These girls aren’t her friends . Charm deserves better
@Ladylove04867 ай бұрын
Totally agree!
@xxzeri_playsxxАй бұрын
No she's wrong to.
@LiLi-is6ck7 ай бұрын
Charm said I go home and get drunk alone and cancel plans because I have a problem… and her “friend” started yelling
@bernardwylie97607 ай бұрын
So, in other words, Charm was being a real one, she warned homegirl “yo, get yo man”, and when that didn’t happen, she stepped away to work and focus on herself.
@ud5587 ай бұрын
Correct
@jazzyjennshighway6 ай бұрын
Couldn’t have summed it up better
@JessRare4 ай бұрын
Yup I agree..and felt like all they worried about was having fun and pointing fingers judging her..and she prob felt like brown jacket was trying to set her up or like you said not listening to her so she separated herself. She felt like she couldn’t be friends with the one in the middle bc she’s kin to the one in the brown jacket…for them reasons they couldn’t be trusted. That’s why she didn’t confide in them and they felt “left hanging” and the whole time was the problem. Another thing you could tell Charms anger was out of hurt not jealousy like brown jacket was. All over a dude she’s no longer with smh
@1993kennyb7 ай бұрын
Charm , leave that toxic girl alone! She does not care about you! When you mentioned your drinking problem she didn’t care ! She tore you downnnnnnn! Leave both actually
@MercedesTyrease7 ай бұрын
Uhhhh no that’s not how that works tf
@jaegordon49897 ай бұрын
girl she did did you not hear all the questions..
@1993kennyb7 ай бұрын
@@jaegordon4989 I cut it off towards the end bc I still didn't like the energy
@1993kennyb7 ай бұрын
@@MercedesTyrease What do you mean? I have never seen “friends “ reaction to something like that before. Ol girl cut her off once... I'll continue the same energy. I am not a sensitive person but their reaction got to me. But hey maybe we have different views for friendships
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
💜🙏🏾💜
@lunacy37 ай бұрын
The moment she admitted she had a drinking problem and the “friend” aggressively asked her “what you sad about” told me enough. That girl is going through stuff mentally and you still angry at her, that friendship might as well be finished
@helpkelp35957 ай бұрын
Charm is growing past her friends and they don't like that because they're the same people she met. It isn't necessarily a bad thing but often times when someone is starting to do better than their friends they grow envious
@prestonmcleod17267 ай бұрын
Right, Charm has realized that it's time to remove toxicity from her life.
@JewelPray7 ай бұрын
I feel the girl in the red so much 😩 im in the same spot with my friends, some will understand your healing journey & some won’t
@deshawnbrown9867 ай бұрын
It's growing pains. Stay on your path. Those who are meant to join you will ❤❤
@oceanbella7 ай бұрын
I definitely know how she feels 😮💨
@chaayaje7 ай бұрын
same😫
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
Stay strong and trust your intuition 💜🙏🏾💜
@LundynChristeonTV7 ай бұрын
I sense jealousy. There was no reason for her to bring Charm on the show just because of a mistake that she made when that had no correlation to her whatsoever. It seems like she was hoping for the worst so that she can publicly exploit her :( I’m wishing Charm the best on her spiritual journey. It seems like she has more going on and the others just want to party & create mess.
@demarr___richie7 ай бұрын
This Is Da Perfect Sum Of Everything Thank You
@kiddharris56377 ай бұрын
"She can be a lot of fun, most toxic people are." Woooweeee don't that got some nice truth to it !!!! 😄😄😄
@damianu40827 ай бұрын
Growing together does not imply that everyone matures at the same rate.
@sophiaandre1397 ай бұрын
I can't be the only one feeling lost. I'm confused. What's going on!?!😂
@by4ku9637 ай бұрын
you not i’m confused too😭
@heathab...._-_7 ай бұрын
Girl!
@ashleyjohnson33977 ай бұрын
Same I’m having to watch it to see what I missed. I’m like all this over a skipped song on karaoke???
@oddchocolate9647 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kathlynnb11147 ай бұрын
Feeling the same type of way 😂😂
@indiaalmighty7 ай бұрын
Charm seems like a good friend, the other two girls owe her an apology.
@AmaniMariee7 ай бұрын
She did all the just to be LOUD & WRONG. I hope she has that same energy for her relationship when she go home 😂😂😂
@RosalynnAnne7 ай бұрын
She said it’s an ex so I’m kinda confused tbh
@AmaniMariee7 ай бұрын
@@RosalynnAnne hey boo ✨ and ex or not, she is wrong. she’s very much THE problem.
@chamrithomas14227 ай бұрын
BIG CLAPS FOR CHARM!! She remained solid and when she was being accused she made boundaries, isolated herself and began her healing journey. Charm God bless you sista I pray abundance and goodness over your life ❤
@klove73657 ай бұрын
Charm I don’t blame you for not talking about why you drinking to your friend. Everything is not for everyone’s ears. I wish you the best luck you seem like a really sincere young lady. ❤
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
💜🙏🏾💜
@Sara-zt4cb7 ай бұрын
That white lady with the blond box braids blew me 😂
@BrooklynnSims-s3t7 ай бұрын
Man tho she been in the last 3 eposide
@speakmymind2477 ай бұрын
😂😂😂@@BrooklynnSims-s3t right must have recorded these all the same day cuz I think she had on the same shirt
@AkinWilliams-jv5nm7 ай бұрын
LOL I SEEN HER IN LAST POST TOO. Geterrrr outtaa heree
@troy0287 ай бұрын
Shit staged. 😂😂😂
@jadebluhorizonz71297 ай бұрын
😂Chile 😂 maybe she is light skinned
@imell3727 ай бұрын
Leave those toxic friends. It’s not salvageable. They’re mean and they don’t have the capacity at the moment to be there for you.
@jaegordon49897 ай бұрын
how are they man tf
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
I did 💜🙏🏾💜
@imell3727 ай бұрын
@@elevatedcharmm I love that for you. Hope you meet amazing people and even better friends!💜💜
@RosalynnAnne6 ай бұрын
@@elevatedcharmmall of us are glad to hear !
@Onyxkokoro963 ай бұрын
@@elevatedcharmm yesssss I'm so happy to hear that!!
@kaseamashorter32377 ай бұрын
Charm is the mvp of this story! She was pouring her heart out and those are not her real friends. Anyway, women give men too much power! I’m not falling out with my best friends of 30 years over a man. This man is trying to break them up she needs to have this same energy with her man!
@Hannahrk97 ай бұрын
This is why I keep my circle small.
@jaeyagirl7 ай бұрын
Yo circle must be a dot bc it’s only three of them there 😂😂
@SMW-qv3mo7 ай бұрын
@@jaeyagirl lol right
@RosalynnAnne7 ай бұрын
@@jaeyagirlright she said that like she ate lmao
@Wyzdom19746 ай бұрын
Real Talk 💯
@alexaruffin96117 ай бұрын
Girl she crazy as hell if she continue to be cool with either party. Cause doing all that over a man you still messing with is wild.
@SMW-qv3mo7 ай бұрын
right! She was so hostile! Jumping and getting her face and for what!
@NEE2TIMESS7 ай бұрын
exactly lol cause they’ll never get another conversation out of me after that 😂😂
@LosaCre87 ай бұрын
These are friends that’s been plotting on ending the relationship having secret conversations and now act like she’s the problem when she wants to grow. And then used her past against her. Child continue your self love / healing journey without them and come back when you’re whole and can see some things differently.
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
💜🙏🏾💜
@sttaylor10087 ай бұрын
Charm is the only one outta the group that was living in her truth!!! She took accountability in her faults and in her addiction. The girl with the locs just angry and needs to do her own innerwork, she finally admitted jealousy even though it was obvious. Jealousy doesn't have to be in appearance... people including her bf could've been attracted to Charm just by her realness and her living in her truth.
@VONiiE87 ай бұрын
Karamo: I’m not here to say you’re the bad guy Me: I am. She just looking for a reason to be mad 🥴
@alex_P138427 ай бұрын
ME
@britonyabanks7 ай бұрын
Gabby was looking for something to be mad about. She should’ve tried to talking to Charm instead of accusing her. Charm is doing the work and evolving, the other two….smh.
@papiiquaa7 ай бұрын
People have to learn the difference between friends and associates that you can have fun with sometimes. Everyone should not be called a friend.
@realmommee80937 ай бұрын
I haven’t even heard hardly any of this, but when she said she wanted to have the phone check, why don’t you check her man’s phone?
@fatimasg17 ай бұрын
Charm is better than that friend group, she needs to find new friends.
@soulflowerpeace92367 ай бұрын
Wow with friends like this who needs enemies...she went through a lot and is obviously hurting...they should have been there for her instead of coming for her!
@NEE2TIMESS7 ай бұрын
Facts ‼️🎯
@bcoleman72297 ай бұрын
I want to scream for Charm. Did you see how quickly they tried to belittle her by saying, “ BUT WE KNOW OURSELVES”. Nahhhh. They are gonna throw this in your face again.
@J-evolving7 ай бұрын
This the comment I was looking for. I heard it too 😮 Time to just disconnect. Everybody isn’t fit to go with you in your healing journey
@RosalynnAnne6 ай бұрын
They don’t seem to know themselves too well. They are very close minded people
@lucretia_macevil7 ай бұрын
they dont know how to express themselves, so they're irritated - that's all thats happening. i hope they all can learn how to talk to themselves, so they can talk to each other
@nicoleraheem11957 ай бұрын
That's because they are used to fighting
@youngodyssey167 ай бұрын
This is so much better then so many women not seeing this lol i would be mad too if you have information and i got to ask you questions to get it… its like why tell her if you are going to act like that?
@Indigal7 ай бұрын
It's always over a dude
@sonhg79517 ай бұрын
She needs new "friends..." (red hair girl)
@asiaryan86397 ай бұрын
If I were charm I would leave gabby alone. “I apologize if you felt” is not an apology. She’s too jealous and toxic
@DEPTHTALKSINC7 ай бұрын
Charm… continue to surround yourself with new people! New energies! And committed to your spiritual journey!! These girls are clueless of what it’s like to be in your shoes. Praying for healing & sending lots of love and positivity your way❤
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
💜🙏🏾💜
@iambibi6165 ай бұрын
Charm is a real one. I wish her the best on her spiritual journey, she wasn't on defensive until the other one was. I hope she found new friends and keep growing.
@rustyhornzinstrumentalist-75967 ай бұрын
I'm Definitely That Dude Sittin' in The Corner Not Sayin' Nothin' To No One But Will Pick Out That One Person To Talk Too. 🤣🤣😂
@legaleagles36547 ай бұрын
@@Fluffyy808 # you’re
@rustyhornzinstrumentalist-75967 ай бұрын
@@legaleagles3654 To Fluffy808 And I'm Looking Handsome in The Corner. .😂😂
@JenniferBender-x3g7 ай бұрын
Sound like a Scorpio lol
@rustyhornzinstrumentalist-75967 ай бұрын
@@JenniferBender-x3g Nah, I'm Taurean. 🤷🏾
@Socially.k7 ай бұрын
I feel like part of her healing journey needs to be letting them go as painful as it might be… sometimes we outgrow our friends and that’s ok!
@georgia11917 ай бұрын
That apology was sincere and she already grew throughout this show! I hope they continue to grow.
@Karmakaramel7 ай бұрын
I knew Charm was finna be the real one! This should show people to really pay attention to your friends/people arounds lives & not just yours.
@willdee-st6ub7 ай бұрын
Charm was definitely done dirty and phone unlocked proved charm.was not messing with her friend ex boyfriend
@anyalawrence96927 ай бұрын
The apology needs to be as loud as that disrespect. The apology needs to be as loud as those accusations. I hope charm finds the friends that she deserves and gets the help that she needs.
@tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t7 ай бұрын
13:58!- Did she say “I love your kindness?” That was touching as hell. KINDNESS, chile.
@JaneInThisThang7 ай бұрын
I don't believe this friendship is salvageable but best of wishes
@SMW-qv3mo7 ай бұрын
Charm is clearly working on herself and is trying to be her best self. She has acknowledged her healing journey, her drinking problems. They were very dismissive of her feelings which she called them out on. I do think the red hairs apology was genuine but she clearly needs to work on herself too. I wish all of them the best. Learn to properly communicate and you will have a great life.
@NoDeductions7 ай бұрын
I wish Charm da best on her spiritual journey indeed it's lack of communication but it'd also jealousy I do sense as well Charm definitely has stuff going on and whatever it is I Hope she overcomes it indeed n surround haself round the right people same way I been doing ❤❤
@empressirie11117 ай бұрын
It’s amazing how the people who call the show are actually the problem
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
😂
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
Wow! I didn't even want to go to the show...Thank yall for the beautiful words and love and yes I'm elevating and healing daily💜🙏🏾💜...PS yall hurting my feelings with these Man comments 😭😭😭
@Daisylove837 ай бұрын
Keep it moving Charm💟. Nothing is better than growth 👌🏾❤️🙏🏽.
@lystramcburnie32977 ай бұрын
Charm should walk away from the negative energy and continue to focus on finding and building herself. There comes a time in life when you need to decide whether or not you’re willing to put up with the drama and negativity
@heyheyhey407 ай бұрын
It’s always funny when Karamo tries to correct people’s grammar on the sly…. “So you BROUGHT someone with you?”😂 He tried but she still went back to saying “brung”.
@hnrqtslv7 ай бұрын
“brung” is wild 😭
@mysterybox92507 ай бұрын
Right! I thought wait am i trippin? Is that the past perfect tense for to bring? I was thinking in my head “I brought” lol
@penelopeb13707 ай бұрын
@@mysterybox9250😅😅😅
@asiablackgrl64827 ай бұрын
Ngl, I might say brung a lil' bit 😝
@nicoleraheem11957 ай бұрын
😂@@mysterybox9250
@Lovely_1One7 ай бұрын
Right! So is “conversate!” LMAO! 😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@latoyaowens36456 ай бұрын
This is simply outgrowing each other. Keep it moving.
@BNspiredServices7 ай бұрын
This one did me in! Sisterhood is sooo important to our growth as women. Each one of my friends makes up the flowers in my garden! I wouldn't be who I am if it wasn't for them‼️💯 I love them! These Queens have healing to do but it's possible! True friendship requires having those tough conversations! Sending them all love and light on their journey ‼️💯✨🤌🏽
@awesomefan16787 ай бұрын
When you are trying to heal and find peace, you have to get rid of the negative and toxic energy that may have contributed to the toxic behavior (drinking). I am glad Charm can forgive them but as far as inviting them back in your life, for me the answer would be no way. Congratulations to Charm for trying to improve her life by getting rid of negative and toxic energy and learning to love herself.
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
💜🙏🏾💜
@glendatheartist7 ай бұрын
I know Charm in real life. She is a good person. Fuck what everybody else talmbout.
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
Thank you Glenda 💜
@glendatheartist7 ай бұрын
@@elevatedcharmm you know it honey. We all make mistakes & so called friends should never ever be trying to throw our darkest moments back in our faces.
@MrsTashia957 ай бұрын
Every time Karamo asked the girl with the locs why she did or didn’t do something, her immediate answer was trying to blame Charm… “I mean she don’t…” “she never” what DO YOU DO?!!?
@shantelwest89687 ай бұрын
who goes on drinking rendezvous so often just. Charm knows there is much more to life than "kicking it"
@PLEASURE_MeMe7 ай бұрын
She just want to argue and she love beefing over nothing. I had a hard time understanding WTF her problem was. She’s don’t need no friends at all. And she’s jealous like she said. She need help mentally. She need to start loving herself. If someone do t want to chill or be with you, SO WHAT!? No one is obligated to be with you or chill with you. Girl grow TF UP!!
@alexcooper12167 ай бұрын
They're not really friends. Gabby needs to grow up and needed to check her "ex." Gabby was jealous. Charm has admitted her wrong and is trying to grow. They aren't trying to better themselves yet. Charm can't keep going out with y'all and suffering from alcoholism. Too much judgement; not enough compassion and understanding.
@J-evolving7 ай бұрын
@Charm, disconnect from her. She will not contribute to your healing. Gabby’s energy and anger is misplaced. Those are the ones that will go from 0 to 100 over the smallest things and put it all out on social media. Gabby’s apology seemed sincere, but it’s a temporary one until the next issue comes along. Charm, you said something too that’s profound and definitely true “toxic people are normally fun.” All the best in your healing journey ❤
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
💜🙏🏾💜
@lovelymarie13667 ай бұрын
Charm, they are not your friends! Run for the hills.
@dominiquehenson35147 ай бұрын
Love you Charmm. You are a gem and always have been. 🩷💕🦋
@PeggyRabbit327 ай бұрын
Charmed move on. I wouldn't talk to them ever again. If any friend I have brings me to a show to find out if I was messing with their man.. the would be dismissed.
@autobotdiva92687 ай бұрын
charm, as soon as i wouldve left. block. move. no contact. forever. goodbye!!!
@ashiagalloway51387 ай бұрын
She just looking for a reason to be mad at her because the shit she’s saying isnt really adding up.
@NubianP67 ай бұрын
I know it’s not the primary reason they’re here, but I think that more attention needs to be given to the fact that the friend has confessed to having a drinking problem. That is not something that’s easy to admit, but it’s definitely a first step, so I pray that she seeks out the help that she needs.
@KayB-l5h7 ай бұрын
Some folks are only meant for a season in your llife. Gold dreds is very insecure and immature. She the type who thinks if you're her friend you should only be her friend and when she done everybody should be done with you. Her face @ 11:30 shows she really didn't have an argument she just messy and jealous. She not a friend.
@LifeWithRaqi7 ай бұрын
The cousin voice got me dead asf fr 😭😭
@deidrapeters6357 ай бұрын
I can’t get over those lady w the box braids bc what??!!!!!!!
@Shay-347 ай бұрын
Caught that 2😂
@Kayyshanell._7 ай бұрын
Charm 😂ima hold your hand when I say this please leave that girl alone
@pro_noir7 ай бұрын
charm is the realest one sitting on the couch.
@friday83707 ай бұрын
Easily so salvageable. I’ve been on all three sides in the past 3 years. It’s TOUGH- but y’all just gotta open up and be so fr and communicate. Send the screenshots, validate each other, hold the space to get out your “crazy” your feelings, your insecurities and build up that security that you need in any relationship, but especially friendships.
@roxyj31827 ай бұрын
I’m not putting all that energy in a “grown up” relationship. Especially at the age I’m at now. Just 37. Some people just shouldn’t be in your life
@ParisMiley7 ай бұрын
@@roxyj3182period
@wellmindyourbusiness44097 ай бұрын
Yeah no , charm doesn’t need none of that shit in her life
@thefreequency7 ай бұрын
I'm all for 2nd chances. However, there are certain character flaws that will stamp you for life imo. Women who sleep w their sister or friend's man or x cannot be trusted. Idc if her name is cleared this time, she's mad weird. Emotionally unstable
@VONiiE87 ай бұрын
I agree. But also, you can just back away from them. You don’t just assume they sleeping with your man and tryna hide it from you. Especially when she admitted to it from the beginning. I think the friend just wanted to validate disliking Charm
@tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t7 ай бұрын
Also, I heard brung and conversate. I’m taking a nap
@latishaross74037 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 #WeakAsf
@dbeloved027 ай бұрын
😂😂
@AA-yc9dq6 ай бұрын
🫠🫠🫠
@jasminehicks60017 ай бұрын
Wooowww and I know Charmm and Aricka personally. We all went to middle school and High school together. I still communicate with both ladies. I hope they can salvage their friendship ❤
@AndreaKeepingItMinimal5 ай бұрын
I'm so glad she standing up to her ex associate because homeboy wasn't a friend at all
@taquinarobinson88767 ай бұрын
I see growth in these young woman !! They gone be alright .
@denicacampbell37837 ай бұрын
She should’ve blocked him she shouldn’t have even had him on social media or his number. And there’s boundaries and levels to the shit.
@gorgeousgirlllc88076 ай бұрын
Girl she didn’t do shit!! Check that man not your friend! Y’all got shit fucked up
@prestonmcleod17267 ай бұрын
Charm needs to keep her space, & remove that toxicity from her life.
@alex_P138427 ай бұрын
Can we all just communicate period??? This could’ve been avoided with a simple conversation omg sorry Charm!
@t2631ln7 ай бұрын
Karamo y’all really had them with the microphones😂🤣
@Ormxnce7 ай бұрын
And if I was charm I would've cussed them smooth tf out for trying to belittle me and make accusations on my name and cut them off forever. They is messy, petty and immature asf
@cassandraker7 ай бұрын
Charm run girl runnnnnn🏃🏽🏃🏽🏃🏽🏃🏽They are not friends they are frenemies. Over a man shmmm.😢
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
Lol you reminded me of scary movie "run b#tch runnn" one of my favoritest scenes...And I did 🙏🏾💜🙏🏾
@gracevictorious39227 ай бұрын
Loving that red Chaka Khan hair 🔥
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
Thanks😊
@nicoleraheem11957 ай бұрын
You go Charm!!!❤ Good luck on your journey girlie. I hope you look into Intensive trauma therapy too. ❤
@elevatedcharmm7 ай бұрын
💜🙏🏾💜
@CaldyLives6 ай бұрын
I would have to disagree with you Kamaro, this sisterhood is done. She needs new and better friends, she need to discover her self and set proper boundaries.
@mauricetyler35097 ай бұрын
Charm a real one!❤
@BigZee07147 ай бұрын
Just because it CAN be salvaged doesn't mean it SHOULD!!!
@Phoenixishot6 ай бұрын
Let this lady alone. These 2 ‘friends’ are weird.
@kendallmax3117 ай бұрын
If I was the Charm girl I wouldn’t want to be friends with neither one of them save yourself the headache
@butyoucancallmesam7 ай бұрын
She sounds like DMX.
@LisaKrymer6 ай бұрын
I feel sorry for Charm…she needs to put herself first and leave these crazy toxic friends.
@RosalynnAnne6 ай бұрын
She said that she actually did !
@mvrtxan7 ай бұрын
So let me get this straight....they fell out bc homegirl didn't like her Then boyfriend (BC OBVIOUS REASONS) BUTTT whines up falling out with the boyfriend, who becomes her EX...now she lookin dumb 🧍🏾♀💀
@nayelis89477 ай бұрын
Sounds like home girl don’t know how to pick her man & be blaming everybody outside the relationship
@LuckyyLEVEN7 ай бұрын
What was the real issue here thou ? Like why did they bring charm on the show initially? I feel like charm is on a different path than them. She’s figuring her life out and outgrowing them.
@inluvwmaria6 ай бұрын
i feel her so much yall don't see mee bro
@oceanbella7 ай бұрын
There was a lot of misunderstandings and feelings that weren't being spoken and I can understand this because I had a similar situation with a best friend of mine and we actually ended our friendship.
@2005SHERWIN7 ай бұрын
I’m just like…. Why not bring this dude and have his phone unlocked?
@samileeable7 ай бұрын
I pray Charm sees these comments. There’s nothing to salvage in this relationship. The lady with locs is mean, jealous and vindictive and can’t be trusted. I appreciate karamos empathy but it was misplaced. How can someone say they have a drinking problem and you start yelling at them, and that’s the thirsty man she is willing to ruin a friendship for.