The 5 Types Of Women Great Men WON'T Propose To...

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[@BernMendez]

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[@audra1976oliver]

This really helps a lot. Sometimes i think I need more attention but remind myself I used to be a clingy person. I've worked a lot on myself. I've had a "let's just see what happens" approach in life this past year. I used to be so future centered. It has created a lot of peace and a lot less anxiety and anxiousness.

[@NancyGonzalez-kv5mm]

Don’t get intimate until you get the emotional security you need. When you get intimate before commitment you are creating emotional needs that won’t get fulfilled. Then you come across as clingy. It’s because there is no emotional security in the relationship

[@RobinZipporah]

Last 3 guys I met were too emotional.... No regulation... Don't believe there's such a thing? I'm ALWAYS the rational one 🙄!!!!

[@meetandinspire]

"No guy wants to connect with someone who is trying to solve his world for him."

[@BernMendez]

Thank you for watching.

[@HapillyMe]

Im a woman, and l don't want a man to solve my world either.

[@martinakournikova564]

Great lesson as always ❤

[@smilewithsadieb]

The ICE QUEEN oof 😢 that hit me… like a mirror lol

[@user-cg4sy7kz5s]

And I do notice that when I have my children he gets very distant from me and I haven’t seen him for along time but I have just let things be

[@user-cg4sy7kz5s]

The guy that I was talking to he is someone I cared about and says that he was sexually attracted to me and asked me me to be with him and said yes and now I don’t see him anymore

[@karolinah12]

Your insight is excellent .Thank you for these massive eye openers. I am learning

[@BernMendez]

Thank you for your kind words and for watching.

[@ivyhernandez2526]

Easy One, Chameleon, Nag, Mother, Ice Queen

[@BernMendez]

Thank you for watching.

[@burnietakessler1465]

❤❤❤😊😊❤❤❤❤❤

[@SamairaPatel-wh9wm]

Tysm

[@user-re4hv7ns4g]

GREETINGS FROM THE GREAT STATE OF KENTUCKY KNOW IT'S BECAUSE THESE PEOPLE DON'T HAVE TO LOVE THEIR NARCISSISTIC THEY'RE THEY'RE NOT LIVING FOR GOD AND THEIR SELFISH AND THEY'RE THEY JUST LOST AFTER WOMEN THEY JUST LOOK FOR THE ONE THEY FIND ATTRACTIVE IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT HER PERSONALITY IS TRUST ME THERE'S SOME GOOD WOMEN VERY KIND VERY NICE AND THE MAN DOESN'T WANT THAT WOMAN THEY JUST THAT WOMAN TO GET WHAT THEY WANT LA BE CAREFUL LOT OF MEN ARE VERY SUPERFICIAL AND NARCISSISTIC SELFISH THEY'RE NOT LOOKING FOR THE NICE WOMAN THEY'RE LOOKING FOR WHOEVER'S ATTRACTIVE AND SECULAR LOOKING WHO LOOKS PROVOCATIVE 0 MOST MEN ARE FOOLS

[@Menny-pf4li]

Thank you

[@TheLillipuss]

GIRLS GIRLS giRLs!!!! if there’s ONE lesson in men you can learn & remeber about men… LISTEN! Omg I swear you cannot get better advice from 100000 KZbin videos! Re-listen to this again and again until it gets through!

[@RobinZipporah]

Stop calling GROWN women.... GIRLS!!!!!

[@lolaispure4296]

Jesus. I feel i am ALL of those. No bounderies; nagging;mothering and smothering. All of the above. No wonder he left me....

[@marieotero8843]

No, you’re just a Virgo like me we always want to fix everyone and we’re always giving advice. I’m on the same boat girl.

[@kerrymillar1267]

Don’t be so hard on yourself.

[@cup_o_TMarie]

Yep this was me too AND of course I also attracted dysfunctional men as well. 😭 It’s a hard road but everything does begin with us. I had to realize no one was coming to save me from all of my trauma. Now I live a totally different life & having healthy relationships is literally an added benefit. Feeling safe in my body & trusting myself to have my back while realizing my precious divinity (not religion) has created an inner peace that no money can buy🙏🤍💫

[@lili19393]

in my last realitionship, i was pretty the Nahrung and motherly type. But not anymore i change a lot thankfully

[@ladyofspa]

Good stuff but the very last minute stood out on pausing checking in with yourself. This is a great suggestion that I will use....really monitoring with proof hows this going for myself, vs just keep going regardless.😊

[@BernMendez]

Glad this helped you : )

[@ChristineMercyMotivation]

Wow, this is a priceless gem of information. Hmmmm I’ll be giving this several views and much thought. Thank you so much for sharing this information… it’s so insightful! I wish I could sit down and chat with you… wow!

[@BernMendez]

Christine, so glad this was helpful. :)

[@barbara-annperry5941]

What does it mean when he is the emotional one in arguments and says leave me alone. I say aye whatever bye and a week later he is back. I want him. I don't need him and I enjoy my independence and solitude. But I love him unconditionally. I say that I spoil him but he says that he is needy. Complicated. I always speak my mind

[@good__enough]

Sounds pretty good to me.

[@karolinah12]

I was married a long time, i was very pretty & had tons of attention from men. I was rubbish at communication. Two kids later & decades on, i'm back in class . I'm not single, but i wish to evolve into the kind of person i'd love to be with ❤❤❤

[@BernMendez]

I’m grateful you have this yearning and are willing to learn new skills. 🙏

[@user-cg4sy7kz5s]

So this video is almost about what I am going threw right now

[@pinkdoll7256]

My mistake is I've been seeing a guy for a long time who is the rock star in a band type he's confusing me so much always hot and cold and I've noticed some suspicious behavior.

[@bridgetmcgiggles4528]

You are convenient. Make yourself unavailable

[@nadiaconseillant8616]

What about you showing me who you are.. i get the joy of discovering you and myself. So that means you have to be on a certain level

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

❤

[@Carolina480]

Bern do these apply to women in their fifties looking for a serious relationship

[@BernMendez]

These applies to women of all ages :)

[@lyndamcmullen5506]

❤❤❤

[@BernMendez]

: )

[@pinkdoll7256]

I'm the chameleon and an Ice queen I need to stop the guy has had me in a chokehold it's really messing with me.

[@nadiaconseillant8616]

If you not in my life and we have not communicated then maybe i am on another project ( not man)

[@odettebalog6214]

Walking on the eggshells, as if men were kids or some sort of cats.

[@BernMendez]

I don’t think that’s what I’m implying here…

[@GilliMarieMoody]

Thanks. This is hard🥲🌬️🌤️🕊️.

[@larmindful233]

Very insighful ...

[@BernMendez]

Thank you and glad you found it useful. : )

[@leonielittle4030]

modify vs change....what is the difference1?!?!?!?!

[@jennaleighcouch1990]

The degree of difference. Modify - slight change, change - very different

[@BernMendez]

@jenna 🙏😊

[@robynstanwick]

♥️❤️

[@BernMendez]

😊🙏