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Some relatives and friends of mine had successes though I hear more negatives than positives typically from my social circles, again just my testimony (never tried online dating myself). But, I think those without good self-control and emotional regulation can end up doing things (whether intentional or not) that can hurt others and themselves on these platforms in ways you can’t really do face to face. There’s positives but perhaps it’s a better tool for more mature audiences

It was so much fun to watch. I got married at your age ( not the best choice for me). I would say the best way to evaluate the sprinkle lady would be through watching a full video vs. clips. Overall I think we change throughout life and our relationship needs do as well. I married a guy close to my age and because we were both struggling financially it was difficult to realize either of our “dreams”. And we grew apart. I CANNOT with dating apps but I have friends who don’t want anything serious and they are just having fun. Otherwise it can make one feel hopeless 😩 😂

This is really bad lmao

Whats your height❤

How do you expect kids their age to be under 100…

2:09 THIS!! The worst people always have someone. Usually a lot of good people are actually single longer (by choice) because they get taken advantage of.

As a Brazilian who lives in Europe it also just dawned on me how this is somewhat of a western problem as well. I just realised that in Brazil whether you're rich or poor, you live life in a community, everybody knows each others and their neighbours even in big cities. In apartment building there are very often playgrounds and play rooms for kids, party rooms for adults, gyms, ... And even in poorer communities I think everybody is so close to each other and it's normal to spend time outside or at each others houses. There are a lot of free third place options

Average looking 6'4" guy here. Ive always been invisible on dating apps. Ive given up trying to find someone

comes down to self respect or lack there of. Either side of the counter.

This is the first ed clip with a good ending...

Imagine its ur bday and u can't eat ur own cake 😭

This effect reminds me of the South Park episode about the spread of anti seminitism and how even the critica display of it can cause it to spread. Loved the video lol

this felt all too real, but honestly in a nice way. I ran one of those 'motivation' accounts a while ago, and I was pressured to lose weight by my dance teachers, and it was all just too much. these things are far too normalised

You have such a beautiful perspective, you hit so many of extremely important points. I’m glad I came across your video randomly.

so glad I watched this when I did :,) I just started wearing my afro out and I’ve been nervous about it but I could relate to like everything in this video and knowing I’m not the only one that grew up like this is like okay so I’m NOT crazy lol. seeing how cute you look in your natural hair makes me really excited to wear mine too :) tysm for your video!

So you people are really out here declaring that bad customer service, bad food, bad.. whatever.. a function of someone's skin color? Surely you jest. When wil people wake up and realize that people are just PEOPLE and the stuff they do, both good and bad, has NOTHING to do with their skin color? The flip side of this very nasty coin is that it suggests that other races don't have similar problems. I'll just leave it as that because this is patently ridiculous.

i dont mean this as a diss but chappell is tacky and charli is more like 'trashy party girl' to me, like kesha vibes

i just know you were amazing at creating ur bibliography’s in school 😭.

black girls WILL develop faster and weigh a bit more. trust me i should know of all people.

Nice

I didn't get an ad

Go look at BoJayne’s South of Atlanta in McDonough, GA. I frequented this spot because I saw them treat all customers equally and always went above and beyond. They are black and family owned. They are the standard that every business should operate, regardless the race. If you’re around, give it a shot. It’s healthy, flavorful, Indian inspired food. So so so good and always feel like family when I’m in there!

I live in the hood and being a service worker here is so bad. I'd just yell at half the customers because they'd bother me about nothing complain about nothing and steal. You literally cant win. And to maybe lend a voice to your question on popeyes service; I'm neon white and they're not rude or short with me. Then again I've ordered the exact meal the exact same way for about 3yrs so I don't ask for extra anything and probably am the model customer. And the popeyes employees idk if they're black or not but if they are then my location at the very least is alright. Maybe things are different in general in the midwest?

This is anti-black. It’s black women making white men cosplay at black male style, which says they only like black male aesthetics but not black men. Like terry cruise’s character in white chicks that likes white women with a black woman’s ass. It’s creepy. It’s like black men who make their white girlfriends black phish in style to appear more ethnic. We call it hatred of black women when they do it so it’s exactly the same when black women do it.

lmao dont get outraged enough, whats this nonsense

Side note…this is why I don’t promote myself as a black owned business. I don’t want that association lol

As a man who wants to break out of the norm, hearing "that's just the bare minimum" is literally a slap in the face. Coming from a country where misogyny is prevalent and trying to do better can get you made fun of and ostracized and hearing that it is considered "the bare minimum" is really just a downer. Like what more can I do? What more can we do?

I think I realized I got introduced to A24 in like 2016 and I realized it was them and got into it like 2021

White delivery driver, white security guard, white food service employee here. It's not all black people. Most black people, like most people, are not scumbags. But the unfortunate fact is the largest portion of people that give me trouble, don't tip, get belligerent or disrespectful, and are just a pain to serve are black people. The second biggest group? White trash. It appears to me that it is a matter of culture. (Especially apparent now that I live in the South) I learned proper customer service skills in New York (so I served every skin tone imaginable since I was 17) and this has held true for as long as I have worked in food. I treat every customer the same, exactly how I would want to be treated, and unfortunately these trends still hold true. When I was a security guard at a school, the only staff member I ever hung out with outside of work was a black jazz musician, super cool dude. The only person who accused me of being racially biased (I didn't let her in the gate after she refused to swipe her badge/keep her badge on her and would try to speed thru the gate behind others and honk when it came down in front of her) was a black woman. They both drove expensive cars. Mindset, culture, and personal values. Some people are victims of their surroundings, others overcome them. We are all God's children, thank you for speaking on these issues that people who don't look like you aren't "allowed" to speak on. *Cue ignorant responses* (willing to be pleasantly surprised)

The TikTok dating advice for women made me realize that women have no idea what the experience of an average man dating is like. You listen to these women go on and on about men and what they think and what other women should do and it's always brain dead advice that's so off it's actually hilarious. I actually watched a video where a woman said with her whole chest that if a man you're talking to isn't obsessed with you then you should pull away so he can chase you because men don't like women who make things easy for them. Like, Have you ever interacted with a guy? That's a good way to get replaced. Most guys aren't attractive to most women and dating apps have amplified this fundamental quirk in the sexual dynamic. If a guy gets 5 matches in 6 months and they're not bots he's overachieving. If a man managed to get your attention in a highly competitive meat market that is online dating it's fair to say you're not the only one. Online dating is for hot guys. If you're not hot your waisting your time. Especially if you're a person of color.

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I already like you!😄😍💖

I identify as brown skinned, I am to light when around dark skin and more "attractive" but undesirable around whites. As a African American I CANT WIN!!!

“18% gratuity added for parties of 5 or more” “No parties of 4 or more” I guess they didn’t learn to count?

Well put together video 8.9 out of 10 might watching another vid

Better Help has been known as a bad company, very sad to see it still being promoted

Every restaurant “my fellow Negros,” works at, has a lot these same problems. I been saying for the last 15 years, “one day customers will quit eating out or buying fast food because of the ‘customer service,’ not the food.” Simply continue the idea or tradition of white supremacy. Your video got me thinking though, “a lot of fast food restaurants started during the civil rights movement.”

As a yt person working to learn more about the insidiousness of yt supremacy and its far reaching social effects I am extremely grateful for videos like this. Thank you so much for the emotional labor and thanks to anyone who contributes to that labor in the comments 🌸

This was just what I needed to remind myself not to redownload hinge lol thank you

A man is a man you get some that are good men and some that are not. Race is irrelevant. The problem I see is some women don't take the time to really get to know the man they are dating. Or when they see red flags they still stay. They rush too fast especially with sex expecting a man to be committed without marriage.

This is exceedingly asinine.

“Brown skins are just dark skins that don’t want to admit it to themselves”, so Beyonce is dark skin? This is completely asinine.

I’ve never heard anybody call Beyonce brown skinned. Black people always say she’s light skinned.

I've been going to a tech school and didn't understand why people would pay for a university. Still, I have been feeling very lonely and was wondering if the college experience is worth the extra money. After watching this video I think I've decided I just need to move out of the suburbs. There really isn't anything to do out here and the people that live here mind their business. Every time I visit a city I meet so many cool people and see so many cool things. With that in mind, I could just transfer to a college town, but I'd rather pay for an expensive move than pay for an expensive school AND have harder classes.

One thing a black friend told me one time that has stuck with me. Black people are in a constant state of competition with each other.

thank you for this. very good points.

lol chic fil a has NEVER been known for bad service. It’s the Gold standard of service in fast food. That’s Gods chicken!

I would highly recommend butterfly and flower hair accessories worn by the temples and tucking the sides behind your ears looks so cute ♥

tap water is awesome