I live with anxiety and I describe it as a crossed wire. It’s difficult to even speak to people without having my self-conscious thoughts cloud my ability to even interact with others. I’m not solve but it is very true that people aren’t thinking about you. It’s the thought that they might be looking at you, that there’s the possibility that they could be looking and analyzing your every action and they’re just not.

Your shame is actually way more common than you think. I remember my friend talking about his shame and realizing how applicable of a term it was. You’re not wrong about alll of your criticisms of yourself but you’re also not right. But when you call yourself a loser you judge a significant demographic of people existing in this same sphere a loser and it’s not accurate. The alienatition felt by you, myself and many others is for good reason and you can’t change the person you are but you can change your circumstance.

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You are beautiful, cool and seem fun to be around. Don't get yourself down. I've wanted to travel the world too but not alone. A happy heart for you... ❤

Yay.

Good for you 🙏🏽🫶🏽👌🏽👍🏽

You have a job and you finished high school and you’re making content 👌🏽 how are you a loser? Who are you kidding?🤣👍🏽

None of this is your fault. Let that sink in. Then we can talk about recovery.

The fact that people occasionally talk to you about THEIR problems indicates that you are a person that's approachable and well thought of. Maybe you don't feel capable of giving them advise or counsel, but your strong point may just be a person who is a good listener. Seems that your biggest hurtle is anxiety. That runs in my family. You're not alone. Your room appears to be your safe zone which you need. There's no shame with that. I recharge my batteries in my room all the time. Don't know where you got the idea that you're just "cute"? You have a face and a body that lots of guys would say is attractive. Try not to put yourself down so much. Sometimes I push myself to do things out my comfort zone and that's helpful for me. I would recommend that you get a little counseling on your own. Tell them exactly what you said here on your site. If affordability is a problem, maybe you can arrange to go once every 2 weeks. But, I would definitely advise you to seek help for your anxiety.

Hi young lady I am a men and I use to be be the same way when I was 24 years old I as some my friends and married friend how meet people they tool me you have to go out and be seen go to a club some start talking to people go to a movie they you may meet someone and I use to be so shy but not no now am 45 years old and married with a kid just lean how to meet people and have fun and one you my get married like I did and a great life

Do not worry about beauty. There is no definition of beauty, for 'beauty truly lies in the eyes of the beholder'.

You're not a loser but there are alot of bums in you're comment section just don't fall for one of these simps in the comments.

You are more than a big loser, you are a courrageous exception, you are safe. Just avoid dark people, people who might get motivated to exploit your humbleness. Do not worry about mistakes, do not worry about contributing , each life contributes in some way or other and not all of those are possible to be evaluated by material world. So, do not worry about what others think or say, find the partner of your life if you feel the urge for that but make humble choice.

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It's ok to be different. Don't get caught up in status symbols

I am a software dev. Before that i was a civil engineer. I also worked at a call centre, but the thing is I never settled I never felt that I need somebody I am also virgin sometimes I also think that I am a looser but I also think that I am okay

your young enough and smart enough to turn it around

Are you really sure what where why your morales dont align with yt...

Just as long as you didn't go to school. Work sucks

I hope you can stop being so hard on yourself. Having a positive attitude helps so much in life. And BTW good work getting a fiancee. You're already winning!

Have things improved for you?

I’m 18 and I know the struggle, it’s really hard to change your nature

Honestlyyyy, you don't sound like a loser. I can understand not driving, it sucks where I am. I sold my car about a year before the pandemic ended and since gas prices globally went to hell two years ago, I do not regret it. Since I'm a guy, though, it is being counted as a minus for me. And that sucks, but not when I consider that virtually everyone I know has been in a road accident at least twice and their cars often cause them more debt and worry than good. I feel better since I am no longer driving actively. It really helped with stress. Imagine someone holding that against you... Or you being a virgin... What's bad about that? Nothing... Having friends among co-workers is not as easy as it sounds, I don't really like many of my co-workers. There were books written back in the day about being a "normal person" and no thinking person would judge you for that. It's really hard being normal these days and it was hard before. Getting help is also ever harder. Social media is very overrated as well as driving and some travelling also is. Cape Town might be nice in the tourist areas, but South Africa is well on its way of being a failed state. Electricity is savagely lacking, all sorts of infrastructure is bad and crime is absurdly wild. I would not go there, look it up in case you wanna really go because that's not just my opinion.

Two peas in a pod, keep that soft spoken soul around. Seems like a really good dude!

Is your favorite song "Loser" Beck??? 🤣😂🙃

3 tips, avoid negative self-talk, avoid high dopamine activities, treat yourself mentally as a friend

this video is probably just for the views and clicks;

rest assured your not alone! But you are capable of sooo much more even though you cant see it! or maybe you know this! and dont let social media determine who you are! your no less than anyone else! :)

Life can break us if we let it, you’re not a loser, change your mindset, and you’ll change your life 🙏

Psychiatrists give diagnoses, not parents. Seen it is heridatary, it is difficult to self diagnose. Look for real help

existere means coming from a passive state into an active one

I'm also like you. So lets get married and have a baby 😆😆😆

Are you able to blow the bubble away

Anyone know where she found that soundtrack? I've gotta put it on one of my reels at some point.😂

Happy Belated New Year! I have fond memories of Dave and Busters.

You are maybe the most honest person in the world. You're amazing! And it's a blessing that you exist!

She asks how...you are a woman, that's how.

You are doing great! You are not on drugs or dealing with a life taking disease. Still above ground right?

100% trying to “prepare” her for when he pretends he’s a trans woman. Seriously get away from this creep already

Please stop talking a thinking like this… if u think like that, that’s what you’ll really be… u have to be careful how u think esp how u think abt yourself. Be grateful for what u have and build more for yourself.

What's wrong with you girl , god made you like this , you're completely normal, oh you're cute too , will you marry me ?

Guess what you're not alone 😂😂 me too we're similar to each other ...... you're not a loser ok so stop telling yourself those terrible things, i get mad

I also feel like a loser. 24, left education behind 5yrs ago bc it was too much anxiety and just rotting in my room since, never had a job. Depressed with no ambition at all, regret not focusing on school when I had the chance. No clue what to do with my life. I think I'm retarded.

You are a chronic whinger. Respectfully

I'm hearing you miss. My 17yo son is showing signs of the same. It's kept him from finishing school so we're trying a different way for him to finish. All I can say is, just keep trying. One day you might have that breakthrough of courage that changes your life. Just keep fighting! 👍💪

You're not a loser, you're a melancholy flower 🤍

You said that you're lazy and leech,but obviously don't want to do anything about it. Why would anybody want to be with you?

You wanna hang out? We can go for a coffee.

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Just look at the views on this video, be proud, this is you talking about your problems while people like me relating to it, you're doing gr8, also you're not beautiful! . . . . . You're gorgeous! Marry me! 😻😜