❤️‍🔥YOU TRIGGERED FEELINGS THEY HAVE NEVER FELT SO THEY BECAME AVOIDANT... [Soulmate Love Tarot]

[@NikkiBurnett]

Every time he hurts me his life falls apart and the universe shows him lessons 😅

[@Soulwork555]

Same!

[@marguerite4595]

Karma s a bit..😂🎉

[@inadaze.s]

My masculine too 🫣 literally every time!

[@NikkiBurnett]

He is used to women chasing him regardless if he has other women in his life, I’m a good girl and expect love and loyalty and I put my foot down and said no, either your with me and loyal or I’m gone…😮

[@TessBoze]

You held onto your integrity very well!

[@TessBoze]

Plus one

[@jpb23]

Thank you for this reading. It was so on for me and my connection and exactly where it's at. Yesterday (I'm a day ahead of the US), i felt compelled to call him out on his behavior. I've never done that before. There's been a little shift in him already. Let's see what happens from here.

[@Anvilsolo84]

100%! Totally my Aquarius DM. Karmic 3rd party influences, limited belief systems. She's awakening, spiritually and emotionally. Coming to take off her mask, admit her truth and feelings towards me, our relationship being taboo. Assertiveness. It's coming.

[@luann4742]

My story. After putting up his walls and shutting me out after I told him that I loved him, I finally had to walk away. After 3 months, finally met and he told me he “loves me” but needs more time. He’s definitely not healed. My boundaries are set but am cheering him on. ❤

[@TessBoze]

*If he knows he loves you, he knows he has Haspe enough time to join in a Union with you*

[@KELLY-m1w]

I love your free flowing reading style! You are so accurate with my TF! Last night I told him I’m done! We dated 30 years ago. I proposed he said no and I walked. He spent the last three years looking for me. We got back together in January and everytime he falls deeply into me, he pulls. He is an alcoholic and won’t stop drinking. I cannot let him sabotage himself anymore. He needs rehab or he can live with the regret of my loss forever!

[@TessBoze]

*No one but he can be responsible for validating and controlling his impulses*

[@WoW-S9105]

lol, he wants me but, on paper I’m too old…😂he didn’t even know for a long time…how does one heal that?

[@EternalLove.1111]

He was fearful avoidant waaaayyyyy before I met him...prob started when he was 2 yea old....im nc 2 mths....i wish to find a true love that is securely attached

[@julieschinkel]

The Sun and Moon cards confirmed it - he's Sun (Leo) and I'm Moon (Pisces). He would be wary approaching me after what happened. He very much aware that if things have gone wrong ever since we split again that it's his karma. But part of his healing is to own it and apologise to balance things out again. It's a step forward at least. Thank you for this reading, it resonated.

[@debrachambers1554]

Thanks!

[@soulfiretarot1111]

Thank you so much for your support! I truly appreciate it 🙏❤️🙏

[@debrachambers1554]

I'm not ready for a full blown commitment either. I think there's a lot to be figured out at this point.

[@Fnx9955]

In my case, I have been detaching and healed on and off for 8 months w him. It’s no use! He is only improving for a short time, then back to his addictions and selfish party lifestyle only prioritising himself and anyone except me. I am not taking his crumbs or waiting another month in false hope for this player. I have met another man, which is the opposite. Dependable much more consistent. I’m so fed up og wasting myself on the ungrateful player…he got me depressed, depleted, has affected my work life in a way he could have got me loosing a lot, my selfesteem - now that I am back up and done some healing - NO, I’ve seen from experience that he does not change. He does not heal nor grow. Bc he does not want to. I’m done. Thanks ❤

[@lisamortlock]

1:11 on clock when I opened this reading

[@dinasequeira198]

DM has trust issues, well how is this DF supposed to trust a habitual liar?

[@TessBoze]

You asked the right question of yourself. Now do your inner work to discover the answer within yourself.

[@TessBoze]

You were not wrong. “Believe them when they tell you who they are the first time.”

[@TessBoze]

Can he differentiate between love and lust?

[@TessBoze]

He wrote you just hours *AFTER* he dumped me on the curb, or else you would have time. He did not know I would tell him if he wanted to roam, go and roam. It was a three minute phone conversation. Because of your two’s attempt at marriage earlier this year, it may be that this is as a dog returning to its vomit. (Biblical reference.)

[@TessBoze]

Spirit told us last January that I had understood the lesson and passed, and so was released from it the rest of this lifetime and for all future lifetimes. But he did not and Spirit said he would spend the rest of his life learning this lesson and maybe in several lives from now, too.

[@darksphere7]

Thanks

[@soulfiretarot1111]

Thank you so much darling! Truly appreciate your support here 💖

[@TessBoze]

*He married as wounded. He gave me two days warning he was marrying*

[@Angels444.]

Resonates. I strongly and wholeheartedly claim communication n Union with my person n all the positive energies in this reading. Ty so much.

[@Gail-mv3sq]

Thank you for this detailed reading.. you know, l really appreciate the ability you have to truly tap into the emotional motives and details of “the person” (Leo) who l (Scorpio) recently moved on from. You’re so spot on regarding his immaturity.. l always thought it was due to our age gap; me being the older woman. I think now it’s just a severe immaturity, not sure what brought it about. I look forward to your readings each day since you have such a great deep dive into so much of the person’s motives, all of which he totally refused to talk about. Definitely hiding behind that mask. I don’t expect everything to play out precisely in the 3D; l know the free will can completely skew an outcome. But your precise readings are truly helping me cope with an excruciatingly painful situation…🙂 you’re helping me “understand” since l can only go day to day knowing an apology and explanation may never materialize in the 3D…

[@TessBoze]

*I have much I want to say, much I want to hear about. We need to speak of such things to assess ourselves and each other*

[@TessBoze]

You cannot invest in what you will not engage.

[@NikkiBurnett]

He’s never been in a committed relationship with one woman

[@cosmicdragontarot]

Thank you the karmic bit makes so much sense.

[@TessBoze]

*I claim this reading as it being about me as the subject of discussion.*

[@HiyaB-l2d]

Thank you so much! Totally resonates with my situation. Patience is key!!!

[@cielolele2293]

Thank you. Absolutely awesome, I definitely resonated with your reading. I was consulting with my pendulum during and it was really strong for agreement. This is going to be my final relationship and I guess that the Universe thought that I could do it. Hardest thing ever, to find out that your unexpected person is a severe Avoidant who has pushed you away and hurt you, out of habit and MO. I sensed that karma was smacking him around. Good You don't do that arrogant discard of a person who has been sent to you by the Universe, to love and heal you. Still really ambivalent atm if he approaches. Got one foot out the door, pendulum says that I have to go Through this. I'm like " free will". Still have feelings and compassion, I understand him. We're the same. But still Taurus simmering with outrage

[@christineholloway8321]

Hi new here and you are spot on with my twin flame and me....and I've now ended it now... he was immature at 60 I'm having no contact he broke the trust and I could never trust him in a trillion years there's no way you can rebuild it.... blessings ❤x

[@andrewwoollard2255]

Thanks for the read. RELATIONSHIPS. These days of instant gratification, it seems that everyone wants to get "married" yesterday. Its so stupid. How can anyone know their partner enough to commit and entangle another into their life without giving TIME to establish solid foundations. I have a mate who has had 5 "relationships" in the last year. As soon as he meets them he sets out to entrap these poor suckers into his version of "marriage". So many play this game and wonder why they get totally fucked up. From this read, it is clear that this dude needs a couple of YEARS to figure out which way is up. Why would anyone connect with him and complicate their life for a dick head. He at this point is only good as a fuckbuddy or friend with benefit at best. No committment until this person can demonstrate their ability to move into a higher state of connection. In the "old days" the common sense approach was that engagement (a ring to denote betrothal - a "trial period") before "marriage". This period was often 2-3 years. Where did this common sense go ?

[@carlashupe3348]

He is not getting a commitment until he goes to therapy for at least a year and gets into AA!

[@TessBoze]

We can make this good with prime effort from us both, My Love❣️

[@Moonhootie]

That already sounds like hard work. Run!!

[@debrachambers1554]

Thank you!❤

[@janine1744]

Thank you❤

[@judynixon9572]

Thank you darling 🙏🏾very nice reading ❤️running away 🏃🏼‍♀️🔚

[@EternalLove.1111]

U got it,,,,he is manipulative and chronic liar cheater

[@tammyb5999]

Wow!!! It kinda resonates lied ghosted 3rd party possibly waiting for truth and communication

[@KrisMarie222]

8:05 wow I just looked up his birth chart and yep. Chiron in Gemini. This is ridiculous man. We’ve known each other since 14!!!

[@kimberleylombard5710]

We really don't know what we're doing. Its out of life problems where we're bouncing back and forth. It's responsible. Yes Adult child

[@kimberleylombard5710]

Yes we're reacting too soon

[@303LadyLo]

One would think in our early 50's life lessons would have been learned. 🤦‍♀️I'm to old for games and inconsistency. ♏️ I'm not ready to see him. Self-inflicted karma.🤷‍♀️

[@JanetteCoetsee]

This reading is specifically for me

[@leticiamendez3555]

Wow, that’s my story! I’m a Leo and he’s a Capricorn and this is my situation 😢

[@rarnjohnston7044]

Thank you I appreciate you

[@Askrelive]

Wow, I could listen to you all day.. ♥️✨♥️ something scares him. Now he blocks me no and then, but he came back again yesterday.

[@RuthSchrei]

He is a narcissist!! I can’t handle that…. He went full fledge 100% on me. I’m through doing therapy on anybody!!

[@priscillaayd2007]

He's the type that had sexual connections and runs away. Until he met me. Infact he knows we are soulmates. When he run i told him im inbedded in his soul and he will never forget me. Over the months he's been spying but when he sees me he drives off. Yes i did tell him before that he will have to move from the home he shares with his child mother. According to the mother of his child he needs to be in the house because she's made him think thats his 7 year old son can't sleep if hes not in the home. He's healthy and fine by the way. But she guilt him into staying. Immature is 💯💯💯 Emotionally Immature.

[@WoW-S9105]

Age gap is the issue!

[@onnanob]

He pissed me off today (avoidance cycle) and he knows it. He made things better though. I thought he was getting better, but maybe my intuition is a bit off. Thanks for the reading.

[@hoodsnacks468]

That’s my deceased child’s birthday October 19

[@ronnieking1288]

I keep an interesting journal, all insights. I just wrote down my Destined Sol mate is trapped in 3D religious dogma, ideas from 3d etc. He must be going through it. Because i know i was in the place where only worthy energy came to me, i reconized my ancient Sol D.M in his avatar! He keeps away! My Sol destiny prevented by ego pride!?

[@MiichelleMariie1221]

🩵🩵🩵 7:57 16:31 🙌🏻🤞🏻🎉

[@AliceMims]

I RECEIVE THIS MESSAGE IN JESUS HOLY NAME 🕊💙🕊🙌🏽

[@TessBoze]

Plus one

[@debrachambers1554]

That's why he didn't respond to me last night when I sent him a message.

[@jagpawm5252]

Don't sugarcoat it most them will not change toxic immaturity nor will they come back too many triggers too easy run stay disgusting player

[@TheMeasuredSwan]

Exactly and thank goodness!!! I’m so relieved, I was over extending and underselling myself for what?

[@darksecrects5386]

Lets c how things go between us in future

[@debrachambers1554]

They gone! Bye!

[@darksecrects5386]

😂😂😂

[@wong6957]

💜🙏💜

[@TessBoze]

SPIRIT HAD DECLARED I AM HEALED and released me from our contract. *HE HOWEVER HAS NOT HEALED AND MUST CONTINUE TO WORK ON IT FOR LIFE AND IF NOT HEALING BY THE END OF HIS LIFE, HE WILL BE FORCED TO WORK ON PAST LIFE IN HIS NEXT LIVES*

[@HoneyPitrola]

💯🙏🙏❤️❤️☀️💯✝️x

[@superfields1194]

so bang on a narc liar, gas light false promises im aquarius

[@debrachambers1554]

Sounds like monkey in the middle game! This third party is not going to make things easy. More karma!

[@marguerite4595]

He s moving and I should leave him and my toxic job where he s my boss

[@Beyoutiful-q6n]

🤍

[@Chariot00]

He married being in the closet . Meh, to much drama for me

[@NinaChristianson]

Oh, well, too bad, so sad. I'm not even going to listen to this reading because I don't care. Bye bye ..