We are both 67 years old and waiting on marriage. We have only hugged and that was enough to know that we are compatible. We love each other so much.
@alitez96011 ай бұрын
Absolutely ,relationships just can't work without sexual chemistry, it makes you closer ,bond is totally sealed, relationship is forfilled 😊
@_thesaltiestb55711 ай бұрын
P.S. thank you for the great content Stephan. I'm not even religious, but I feel like you give some of the most sound dating advice of anyone out there.
@vivecamotsieloa463411 ай бұрын
Thanks for being down to earth and maintaining some sanity and class in this world of insanity.
@destiny209211 ай бұрын
YES!!! Happy Thanksgiving! Be blessed 🙏🏽❤️
@heatherjeffrey899711 ай бұрын
Thanks Stephan, for this video. i know i was compatible with my person without having sex it's just a feeling that i get and know am right.
@MG-gq2rs11 ай бұрын
Am I first? 🤔 hello Stephen! I continue to appreciate your insights. Thank you for taking the time out to share with your community.
@nevergiveyouupbjcaldwell245411 ай бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving Stephan!. Enjoy your Day & Family❤🙏🏼
@salomeorina35799 ай бұрын
I am really addicted to your talks,so amazing
@ashleybush513211 ай бұрын
Where can I get this shirt?🙏🏾
@JoyleiaJo11 ай бұрын
5:17 time
@jayc575611 ай бұрын
Very Important
@claysiecross495211 ай бұрын
Trust me ,I’ve been there before ,it doesn’t work at the end abc you end up hurting the person .
@Justbu4511 ай бұрын
Sure you RIGHT ✅️
@SheliaGoldston-i2g11 ай бұрын
I was married for 30 years my husband passed away
@paulettestokes172711 ай бұрын
I'm Thankfully Grateful for Stephan Labossier You Tube channel ,Books, Monthly advice and blessed empowering information.Happy Thanksgiving Everyone❤❤❤ ❤❤❤
@ladybluelipscodebluevulner216211 ай бұрын
PLEASE -- He is cautious, older and hug averse. I NEED hugs. We haven't DTR yet. He's awaiting my 100% availability. (4 yr divorce yet to be settled). We're connected.. HE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE.
@_thesaltiestb55711 ай бұрын
How do I send this to my boyfriend without sending this to my boyfriend? For me, the quality of the sex is not the issue - it's the frequency. He's low libido and I'm high libido. If anyone has successfully navigated this before with their partner, I could use some advice 🙏🏻 I tried to have the uncomfortable conversation with him 5 months ago and nothing has changed. I just don't think I can handle it anymore. I don't want to blame or shame him, but I'm so hurt and frustrated and afraid this is where it ends for us. I'm trying to figure out how to best approach this sensitive issue without him becoming defensive or shutting down 😢😞
@Fancypolkadots11 ай бұрын
Was he always like that? Is he stressing over finances? Are y'all affectionate outside of the bedroom? You might be able to find a loophole through mental stimulation. Try expressing interest in something he's interested in and see if you can bond like that. Let's see what Stephan has to say about it. 🤔
@PopFizzPaperDani11 ай бұрын
Couples therapy or leave, otherwise if you continue to feel rejected, the resentment will build and you’ll lose attraction. I lived that life for years and years too long. Life is too short to feel alone in a relationship.❤
@user-en1zc5vd6y11 ай бұрын
Does he eat well(natural food that’s particularly good for his own body), does he exercise and have a good balance between work and play? If he’s stressed out that can contribute
@glittercatstudios11 ай бұрын
A doctor before anything else. It could be low-T.
@_thesaltiestb55711 ай бұрын
Wow thank you all so much for the responses. It was unexpected and I really appreciate it. We've been together for about one year now. I wanted to take things slow and he needs to feel comfortable and connected to someone in order to have sex, so we didn't become sexually intimate until about 3 months in. We cuddled and kissed a lot though. He also told me he masturbated everyday (said it helped with stress and improved his judgement and discernment when dating). I don't think he masturbates that often, if at all, anymore though. When we discussed sexual expectations, he told me his preference was 3-4x per week, which actually pleasantly surprised me. At the beginning, we were having sex probably 2-3x per week, and I was satisfied, but it tapered down to about once a week after a few months (around when the honeymoon phase ended). We've only had sex once in the past few weeks. We don't even make out anymore. Just kisses when we greet and say goodbye. However, other forms of affection are still strong - cuddling on the couch and in bed, hand holding during walks, hand on my leg while driving, etc. He has been stressed at work, but he always has been - I think it's just that his hatred for his job only grows over time. He always complains about being tired, but so am I, but I'm almost never too tired to have sex. He eats a generally healthy diet, works out 3-4x per week, stretches a lot, isn't overweight, and generally uses clean/green household products and toiletries. I don't know if he's low T or not. He's been in therapy on and off for years (lots of trauma in his past), but currently is not in therapy, but he might be open to going to couple's counseling with me if I brought it up. I don't think he's cheating on me, but I can't rule it out. He usually seems sexually responsive, but if I don't initiate sex, it will almost never happen. Y'all don't have to feel obligated to respond again - I just appreciate the things that were brought up - it helped me consider the possibilities and clarify points to be discussed with him. Ultimately, I just need to have a respectful conversation with him. Hoping for the best and praying that he will be open and receptive, even if it means discovering that we are just sexually incompatible 😢
@desireefoster40729 ай бұрын
Indeed ,😊 the encounter with the soul sexually.
@Fancypolkadots11 ай бұрын
I'm a rude, prude, never in the mood, don't want anything other than a laid-back dude. I'm not trying to get my feathers ruffled. 💅🏾 #IJustWannaSitPretty & #PranceAroundSometimes I'm jk 😉
@celestinebennett21211 ай бұрын
I think all women when dating if they want to discuss "sexual expectations " to play the role of Napoleon the great wife, when they were dating she asked Napoleon. " quote" " Look down, I have a surprise for you, Once you see it, you will crave for it always "...🤣🤣❤..omg found this super hot 🔥...Napoleon ended up adoring this woman. 😍...ha ha ha So love Kinkiness
@user-fh1tr9zp3l11 ай бұрын
My dear Stephan u mentioned about great sex But its not limited to the BEDROOM 😂 Man a roller coaster ride could be acheived anywhere Vehicle back seat Counter tops Couches 😂 man u name it You are so correct Most confusing is dating a broke guy Who is extremely good with sex My favourite relationship and dating coach Seems as though he enjoys his extremely wild and kinky styles😊😊 U all know who am refering to 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@J.CH.F.11 ай бұрын
Sex is a gift from God☺
@alitez96011 ай бұрын
No it isnt,
@elfa919111 ай бұрын
🧐
@cytinachavis91579 ай бұрын
How can we really talk about the details of sex without it tempting us to engage in premarital sex?