You're Not “Mysterious”, You're BORING | Over Sharing on Social Media

[@ThakaneBereng]

Vloggers overshare way too much to the point where they put their safety in jeopardy. House/Apartment tours need to be stopped.

[@AutumnTheArtist1996]

Yessss!!! when they share the entire floor plan of their home😩 it’s insane!

[@dynastyandrews2416]

They have stopped/died down a lot in the past several years.

[@TheSacralHealer]

This is the one!!!! I recently started uploading more and just moved and I said I WILL NOT do an apartment tour. People scope out appliances and everything in apartments nowadays. I film in a corner wall or outside the apartment. All these tours going viral is scary imo

[@zariaa.x0]

Yup I agree one of my favorite KZbinrs does this and I know exactly which building she lives in and where she works because I was currently looking for a place to move and I said girrrl you need to be careful 😳

[@artlover4997]

Or the vlogs they give their viewers of their daily commute to work/uni like why do they let millions of people know their daily routine!

[@PrettyPrincess9609]

I’m going to be honest. In the past, I had a bad habit of oversharing and had to learn the hard way. Most people don’t care and sometimes they will even use what you tell them against you. Also for me the reason why I over shared online back then is because I didn’t have real friends and I went through something traumatic and watched my friends turned their backs on me when I tried opening up to them. Sometimes people overshare online because they feel alone and don’t have friends to talk to. Either way, I found out that people on social media don’t care either. Now I only tell trusted loved ones, my therapist, and my diary all of my business.

[@LifeisaBeautifulting]

Same, I used to overshare way too much when I was an angsty teen in middle school and high school. I cringe a bit looking back at it

[@KyleEdwards-if3po]

That’s how is should be,I don’t want people in my business due to the fact that iam an introvert.

[@myopinionnotyours.6053]

I commend & appreciate your transparency, self awareness & courage to share this about yourself and your personal life lessons that you have learned along the way. 👏🏼

[@sharaineroberts8537]

This topic was addressed when Instagram became popular but many people ignored it when they got blue checks and likes. Now anyone can buy it and everyone can film you whether you are aware of it or not. About ten years ago I remember being on the phone with my sister while outside telling my sister what I was seeing happened in front of me. First thing she said was I should film it and post it to Instagram. I told her no because if I was in the person situation I would not like my image out there for all to see without knowing it was out there. She said she didn't think of that and she would stop doing that. She didn't stop until her boyfriend posted something about her and she found out later. Even during the zoom meetings I was the first to use the background filters so my coworkers didn't see inside my home. I never cared for over sharing from when I was a child and the grandparents, aunts and uncle asked if I was a woman yet. But that's my opinion on the topic.

[@jernisharichard5032]

So sorry, I feel alone at times, and I want to share. I don't mind people over sharing as some of us are not messy or evil, so we can appreciate and help one another. It's sad that most are messy, miserable human beings, and just want you down like them.. Christ is our REDEEMER and I lean on him, and other sisters and brothers in him. So don't let them bring you down, some people really get help from our testimonies. ❤ Much love 🎉

[@Shiann444]

Please bring back the days of celebrities being private. Hearing the thoughts and personal lives of famous people have made them extremely unlikeable 🙄 the fact that Beyoncé is so private about her life is actually what makes me respect her a lot. She’s managed to build such a fan base and career off of her simply being talented… most people, especially now, cannot say that at all.

[@i_fank6254]

Girl she’s a witch 😂

[@Damita3272]

Right 💯

[@BlossomHigh]

But there's tons of people who find Beyonce unlikable

[@faevalentine9187]

EXACTLY!! The amount of music I took off my playlist alone is why celebrities especially the male ones need to SHUT their YAPPERS.

[@kimberleywilliams7802]

@@BlossomHigh funny you say that considering she doesn't speak to us. How do you find someone unlikable based on nothing? She is barely visible.

[@MsFitKitty]

I honestly don’t care about other people’s lives unless it directly impacts my life.

[@dii-N-sd]

Exactly!

[@Loveu2ufool]

I’m very empathetic, but if it’s drama or mess leave me out IT.

[@chenellebeautytv]

🎯🎯🎯

[@audreywheeler3786]

People who are like “I don’t like ____ did u hear what they did to ____”. No i didn’t hear it was to busy not caring

[@lizzienorth]

That's it

[@aunaturaleniece2749]

The internet is so fickle and nosey damned if you do or don’t

[@ToniBryanneTV]

This one right here!!

[@kekemola1475]

Exactlyyyyyy!!!!! You don't share, oh ur too unrelatable and people claim they cant connect wit u! U share ur life with the world, here comes people's unwarranted opinions, criticism and judgments 😑🙄🙄🙄! Noooo winningggggg!! So basically u just do what ur comfortable with😅

[@TheBlackDorothyZbornak]

I love Bey's privacy. In a world where her own children were bashed for their natural black features, I wouldnt give yall anything either.

[@beth7935]

fr, the only "celebs" I follow are very minor, but they still have fans who want to know everything about their families, & I really like & respect that they keep their kids completely out of the media- no photos, & with one guy, I don't even know his kids' names, only that he has 2 sons... I didn't know people were so disgusting to Beyonce's kids, but trying to protect them from that sounds like good parenting to me.

[@MoniVenSmit]

Walking around with your kids hair looking a mess has nothing to do with “black features”. Furthermore, they look like their hideous father. Don’t try to put that on black people lol

[@ShakoreSmoth]

Why are we making this about race LMAO her kids look a mess because of HER. Y’all always try to gain sympathy by adding in race is almost hilarious.

[@c.l.6514]

@@ShakoreSmoththey were literally talking about the hair that grows out of her head naturally and the shape of her nose. Both of which are black features…

[@Cauldron6]

@@ShakoreSmothlet’s not pretend the public hasn’t been incredibly racist and gross about Blue Ivy.

[@thequeenmidas]

Boring is peaceful. Peace is priceless🙏🏾

[@eirannahmason3616]

I agree. I would rather be boring than be someone else or follow to fit in

[@cecedille]

there is nothing wrong about being boring

[@queenmisanthrope]

Facts I lose hella followers cuz I’m boring but in the past I would over share and still lost followers so now I’d rather not have ppl in my business

[@roxy4325]

Preach! I'm boring AF! Take it or leave it but it's not changing 😂

[@anaisanais4626]

It's better to be boring than to be the drama

[@8luvbug]

Also what is considered "boring"?

[@danhumphrey8357]

@@8luvbugBoring is so subjective. What’s boring to me won’t be boring to someone else. I think chilling in the pool is boring, but many people would disagree.

[@rainriver1281]

Being Mysterious will always be cool.

[@Kiwi27____]

Keeping your life private is definitely a sign of growth.

[@NycBeauty]

I like to be mysterious. It’s intriguing. I don’t over share on social media. Since 2019, I post a few pics every 4-6 months. I’m not seeking attention nor likes. I’m enjoying my privacy. If a person wants to contact me, pick up the phone and text sometimes.

[@queenmisanthrope]

Deadass

[@TimTeebone]

Felt

[@Kadiatuuu]

Same

[@deljean]

Saaame i slowed down a lot on posting pics tht year as well

[@pineapplemeatballs500]

Exactly That’s how I am And I’m currently on a social media break / detox .

[@pepperminttree]

i much rather a private celeb than one that is constantly yapping and oversharing

[@tauqueishachester9844]

Look at cardi b

[@laskwkxkwkd]

Like Doja Cat, she became unlikable very quickly

[@barbaramay9288]

same

[@wb9913]

GIRL PICK UP THE PHONE we’re a bunch of internet strangers, we can wait! Take advantage of every moment you get w your parents ♥️

[@ToniBryanneTV]

Thank you for this💗

[@twothousandandchew]

i was about to say it’s her job (i haven’t gotten that far into this video) until u said it was her parents

[@BrandonJordan-k5r]

@@ToniBryanneTV Hey Im Brandon And Im 17 And I Live In Columbus Ohio Nice To Meet You I Subscribed To Your Channel And I Gave You A Like But Anyways I Agree With What You Were Saying In This Video Becuase People Just Hate On Beyonce For No Reason And It Honestly Just Sad What Do You Think And I Love You😍😍😍

[@NosiphoL__]

I love that Beyoncé doesn't sell relatability it's not sustainable and she's still relevant 27 years after her debut so she's definitely doing something right 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@SideEyeee_]

Her failed brands don’t show that.

[@Play4keeks]

​@@SideEyeee_ she is still irrelevant. Just because she's relevant in one way (music) doesn't mean it translates into sales for brands. And that's ok.

[@ValenciaRose.]

All of her business ventures flopped because of it and she has aged out of music. No one is even talking about her latest album that came out this year and the songs aren't on the charts. Meanwhile Rih's album from nearly a decade ago is still charting and fenty beauty is thriving. Rih does great at balancing being private and relatable.

[@ValenciaRose.]

@@Play4keeks Her music is not relevant either, that's why it's not on the charts. Granted, this is normal for her age though. She hasn't sold music and decades, she sells visuals, live performances and music videos. That's why her fans still asking for music videos and struggling without them.

[@jabarimangum7376]

@@ValenciaRose. business ventures are a different territory from music. Also Beyoncé has not aged out of music. Her latest album sold more in its first week than some of these newer artist’s albums. Not to mention the fact that she’s still able to have her songs be #1 on the charts. Rih’s album is still charting because that’s the last album we will ever get from her. Aside from that tho all of Beyoncé’s albums have reached #1 and Beyonce has more album sales than Rih. And if we are being honest majority of Beyoncé’s net worth comes from music whereas most of Rih’s comes from cosmetics. That right there says a lot.

[@Hiking3585]

I agree fully. I think that Rihanna has the perfect mix of just enough personal info to keep you interested and show her personality but not too much....so she has some privacy. I love it.

[@shannacollins8371]

She used to be a mess online. Someone probably told her to pull back or she just stopped being childish.

[@jessicajanene2001]

it just seems like people want the internet to know EVERY detail cause it’s billions of accounts on the internet, and then majority of them get mad because ppl all in your business CAUSE they are putting it OUT THERE!!!! Thank you for uploading this on time Toni much love 💗

[@kewpiebby444]

i mean theres nothing stopping any of us from avoiding social media. If you avoid social media, in turn, you avoid ppl oversharing their lives.

[@yageshabazz3456]

On the flip side of that, I’ve noticed people get upset when others, particularly celebrities, don’t post their private life online. It’s like you’re damned if you do and if you don’t

[@AutumnTheArtist1996]

Right. It’ll be non celebrity regular people posting insane crazy stuff about their personal life and when they go viral and get backlash they’ll tell people to mind their business…lmao what?! you’re the one who told the entire world your personal business whether you expected it to go viral or not🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@lifeissobeautiful6404]

@@AutumnTheArtist1996 Absolutely true. Cause tell me why did I come across a vid on Tiktok either last year or the beginning of this year, of a lady doing her GRWM as she told the story of her losing her virginity to a homeless guy?😭

[@AutumnTheArtist1996]

@@lifeissobeautiful6404 Lmaoooooo that’s insaneeeee💀🤣

[@ritzee13]

As a person with ADHD this was my daily reminder to stop oversharing

[@60sbabydoll777]

I have ADHD and I’m insanely private

[@CLB134]

@@60sbabydoll777 same here, I have inattentive ADHD tho, wbu? oversharing has never been an issue for me, in fact, under-sharing & being too guarded has been my issue. it’s caused me problems thru out my life, so I’ve been working on changing that

[@ritzee13]

@60sbabydoll777 I do also have autism and tend to over share about my special interests, so maybe that's why it's different from your ADHD.

[@Coastpsych_fi99]

Same. Strategic vulnerability is important.

[@SterlingSMtr]

​@60sbabydoll777 I do both. Overshare (being too honest) & extremely private- I don't share my deepest secrets or whatever .

[@rayasunsh9]

we were never meant to have this much access to ppl, celebrities AND civilians! social media is a completely different reality for most ppl now, it's lowkey terrifying. ESPECIALLY the effects on the younger generation coming up. on beyoncé, she's from a different time where you were only seen/heard when you were working so i'm not entirely surprised that she's so quiet these days! she is criticized for any and everything anyways lol, damned if you damned if you don't!

[@tauqueishachester9844]

It’s weird I’m glad I don’t know this people

[@kimberleywilliams7802]

Beyonce is literally criticized for breathing. People were jumping her a few months ago for posing in a photo with Kelly, saying that she loved attention and just wanted to steal it from Kelly. By posing in the photo... If she shows up, everyone talks about her and she wants all the attention. If she doesn't, all of a sudden she's too good for the event.

[@Greenair777]

I'm so glad you spoke on this. There's peace in privacy.

[@kingderald]

Everyone shouldn’t be relatable. Yes Beyoncé is prime example of a WOMAN who holds herself so ROYAL like, that regular people don’t understand. I think a lot of people just want to live through certain celebs they admire and they shouldn’t. Privacy is very important in a world where people can use your info against you.

[@maybeitsjustin1650]

This the one , and I think she knows that which is why she sets that boundary 🤷💯. Folks have to understand she’s been doing this for damn near 30yrs she ain’t new to this . Support or don’t she’s still paid and has paid her dues in the industry.

[@salihahwilliams1453]

When it comes to Beyoncé not to excuse her lack of personality or reaching her fans on a personal level but if I remember correctly, although she wasn’t super bubbly back in the day when she did do interviews, paparazzi and networks would tear her apart , there were always rumors swarming despite people respecting her talent and music . So I think she went into hiding because she got tired of how she was portrayed in the media (whether it was true or not) and constantly being attacked. Also she just has that old school media training to not respond to everything and everyone .

[@jujubee6030]

She needs to thank Matthew for that! Her father is the reason she kept getting scrutinized by the media.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@chenellebeautytv]

🎯🎯🎯

[@ibox107]

Don’t forget they also bullied her child

[@salihahwilliams1453]

@@ibox107 that part as well ! I wouldn’t wanna talk to no one either tbh . I remember the nasty things they said about Blue it was sick

[@salihahwilliams1453]

@@jujubee6030 not all the way , I remember things being said about her relationship, her alleged fake pregnancy, etc yes there were things that they would ask her when it came to her dad but they would come for her as well . And as another commenter pointed out her child as well . They’d people would talk about Blues looks her hair her features etc .

[@WPFLAWLESS]

Its crazy that people think that they "need to know" a celebrity in order to buy their products because there are a bunch of brands you dont know anything about & are buying their ish. These people are developing unhealthy parasocial relationships, and its mentally unhealthy.

[@sharmindecruz9757]

Facts, they buy gucci, prada, louis vuitton , birkin etc etc and they know nothing about these people lives behind the scene. Smh

[@babiegirl526]

i think its cause alot of those brands the brand itself is the selling point like designer its the image that comes with the item not necessarily a particular person. but like if an singer started a brand and they were more private and mysterious people only know their singing mostly why would they buy it when their singing is the appeal

[@LifeisaBeautifulting]

I relate to them. I'm a private person as well, I don't post myself or my life much on social media. And yes I'd say I'm pretty boring with a mostly uneventful life lol. I know I could never be an influencer, a social media personality or run a successful business through social media. Some people just got it and I'm not one of them 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@sk0205xx]

Same here ❤

[@urlocalanonymous6757]

This is me but minus the social media. (I don’t have it)

[@missblunco]

I don’t blame them. People online have become so horrible. They want to see more just to find a reason to troll!

[@jessicajackson8954]

People have a habit of comparing themselves to whoever they see on the internet. People love drama, and people hate when popular names aren't relatable because, let's be honest, they're living a life most people want and go out of their way to find things to say about them. Stay silent....

[@ToniBryanneTV]

‼️‼️‼️

[@khrienuopippysuohu9825]

Happy for kylie not wanting to post stormi, there are literal creeps on the internet

[@enphynitisymone]

16:09 them being mad at her for not wanting to post her children anymore, how absurd!!

[@mrs.stay2playa]

I’m saying 😂 .

[@TheFakeyCakeMaker]

Because they are sick trolls who enjoy making nasty remarks about innocent children. Let her keep them far away from that mess.

[@InternetNonsense]

@@TheFakeyCakeMaker I wouldn't want random creeps looking at my children in any real or virtual playground. When they grow up, they can decide if they want to share any childhood photos of themselves. it's bizarre to me how some parents use them as social media props and sole focus, ignoring that it's not just baby shower environment online. Parents that respect children's privacy are good parents!

[@superlitfella]

Its okay for a celebrity not to even be on social media.

[@InternetNonsense]

Celebrities that are 0 following 0 posts tend to also be 0 controversy. That's one way to keep life more peaceful and separate home from work.

[@serafina6523]

Brad Pitt for example, hehe.

[@Lets_have_some_sense_]

​@@serafina6523or Cillian Murphy

[@JanelleMac]

Mystery and privacy will always be more attractive, intriguing, and sustainable to me. I love when celebrities and people in general don't overshare or give too much of themselves to the world. It's timeless to be classy and mysterious. ❤

[@PrettyTee_what_theycallme]

They bullied Beyonce way to much at the beginning/Middle of her career for her to open up to us now. The “fans” made her guarded.

[@Flowerchile444]

I couldn’t do it.. there’s been times I’ve been tempted to share personal experiences as a way to grow and foster a community, but I just cba with the outside noise and opinions. It seems emotionally draining and taxing. Life can be challenging enough with our own thoughts and doubts. Not to mention I live for my privacy, it’s so peaceful and keeps you sane.

[@LayingInAMeadow]

Same

[@TheFakeyCakeMaker]

I hate even posting on Facebook, notifications actually give me anxiety. Reddit is the worst. I rarely poost there for that reason.

[@ladaguilar2201]

Over sharing might make you rich but it hurts your real life & what’s more important

[@Tam...]

Bingo!

[@Denise0001]

Yess, also I always wonder how the family, partners and friends of these people who oversahare must react. Isn't it a strange atmosphere? Like "I have no desire to do anything with you because you literally share EVERYTHING about us to the whole internet." 💀

[@peacejoy8454]

Facts! It’s not worth it in the long run.

[@shaniquefrater]

Tbh i get why ppl are starting to not care about Kylie's issue. However lets not pretend they didn't bully that girl into changing her face. We were all there. We heard what they said about her as a CHILD and even what they said about Khloe. Now she changed and capitalized on her looks ....ppl praised her when she was hot and now she isn't and all of a sudden it's f**k Kylie. This world is thriving on hypocrisy...sadly, i don't think it will ever stop.

[@maryjanedodo]

Yeah Kylie had a rough upbringing on TV & is the youngest of 10 (Jenner's + Kardashians) + was basically a jailbait icon, which just caused a bunch of creeps to be around her when she was naive + vulnerable. But, she still did cash in on it & rip people off by lying and selling garbage made by exploited workers - so my sympathy is nullified by her lack of ethics.

[@Jessica.Shawnte]

Kylie was actually fun back in the day but people bullied her so she became closed off

[@memonos]

Yes!! I keep saying the same thing Kylie is a victim of bullying she was only a teenager enjoying her life until grown people started nitpicking and dragging her for the way she was born and now those same people are blaming her on everything they very much had a hand in, now people call her names and saying that she ruined their lives because of the "standards" she set knowing damn well it’s their fault too and they fed her by praising her after surgery fast forward 5-6 years later they hate her because she can’t keep up with the "standards" they set by the praise and attention they gave to her (yes Kylie isn’t the only problem it’s her followers/haters) and people don’t like that she’s growing up they’re straight up hypocritical and in denial about the whole situation.

[@memonos]

@@Jessica.Shawnteshe’s an insecure girl who got bullied and people don’t want to believe that because of how much they hate her family

[@Play4keeks]

I agree. She is a victim and a perpetrator of altered beauty. She was bullied and then changed her face. Once she changed her face she also made money from the changes and promoted it in someways

[@BillieShouseFrazier]

I love Beyoncé privacy. I wish people would move like her it would be better for their careers. Celebs would share to much also get a lot thrown at them.

[@racheldufour]

finding a balance of what to share and what not to share is so hard tbh. i love oversharing in the moment but then i usually feel so guilty about it afterwards LOL. i agree that oversharing is more interesting to audiences though, and it definitely creates more of a community around creators that do share a lot.

[@InternetNonsense]

There's a difference between just sharing non implicating tidbits, making relatable humor remarks, finding like-minded people and straight up living The Truman's Show. Stained underwear aired with the rest of your laundry for all to see and judge. Can be too hard and unwelcome for some. With so many nasty occurrences of doxxing, stalking, creeps, I can see how it is preferable for many to stay hidden. Like that story of stalker finding idol from reflection in her eyes in Japan? No, thanks.

[@HarrietTubman638]

Genuinely Beyonce needs to be mysterious she is one of our last superstars and the whole thing that makes her so alluring is being so talented, beautiful and not knowing much about her. Its amazing, celebrities were never supposed to be this close to the fans

[@NarcSlayer912]

I love being boring. It makes people who have too much negative activity going on flee like the devil away from me 😮

[@ditchthescalechallenge]

I think Beyonce is just a bad business woman. She hasn't taken the time to understand what her target market needs and can afford. Fenty fulfilled a need. Ivy Park did not - a lot of impractical but expensive outfits.

[@SmokinSquares]

Yup… plus when it rolled out, it was unattainable to the average person. She was sending ivy park gift boxes to rich celebrities to advertise it for her which was the wrong approach

[@lachell257]

Beyonce is out of touch because she don't socialze.

[@nelsonmakay2522]

Y'all are so delusional lmfao

[@Simeon1212]

After 25, I always thought it was natural for ppl to become more provate and keep their circles smaller as they become older more mature, & serious about their life . I see this happen a lot. But teenagers and young 20 yr olds are free spirited, naive and full of energy n excitement they wanna share everything . Its cool its totally normal ppl going through different stages in life 😊

[@brendabillion]

Hahahahaha this title just grabbed me by the ponytail and dragged me through the mud

[@Jaxoflife]

😂😂😂😂

[@stargazer_stacey7415]

Girrrrrl! That title snatched my ponytail clean OFF!!!😂

[@TeaLeaf222]

chiiile my wig has been snatched.😹

[@ToniBryanneTV]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@s1mplycam]

I think one thing people leave out is that people like Beyoncé are Kylie Jenner have kids. They aren’t running a family channel and I’m sure they are more aware of mainstream attention than anything. The influence that can have on their kid can ruin their childhood. Let celebs parent their kids without their whole career “falling off”

[@Cool_Girl247]

I’m personally a huge Bey fan. I respect her privacy; why compare her to other women? Rihanna and Taylor can sell trinkets, but they don’t move the culture like Beyonce. Lastly, Lori is a product of the Black elite. She’s a beautiful yet mysterious nepo baby, and that’s completely fine. These people owe us nothing. I swear yall are so nosey😂.

[@kimberleywilliams7802]

Exactly

[@maryjanedodo]

Rih & Taylor don't move culture? Lol. They're all popstars of equal relevance & influence who do exactly the same things.

[@antoniacapellaborges6566]

@@maryjanedodoBeyoncé literally remodeled the industry with Lemonade. Taylor would’ve never thought of releasing a visual album if B hadn’t done it first or when she dropped a movie for both Black is King and Homecoming and others started to do movie concerts. She even helped light more visibility on High life artists that American wouldn’t have known like Shatta Wale or Afrobeats like Yemi Alade.

[@kimberleywilliams7802]

@@antoniacapellaborges6566 Mind you, self-titled made everyone in the industry begin to release on Friday, which they still do to this day.

[@Cool_Girl247]

@@kimberleywilliams7802 Tell emm sis! These are all facts!!

[@mariannesartcorner]

I actually like beyonce even more because she is not sharing so much about her social life. I dont need to have a parasocial relationship to love her music. I also dont need to know everything about the person behind the brand line to like the product. It is so weird that people need that to connect with a product, movie or music. I like artists less because i think it is annoying to me. I dont care about their private lives.

[@fenixsoul3102]

I think another reason of oversharing is that we've become so detached from our own personal lives. We as in the people who overshare. Life is no longer about having genuine moments and lived experience, but more as commodity and a pathway to fame and success. An outcome that very much born of captialism and social media. If people stopped being compensated with fame and money for oversharing, there would be less of it going on. Though we might get there since a lot of people sharing so much dont seem to be living a genuine life.

[@kewpiebby444]

to be famous in any capacity, you need to be relatable OR so rich & luxurious enough for ppl to want to be you. I really like your insight bc yeah, lots of celebrities we know too much (like gypsy rose tho idk if shes really a celeb lol) or like beyonce, where we know too little. I think the "oversharing boom" on the internet with celebs happened in 2013-2017 bc all the social media platforms were relatively new (ig, snapchat) and celebrities didnt really understand the consequences of oversharing. I always think about Ariana grande's twitter & snapchat days lol she was posting soooo much.

[@ahmarindungu9010]

Skin is glowing ✨

[@Cc30009]

In the land of HollyWeird, Kylie is considered washed up. She's riding her sisters coattails at this point.

[@Jessica.Shawnte]

Good for her if my sister was Kim Kardashians you wouldn’t even hear from me

[@8luvbug]

​@@Jessica.Shawnte 😂

[@amarie_2]

4:01 I can say as fellow Christians, they should save their judgments. I get so tired of people making up fake doctrines to suit their purposes.

[@ItachiUchiha-gf5ls]

As a Christian I did criticize her in my head when she had a video promoting a vibrator. I’m like whaaa? But then to each their own we are all sinners.

[@adreena456]

I miss celebrities being private, I’m no longer a fan of many of them because of the shit they post on Twitter

[@pynkbymbo]

You don’t have to over share to share aspects of ur life like Rihanna for example. Beyonce could talk about her fav looks, if she likes her hair better up or down, does she prefer stilettos or platforms, her fav collab, some of her fav looks on Kelly & Michelle, if she likes a natural or full glam beat, her fav stylists, her deciding to wear the honey blonde indefinitely, encouraging working moms-the list goes on and none of that really tells her personal business.

[@TrulyHaja]

true

[@Kayla-kd8ov]

That's true

[@jabarimangum7376]

She does share aspects but in her own way where she has more control. Like through her documentaries and music for example

[@sp_ekriti]

Right! Just things that make you human. Likes, dislikes, favorites, stories about certain looks, etc. All of that makes you more personable without people knowing your blood type and all of your chromosomes.

[@pynkbymbo]

@@jabarimangum7376 lol her music doesn’t count, we were specifically speaking on how her audience only resonates with her music but nothing she sells. She releases a documentary how often??? Right! If the things you mentioned were enough, then why do her business ventures all fail? I understand she’s prolly ur fav and it’s hard to be unbiased but it’s true.

[@Megami_003]

The privacy being invaded part is so true. This maybe unrelated but some female jpop idol got her hotel location known by a crazy fan just by looking at the reflection in her eyeballs from a picture she posted online. Btw you look so amazing as always! I really love your style ❤

[@tintedcherry]

It was a jpop idol’s stalker who found out where she lived and the floor by the reflection by her eyeballs! but stalker issues are a huge problem in kpop too as they would wait at hotels, be on the same flight and wait at the airports for them

[@Megami_003]

@@tintedcherry ohh thanks for correcting! But yeah it's really terrifying. Couldn't wrap my head around abt how much it happens a lot as well as to other artists as well

[@tintedcherry]

@@Megami_003 kpop built on parasocial relationship and social media only further push that. it’s more common for them to treat or call their fans as their partner more than not. but imo, those stalker fans aka sasaengs are already delusional people who got baited by the marketing because sometimes you gotta do what you have to do for the bills to paid off. there’s so many weird instances where han from the group stray kids actually was on a fansign call with a fan and she showed him her lingerie and it’s not even one of the most shocking thing in kpop either, sadly

[@barbaramay9288]

😭😭

[@kaycjames29]

You know what is sad, it’s that all of this is true BUT also that this only happens to women and not men. In the case of Lori, I REALLY wanted to know what happened with Michael B. Jordan’s breakup but if you ask me, in my mind I just expected HER to speak about it, meanwhile I was still admiring Michael and liking his posts and even thinking SHE was the one to blame. I tell you, us women have paved the way to bring our own genre to the ground and put us through things like this.

[@kilimanjaro5537]

I realize that we are living in the end times and also we’re a generation that was raised to be nosy. I feel like a lot of us suffer from having a monitoring spirit, even if we don’t recognize it. The concept of watching vlogs, reality tv, etc. is nosy in itself. I feel like social media has made us even more nosy.

[@ItsHerLizzy]

For me I don’t personally think it was monitoring spirit. It’s just that they were relatable. That we could relate with them so I guess that is why people have become so comfortable with over sharing because it doesn’t feel like they over sharing with strangers anymore which obviously is not a good thing but it felt like they were over sharing with a friend because of the relatable feeling that they had connecting with fans and fans being able to connect with them you know what I mean I do say it has gotten out of control and we need to calm down because we have become too comfortable in over sharing things because you’re right, we do not know who is listening who we use it against us you know we’re just they have just started talking too much you know because of the comfortable feeling that we had and I am not going to lie. I also have had a comfortable feeling what it felt like you could just talk, to the whole world and I do know why because of this thing that we have built you know.

[@kilimanjaro5537]

@@ItsHerLizzy I agree, I don’t think the intent behind watching vlogs, etc. is always bad but I do think when you are too invested in the lives of someone else, instead of your own and your relationship with God, you can began to feel jealous and envious of other people. Truth be told, we should not know what a complete strangers kids and spouse look like, that is not normal.

[@Danielle2Dani]

We are in the time of idolatry. In the Bible, it definitely states we are in the last days when people become lovers of self. Not only are people loving these "celebrities " as an idol, these celebrities are becoming lovers of self, hence the obsession over their own looks and success. I will agree we are in the last times, and we are now seeing who is for God and who is for the world. For those who are believers of christ, we were warned that everything will be revealed, that's why celebrities are telling it all because it was all written that the truth of things will be told. So celebrities oversharing is good, we are now seeing people's fruits.

[@ItsHerLizzy]

@@kilimanjaro5537that may be true but for me personally I don’t know about others but me personally I sometimes feel inspired sometimes by them. Not saying it’s their job but it’s just nice to see people having normal lives or just better lives. That makes you want to work harder. Even when you fail you get up and try again. Not trying to mean or rude. Sorry for writing so late

[@IAMMXRCUS]

I feel like one of the reasons Rihanna is better with business than Beyonce is because she is much more personable so it feels like you could trust her with something. The girl who grew up poor in the islands V.S. the girl with business owners as parents, the one who doesn't do even interact with her fans V.S. the one who has events and post funny memes. It might not be right BUT as humans we go with what we feel close too.

[@ms.x1669]

Exactly. I understand Beyonce's reasons for being private, she's human and the way people come for her sometimes must hurt. She does come off as stand off'ish.

[@thewritergrl]

There's a KZbinr, Thefemininefancy who didn't share her wedding photos and I LOVE THAT. As a private person who doesn't post on SM, I admire celebs or anyone in the public eye who doesn't share. I am also team keep your kids off of the internet.

[@yettamarie4161]

I love the femininefancy

[@awadiop4215]

I like celebrities who don’t share. I don’t care about your Lives I just care about your talent and artistry. The more I know your whole business your allure goes away. I feel like it gets embarrassing when very personal information about them comes out and it’s just humiliating. now celebrities do need to be relatable for people connect with them so you can share sometimes but their also needs to be privacy. As well needs to be a balance.people are to nosey. Because when you over share then people use it against and make fun of you that’s why Kylie Jenner got no chill when she cried over her plastic surgery.no offense Kylie will be fine with her next vacation.

[@Her_name_grey]

South Africa is here , locked in

[@aaliyassworld]

YES sister !!!!!🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@NompiloKhumalo-jm7sm]

We're together mtase🇿🇦

[@WawaMotloung]

Yes home girl.. Sikhona!❤

[@issapretty9052]

Re dahh🇿🇦

[@smokeyventage]

Over sharing makes me repellent. It gives off the energy of desperation for attention IMO. Plus if I always see someone their presence isn’t that special cause they’re always in my face talking about something or doing something so it becomes common and nothing special to see or hear. It’s like McDonald’s…always available but the quality ain’t that great.

[@summerwhixh]

I kinda understand Kylie wanting to share less with her kids but it does have an impact

[@Jaded_underrated]

Mystic leads to people being intrigued so it doesn't feel like they're overstaying their welcome Take mj, beyonce or prince

[@mwitaemmy]

Exactly....🤝🤝🤝

[@gabrielleduplessis7388]

Honestly, the public needs to stop being fickle and feeling entitled to know every aspect of a celebrity’s life. We don’t beed to know and we should be happy that celebs don’t show their kids or families. And if friends don’t want to be filmed so they can keep their privacy, that’s a good thing. I get doing interviews where you can still control the narrative or telling some stories, but if someone can still maintain privacy in this world where it doesn’t exist, that is noble.

[@hannahmontana4019]

You mentioned the “hawk tuah girl” and I would love to hear your take on vitality and fast fame. I saw smt saying she quit her job, moved to la and got a manger all off of her viral moment. What’s your take on the ice spices, sexxy reds and hawk tuah girl. Do you see any longevity in there careers?

[@Thenameisbri]

This!

[@TeaLeaf222]

In my city I live in an apt building that has a very instagrammable porch with columns and has colors that rep our city. I often see younger people doing mini photoshoots on our stoop and I dont bother them because they're being harmless. The private, old lady part of me hates that my address is getting passed around for IG aesthetic. I think when it comes to openness it can come across as authentic and relatable. I am a more reserved person and dont like when people try to force me to share extremely private things. Its hard because I do want to be cool with people but I used to be way more open and it got me in a world of mess and hurt.

[@franciscasfunspace3985]

I think the reason why celebrity brands don't do well is because most of the time they bank on the the influence and fame of the celebrity instead of making good products that can compete with existing products on the market. Unfortunately when your product isn't that good and you don't have much influence because you don't share that much on social media, your brand isn't going to do well. I recommend the following KZbin channels 1. Under stitch 2. Under skin He really goes deep into why celebrity and non celebrity fashion and beauty brands do well or fail.

[@memonos]

I stopped caring about lot of celebrities drama (I live in country where celebrities and influencers drama are literally freaking serious like breaking homes and ruining actual peoples lives) I realized how bad it’s and how much it affected me mentally so I just put halt to it same thing with western celebrities and influencers some of this is just straight up scary, being mysterious and private to me is the best thing I’ve chosen to do the moment I started college I just decided not to share so many things about me I even went to lengths stopping other people from over sharing with me.

[@glo5463]

This is the tug of war i have with making a KZbin exemplified. I want to share my personal life with my business, being in nature, and life experiences, but i am concerned about public opinion. On my social media my page is private and i get high engagements of viewers on my story but the only a handful of people react to my stories and my posts. But I know for a fact if i make my page public it will allow strangers to become invested and breach boundaries

[@NoNameNomad....]

I'm not even a fan of the Kar/Jenners, but seeing Kylie cry made me feel extremely sad for her and I was disappointed by the lack of empathy for her. She didn't set the unrealistic beauty standards, Hollywood's been that way decades before Kylie was born. Yes she had an impact on the youth growing up and profited off it, but imagine growing up in her household under a microscope for the whole world to criticise since she was a child. Also, she grew up with unrealistic beauty standards put upon her and was getting procedures done at an age that was far too young.

[@thefashionextraordinaire]

Please bring back privacy and not sharing every personal thing in your life. Celebrities make this mistake every time they go on live and tell allll their business 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@marisonmars1233]

In terms of engagement and product sales, transparency is definitely a factor that can aid in success. I do feel like now some celebrities and influencers feel a sense of power in not oversharing. They want to share their lives, but just enough and not too much. Perhaps the whole ‘I’m still a person’ mindset is what drives this? Just because I’m a celebrity doesn’t mean I have to share every last detail of my life with the world if I don’t WANT to. Of course that comes with its consequences seeing that people feel disconnected, but I think people as people reserve the right to decide how open they want to be about their personal lives; they just have to know if they live in secrecy they won’t reap the same benefits as someone who may be more transparent!

[@susanjeffries5108]

Parasocial relationships are really interesting and they can be kind of scary. People get a sense that they really know someone online and that's when creepy weird behavior happens. At that last VidCon that just happened I thought to myself, "It would be so scary to put yourself out there and not know if you had some crazed obsessive superfan that was going to try to get close to you and touch you or cut off some of your hair or something for their weird collection." I know most people aren't like that but there are people out there that get really obsessed and feel like they KNOW these influencers and celebrities and they really don't. The thing about posting kids and relationships online... That's just crazy. People getting upset that you're not posting pictures of your children is nuts!!!!! Kids are entitled to privacy and I don't see anything wrong with influencers and celebrities trying to protect their children from all the comments online and from prying eyes that want to know everything about them.

[@michealathomas5750]

💯

[@lmusima3275]

It’s good to reflect on Beyoncé’s experience with privacy. I saw in her interviews she refused to disclose information on her private life. Unfortunately for me, I came to a realisation that I had been over sharing on Instagram and even WhatsApp. Everyone knew what I was up to in my spare time, holidays, socials, food I ate, what I read, personal issues etc. It never 👎 added value or made me appreciated. So cut back posting and sharing my activities in real time.

[@CinemaDoll137]

I just removed all of my selfies from IG. I'm in an era where I don't want to be perceived.

[@WhenSaraiSpeaksUListen]

Completed the entire video and yes, it is just very weird the entitlement that some may have when it comes to someone’s personal life. Makes me think more about how I need to move on social media.

[@cantsay2205]

I've had people get downright furious when they find out that my social media is locked down more securely than Fort Knox. Like why do they think they're entitled to know about me? I don't even post anything personal really, mostly just memes. It's not that I'm secretive, I just live quietly.

[@ghettoghost305]

My family went in on me and from what my nephew told me had a whole family meeting behind my back because I deactivated all of my social media. Last week, my brother tried to cuss me out for not coming back to social media. I haven’t been on FB in like three years, I shut down every social media account I had, IG, X, you name it. I became tired of social media because it is full of drama, oversharing, it’s the same thing. It gets exhausting so I just removed myself. I do not miss it. Just like in 2014, I stopped watching reality tv because I didn’t like how Jackie on BBW LA created that drama between Draya and Sunday, then when Draya defended herself then she was bullied for it. It’s very exhausting.

[@miyakemp106]

I actually LOVE this for Kylie as far as being private! I feel like privacy brings respect since people don’t know much about you which means there’s not much to comment on. 😊

[@camillewalker2962]

Oversharing might come with benefits of rise in social media fame and money for now, but overtime the same audience cheering you on can turn on you in a second for anything. Plus could get dangerous people knowing too much about you, your family, and your friends. It seems like eventually everyone who overshares for views feel the burn later and eventually they wise up.

[@L4A1D1Y]

I guess I’m out of the loop because I literally ignore all these people!😂😂

[@TES-qf7du]

Yet you are watching this

[@Babygirl758]

and that is why kylie cosmetics was extremely successful during the king kylie era, because kylie would share her whole life on snapchat and vines.. from the moment she woke up to when she went to bed

[@maryjanedodo]

If Laurie shared more about her famous relationships she wouldn't have any to talk about...

[@keyshae.1739]

Celebrities are humans too!! They should be given grace for any changes they want to do with their life. Fans are so unrealistic towards celebrities and it’s very toxic. As a generation, we need to do better with this. Respect is needed for them fr!! Like it truly hurts me to see Kylie Jenner hurt like that because people don’t understand that she’s growing up and mature. I don’t even care about what she does in her life, but she really should be respected from her fans and such.

[@clockeat1300]

I love watching her videos ❤ she educates me, addresses issues and is smart

[@ToniBryanneTV]

Awww thank you so much!! I’m so glad you enjoy ❤

[@Stridefully]

The thing that bothers me is when people willfully drag other people (especially young kids) into their social media/public life and start oversharing about them. Family vloggers forever have me fuming about showing their babies from mere minutes after they're born and showing nearly every detail of their lives on social media. Unless someone gives me explicit permission, I don't want to put photos or details about them on social media, and even then I say you should be cautious about what you share about partners/friends/family/etc. If you wanna overshare about yourself exclusively? That's your choice, just don't bring others into it. Also, remember that anything you put out there will stay out there forever, and not everyone on the internet is going to be kind.

[@Neicywoods]

Ivy Park always seemed exclusive in the way of it is not a brand for everyone. I do think some celebs overshare. I highly respect those that never show their kids. Ppl are cruel.

[@ElisiasEvolution]

Beyonce is not relatable that's why her endorsement never sell. You don't see her using any of the products where as Riri does.

[@lifeasjazmin]

I use to over share until I got a weird ass vibe from a close friend who was trying to literally copy my whole life based on things I would post, not personally tell her. So I removed her from my life and now I’m off social media bc people really don’t like you on there not even your own friends, people just like to post there “fake” rich life & act like there the best thing that walked this Earth but in reality sit at a $19 job all day.

[@James_follows_Christ]

I say this with all respect. Anybody to proclaim they’re truly a Christ follower shouldn’t be listening to artists like Beyoncé. I see why people question if you’re Christian why would you listen to her because she openly mocks the LORD in her music. Again I say this is love,but a lot of people believe that the LORD is real , go to church, and read the Bible ,but that doesn’t make them a sincere follower of Jesus Christ. That’s make them a a person to thinks they’re right with the LORD,but aren’t. The Bible calls it “A form of godliness.” It also can leave people confused who don’t claim to be Christian confused about what a sincere Christian is and some can view Christian’s as a whole and hypocrites. I’m not saying everything song that’s secular is bad, or every movie that’s secular is bad,but a Christ follower should be known by their lifestyle by how they live though we know no one is perfect. However I’ll say this if your heart is truly seeking to get closer to the LORD may the LORD keep drawing you closer to HIM by HIS grace and mercy alone that can lead anyone will a willing head to turn away from sin;repent. King James Version 15 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

[@vtop1c]

I honestly muted all post notifications from friends whom I know are habitual over-sharers. If you care about connecting with friends, then let's meet up for coffee and chat for a while - something that actually gives us a meaningful human interaction. Not everyone should have total access to your private life. Making every single detail public just screams "desperate need for attention".

[@kelthekonqrr]

Maybe she doesn’t want to. A lot of y’all are weirdos. Also, it could just be that her products aren’t FOR her fans… maybe not pedestrian level fans, it might just be for her celebrity level fans. Because again, she’s not on our level.

[@a-cn7808]

People forget that Beyonce used to be a lot more open and do a lot of interviews and she constantly for backlash: people saying she can't talk, mocking her accent saying she can't speak English. I think the rumours about her not carrying Blue Ivy was it for her.

[@sagittariusbeauty]

Exactly, over sharing isn’t her nor her brand. If she’s not selling her hairline much, oh well. Her music more than makes up for the profit. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@kimberleywilliams7802]

Mind you, celebs are also her fans. She's literally your fav celebs fav celeb. Plus her products are luxury, she is no longer marketing to the every day person. I don't think she quite cares THAT deeply how succesful they are, she's putting out things she likes.

[@kimberleywilliams7802]

@@a-cn7808 Exactly, these people ripped her apart and are now demanding she come back for more.

[@kimberleywilliams7802]

@@sagittariusbeauty Exactly. Unlike Rhianna or Selena or whoever since this person wants to compare, she has her talent, ticket sales, and music to fall back on. Touring and private concerts makes her way wealthier than products ever could for some of these other celebs. Rhianna could have never made her millions from touring.

[@dj.1094]

The entitlement part is so true! I remember when Jamie & Nikki got a divorce ppl were literally in their comments wanting to know what happened, if there was cheating, demanding that they each do a video explaining what happened saying “we made you famous so we have the right to know”😮 it was so sad like ppl get outside and touch some grass!

[@Halfsaladzw]

I respectfully disagree. I really appreciate people who share their lives and want to show us who they are. But you cannot sell me ANYTHING based on personality and that is what most of the sharing is about.

[@alexanderberyl402]

I AGREE!!! 👏🏾

[@Aprilb3667]

I think that despite the fact that someone is in the entertainment industry doesn’t mean they have to share every detail of their life. They are humans too they deserve respect and privacy. Especially, when someone gets plastic surgery everyone thinks they are owed an explanation. Also when a celebrity becomes pregnant and people start talking and creating rumors before the celebrity themselves gets to announce it idk that frustrates me the most. And as far as Kylie I just think she’s matured and has realized the negative implications of showing her children on the internet.

[@isataylors8368]

I fully agree with a lot of the critics concerning the Kardashians, but I think sometimes people tend to forget, that half of them were still kids (the others (just) really young) when they were put out in the Media like that. That must’ve had a lot of influence on them, PLUS they were kids, and kids tend to mess up sometimes. Not saying that excuses messing with body image like that, but it’s important to remember from time to time.

[@gamumhere6885]

I don’t know why people feel entitled to know about celebrities lives, they owe you nothing honestly

[@makeupmental]

Here I am, drinking iced coffee while watching and listening to a ToniBryanneTV video presentation. This, this is a good morning. Anyway, it’s a darned if you do and darned if you don’t sort of thing. Toni girl we’ve missed you❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️

[@Kyujinlee-d2i]

Luv u hair girlie!😁

[@sesimakoya]

Beyoncé should accept that her thing is to sing honestly. Like people love her for her singing coz it even shows with the support there. Everything else she’s ever done business wise outside of music keeps missing. Rihanna and Kanye are the ones who are multifaceted artists. You don’t see Tyler swift trying to make a clothing brand coz she knows her people just want music from her and it’s okay to not do everything.

[@tianaveevlogs]

this is such a great topic and video! as im growing in the content space i've been thinking about how to better build my personal brand without oversharing because i am just not the type of person to share SUPER personal things...but i also don't think you have to in order to have a strong personal brand! I think its less about knowing every detail of someones life, and more about *personality* because it allows the audience to relate and decide if they like someone or not. Rihanna and Tyla, for example, are celebs who we know their sense of humor, little back stories about their life, things they like and don't like, why they made certain decisions, how they respond to certain things, how they interact with others (celeb or not), etc. Yet we don't know all their business (especially Tyla because she's new to the game). and i admire that balance! Personality makes all the difference...even if it's not for everyone, someone will gravitate toward you! I want to master that lol

[@jkseraphim4]

The Kardashians Jenners have made money, and that was their shield. They always looked down and used average people for clout, and Kylie is no better with starting problems with other celebrities in the past. They and the people opened that genie in the bottle. You can't get mad now that you can't put it back!

[@phillinsogood]

I feel like Jay Z is the main reason why Beyoncé is so secretive & private. He’s definitely influenced her behind the scenes

[@kimberleywilliams7802]

Why do y'all always base every decision she has ever made on the man she's with? She is private cause people like you pick her entire life apart and scruitinize her every move while calling her every name in the book.

[@NosiphoL__]

Lol and not the people who were bullying her ever since she was child 🙄😒

[@jujubee6030]

Didn't he say something like "if you dont go out or if people don't see you then they start to miss you?"

[@NaturallyPoppin]

@@jujubee6030that’s also a law in the 48 laws of power which I’m sure he’s read it adds to the allure with people wondering what your doing and when you finally pop out there’s some excitement on your presence

[@kimberleywilliams7802]

@@NosiphoL__ gag it.

[@lachell257]

I think relatability is popular because a lot of people feel alone. So , watching a storytime and seeing someone have a similar story is intriguing. Like you're not the only one who has bad relationships.