She Tried To Escape So He Threw Her Off The Balcony | Lisa Harnum

[@ZaraV]

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[@jackie4370]

Hi,please look into Peter scully’s case Daisy’s Distraction and cover it..

[@MeriweatherDesigns]

Is it just me or does Mia look like Bianca Devins?

[@promisedjubileedaniels]

My grandma was a rescuer for women out of DV situations, and her advice is: NEVER EVER CONFRONT. Always just leave. Wait until they go to work, or the gym, etc. And just leave. DON'T take your phone with you. Go to a STRANGER for help, not to someone the abuser knows.

[@jetson10100]

Your comment should be pinned, everyone woman and man in the situation should read it.

[@ZaraV]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏

[@hallievanoutryve3109]

Thank you, it's so important

[@jmpx2mom]

All of this is sooo important!! Strangers really do help so much! I just left a DV situation in February after planning it for almost two months. One night in December of last year he hurt my son for one of the last times & I knew it was then or never. Having to hide & do everything at work (looking for places to live, saving & hiding money, switching banks, passwords, my kids' emergency contacts, etc) I felt like I was living a double life or something 😵‍💫 the amount of control and manipulation he put me through in that 12 year relationship was wild, I never realized I was in that kind of relationship until it was my life. And never in my life did I think I would be in a relationship like that but it happens so fast and you're already sucked in by the time you know what happened! My kids & I are thriving & so so happy now 🥰 since we left I've had constant blessings come into my life 🤞🤍

[@lqvrv]

thats pretty smart actually

[@itsmochicakes]

As a woman who survived something quite similar and managed to escape him with my life and my child... I am so sorry to all of the beautiful people we have lost to monsters like this 😥 This story broke my heart into a million pieces. Rest in peace angel 😔

[@Gothy_Guru]

Bless you and yours too, love. I’m so relieved you survived and DV needs to be discussed way more. My heart breaks for those who couldn’t escape. May Lisa and the others who suffered from the hands of someone they trusted and love be at peace. It is so unfair and I think it’s helpful that we listen to these horrific but true stories. Listening carefully to these cases can potentially save your life. it helps us recognize dangerous behavior from your SO. Love to you ❤ and to anyone else reading this - know that I love you too and would help in any way possible if you feel like you’re in danger.

[@gabryellerodriguez7148]

Abusive relationships are so complex mentally. There is gaslighting due to the abusers insecurities, being in control, isolation, and a huge factor is fear and making sure the self worth is destroyed. NEVER confront if planning on leaving. Slowly more small and unnoticeable items out. and then when the abuser is gone for a long period hustle and move quickly in the hours you have. If they cant move everything, make sure you take the things that have sentimental value and necessities. The rest can be replaced. This is so tragic.

[@justdej]

I listened to the full audio of their conversation. As someone who was in a very abusive relationship at an even younger age than her, I can say that conversation put my stomach in knots because I remember that feeling. She was panicking at the thought of him spending time with other people after all she had given up, all of the rules, all of the things she said "ok" to even when she didn't really agree. She made him the most important thing in her life and felt threatened by the thought of not being as valuable to him. She grew dependent on him because he made it that way by isolating her. She already had a poor self image (i.e. the eating disorder). Many different forms of insecurities boil down to one thing: CONTROL. She probably didn't feel she had control over herself and allowed him to do it because our minds seek out ways to "fix" what we perceive as problems by any means necessary. Kind of like a bear caught in a trap will bite its own limb off to fix the problem of being stuck only to then bleed out after gaining freedom.

[@ZaraV]

Wow everything you said makes so so much sense! So true 🙏

[@sandcrushlove]

This really resonated with me having been in a very similar relationship myself... Being very dependent on a person... Changing every thing I did to suit him, so as not to upset him. And then eventually he would do the things he told me not to do. I didn't think it was fair. The control and the double standards of our relationship was ridiculous. It made me feel sick to my stomach and I'm ashamed how jealous or insecure I would feel as I felt like I had no right to feel those things.

[@saritacruz3020]

I think that an important takeaway for domestic violence victims is to NOT confront the abuser or even let them know that you're leaving or where you're going. The time right before, during and after leaving is the most dangerous. It may feel like the thing to do to tell them that you're leaving, but it may have deadly consequences.

[@NtokozoMajola]

Such a tragic story. I could feel your pain for Lisa as you told this story. Domestic violence is so insidious and horrific. It's so brave of Lisa's mom to spread the message about its effects after suffering the loss of her daughter.

[@meghanjohnson9584]

Abusive relationships are so insidious. It seems most of the time the person doesn’t even realize what’s happening until they’re in too deep. RIP Lisa ❤

[@ZaraV]

So terrible ❤️

[@heezypeasy8611]

It's a trap that is sadly very easy to fall into

[@TataMorningStarMoses]

Alot of times it’s the excuses made in the beginning for the disrespect that gets people in deep. We just love ourselves more

[@TataMorningStarMoses]

So wait you’re bashing the new girlfriend but say he “mindfucked” Lisa. Wow shouldnt they both be victims of his narcissism

[@TataMorningStarMoses]

This was towards the host

[@DVelez-wz3fe]

Don’t EVER tell your abuser you’re leaving…EVER!! Also, moms and friends, please call the police if you or your loved one is threatened by someone.

[@martinezfamily6432]

It's easy to fall into that trap. First you just wanna prove your love, then you do it for your peace. Before you know it your doing everything out of routine. But you never ever stop thinking about your life. I think it's the "questioning" yourself that wears you down. And yes those manipulative people KNOW exactly what they are doing. They were taught it and used it since childhood. It's devastating

[@ZaraV]

That's so sad, it must just happen so gradually that you suddenly wake up and wonder how it all changed!

[@evidenceroom]

They make it seem like it's all your fault too because there so insecure.

[@arkansaninva]

My best friend was in an abusive relationship for years. He didn't allow her to speak to me because he knew I could see through him. She was young, smart, beautiful, and gullible, and he was emotionally, financially, and verbally abusive. He'd threaten to hurt her dogs if she tried to leave him, and there were no shelters in her city that allowed dogs. He didn't work so he was never away from their home. Finally when he was away for a couple hours one day she took as much of her stuff as she could manage and two of their three dogs (he had the third with him) and got out. It took so much courage and she felt like she had to do it alone, and I kick myself every day that I wasn't there to help her. Her story has a happy ending, but it could have been easily ended like Lisa's

[@adrialee8149]

Been there before too he wouldn't allow her to talk or hang out with me

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Yay! New Zara video! I just love how you consistently post videos EVERY week no matter what! You’re so much more dedicated than these larger youtubers, and I just absolutely KNOW it’s gonna pay off for you sooner, much sooner, than later. You’ve got this girly! Keep posting videos for these lesser known cases! So many of these youtubers are always posting the same cases over and over again, it makes me not want to watch half of what they post, I’m sure I’m not alone.

[@ZaraV]

Thank you so much!! Really appreciate you taking the time to leave such a lovely comment ❤️😊

[@ashleyw6160]

Yeah, I feel that way, too.

[@Lala_LilyV]

Happy Tuesday!! Actually home today with all the kids back to school... excited to lay down no interuptions and watch this video!! Have blessed day all!!❤

[@ZaraV]

Ohhhh that is such a lovely feeling 🤣 enjoy girl!

[@andib1834]

You always do such an amazing! Thank you for making my chores less boring. Praying for Lisa's family, especially her mom. I can't even imagine what she has gone through.😔

[@ZaraV]

Thanks so much for your support ❤️❤️❤️

[@Mochii96]

I just stumbled across your channel and instant subscribe!!! I feel like I’m listening to my friend telling me about a true crime story.. you have a calming energy. Rest in Peace Lisa.

[@jessicawabbit83]

So glad you're feeling better! I am a domestic violence advocate, and it never gets any easier to see these stories. I am so thankful he was convicted. Thank you for always giving a voice to the victims in your videos. I listen to them every week at work - when I first found you, I watched at least 20 of your true crime videos in about a week lol. Now that I'm caught up, I look forward to them every week 😊

[@ZaraV]

Aw thank you for your continued support and love 😚

[@BaddKiwii]

At 39:54 was so funny to me. As sad as these cases are, it’s really nice/ refreshing to be able to have the mood lightened a little. I appreciate you Zara! 💜

[@ZaraV]

Omg as I was saying that I was like - I'm so dumb this is exactly a song hahahaah

[@CKharsyiem]

I was actually singing along 😅

[@naivenostalgia]

Thank you for covering this case, Zara! I'm surprised I hadn't heard about it before this video. I wish Lisa had been able to make it out alive that day. The lengths he was willing to go to spy on her to attempt to control her entire life are disturbing & terrifying. I saw another comment say not to confront the person, but to wait until you're alone & just silently make your escape. That is definitely the safest option & likely the most successful as well. We might want to confront someone to let them know we are finally leaving after everything they did & that we will be free from them or, conversely, because they have made us feel like we owe them the "courtesy" or "consideration" of letting them they know we are leaving. I promise that the realization that you made your escape & slipped through their grasp while they weren't home will hit them harder than anything you could say to their face. Nothing you can say will affect them or change their mind anyway. As for owing them the warning of a goodbye? The only thing you owe them is your absence from their life because that is what they have earned.

[@melaniemunien6789]

Ladies...please if you are going through something like this....please plan your escape carefully, don't let the monster know your plans...just pretend everything is fine.Then when all is clear...just RUN

[@lylipadilla2876]

The song! I never thought I'd laugh so hard watching true crime. You made my day, I got fired yesterday and I really needed that laugh❤

[@andib1834]

Praying you find a new job ASAP.

[@shitneyb5562]

There's something better out there 🖤

[@ZaraV]

Aw I'm sorry to hear babe 😞 Glad you got some joy from this haha. All the best finding a new job! ❤️🤞

[@MelissaModsMetal]

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[@ZaraV]

Awww shucks 🥹

[@martinezfamily6432]

To the ladies out there. There is a way out. And people will judge you regardless but these same people will help like you would not believe. When it's time you will leave and you will never look back at the person or situation. You can do this ❤

[@fefe1179]

💔 Never confront your abuser, run away get safe. Only fight BACK!!! and preferably from a distance🧎🏾‍♀️. My heart just aches for how close she was💔💔💔💔😖😖😖

[@be_ingtyler7703]

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[@Realtor365]

This is terrifying.. Thank you for bringing attention to these cases.. I absolutely LOVE your channel.. you have such a calm vibe and my mom is now hooked too! 💕

[@lauraa0322]

I love true crime so happy I found your channel! I found you a few days ago and already have seen so many of your videos I love them you are one of my favorites now 🥰 thanks for such great cases!!❤️ and you are so beautiful love your makeup 🥹❤️

[@mollythompson4071]

Hey Zara, can you please cover the Christopher Gattis case. He was a youth pastor that murdered his family on thanksgiving day in Va. I really would like to know more about him and his family and what made him snap!!

[@Erika-uy4cn]

Your video was popped up on my Facebook randomly and now I’m here…🎉

[@nosey_neighbor9960]

It's such a sad story. Thanks for being so respectful in your retelling.

[@aubreemaas1595]

I love your videos Z! How you question what the parties are thinking and what led them to their current behaviors. At 25:04 - I thought about this and from my perspective as a woman, it’s a very very slow progression of control, you don’t realize it’s happening and when you do - you’re so consumed with your investment in that person that you will deal with it. They literally change your brain chemistry in my opinion. Keep it up girl!

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[@ZaraV]

Thank you so much!!

[@GigiOnTheMic]

24:54 I had that exact mindset, I wondered how women stayed.. and now years later of therapy I understand it’s psychological, it’s like telling a smoker to stop smoking cold turkey. I’ve seen so many people where it’s like they’re in a daze, under a persons spell.

[@ilonagasiorska7112]

Hi, hello from Finland. Great that I found you, I like how you progress in the stories. This terrible fate of Lisa is a terrible example in DV cases. Lots of love to Lisa's loved ones and thank you Zara❤️

[@joanmilley487]

Thank you for your wonderful sensitivity in telling this horrendous story

[@Valeria-mq3qn]

15:43 the fact that Simon only got “two years of periodical detention” for injuring two officers and biting one of their ears off…🤯🤯🤯🤯 I have no words! I think that if he and his family had acted this way in US, they would’ve faced a much, MUCH more severe punishment. And that’s assuming that they even made it out alive to go through the whole justice system!! This is just crazy to me. I’m just appalled that he got such a light sentence. If someone could give me more context as to how he got off so easily, I would love to know….

[@mahnaz_93]

My heart sank when you said" Simon throws her... a dinner. That pause you took 😢

[@tasha3036]

Thank you for sharing Lisa's story. Abuse at the hands of a partner is entirely too common and it really sounds like he thought that she would happily be his puppet, doing as she was told. When he realised that she was planning her escape he lost it. He should never be freed. My thoughts and condolences are with her family and friends. I never miss one of your videos. You have a talent for sharing these cases in a considerate and engaging way.

[@lisssoakie8419]

I just got a recommendation to watch your video. I loved it and I’m a new subscriber to your channel ❤

[@jenniferdobyns8940]

Oh how horrific and frightening. I have a friend who found herelf quickly immersed in a coersive controlling relationship. The love bombing, gaslighting and isolation all came to light. With many attempts to get her help, and get her to see what was hapoening, she eventually got out safely with assistance from the police courts. It is so hard to explain when others on the outside say "Why don't they just leave?"... it's usually when one tries to leave that the abuser loses it, the loss of control leads to anger. Thank you for sharing the resources on this topic, its terrifyingly too common.

[@ZaraV]

Must be so scary trying to leave ugh. So glad your friend got out ❤️

[@mrs_maverick1121]

The control starts slowly... you don't even notice it at first... and when you do, their wrath is far worse than what you want to do... it's not worth it

[@MelissaModsMetal]

Gosh what a truly beautiful girl she was😢

[@KinzleyMarie]

I love your content and have watched a lot of your videos. This one stands out to me as particularly well researched and presented. Thank you for your tact in discussing difficult subjects such as ED and DV. I wish I saw more content creators treating these kinds of topics with this level of respect and understanding.

[@OHoneyPot]

I dated a man was VERY controlling and when I started noticing the signs, it didn’t take long to exit. I was able to get out unscathed. The situation didn’t last long and I’m forever grateful for getting out. My heart goes out to this young woman and her family 💔

[@AutumnPearly01]

The picture of herself and her brother is the reason there was a whole trend about people wuth blue eyes never blinking 😂😂 that aside, this case is so sad and and it just enrages me if I'm being honest. Please, NEVER confront or tell your abuser youre leaving. Just do it.

[@iamaraebarbie]

Thank you for the research and care into this! I couldn’t watch the interview because it apparently has a block for the US, but I appreciate the added clips. I always enjoy your videos ❤

[@destanieleahdale3893]

You’re so pretty. I am obsessed with your hair. And I love your content. Thanks 🖤

[@ZaraV]

Aw thank you so much! I just dyed my hair darker and wasnt happy with how it looks on camera so thank you!

[@bjjjb3056]

As someone 7 years sober from substance I cannot imagine how difficult an ED would be. Without substances and alcohol you can live, you just “sit it down”… you HAVE to find a way to eat food and not have a “problem” with it 😢😢 breaks my heart

[@blacklivesmatter4918]

I just watched the video that Lisa recorded and I can understand how someone would think he was being rude and disrespectful towards her but like you said it's not a conversation that you can just listen to only parts of it and make a judgement call tbh! She spoke her mind and didn't hold back how she felt about what he was talking about! It's almost like he secretly knew she was recording the conversation and he was trying to sound genuinely concerned about her feelings!

[@lqvrv]

just discovered ur channel i think I'll like ur documentaries tbh

[@amandacunningham7142]

As a domestic abuse survivor I can tell you from personal experience they wear you down. First few years on that pedestal then your on your knees cleaning it. It takes a long time to recover and make changes to become yourself again. I'm not exactly who I was but I think a stronger version of what I was. ❤❤❤ Thank you for your time. Love you❤

[@ZaraV]

Thank you for sharing and so glad you are safe. ❤️❤️

[@amandacunningham7142]

@ZaraV Thank you! Habits are hard to break, though I still apologize for everything, and if somebody wants something, I immediately stop what I'm doing to take care of them. Those 2 are my worst. But I've been safe for 6 years now, just have to break the people pleaser mindset that was forced upon me. I love listening to you while I paint. Thank you for all you do to spread awareness. Much love from N.C. ❤️ 💙 💜 💖 💗

[@desiagriffin9689]

I don’t know if this is a new camera or new setting, but it’s perfect! Allows me to really focus on your face and it makes the resolution seem really clear and hidef!

[@ZaraV]

It's the same camera but my husband got me new lighting and I dunno what he did but it does look so much clearer! I feel like this setting is more true to real life. Thanks for noticing 🥹

[@desiagriffin9689]

Also it’s a mix of vulnerability, naivety, environment, mental health, and emotional manipulation. If you’re not aware of what true love or never experienced it or never seen it modeled properly you’re very naive to this type of abuse. Throw in mental health issue and/or lack of self esteem/confidence and you may think you deserve this or nothing better. Then there’s narcissistic personalities out there who seek out empaths to take advantage of. The perfect toxic situation is someone who lacks empathy and someone who cares so much about others that they’d sacrifice themselves. This is my version of an answer to the question on why people deal with these type of relationships.. even if they’re unhappy

[@desiagriffin9689]

The type of people that prey on good people have usually experience their own form of trauma that they’ve chosen not to deal and tap in to the darkest parts of themselves by choosing not to emotionally care about others and instead suck the life out of truly good people to add to their delusions of being better than what they actually are.

[@laurahuff5566]

Hey Zara! Love your videos, love the way you narrate cases and your care for the victims ❤ Thanks for all you do!! I also enjoy the makeup aspect 💄

[@kraines94]

Excited to watch this when it has just uploaded

[@patriciacollins2902]

Hope you are having a great day love your format

[@ZaraV]

You too!! Thanks sweetheart 🙏😊

[@patriciacollins2902]

@@ZaraV you do an amazing job been watching you since you started ty for what you do

[@suzimonkey345]

Thank you Zara!

[@Lynx112]

Education for everyone is the key, so many lives could be saved, and it should start early in life.

[@CarpeNutella]

I've heard of this and the audio which is just so weird but I'm dying to hear your take!! Congratulations on your new home 🏡

[@Carolynsweetheart]

Excellent work ❤❤❤❤

[@jennyekong8847]

I ❤you Zara. Always looking forward to your story telling

[@pinkroxysouthmead]

I will never understand how people end up listening to these control freaks they tend to go for vulnerable people

[@_tanyacristina]

Unfortunately I’ve been there, though thankfully not to this extreme. I was lucky enough to have moved away for uni when I finally woke up and realised I had to break up with him. Its been years now and I still feel nauseous hearing stories like this because I understand all too well. I have to leave a note to anyone who may be going through this too: It can get better, and I know its hard but you need to gather all your strength and get out, do it quietly and quickly because unfortunately in cases of domestic abuse the most dangerous time is when you decide to leave. There’s help out there, if not your family and friends, believe me theres an organisation, a church, even strangers who are willing to help. It’ll be scary, but it’ll be worth it. You’ll get your life and your self back and you’ll be so glad you did ❤

[@ZaraV]

Thank goodness you got out! Yup they must be so insecure the only way they feel loved is to control the lover

[@Thefaenook]

I was 11 when this case occurred. I remember sitting in the lounge room with my mum and dad watching the news and hearing about this. It was the first time I had heard about domestic violence and I just remember being so shocked that someone could do this to another human being. Rest in peace Lisa ❤️ such a wonderful beautiful woman who did not deserve what happened to her

[@ZaraV]

I remember it being all over the news and being so young and being shocked that someone could do this and be so casual about it!

[@ykjo5613]

How weird, I live in Toronto & never heard of this story! And 8:00, she is a classic case of being into older men bc she didn't have a dad 😢🎉

[@melaninandaura9713]

I want all girls/women in this situation to KNOW that when you are being controlled by someone you have to get extremely paranoid. You can not TELL them you are leaving. I think the desire to do this stems from an inner desire we have for people to want us, to apologize for their actions and to change. BUT someone who is controlling you will ONLY do that to get you to stay because you are nothing but an object to them like a microwave or expensive sofa. If you are leaving you can’t incite them in anyway at all. If anything lie through your teeth to keep alive. And then get as far away from them as possible. These beasts are barely human and will end your life so please don’t confront them. Just leave.

[@shepromotes5173]

Zara, are you okay? Your energy isn’t the same as usual😕 we all love you!!! 💖

[@ZaraV]

Ugh girl I was recovering from being sooo sick! I was still a little sick when I filmed this my eyes stayed red for 2 weeks 😭😭😭

[@shepromotes5173]

@@ZaraV hope you’re feeling better!

[@cherylmclaverty2182]

I love your channel and most of all u r so beautiful with or without makeup keep up your amazing work.

[@ElizabethGarcia-wm2ld]

Lmao i love it "thats a song" 👀

[@alanamacneill88]

I remember this case happening, I live so close to Toronto

[@gin.k]

People like Simon are really like unknowingly inviting a vampire into your home/ life.

[@karenmurray4608]

I saw this story on a show called Web of Lies. This woman went through a lot. Leaving her country to live in a foreign one to face that madness.

[@meloyello3904]

Her mistake was letting him know that she was leaving.. she should’ve just left…

[@ginapafitis1966]

💯👍🏻

[@suzimonkey345]

R.I.P. Lisa 😔😢😔

[@bnlatin23]

I can’t believe he isolated and controlled every aspect of her life that quickly in just months . You should never let an abuser know when you are leaving just leave . This is why you have constantly educate your children about abuser flags over and over . Her poor mom I know what that monster did must have killed her and then this monster is as still trying to control her even after he murdered her . I bet he captured the entire murder with the other cameras so that’s why he had his brother removed them before the police got to search .

[@banditpoon714]

So happy to see you! Hope you're feeling even better since you've filmed this There was a case in my hometown where a wife pushed her husband through the window of like the 20th floor or so! He was a marine, not sure if he was still enlisted at the time. She claimed domestic violence amd self defense but I do believe she did get jail time. The building is this super tall circular high rise I'm town. When we were kids we all thought that building was soo cool and we all wanted to live there. Now I cant even remember the name of the building 😅 it was in Tulsa, Ok in the 2010 ish era,sometime around then Hope you are loving the new house! ❤

[@ZaraV]

Hey babe! Mostly better now! How are you?

[@banditpoon714]

@@ZaraV so glad to hear! I am doing well, daughter is starting 4th grade this year and starting spanish as her elective! So exciting to see her learning and growing. I saw your previous little girl at the end of last video, she is absolutely adorable!

[@J_essyJames]

55:18 be careful! You can get hurt helping so please refer to those same DV help links and resources to find ways to safely help your loved one get out.

[@rozathorn]

Because they don't start as unreasonable, it starts off slow and by the time the unreasonable demands come you think it's normal.

[@CameronLapping-v1d]

Oh my gosh! What color MAC lipstick is that purple?! I love love love purple lipstick it’s my new favorite color!

[@alone28y1]

I am from USA so I met two girls they were in the same situation I tried everything to get them out of such situation financially emotionally I went as far as threatening their abusive boyfriends but they kept going back to them I finally gave up and moved on I don’t know what was their fate I hope not as Lisa’s.

[@letdanielletellyou]

I suffer from Bipolar and my husband has seen me have an episode and he has told me that the strength I have is unexplainable. I was able to lift him off his feet. A man that is a 3rd degree black belt couldn’t understand where the strength came from. Now I was off my meds this was few months after I had my son. But it is possible for a person to have unexplained strength. So yes that man def tossed 115 pounds off a balcony in a fit of rage. May she rest in peace. She fought so hard for her life with her eating disorder to end up dead by the hand of another. God rest her soul and may he rot in hell.

[@april6461]

Zara your eyes so red! I hope you weren't crying. Besitos 😘 feel better.

[@WinterWitch01]

She’s been sick, I have it too so I picked up on her coughing and saying she needed her hot tea to get through filming the video. It’s miserable stuff and lasts forever, I hope she gets better soon

[@ZaraV]

Hi April 👋 haha yeah I've been sick so when I filmed this I wasn't 100% yet and it showed on the camera 🤣

[@johanngouws2321]

Hi all the way from south Africa love ur crime show's

[@chrismartin5450]

There is a KZbin page Free Simon that has audio that does not seem to support her claims. Sad case

[@priscillaflores7656]

You baby hairs are everything 😍

[@tinad4885]

I’m not sure that “interfering” is the he best advice. I feel like not only will that endanger the victim but it will also put that person in danger as they “interfere”. It will create chaos, it will further isolate the victim as they will likely make sure that person doesn’t try that again (as it will have an impact on their life after the person has left), they will be forced to further isolate from that person and probably any last lingering people in their life. No one can leave DV until they themselves are ready! And in saying that, that is when the victim is most likely to be killed! So this situation is not nearly as black and white as outsiders want to think it is. You can’t just go and save them. You can’t just interfere. You can’t just ask the right questions (because whose monitoring those conversations)??? This story broke my heart. She was ready. She was trying. She made the effort to leave that pos! She did everything right. Bless her heart, she knew that day would end in only one of two ways and she probably knew/felt (based on the call she made to her mom) which way it was headed! She tried her best ❤

[@dianeshannon7988]

Agreed he tool control to a techno level literally utilitising surveillance on her24/7 so any interference would have triggered his rage.Dont tell plan and leave but obviously not all women are lucky enough to have viable safe options to leave toits femicide not all men abuse but it is certainly a frightening statistics 1 or 2 a week .

[@christinamurphy8645]

I heard “Everything is trying to kill you in Australia.” Spiders, snakes, mammals….etc….

[@TataMorningStarMoses]

Women need to nip it at the start. When he made a scene at the job it should have been over. Sometimes women have such low self esteem or are afraid to be alone that they put up with it. Please love yourself more than loving someone else

[@blacklivesmatter4918]

20:03 Omg that makes so much sense now!😮 I was with my husband for a total of 17 years and in the beginning of our relationship he would do these exact things ur talking about OMG! 😳 I'm speechless 😶 So I now know what his motive was for making me late to work or when he would start an argument right before I had to leave for work just so that I wouldn't want to even leave the house!😢 We've been separated from each other for six years now and this really brought up some deeply disturbing theories I had but I couldn't put my finger on it but now I know exactly what he was up to! 😂

[@Ronimi-p4c]

@ZaraV I had to right this bc the song reference had me lmfao🤣😂

[@lexusklein9726]

It breaks my heart when strong women fall into these kinds of relationships. I was in one for only two months but he was always so pissed at me because I wouldn't fold to make him happy. It only lasted two months because I refused to let a man dimish my worth and I wish so badly for all ladies to have this mindset. No man is worth losing who you are, I know it can be hard but your life is far more important than his ego. There are so many other people in the world that love you more and someone who will treat you better and be happy to do so.

[@tonischmeider4714]

Ok do you have a new camera ..amazing ❤

[@ZaraV]

Same camera, but my husband got new lighting and mic and I dunno what magic he did but I like the new setting too so thank youuuu ❤️

[@tonischmeider4714]

Looks amazing Xo

[@rachelrae860]

Yayyy good morning Zara I have missed you. I absolutely adore you and your personality is absolutely everything to me ❤. Guys please click the like button because Zara is just freaking awesome and again she has the most awesome personality. I've never heard of this case and can't wait to hear it from you. Zara your just amazing and I want you to know that I'm always going to be here and I'll always leave a comment 😍🌟🥰🌈💋🌹🤗😘🥳🪷. I hope you start feeling better soon 😢❤

[@ZaraV]

Hi Rachel good to see you againnnnn ❤️❤️❤️

[@rachelrae860]

@ZaraV thank you. I felt so bad for you being sick but you were such a trooper so thank you. If I can't catch you when you upload I will always be loving and supporting your channel and I'll always leave a comment ❤️ this story was so sad 😞. He was a narcissistic piece of trash 🗑. I'm sending lots of love ❤️ strength 💪 and prayers 🙏 to all her family and friends

[@Kociewa]

Domestic violence survivor - it's fear. Shame. Powerlessness. Believe me, I'm still asking my self the same question - how did all happened? In my case, he broke my character completely. I became victim in most vulnerable time of my life. Everything was "perfect" until I haven't move in to his. Saw him choking my dog, and I couldn't do a thing. I just froze. He was able to kill his own pet snakes.... So what he could do to me if I'd try to leave? Or fight back? But there is another side of domestic violence too. Witnesses. I'm sure my neighbours heard my screams when I've been choked and beaten up. They saw me with bruises, no questions asked. Domestic violence it's a complex issue, I'd rather say.

[@kaceygeorge6366]

Hello from Louisiana !!! ❤

[@alenaharvey2123]

Such a sad case. I believe 100% this monster is guilty and should be serving life without the possibility of parole.

[@spnfam-ily]

Don't they think it's weird that there were cameras everywhere except the balcony? I absolutely believe he was angry enough to throw her over! Rage + adrenaline can make you do super human stuff.

[@ZaraV]

I did find out later that he told his brother to remove the hard drive from the ceiling and I wouldn't put it past him to remove any other spyware and pinhole cameras from other locations. I bet he just forgot about the one near the door as the murder took place inside the home 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@spnfam-ily]

@@ZaraV I bet you're right. I noticed that edit about his brother right after i commented. His brother should be investigated as well. I guess it'd be difficult to prove he deleted anything if they can't find the hard drive.

[@sanya_red_bird]

I think we might stay in a terrible relationship because it is out on us that we are failures if we can’t make it work.

[@JesusismyRock773]

Didn't a witness say that he saw Simon throw what the man thought was a garbage bag or something. So there was a witness that Simon did throw Lisa off the balcony. And the kind of "love" Simon had for Lisa was not love at all. It is evil. And he should never ever get out of prison. Twenty six years is not enough for this disgusting unhuman being. Rest in Peace Lisa. I really wish you had come back to Canada at least until the thing found someone else.

[@celiagonzalez3847]

Domestic violence is the front line of the war against women. R.I.P ✝️ 🕯 🕊. Great 💄 makeup lessons.

[@cherryj5566]

Hi Zara. Saying hi from Trinidad and Tobago. How you doing?Hope all is well.

[@ZaraV]

Hi Cherry! Doing better now thank you 🙏 hope you are well too ❤️