What Kind of Car is Your Wife? | 2 Bears, 1 Cave Ep. 213

[@michaelviviano7564]

Never realized how much I would miss Nadav's laugh in the background until I watched this. Y'all need to put together a Nadav laugh track.

[@Bren3669]

and give him residuals every time it’s played

[@maleficent82]

I'm glad he's gone

[@jb7720]

it definitely changes the shows

[@Papertowels68]

Then they’d have to pay him 😂 and with what money lmao

[@jarredfugleberg3994]

I don’t miss it at all. His obnoxious laugh was forced sometimes too. You could tell the “belly laughs” were getting less genuine

[@policebear88320]

Bert is Peter Griffin: Florida Edition, and Leanne is Lois. It's almost uncanny.

[@MrJayehawk]

This is actually a pretty good observation.

[@tobereed]

Peter Griffin is funny tho

[@torquesteer4594]

Only Bert could spend 10 minutes talking himself out of being an alcoholic and then follow it up immediately with describing his LITERAL love of vodka

[@joefish69]

Yep he is a hundred percent a alcoholic that's all he talks about when he Sally's he has not drank it's a lie I am sure he drinks every day his love for alcohol is so visible does he go five minutes without talking about some kind of substance

[@migzydrift]

Same shit every episode

[@yourdadsotherfamily3530]

Romanticizing the drug

[@Revolution1117]

@@yourdadsotherfamily3530 Isn't just a little little weird that Brent is now associating / romanticizing women & booze in the 3rd person to justify his alcoholic fantasies.

[@CC-ge5fo]

@@migzydriftthe whole channel is this way. Bert’s the alcoholic with zero self awareness, Christina is always upset about something, Tom is the serial killer poor hater.

[@chickhitlist]

I wish Tom could get a complete story out

[@spambox7397]

you have to wait for a guest bear

[@jaredweed5060]

He doesn’t tell stories unless he’s making a surgeons salary

[@mballou83]

Came here to say this exactly! Figured someone else must have mentioned it already 😂 seriously though it would be great to hear one complete thought from Tom without Bert interrupting with something completely unrelated and about him. He sounds like he traded alcohol for cocaine, legit cannot shut up

[@bheinatz1]

But when would Brett have time to mention that he's not drinking and is in awesome shape?

[@samsmobilepressurewashing8422]

Exactly, I caught myself yelling shut up Bert when Tom was about to say how much Marshawn lynch incline pressed

[@rileyzopf7236]

All of the faces Tom makes while Bert talks is what makes this show so amazing.

[@robinpendley4794]

The abs are showing up 🤨

[@juancamarillo-wh3ly]

Bro why did I go to the comments at the exact time I see that and I find this I've found my people lmao

[@9176michael]

Bart seems fine, totally in control of his alcoholism

[@JKimPersonal]

Funny seeing Tom act like he’s never choked anyone out before. Tell that to the families missing their moms and daughters.

[@3K4peikos]

I believe that this video will be used in the future court appearance when affected families finally demand accountability

[@ehhhhhhhh2233]

😂😂 you people are in the WRONG VIDEO.

[@brandytovar8845]

Why does it feel like G had you post this 😂😂😂

[@Kred1bleThreat]

do you think theres a secret Garth/Tom team up going on? imagine the list. triple digits easy.

[@InspectahReese]

Wasn’t one guy he choked out on the subway who survived but got paralyzed from the waist down

[@bigdaddye75]

Congratulations to both of you on your weight loss , i am also on a weight loss journey since July i have lost 95lbs , found out i was type 2 diabetic and had some blood pressure issues , working on both of those , finally getting a handle on things , I watch or listen to yall every week

[@Tayzle412]

fuck yeah brother thats awesome

[@Rebma12]

Good luck!!! You got this!

[@richardcharles9349]

Hi mommy, you got this jeans 👖

[@eyaffe1]

Nice job! Now you’re only a poor.

[@bigdaddye75]

​@@eyaffe1lmao thanks brother

[@InspectahReese]

The cyclical nature of Bert improving then immediately self sabotaging never gets old

[@delta666SoT]

Lol bert out here anthropomorphizing every drink for a second straight podcast 😂

[@kobadinho]

Whats that word 😅

[@WKRP187]

You know I don't know what that word means so I'm going to take it as a sign of disrespect!!

[@MartiniGTGP]

@@WKRP187hilarious

[@MartiniGTGP]

Anthropomorphism - the attribution of human characteristics or behavior to a god, animal, or object.

[@WKRP187]

@@MartiniGTGP Have a buddy that cannot see any woman without her reminding him of a lion, moose, beaver etc. He's done it since we were in middle school.. After 30+ years of it , It's infuriating and hilarious at the same time 😆

[@ChristopherParrish-f8w]

The joy that these two men bring me has no limits. Bert is like a bad ass 12-year-old with millions of dollars and Tom is like his cool dad that he just stole his weed.

[@boliver30]

Bert talking about vodka at 14:00 was such a treat. He masterfully weaves a story together and conveys the emotions he has in his relationship with alcohol. A true alcoholic

[@Lastlapinsider]

Why is it called 2 bears when there's basically only one talker. Bert, when you ask Tom a question, please allow him to answer for at least ten seconds before cutting him off and turning it around to drinking again! Bert looks great after not drinking as much but he still talks about it 24/7.

[@HanzieTy22]

Enny saying 'I think you already do it" and "I think thats pretty much already how this show goes" talking about and calling out Bert for always talking over Tom was absolutely priceless. I literally LOL. Ole Berty Boy was so damn BUTT HURT but he knows and so does everyone else that it's 100% The TRUTH!!!!!

[@bballboy0019]

Every ep Berts delusion keeps growing

[@Tayzle412]

Its INSANE

[@Tayzle412]

Most likely started taking more test, added ozempic, and thats the weight loss you see but i guarantee he is still drinking

[@cubalibre4685]

"abs are showing" is borderline scary delusional

[@johnalvarez6037]

Bert: "Why don't you get Bert drunk?" Tom: "I have to do things." Lol😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tyler4418]

I'm down to 229 from 275, an episode of Bert talking about losing all that weight and the differences you start to notice after dropping so much, was perfect timing lol.

[@crisisjack]

Nice. You added like an inch and a half

[@KnightHog]

Hell yeah bro love to hear it. I went from 245 to 183 and listening to Bert’s weight loss was awesome 🔥

[@dreiscool1]

I’m down to 168 from 275-280 (7 months) lol His comment does hit hard. So does Tom’s given I have stairs in my house 😂

[@Dp_is_Op]

​@@dreiscool17 months 107 lbs? Any tips?

[@dreiscool1]

@@Dp_is_Op don’t use a scale. You understand if you’ve been eating well or not. If u must, weigh yourself the 1st of every month- to see how you’re trending. I did keto/carnivore and intermittent fasting. Pretty much only ate one meal a day at 6:30 PM High fat high protein - if you’re consistent it will burn off.

[@carsonbarr2233]

It’s nice seeing the boys together again.

[@coryhall3110]

Bert spends half of his time on any given podcast trying to convince everyone he’s not addicted and the other half speaking with passion and eloquence about alcohol.

[@shawnbradford2243]

Did you have a drink 😂

[@jessicawhoo2238]

Period 😤

[@Hello1nternet]

God, Tom looking at the booth for reactions on some of Bert's explanations is so much like Jim from the Office it's not even funny. Love the dynamic duo

[@richtherocket795]

Enny dropping truth bombs and Bart's pissy reaction was perfection!😁🤣

[@taylorvigil7560]

i loved it. someone had to say something

[@richtherocket795]

@@taylorvigil7560 FACTS!!!😀

[@chrisg7663]

I recently lost my dad as a 40yr old and this episode really got me - love ya!

[@ChrisCromag]

Keep up the good work Bert! I went from 443 pounds last December and now I am 368 ! It ain't easy especially without any friends to encourage me. I'm doing this all alone and I still got more to go. My goal is 270 and I'm gonna make it happen this year! Thank you for being inspiring!

[@wurq001]

keep going, sir !!! 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪

[@jasonwringer8981]

love bert and tom... their like brothers from another mother lol. im so glad i found these guys a few years back. i love finding new shows and comics on my own without someone turning me on to them.. I JUST WANTED TO SAY THANK U TO BERT AND TOM. im suffering from stage 4 colon cancer i have surgery in 2 weeks and it 50/50 weither ill survive. this past few months in horriable pain from it and these guys made this single father of 3 boys with my life coming to an end, made me LAUGH and SMILE more then i have in over a year. I just wanted to tell them thank you. sorry for the bad spelling everyone i just got back from chemo and my brain isnt their yet today.. NEVER CHANGE bert and tom not for anyone, you guys are simply amazing comics

[@turkdiamond]

Hey man… I know this likely doesn’t mean shit to you, in the grand scheme of things… but I hope you end up on the positive side of that 50/50, & you get to live many many more years.

[@SlummingItWithScotty]

Bert’s def not an addict! He just never wants the party to end! What a revelation.

[@RolandSpecialSauce]

I mean that exactly what an addiction is.

[@SlummingItWithScotty]

@@RolandSpecialSauce Exactly!

[@mistyspider13]

@@RolandSpecialSaucewhoosh

[@RolandSpecialSauce]

@@mistyspider13 it didn't go over my head. I'm just agreeing with you, you ding dong.

[@Somegoy]

The amount of fun nadav added to this is seriously present now. All of ymh network doesnt feel right anymore

[@samanthab1923]

Do they even show the boys in the control room anymore?

[@johnszczerba9979]

Did he make it more fun or was it just a trick to make you laugh with him?

[@davesalanzo6513]

You gunna cry?? Only poor people care as well

[@stax03]

think about it this way, if you were a producer, paid as a producer, would you want to be used as talent?

[@MrJodunu]

He left at the right time, 2B stopped being funny around episode 50 and ymh doesn’t have it anymore.

[@osimate]

It's wild how much I miss Nadav on 2B and YMH, it's just like all these are missing a piece now. I need that laugh back.

[@mattcoker9763]

Why did he leave?

[@osimate]

@@mattcoker9763 It sounded like he just wanted to try and create content and try things on his own. Maybe he felt stuck in a rut or something akin to that.

[@nah3193]

Nadav's channel is actually really entertaining

[@craighansen3031]

He'll be back

[@RCorbzz]

You understand you literally just said "Toms podcasts aren't funny without a laugh track."

[@Ryy_Ryy]

Bart is 100% a 1970s Dodge Van. One of the ones with shag carpet and a mini bar in the back and instead of some ocean animal or dragon painted on the side, its just him shirtless on a bear skin rug.

[@ijustiini]

bert is a damn poet for liquor

[@markdavid1078]

the Ernest Hemmingway of our time!

[@mdougf]

He really is lmfao

[@MisterWealth]

9:50, doesn't Bert say he drinks wine on treadmills by himself?

[@jarredfugleberg3994]

He says wine doesn’t count cause Jesus liked it

[@Lilslicky]

Also years ago on hot ones he went on a rant about hating accepting random shots and drinks at shows, and would rather drink alone in his hotel room lol

[@mtbtripspr3660]

"One of the only celebrities that is outspoken about his support of Hamas... Bert Kreischer" 🤣🤣🤣

[@jnrivera3710]

One of the best genuine conversations in this podcast I’ve ever seen by Tom and Bert have. I’m glad that they got over the tension they had going for awhile there. That’s true friendship and I honestly hope that their relationship keeps growing and getting better. I’m gonna sound sappy but this episode made me feel good about the positive outlook we all should strive for in life. Plus the conversation about women and what you should look for in a good woman was grade A material. Good shit boys.

[@jamieflatley7133]

Bert stops drinking for a few days and preaches like he's been on a spiritual journey. That livers still cooked

[@jginc1392]

Dude I have fatty liver and been sober like one full year and no way my liver is ever gonna be good enough to support half the drinks i used to drink or a quarter of what Bert consumes

[@jamieflatley7133]

@jginc1392 Berts is just kidding himself... quite sad really

[@RPRsChannel]

---> *_HUBERMAN said the following drinks, in order, give the least hangovers:_* •VODKA WITH ORANGEJUICE GIVES THE LEAST HANGOVER •BEER •GIN •WHITE WINE •WHISKEY •RUM •RED WINE •BRANDY, WHICH IS GIVES THE WORST HANGOVER.

[@williamdecker3989]

I surely hope Christina is taking combat pistol training at this point so she can defend herself from the men in her house!

[@D_Trade]

I mean, Tom already pushed her down the stairs, so it makes sense 😂

[@zacharyeskelson6229]

Ok Garth

[@RolandSpecialSauce]

Wasn't Bert and Tom's first weight loss challenge during the first Sober October they did? Bert just admitted to drinking through the whole challenge. Which isn't surprising. I always figured he was lying about not drinking.

[@billybuttons4298]

No....the first weight loss challenge took place December of 2016 with the final weigh ins at the very beginning of January. The first Sober October was 2017.

[@WhiteWhiskers99]

THank you guys for this show. I laughed and it actually made me think a bit about my life, I'm 43 and going through the same issues

[@muyspicypepper8258]

I love how Bert was describing "quantifying his emotions" and he was describing alcohol dependency 😂

[@fridegreen2may843]

In regards to dying, in my experience sudden deaths, vs expected deaths are so much more traumatic to deal with in terms of arrangements

[@MsJdahl]

Bert talking about LeeAnn and Tom just sighing 😂😂 like he knows Bert means well but it was coming out the wrong way. I love it.

[@JayMac]

They're getting good at the outfit changes in between recordings.

[@WKRP187]

Wow there's no getting one by you.. Those 2 guys live a 1000+ miles apart, have other podcasts, and tour the world non-stop doing comedy shows. You really think they have time to meet every week FOR A FREE PODCAST?? use some common sense man

[@mmiles9734]

​@@WKRP187they advertise. This isn't a charity here

[@genore1993]

@@WKRP187 A FREE PODCAST? Use some common sense your yourself, they are getting 100$ of thousands of dollars a year for this shit.

[@VicXtheMeX]

Hey thanks for letting go of tom and bert's dick to type but we're allowed to complain about that shit@@WKRP187

[@TalkingThrones]

​@@WKRP187It's not free when they're constantly asking for your money, through ads, ticket sales, ppv shows, merch, etc...

[@The.Adam.D]

I started my weight loss journey after Air Segura, and I’m down about 130 lbs.

[@kyle601]

It’s actually crazy how much healthier Bert looks. Hope he keeps it up.

[@MMARLZ]

I actually preferred it the other way…it meant even though we saw a lot more of him, we saw him way less frequently.

[@rogue_z3451]

The tits are gone

[@InspectahReese]

I hope he keeps losing weight till the scales tip and he starts battling anorexia

[@justin_la81]

Yeah his red face looks great

[@jblz86]

I hope so too, but it probably won't happen.

[@Thatkidswift]

Bert call the realest guy you know, uncle Joey is always got your back and he’s been there and done it all. Plus your dad loves Joey

[@lynngriffin2106]

I love that they kept Nedav’s laugh in the intro

[@MichaelLaFrance1]

Nadav should get residuals for it.

[@nathanpeterson261]

@@MichaelLaFrance1 nadav is probably the one that made it

[@christopherduffey2658]

Words can’t describe how much joy this podcast brings me on Mondays! Love you both and this whole crazy community! 😂

[@Xxxsorrow]

The way Bert talks about his wife makes me appreciate my husband even more. Goddamn Bert doesn't know when to shut up. 😬

[@badsushichef]

Right??

[@maric.3829]

That self invite is just wild 😂

[@marcop4845]

Bert’s way of describing vodka is insane 😭

[@chrisscornerx3]

Not gonna lie I wanted a cold Titos after that talk

[@beatrice81]

He calls the drink she lol❤

[@TheEmzley]

I love every time Bert talks about food, you can actually hear his mouth watering

[@southport65]

tom uncovering that brent never takes stairs is nearly as peak hilarity as the great koolaid revelation was... but nothing will ever top that.

[@richtherocket795]

I know right! I don't know who laughed more at that craziness, Tom, Bart, or me; I was legit hunched over crying laughing!😂

[@Gotti89]

If Bart doesnt get some good Marshawn Lynch stories, he'll just make some up lol

[@noelgallegos17]

Nadav’s laugh provided so much, it is crazy not hearing it. Still a fan!

[@jacobdavis7818]

As a Seahawks fan, listening to Bert and Tom talk about Seattle is just awesome never thought I’d see the day

[@Nope.369]

Me tooooo! Go hawks

[@thehaaps]

This episode is brought to you by Bert’s full blown alcoholism

[@Revolution1117]

Sponsored by "Bart Krishna's NEW Extra Strength Narcissism". Tastes just like Tito's!!👍

[@dalelane1948]

ummm, he's a party guy, therefore NOT alcoholic , idiot

[@princevegeta-son]

With fans like you people who needs enemies

[@Dave-h4r]

​@@princevegeta-sonwith enablers like you, who needs friends?

[@connormcginty9283]

​@@Dave-h4rMy god, that was beautiful.

[@departedgardens9262]

Yoo Bert not “doing stairs “ is fucking hilarious wtf.

[@spiceboyog9083]

7:21 Tom just flies solo has the best show ever. Bert wakes up every so often just to get knocked out again.

[@Oluo_Iroso_Unkuemi]

I can watch these 2 like all dam day. I love that their friendship seems untarnished by the dunk contest incident.

[@ryanowns5]

Wow youre pretty late 😂

[@drsavage3262]

Great form Tommy! No hooks in and Berts face went red instantly 😂😂😂

[@anoc_gaming]

Bert is the +45 year old equivalent of the "Just one more game" guy that we all game with.

[@GackleBlax]

stop ignoring my discord messages

[@anoc_gaming]

@@GackleBlax I have 0 idea who you are. LOL

[@GackleBlax]

@@anoc_gaming well that explains why you've been ignoring me

[@anoc_gaming]

@@GackleBlax LOL

[@Putzl52]

I've missed this show. Glad you guys are back. The guests don't have the same dynamic.

[@MikeKrumrei]

Did anyone else immediately miss Nadav when Tom asked to put Bert in a chokehold?

[@marycallahan7795]

Bert dries out for a month & relapses for the next 11 months, pretending he’s in control of his Alcohol Abuse Disorder. You’re fooling no one. RIP BERT 💀

[@toohamm6809]

That being said you're not wrong.. I feel like 60% of the comments in every video he's in is people talking about his drinking tho. Like he seems fine

[@tannercollins6696]

​@toohamm6809 you are not a very smart person, educate yourself

[@keengkai8175]

I’m a weed guy now I love weed Check out this weed. Smell it. Best fucking weed around

[@4martch]

Bert is an old Buick. Takes up most of the road and you can always hear it from down the road

[@FludzyTV]

One bear one cave, lead by Bart is quite literally my worst nightmare. A great friendly podcast turned into delusional “we’re not alcoholics” show. Hey Bret if you’re making the excuse to drink, even by “bringing the party” you’re the alcoholic.

[@MartiniGTGP]

Bringing**

[@bheinatz1]

*worst

[@marjabalconi718]

I’m genuinely curious why y’all keep watching, then comment negative shit every episode….?

[@MartiniGTGP]

@@marjabalconi718 they killed Jesus too.

[@FludzyTV]

@@marjabalconi718 I’m a fan of Tim SE-GU-RAH he’s done a lot for the Asian community

[@Koncs86]

Bert's body dysmorphia never ceases to amaze me...

[@BroHooks]

A happiness journal is for addicts that are trying to justify their actions

[@dandunlap8638]

It’s funny how Bart says “WE’RE” getting hammered, as if everyone folds to peer pressure the way a child like him does 😂😂😂

[@Lina780]

Feels like Tommy buns really wanted to choke out Bart 😂😂

[@pantallic5343]

Yeah he started slowly lifting Brent out of his seat 🤣

[@kylethompson6648]

Oh, no doubt! Then he said, "It's getting better!"😂

[@robostyle9773]

This episode was hilarious- but you're right- being happy with what you have and appreciating what you have is key

[@TruckerWilly]

foley is definitely the guy that broke the chair

[@livefire81]

My thoughts exactly. The Ozembies still has a way to go on that WaWa twin.

[@thedukeofkidding941]

I'm thinking Foley or Stavros

[@thomasrowland6561]

I've been telling myself for years that as long as I was healthier then Bert I was doing ok. Listening to this podcast while I clean my apartment this morning and realising I'm at a point in my life where Bert would be worried about me has me spiraling.

[@tewodroz]

Bert is one of a kind, man 😂😂😂😂 .. love these two!!!

[@juggalochef2399]

"Why don't you get Bert drunk?" "Because I have to do things." I'm fuggin' dead over here! 🤣

[@alanm284]

Tom talks, Bert interputs. Glad the team is back together

[@B1GDR23]

Y’all should do a “Sober October” Tour. Bert, Tom, Ari and Joe! Have the “Save Our Parks” cast in as well?! Dream line-up!!!

[@MrSpeedyAce]

Why is every episode of 2B1C always Bert trying to convince everyone that he isn’t an alcoholic?!?!?

[@Shuffffff]

You're new here aren't you? 😂

[@lindsaychristian4151]

This is why I watch 2 bears. For these episodes

[@codyyoumans4402]

Way to take over the whole entire episode Gertrude

[@thecairdcompany2811]

Nadavvvvvvvv come back with that ridiculously loud laugh 😂😂

[@stevendavis1089]

I need to see this show “frat dad” hahaha

[@viktorsincic8039]

Bert we're really proud of you. Now just do more stairs - those are lifesavers!

[@richtherocket795]

I know right! "The girls have bedrooms upstairs, so I just never go up there," has got to be one of the craziest things Bart has ever said... and THAT is saying something!!!😂

[@Tayzle412]

Glad Bert was able to stay on topic until almost 3 minutes in!

[@Tayzle412]

only took until 9 minutes before the deluded rationalizations about alcohol began - why is nobody talking to Bert about his non-sense? Nobody wants to listen to him talk for an hour after?

[@Betty-Boop809]

@@Tayzle412ha, because Bert doesn’t want to hear it.

[@Gummy94Bear]

Bert's stories of Leann never fail. oversharing always XD

[@maleficent82]

Finally my boys are back. I'll accept free air fare and tickets to your together tour as an apology. Lol

[@Treycordie]

hopefully we get a pod soon where tom talks for more than 30 seconds

[@floramaebunny4777]

Over 200 episodes it has not happened yet…

[@ehhhhhhhh2233]

"The 'funnest' thing to Bert" = Being so unbelievably annoying, and pressuring to your "friends" who are trying to sleep, to drink, that they eventually drink just to shut your alcoholic ass up. Wow, how fun for everyone....

[@LuvOneAnother]

The REAL laugh of #TomSegura sounds EXACTLY like the Dog named Muttley from the OLD Hanna Barbera cartoons. I love Tom's REAL laugh.

[@thegimp7796]

So weird that these two are the new Brendan Shaubs of comedy. Everyone seems to hate them

[@jonathanstewart6899]

@@humanbeing1168 the poors lol

[@c0mpoot3rn3rd]

Lol idk if getting tired of two popular comedians is the same as the hate people have for the bee sting

[@samanthab1923]

They’ve run their course. Even Rogan prefers Gillis & Normand. Schulzie too.

[@bigben42]

It’s not weird, it just kind of happens when a podcast gets big enough…a group of haters forms and hate watches lol

[@chrisdurandt3834]

Cannot wait to see Ellis "The Menace" Segura in the UFC.

[@edwardshepherd8074]

I'm so happy you guys are back together. Don't apart for so long next time.

[@PooNagoo]

“I don’t fuck with stairs” w a pic of Bert should prolly be a shirt 😂

[@PooNagoo]

That and “You know I was cracking toilet seats left and right” 😂

[@untilsomeday8962]

People: I wish they just went back to the two bears Also People: It would be a good podcast if they just replaced Brent

[@lynngriffin2106]

Then it would just be Tom talks though 😂

[@untilsomeday8962]

Not if they replace him with someone else...

[@Drigoon12]

Bert is fully describing how i feel about my Fiance. Bronco man thats what we want

[@Chaster0987]

I understand why they have to bank episodes do to they’re schedules but Bert needs to stop interrupting and having the Bert, Bert and Bert issues. I wanted to heard about Tom’s midlife crisis lol.

[@wiliconner4791]

These woman analogies are brutal. Love you fellas thanks for all the awesome content!

[@lalloligyst718]

On today’s episode of “ I’m not an alcoholic”, Bart attempts some pretty incredible verbal gymnastics to assure himself that he doesn’t have a drinking addiction. We’re turning into a one trick pony here guys. Can we get back to funny please?

[@kevingonzales7965]

33:59 if any comics come on your shows I replay the special all week back to back on 5 tvs in my house.

[@sirhaunchalot3336]

Thanks bert, now ill never hit play on anything either of yall do with Netflix :) thanks pal

[@ОльгаВанюшкина-э1ш]

Why not?

[@norab7432]

1:08:26 Tommy buns has the grief knowledge, wisdom and experience. You definitely can’t control it. But it does get easier over time.