YOUR EYES WERE OPEN BUT YOU COULDN’T SEE

[@EWAMILENAP]

The narcissist is not your friend. It is your enemy.

[@mekalove8174]

Once your free it's like a new beginning of your life Everything feels different...you're at peace!! It's the best way to explain it! It's like you can breathe again the most wonderful feeling ever just to say I'm free!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯😊

[@maried7776]

Breathe again, yes. ❤😊 & Free!

[@gratefultobehere]

Mmmhhhhhmmmm it’s so good to BREATHE ❤

[@catlady6938]

So well put, that calmness comes over you and you breath 💜

[@joshuaanzalone2060]

Yes meka it is so freeing to be free. Of course she harasses me daily through hacking and stalking but I'm completely indifferent to her now. I don't care what she says or thinks about me.

[@PkmnMasterHolly]

‼️📣Andrew I just want to take your words and scream them from the rooftops for everyone to hear!!!! Your message is so powerful and clear! WHEN YOU SAY NO TO THE NARCISSIST YOU'RE SAYING YES TO YOURSELF! 🔥💯

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯😊

[@lisaengland1048]

I said yes to myself . I bought myself a new jeep for my birthday, . And when the narc. Said my car " don't . Work . !. She exped me to say you can have my Honda . 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. . I would have but . Andrew your videos opens my eyes . To takers . The guilt trip started . And . I had to go eat dinner . Thanks for drilling it into my thick head ❤️💯.

[@lisaengland1048]

I said yes to myself. . At least five times these three months . Good job Andrew . And other healthy self help platforms. 💪💪💪💪💪💪💯❤️😁

[@lisaengland1048]

I'm excited about going back to work, . I see the light at the end of the tunnel, and it's not a train🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lisaengland1048]

After a heaping helping dose of a year of Andrews videos, . I'm going good . And . Like Fleetwood Mac, never going back again!.

[@chicka-rocka]

"I once was lost, but now am found was blind, but now... I see!!!" 💜

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😊☀️🙌

[@Sofia-xn8wd]

I was married to an overt narcissist for 28 years until he died… while I was healing, I got involved with a covert narcissist- which is just as bad! I felt tricked because he seemed so nice, but then, I finally figured it out and walked away. Thank you for all that you do! I am an empath also.

[@truthbehindthelie7511]

No I love the Buddha way, not hate, and he hated and killed many in his mind everyday. But I was in a abusive relationship for many years, so this made me freeze. As hard as it was to be alone for the first time in my life at 62 I found my backbone!!! Thank you for explaining this to us. I appreciate you....

[@heatherroberson1648]

I was a child. I never stood a chance having adult relationships after this upbringing and abuse. I'm working on this. I'm single and thank you Andrew for helping me stay out of these relationships while I heal and move on. I'm taking care of me.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌

[@brianb7869]

I feel this too.

[@flowerpower4944]

Andrew you are so right about the GASLIGHTING, all I wanted was clairity and sincere conversations, But it Got swept under the Rug, they riggle out of any accountability,even the flying monkeys gaslight you too, they are Proxy for the Narcissist,.....I sincerely hope all of us here never get entangled with them Ever again,.So True Andrew ,Thanks for keeping our Eyes. And ears open,.much, much, appreciated Andrew ,God Bless You and Everyone Here THANKS 💓💓💓💓🙏🙏🙏🙏🤗👍💡

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌😊

[@gratefultobehere]

🙌💖💖💖💖

[@flowerpower4944]

@@gratefultobehere 🤗🤗❤️❤️🙏

[@joshuaanzalone2060]

Yep flower power and I will never engage with her or narc family ever again.

[@flowerpower4944]

@@joshuaanzalone2060 💪💪💪❤️🙏🙏

[@mekalove8174]

Hi Andrew because of you and other KZbinrs channels on the awareness about narcissist....my life was saved!! I got my power back and got stronger and said enough was enough!! Thank you so much and you're appreciated more than you know!! Namaste 🙏🏼

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Namaste 🙏🙌

[@erikathornton368]

Him and dr Ramani helped me heal and feel like I have support and there’s hope for happiness post narc relationship

[@learnElvish]

Just to comment on the last two videos - thank you Andrew - whenever I was on time (or early for n appointment or date), the Narc would be be running behind. Did it matter? Or course not. When I was late - even by 5 minutes...my God.. all hell broke lose. Secondly, many times I would see the narc telling me she was complimented by a random guy. I told her that guys will try it on, but then I was given the abuse... "why would you take that away from me? Am I not pretty?". Of course - it made me work harder, it made me feel jealous. But all this said, I called her on her behaviour, we are on a "break", so why is it hurting me so much? She is half a world away - has been for 6 weeks, with other friends. Last contact was three weeks ago. Can't sleep, can't eat, can't think, can't work. Just cry sitting on my phone. But why? The pain is unbearable. I get some of it from Andrew's videos, but I am slowly losing the will to get on with life. Is that what these Narcs REALLY want? They want to ruin my life even though that have had their dose from me? Maybe I am just too sensitive.

[@flowerpower4944]

Hi Andrew and all our family here God Bless you all now and always ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙌💯😊

[@mariageaney2362]

🌹💜🧡🕊️🙏🦋🦊

[@shakthi9524]

It's been 100 days i went no contact with that person..still recovering from all the abuses he did. I regret so much for ignoring all the red flags and letting all this to happen.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯💪

[@sharonhorwitz7903]

Once again, thank you, even though I’m crying . There’s a reason I’m exhausted after 13 years….I’ll be watching this over and over. You’re expressing things, I felt and lived, it’s overwhelming. Now, it’s getting weirder….you just used his expression “ no such thing as coincidence”. I don’t know how, and as I’ve said before, it’s as if you were living here. The realities are painful…however , I trust you. Thank you 😘🙏🏻

[@laviniatemple2967]

Sending hugs 🤗 to you. And prayers 🙏🏼

[@hongtruong4576]

No such thing as coincidence. It’s God work in mysterious way🙏

[@sharonhorwitz7903]

@@hongtruong4576 - thank you 😘

[@DJ-le5lo]

Our default emotion at birth is to trust! Thank you for teaching us to trust ourselves via our intuition & intellect before anything & anyone else!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@yourconnection9303]

Every thing you speak about is so very true Andrew. And yes, narcissists all too often eventually have the other person questioning their own sanity that, "Maybe it's me?" It's paramount that you show that you have respect for yourself at all times by setting boundaries, or you'll end up attracting parasitic people like narcissists who'll gladly set boundaries for you, and slowly strip you of ever ounce of self-worth you have. Beware.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏🙌💯

[@chelemae]

At 2:20 ish SPOT ON SPOT ON SPOT ON! If you try to have a mature, ADULT conversation with a narc, they shift the blame to YOU! I did not have the clarity on this as I do now so spot on. It's maddening to communicate with my spouse in this regard I unfortunately have had to just give up but if you are in a relationship such as this and can leave DO IT! You will save years of anguish, exasperation, defeat! Andrew you're amazing! Thank you!

[@JH-td4mn]

Another great video Andrew thank you. I love how you always say "you are not alone", anyone who has endured Narcissistic Abuse has days when they really need to remember this. You're doing great work. Be strong survivors! Much love to everyone in this community 🕯️❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏🙌💪

[@isabelladevotedtogod1968]

Yes it is rainy here in North Carolina. I like rainy days sometimes because they feel peaceful. 😌 Great day for seeking God, naps and Dunkin Donuts 🍩 Chocolate Frosted Donuts! Hot Chocolate too! Thank you for the video, good day and God bless. I pray women and men can get out of these toxic situations and if not, God will give you strength and peace to endure until you can get out, like He has me. God bless. ❤️ 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌😊

[@marleigh9743]

Yes, you feel like you're operating in the dark with these kinds of individuals. It can be so confusing. They gaslight us and we let them explain everything away bc we don't want to see what's right there in front of us. We cared about the relationship, but they did not

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉🙌💯

[@marleigh9743]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thankyou for this excellent help you give us!

[@crosskross]

You are so correct Andrew. But hearing it from you will help millions of us. Thank you 🙏

[@charityhouze647]

Listening to you teaching often feels like being heard for the first time. Thank you Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Happy to hear that!🙌💯🙏

[@charityhouze647]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone ❤️

[@rubyjet9513]

How could we not break down when we had to spend our energy on maintaining ours self-validation and also on their self-validation without limits?

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯😉🙌

[@mac-ju5ot]

Oh I could see them but he didnt want me to see fear.....I know how to do my ownbattles always have had too..the scapegoating it was a conversation about respect the good Dr took. Fit I said it right in front of his staff... That's theor lesson to be leatnec...ty gpd bless

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙏🙌

[@Smalltowngurrl1]

I needed to hear this today. Thank you. This is truly a healing path. I have learned so much during this discard/breakup. The most important thing I have learned is that it wasn’t my fault. I didn’t fail, I gave it my all. I just found an 🤬 of a partner. But now every new day is a day of discovery. I can do whatever I want. I don’t have to ask for permission. I can watch KZbin without my AirPods in because that fool isn’t here to be over my shoulder every 5 seconds. While I realize all of this I am still grieving the loss and sometimes that makes me so mad at myself. Why should I be sad, but as we all know there was a little something that kept us there and that’s what I miss. Realizing now that what I held onto for all those years was a game that was played on me is infuriating. I long for the day when this is all a distant memory.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙌💯😊

[@gratefultobehere]

No permission needed. Enjoy yourself 🙌❤️💪

[@Smalltowngurrl1]

@@gratefultobehere Thank you. ❤️

[@Smalltowngurrl1]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone you are a real gift. Thank you!! ❤️🙏❤️

[@crazykittylady6226]

I just wish that the narc I was with experienced true loneliness without supplies before he died just so he would of known what it felt to no longer be in control of no one like that anymore.

[@rubyjet9513]

Everything became completely clear to me only now. Also Eckard Toll's videos gave me the deeper insight I was longing for.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉💯💯

[@rubyjet9513]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone But I started my journey with you.

[@leeanderson2998]

Narcissists need to get their insults straight!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@mariefrancebourget1749]

Super video Andrew you said it all perfectly. All empaths need to memorize what you said. These are great tools to prevent us from another bad relationship with a narc and mostly keeping them away from us for good. Have a beautiful sunday afternoon Andrew. God bless you. I love you. 🤗❤🙌🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏💯🙌

[@gratefultobehere]

Yes. Memorizing. Meditating. Making it mindfully ours.

[@mariefrancebourget1749]

@@gratefultobehere well said Chelsea! 💯 thank you for your message i appreciate it. Have a great evening my friend. 😊💖🙌

[@gratefultobehere]

@@mariefrancebourget1749 💖🙏 you too Marie

[@laviniatemple2967]

Yes your right ma’am. 👍🏻 good thing i have good memory. But even If I memorize things i still write it down or screen shots when I’m educationg myself. My mama is an Empath. A lot of my characteristic I got it from my mom and we are very close and that’s why it’s hard for me to be away from her. 😢shes in Philippines I am here in America. Hopefully I can go home soon for the first time. Prayers 🙏🏼 for everyone of us. God bless us. Sending ❤ from Alaska.

[@feliciajoy2264]

GUYS........ THIS IS HEAVEN SENT TRUTH. PLEASE SSAY "NO" IT GIVES YOU YOUR POWER BACK. INSTINTLY. TRY IT YOU WILL FEEL BETTER AGAUIN. . GOSH I CANT SHUT UP BUT THIS MEANS ALOT TO ME. LOVE YOU. THANK YOU

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌☀️

[@charlottebarden9221]

Andrew, Thank you so much for supportive words. I feel you are speaking to me just as I need it, when I know there are thousands of others listening to you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

You are so welcome🙏💯🙌

[@bellarosalarsen1638]

I lived with a bipolar narcissist for 24 years ago. I managed to divorce him but just to fall preay of a serious mental case. Just recently I finally to drop these huge bags of insanity I have been carrying around. My ex husband and father of my children become the lover of the man I thought I was having a relationship with.

[@hhsg11]

Another great video Andrew ❤️. I remember one day with the ex narc which started off nice, then I got back to the house after shopping and 💥. I was blamed for turning the sink taps off tight, not me, I hadn’t been near the sink. he couldn’t find his door keys and I got blamed for it until he found them in his car, we went for a walk and lunch with my eyes red from tears so I wore my glasses, got back to the house and played with his dog which accidentally put her tooth into my finger and with blood running down my hand,I was told it was my own stupid bl**dy fault for not being careful. Tears again as my finger really hurt and I told him all the things that he had blamed me for that day, and after shouting about how I had only mentioned the negative things, his reply was…’ but you didn’t say we had a nice lunch’. He’s a nutcase.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌😉

[@simon13031]

I lost 1 quarter of a million dollar while stuck in a narcisistic fog. I have a crazy story that i might share one day. Almost lost my life, multiple time. Health problem etc etc... So hard to accept and put yourself back on track when you know you knew better. But you tought you were doign the right thing at the time. Im telling you guys, theres multiple dimensions to this reality and when you feel that something is wrong, trust yourself and move on

[@misskathleen490]

Andrew drove to wk got the flood of emails..and I for a minute was going to engage and read. BUT, I stopped and took a cleansing breath and realized Im over the drama. Namaste! Happy Monday!

[@sherylcomptonpeters8737]

I still have some up and down moments, but I have seen a brighter future. And yes I did know something wasn't right. I'm getting my physical energy back with some help. I got physically ill for a while, lost alot of weight, completely exhausted, no energy at all. but now I am so ready to move on, because I have felt a real love that brought more peace and happiness than I could have ever imagined. I don't feel heartbroken anymore or feel the need to cry my eyes out. I am seeing more clearly and what I seen was beautiful. It's like a whole new world for me. But. I am so ready to learn more, I was born for a reason. Lessons from the past are just that, No regrets, no coincidences, no games. No fear, and I know, with all my heart that a new beginning is in order. Thank you for being such an inspiration and help. I am so grateful to know that I am not alone, and really never have been. I just see things differently now.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing 💯🙏🙌

[@gratefultobehere]

Gaslighting is REAL and things get clearer and clearer the further away from the toxic environments and relationships 💯 yes 🙌- yesterday someone in a Mall wearing a shirt saying “gaslighting isn’t real - you’re imagining it” I prayed for the person walking not next to him, that’s right trailing BEHIND. 🤔 can’t say for sure, but pretty clear as day to me 😉 Have a great night Andrew and everyone let’s keep educated ❤🙏💪

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing 🙌🙏😊

[@joshuaanzalone2060]

Chelsea that shows the class of that individual and the class is low.

[@mariageaney2362]

Wow😯a t-shirt that says that!! Out rageous!! That is so incentive and cutting. Pray for the light of truth to penetrate to creates of that t-shirt!! We are not alone always remember this. Because that shirt has come from a place of isolation makers!! 🌹💖🙏🕊️💜🦊

[@gratefultobehere]

@@mariageaney2362 right?! Just shake my head at the nonsense. 😅 have a great night María 💖🙏

[@mariageaney2362]

@@gratefultobehere all designed to create a negative reaction!! Typical narc, always designing something!! Enjoy your evening Chelsea.🦋🙏🌹

[@mitzistone4721]

I agree, triangulation is brutal. Having been the scapegoat growing up being triangulated brings it all back, it is like a form of torture. Narcs are very jealous so if they can turn the tables and have you feeling excluded or second place that pleases them greatly. I remember how they can take a sunny day and make it feel dark, getting away from their twisted games is liberating.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯🙏

[@nicolehayes6020]

Facts! My entire life for decades w my narc mother 🤦🏻‍♀️ THANKS MOM FOR THE GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING….Thank you Andrew ❤️✌️🙏

[@paulag7108]

We must learn about these monsters that surround us. Educate yourself ppl. Thanks Andrew👏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@erikathornton368]

Only time can heal and understanding the demise of the relationship isn’t your fault! Your relationship would’ve ended period. Not blaming myself was the only way I could get through the day. I view my ex as “sick” and I have been saved from him and I’m so much happier now. Please don’t listen to narc’s lies. Also a support system is so important most lay people don’t get narcs but being alone is the worst thing for healing.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯🙏

[@Jakilyn]

The rage fits..yes. I'll never forget the first one - Every.Single.Discussion - thereafter was like talking with a toddler

[@annettegutkind]

I had multiple shifts in my vision through the narc nightmare. Multiple issues with my eyes 👀 LITERALLY- physical shifts. From a cancer scare to broken vessels to deteriorating vision. How interesting that now - having left this demon months ago - I am using an old pair of glasses. Seems I can see clearly now ☝🏻

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏🙌😉😊

[@emilywilson7308]

Wow! That's amazing!

[@elmaswanepoel1598]

Thank you for this Andrew. I'm grateful that I started the healing proses through education and videos like yours months ago when I first left, which gave me much more power to walk away again, for the last time, Friday evening, realizing that the change I saw in him was temporary untill a month ago and all is back to his "normal". Unfortunately I only found yours last week, but now I'm looking forward to watch it every day. I realise a lot more has to happen before the trauma bond is completely healed and broken. Your videos really help in a profound and significant way. Thank you for what you do.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙏💯😊

[@elizabethflorez2372]

Yes , this is all true Andrew. ❤Horrific experiences . Demons with Demonic beings . God save us all

[@hennisincoff502]

Ooh Andrew, what a great was to express the manipulation, blame & red flags that are visible, but not to those who suffer from narrsistic abuse...our eyes were open but we could not see. Now that I know what narrsism is & red flags are, I imagine a healthy narrsistic free future. I have a long painful journey, but I am on the path. Thank you always for your gift of knowledge & love. Namaste 🥀

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@ericnorthman9410]

I always thought I was a good judge of character. But when someone pretends to be you so good - because that's what he does with everyone - it's more than lying. I think he 60 percent would convince himself of the lies. It's crazy.

[@louise2091]

Yes. It is like I immediately dismiss and minimise people's behaviour s. Often really obvious stuff. I get carried away by a need to believe in the good . So ready to blame myself for not going along as well as I expect myself too.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙏🙌

[@jodi578]

Love this Perfect fitting Title and How Simply and Straightforwardly you Teach on this subject - It’s a Real Gift Andrew!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😊🙌🙏

[@rubyjet9513]

I 100% agree 👍👍👍

[@Leesa1303]

I am newly subscribed and am glad to understand so I can move on in a healthy conversation....I stood by a man for 3.5 yrs while he was locked up and he left me 2 days after he got home...HE turned out to be a monster ....

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome to the community 🙏💯🙌😊

[@warriormom5843]

Thanks Andrew! Stay warm. Sending a hot chai tea right about now. 💟☮️🕉️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉😊🙌

[@hollylewis5302]

"Snake in the grass" By Holly Lewis January 20, 2023 Beware, my friend, there's a snake in the grass! It's camouflaged and wears a convincing mask. It will trick us into thinking its sweet and harmless. Will blow a narcissistic kiss to try to charm us. Underneath there's an ulterior motive. It needs to feed on our empathetic emotions. It's "love bombs" will woo you in at first Until it squeezes so tight you'll almost burst. It comes off pleasant, cool and smooth. But drags you down where it's toxic and crude. It's slimy, selfish, sly and shrewd. When it's only it and you, it's ugly and rude. If you try to escape its tightening grasp, It will suck you back in with promises of class. But that cycle around for long won't last. It only wants to take what's left you have. It's tongue is conniving, forked and split. Two faces it shall show and knives it shall spit Out falsehoods of you only to protect Itself, but then onto others it will project. Out of both sides of its mouth it shall speak. It "triangulates" the drama behind the scenes. It pits people against you in a "smear campaign" To deflect the blame for its own selfish gain. While its venomous fangs secrete a toxic bile, It goes in for the kill then savors with a smirky smile. It discards your carcus without any care. It's honed these skills for many a year. Pay close attention to how it "mimics" you. Recall as the "competition" and jealousy grew. A game of manipulation it plays from fear. The way to escape it is to disappear. It will try to one-up you at every turn. It delights in watching you crash and burn. Psychological leveling is what drives it forth. It's vindictive and feels no remorse. Its secrets are sprinkled with partial truths. All it really wants is to BE you. Keep up with its lies if you possibly can. Only then you will notice its sinister plan. Oh, it will play the victim card. Trust in that, it's not that hard. It will cry and strum on your heartstrings Only to obtain your sympathy. It will "gaslight and stonewall" to watch you squirm. This serpent will wriggle like a writhing worm. It cares not about you or your pain. It only consumes to maintain its domain. Trust if you will in this aspy snake. A fool of you it will try to make. Be aware and wary of its craftiness. But, it will eventually show its nastiness. Like the Wicked Witch in Oz, it has monkeys that fly. They do its bidding, they're dispatched to go spy. Heed this warning, they know not what they do. But one day they'll be extinct just like you. If you read this and can now understand. This shapeshifting snake is a narcissistic hu-man. Better off you will be if you remain hypervigilent For it wants you to stay ambivalent. It might take some time for you to finally see, But you'll come around eventually. This viper will never change its stripes. And it will toss you aside in the blink of an eye. Don't fall for its games, it's full of shit. It can never be filled, it's a bottomless pit. Don't be duped, it has but one goal To bully, to dominate and to control. In the darkness lurk many more snakes. Chameleons who come in all sizes and shapes. You are a resource for them, their "new supply." To devour what you have is their reason why. They want to appear as important as you. A wolf in sheep's clothing with something to prove. Put themselves on a pedestal to try to be seen. At the end of the day they have low self esteem. Once the coward is revealed of whom I speak, Red flags shall appear and you'll begin to see. It may try to "hoover" you back into the wood. Run don't walk, block it for good! So, let it slink back to its hole in the ground. Exit swiftly! Be nowhere to be found. Don't look back, just walk away For it will only seek another prey. In its sociopathic wake it shall leave behind A path of destruction of a disgusting kind. Twisted up in a fog once was your mind But the snake is exposed now yourself you can find. Let your bright light shine, today's a new dawn. You've learned this lesson, it's time to move on. The snake has taught you what's right and what's wrong. Now, step onto the stage and sing your own song! Then, watch as the snake slithers away Back to the grass where it can happily stay. Trust in the fact that you will be okay. You are beautiful and kind, hear what I say. The high road is there for you to walk. There are people who care and are willing to talk. Love surrounds you, take one day at a time. You are not alone in this wonderful life. Remove all doubt and believe in yourself! You're in control of your future, there's nobody else. Enlightened and healing, you're now awake. And you're finally rid of that nasty-ass snake!

[@user-xe9gv3tr3y]

Andrew, because of you I am able to understand what I went through for the last 14 years of my life. I am divorced from him now, but you have helped me to realize that everything wasn’t my fault. My ex is a classic narcissist and took advantage of my empathy and then everything he could from me. Thank you for helping me overcome and see my worth.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🙌

[@SusanW-lc8rp]

even though I don't know any of you, I feel your energy when I'm on the channel listening to the daily message. sending love and support to all of you today ☔🌦❤❤❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Love that!😊💯🙏

[@rubyjet9513]

Soul tribe 😉👍

[@laviniatemple2967]

Me too same here. Watching this at 3:30 am. Now reading comments.

[@lisaengland1048]

I'm finding that some days Andrew has a few nuggets of wisdom. Plus flowers great work . Keep doing this .

[@emilywilson7308]

Thank you, Susan. Andrew's tribe is very special❤

[@owenreynolds9318]

These vids have helped so much, not only in understanding how a narc works but how unhealthy and self-destructive it is to spend time dwelling on their downfall and how that poisons who you are striving to be. I wish I wouldn't panic everytime we're in the same space though.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌😉🙏

[@davevenables3534]

Many truths and words of wisdom in this video. Thank you Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@luizamoura9193]

Thank you Andrew! 🙌 Currently living with a malignant narcissistic mother. And a couple months ago I began to see how evil her eyes are and catch her staring at me with very evil eyes. I really don't know how I didn't see it before. Before, I was uncertain if she had NPD or not because sometimes she shows so much empathy for others. But today I had a discussion with her, about her evildoings and she denied everything and blameshifted everything to me. Although it was an exausting discussion and am at this very moment with a headache, fever and feeling a coldness in my hands and feet, not only that but I am feeling energetically drained at the amount of evil I saw in her eyes today. I am grateful this discussion happened because today I got 100% sure she has NPD, I never saw that amount of evil in someone's eyes as I saw in hers today. Now that I am 100% sure she is a narcissist I know I have to elaborate my exit plan ASAP!!

[@kengaroo5170]

I thought that she was stupid and lacked common sense, so I waited for her to learn. I never thought that the horrors were insanity and intentional. Insidious!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉😉💯

[@marybarton5651]

Another great video Andrew, glad I was able to catch it. Thanks again for the confirmation of information from today's content. As always, you have given me lots to think about. 🤔 God bless you and everyone on the healing path in this community 🙏 ✌❤🤓😎

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 💯🙌😊

[@rubyjet9513]

I doubt the narcissists even see us. We are like a hologram for them.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉😉

[@andreakohlhaussen7556]

So well said! I grew up not saying no. And I had to learn it the hard way to say “no”. This is one of the most important quotes for life ever: “To say “no” to someone means saying “yes” to yourself” Thank you Andrew every single day😌😘🦞

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯😊

[@annewilliams5715]

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[@boutiquelove5391]

Thanks sooo much for all you do❤️❤️❤️❤️ No amount of gratitude I can express to you will be enough for all you have taught us, you are a sincere and ethereal source of comfort in our hearts in times of great confusion anguish and darkness. God is working through you to help millions. May you continue to blessed you success, health, happiness, prosperity, wisom and peace. You are an angel🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙌🙏😊

[@laviniatemple2967]

Yes you are right

[@Theresa1010]

Great message today Andrew! A lot of excellent examples of the insidious nature of the narc. Take care of yourself and get some rest! Remember yourself too 1st, 2nd, and 3rd. 🙏🌠

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@karenlacy8950]

Great video! Narcissist relationships are never on track Andrew. Everyone gets through this with a lot of work and introspection Much appreciated Namaste. Love and light ❤️🙏🎶🦋🌏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Namaste 🙏🙌

[@rubyjet9513]

I'm not alone. Not any more. Amazing! All the Love ❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

❤️🙌

[@rubyjet9513]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🙏🙏❤️

[@emilywilson7308]

Healing together!

[@jennifernewton4637]

You just nailed EVERYTHING, Andrew!!!! I can’t speak to a marital relationship, as I’ve never been married… only romantic relationships, and of course, my parents. This is why I’ve followed your advice since I first found this channel… you have always been SPOT ON, and I was (and still am) AMAZED by how accurate you’ve been!!!! For everything that you do, and everything that you are, I love you! Thank you for being you and being _here_ 🥰🥰🥰💋💋💋💋💋🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️💜❤️‍🔥❤️💜❤️‍🔥❤️💜❤️‍🔥❤️💜❤️‍🔥😘😘😘 My friends, I hope you’re all enjoying your Sunday! I’m just over here FINALLY eating the Mexican food I’ve waited MONTHS for!!! God bless my sister for taking time out of her VERY busy day to do this for me!!! I can only HOPE the extra money I gave her was enough to show just how much I appreciated what she did!!! 🙏🙏🙏 Love y’all, and I hope your day is as good as mine, if not, BETTER!!! ❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@gratefultobehere]

❤ hope you enjoyed that Mexican 🥘 meal!!!

[@jennifernewton4637]

@@gratefultobehere I DID Chelsea! And there’s even plenty leftover for dinner! Stuff’s WILDLY expensive now, a pint of salsa is $6 but I’d have GLADLY paid $100 for it at this point. Even when the beef fajitas got stone cold, they were STILL good! 😄😋😋😋😁🌮🫔🌮🫔🍽️

[@gratefultobehere]

@@jennifernewton4637 😊🙌❤️ you’re worth every expense - glad you enjoyed!!!

[@jennifernewton4637]

@@gratefultobehere ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you, Chelsea, I NEEDED to hear that today!

[@Tatjana.B]

True but soon I saw and said not to call me again. And then I made mistake, apologised. But next 5 yrs we were separated. After that he called...now I know that he got a son with another but they didn't stay together. And I became addicted to that person who led his own evil game. 🌈

[@janetroberts5140]

I'm on the road to recovery, dating would be nice. Though I have my son and I'm trying to be a good example for him. I'm also going to have surgery and will be resting for two weeks. It's my health that I'm most concerned with. God will give me the right direction when it's time for me to date again. Thank you Andrew, I enjoyed your evening presentation, much warm regards to Andrew and our Family Tribe Members.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 😊💯🙌🙏

[@amazingjane2703]

They train you, without your knowledge or permission, that yes means no and no means yes. On a deeper level you detected the anomaly but in your head it caused confusion and doubt about everything. It's easier to push a confused person off a cliff. Like pin-the-tail-on-the-donkey - blind-folded and spun around. If it wasn't for the blindfold and the spinning we would have accurately pinned the tail on the donkey -the narc.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@elainesetford549]

❤❤ 💯% thank you Andrew. Rain sounds lovely though headphones 😊🌧️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😊🙌☀️

[@lisavansant961]

Thank you Andrew for continuing your videos I really appreciate it...

[@12342087]

So true everything you’re saying. Thank you

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

You are so welcome🙏😊😊

[@carlosgiron1246]

Great video Andrew. Well in my narcissistic relationship, the signs were all there the anger towards me the secret txt he would get. I confronted him a few times and out of nowhere it was me being jealous and that I wanted to control him. My friends would tell me how wrong he was for me and they didn't understand how I could be with him, and I would get angry with my friends. Many signs were there but I thought it was just a bad day. I lost everything and everyone waiting for the man I fell in love with to come back. Never did only got worse all the way up to the discard. Thanks everyone for your kind words and thank you Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙌💯🙏

[@emilywilson7308]

Hi Carlos! So happy you are doing well. It's not easy!😘

[@laviniatemple2967]

Goodmorning.Again I learned new things from you. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart. 3:38 am alaska time while listening this. I educate myself. And i read comments when i watvh your videos and i write it down. And I learned a lot. Prayers 🙏🏼 for you and for everyone of us here. Jesus loves us. God bless everyone. Have a nice day to ya all. Sending ❤ from a Filipina here in America.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Good morning!🙌💯🙏

[@laviniatemple2967]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Good morning 😊❤️🙏🏼🤗

[@beegee5305]

My ex H Narc triangulated on the first day we were "married" ... he triangulated me against his son from that moment on. He didn't do that during the dating stage. After "marriage" I was always second, he would ask me to go Christmas shopping with him for his son a couple weeks before Christmas. And a day before Christmas he would ask me what I wanted for Christmas and then begrudgingly go shopping for it. I was second fiddle in every aspect. I liked his son a lot, he was inherently a much nicer, better and more caring person than his dad was. He told me if I am going to pit myself against his son (which I didn't, my ex was doing that ) he said "You are not going to win!" This game just escalated and finally I left. He was also emotionally unavailable, workaholic, porn addict, gained 50+ lbs after getting married, junk food addict (I saw all the wrappers in the garbage can) , .... etc etc

[@pamdee8454]

I didn’t understand. I had no knowledge of these things. Today I’m mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually in every way. And I work at it. Thank you for this education and knowledge.

[@pamdee8454]

*HEALTHY

[@yvettebrownstone1100]

I appreciate you and all of these videos so much. Thank you, Andrew for your commitment to all of us going thru this. Namaste 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

You are so welcome😊🙏🙌

[@Infjjjoe]

Thank you so much Andrew. In this short life on earth, we all found you and like an angel of light , you led us to discovery and healing...God bless you 🙏🏼 ♥️

[@matthewgeard2790]

My gut would scream at me to the point I actually think it gave me physical health issuies! I’m an empath and loved the narc tooooo much! I was never loved at all,, Terrible evil narcs! ✡️ It’s a real evil💯

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@BarbWiest]

Thank you , God bless you also .

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

You are so welcome!🙌💯😊

[@roslyncerro1263]

This confirms how grateful I am I am continuing to write much less about Version 2 hell and mostly, now, about Version 3. Much of Version 3 is the best. This investigative commitment is my, "yes" to myself. My life is simple, honest, in integrity, etc. Freedom rocks, and better late than never.❣️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@unelectedleader6494]

Be very wary of anybody telling you things aren’t black and white in a romantic relationship - they mostly are. You either love the person, or you don’t. You either tell them the truth, or you lie to them. You either plan on fulfilling your promises, or you don’t. There’s no such thing as gray here. Only abusers say that, and the victims of abuse in the very earliest stages of healing also known as the cope phase.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@maried7776]

One minute they are a semi adult, next a child. Yeah it was bizarre. When you find out this behavior is their norm...😱 twilight zone, exit stage left. ✌🏼☺️💕 TY Andrew, Enjoy the rain

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 😊🙌💯

[@HAHA1266.]

Keep peeling❣️. All true thank you Andrew.

[@DennisNowland]

You are so right, it is frightening. But at least mine is in the past where she can stay.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@rubyjet9513]

👍👍

[@christinehow3595]

Hi Andrew yet another great video. A Narc never forgets . Friends warned me of him . But when you think its love you are blind . Yes he tryed Traingle me with the women he moved in with near me . I have more respect for myself. I know the only way is up .👍 Thank you for being there for us darling Andrew x

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 😊🙏🙌

[@christinehow3595]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Goodnight from my end x

[@izawaniek2568]

Spot on Andrew. Exactly the case. God bless you❤

[@mariabarbosa6351]

Beautiful video, been there in all , still trying to recuperate! You help everyone! Thank you 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

You are so welcome🙌😊💯

[@trudiamond30]

Your videos are always so powerful. Many of us are still in disbelief that this has happened to us. It’s almost unbelievable but we know that it’s real. Your videos are such a reminder of our reality and reminds us to stay on course and to keep on the healing path for a brighter future. ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌☀️🙏

[@johnpool3501]

Thanks Andrew. You and many others on KZbin are of such a big support to all of us suffering from a narcissistic relationship.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@livinggood6876]

Hello Andrew I am glad to see you are in such a beautiful location now and landed on your feet as I did. You are correct. We have the knowledge now it's up to us to use it and our own intuition.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙌💯😊

[@charityhouze647]

Yes, I feel like I am the bad person. After all these years I wanted to talk about what was bothering me and that always was seeing a dating app or getting a message from another female telling me to leave her man alone. I felt dumbfounded. I had no idea what she was talking about. I listened to him. She was just an obsessed co-worker or her sisters old childhood friend and so on. Eventually I began to open up like a breathing dragon , the moment he lies its like a switch flips in me and I don't want to hear it anymore . I'll yell and cry and beg to hear it from him never do and that makes me sick and sad and angry and just want it to be over. I'm tired of living like I have to be so careful and put a smile on and watch the clock to please someone who only watches the clock for his next date and excuse

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing 🙌💯🙏

[@charityhouze647]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you for letting us know Weare not alone

[@rosannecadieux9476]

Thank you! 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome!🙌💯😊

[@debrastadnyk1351]

Hi Andrew💗Thank you for educating me. I am very grateful for you sharing this information.💗

[@lrx54]

Wow, another great video. And courageous too. The emotional roller coaster ride took me to the highest highs and the lowest of lows and quite honestly all types of dark emotions in between. Only evil can be that provocative.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙌💯🙏

[@davidphillips1895]

God bless you to

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@edycrowley2878]

Riddle: How many narcissists does it take to screw in a lightbulb? None...they use gaslighting...

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@maried7776]

😅❤

[@oiputthatback7361]

“ You were vulnerable when you met “, I was and told all the things that hurt me. Guess what , ammunition for a later date. Fancy giving him the weapon that consequently used against me. 😫. Again you called it correctly. Thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙌💯🙏

[@crazykittylady6226]

I would see the narc cheat on me with my 2 bare eyes and I would still expect him to tell me it wasn't what I was seeing and sometimes he would lie and other times he would tell me that it is what I saw and then blame me. It would be so hard to accept reality for what it was back then especially remembering the love bombing euphoria stage each time he was wanting to end it with me for another supply.

[@Victoria-oe8gs]

GOD bless you all

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@Ms.ShellyHall.81]

The weird thing about your videos is I had no idea that my ex was a narcissist until I started watching your videos and then I thought my in-laws were the narcissists and that he was just defending them and then he just turned on me one day and it was shocking how accurate everything you had said up to that point was so I was prepared thank God but I was shocked also because again I thought his parents were the narcissists and they are too but I didn’t think he was I thought he was ignorant. The whole family was toxic

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@Bianca-sw5id]

Andrew ❤️ , I absolutely love ❤️🥰 the Carolinas background Andrew ❤️ is sharing with us 🥰🌹😉

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Glad you enjoy it!🙏💯😊

[@tathe3786]

Long Long Time i did Not realise what Happens in my Life… i always knew there is something wrong…. I even felt it as s Kid!!! I Leave the Word Narzissm behind, and Name it: masters and servants, what Happens to This Earth…. It’s all about dominance and submission….. my Hope is that humanity will Explorer the Power of Love and equality. I Pray for This!!! ❤

[@panagiotiskarelas5063]

YES!

[@SilentFigure1]

She never loved me I know now. She hated herself more then me. I see that now. I was the best thing that ever happened to her I came back 1000 times

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@flowersofthefield340]

She was cunning ....... She was dangerous ..... She appeared helpless ..... She trapped her victim ..... She groomed her enablers ..... She hates all men ..... She was a dark hole .... She was and is evil .... She had double lives .... She wore a mask ..... She was and is a Predator .... She wanted materialism .... She wanted supply .... She wanted to destroy you .... She wanted everyone's concern for you .... She was ruthless .... She knew exactly what she was doing ....