You're Being Too Loud.. Ft. Spencewuah || Two Hot Takes Podcast || Reddit Reactions

[@maddiesvlogs8319]

“Slash his tires. If he gets new tires do it again.” SPENCER IS KILLING ME 😭😭😭

[@juliannabroadbent2749]

Can we please add Spencer to the rotation of regular co-hosts because his energy and takes are EVERYTHING!!!

[@shaylivesfree]

thisssssss

[@ДиМон-г9ъ]

THAT!!!!

[@They_Are_Human]

PLEASEEEEE

[@NatalieRosee123]

I find his energy actually extremely annoying to listen to and the yelling is absolutely jarring, it’s just over all too much. I wouldn’t be listening to these episodes with him… which is unfortunate because I’m an avid listener.

[@xxprettyrwbyxx3857]

​@@NatalieRosee123 by this comment alone you seem like one of those women who's a toxic chill girl💀

[@nadiagatica7787]

I love how angry he gets. Makes me happy I’m not the only one tweaking over the husband and the ex vacation story.

[@amandabarrett9224]

Plus how easily he said that he’d get back with the ex !

[@asdfkjahsdfkls1123]

if OP was really "insecure" about something, what is she even insecure about? Is she insecure about the ex-wife? If she was actually insecure about the ex-wife, then she would have unilaterally requested not to see her and cut off contact way sooner. Kyle needs some brain for that shitty logic he's pushing.

[@2DivasCallMeMami]

“…That’s NOT what I said, B**”….😂😂

[@Tapiaaaaa]

Me tooo!!! 🤣

[@jaynakendell]

Bro I love how Morgan just lets Spencer run rampant after every story 💀 I’m crying laughing rn

[@makaylasharkey596]

i noticed too lol, like she can for sure rant like that too but she was so respectful and just like yeah bro you said it and let him shine i love friends who can enjoy other people taking the stage and that's what makes morgan an amazing host

[@fenfaso]

Spencewauh is really great! I love how animated and emboldened he gets. You can tell he’s caring and empathetic as well.

[@brittany7792]

The “THAT’S NOT WHAT I SAID BITCH” sent me😂😂😂😂

[@sassynerdgirl]

Me too!🤣😂

[@amberrosemack2001]

I cackled!! 😂😂😂

[@stephaniemacri124]

LMFAO DYING

[@TheAdrift]

Same! I just got to that part 🤣

[@erinom389]

That shit SENT MEEEE 😂 35:45

[@kadewagner6004]

Dude I LOVE how hard Spencer goes off about story #7. The snoring dad and breastfeeding mom story. For someone who doesn't have kids I'm amazed how much he understands and advocates for this poor mom. Spencer is my favorite non-regular guest to have on here.

[@emilyward4388]

Yes!!!! I love how hard he advocates for us girlies in general! Love him

[@janaeferrel2015]

“Literally smear your shit all over the wall he’s probably used to it you know why CAUSE HES FULL OF IT 👹” I love you Spencer sm

[@marlaabee]

“You know what and maybe take some more too” KILLED ME 😂 LOVE Spencer

[@rachelzeke]

I love how unfiltered and intense Spencer is with these stories, I feel like he really speaks my internal dialogue hearing them lmao

[@upcycledunicorn]

Exactly ❤

[@oilybohunk7]

Definitely enjoy him as a guest.

[@jofip9199]

Yes! I love the episodes he is in

[@envymordecai4429]

Story 4 I was screaming and panicking with him. Girl RUN.

[@dezzyhartley3009]

Yess the one with the newborn, I was like “YEESSS GO OFF” because that’s literally my life right now and him screaming exactly what I feel is so satisfying! 😂

[@leah3801]

Spencer losing it over the Story 4 update was absolutely wonderful. I love him so much and I'm so glad he's come back on the show. Hopefully it won't be the last time

[@ennis3507]

“You can lick jolly ranchers and put them on their windshield and let them melt.” I’m dying. 🤣🤣🤣

[@rachaeldott6186]

I legit made a mental note about on this. Always looking for petty revenge ideas.

[@AndyintheMotherFhouse]

Story 4 gave me “my ex wife and I got drunk and slept together again…it meant nothing because you’re going to be my wife now…just let it go for fucksake…it already happened it won’t happen again…I’ll address it next time it could happen” vibes Fuck that dude AND his ex wife Bring Spencer back! 👏😂

[@milhousego]

God, I PRAY that Morgan reads the "AITAH for wanting a divorce because of a surname" and its update and comments! That post went CRAZY by the end!

[@amiraking6688]

Girl… drop the link 👀

[@JocyeSpeaks]

🤲🏼

[@sedep6640]

I’ll love to hear that it sounds so good

[@Yeavemealone]

I just read that story bc of this comment. How weird?? I don’t get why people think that kids will get confused when they have a different name from their siblings. Kids understand a lot more than people give them credit for.

[@popsssss]

@@Yeavemealoneliterally, I have a different surname from my mum and I think nothing of it

[@lori1324martini]

I'm with the comments, please make Spencer a regular. I love how passionate he is because that's how we feel listening to these stories sometimes.

[@delaneydarnell2081]

“Whack him senseless!! … don’t do that… that’s like domestic abuse” I’m dead.

[@chloecat13]

the foot tacos were the 1/10 times that curiosity got the best of spencer 😂

[@TwoHotTakes]

Hahahaha accurate

[@autumwho]

Lol that bit needed a trigger warning 😂 so gross lol

[@fricketyfracktraintrack]

​@@autumwhoit did. Morgan started off that segment with a trigger warning for Gore.

[@saharakarri6011]

“Oh no I’m thinking about it too hard!!” I died🤣🤣

[@crazyinnocentturtle]

Spencer's reaction to story 4 was what I needed in my life

[@ladymorrigan5950]

Same. 😂

[@stephaniemacri124]

has me dying laughing in the airport rn

[@kellyhubbard3745]

The 4th story: It’s interesting how he then attempted to do the same thing with her as with his ex, keep her around even though they broke up. Asking her to come to Christmas and all. Is he going to have both exes there now? He doesn’t understand breaking up and boundaries.

[@rumis.dollsss.15]

Frrrr

[@LeilaniTauheed]

Well no...for the first ex he didn't "keep her around" they literally have a child together.

[@killakrissy]

Spencuahs advice is so unhinged and I’m LIVING for it

[@katiejune5712]

I love his advice bc he’s so real!! ❤

[@Shibbyyaaa]

"Actually smear shit on the walls" 😂 this man is the friend you NEED

[@opal1411]

Spencers monologues telling story 4 what to do sent me to the moooooooon hahahahahahahaha they are SO RIGHT and SO REAL

[@Pixietrick]

How calm Morgan stays while Spencer is going off 😆 and the "...sorry" at the end is hilarious. Little uncomfortable maybe but hilarious at the same time. Now I know how other people must feel when I go off on something this passionately.

[@sallypoe]

I love Spencer. His rant was EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!

[@sassynerdgirl]

Right? I love it!

[@AshlieJermaine]

I need more Spencer. His (justifiable) anger at these situations give me life!! I totally agree with his takes and his energy is awesome!! Go off, Spencewuah!!!!!

[@_paolacx_3412]

Story 4 has me just as livid as spencer 🙄they’re for sure getting back together on that trip! And wasn’t the trip for her birthday????? How horrible

[@karlagonzalvez4703]

"YOU SNORE LIKE A DRAGON, LIKE SHREK" 🤣🤣 "RISE N SHINE BIOTCH" 👏👏

[@DawnIsBreakingThroug]

I calmed down the moment Spencer started calling the Fiance a POS and dragging his shit. It's like he was voicing every angry thought that passed through my brain

[@taylorbrehm9922]

as a child of parents who are split up, spencer was so well spoken on the mexico trip story that was the perfect response

[@nickychasse1588]

story number 4 when he goes "thats not what i fucking said" same!! im dying from laughter as he goes off lmfao

[@brizaaa410]

Spencer is so funny😂😂 love his passion on story 4. We need him more often!!

[@sarahhenthorn666]

I was just thinking the other day how cool it would be to have Spencewuah back on the show!! An excellent guest!! Super excited for this episode

[@Glitterlover506]

"Slash his tires, wait did I said that already?,well if he get new ones do it again" I love you I swear

[@SoniaRichelle803]

Already listened on Spotify but think I’m gonna sit through the stories a second time just to see Spencer’s intensity when going off on the a-holes 😂😂😂

[@truedp23]

Story 2 - RUN!!!!! It could be an elaborate ploy to end the hookups but…don’t take the chance. Delete profiles, change locks (thank god they did), hell change phone numbers and move

[@kaif.7661]

What are MSFL torture videos? I don’t want it in my search history lol

[@PhreakOutBigTime]

@@kaif.7661 NSFL- Not Safe For Life, content that you see and will negatively affect you for a long time if not forever (unless youre this chick and find it funny). think graphic car crash videos, videos of a person's last moments, illegal videos of extreme crimes...

[@jenessasandoval4995]

Omg I love him! "Who's fault is that! 😂 I couldn't hold my exposure. I LOL way to hard, " lol

[@imsorrybut]

I'm 28yo and hearing Spencer's takes is really sending me because I used to have that kind of fiery response towards bullshit but over the years I become so accepting of BS in attempt to be understanding and kind. But he reminds me that it's actually really helpful to have people who can help you articulate your frustrations rather than just immediately go into acceptance and forgiveness mode to maintain strong and healthy relationships.

[@Pinkdiscarge]

Thank you for bringing Spencewuah back 😭😭😭❤

[@annalamachia5202]

My word. I never thought I’d feel so SEEN as a new breastfeeding mother by a gay, childless man!!!!! Thank you! Thank you so much! My husband doesn’t get it at all. You are amazing. Thank you. I needed you today Spencewuah! ❤❤❤ you’ve made a new fan!

[@parkscc]

I remember when my ex told me he had been wearing the same contacts for like 7 years or something and one night, one just like popped out while he was driving and he freaked out and couldn't see for a good bit until we conveniently made it to his mom's house 3 states away where he had a spare pair from 7 years before ....gross. idk how that man didn't get a horrible infection.

[@TwoHotTakes]

This is by far one of the nastiest things I've heard.. They do develop a film of grime over them after a couple weeks 🤢

[@parkscc]

​@@TwoHotTakes I could probably write a book about all the nasty and psychotic things that man did. 🥲 I'm disappointed I stayed with that gigantic red flag for so long.

[@jadewilliams5507]

Oh he was definitely exaggerating 🤣The material they are made of won't last that long. This is coming from someone who, when she was a broke college student, would wear every pair of contacts until they got so worn out they either warped and wouldn't stay on my eyes anymore, or they would just split in half while I was wearing them. I had a non-disposable pair that lasted maybe 2 years max... And that was taking them out once in a while to clean them 😅

[@ziggy_starz]

i noticed my friend's eyes were super red and when i asked him about it he said he'd been wearing the same contacts for 5 months and did not see any problem with it 🤢 i don't even like the 2 week ones anymore 😩

[@strawberrymilkteaa]

the emphasis that Spencer put on “SHREK!!” made me SCREAMMMMM

[@kelleyc3983]

Same I laughed so hard at that and him screaming “and you’re wondering if yta?! UM YAAAAAA! YA!!”

[@skaterchic5050]

Story 5: the girl on the couch was a total set up. The friend left her on the couch with op on purpose.

[@kaitlynmorgan4613]

mayyybe. i think its more likely that ops friend figured theyd hang out as friends since they kinda know each other? but as for their friend hoping op would make advances on that girl, maybe thats the case lol

[@princessbunny80085]

How? I don’t get it

[@princessbunny80085]

I’ve been in the same situation cause I like to dress up but I’ve never been denied help when I’m cold :/

[@wendyWERKKZ]

Even of it wasn’t a set up. He has clear boundaries, I don’t think that’s a bad thing lol. I feel bad that she doesn’t have a friend that cares to make her own friends comfortable.

[@johanncai5184]

I know someone who had a cryptic pregnancy... she was/is a nurse too. She went to the ER certain that she had appendicitis. Ended up giving birth to a baby girl. Everyone is healthy and happy today ❤❤❤

[@Heather_Duke]

What I'm getting from the first story is that OP expected no one to take interest in his wife and for women to throw themselves at him and really want to be with him. That didn't happen though. Also, lol at what he said about the colleague. Just because he wasn't her boss and had an open marriage doesn't mean that she'd want his ass. And she didn't want him. In fact, he made her uncomfortable enough to talk to her own manager about it.

[@ladymorrigan5950]

Yeah, made me wonder what he actually said in the messages. 🤯

[@Heather_Duke]

@@ladymorrigan5950 Oh, he undoubtedly made her super uncomfortable before he officially asked her out, I bet. I mean, for her to feel enough discomfort to say something and for him to be fired, it's pretty telling.

[@InvincibleMage]

I have a feeling it was only introduced by him because he wanted to start something with his young coworker and he said something heinous or wildly inappropriate, I don't think anyone would realistically be so upset to go to HR over being asked out on a date, I mean it's possible but it's not as likely as him being a creepy old man towards that poor woman.

[@Heather_Duke]

@@InvincibleMage Agreed. I think he already had his eyes on the coworker and believed that he could get her. I feel like he'd probably been weird toward that coworker before and she finally said something after he asked her out. Also, it wouldn't shock me if she's closer in age to his daughter than to him. Especially with his brother pointing out that his wife looks good for her age, she just doesn't look twenty.

[@ladymorrigan5950]

@@Heather_Duke exactly. Meanwhile he’s minimizing the whole thing.

[@shannonhudson]

Spencewuah is absolutely hilarious, his reactions are everything! He puts into words all of my rage and sassy energy after hearing these stories.

[@chelseaparrott8983]

I absolutely love Spencer! His opinions and pure rage over these stories are pure gold. Also with story seven if they have the room in their house they should buy a small spare bed. I had twins and sometimes my husband had to sleep in another room so that he could get some sleep. Less because he woke up the babies and more because the babies woke him up. But it was so helpful.

[@tiffanyhurtado3733]

Spencer has the energy Sarah Shauer gave and I’m so happy. I go hard when people are wronged. And this spoke my heart’s cry.

[@hagfishslimer]

I WANT SARAH BACKKK

[@amymayermiller7864]

When spencer shouted That's not what I said B! 😂 Perfect! it was exactly what I was thinking

[@LEMATTOFFICIAL]

Story 7 pissed me off so much. So glad Spencer went in on him 😂

[@jayaitch88]

My dream team used to be the OGs (Morgan, Lauren, Alejandra and Justin) but honestly? Adding Spencer to that now. (Oh and probably Sarah.) He has the BEST vibe!

[@dhinsd12]

I absolutely LOVED Spencer please bring him back!!!!

[@TooCuteToSell]

I’m currently three days into a break up by walking away from my narcissistic ex-boyfriend. The way you guys were getting angry at some of these men in the stories had me laughing and feeling right at home. I was feeling down about it but walking away and escaping was the best choice I could have made. Thank you for the girl time! ❤

[@katie7522]

Spencer is such an amazing guest! His energy is so spot on every time.

[@dopeyunicorn]

i love spencer, he’s actually hilarious and gives the appropriate energy every time

[@abbystyles321]

Just got out of a 3 hour final hoping this weeks episode would be posted so I can relax my brain. YAY!!!

[@nox_ii]

Omg im listening to this on Spotify but just had to come here in the middle of the podcast cause im dying from laughter. Spencer is the literal best, I wish I had a friend like him! The way he goes off on Kyle in the story where the guy is acting like he has two wives is the best and literally says what we all think. Everyone deserves someone defending them like Spencer does 😂❤

[@LeslieDanovich]

Story 5: I posed this story as a question to my 15 year old son. HE KNEW what to do, and he's neurodiverant. OP in this story needs some help learning how to have common decency. I'm glad he has is sister to let him know.

[@joevictor53]

Not all neurodivergent people are the same. One person might see it that way but someone else might not. You say he has his sister to let him know stuff. Not everyone has someone to let them know things like that.

[@marablink88]

You guys need to have Spencer on again - one of my favorite guests to date and his takes were perfection. I love the energy he brings.

[@lishalibra-6482]

Lmao Spence out here committing crimes😂😂😂😂😂

[@vintagedmama]

I LOVE SPENCER!!!! OMG, I started crying listening to him describe the husband in the last story. He is SPOT ON!!! I am a mother of 3, and I breastfed all my babies. My husband was like this husband in the story! He is entitled af. He would snore so loud and he slept through the babies crying every night. He would wake up and say "Oh wow, the baby slept really good last night!"...My reply... "What are you talking about??? I was up all night with the baby, but you slept through it all." Some men are horrible, and Spencer described this man so PERFECTLY!!! Thank you, Spencer. I love this man.

[@sarahn3800]

Story 6: I LOVE my MIL. Honestly, she is the sweetest woman and I would do anything in reason for her. I would not let her in the delivery room. I gave birth almost 12 weeks ago. You are so vulnerable in that state, so you should have control of everyone in that room. I didn't even want people waiting in the hospital for me. My mom got upset with me because I waited 45 minutes to tell her my son was born. Like updating people was my priority... Next time, I'm not telling a soul when I'm in labour besides the babysitter

[@abigailgnome2117]

Spencer’s “am I the asshole….yEAH!!!” while making the worlds most intense eye contact with the camera took me out 😂

[@glassycolors]

YES, I looooved the last ep with Spencer. Thank u for bringing him back omg

[@thatkidinthebackofclass8216]

Story 5: as a neurodivergent person (adhd/autism) I could never let someone outside my family or very close friends borrow my clothes even the thought of it makes my skin crawl

[@peytonr2468]

that seems like a different case. if that’s his reasoning he probably would’ve mentioned it

[@thatkidinthebackofclass8216]

@@peytonr2468 I didn't mean that this was his reason I was just sharing my feeling's/view on the topic of borrowing clothes,Sorry if it seemed like that's what I meant

[@korrajoy4276]

As a normie I also wouldn’t let a random person borrow my clothes. His roommate invited them over it’s not his obligation to take care of a random girl. I would’ve hid in my room all night. The girls also ended up staying the night so as the random girl I would’ve left and came and got my friend the next morning.

[@emifukakado-msjoke]

no fr…i feel bad now. Cause i don’t think he’s the a-hole. I don’t like sharing clothes, especially with strangers. it makes me uncomfortable. i would find a good blanket though, im more comfortable with that…but not one my nice blankets yk? like those are mine. they stay on my bed. I am the only person who uses them. But i’d find another one i’m less attached to. my home has a lot of blankets, and i could probably let someone use the designated den blanket.

[@__orlando__]

i don't really think that's the point. find a decent blanket? there are other options. i think one of the challenges neurodivergent people face is making sure to not always let their own proclivities over shadow human decency

[@yoonie8]

I loveeeeee Spencer’s responses ~ was listening to podcast on train and couldn’t stop laughing

[@emmarohde2670]

Spencer with story 4 is me. Speechless and can’t even form a sentence 🤣

[@hayamirin6795]

Wait till Story 7 😂

[@gracedwithmiracles4173]

PLEASE MAKE MORE THT PODCASTS WITH SPENCER!! I love them even more with him!

[@storiesinthedust]

If a hot guy in a tiny elf costume was stranded on my couch bc his friend was being a douche, and he asked me for a blanket, I would be bringing 10 options and a cup of hot cocoa to him in seconds. Like sorry it’s 1) the decent human thing to do 2) the perfect opportunity to show a hot person that you’re a nice person to be around. like damn of course I’m helping the hot guy who needs a hero 😂😂😂😂😂

[@hayamirin6795]

But what if he wasn't hot? I'm sorry but if you're only willing to help a person if there "hot" then you are a bad person

[@Crochet_by_mic]

If a person I am not interested in sexualy/romantically would somehow end up here cold in a swimsuit I'd do anything to make them comfy

[@leli6291]

yeah i wouldn't. I would really be weirded out and make sure to lock my door. Why would i trust a stranger? Not my problem you have shitty friends.

[@storiesinthedust]

@@hayamirin6795 read point number 1. human decency applies to everyone, not just hot people. feels like a projection here LOL.

[@storiesinthedust]

exactly!!! the attractive part is just a bonus: not a prerequisite for being treated like a human@@Crochet_by_mic

[@PlainJanePlants]

YES I love how fired up Spencer is - that’s exactly how I watch this show 😂

[@michellegonzales1462]

Spencer is my favorite co-host I’ve seen. His opinions are unfiltered and on point. Love his energy!

[@sassynerdgirl]

Spencer saying “THATS NOT WHAT I SAID BITCH!” Has me dying!🤣😂

[@Lolwhattimeisitscar]

this is one of the best episodes i’ve seen 😂🤣 love how invested spencer got

[@KayJoyy]

I love seeing how passionate Spencer gets. Sometimes these stories make me react the same way and I've always been meant to feel I'm being too much because it shouldn't affect me but WHAT they put it out for the world to read of course there's going to be emotions in that!

[@saraijones20]

Spencer talking about staring at something makes me feel so seen… I will have to stare at something until the stare is no longer satisfying but I have no desire to look away for like a good minute regardless of what’s going on around me hahaha

[@laceythomas9278]

NEEDED this episode. The anger, the rage, the volume! Perfect for cleaning my carpets! Thank you!❤️✨🙌🏼

[@parisdean5254]

I love how passionate Spencer is about every story he truly emerges himself in their feelings!! Love it :))

[@diamcole]

S5: It seems like he's not a malicious asshole, I think it's really sweet and says a lot that he's genuinely trying.

[@Colie22]

Spencer needs to on the podcast at least once every two weeks! We love him ❤❤❤

[@kora824]

Spencer whispering “that’s sick and twisted” about the guys not having a proper blanket

[@mietteadkisson8329]

I love Spencer’s commentary! Please please please have him on more. I love hearing him talk it’s a lot how I think!

[@karlagonzalvez4703]

I love him so much 🤣🤣 Everything he said about story 4 was GOLD. 👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@ferruiz4531]

“SHREK!” Had me weakk

[@PamArg]

I'm getting the vibe in the ex wife story, that she didn't invite herself to the trip. OP fiance invited her and told OP that ex wife just tagged along

[@Michelleysinga12]

ME TOO!!!! im surprised nobody mentioned that

[@GrungeGalactica]

I’m loving Spencer’s passionate rants ❤

[@rhiiilol2399]

MORE SPENCER PLEASE! His rage on behalf of mothers and women is a breath of fresh air. I love Justin but I feel like he can be a little defensive of the men in a lot of stories so to have a man on here expressing such raw emotion and understanding for the female experience has left me feeling so seen.

[@apparentlybrianna7266]

the way morgan took out her contact and just popped it back in like it was nothing was the most impressive thing i've seen. like omg, jaw dropped

[@spitefulscorpio1684]

Thank you Morgan! I’ve been sick and have been in desperate need of some new content 🤩

[@valerieg3598]

There's a trigger warning for gore before Story 2, but then when you skip to Story 3 it's a mini story about someone who cooks and eats their own foot 😅 🍽🦶

[@SweetNothing937]

I didn’t even understand story two tbh lol

[@Jazzylikejazz]

Hahah hah I’m laughing so hard at Spencer. That poor soul, he needs compensation for the emotional turmoil he endured that day hahaha

[@alexhemmerle6127]

Already need another, I’ve been watching spencer for YEARS now. He is incredibly insightful and hilarious- perfect for the podcast!

[@Stephanie12526]

The girl elf story, the friend is the biggest AH 😂 i would of left.

[@allisonfields3108]

I practice polyamory/ethical non monogamy and I have seen the first story happen so many times. Men will want to open the marriage and then get angry and often abusive when their wife is the only one getting dates. I have also seen many happy couples make it work. The intent and the attitude going into opening a marriage matters.

[@yenastyyy]

The way Spencer has to VISIBLY control his reactions to the story as its being told 😅

[@priscillatorres6903]

With the snoring husband story I kept my composure at the "Shrek" call outs but when he hit us with the "You Snore like the GREEN GIANT" I lost it 😂😂😂

[@brendamartinez5724]

Yeyyyy literally searching for something to listen to!

[@vizzybeanqueen2356]

This has to be one of the best episode I've listened in on. Spencer has me in tears. I love their passion and validation for the victims in these crazy stories.

[@bnylz5300]

YEEEESSS FINALLY ANOTHER EPISODE WITH SPENCER!! More of love please 💕💕💕💕💕

[@tacham4533]

Omg I’m obsessed with this dynamic! Because she’s very calm and he gets raved up! It’s the best!!!!!!

[@alyssacollins4557]

I love how Spencer takes part in getting back at people and gives us ideas 😂😂😂

[@terileekuru5875]

I LOVEEE Spencer so so much !!!! His passion & unfiltered answers towards the story’s is just top tier. Need him on more episodes xx

[@hhill_03]

Got a uni final in two hours but thankfully got my fav podcast out in time for me to relax!

[@Maryluvsu12]

Spencer and Chris need to be frequent guests…or there should be an episode with them both. They respond the way that I do and I love it🤣🥰