Not to comment 4 years late, but it's interesting to me because I absolutely have the conversation-about-sex-super-early-on, but so far I have been dating other people on the ace spectrum, so the vibe of that conversation has been very comfortable and affirming for me. (It also probably helps that I only have that conversation or meet up with people in person if we've talked a bunch and I've gotten a level of comfort with them.) I appreciate being asked, so there aren't assumptions made that might not be accurate. It also helps me to get a sense of what they're looking for in a relationship (e.g., how much or what kinds of physical affection are important to them) and for me to establish areas of my own inexperience and interest in taking things slow. Honestly, I also find it flattering that someone with whom I've had a maximum of a hug at this point is thinking about ways they might want to engage with me physically (and ways they wouldn't, but so far that line hasn't been ruling out anything I'd actively want). It's kind of an active expression of not friend-zoning me to ask, since it would be easy enough to just hang out or not but never look forward at what a relationship would mean. Of course, in my first ace4ace relationship, we didn't get past handholding before I got dumped, so the talking-about-sex wasn't in retrospect necessary. (Here's hoping this time I get to a proper cuddle or maybe even -- gasp -- kissing.)

Honestly corrective rape scares me and the fact people think it's okay to say that to someone is fucked up Or being told I just have to find the "right person" to be "normal" Even the thought of visiting a gynecologist scares me aswell, because of the invasive things that will be done there as the thought of anyone touching me there makes me uncomfortable

Visit prior lake, it may be a small town but it’s just as fun! Things to do there is walk in downtown, visit lakefront and admire nature and you could visit Charlies on prior

As a Asexual, #DATINGSUCKS 👹👹

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Music scene is 💣 AF

Come visit Arlington

Yeah and it’s probably expensive to live in Minneapolis Mn as well!? No thank you 😮

OMG THATS NOT TRUE AT ALL!! I’m sorry if I’m being “dramatic” but asexual people deserve better than to you adding things to their name. It’s as simple at it sounds! ASEXUAL PEOPLE HAVE NOT EVER OR WILL NEVER HAVE SEXUAL ATTRACTION!! yes they can have romantic attraction, and marry. But not… yeah.

Hello 🌾 I liked this video very much Keep making more videos like this I love it. By the way, if you pay a little attention to video editing i.e. insert B-roll properly then it will be very easy to understand the topic.

Before in a relationship i was not sure but after getting into a relationship I'm confirmed that I'm asexual i love my bf but I don't like any sexual activity i never think about it

hate the transplants. minneapolis is the next city to gentrify and invade 🙄 so many of yall.

Like I'm confused because I'm normally not attracted to anyone, but I do get slight feelings of horny-Ness here and there. Though that might have just been because they hugged me which activated the reward system in my brain

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Mounds are not scary they are sacred

Me: Am aroace *Sees Chandler, Mcnamara, Sawyer, Janis, Andrea Macaseat(Anne Boleyn's actress), etc* K I'm lesbian *Sees JD and Misha* K I'm Bi *Realizes how shitty boys are irl* WHAT NOW?!

Who is your favorite Hazbin Hotel character?

People like a's now????

NO OTHER STATE IN THE UNION WILL TEACH YOU HOW TO LOVE YOUR PROGRESSIVE HATE MORE THAN MINNESOTA ALL THE WHILE SELLING YOU ON IT’S HOME SPUN HUMILITY & SELF BRANDED MINNESOTA NICE B.S.

I disagree with your basic premise. Of all the examples of people that can't tell you that you are asexual you ignored spouse. I am a husband. I discovered that my wife is asexual. We both saw an article on the internet about asexuality. Neither of us were familiar with the term. She completely ignored it while I immediately Googled it, got on Wikipedia and read everything I could find. I found AVEN and watched videos on You Tube. I have read 100's of video comments trying to get an understanding of it. She refused to take any of the "Am I asexual" quizzes so I took 3 of them for her and then I took them for myself. I told her that, from the results, she is definitely asexual and that I am definitely not asexual. If anyone is qualified to tell someone that they are asexual, it is her husband. After your admission that you have had sex I certainly hope that at least one of the times was with Jonathan. I watched your "Dating an Asexual" video and he certainly deserved it for sticking it out for 3 years. He seemed like a nice guy. I hope he is well. BTW Isn't the classic definition the inability to experience sexual attraction and sexual desire? I am sure that we can agree to disagree on that one.

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After watching this video and the "Dating a Sexual" video I wished That I could give Jon some fatherly advice. I would tell him to man-up. Being pussy-whipped is one thing but being pussy-whipped and not getting any pussy is humiliating. She has emasculated you or, in other words, she has castrated you. Life is too short to waste your young adulthood with a pretentious, narcissistic asexual. You need to find a person who will love and desire you sexually as much as you love and desire her. Abbie will never be that person. She can not be that person. It is impossible. Do yourself a favor and shake her hand, wish her well and walk out the door forever. Don't beg her to give your balls back to you. They will grow back after you get away from her.

my therapist said that your orientation may change and she is right. in high school I was mostly attracted to girls then later I started to have crush on multiple boys. now I relate to the term aegosexual biromantic I enjoy sex and sexual fantasies but only as a third person. there is one thing that did not change about me: I need to feel emotions and like someone personally to feel sexual toward them. just a pretty face or body is not enough to turn me on. it is the mixture of looks, personality and my emotions and opinion about them. and yes sexual scenes in movies specially those that are put there for the sake of it make no sense to me. I love romance more than sex..

but I just keep wondering if we keep complicating simple things in order to figure them out, how long its gonna delay that point where we start to think about things that actually matter...like time travel etc.

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I remember wondering what my orientation was as a teenager, and somehow I knew the term asexual (even though this was back in the 90s) and I considered it, but since I did enjoy masturbation and I figured in theory I could enjoy sex with any gender I had to be bisexual, and then later pansexual once I discovered that term. My logic was that I felt the same towards (mostly platonic feelings I now understand) to any gender so I must be either asexual or bisexual. But since I got horny sometimes I had to be bisexual😅 I now happily married to a woman which makes me superficially look hetero. But I'm actually agender/non-binary and gray pan romantic and some kind of asexual. But I'm also autistic so maybe neuroqueer fits me best, neither gender nor attraction makes much sense to me. My platonic attraction is easier, I tend to prefer the company of more masculine women, non-binary people and somewhat gender non confirming men. I have nothing in common with super masculine cis het men or super feminine cis het women. The closest I come to sexual attraction is a rare kinky attraction towards assertive people (usually older masculine gay men/butch lesbians of any age) who I sometimes get a tingly feeling that I would like if they wanted to dominate me. But that feeling is rare and never lasts long enough to make me want to do anything about it.

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This is really motivating, thanks for sharing your experience. Good luck with the next one, I'm curious how the shirt will turn out :)

That view 🤩

Why is a 30 year woman reading a book aimed at teen-agers,do better

So I was watching videos on KZbin and once I learned that there was a difference between romantic attraction and sexual attraction. That’s how I realized at first I thought I just was interested in that I thought it was weird that other people my age were showing interest but I just thought well maybe it will come to me later and I thought I can’t be asexual because when I had been in a relationship, I enjoyed that more than I enjoyed being friends with my friends, and I genuinely thought that it was because I hadn’t found the right person, but then I found out that you can have romantic attraction without sexual attraction and that’s when I realize that no I am asexual

Love the potential for a new format for this channel. (Have yet to see the movie musical btw, sorry)

If you don’t compare it to the musical then it’s good but not good if u compare it

The instrumental were bad

Yknow what they should do next, Heathers The Musical The Movie

I thought the thumbnail was one of those cleaning shrimps going at it with your teeth

Just came home from watching the movie, and oh my, I agree with every point you brought up!!!! Cady deserved better and more passion lol. Most of the songs Cady sang felt like lofi glee versions, especially her parts in Apex Predator

Potentially a controversial opinion: some songs stayed good and a few got better. (Stupid With Love was terrible tho don’t get me wrong) it was weird to get used to for sure, but at the end of the day at least Auli’i and Renee did pretty good with their vocals (my opinion)

I haven’t even seen but I only heard the song ‘sexy’ my favorite song from mean girls and they RUINED IT 😭😭😭

Thank you

Yeah they really messed up the music in the film!!

You sre always interesting love your channel

Hi i hope you are good, Please I need some advice. I am from Algeria and coming to Minnesota please 🙏

Hopkins!

The burial mounds aren’t disturbing They are a great piece of history

Casey or Kasey is very beautiful :)

the real star of the show: bug

Those are the Chaska burial mounds! They date back 1,000 to nearly 1,500 years ago and are "barred off" during River City Days and other city events to show respect to indigenous people of Chaska! Glad you were able to make it and see Chaska's historic downtown!

Ok. Weird way I figured out I was ace was in health class when we had…the talk 🤮. Nothing attractive in anyway. But my teacher kept going “oh you’ll feel different when your in a relationship and hormones kick in” and I’m like “nope! It’s gross! Not into that”