@tomniebrzydowski3759He said that already; take your needy mind elsewhere.
@srhabb
@srhabb 2 жыл бұрын
I still have yet to find a woman that says she offers wisdom, patience, respect and peace.
@hlywood72
@hlywood72 2 жыл бұрын
Not one ! (They don't think it's important)
@neilnewton4427
@neilnewton4427 2 жыл бұрын
feminenity and submisiveness👍🏾
@radiation8174
@radiation8174 2 жыл бұрын
Never gonna happen 😂
@jamalmodica3286
@jamalmodica3286 2 жыл бұрын
Wisdom, lol dream on
@cassandraf.claybrook1253
@cassandraf.claybrook1253 2 жыл бұрын
I offer all four, with no problem at all!🙂
@MCClark
@MCClark 2 жыл бұрын
“Becoming toxic” must be some new buzz word/ phrase these days, too many women throw that around now, I’ve noticed… So glad I’m out the game, Smh…
@Relle.
@Relle. 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@immaculatemal1379
@immaculatemal1379 2 жыл бұрын
Toxic is thrown around Like Cap
@davyjones2032
@davyjones2032 2 жыл бұрын
It's basically a word that describes what attracted them to the person in the first place lol
@ThatGuy-yd8cc
@ThatGuy-yd8cc 2 жыл бұрын
Toxic, clout , cap, savage
@treecosmos386
@treecosmos386 2 жыл бұрын
Na fr. For me, the only way to win is not to play
@vincentjackson3472
@vincentjackson3472 Жыл бұрын
"Guess deez nuts" 🤣 what a champion. R.I.P my man. So educational. The world is darker without you and your lessons and humor.
@fybleez
@fybleez Жыл бұрын
Man I'm dead 🤣💀
@bucky5869
@bucky5869 Жыл бұрын
Belly laugh right there. Basically saying "I ain't playin with you"
@ericwilliams1575
@ericwilliams1575 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀⚰️⚰️
@robstuart1385
@robstuart1385 Жыл бұрын
He taught men not to allow women to play games them. You play games, you dismissed expeditiously!
@kolorknight2235
@kolorknight2235 Жыл бұрын
His memory will be a comfort in dark times
@kevinr.theodore767
@kevinr.theodore767 Жыл бұрын
Wow ! This stream was frightening. This why I’m taking my teenage son to Japan, Thailand and The Philippines this year. There is no way I would let one of those women in my house 💯
@BamOn742
@BamOn742 11 ай бұрын
HELL YEAHHHHHH!!!!!!
@KissingTrolls17
@KissingTrolls17 6 ай бұрын
He could get a catalog from those countries. Teens love to shop online.
@Bnizzofashizzo
@Bnizzofashizzo 5 ай бұрын
One of “ these women” was yo momma
@Martin-jk2ng
@Martin-jk2ng 4 ай бұрын
You're a great father. I salute you sir
@TheDCGuitar13
@TheDCGuitar13 2 жыл бұрын
These delusional women done gave this man ten years of presidential gray in a single year…. Man… there ain’t a single amount you could pay me to deal with the narcissists he has to bring down to earth every night.
@andreaa.1393
@andreaa.1393 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@dabshanksthe1st488
@dabshanksthe1st488 2 жыл бұрын
Oh funny and true
@adrianprince7266
@adrianprince7266 2 жыл бұрын
But the thing is even after the conversation he still hasn't brought them down to earth.
@crystaloats8177
@crystaloats8177 2 жыл бұрын
My hair has grayed a lot just from listening to this channel for a year.
@mrarivv0007
@mrarivv0007 2 жыл бұрын
@@adrianprince7266 yea most people don't change, we're creatures of habit and comfort is easily accessed now.
@SirYeetus
@SirYeetus 2 жыл бұрын
KS: "How old are you?" Her: "Guess." She was ready for the mental gymnastics to begin lmao 🤦🏽‍♂️
@dyelawnhotfire
@dyelawnhotfire 2 жыл бұрын
She warmed up in a leotard that says "JUICY"
@Ididntwantthishandle
@Ididntwantthishandle 2 жыл бұрын
🥾💥
@Nelo_Wolf
@Nelo_Wolf 2 жыл бұрын
They all play mind games
@ZackSuru
@ZackSuru 2 жыл бұрын
She failed miserably 😁
@lordofgingers
@lordofgingers 2 жыл бұрын
@@dyelawnhotfire lmao this is gold
@greygorygaming
@greygorygaming Жыл бұрын
She looked so disgusted when she was forced to say that she can cook and clean.
@abolishwelfare
@abolishwelfare Жыл бұрын
It’s blatantly obvious that these women HAVE NEVER been challenged on their immature attitudes.
@dickmarx1298
@dickmarx1298 2 жыл бұрын
"the relationship became toxic" Translation "I became a rancid, nagging, insatiable harpy, and he wouldn't bend to my will"
@kamkruger8828
@kamkruger8828 2 жыл бұрын
Pretty much
@XXX-tw6zm
@XXX-tw6zm 2 жыл бұрын
😬🤐😅
@superdave8248
@superdave8248 2 жыл бұрын
Bridezilla maybe ... but regardless dollars to donuts he was the one who broke it off. But that woman, throws more hostile masculinity than I did at that age. And on a side note, if the guy was already a store manager at 21, he was doing well. That guy probably be making six figures in the retail world by 30.
@brixtonmystery
@brixtonmystery 2 жыл бұрын
PERFECTLY PUT
@kcck7588
@kcck7588 2 жыл бұрын
pretty accurate i’d say
@JamesGamesMTG
@JamesGamesMTG 2 жыл бұрын
@45:00 “Marriage isn’t about partnership, it’s about duty and responsibility.” That one hit me deep.
@dannieisKING
@dannieisKING 2 жыл бұрын
Not true
@biggssmalls7281
@biggssmalls7281 2 жыл бұрын
@@dannieisKING Even robin had to take orders from Batman 🤷‍♂️
@tamicaalsheshi6809
@tamicaalsheshi6809 Жыл бұрын
It truly is duty and responsibility!!!
@thegoodbrothersifu
@thegoodbrothersifu Жыл бұрын
@@biggssmalls7281 right on!!!!
@ruganzureggie385
@ruganzureggie385 Жыл бұрын
@@dannieisKING could you tell us your marriage success story please?
@ladonswift2779
@ladonswift2779 Жыл бұрын
Everything you said was spot on, Samuel, because there's nothing worse than having a wife who has no real value, and is vain, narrow-minded, uncooperative, senseless, argumentative and disrespectful.
@oleskool61
@oleskool61 8 ай бұрын
That was my ex, all that you said I experienced it with her. One Ball Busting B@#$h.
@user-iw7ng6ox2p
@user-iw7ng6ox2p 6 ай бұрын
His name is Kevin not Samuel
@TheForkOnTheLeftist
@TheForkOnTheLeftist Жыл бұрын
Kevin used to always get me with the "ring of significant caratage" lol still makes me chuckle. Rest in power
@robstuart1385
@robstuart1385 Жыл бұрын
😆 I always wondered, how many carrot we talking? 😆
@conniebell7987
@conniebell7987 Жыл бұрын
I’ll tell you, I love the man. The ring of reasonable caratage can come later. If he presents me with a smaller ring, I’m happy. We can build on a larger ring later.
@galupas
@galupas 2 жыл бұрын
These women are under the delusion that getting a husband is like going shopping and picking them off a shelf.
@SynFlowers
@SynFlowers 2 жыл бұрын
It is though. It’s not that hard
@takedownTony6
@takedownTony6 2 жыл бұрын
@@SynFlowers bird
@linglam1170
@linglam1170 2 жыл бұрын
Is easy to get a guy to has sex with but not a husband. I know l been there.
@takedownTony6
@takedownTony6 2 жыл бұрын
@@linglam1170 thank you a woman with accountability and sense
@gravyguns
@gravyguns 2 жыл бұрын
@@SynFlowers You sound like one of the lost and delusional women that Kevin references. It's men who make the ultimate decision to get married, so you don't pick a husband. Women have their way picking and choosing men to fornicate with. Then from there it's men who decide they want relationships or marriage. Women control sex. Men control relationships and marriage. Simple and plain. But most women's heads are so inflated from the number of guys approaching them for sex that they always fail to realize that men are approaching them for sex and for not marriage. Here is a common, everyday example showing who controls what. Do men or women ask this question "I'm not having sex with you until you're ready to be in a relationship"? Women, obviously ask such questions, not men because men have never been known to need or want to be in relationships in order to have sex. That question shows that by withholding sex she is in control of sex and by waiting for his decision to be in a relationship that he is in control of the relationship. Get it now? Geesh!
@josephlang2586
@josephlang2586 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a 24 year old man. Thank you, Kevin. Thank you for teaching me how to vet a woman to be a good wife. You're saving so many young men from headache after headache.
@i3ella553
@i3ella553 2 жыл бұрын
He couldn’t even save himself
@sonsolar
@sonsolar 2 жыл бұрын
@@i3ella553 You sound silly
@josephlang2586
@josephlang2586 2 жыл бұрын
@@i3ella553 you do sound silly
@user-kcrpine
@user-kcrpine 2 жыл бұрын
Nantha Grey - And you’ve saved yourself? Gtfoh with that bull shit. The fact you felt the need to come here and mock the man’s passing tells every man here all we need to know about you. Go adopt a kitty and die alone. That’s your future. 30 years from now when miserable and alone, perhaps you can think back and thank Mr Samuels for helping to save many women from suffering your fate. Of course you won’t because you’re a woman and will accept no accountability whatsoever.
@sh0ndaD0ll
@sh0ndaD0ll 2 жыл бұрын
@@i3ella553 😂
@mermaidtails4391
@mermaidtails4391 7 ай бұрын
Take it from me… It’s much more taxing on your body and mind in EVERY way possible to start having children in your late 30s to early 40s. I got married at 38, had my first a week shy of my 40th birthday, had another at 41 and one more at 42. Fortunately I was extremely naturally fertile with no conception or pregnancy issues. I’m 59 now and thank god I was AND am still very healthy and active and my kids are awesome! But I am not the norm in this situation. That is why having children is best suited for those in their 20s and early 30s. Good luck, ma’am. You’ll need it.
@sekougetrouw6828
@sekougetrouw6828 2 жыл бұрын
Brother you were right on point. No serious man wants witty, smart ass, snarky conversation with his woman.
@cynceresin9791
@cynceresin9791 2 жыл бұрын
Shut up! Yes U do meat hammer.
@ParisArmaniTV
@ParisArmaniTV 2 жыл бұрын
“You were supposed to be getting taught this stuff from the time u were a girl… that’s why you’re 25 and u don’t even know who was supposed to have taught you … Women have failed you.” ~KS (THIS) 🤞🏾💯
@jamesrambo7712
@jamesrambo7712 2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, this is very accurate... 🎯
@jessicamartin2242
@jessicamartin2242 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@Smokedoggoo
@Smokedoggoo 2 жыл бұрын
Your listening to Kevin so I think women have failed u mam
@seekinghimdaily92
@seekinghimdaily92 2 жыл бұрын
Many older women have failed us and for this reason, even many of them suffer from their bad decisions. Say *NO* to ‘Boomers’ Intellect’ 😅
@lawandaherminstyne9646
@lawandaherminstyne9646 2 жыл бұрын
Okay!
@emzywillrich7243
@emzywillrich7243 Жыл бұрын
A white female colleague of mine went back to college after graduating to find a husband and she found one to everyone's suprise.
@wannaduckfin
@wannaduckfin Жыл бұрын
She knew it's not a game.
@cpatch-nh5cs
@cpatch-nh5cs Жыл бұрын
White women start at a significant advantage over all women, including asian women. Black women see sloppy white women eating and finding a husband like they're going on trees, but no one is going to feed black women like that.
@Daniellehiu
@Daniellehiu 4 ай бұрын
My mentor gave me this advice years ago. She also said go back and major in a male dominated field and don't even worry about finishing the degree. Should have listened.
@akstylez_ak5037
@akstylez_ak5037 Жыл бұрын
Kevin: How old are you? Woman: Guess? Kevin: Click…………….. Guess these NUTS 🥜😂🤣😂😂. I guess she must have thought she was on a dating app😂😂😂😂
@phenomenal-xv4ey
@phenomenal-xv4ey 2 жыл бұрын
What modern women bring to the table: - sarcasm - pettiness - independence - partnership on her terms
@Jei992
@Jei992 2 жыл бұрын
Well put!
@josephvincent7912
@josephvincent7912 2 жыл бұрын
You put that so perfect…Thank you!
@jwa7378
@jwa7378 2 жыл бұрын
I am not getting married so it doesn't matter. I will be debt free in June 2022. I can't wait
@RedMaitreya
@RedMaitreya 2 жыл бұрын
@@jwa7378 Bless your heart
@keithwilliams5158
@keithwilliams5158 2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@traciroberts9759
@traciroberts9759 2 жыл бұрын
At 25, I thought the same thing as this young lady. At 48 I see how wrong I was. I’m determined to teach my child better. If moms don’t teach our girls better, their futures will be difficult. Moms, we are responsible for preparing our daughters to win.
@anthonyharrison7728
@anthonyharrison7728 2 жыл бұрын
Too many black women waste their prime child bearing years chasing dreams and fantasies and then after they hit what we in the manosphere call "The Wall", which is at age 30, those same women turn around and try to get serious about men and building a family. Unfortunately, by then many successful men are looking at the new models on the block, age 19-29 to start families and build legacies with.
@StephBenIsrael
@StephBenIsrael 2 жыл бұрын
@Sarah You completely missed the point of what he was saying.
@StephBenIsrael
@StephBenIsrael 2 жыл бұрын
@Sarah He wasn't referring to his own relationship preferences. He literally just made a statement that has been observed over time and have lots of truth to it that most woman in their prime 20s waste it and wait too long until it's late by age 30 or up to find a man to build with. Unfortunately the case is always that most the good men that was turned down in favour of her having unrealistic fantasies about men. these good men will no longer be available and quite frankly tend have more options by age 30 especially if they have become high value men.
@agirl5242
@agirl5242 2 жыл бұрын
im 17 and more prepared for my future than her😂 she’s got some soul searching to do. every time you ask why someone is going to college they don’t have an answer or is going for “fun” it’s sad.
@jessmiles6013
@jessmiles6013 2 жыл бұрын
Looking at the generation of woman their mothers have failed them seriously
@terrencelee9366
@terrencelee9366 Жыл бұрын
This my first full live I’ve watched since he passed and man it just still feels unreal that it’s almost a year since he’s passed and I just haven’t felt the want to watch his content because I know they’ll never be another one coming , Rest in Peace Kevin man we definitely took you for granted but you for sure left behind timeless content .
@primaballerina84
@primaballerina84 11 ай бұрын
To me, talking about my wife now. She's feminine, wind in my sails, believe in my visions even more than I do at times. I pay for everything as for now, she's stayin at home with our daughter and we're starting a company together on the side of my main business. That's all I need. A Woman. Could make the list long but you get the picture. The intimacy is incredible important too, never deny your love pleasure.
@matchhunter7012
@matchhunter7012 2 жыл бұрын
Kevin : "how old are you?" Black woman : "guess" Kevin ends the conversation Me: 😂😂😂😂😂
@ThisisDaniel
@ThisisDaniel 2 жыл бұрын
She wasn't readyyy 🥶
@jeffdmk6530
@jeffdmk6530 2 жыл бұрын
Usher singing in the background : "Please don't waaaaaaste my time" 😂😂😂
@superdave8248
@superdave8248 2 жыл бұрын
After listening to about half this podcast, this is what this woman wants even if she doesn't realize it. She doesn't want marriage. She doesn't want kids. She wants a boyfriend who will take on her troubles and financial debt for the occasional booty call. Give me a thumbs down guys if you think I'm wrong. Or if you think she is "funny". Or if you think she is attractive. Because I think she is neither and on top of that she is also delusional. She drank the Koolaid and now she is a below average looking woman with no prospects and she thinks Kevin can wave a magic wand and fix what she spent the last 10 years messing up.
@lingram001
@lingram001 2 жыл бұрын
@@superdave8248 It has to be frustrating to Mr KS when you get multiple women in a row who think the same type of way. After those women want to battle, you get a woman who can't even answer a simple age question. She appeared smug and entitled, which is my own independent interpretation and first impression of her.
@kimciszek-kane397
@kimciszek-kane397 11 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@nykia31
@nykia31 2 жыл бұрын
We need the following T-Shirts "You Can't Make This Stuff Up" "When I Get My Masters" "I'm A PhD" "Winter's Coming" "Who Filed For Divorce?" "Are You In Therapy?"
@mesalouis8976
@mesalouis8976 2 жыл бұрын
@krispy kreme 👍🏾😩
@MrMoore88
@MrMoore88 2 жыл бұрын
💀💀
@mesalouis8976
@mesalouis8976 2 жыл бұрын
“Fix your Smoke detector.”
@nykia31
@nykia31 2 жыл бұрын
@krispy kreme Missed that one.
@whythis28
@whythis28 2 жыл бұрын
"Let's Talk About It"
@violet5610
@violet5610 Жыл бұрын
I'm married to a really good loyal man. I put on weight over COVID and he never cheated on me or anything. I've spent two years making sure I lost that weight so I make sure I'm good enough for him. If women want to marry up they need to work hard to keep thier men.
@char6201
@char6201 3 күн бұрын
Same 😊
@svs2699
@svs2699 Жыл бұрын
It was them damn red bulls that effected his heart😔
@qEnergize
@qEnergize Жыл бұрын
Lmao bruh… more like the you know what 💉
@rogerporter7463
@rogerporter7463 Жыл бұрын
@@qEnergizeare you certain he got the jab?
@dougmartin7129
@dougmartin7129 Жыл бұрын
@@qEnergize. High blood pressure is a silent killer.
@brandonliles
@brandonliles Жыл бұрын
Godfather left us sooner than necessary because he immersed himself in the incessantly circular arguments of renegades. Consistent exposure to such a caustic environment wears on mind and body. Kevin was of extraordinary spirit, that is undeniable. Few among us would last nearly as long and do so with such poise. Rest in Power Those red bulls probably didn't help either...
@izzycarts
@izzycarts Жыл бұрын
@@brandonliles they got rid of him
@jwoodjswood
@jwoodjswood Жыл бұрын
Even after his passing he's educating, and bringing light to people on this stuff, R.I.P. brother Samuels.
@meuls82
@meuls82 Жыл бұрын
With tears in my eyes 👀, I miss this man's work! Rest in power!
@T25de
@T25de Жыл бұрын
RIP
@coacht1738
@coacht1738 Жыл бұрын
How? It's all still posted for your viewing pleasure.
@davidgriffin6724
@davidgriffin6724 2 ай бұрын
If your retirement plan revolves around "getting married" you're screwed already.
@wslanders79
@wslanders79 Ай бұрын
This most be coming from a woman who didn't have a plan and now she's a cat lady
@margauxwashington5609
@margauxwashington5609 Жыл бұрын
Love you, Kevin. Thank you for your wisdom and expertise.
@renzopeterson153
@renzopeterson153 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly Kevin, I think a lot of these women today are fine with being 200+lbs, buying a dog and dying alone. They've bought into the idea of independence, feminism and men being seen as expendable. This country may be on it's way to becoming a bigger version of Japan.
@datruff007
@datruff007 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. This independent BS is the wave they are riding.
@monicaingram2970
@monicaingram2970 2 жыл бұрын
Some decide to be with another woman.
@smitty02345
@smitty02345 2 жыл бұрын
Great insight add to that the duldos and other devices to satisfy their toxic pleasures. This independence shows how weak they really are tbh.
@thegoodoldboyz1787
@thegoodoldboyz1787 2 жыл бұрын
But let's see what happens when men stop building
@ThePharaohsCat
@ThePharaohsCat 2 жыл бұрын
Japan's going through its modern social woes, but despite the increasing divorce rates + indie women, traditional values still just about binding the society together. Not as far gone as USA. Both experiments of industrilialised capitalist democracies, showing RofW the social ills on horizon. Not that one is better than the other. They each have acute specific problems that the other may soon confront
@aureliapetty-owens6333
@aureliapetty-owens6333 2 жыл бұрын
I would have listened to Mr. KS every day had I known about him. I found out about him through another blogger who interviewed him just within the last six months. I missed a lot of gems that I am finally picking up from him. He left a legacy in these videos. Prayers to his family and friends. May he rest in peace. 💙🕊💙
@DeeFitnessLifeBze
@DeeFitnessLifeBze 2 жыл бұрын
I listened to him for almost a year, Changed my life being a wife, woman and mom honestly.
@aureliapetty-owens6333
@aureliapetty-owens6333 2 жыл бұрын
@@DeeFitnessLifeBze Married 28 years. I am going to continue to apply what I didn't know. I see changes already. Be encouraged my SiStar.
@DeeFitnessLifeBze
@DeeFitnessLifeBze 2 жыл бұрын
@@aureliapetty-owens6333 omg 28yrs lots of respect to you.
@aureliapetty-owens6333
@aureliapetty-owens6333 2 жыл бұрын
@@DeeFitnessLifeBze Its work but what we both wanted. Better to clock the years married than not. I agree with KS. Do not date unless you intend to marry.
@aureliapetty-owens6333
@aureliapetty-owens6333 2 жыл бұрын
@@DeeFitnessLifeBze Thank you. 🥰
@MzontsunduThetyana-js8kv
@MzontsunduThetyana-js8kv 4 ай бұрын
I used to have a tenant who was an only child, my goodness I'm so glad she left...
@Alexz5040
@Alexz5040 Жыл бұрын
I have been beyond humbled I’m so grateful that I started watching him before I turned 18 my entire mindset and life goals have been changed completely I never really cared about a man’s money but now I’m more aware that I can’t get caught up with a guy that’s not serious about getting married before having kids and not letting my pride get in the way of my marriage not to nag be the peace in the home create an environment he wants to come back to not just doing Chores and cooking contribute in paying the bills and ofc much more putting him before me
@7RB373
@7RB373 2 жыл бұрын
I've noticed one main theme throughout all the conversations with women, and that is they all think they have TIME. I live each day thinking that it might be my last.
@7RB373
@7RB373 2 жыл бұрын
@Sarah I have no idea what your response means and I'm not a dude. What I'm saying is that these women seem to think they can put off their lives until their 30's or 40's while they live for "themselves", then its too late to start a family, etc. For example, "Oh, I'm going to have children one day" and they're already in their early 30s. Or I'm going to get married "one day", but there are so many other things they want to do FIRST.
@povofpoa2220
@povofpoa2220 2 жыл бұрын
that's a sad stressful way of living yikes. Do yourself a favor and don't listen to kitten Samuels. You won't regret it
@povofpoa2220
@povofpoa2220 2 жыл бұрын
@Sarah She said she lives everyday thinking that it might be her last. Sounds pretty sad and stressfull.
@7RB373
@7RB373 2 жыл бұрын
@@povofpoa2220 , no no what I meant was that I don't waste my days away. I like to live each day to the fullest because as they say, we are not promised tomorrow. When I watch these KS videos, alot of the women are always saying "some day", but the time is NOW. But that might be something I've started learning as I get older.
@7RB373
@7RB373 2 жыл бұрын
@Sarah, no I just meant to live each day to the fullest, don't squander away your time. As for your comment about reproducing, I agree women can have kids later than 30s. Just watching these videos it was a common theme I noticed that many of the women aren't even considering something could happen and they should get their lives going. I admit, I probably didn't either at that age but I DID get married and have three children in my 20s and 30s. AS you get older, you realize how important "time" is and you don't wanna waste it.
@brution2000
@brution2000 2 жыл бұрын
The 25 year old "Philly" looked at her mom's situation taking care of her sickly father as a waste of her mom's life, rather than seeing her mother bare her cross for her husband and the marriage. She learned the wrong lesson from seeing her mother struggle. The result is now fear and anxiety about marriage. When the result of your life experiences is fear and reservation, you were either taught the wrong values or learned the wrong values in life. She would ultimately be a woman that would not honor her marriage vows, or never commit to a marriage.
@sargentg07
@sargentg07 2 жыл бұрын
Right. She should've seen that situation as it being exactly what she was supposed to be doing as a wife. Running out on someone at the end of their life is typically the wrong way to go. And seeing this example in her parents should've inspired her to want to be like that. It's blatantly obvious she learned from only the negative side of relationships and had chosen to not take accountability of her poor choices and outlook.
@MimiRAM0NE
@MimiRAM0NE 2 жыл бұрын
She's scared to be in the position of her mother, but doesn't think about what would happen if she was in her father's position. Being chronically ill alone is no joke.
@MP15aug
@MP15aug 2 жыл бұрын
I think you have to add in a lack of work ethic as well. She wants the Disney princess marriage and life. When as anyone that is married knows it is work. It is worth it in the end. This her mom should have told her.
@27Shellann
@27Shellann 2 жыл бұрын
Man and Wo - Man, if some of you would take the time to look at the Bible in an optimistic way, then who you were told who wrote the Bible. Try the perception way when you read the Bible. It's only a tool for life, it will only give you wisdom knowledge and understanding in many situations.
@BIGREDD9305
@BIGREDD9305 2 жыл бұрын
@@MimiRAM0NE 🤦🏽‍♀️😢
@shyrealking3948
@shyrealking3948 5 ай бұрын
We love you and miss you Kevin. Been going back rewatching and your works and mind were so therapeutic and helpful, continue to rest bro
@darksied1965
@darksied1965 3 ай бұрын
36:25 the infamous sound drop 🫡🔥
@berserkerpride
@berserkerpride 2 жыл бұрын
I hear "toxic" and any sympathy I have is right out the window.
@deerick3109
@deerick3109 2 жыл бұрын
I don't think I've ever heard a man use toxic as an excuse on why a relationship ended. I can tell you the reason why every relationship in my life ended in detail and none of them would involve the word toxic in them.
@sickofguysnamedtodd2293
@sickofguysnamedtodd2293 2 жыл бұрын
Toxic is just a buzzword these females throw around as a way to say “I couldn’t tame him and make him bend him to my will and do my bidding” essentially. Ironically if you were to gather all their exes up the very traits they describe as “toxic” are the same traits that attracted her to him in the first place.
@davidaustin2109
@davidaustin2109 2 жыл бұрын
Yep and narcissistic
@TheMidnightKarneval
@TheMidnightKarneval 2 жыл бұрын
@@deerick3109 I've used it to describe attitudes, habits, and things theyve specifically done but never contributed that as solely the reason a relationship ended. "Her constantly picking fights just to stir up drama was toxic"
@MH-en9qc
@MH-en9qc Жыл бұрын
I’m crushed, I literally just found him yesterday and Googled him just to find out he passed. Very sad, this man was speaking the brutal truth and had a lot of work to do. Unfortunately my Mother didn’t teach me how to be a wife, she was too wrapped up in being a hateful narcissist and was very jealous of my youth & beauty. I was just a little girl and had no idea she was mentally ill, I just thought she hated me. Fortunately my Father loved me and made sure to make up for my mothers lack of motherly qualities. I understand completely what a man wants/needs and completely understand that men don’t want to be nagged, argued with and screamed at. Thankfully he instilled good values in me, he has passed I miss him terribly, I cannot count on my Mother to guide me properly. I was excited to encounter someone with the courage to speak the truth. RIP!
@ricktaylor4real
@ricktaylor4real Жыл бұрын
While it’s very sad that Kevin passed, he has left a goldmine of content that will be teaching people for decades. If you haven’t already discovered it, go look at channel. He did these lives 5-7 nights per week for over 2 years… that is 1000’s of hours to watch and learn from. Hope you enjoy it & it helps. 😃👍☮️
@lakeenyam
@lakeenyam Жыл бұрын
I could do relate to the mother situation, my mother is a narcissist too. Didn’t have a father and I made so many mistakes. Smh
@moneroai
@moneroai 8 ай бұрын
Psy ops had to take him out cause he was fixing to many things...
@riccocool
@riccocool 7 ай бұрын
​@@moneroai Black ops
@LanierHale-oq3dr
@LanierHale-oq3dr Ай бұрын
Most women think that "dancing in the sheets" is the "b all/end all"---- water into top shelf whisky.
@miss1905
@miss1905 Жыл бұрын
This makes me see what mistakes i made,and i had no plan....we need this outward talk...honest talk
@Neeeg
@Neeeg Жыл бұрын
My biggest mistake was “tryin to figure it out” through my 20s. Been scrambling and struggling through my 30s. Listen to your heart and make the decision. If I’d have just decided, I’d be chillin today…
@carllennen3520
@carllennen3520 2 жыл бұрын
RIP Mr. Samuels. You've lit the torch. Rest assured, Men will carry that torch and never let that light die. Your body may have given out, but your legacy and your message will forever endure. Rest easy. The hard work you put in, was not in vain. You got the ball rolling, and it will never stop. Thank you, and rest easy. We got this.
@eugenedantzler4485
@eugenedantzler4485 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯. Time for redemption
@coolo73
@coolo73 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine if there was a KS drinking game. Every time someone says “toxic”, “I feel like”, or act like they can’t hear when KS asks a basic question…take a shot. We’d all be sh_tfaced by the 2nd caller.
@DezGrowSpot
@DezGrowSpot 2 жыл бұрын
Or alcohol poisoning before the second call 🙃
@mannypop66
@mannypop66 2 жыл бұрын
Wrong! About 4 minutes into the first call!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
@zeelive2411
@zeelive2411 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a good idea for a watch party
@Danovio
@Danovio 2 жыл бұрын
We would die from The toxic alcohol.
@diligencehumility6971
@diligencehumility6971 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah its classic Kevin: "how long was your latest relationsship?" "What?" Kevin: "What is your dress size?" "What?" Kevin: "who ended your last relationsship?" "What?" Kevin: "who singed for divorce?" "What u saying?"
@MikeJ6129
@MikeJ6129 Жыл бұрын
Back in the day, we used to call them airheads and dingbats !
@hivemindconcussion2173
@hivemindconcussion2173 Жыл бұрын
🤪😂
@kimciszek-kane397
@kimciszek-kane397 11 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂 ur right!
@ddanielbragg88
@ddanielbragg88 Жыл бұрын
That Woman is all high and mighty with a box TV in the background.
@mrdark9916
@mrdark9916 Жыл бұрын
It brings me so much joy when Kevin drops the "You can't make this shit up" whenever Kevin says that you know the chick is about to be fucking mauled 😂
@lamartbarrett7246
@lamartbarrett7246 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂yes that’s always my favorite part
@ninamcalpin6607
@ninamcalpin6607 2 жыл бұрын
As an older woman, it has been my experience that younger women don’t want to respect our advice about men. “What do we know? We’re old school.” And, more importantly, they don’t have the stamina, discipline, or heart to play the game to win. The programming they are under is too ingrained in their psyche and they are too emotional to play the long game. THAT’s FACTS!
@latierabarnes8136
@latierabarnes8136 2 жыл бұрын
Thats the sad part, but honest. I learn a lot of from older men and women. I'm only 27 and some of my greatest conversations have been with 70 - 90 year olds. If no one my age/generation as ever told you, I gladly will. Thank you so much for your education and being. I believe the older generations provide the manual for the basics of life if that makes sense.
@messyadulthood
@messyadulthood 2 жыл бұрын
Please give me some wisdom. I don’t really have older women around me
@Faery_Witch422
@Faery_Witch422 2 жыл бұрын
The other sad part is that so many modern women think that all these men they meet, and date are replaceable and think they can just throw the guy away and find a new one instantly with just one swipe. That's why many women end up lonely or settling with men that they're not even really that attracted too, bc they let all their other good options go thinking they could do better. We only got so much time with dating bc it becomes much harder as we age. Not impossible but much harder. Nobody has to be in a relationship if they don't want to. That's a personal choice but there may be some consequences. I'm sure it gets very lonely to still be the single one while everyone else around you after a certain age has someone and a family. It can't just be one big party forever.
@Jersey_Girl357
@Jersey_Girl357 2 жыл бұрын
I think it has to do more with this social media... Also some set the bar so high that it makes it impossible to find this "perfect" relationship... There is no such thing.... Not saying lower yourself but bend a little...
@purplegirl8036
@purplegirl8036 2 жыл бұрын
You’re right. I think that’s my problem. I don’t have the stamina or heart to play the game to win. Dating is exhausting.
@maryannanderson2213
@maryannanderson2213 4 ай бұрын
I'm white and I know for a fact that most white women of my age went to college to get a husband. In fact, we jokingly said that we were there working on our M.R.S. degree. The advice my father gave me was that whether I chose to go to a university or business school or technical college, I should get some sort of training so I could support myself IF I HAD TO and I would never have to live with a man who mistreated me simply because I was totally dependent on him financially. So, we were taught to get some sort of training so we could fall back on that IF our marriage didn't work out. It seems that most black women are taught to go to college and get a job and if the career doesn't work out they will fall back on the marriage. We have a totally different point of view. I was also never taught by my mother that men were my adversary. I was taught to be a wife. My mother and father were married almost 50 years and the marriage ended with the death of my father so I learned how to be a wife by watching them. I also learned to be a wife because my mother taught me how to be a wife. She taught me how to clean and sew and wash clothes and cook and how to care for babies and how to get along with a man. I thought there was no higher calling than to be a loving and supportive wife and mother who provided a stable home so our children could have a happy and healthy and secure home. I guess that's why I would never make a good feminist. Feminism is supposedly about giving women options...unless of course, the option you choose is to be a wife or mother and that doesn't fit the feminist narrative. Many young black women seem to think that when they marry their life is basically over and that's why they want to delay getting married for such a long time. They want to have their career at a certain place and they want to have a certain degree and all this must be done before they marry because when they marry their life is over. I guess I don't understand that. Where is it written that if you marry you have to stop working and drop out of school? I have three sisters and all four of us married and all four of us worked outside of the home to help our husbands provide the kind of lifestyle we wanted. The marriages of all four of us ended at the death of our husbands and there was not a divorce in the crowd. I believe mine was the shortest marriage and I was married for over 30 years before my marriage ended with the death of my husband. The attitude of many black women makes me sad.
@Susie.wemove
@Susie.wemove Ай бұрын
My mother taught us the same thing. Perhaps with younger black women its a generational thing- where they fall back on marriage as a career option. Then again I am from the UK and if you are sitting around twiddling your thumbs waiting for a man to support you, you will be waiting your entire life! Our norms are very different
@kameron2k
@kameron2k Жыл бұрын
RIP brother, we weren't ready for you
@ryanhumor
@ryanhumor 2 жыл бұрын
“Women throw the word toxic around like men throw around the word entrepreneur”…. -KS
@jessmiles6013
@jessmiles6013 2 жыл бұрын
That made me laugh out loud seriously because it’s true!
@mercandog507
@mercandog507 2 жыл бұрын
you should see how these dating profiles throw around “ceo”...shit is crazy
@ezpz4646
@ezpz4646 2 жыл бұрын
I’m an entrepreneur... I successfully fail business ideas 🙆🏾‍♂️... spectacularly...
@HolisticManifesting
@HolisticManifesting 2 жыл бұрын
@@mercandog507 everybody on LinkedIn is an entrepreneur
@BigShrimpin416
@BigShrimpin416 2 жыл бұрын
Every single one of these women used the word “toxic” when describing relationships and I have a feeling none of them were actually in a truly “toxic” relationship. I think they just weren’t getting what “they wanted” or felt like they could “do better”
@PraiseThaDon
@PraiseThaDon 11 ай бұрын
That's exactly what it is. These hos don't know what toxic is
@electrowayne2918
@electrowayne2918 8 ай бұрын
💯 Toxic to them is either: - I didn’t get what I wanted - Thinks the grass is greener on the other side of their inbox It’s there get out of jail free card without taking responsibility.
@rafaelpuente4016
@rafaelpuente4016 3 ай бұрын
this man was a beacon to the black community and people mostly women cheered when he passed
@phillipj_007
@phillipj_007 2 жыл бұрын
"Wow" - A poster child for everything KS speaks about.
@benanders4412
@benanders4412 2 жыл бұрын
The first woman provided a great opportunity. It's really how most modern Western women think. {not just black women} Kevin only had to point out the obvious. Or at least what's obvious to us men. These women seem to have no idea. They simply project their own feelings and wishes on to men.
@7reload777
@7reload777 2 жыл бұрын
I think he answered his question with this show 😅🤦🏾‍♂️
@MrAlex0623
@MrAlex0623 2 жыл бұрын
We’ve been seeing how important “D” discipline is
@Relle.
@Relle. 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@BarbiegirlTina
@BarbiegirlTina 2 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂
@jv3music
@jv3music 2 жыл бұрын
I've cleared out all my 304s and it optimized my routine and focus, it works, but it's just a choice
@doggychops7304
@doggychops7304 2 жыл бұрын
@@jv3music damn straight brother
@dsimmon20
@dsimmon20 2 жыл бұрын
STI? No thanks.
@sweetascandykelley
@sweetascandykelley 7 ай бұрын
Oh dear Kevin, Samuel, I just found your podcast, I’m so glad that someone is like you are out here trying to educate these young black women and young women in general. I really appreciate you. Please keep up the good work will always have your back and it’s much-needed, much appreciated, our community and the world.❤❤❤❤
@daze77gaming
@daze77gaming 5 ай бұрын
He passed away sadly
@Jay-dawg337
@Jay-dawg337 4 ай бұрын
I’ve been binge watching his videos lately and I realized what a missed opportunity to ask an OG for advice. I would gladly ask for individual counseling at this point in my life. I’m 39 and would have loved to get the answers I need and go straight to the results. I have no problem with work ethic and learning from all sources.
@Nabo42
@Nabo42 2 жыл бұрын
"Toxic is a buzzword that women throw around like men throw around entrepreneur"
@neilnewton4427
@neilnewton4427 2 жыл бұрын
Lol😂👍🏾
@willia3r
@willia3r 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Total pop culture stuff. It’s like a habit, people do it naturally and don’t even realize it or think deeply on it, if they think on it at all🤔
@meddeck
@meddeck 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. So true!
@Mae-rr5ye
@Mae-rr5ye 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha YES 😆
@realjcoop182
@realjcoop182 2 жыл бұрын
NOT even close. Women throw around the word toxic way more. Worst part is they are the toxic ones 🤣
@08Coolster
@08Coolster 3 жыл бұрын
That first caller reminded me of my ex fiance. Thank the Most High we didn't gett married or it would have been terrible, she didn't want to be a wife either
@rodplays3726
@rodplays3726 2 жыл бұрын
Why is this comment 3 months ago now im lost
@hebrew26commandmentspower55
@hebrew26commandmentspower55 2 жыл бұрын
Shalom brother! ..... Hope your doing good ... All praises!
@RandomPerson-nd2ey
@RandomPerson-nd2ey 2 жыл бұрын
@@rodplays3726 In short, KZbin is confused. Long version, some programmer put a ":" instead of a ";" or something goofy like that. I'm learning it myself right now and simple things like that can cause weird glitches that cause a domino effect with unpredictable consequences.
@rodplays3726
@rodplays3726 2 жыл бұрын
@@RandomPerson-nd2ey lmao thank you that made me laugh i dont know why
@ProdigyAced
@ProdigyAced 2 жыл бұрын
Ayo wthell we got a time traveler in the chat!
@marlenahall590
@marlenahall590 Жыл бұрын
back in the day, by the time we graduated high school, we were self sufficient. we were able to sew, cook, bake,do laundry, and when we went off to college, we had dual majors too. Usually by the 4th year we were cuffed (engaged). After graduation, we were married to our college beau. if we were still single after college, we relied on relatives, friends, socials and parties to meet him or her.
@bomanpu
@bomanpu Жыл бұрын
The first boy looking female ranked herself high. She knows that she is a 2.
@astriverofstrengthandknowledge
@astriverofstrengthandknowledge Жыл бұрын
Kevin saying marriage not being about partnership but instead duty and responsibility was an eye opener. I think that’s a line more young men should also hear.
@solusaldrain
@solusaldrain Жыл бұрын
Men hear about the duties of marriage from a young age. What men fail to see from a young age are incentives to be married. Women are told about the benefits of marriage but they aren't told of the responsibilities (duties) required of them to maintain the position.
@devaughnbean5936
@devaughnbean5936 Жыл бұрын
Like solus said as young men we already taught dat its yall that find it surprising
@dawit12k58
@dawit12k58 8 ай бұрын
@@solusaldraindamn that was perfectly said never thought of that great comment.
@hydroblast2209
@hydroblast2209 6 ай бұрын
Men understand that it's duty . Women leave the relationships. That's the point he was making
@J040PL7
@J040PL7 2 жыл бұрын
Kevin tells her school didn't help her, and her response is she can go again? 😅 second times the charm right.
@myerst52
@myerst52 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@anthonyrab9468
@anthonyrab9468 2 жыл бұрын
She will find her futur husband at school = she will return riding the Cc
@arai6147
@arai6147 2 жыл бұрын
The 8th year is the charm
@akerevic7676
@akerevic7676 2 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha
@dodgybob5110
@dodgybob5110 2 жыл бұрын
I think Kevin has run out of actresses. I say that, because this EXACT CONVERSATION happened before with THIS woman! I remember, because this was one of the first vids of his I watched. Clearly his sales grift is on point
@vaughngibson492
@vaughngibson492 8 ай бұрын
This man has opened my eyes to what my worth is … completely changed my perspective thus, enabling me to subsequently improved my quality of life. RIP.
@TheTheae06
@TheTheae06 11 ай бұрын
That’s the whole gender now though. “I’ll act right when i feel like it”
@eternall808
@eternall808 2 жыл бұрын
KS: Philly got some of the worst women in the world. Guest: Am I one of them? KS: So far, you're right on par. 🤣
@BrokeMillionaire1
@BrokeMillionaire1 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@MRHEEL-ys2rq
@MRHEEL-ys2rq 2 жыл бұрын
Look at Amber Rose, she might be the finest one that has came out of there... And Thats scary
@DJSpotG
@DJSpotG 2 жыл бұрын
@@MRHEEL-ys2rq what about eve???
@MRHEEL-ys2rq
@MRHEEL-ys2rq 2 жыл бұрын
@@DJSpotG Thats not exactly a good promotion of Philly women when you have to mention her.. Shes not hot, not at all.. Amber was her best when she dated Kanye.. When he dropped her, that was the end
@clasijasi
@clasijasi 2 жыл бұрын
@@MRHEEL-ys2rq I think I am 😍
@TheNegrodamus89
@TheNegrodamus89 2 жыл бұрын
If a man made 100k a year and had to choose between marrying her or being single, why would he choose her over his peace of mind lol
@LAZLOUFORIA1379
@LAZLOUFORIA1379 2 жыл бұрын
​@@ColonelHoganStalag13 That could be the ultimate question " Why should I reward you with a relationship when you have nothing to offer and everything to lose ? " .
@kimciszek-kane397
@kimciszek-kane397 11 күн бұрын
True dat!
@ChefBurns1
@ChefBurns1 8 ай бұрын
Damn I miss Kevin. Whenever I’m feeling down I put on his Chanel. Sucks I didn’t discover him before he passed. But I’m glad he’s still here in spirit
@Nohname
@Nohname Жыл бұрын
This whole video is true . "Men have to become and woman have to be" from start to finish he's speaking truthful.
@kimciszek-kane397
@kimciszek-kane397 11 күн бұрын
Agree❤
@BecauseReasonsReviews
@BecauseReasonsReviews 2 жыл бұрын
"The ring's just a placeholder," she says. Yea, she's definitely looking for a bigger, better deal than what the current guy offers.
@Emgee101
@Emgee101 2 жыл бұрын
Yes that's indeed what that meant. Damn! The meaning of that statement just flew over my head. Good catch.
@ditttch
@ditttch 2 жыл бұрын
good catch, that is exactly what she meant
@Regenerationforblackfamilies
@Regenerationforblackfamilies 2 жыл бұрын
Say what you want Kevin is filling in for many father's. I saulte you KEVIN THIS IS AN IMPORTANT WORK.
@kimciszek-kane397
@kimciszek-kane397 11 күн бұрын
Agree
@jasonsterling4129
@jasonsterling4129 Жыл бұрын
I wonder how many women, look back at what an ass they made out of themselves in front of millions of people trying to debate Kevin!
@johnabraham9784
@johnabraham9784 2 жыл бұрын
The god father is still…. UNDEFEATED!!!!
@SaveYourselfGents
@SaveYourselfGents 2 жыл бұрын
Logical process, intelligent forethought & balls will never lose. Sorry.
@lukemoore2166
@lukemoore2166 2 жыл бұрын
@@SaveYourselfGents expansive vocabulary and articulate speech
@ransavage4194
@ransavage4194 2 жыл бұрын
120-0 out here and going!
@jayay5881
@jayay5881 2 жыл бұрын
“Philly has some of the worst women in the world” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀☠️☠️☠️
@kingboss2158
@kingboss2158 2 жыл бұрын
I'm from Philly he ain't lying 😂😂😂😂
@Iambelon
@Iambelon 2 жыл бұрын
WOW!! I’m a southern girl. If I ever become single…I’ll move there. Be sweet. And be peace to me a Philly man.
@keemiejenkins4069
@keemiejenkins4069 2 жыл бұрын
I lost it when he said that cause its true 😖😖😂😂😂😂
@mallavetti
@mallavetti 2 жыл бұрын
Facts. I'm from north philly.
@shakeelmuhammad2050
@shakeelmuhammad2050 2 жыл бұрын
Think they bad come to newark nj
@realjamicandani9023
@realjamicandani9023 Жыл бұрын
Bro this man open my eyes it's hard to hear what he is saying but I have to listen I am learning.
@elvingallard7255
@elvingallard7255 8 ай бұрын
Mr. Samuels said something powerful ."Stop dating these women that you don't have a task for outside of sex." Your woman is supposed to be your help mate if you don't have a task for her she's not a wife.
@gearienoxcuses3936
@gearienoxcuses3936 2 жыл бұрын
Deep down she is scared about how her Mom had to take care of her dad and doesn't want that for herself so she doesn't allow herself to become attached to a man by way of self sabotage. Her Mom had her hands full taking care of her Dad and might have been scared herself thus unknowing scared her daughter. She needs to look at how strong her Mom was and get counseling to address the things she either didn't pick up or wasn't taught. I feel for her.
@sanchezfaust5983
@sanchezfaust5983 2 жыл бұрын
Wow I love it
@evettashuler4490
@evettashuler4490 2 жыл бұрын
I agree that her mom was busy with caring for her dad. Thus, she did not get to see their relationship before her dad got sick. Obviously, her parents loved each other greatly. But, she did not focus on the love, loyalty, respect and honor that her mom and dad had for each other. A love like that will give one strength to care for a sick Loved One. I hope that their daughter will not run from that type of love and that type of committed relationship out of fear that something will happen.
@bluehunnids887
@bluehunnids887 2 жыл бұрын
Her seeing her mom taking care of her dad never leaving even after it gets tuff should be a good thing not bad that should heal you not scar you
@travisjones5576
@travisjones5576 2 жыл бұрын
She was definitely traumatized about that part of her life because of her negative thought process.. that’s why she needs to talk to a counselor or therapist..
@TheMrgoodmanners
@TheMrgoodmanners 2 жыл бұрын
What if she gets sick??
@sws2808
@sws2808 2 жыл бұрын
I finally have a solid plan at 29 years old. After getting a useless degree, having a failed engagement, and earning two low trade skills. Kevin gives the fatherly wisdom I just recently discovered in books. Shout out to Robert Greene and Dave Ramsey. Men, even if you wanted your 20s its not too late to put in the work to have better 30s.
@lazuligrotto5674
@lazuligrotto5674 2 жыл бұрын
What trade or business did u learn or start?
@streetknowledge8096
@streetknowledge8096 2 жыл бұрын
Add Esther Vilar Manipulated Man. That's a manifesto for all guys.
@davidtimus4026
@davidtimus4026 2 жыл бұрын
You are correct Brother. Stay on your purpose. No matter what. I'm in my early 50s, and I can offer you encouragement from the other side. Good luck.
@sws2808
@sws2808 2 жыл бұрын
@@lazuligrotto5674 EMT and LMT.
@plot229
@plot229 2 жыл бұрын
I started from scratch at 33, now 5 years later I’m at 6 figures ....but it takes work and sacrifice, I stopped smoking weed, and got serious about a career and earning certifications
@user-sz6mo3rt7x
@user-sz6mo3rt7x 3 ай бұрын
You couldn't pay me any amount of money to be with any of these childish unfemine women.
@PriestNation-jz4tn
@PriestNation-jz4tn Жыл бұрын
Out of love there's a deep felt compassionate combo of despair and prayer for mental decontamination of these truly spell casted sisters
@577WRENCHMAN
@577WRENCHMAN 2 жыл бұрын
She rolled her eyes at the things that were actually attributes, proving that cooking and cleaning are things that she doesnt want to do. I was literally laughing out loud.
@TheFurAnk
@TheFurAnk 2 жыл бұрын
So sad
@meshaydenise
@meshaydenise 2 жыл бұрын
And that should be taught as a child.. you should wanna have a good home cooked meal and a clean home after the person who provides for the home comes in.. my gma taught me at least that
@justinmarshall868
@justinmarshall868 Жыл бұрын
Right! Im like cooking for your man is a good thing. But she isn't thrilled about it lol she definitely doesn't want marriage
@PraiseThaDon
@PraiseThaDon 11 ай бұрын
You can see Kevin shake his head when her funky ahh rolled her eyes.
@eyeamawake
@eyeamawake 2 жыл бұрын
Gents… always be weary of a woman who says “I can be supportive.” This is a very narcissistic thing to say. It means they will only support you on their terms. Even their support of you will always circle back to being about them.
@reuben3157
@reuben3157 2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately wasted a cpl of years with someone who was exactly like this
@Weekenday
@Weekenday 2 жыл бұрын
I'm currently dealing with someone like this
@kirbyaugustine761
@kirbyaugustine761 2 жыл бұрын
True indeed. All of their support is conditional while they expect unconditional support from you. It’s a losing proposition being with a woman like this.
@eyeamawake
@eyeamawake 2 жыл бұрын
@@kirbyaugustine761 imagine not paying any bills until you were completely satisfied by every thing she did. no one wants to talk about that
@Edmures_rampant_manhood
@Edmures_rampant_manhood 2 жыл бұрын
@@eyeamawake I COULD pay the mortgage, but you're gonna have to step your head game up🤷🏽‍♂️
@district120music5
@district120music5 Жыл бұрын
How she ain’t know that her mother was supposed to teach her how to keep a husband???? Our sisters need MGT and GCC classes frfr
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