You'll Never See Relationships The Same

[@Ms_Introvert_4_Life]

If you can find someone where this bond can genuinely be created, you've been given a blessing.

[@bridgetwale-akinlua717]

a very big blessing

[@trish9768]

True but they go out side there race I'm trying understand y yall can't give that same energy to a brown woman it's millions that's single who do not have to go outside the race because it's men out here most need counseling bad

[@tiffanybrown419]

Definitely 🙌🙏

[@MsLMB88]

@@trish9768love don’t know the boundaries of race that’s closed mindedness

[@trish9768]

@MsLMB88 Let me be clear I didn't say only one race I simply ask why not a brown girl you can be with whomever but y not a brown gurl it's just A question I ask and I Can ask that question because it's alot of them Single beautiful in all shades that's look down upon because of there skin color that's all that's it

[@loniwatson8110]

I agree, nothing is more peaceful than a hardworking committed, secure relationship. To be truly accepted and loved is where you flourish.

[@nanettematthews2264]

They talked about the benefits of being in a harmonius relationship in the Book Think amd Grow Rich. I think it is Chapter 8. It's called sex transmutation. The author said this dynamic accelerates your wealth manifestation exponentially. Of course when the relationship is harmonious.

[@Redkrovvy]

I didn’t know this was possible until I met my husband, who is the most wonderful and kind person, and it feels like home every time I see him. I didn’t know what that was like until I met him. I learn about him all the time and he learns about me too. It’s actually quite nice.

[@TheJuicy1206]

Secure and harmonious are the key words.

[@jair8808]

@@nanettematthews2264 Sexual transmutation is the process of redirecting sexual energy into another form, such as creative efforts. It involves intentionally building up sexual energy and then channeling it into something else instead of releasing it physically.

[@No-way-oneway]

Beautiful 🩷

[@corinelafont8659]

And that's why waiting is worth it!

[@KayBrookLyN]

👆🏽💯💯💯💯💯💯💯👑

[@mayracolon4260]

Loyalty is the key to a good relationship and respect .

[@sandrajohnson8227]

Preach

[@jasonarnold6271]

😂😂

[@SamanthaJames-d4j]

Communication

[@ohreally4758]

@@mayracolon4260 Black Males are not known for being loyalty. The whole world has watched them betray their own community, the womb that birthed them into existence, and now themselves.....the word "loyal" should never be used in a sentence with "black males"

[@ohreally4758]

@@mayracolon4260 It's too bad black males are not known for being loyal 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@MzZspontaneity]

Yes! This is so right! My husband says this all the time. He tells me he has been in love with different versions of me since we got married. And in a few days it will be 16 years married for us! To God be all the Glory, Honor, and Praise! 🙌🏽❤️🙏🏽

[@kimberlyowens5496]

Many blessings 🙌 next month, 18 years and counting.

[@erintherapy]

"in love with different versions of me"... This is a magical and wise perspective!

[@chandradevance2969]

Thank you for sharing your story, how amazing.

[@tessa67]

Love this idea that he tells you that he does. Thats beautiful to me. I pray you both continue your amazing journey together always. ❤😊

[@maureeno5486]

Amen and Shalom🙏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏽

[@adeona5202]

I don't have this strong desire for companionship like a lot of people do. More power to you all. I have no friends and no enemies. No fear of betrayal. I believe this deep desire and pursuit of love is a real thing. But I truly feel like a solitary life is much easier.. Peace and Love 🙏🏾

[@mic396]

Like your comment ... I just want be myself an keep rediscovering who I am ,, i can do great work alone .. but i do love plp... sometimes ... 🌻 🌺🌺🌹

[@SelenaSecretShow]

What if you found another person that was just like you?

[@asiadp]

It is easier to stay single but the things worth having usually are the hardest to get. Enjoy your journey 🫶🏾

[@adeona5202]

@@SelenaSecretShow To be honest, I've thought about that and I'm pretty sure that's the only type of person I'd even consider being with.

[@adeona5202]

@@asiadp You are absolutely right. But me personally I value my peace of mind and freedom over pursuing love. There is genuine love in the nuclear family I came from and I have a 19 yr old son with whom I've maintained a very close relationship. If I could get that same type of transparent energy and sense of belonging from a woman on this earth, then maybe I could be open to it. But it has to be assured.. I know there are no guarantees in life for the most part but that's the only way I'll entertain it. I don't want it that much to pursue it at the expense of my peace; my haven. At least I've reproduced. Enjoy your journey as well. ✌🏾

[@GT-0524]

“Finding them all over again… rediscover them everyday”…. That’s heart warming and not everyone has that mindset. More marriages would have been kept if many of us were raised with that mindset.

[@Coachnaimah]

So beautifully accurate 🎉

[@louistabaruka1866]

Trust me...Easier said than Done,Its hardwork!Women are so Emotional.

[@rabiyarazaq5070]

​@louistabaruka1866, why are we us women's so emotional? And how can we improve this? Men's advice on us women's on the emotional effects please

[@MelissaMahaley]

Beautifully said. True bc ppl change. We ain't robots❤

[@houariabekhira1529]

Absolut, sehe ich genauso so😊, leider wollen nicht mehr viele kämpfen, stattdessen holen sie sich die nächstbeste, weil es einfacher ist.Das Problem ist auch der Materialismus Narzissmus ist in den letzten Jahren gestiegen, einfach traurig 😢.

[@kristinroberson1208]

"And I want that same grace for me". I felt that! ❤

[@lisajames4755]

I did too in my soul

[@JeddahMuhammed]

Sure

[@christinaduplessis2997]

Me too

[@RachelPanton-j3v]

Me too!

[@Kym-s2t]

😊💛😊💛🇨🇦Gods grace !

[@Huntress_fx]

👏👏👏 that's y I'm not throwing myself at any man, I'm staying sexually faithful to my husband EVEN B4 meeting him, and meanwhile, am so building myself financially, spiritually and socially❤️

[@thrillazdc9321]

Were u supposed to throw urself to everyone you meet before?

[@rianelson5032]

​@@thrillazdc9321this applies to both men and women, the bible says one man for a woman and vice versa unless your spouse died!

[@manifesting5000]

Yesss👏👏

[@Huntress_fx]

@@manifesting5000 yep!

[@Huntress_fx]

@@thrillazdc9321 I didn't say every, I said ANY.... Get the difference

[@allhailthequeen906]

He's right on it! The Bible declares that He that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing AND OBTAINS FAVOR WITH GOD!! JUST PERIODT ‼️

[@kaliblue]

🙄

[@Dudiesdude]

​@@kaliblue😹😹😹🍻

[@BLKfootIndian]

I wish ppl tell women what she get out of it! Men want marriage women want an exit!

[@kaliblue]

@@BLKfootIndian stop reaching bro

[@SavoryPlate]

Amen

[@kimlogan1278]

You are absolutely right. Most guys that run all over the place are very unstable to be with.

[@shayemoore]

And dirty walking diseases with mental issues. They are also poor. And they have kids that hate them. These men end up alone and lonely, and when they're all washed up, no woman wants them.

[@RR-zl8pg]

Wouldn't the same apply with women?

[@simplyredislandgirl]

​@@RR-zl8pgNope!

[@drmichellefacaros8097]

Love from afar! All you can do is pray for them. Be action oriented and proactive!

[@Diarrheagod]

@@RR-zl8pgyes

[@OlaAdebunmi]

I have always said this! People that are in a healthy committed relationship do much more better financially and in other aspects of life. They have each other to rely on.

[@loloqueenbeing]

Truth...because REAL RELATIONSHIPS TAKE DISCIPLINE! Many men (people) lack the discipline necessary to focus long enough on one woman. Many now days are too busy trying to look "cool" (worldly). These men also waste their lives chasing the wrong things without stability. Unfortunately, some don't realize until their lives are over. Some not at all. 🙏🏾 for wisdom in your youth, so this doesn't happen to future generations. ✊🏽🙏🏾❤ 👑

[@dodgeponey5170]

Yes💛

[@asia9569]

Yes

[@Salissa_888]

SO TRUE❤

[@yvonnedelories4780]

❤❤❤❤❤❤ preeeeach! DISCIPLINE!!

[@reggaenice123]

This remarks would generate more sincere support if MEN AND WOMEN Were both held accountable as supposed to men waste their time. The same can be said about WOMEN wasting away their youth with countless unproductive baby daddy’s then in their older age they self reflect and want a Russel Wilson but a FITURE capture their soul and attention when they were young, non Toxic and their reproductive systems in full bloom. Common now. It takes TWO to tango.

[@rodneybethune2215]

Relationships can't grow without change. Amen! ❤

[@Salissa_888]

Change for the BETTER!

[@crystalthow5533]

We should not want to change anyone! We fell in love with them because of how they are, why should they change? We should try to " adapt " to one another. Both sides. Men and women

[@SaniyoEmmmanuel_leadership]

@@crystalthow5533know I think relationships still needs change because we all have different mindset and we different in blood so for us to have a perfect relationship we need to change some habits so that we can adapt together

[@crystalthow5533]

@@SaniyoEmmmanuel_leadership if anyone want someone to change for them , i think this is selfish. But of course like you said,everyone thinks different. I do not want to change anyone so that it would make me happy, i want him to be happy too, not just me me me

[@SaniyoEmmmanuel_leadership]

@@crystalthow5533 I understand you perfectly well I thought of this that’s why I broke up with my ex because of some character issues and religion standards too but to me if you really want to be in a relationship their some settings things you need to change in other to make it work cause we are dealing with two different people here

[@VWHNeal1018]

Changing, growing and evolving. Never stop.

[@houariabekhira1529]

Yes❤

[@desirehunter]

I admire his commitment of rediscovering his wife all over again. In marriage, there is an adjustment. In that moment, it would be helpful if both people accept the change that is happening.

[@dogsalwaysbarkatbetamaleswoof]

Most people already know this. A house divided cannot stand. If you are all over the place, you can’t flourish. No one wants to make a sacrifice is the real issue.

[@CarrieFinley-g1m]

I would venture to say most don’t know this. Especially when you look at how people operate. I think they learn this when they enter a fulfilling relationship.

[@dogsalwaysbarkatbetamaleswoof]

⁠​⁠@@CarrieFinley-g1m I could agree if we were talking about young people with little to no life experience. Other than that, if you don’t know what’s good for you, it’s because you are willfully ignorant. There’s no excuse. And by being this way, you can’t absorb life’s lessons. Life teaches you everything you need to know by hook or by crook.

[@Zanyelle]

And if we don’t change (mindset) there will be no evolvement. Change is a requirement for abundance. We all change with time and if you’re not changing with the times then you will remain stuck.

[@blacksongbird100]

I think he's referring to single men who are ruled by a lustful spirit when he mentions scattered. It's difficult to reach a certain level of purpose and abundance when you lack discipline.

[@vannieroumelia4901]

He just explained my relationship, I speak to my sister about this all the time. Upon discovering my husband’s infidelity things went down hill for him in every way possible and yet he still does not see it. There is something about a man persevering his seed for one woman, even if you are not a Christian this principle lives so imagine if you are a believer and put TMH first. Just my observation of being in a long term relationship with the same person, unfortunately he lacked self awareness and discipline, I find that is the downfall of most BLACK MEN I KNOW.

[@smp1556]

Agree 👍 grounding . Good woman or man holds you to focus ,purpose, and supports you mutually. You cannot do that scattered all over in options and non comital. Realtionships are work, but with the right person can be your lifes best work. Ty wise man

[@lovelyT14]

So true, a person changes as they get older. You have to constantly pursue and get to know that person. Love this💜

[@RR-zl8pg]

I have to disagree with this. If I have to constantly get to know the person I'm with that becomes a problem. Usually you're with someone because of who they are and if they are constantly changing that becomes an identity crisis. Now if we're talking about adapting and growing those are two separate things.

[@Bananerbread]

I think i agree with you too, like i understand people change overtime and the person you with longterm won't be exactly the same as you met them but there's something about how he is sayin it that i don't agree with either, hmm not able to explain why tho

[@rianelson5032]

@@RR-zl8pg exactly, seems like a mental issue to me🤔

[@melb8352]

Someone once said, "People choose the love they think they deserve." Truer words on relationships have never been spoken❤️‍🔥

[@jilliantatum769]

Yes and no.

[@Dr.Sharron]

I guess he wants to know what it is like being a Whte man, so he married a Whte woman. He is lying.

[@imaggie2298]

Having observed the photos of this man and his mate, it is completely understandable why he appears so child-like and effeminate. And after listening to him, as he states that he still does not 'know' his own wife, she apparently knows him quite well. Poor BM 😳 always seeking 'grace' from among his oppressors. So pitiful. These 'billionaires' of which he speaks are in committed relationship with their own, whom I assume they know very well.

[@melb8352]

​@@jilliantatum769 isn't everything?😂

[@melb8352]

​@@imaggie2298touche

[@jamiebratton4734]

😁. So true. Abundance is in a healthy relationship. Someone to challenge you, who you challenge. Acceptance in failures and celebration in success. When you have someone to “belong” to, risks are easier to take, work is less tiring, and rest is more restorative.

[@moniquejerry1624]

He’s absolutely right. Relationship is very important. Reality is, we need each other.

[@nicceym337]

❤😊

[@AllthingsHealth_]

We need Jesus

[@rianelson5032]

@@moniquejerry1624 not really, people don't have to be in a relationship if they don't want to...

[@Kemysticguidance]

This is so true. Being married for 24 years it’s amazing seeing the growth in my husband. He definitely has helped me grow in many ways.

[@autumnbrooke1721]

This makes me want to cry … still haven’t found my person .. but so touched that they have and inspired by this sentiment ❤

[@Ryka1100]

Having that one person who sees you and is willing to fight along side you is such a beautiful gift, that is far to often taken for granted. You get out what you put in. That soul connection takes constant work.

[@Just_a_girl_in_the_world]

@@samjon6403you sound bitter. I hope you heal the hurt inside that makes you think that way. I will pray for you.

[@stacycampbell1314]

Im sorry that happened to you but this "she" is going to stick beside him. I will say im not too sorry because the woman of your dreams is waiting and wont abandon you when the going gets rough ​@samjon6403

[@brendarewan7441]

The Bible puts it this way. You reap what you sow.

[@jasonarnold6271]

​@@brendarewan7441sometimes... And sometimes shit just happens

[@ljackson24]

I’ve been saying this for years. I’d hear men talk about all of their career goals and how they’re going to become this millionaire, but then they turn around & say they don’t want to get married or be in a real relationship. I’d always tell them they don’t want to be a millionaire then. I even know business owners who refuse to go into partnership with someone who’s not married. The credentials are secondary. This guy in the video is 100% correct. You could still achieve that high level of success but the chances of you doing it are beyond slim. Thanks for sharing!

[@jasonarnold6271]

No OPINION can be 100% fact 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@ljackson24]

@@jasonarnold6271 I’m not sure what your point is exactly. Myself and the guy in the video are saying the same thing. Yes, it COULD happen, but the FACT is it’s highly unlikely. Do you not understand what we’re saying? 🤔

[@No-way-oneway]

​@@ljackson24Right. Very good point. The whole thing got me looking at relationships in a more profound way.

[@EphraimAkoto]

We still aint failking for the alimony marriage tricks would rather earn six figures with oeace in my bedroom than be a millionaire in marriage 😂. Peace over everything

[@ljackson24]

@@EphraimAkoto I’m not sure what you’re saying exactly. Do you think that you could somehow be successful in business and you couldn’t have a successful marriage? I mean, why are you taking about alimony??? I’m sorry, I’m just very confused by your comment. Of course you have the right to your own preference, but can you elaborate on exactly what your comment means please?

[@lesliebean4594]

Blessings to both of you for sharing this. This is so profound and so eloquently put.

[@sheritownsend5359]

This is beautiful. The problem is too many people don'y know how to find and build that kind of relationship.

[@Passionatelyfruits]

It's about building with that other person

[@bridgettebianca2318]

That’s because most people never even take the time to know themselves(self-awareness) If they don’t know who they are, they definitely won’t know who to take with them..

[@kimmiet.8962]

@@bridgettebianca2318this is it 🙌🏾🫶🏽

[@tessw9744]

Yep going from one person to another is one of many signs of no commitment. Diligence and commitment are needed for success. And let's be real, love makes us happy.

[@jasonarnold6271]

😂 ONLY love I ever felt was from family 😂

[@tessw9744]

@@jasonarnold6271 Not sure why never getting love from anyone but family is funny, but okay.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@stonecity1582]

This is genuine & honest and sooo True Wowwwww "Powerful" advice Never believe you know each other always strive to find something New in Each other Every Day ❤

[@makhaniarcane]

You can have everything in the world, but it all would seem pointless If you have no one to share it with.

[@angellight5040]

💚💗🩵❤️🙏🙂

[@nolubynature9513]

❤

[@arniciahall7737]

@@makhaniarcane beautifully said! Amen😇

[@jasonarnold6271]

Disagree... but

[@donnewkirk2051]

I'm not so sure about that.

[@celli6501]

I agree. There's nothing more powerful and than two brains supporting and backing each other thru it all. ❤

[@flomiller6175]

Bravo you nailed it. I love your videos with you and your family. Stay grounded in the light bro!🎉😊Peace!

[@icedfullmoon1573]

Indeed.💯 I love seeing a man think, do, speak & live as a man. Bravo! King 👏

[@hilariosuarez3471]

Because true happiness puts you in the right frequency to alignment and alignment is pure abundance. Love this.

[@lorrainebrett7765]

Indeed

[@maureeno5486]

Real King talk right there👑 As a black Woman, I love seeing our Men realising and acting as Kings. Absolutely beautiful and amazing that there are workshops as well. Loving this….. Beside every great Man is his supportive Queen.❤💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯%

[@CopperMoon4747]

That's beautiful truth! Too many people out here are just playing with life and it never ends well.

[@JMarie-th8xe]

👏 👏 👏

[@faebrowne2537]

While I agree with him, I also can’t disagree with family members who have been married for over 50years. They all credit it to knowing each other inside out. It makes them feel safe. Not my words theirs. One of my uncles said his wife is ‘home’. It’s where he always wants to be, always wants to return to. The safety and familiarity. There are different things that will make a relationship work or not. I’m glad this man understands what works for his marriage.❤

[@ellesimprovementchannel1740]

So is he promoting or stagnating her growth? How does she feel about that?

[@jasonarnold6271]

My mom's & pops were the same. People ARE creatures of habit. Even when people grow/change if you are attuned with them you wouldn't be surprised because you would notice from the beginning a new stage of maturity developing

[@ZANAHEALING]

Thank you for being a beautiful sincere example for the masculine ❤

[@Brooke-zq7se]

A family gives men a purpose. I love seeing that from my husband, it is his drive.

[@GameN3rdz]

I see

[@jasonarnold6271]

🤔 so without family, men have no purpose? Just asking for clarity. You realize historically til now, statistically speaking - MOST men will NEVER be fortunate enough to sire children ? 😂 Guess MOST of us never had a purpose

[@Random-rs9bl]

Lol

[@rhysenfyneix7864]

Family is one avenue for purpose but it's better when a man's purpose is distinct from his role as a husband and father. It's more stable that way, as evidenced by the hundreds of thousands of men who self delete due to divorce and loss of access to their kids. Priests, monks, and other spiritual leaders fulfill purpose without marriage or kids.

[@kaliblue]

​@rhysenfyneix7864 🙄

[@alafiamedina5974]

He has it properly sorted. Men need to explore, women need to be explored. The pure commitment produces a divinely created universe. ❤

[@DECEPTICON33]

@@alafiamedina5974 I don't know where he said that it was like men need to explore in women need to be explored know where did he say any of that that is so fabricated in your own feeble mind. If anything both parties need to explore each other it's an equal partisan so therefore you make no sense in your one-sided viewpoint even in your so-called soliloquy of emotional awareness you still find some way to slide it in your favor that selfishness in and of itself. That is a trace of narcissism.

[@adriannaaguilar898]

@@DECEPTICON33I think he meant what u said: they explore each other. At least that’s how I interpreted it. Men explore their woman and the woman need to be explored by their man.

[@YvetteFranklin-r8j]

Amen Blessings Thank You 🛐

[@MelonieNeves-xu7vo]

I agree with him! What he’s saying is if you jump from person to person there’s nothing special about you.

[@maximalzufrieden1349]

He talks about much more.

[@loki88_87]

Naahhhh I think you missed the message sweet pea.

[@ladyofspa]

​@@loki88_87not sweet pea😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ladyofspa]

🤣🤣 listen again

[@innocentlife2346]

You sound very foolish, He didn't say no nonsense like that at all. Go cop with your healing. Smh✍️🤔💬📚

[@BeautifulOnes876]

As they say, behind every great man is a GREAT woman, who I add also will stand next to him with her hand in his hand, and should he fall this woman will stand in front (as in she’ll stand in the gap for him, helping to hold down the fort while simultaneously doing everything she can to get him back up on his feet). Thee most successful men in the world KNOW THIS!!! So if you find yourself a good woman whom you know has had your back and SHOWN IT, you’ll know to keep her - and LOVE her by SHOWING IT - and appreciate her, NO disrespect ever. Peace and Love. Or you can choose to be a plum d*mn fool and lose her. Choose wisely. ❤

[@Starseed-VenusRoseNYC]

Yes!! Amen🙏🏽💜✨Thank You God! This is the truth.. we are always growing give each other grace and hold each other space..🙏🏽💜✨

[@donnadavidson5027]

❤ , I am a black female and can't find a "real" who want to be a leader. Cheaters and fake men are everywhere. I think i will never find anyone and i am okay with it.

[@barbarasutton9683]

That which you seek also seeks you...I have faith and know you will find your person...I did, unexpectedly.. 🐝 blessed.

[@GameN3rdz]

You probably turned down a lot of good men that wanted you simply because you wasn't attracted to them

[@jasonarnold6271]

No such thing as a "fake man" but carry on

[@adriannaaguilar898]

@@jasonarnold6271what do u call a man that masks his feelings and avoids communication with his wife? Fake, insecure, fearful, and immature.

[@butterflyshelton3519]

I hope more of our men feel this way about tbe black queens❤

[@barbarasutton9683]

I hope so too!..I have 6 beautiful queenly daughters that need kings!..🖤

[@GameN3rdz]

Race has nothing to do with it

[@jasonarnold6271]

​@@barbarasutton9683😮 six

[@jasonarnold6271]

​@@GameN3rdzdoes race ever matter to you? Curious question.

[@VivSees]

Sick of these lying males

[@WahineToa85]

Wow that was beautiful❤ In this generation most people are scattered and are low vibrational and get involved with people without being whole first and it ends in destruction for one or the other or both. It must be so peaceful and safe having someone with this mindset❤

[@unleashthekeish]

One thing I must give Obama credit for is that he chose a classy educated black woman while he went to HARVARD...no excuses

[@bosstown3003]

Woman?

[@dinao4018]

@@bosstown3003lol, you mean Michael? How do you not know??

[@rosered3919]

Big Mike is a man. Look into it.

[@memp9786]

@@dinao4018ohh stop- this is disgusting. Pray you repent

[@unleashthekeish]

@@dinao4018 I'm not buying into that. It's just another negative rumor about a black family and woman.

[@GiselleHeart]

I think the millionaires and billionaires can just hide their cheating better 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣😂 but I could be wrong ! Congrats and prosperity to the great men that understand how to love one woman !!!! 🙏❤️

[@shamilleramsay9196]

Yes ,they can hide it because they use their money. Social media , people paint a happy life but deep down they are not and if they woman try to leave she will lose everything. So she stay.

[@LoveLifeJoy24]

Watch the Warren Buffet doc... No cheating scandal

[@innocentlife2346]

Exactly! Those are the biggest undercover 🐶

[@BlazeBurna]

Elon musk single with multiple kids, Jeff bezos divorced and single, bill gates divorced and single, tiger woods divorced and single. ALL Billionaires lol

[@StoneyOfficialTV]

​@BlazeBurna You named a bunch of people who have been married though. 😂 I'm almost sure they experienced some type of acceleration during that time. 😊

[@RobinA.Vincent]

It is how I have lived over 30 years. It is real love poured into a soul. It made me break a tear. It really is a beautiful love, when you love at his level. This man has it together ladies. Amen And Hallelujah.

[@loyisomkele1506]

For men. For many women, relationships have set them back

[@raeraejones1287]

Truth men fair better in relationships whereas women don't at all !

[@estherkeeling777]

Women fair in relationships. When they understand what a relationship is supposed to be. People get ideas and think life is supposed to go by their ideas. But life does not work like that. I don't BELIEVE PEOPLE HAVE TO BE REDISCOVERED EVERY DAY. A person changing everyday sounds like something mental going on. Changes over time and situations yes.

[@gerardjones7973]

Most of the time those relationships he is referring to are arrangements for different reason and the absolute minimal of love just ask Elon and Bill Gates

[@johnwu2553]

lol stupid

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

​@estherkeeling777 Married men live longer than single men while single women live longer than married women. Divorced men are more likely to get remarried and more likely to remarry quicker than divorced women.

[@donnawashington4719]

True commitment builds character.

[@PH-pq3vq]

I love this. It feels so good and healing to be with someone who is still intrigued by you

[@JaDeButterfliesAreFree]

I like what my grandparents taught me about relationships. 50 yrs of marriage is a great teacher to us youngins.

[@shh2248]

This is called maturity!

[@lilu2830]

Oooo 😯😯 He is speaking facts right here. He is saying a word today! lol That’s SO true. We tend to grow more as ppl when we are with the right ppl for that particular season in our life. And would make sense for married couples who grow together

[@louiseerbslisbjerg7854]

Most dont have it in them. They cant be bothered to engage, un-less you stay the exact same, evrn with the responsibility of a home, children etc. Of course you change. But most men cant accept it. They want the same, un-changed woman; Physically, emotionelly... no room for the changes life brings you.

[@jgamble482]

And the flip side is women who are millionaires and billionaires aren't married because it's in their peace that they were able to create, succeed, and exceed their expectations and goals. The support they would've had for men, they put it in themselves for the EXACT same reasons you mentioned and More.

[@ToniWilson-c4q]

Agree 💯

[@lulumort]

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and gains favor in the eyes of the Lord. Note: not FWB,ONS, girlfriend, sneaky link....a wife.

[@ddenise8428]

What's FWB & ONS??? 🤔💭

[@SincerelyLeah13]

Yes!!

[@lulumort]

@@ddenise8428 friends with benefits and one night stands. 😃

[@naturalshatara9559]

@@ddenise8428friends with benefits the other I don’t know

[@sithwinch]

​@@ddenise8428 FWB is Friends with benefits. But ONS...no idea.

[@temperancesk84411]

Kia ora, from Aotearoa, NZ. Finally, simpleton compared to 90% of the internet. I love the word accelerated because that is super true! Relationships is for hardships to grow self, be single when needing to rejuvenate. It is really nice to vibe securely, I create magic - and then the polarity is so loud too! Thank you, and keep planting your wisdom. Appreciate it!

[@royalistkellyjones5560]

A sister is not good enough. Wow !! The greatest thing a brother needs to do, is look deeply at the African Queen.

[@MutedMinimalist]

I can’t blame him. This type of mentality is ostracized in the black community. As a bw, most other black people think you’re overthinking it, corny, and boring if you think deep like this. Black community got level up mentality wise.

[@kjm485]

​@@MutedMinimalist What kinda Blk ppl do you know 🤔. You must be referring to the toxic ones that are mainstream. But, many are not toxic.

[@barbarasutton9683]

Yes, our community does need to level up... We do have deep rooted mental health issues, but healing can start one person at a time..Black love/family is so Spiritually strong and powerful..We just need to get it right, without abandoning our community..🖤

[@GameN3rdz]

​unfortunately, that doesn't seem to be possible were to in love with disfunction@barbarasutton9683

[@realestatecoach8626]

I am a black woman and I think like him. My relationship is suffering because my spouse won’t go deep. He is ok with staying on the surface and repeating the same foolishness daily.

[@ladylarson12]

This man is a rare breed. 🙏🏼

[@covertocover2211]

I don’t know if what I think is happening to our world he may be just the beginning of much more beautiful love stories 🎉

[@kenyaharris8421]

I mean RARE as they come!!

[@JustinDonnelly-m5x]

rubbish...90%+ guys dream like this but we wake up after a while...

[@msbronzegoddess3166]

​@@JustinDonnelly-m5xMost are dogs lol

[@fdra1763]

@@JustinDonnelly-m5x The message sounds good, and if you can find someone who cherishes you the way you cherish them growth happens faster coz two heads better than one, but he’s compromised.

[@heavenrose1111]

I just said this! Behind EVERY great man is a greater woman 💯

[@thehealingempath1909]

If more men realized this, the world would be a better place. He is absolutely 💯 spot on!!!! I love this.

[@jasonarnold6271]

😂

[@DECEPTICON33]

@@thehealingempath1909 so you lay the blame at men's feet for not having these type of deeply immersive relationships y'all are so crowded in your own convoluted mindsets and cognitive dissonance as well as your immature emotional imbalances that you will blame anyone but yourselves you do not place no blame on yourself when looking in the mirror and looking for who is the reasoning behind why you make poor choices bad decisions and have lousy judgment. Many of us men would like to reach this level with our women but unfortunately our women hate us to such a degree of magnitude that it blinds them from reality. So miss me with all that talk of "if more men realized" nonsense U-Haul by your bed make your bed and lay in it that's what the universe really works on.

[@thehealingempath1909]

@DECEPTICON33 Most men highest goal is sex with multiple partners. If you could take a moment to pour into your relationship, you would actually understand that abundance truly comes with moral behaviors that require discipline. What benefits have quick sexual encounters given you outside of a path of destruction or bragging rights with fellow dusty Dan's or bottom shelf Brad. Animals can sleep with multiple partners. Are you stating that your intelligence or discipline is not higher than your pet???

[@DECEPTICON33]

@@thehealingempath1909 obviously you're a woman shame insult and The need to be Right seems to be coming off like radiation off this comment that you wrote. And that's very scathing... And obviously you did not read deeper into the points that I was making.

[@thehealingempath1909]

@DECEPTICON33 so my question is why don't you reach that level with your woman? It is a choice to sleep with multiple partners at the same time. Womenn are waking up to the game and men egos are hurt . Ask why is the majority of women passing on relationships??? Because they are non reciprocal.

[@AmandaBasha]

Omg, love love love this so much. Yes, we do change over time. I have and what matters is we are trying to be the best we can be for God and our family’s. No one’s perfect but we should always support each other and understand this. Great point you have here. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Minney-Me]

We live for God in Heaven 🙏🏾❤️ AMEN

[@Zaddy2ToxicLane-b6z]

I'm my best in relationships , I'm more stable & financially intelligent & more self aware ❣️ I love this

[@unique5996]

Thank you for this. It seems society doesn't support love anymore. No one promotes healthy relationships.

[@jasonarnold6271]

Because I personally don't believe it WAS/IS love if it doesn't last

[@ewjomega2596]

As a man who has been very blessed and lucky in my life, i think the reason for that most ultra successful men are in relationships is because of goal setting. When i was in college i was a starter on the football team, i was in a popular fraternity and there were women everywhere. Even after i graduated was still having fun with the ladies up until around the age of 30. What I've noticed with myself, the guys i used to play ball with and even the guys in my fraternity, is that once you decide to get serious about life and start writing down your goals repeatedly, you realize that there is no way that you can be successful and chase tail at the same time. We all relized that we needed to clean up our lives...literally. Clean up our bodies, our homes and our relationships. Lock in with one woman and then get back to work on those goals.

[@bellapaz97]

Literally ❤ pure awareness.....thank you for sharing 💖💖💫

[@Cupcake1731-n4w]

I love this! What a beautiful mind he has so healthy, always a healthy man will show inside & out. Skin hair smell personality, mannerisms,

[@No-way-oneway]

😂😋 Right. Everything

[@SamuelLee-kc3rh]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[@emilyclark-m2g]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

[@SamuelLee-kc3rh]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@emilyclark-m2g]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@SamuelLee-kc3rh]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@queenbubalicious]

​@SamuelLee-kc3rh I'd advise you to seek God instead. With time, the heart will heal. God will send someone else but put energy into loving you more and repair. I've been through hell and back and those people in passing look like people who have lost a treasure untold. You can't make people love you or stay. You need to choose to be happy with or without someone. Hope that makes sense.

[@babyluvjr]

That is a beautiful bond.....I'll admit, when I had it I was too young to realize it....God doesn't make it ez to find again once u ruin what He has once blessed u with...

[@lioness6853]

When 2 people freely give their energy to each other, one amplify ones energy. It's when control drama comes into play that they start to compete with each other for control. That's when they lose each other, because then they start to demand and take.

[@selmenerodriquez6251]

This is beautiful to here. Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤

[@caldoniapatrick7824]

I am so glad that someone believed in a power relationship 🙌💗 God will and Gods way

[@IvalinaPasse]

Marriage is so Beautiful when you have the Right Person Locking in on one man. A Natural Encounter.

[@rue_777]

Thats not natural

[@purplegirl8036]

Always looked at relationships like this which is why I’m single 😅

[@kimmiet.8962]

You aren’t alone.

[@Noneofyourbizness247]

FACTS!!! 🔥🔥🔥 SMART Men know. 😜😎😏👍🏾

[@ceridwenschache9745]

If you work as a team you get twice as much done! Simples.

[@lonniepollard9883]

The snow bunny hopping is real

[@talklesslistenmore5578]

😂😂😂

[@GameN3rdz]

Thinking like that is why you'll stay single race doesn't matter

[@AnnaYAH5315]

No doubt

[@rochellecarpenter8092]

Was that necessary to say do you need a hug from a snow bunny you project pure hate for a flourishing relationship color shouldn't be a factor but for you it is and that's all I need to know about you too want to stay away from you it screams toxicity

[@rochellecarpenter8092]

No followers no pictures thoroughbred troll through and through

[@honorsutton919]

How beautifully put!! The moment I think I know my wife the relationship is over. WOW!!🙌🏽🙏🏽♥️

[@ashonyx1099]

Lord I’m praying for this now and saving this video, I have been trying to put into words the mindset I want for a relationship and this is it. I pray that not only I find this but all the souls who are on your path and will be on your path find this in a partner as well. In the name of Jesus, Amen! 🙏 ❤

[@lisaaaa437]

The depth of this comment is going to hit me later on...and I can't wait ❤

[@ashonyx1099]

@@lisaaaa437 I can’t wait for you! I hope you get the happiness we all deserve! Blessings to you 🙏

[@pocahontas2true]

@ashonyx1099 Thank you so much for your prayers 😇

[@helen_124_user]

Thank you for sharing that perspective. 🙏❤️💪

[@SacredThomas]

@@helen_124_user anytime!

[@sacred.sultry.society]

Beautifully said!! Sacred masculine 🙌🏽

[@siigocrazy]

You never know who you can become or who you will build with the right way!

[@TrapperKeeper999]

❤❤❤

[@vondacook]

If only you could have found the same grace for a black queen!!!!

[@Trapz4Dayz]

If only more black women had the qualities to be a wife!!!!

[@vondacook]

@@Trapz4Dayz You just have to choose better. There may not be an abundant supply,but we do exist.

[@DietrichKennedy]

I knew she wasn’t black, they take chances with other races that the would not with their own, but to each’s own 🙄🙄

[@kimmiet.8962]

@@Trapz4Dayzmost men have no clue how to love a wife like Christ loved the church. Many men don’t know how to be husbands.

[@princesssmalik1]

Right? I thought I was the only one feeling that , smh 🧐

[@tamaralopez5943]

That guy is brilliant!! He is the first man to understand this!!!❤❤❤❤

[@cheedarcheese5283]

My husband was whining and saying , you've changed!!! And i said of course i have...im not the same flighty 20 something...lol

[@Inprogress_of_newbeginings]

And I am convinced that that is the role of us females. We elevate men, because we grow faster than them and they catch up to us. Our role is to keep a soft and compassionate heart, so we don't get reckless with our words and later actions.

[@ellesimprovementchannel1740]

@@Inprogress_of_newbeginings Do you think we have a purpose outside of a romantic relationship?

[@jzurita6186]

​@@ellesimprovementchannel1740 of course by that's not what this topic is about. Men's purpose is more than being a husband/boyfriend and father, but if that were the topic, I'm not going to ask about what else a man should be

[@Inprogress_of_newbeginings]

@ellesimprovementchannel1740 yes, we definitely do. I just zoned in on partner relationships because of the topic in the short. You now have to share why you asked the question... Let's not forget who the most important relationship is with...ourselves first.

[@beatmanmi]

@@Inprogress_of_newbeginingsmen are leaders not followers God first men then women

[@yannascotto8597]

In a relationship, it’s not about finding someone to make you feel better, but it’s about loving each other better together as a team. Loving that person better involves sacrifices. Hope I’m making sense; it’s 1:30 in the morning here! 😅

[@joshuajones4471]

I literally can’t unhear what I just heard. Powerful message. 👌🏾💯

[@heretomakehimknown2183]

Im glad i listened to this! This is where its at!!!

[@Lovelyone1]

Women have been telling men this forever. I have 2 sons and I’ve always told them that they are not a man until they have a household. And I stand on that.

[@jasonarnold6271]

😂 so when do y'all become women? 🧐

[@Lovelyone1]

@@jasonarnold6271 I also tell them that real men don’t concern themselves with women business…..

[@MrYogi339]

That's alot of weight you put on them. Ppl assume that all men can easily get women. What if you are unattractive or are overlooked by women. But have a kind heart, a good job and stable life.. still not a man?

[@houariabekhira1529]

Was ist das für ein scheiß, Mann sollte Mann sein, jeder sollte in seiner Energie bleiben dann klappt es auch 😃

[@rasulsamad5860]

​@Lovelyone1 4 probably and you nor ya momma was married so masculine I feel the single motherness in ya sprit

[@Coco-Kittytheestoryteller]

So glad your’e teaching this Black men need to hear this.. They realize this when they are 70 and broke looking for a wife. Every other race knows this So, Thank You !!!

[@djsaruto6552]

My Black women....😮... nuff said

[@chawnjones7034]

😂

[@Kashmir-lt4cx]

@djaanuto huh, and are you male or female?

[@djsaruto6552]

@@Kashmir-lt4cx female why?

[@TextureTalk1]

🤣

[@nancymarunya7121]

I was so focused on what he was saying until i saw the Caucasian woman. Triggered a traumatic glitch from 400yrs ago. But im ok now tho.

[@JayD402]

I wish more people saw it this way

[@chloeiyekekpolor5272]

Spot on 👏🏾 It’s important to pursue our dreams, cherish loved ones and appreciate every moment we have in our life ❤️

[@ralphhilterbrand2848]

This is so true,those men out there that disrespect their woman don't deserve them to begin with my opinion.

[@cristinalz9395]

Just can't get lazy about trying to make each day a little more special ❤

[@HarrietSchneider-rv9kd]

Thank you for that relationship information you had shared. Awesome 👏 You and yours be Blessed Daily 🕊️🙏❤️🤗

[@catherinehudson7141]

Behind every, strong man, is a strong woman ❤❤simple English

[@SacredThomas]

@@catherinehudson7141 you got that right!

[@msbronzegoddess3166]

Never been Becky for a bm 😂

[@herelookinatu]

Why can't they be strong on their own? Why do they need so much pushing to be better?

[@GameN3rdz]

​@@msbronzegoddess3166hating will get you no where

[@jasonarnold6271]

​@@herelookinatuwhat I was wondering