How to Be Less Sensitive and Emotional
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Can Narcissists Learn Empathy?
10:53
4 сағат бұрын
Can Narcissists Change?
10:10
6 ай бұрын
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@cherylrochs6560
@cherylrochs6560 3 сағат бұрын
Thanks for sharing this topic. It was helpful
@SnarkySnark2025
@SnarkySnark2025 Сағат бұрын
You are so welcome!
@elenacaddell3639
@elenacaddell3639 13 сағат бұрын
Thank you Kim. Love hearing Fred
@StreetArtistJasonManson
@StreetArtistJasonManson 15 сағат бұрын
I am a functional antisocial.
@squirming_squirrels
@squirming_squirrels 18 сағат бұрын
I hope people realize how incredibly toxic and manipulative these channels are. There’s a reason we watch them back to back and feel like we’re not making any headway.
@zabraarms3865
@zabraarms3865 22 сағат бұрын
Thanks for sharing this topic. It was very helpful ☺️
@SnarkySnark2025
@SnarkySnark2025 20 сағат бұрын
Glad it was helpful! 🤗
@jacobmunoz2588
@jacobmunoz2588 Күн бұрын
Great video, narcissist are the cause for most suffering. Beware the signs they cannot change because they chose not to. As a survivor of narcissists, always keep your guard up.
@jeanevans7188
@jeanevans7188 Күн бұрын
If only i knew ,better late than never
@SnarkySnark2025
@SnarkySnark2025 Күн бұрын
Indeed. Better late than never ⋆.˚🦋༘⋆
@Purposely365
@Purposely365 Күн бұрын
Great content!
@BabyHussein
@BabyHussein Күн бұрын
Better pray to god and in final god come with justice and peace only leave everything on god in final they only come with justice only.
@BabyHussein
@BabyHussein Күн бұрын
Pray to god and god will always help with justice only.
@MegaSassy45
@MegaSassy45 Күн бұрын
How do I help myself not to take disappointments so hard?
@SnarkySnark2025
@SnarkySnark2025 Күн бұрын
@@MegaSassy45 That depends. For example, if you’re in a relationship where you’re regularly disappointed, there’s really no way to not take it so hard. Because it’s a living testimony that you and your feelings don’t matter to the other person. But you do matter. In such cases, my personal opinion is to find a way to leave, even if it takes some time.
@MegaSassy45
@MegaSassy45 Күн бұрын
@ thank you for your response. I’m now 79 years old and spent 8 years, on and off, with a man who fits this description. We lived together for two years during the Covid pandemic. He left in a very cruel way in 2023 with last words that were so dissonant to what he had said a few minutes earlier, it left my head spinning. It is still an uphill road to recovery even with the best therapy. I’ve spent a lot of that time in bed or on the sofa. After previously being married imperfectly to a wonderful man for 45 years, and as a psychotherapist myself, I don’t recommend this experience to anyone. It was devastating.
@lifesculpts
@lifesculpts Күн бұрын
How to let go repressed emotions & traumas?
@SnarkySnark2025
@SnarkySnark2025 Күн бұрын
@@lifesculpts I personally worked to heal on a spiritual level. Working with Shamans, spiritual healers, reiki practitioners, and the like. Traditional psychology/therapy didn’t help me a jot.
@tims9434
@tims9434 Күн бұрын
True. I remember its how I was treated that made me more sensitive
@StreetArtistJasonManson
@StreetArtistJasonManson Күн бұрын
Very truth. Thank you.
@MrsNsf74
@MrsNsf74 2 күн бұрын
Describing some priests and postors
@SnarkySnark2025
@SnarkySnark2025 2 күн бұрын
Sometimes they’re the worst.
@tims9434
@tims9434 2 күн бұрын
These explanations really make me think
@tims9434
@tims9434 2 күн бұрын
Makes you wonder what your childhood really was when you realise the whole family is dysfunctional because of a narcissist parent
@SnarkySnark2025
@SnarkySnark2025 Күн бұрын
A narcissistic parent can destroy entire generations. This is why I fully support anyone who decides to separate from toxic family dynamics.
@naturalist369
@naturalist369 Күн бұрын
This video is well done, thank you ! ❤🌟🐾🌿🙏🏼😇🌈🔆🕊💫
@VP-kw5rq
@VP-kw5rq 3 күн бұрын
Wow thank you so much for your clear explanation on this topic. Now I am sure I was just emotional abused and there is nothing in my power to change the course of the relationship.
@paiged6362
@paiged6362 4 күн бұрын
Their only consistency, is their inconsistency.
@k.s783
@k.s783 5 күн бұрын
There’s subtypes in the sense that a person’s environment and personality influences the way their underlying brain anatomy manifests. The fact that a brain scan can show that a certain individual’s brain is consistent with that of a narcissist doesn’t necessarily negate that it shows up differently in life. Saying there’s no spectrum is similar to saying every person with schizophrenia will act in identical ways. I do think there’s more overlap between psychopathy and narcissism than popular culture likes to admit. Having personal experiences with a professionally diagnosed narcissist it’s quite shocking how callous they are. The idea that they have an insecure and vulnerable core is inconsistent with their lack of empathy. If you have empathy you have the ability to understand others’ emotions, this means you must first learn about those emotions in yourself. Narcissists don’t seem to have this ability. They lack the capacity to feel empathy for others and for themselves. People confuse a narcissist’s hurt ego with vulnerability. It’s not vulnerability, it’s them feeling angry or frustrated over being perceived as “less than” or lacking. They truly feel superior to others and when people don’t act consistent with this conviction it creates cognitive dissonance in their minds. That’s the distress we may perceive as insecurity or vulnerability. It’s not. It’s just them being dissatisfied over the fact that others overlook or deny how important and valuable they really are.
@deeruler1688
@deeruler1688 6 күн бұрын
I was literally strangled. I could have had two felonies on him. So stupid I thought I was providing a safe place for him to heal when in fact I wasn’t safe. 🧠
@deeruler1688
@deeruler1688 6 күн бұрын
I don’t hear a lot about when you get away and you’re tormented in your mind as if you’re still there. My 🧠 screams his words and flashes images constantly.
@SnarkySnark2025
@SnarkySnark2025 Күн бұрын
Sounds like possible PTSD. You'll likely need professional help. Personally, I worked with spiritual healers, as traditional therapy didn't help me at all. But, I would suggest finding a trauma-informed professional as this won't go away on its own.
@fyrefox01
@fyrefox01 6 күн бұрын
All the subtypes are reflective of environmental and nurturing from childhood. They use whatever works to get their narc needs met as they mature and that creates their "specialty". The narc brain is malformed in utero, much like psychopaths and sociopaths.
@nicholecornes1915
@nicholecornes1915 7 күн бұрын
Biggest mistake of my life
@motowngirl5891
@motowngirl5891 7 күн бұрын
99percent of men DONT want a long term commitment They know all girls and women want to be married and have children That’s how they get away with abuse You believe them
@mrf5347
@mrf5347 10 күн бұрын
How to avoid triggering NARC, to remain off it's radar is good! Excellent when paired with No Contact!
@FaithfulandTrue777
@FaithfulandTrue777 11 күн бұрын
Yes 🎯 thank you this is so needed. Its keeping us stuck as we have empathy, love and grace. They abuse us in every way, Lord please break me free im empty and exhausted
@karenmininni4962
@karenmininni4962 13 күн бұрын
Great video. It’s all about the power and control we must dissolve and stop serving it any further. We are not servants to them.
@purrrlicious1
@purrrlicious1 14 күн бұрын
I heard, “I told you I don’t do drama”! And, “The way you treat me is so wrong. And after I have been so generous to you”!
@dianequigley6450
@dianequigley6450 14 күн бұрын
I'm glad you have acknowledged that dismissive avoidant attachment is NOT the same as narcissism. As an adult child of a narcissistic mother...I have a avoidant strategy but am far from abusive...although can seem cold when self protecting
@sarahuber8567
@sarahuber8567 16 күн бұрын
Sons always seem to side with their fathers.
@cm9317
@cm9317 16 күн бұрын
They are truly evil. I've never dealt with a more mean spirited person in my life.
@nourishingword8767
@nourishingword8767 16 күн бұрын
I have to stay in marriage w my narc. Husband 😞 I have zero personal family or friends in my life aside from his family (which I’m not close to at all) & we have small children. He said if I choose to divorce him, he’ll take full custody of the kids & say I’m incompetent cuz he’s aware of my weaknesses & suffering depression. 😢 I’m so alone in this suffering but I’m trying to hold onto God’s Word.
@SnarkySnark2025
@SnarkySnark2025 15 күн бұрын
There is no Biblical law that requires us to stay in toxic/abusive marriages. That isn't God's Word. I recommend the work of Patrick Weaver Ministries on Facebook. He'll set the record straight for you. As far as his threats to take your children away, that depends on where you live. Here in the US, judges aren't too quick to rip children away from their mothers just because their mother is depressed. That doesn't make you unfit. Those threats all sound similar to the ones my ex used to make against me, but I left anyway and have primary physical custody of our son. However, it's always best to consult with an attorney in your area who is familiar with the laws of your locality.
@tamaraleebohanon387
@tamaraleebohanon387 17 күн бұрын
It took me 30 years for the first husband to recover from what was done to me.
@tamaraleebohanon387
@tamaraleebohanon387 17 күн бұрын
I married three narcissistic men and two of them were sycophantic and socialpath on top of that. I died by the last one, and I almost didn't come back the intensive care unit said.