Your "Specific Person" is not what you think...

[@AaronDoughty44]

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[@waelfaraj6705]

When the night gets dark , and the sky gives a lightening spark, Heaven would shower us with rain , To wash and heal the pain , Wonders and miracles we see again ...

[@waelfaraj6705]

Wisdom tells me I am nothing. Love tells me I am everything. And between the two my life flows. Nisargadatta Maharaj To explain , love tells us that we are one with everything or everything and everyone is us from inside reflected outside ...As within , so without ... All is one and one is all . Wisdom or enlightenment tell us that we are nothing as to not be identified by anything .We are what we choose to be and nothing can define us if we do not allow it ...

[@tubadurantdoda]

Hi Aaron, you look very tired and lowkey sad. Hope everything is fine!

[@hirambray3254]

Glory!!! After so much struggles I now own a new house with an influx of $115,000 every month God has kept to his words,my family is happy again everything is finally falling into place. God bless America.🙌🏻

[@souking68]

Hello how do you make such monthly?? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 🤦of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God 🙏.

[@hirambray3254]

Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested MS CHRISTINE EVELYN MACKIE

[@hirambray3254]

She's a licensed broker here in the states 🇺🇸 and finance advisor.

[@hirambray3254]

After I raised up to 525k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.

[@rick5842]

I've always wanted to be involved for a long time but the volatility in the price has been very confusing to me. Although I have watched a lot of KZbin videos about it but I still find it hard to understand.

[@KaraKahn]

I love this video so much!! So spot on! I'm glad to finally see a spiritual KZbinr calling this out! 💯

[@vpn9869]

This was needed! Perfect timing Aaron 😊

[@SusanMermaidStory]

Thank you Aaron!! Pattern makes so much more sense than person!! Even just hearing the word, brought instant clarity!

[@JenniferDWilson721]

I’ve listened to your videos every time they come out and you’ve repeated a lot of things over and over. For some reason I just had this urge to continuously listen to the same lessons over and over and with this video I finally had a break through. I mean I have understood what you have talked about before, but now I really get it. I’m holding an energetic pattern that’s missing a puzzle piece, and I’m just attracting people that fit this messed up pattern. So now I need to find or fill in this missing puzzle piece that makes me feel whole and create a new pattern that attracts something better for me that’s more whole. Or something like that.

[@Ohhheykris]

This is so true. My parents kept me codependent with abuse and I keep looking for partners to save me who end up abandoning like my dad did. And I keep trying to prove them I’m worthy. I think my lesson is independence and finding safety within myself not others. I’ve been practicing this for two years. I’m learning slowly. Thank you for always posting at the right times. Because of your videos I get through my daily 5 am walks in the cold Canadian temps outside haha. 🤣

[@adele9925]

Have been a subscriber for a number of years, and have found great value and wisdom from your videos. At 68, I am so grateful to you for assisting me to see patterns present throughout my life, so that I am finally free of restrictions and repetitive behaviour. You are a wise man Aaron. Many thanks and am sending you and your subs much love and light.💓✨️🙏

[@Sandra-gz2wq]

Before I got sober, I was drawn to people who depended on me just to make sure I wouldn't be abandoned. I got bored very quickly and I abandoned these guys. When i got sober I started attracting emotionally unavailable people instead. When sober I rather chased to getting high on dopamine. At the same time I was too scared to get close to a person. I was afraid to show my true self. My addictive tendencies have been active even when I got sober. I realize now I just switched addictions . Today I work on the relationchip to my self. Thanks for sharing this video! It’s only gets better and better 😃🙏🏻💫

[@mayhtoo3576]

Heyyyy,welcome back JJ,thank youuu😮❤

[@sandyhersey1951]

Thank you for being you and your "ADD-ish" quirks. Starting with conversations about SP and ending with leg day and surfing ...BRILLIANT!!

[@sahraze8324]

it's apparent Aaron did so much guided deep work on himself ...so helpful especially for those not able to get therapy by themselves

[@threatlevelmidnightz1990]

A KZbinr I listen to says " YOU are the SP" and now it means so much more

[@sofifl]

Which KZbinr is that?

[@waelfaraj6705]

Everything outside is a reflection of u from the inside ...

[@threatlevelmidnightz1990]

@@sofifl he just took his channel down so he could relaunch his new one...I can check back with you when it's back up 😁

[@Marielreinhardt]

Today was the best timing to hear this message. Thank you Aaron🤍

[@katg8773]

Good analogy and helps to process properly and heal completely. Definitely not wanting the old SP in my now environment. Appreciate your educative frankness Aaron.!

[@AdiEzra-]

Wow, Mind blowing!!!! You’re awesome , thank you for making us see through our soul ❤️

[@lindseykinger6459]

This was helpful. Thank you Aaron ❤❤

[@Mystic_Paths]

Sometimes, our attraction to a specific person might stem from where we are emotionally or mentally at a certain time. Cmiiw

[@carlorizzo827]

ThankU Aaron! Brilliant again! Love "pattern for person"

[@turtlepenguin2095]

One of the best videos you've ever made imo 👏

[@AK-me9xv]

This makes perfect sense, I do think you need to be healed enough to really understand what your saying I hope everyone receives clarity and understanding on this beautiful message you have put here for us today. Ty for this it really made me see some things from a place of clarity as I am in the surrender phase now.

[@yuvraj758]

you're my favorite content creator love

[@antoniaosborne4972]

Love you and this. So bang on. I’ve finally let go of “wanting” a guy who actually made me feel like shit. Just repeated what had with my mum. Constant sense of “lack” and not beign good enough. But ultimately it came down to a dopamine chase - which had to let go of. Just “chasing” now the serotonin i.e present moment and accepting. That I’m not really gonna have relationships at the moment… But trusting they’ll come at the right time! Also like the part about letting go of the energy and the true divine in. Not religious but I liken it just to allowing energy in from the universe and just going with it. Thanks for this xxx

[@Official__parvej567]

If you're seeing this comment, it might be a sign to read 'Magnetic Aura' from Talesio, much love ❤️

[@carlorizzo827]

Interesting!!!

[@mignonesilveira7315]

This is profound, thank you 😊 🙏

[@davidgarcia1633]

That was difficult to listen to..... Yet crucial if one really wants to break through the subconscious familiarity and grow into something more mentally and emotionally healthy. Yes,, the first step to empowerment is admitting that one is really seeking an old, out dated energy pattern from childhood and not that of an actual person being missed. Aaron nails it!

[@Christinesobsevations]

Yes . I’m under ketamine listening so it HITS different…with me it IS a pattern . Specific pattern . Nothing more than that . 😮and yea he does nail it . Makes one think ❤

[@michaelaparsons1]

Wow, profound, thank you brother.

[@alieeeson]

The SP explanation was amazing. I can now move on.

[@will.davlin]

Just wear 2 pairs of socks to bed and ignore everything else 🟩

[@lunaaurora2213]

😂

[@Whysoserious648]

Wut

[@Rosie333Sophia]

Um

[@TruthandChakras]

😂😂❤

[@Christinesobsevations]

🤣

[@juseth2]

I wanna see you surf!! 😊✨ Great video by the way!! 😊

[@waelfaraj6705]

When the night gets dark , and the sky gives a lightening spark, Heaven would shower us with rain , To wash and heal the pain , Wonders and miracles we see again ...

[@Nee-e6w]

This was a great video!!

[@liztowers2058]

We chase what we lacked in childhood.....mine eas chasing attention and recognition. Tidsy i chase unavailable men who dont love me back.

[@sadiedeville6884]

I just went to the "Little Sedona" convention last month. This is the universe telling me I need to take a trip to Sedona.

[@taylort726]

This is insane to me. I just got some results. I was just in your 21 day challenge and I’m also in college at university in Boulder Colorado so I didn’t make it to all of the lives because I’m just so busy . . . This is so corny, but just after I watched this video, the man who I care for deeply and don’t want to lose texted me and wants to see me tomorrow. During the video I started crying but I really felt a release. I started to feel free. I haven’t seen him in 3 and a half months since we broke up. He only texts me when I detach. It’s like magic. I’ve been listening to the song “you make lovin fun” and there’s a part about believing in miracles. I like to call it ‘entering unity consciousness’ and it’s uncanny. The honoponopono never worked for me until I heard the way you described it in this video. but I feel I was able to select the timeline I wanted due to your LOA teachings. Now I just feel curious to find out if this is the right path for me.

[@LucaLozada]

Agree to disagree. It is what you believe it is and feeling is the secret, right? So if you already have it then it’s yours. I see your point of view and it’s pretty valid but you manifest what you are.

[@FriskyTendervittles]

Exactly. And what he is saying would only apply if it were an ex and even then it’s only a possibility. People are constantly manifesting sp that didn’t know who they were and vice versa It’s literally how people meet and start dating. Everyone is an SP! 😂

[@lalaaluce]

God speaks to the natural man in the language of desire. Change the concept you have of a man and you have changed that man. I believe this is the reality of those who are especially in close proximity to us.We are all connected. Those who are closest to us mirror us almost exactly. That’s why they get that close. The more you ruminate on what happened in your past the less room there is for something new to happen let alone what it is you want. Time doesn’t exist. Theres a story in Joe Dispenza’s Becoming Supernatural book where he talks about one of his mystical experiences, basically he traveled forwards in time and was observing himself, really admiring himself, sending love to himself. And what do you know, at the exact moment his past self was observing his now present self (when Joe was now in that present moment) all the sudden he was over come with love. And he made the connection. This story gave me even more evidence of the whole, “your desires are for you thing”. All those spontaneous positive feelings come from a source who’s to say it’s not from your future self showing what’s really for you. What already exists. I understand what Aaron’s talking about. If we have a real heart desire for something and we decide to release that pattern from ourselves. If those we are closest to truly mirror us then they will mirror our release of fear back to us. Letting go of their barriers to love as well.

[@eugeneblue-if2mz]

Ditto

[@gabriellewhalley1328]

I could not have articulated it better! It's like it's easier to attract someone if there's someone else you fancy... And you use them as motivation to get in your frame...

[@waelfaraj6705]

Wisdom tells me I am nothing. Love tells me I am everything. And between the two my life flows. Nisargadatta Maharaj To explain , love tells us that we are one with everything or everything and everyone is us from inside reflected outside ...As within , so without ... All is one and one is all . Wisdom or enlightenment tell us that we are nothing as to not be identified by anything .We are what we choose to be and nothing can define us if we do not allow it ...

[@diroysama8558]

P.S. You're also their Pattern. 😉

[@Nutu28]

Perfect timing

[@Angel777-zs6rk]

Advertising that drink was great 👍 completely through me off what you were saying!

[@shankaryaadav3750]

this format of videos suits me a lot

[@themetatronmystic]

Each person in our life will mirror our wounds/patterns. Everyone teaches us something about ourselves that we need to heal💫🦋 Appreciate you Aaron and All you do for the collective 🙏✌️🐦‍🔥

[@glamaz0n]

But the critical step, like in 12 Step programs is to admit that not only are you powerless over these thoughts about the “SP” but the thoughts have made your life UNMANAGEABLE. The critical step is to realize the unmanageability, and that’s the hard part because once you realize that you will have to think different. I could have accepted my maladaptive drinking, but unless I recognized its effect on my life, i would just keep on drinking,

[@Arieslady9]

This video was so helpful to me.

[@lamaelcharif1523]

Narcissist are turned on by neediness. Deep down they have a fear of abandonment. A partner who is needy feeds their ego massively. It makes them feel irresistible and irreplaceable. Neediness makes them feel superhuman. Someone who has a childhood injury cannot get rid of neediness through reading self help books. A relationship injury can only be cured through a corrective experience. The safest person to have that experience with, is a psychotherapist. The therapeutic environment is controlled. A therapist will not use your neediness against you. But a narcissist will drag you along and take advantage of it. Someone who has a childhood injury, is an easy prey to a narc. Playing the mom and acting nurturing comes naturally to women. What you are asking for is an easy role, for a woman to play, if she likes you. You are not asking for too much. Unless she's narcissistic, at first she'll be turned on by neediness afterwards it'll make her fear engulfement and she'll withdraw. She'll deprive you of intimacy. It is called the silent treatment. The master tactic of manipulation. You need to assess this through a therapist so nobody can use it against you.

[@geeblock6789]

Enjoying this type of content

[@rosewright6198]

I seen the title and said, "yeah I know but I can hang onto my image of him while I find my path. It serves me." Nothing and no one ever is, true? 😅🙁🤗 Thank you, Aaron.

[@rosewright6198]

It's really hard to detach at first when there is no safety. Thank you for teaching me things no one else will. It's not something a counselor or therapist, not many take the time to do for their own reasons/expectations.

[@rosewright6198]

My mom gave me a tomato plant of hers that was outside, it came with a caterpillar friend. Reminded me of the transformation butterfly.

[@rosewright6198]

German, family reconciliation?😮

[@rosewright6198]

16:16 🤔💭 hmm not anymore 😮😃

[@Foxyflexx44]

Here is the law regarding “vampires” , they can only enter if invited by the owner of the home “ your body “ . If you realize you are dealing with a vampire remember this rule .

[@Jade-ms2ys]

SP ... Specific Pattern... Brilliant!

[@mayhtoo3576]

So good topic'SP'😮❤

[@Joseph-dg7nz]

Yup. I always get attached to the girls I like and This is the reason .

[@FriskyTendervittles]

Try loving and accepting them for who they are instead of getting *attached* to them 😉

[@waelfaraj6705]

Since you are a divine vessel or temple of God , u are everything and lack nothing...

[@BlenderLab.]

i dont think she have some bad pattern, the problem was inside of me. I was depressed for 4 years and i had anxiety, so i think i lost her to be better me. I healed from everythink within month and now im on my spiritual way. But i still love her. Now i know i wouldnt be attached to her and not even jealous.

[@juliaorpheus]

Thank you for speaking truth to codependency ❤️❤️❤️❤️😘

[@GlamourGirl1045]

Right now my SP is me! 💖😊💖

[@NZee-jk4kw]

Your SP is you, always. That's why you attracted them and want to attract them again if they have left.

[@GlamourGirl1045]

@@NZee-jk4kw True! … But, I just meant that I’m taking a little break from dating and focusing only on myself for right now. 😊

[@noellsara4009]

You're a gem💎

[@larsstougaard7097]

Specific Gem 💎

[@PriscillaKontos]

I did the same retreat in Sedona “life changing” seemed a little freaky but it’s real!

[@Natzarayaiam]

Some people are not meant to be attached to a specific person. Especially when you know you are a narcissist magnet. To stay in a good vibe just accept it.

[@Niapsyche]

You gained a subscriber forever! This is so eye opening. I love this side of YT !

[@snowfall7557]

where would we be without the internet.

[@KarenChastain-v7z]

I just don't understand why people want to go backwards instead of forward. No way do I or would I ever want to go back to a relationship that didn't work in the first place 🙄.

[@divine.healing]

I'm also betting on you skipping leg day🤣🤣🤣🤣 that whole rant was amazing and hilarious 😂

[@maxbutler3039]

I already reached non-attachement

[@hoodedhippie]

Love the shirt!

[@jillchaban7693]

Take responsibility for my pattern 😮

[@Tinayoga777]

Wow🎉🎉🎉🎉finely someone to blow it out❤

[@carlorizzo827]

P. S. One thing I do disagree. That we "like the familiar ". And this is said by many, not just Aaron. We are wired for the familiar. Even when we get to dislike, the wiring persists. Recovery is slow, incremental, and paradoxically involves splitting, acting in defiance of the wiring. Easy does it

[@PitamdarKhotel]

For the people who struggle with attraction, maybe you should give a read on a book named Magnetic Aura from Talesio!

[@divine.healing]

That moment you think, "gosh I'm growing older since I have no idea what SP is" 😳😳😳

[@mayurpatel5647]

you got a new sub

[@eugeneblue-if2mz]

I love you Aaron but somehow I feel you just injected a whole load of resistance and disbelief in many. I completely agree of the letting go part to a level- you have to imagine, feel and I mean really feel your manifestation then let go and expect it to be delivered/done. But saying that wanting an SP,whomever that may be, is a childhood pattern and that you need to get rid of it is just silly. What happened to unlimited universes, that offers you the very idea that in one version of it you are living your happily ever after with your SP, or the power of your imagination, that you can imagine whatever you want and it can be possible just by imagining it with all your senses- feel it, touch it, taste it, see it to really make that idea a reality. More to the point what if you don’t know your SP. You met the person once you talked to them and had a good vibe but for whatever reason you didn’t have the chance to make a move but a week or so later the person is still in your vibration. So you decided to shift- to a reality where you can explore that potential even further. So I say people you just carry on manifesting your SP. Be mindful about it, don’t obsess about it - but then again that’s the same advice you’d get if you manifested a button 🤷🏻‍♀️ have faith in you, the universe and trust and expect it to be done and it shall be yours. In the meantime be grateful, see and seek joy every day and have fun! 🫶🏻

[@JAtlanticJoker]

This

[@ToriMayTarot]

Holy…..okay this resonated. Jeezu Cristo … god we humans really do this thou 😂

[@FF.ROHIT.5858]

great video as always, I would suggest people looking into this to read 'Magnetic Aura' from Talesio

[@ToriMayTarot]

Two weeks before my mom died. I stayed up all night writing her a letter. It was an acknowledgment of family trauma and a letter of forgiveness for my actions and words towards her. I don’t know why I did it. But after I was up all night writing it. I called her and told her I needed to read it to her. I was crying. She was stunned. Two weeks later we found my mother deceased. Her husband had left her there for 7 days and fled the state. I went on the scene with the techs and did the final rights. I couldn’t hold her. I couldn’t touch her. But I looked up at everyone in the room and recited the letter again. I had typed it up and saved it. Out loud. In front of my mom’s body and a room full of people I read it to release her. Funny how quiet people get when you pour your soul out like that. Because of this “ho-oponopono” I realized it was me picking up she was leaving me soon. I have no regrets.

[@nm9412]

So sorry for your loss! You did the sweetest thing for her. She needed that.

[@awebber3707]

For me personally, I feel completely fine and it seems as though it's hard to relate to anybody because nobody else seems fine; if that makes sense. Like where tf do I find people who are just... 'normal' happy to be alive people who aren't stuck on something superficial or surface level all the time.

[@AnjliRani-cr6nq]

I still can't believe no one on youtube is talking about the ebook magnetic aura from Talesio

[@bigtrubs6173]

After healing, we are not even attracted to those people anymore, different energy now, different kind of people too are attracted to you.

[@juliaskagfjord6207]

Even when I was in a higher thought sphere, I did get dragged back down into being attracted to a "pattern" person, we must keep ever vigilante

[@Alchemy_mindset144]

💯

[@ElevateMyRelationships]

Big big truth to that. It’s a needed trigger to help you work on a better you and putting yourself in a stratosphere way beyond where those who hurt you are.

[@sOofiiexD]

Literally, just bumped into my ex and felt nothing, it’s just the memories and nostalgia of the past, if I tried to hook up with him now it wouldn’t feel the same

[@middleagedshred]

If theres a clean wave..surf.) Be kool to see some footage

[@DHarma1923]

I want someone who stays and enjoys life with me. I am struggling to find out how my childhood is stopping this from happening. I want my specific person because I want to go through life with the person I was once in love with. This live was very validating but also felt invalidating at the same time. There was once a time when we were in love so I don’t know why we can’t finish what we started. I want to be healthy, I don’t want to be codependent or be running from anything. I want to get to a point where our love can exist and not be interrupted by old wounds. Why does that seem like such a far away thing? Like I am asking for so much? 😢 it is truly painful to not know how to bridge the gap despite my efforts

[@amanda-jl8fx]

Thank you!!

[@jillchaban7693]

Option- don’t give away your energy

[@hellohello4016]

Love leg day Aaron! Lol ❤

[@alexiaada8096]

This is all great but what if I want a new SP? A new relationship? I don't want my ex back....

[@Arvyhernandez]

I agree with this video.

[@KoVJames]

the problem of these contents is that they cannot be applied to any type of journeys. It depends of your history with that person, your deep intuitions, the stage you are right now in your life ( cause plenty of us already done an amazing job at being at peace with so many apsects of their lives ) , and the exeperience you went through not with that person but after it. Some might watch this the day after a break up, some might watch it a year after so much work has been done,THATS WHY people need help themselves with themselves only or god... And not listen to someone just to listen and get influenced cause this guy like so many others just HAVE NO idea of you existing and what you went through. so his speech might resonate with 10% of the persons, but stop shifting your state of mind from a video to another. not saying this is not useful but this reasonning cant be popularized. nothing should. I think we need to listen to what we know is right inside , it might be patience, believing,letting go, quitting . Face the truth ; youre the onlyh one that knows. the only way to overcome is with perseverance in what we choose . whatever you'll choose to believe in is gonna get real anyway : you quit = you'll meet someone new and you're right. VS you believe = you might see them again at the right time and that's perfectly fine too , whatever you believe in is gonna get real anyway.

[@hermitaku]

to be honest I always thought I had to be my own "specific person" It just gets tiring with life though you know.

[@nm2153]

I can't believe I was fighting for SP!!! I deserve so much better but it never was about any person but it always was the same familiar childhood pattern😮

[@RonOrr]

Kingdom of Heaven is within you

[@ViWiHH]

Honestly i gave up. I lost my spark. I am not looking for anything in my life anymore. It feels so empty. And seseless

[@familyof4lokos]

Aaron is this the same thing as "twin flame" ??

[@mayhtoo3576]

Makeshance 😮❤

[@c.e.equestrians6388]

Can we all agree that having fantasy about an SP… (clears throat) Whispers: Brad pit, is completely normal. Lol!

[@onesoullove1111]

Aaron i hope did your leg day 😅 I never miss mine 🔥

[@TheBethRoszman]

Go Surfing!

[@gabriellewhalley1328]

But... I thought when you feel better u attract someone new and u use them as your motivation to do the visualization and upgrade your vibration...

[@CarltonVolkema]

I’m 48 years old and nobody has ever stuck around long enough for me to notice any “pattern”. I should be happy instead of pathetic and lonely. Got any videos on that?

[@kelleymalloy449]

Abandoned

[@kkelly4806]

You are not pathetic. There is your pattern: nobody ever sticks around...

[@kelleymalloy449]

@@kkelly4806 sometimes that's good , you want to repel toxic people lol

[@AmandaExpanded2514]

Very true

[@wildfower-poppy]

Totally, trust the Universe and God, see the picture. I am healing.

[@jrjennings]

what did you wind up eating?

[@mayhtoo3576]

Surfing 🌊🌊 exciting,good water sport,gym good mucles😂❤

[@ULeftMeOnRed]

You are so freakin’ cool. I wish I had hair like yours. Btw, are you a trump supporter? Also, you should make a video on how you take care of your precious locs.