You owe them .... NOTHING

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[@ricaroanimar6695]

Correction: Except for your kids. You owe a loving, responsible, save raising to your kids. Not like till the end end of time but the very least until they are adults. Plus if they aren't treating u right u probably wanna check how u are raising them. Ps: I meant like actual terrible behavior. Not parents thinking their kids are their servants or have to act and live how they want.

[@FakenameStevens]

Well why limit it to your own children? All children are equal right? I thought it was because kids are too stupid to understand what they should or shouldn't say and should be owed nothing unlike this rubbish on the screen.

[@himamadhusoodan8999]

The question is what do kids owe these parents who provided a loving, responsible, safe environment. What is the definition of treating wrongly? Is expecting your kids to behave responsibly and using the advantages that parents are giving them treating “wrongly”?

[@ricaroanimar6695]

@@himamadhusoodan8999 oh no. I meant if they are like screaming at you, being toxic and entitled. Damage your stuff, steal your shit. Potentiality injuring u. Like really not ok behavior. If your kids do that, u really should ask yourself, why? What did I do, what happened to them. How do I fix this. Ur job is to raise them after all. And I personally think kids don't owe their parents shit for raising the right. I think they are being pricks if they don't help them afterwards, but the parents chose to have the child and thereby has a responsibility. The kid never choose anything, he is owed that loving raising and that's it. He should be cool to them afterwards but it's not an owing them thing.

[@trixielazze189]

So how about if you join a contest or celebrity search programs. And they required you to this and that for you to qualify.

[@the_original_dude]

I never understood grown people listening to their shitty parents talking shit to them, demanding them to do this and that. There are so many people who's whole life revolves around their relatives, they consider "family" to be the most important thing. I personally just took off when it became possible, they don't know where I live or how to contact me, and it's not even because I was treated badly, they're all just random people to me who I happened to grow up with.

[@voidroad]

so they didnt do anything wrong to you , you let them sacrifice their life and free time to take care of you and then peaced out? damn. That is not a flex

[@the_original_dude]

@@voidroad that was their choice, I'm not going to feel guilty for other people's decisions. If they thought of me as an investment, it's on them. I'm not a dog to be attached to someone simply because they fed me.

[@jaleesahevans101]

People say you owe your parents for giving you life. I say i do owe them....with revenge for bringing me into this dumpster fire of a planet filled with evil people.