Just going to call something about - Nick is an alcoholic and his behavior is incredibly volatile. I understand Sandy lies but it is probably a defence mechanism to shield herself from going on the rollercoaster of his outbursts. He keeps calling it as him being an artist but his behavior is very similar to someone who is mentally/emotionally abusive. Yes, Sandy has some reflecting to do but it is impossible to do that reflecting if you are constantly walking on egg shells.

if they have to recruit guys...then you can bet it won't work out. Pick from the applicants!

she makes me want to be a better man.

beauty in spades! How could a guy not keep in touch with her? Insane!

I couldn't believe that Nick got the same tattoo as J.R. That was so bizarre and made Nick seem obsessed

43:00 Did she really get upset, though? That scene where she cried in the kitchen felt SOOOOO fake to me! I felt like she was trying to fake-cry and failing miserably, even saw a smile escape there 😂

I agree Scotty is not to be trusted. Watching him yell at his ex for being sad told me everything I needed to know. But one thing I haven’t seen anyone talk about is how lowkey manipulative Dave is 😮 I see like three instances where he was gaslighting, manipulating, and trying to get her to doubt herself. I don’t like him in the LEAST. He was thirsting over Mariah and other women until none of them liked him, so it’s not like he was always trying to go home. But once it wasn’t working out for him, he was ready to get Vanessa to go. And ofc it was better for him, as I’m pretty sure she gave the ultimatum. So, in the end, he got exactly what he wanted and that was worries me a lot…

It’s always fun 🤩 to get a 🆓 engagement ring 💍 and get engaged on a reality tv 📺 show 🤣🙃🤣

My take on JR. He knows Zaina is a good woman. Good wife material and all. But JR doesn’t care. Maybe he cares a little bit because she’s clearly a good person, but he cares more about the thought that the grass is greener on the other side. That what if there’s someone better/hotter/more sexually stimulating for him. Sandy was clearly sexually stimulating in his eyes. And he likes it. He cares more about having more options and the practice of being involved with someone without having the obligation to be tied to them via marriage or a relationship. He’s never going to admit “yeah I know zaina is a good woman but I prefer to have variety because I know I can get it like that”. So he will hide behind his excuses that he’s scared of marriage because of his past.

The Nick tattoo mistake is total BS it was so uncomfortable to watch like the cringe was real

Deepti we are Aquarians we can't expect others to understand us. lmao 😂😂😂

Hi! I’m from Colorado! We love y’all! Gia lives here with her fiancé and baby!!! I’ve ran into them at the airport only 😂❤

Deepti, I’m so sorry, I’m in bum fuck rural Colorado and we watch! Hi! 😂😂😂

If a man is interested, he will propose without anyone pushing him. If things are not official (engagement/marriage) within two years, then this relationship is not right to begin with. Marriage is commitment to women and it protects them legally

I loved both of y'all on Love is Blind. However, you both are giving Sandy too much credit. If a man behaved this way you would be calling him a narcissist and dragging him. Calling her a people pleaser is a stretch- she is flat out lying.

Deepti laughing in this podcast 90% of the time she spoke lol

I truly think Sandy is lying because she’s afraid of how Nick will react. When someone can’t regulate their emotions as we’ve seen with Nick it’s very easy to excuse a couple lies to ensure that he isn’t going off on you again. I think one important thing to note is it seems like when Nick is very frustrated he takes away any sort of affection. So I think she tries to avoid that and that’s why they’re also so cuddly and lovey this set of episodes.

SOCTTY IS SCCCAAARRRYYY!!! The way he was looking at zaina after the boys night, I was like he’s so scary! The way he gaslights and manipulates and plays victim 😮 he’s literally like my dad. Toxic af

I live in Sydney and New Years is the WORST TIME OF THE YEAR! 😅 I absolutely hate going to see the fireworks with all the crowd and I get anxiety just to think about how I’m gonna go back home on those crowded trains… it’s awful. My bf loves to go so we made a commitment: be there very very late at night and then scape to a quieter place until everyone’s gone (at least two hours) and then catch the train back home 😂

this just made me search your headshots

Scotty is really scary to me. He is an abusive man. After the way he spoke to Aria at the first mixer, I saw the mask slip and everything after that was a confirmation of him being a dangerous man. He reminds me of my father. I hope Aria gets away from him!

100% they hooked up, and zaina was just on vial files saying they DID NOT have cameras in bedroom

After girls/guys night when Sandy was crying over the Nick situation, I think that's when JR started having it out for Nick. Sandy was literally sobbing and all he did was mutter an occasional "yeah.... Mhm," and rubbed on her leg. He didn't like Nick because he wanted Sandy. Also, JR and Sandy, I feel, used this experiment to justify cheating on their partners 😅

I think that Scotty is not gonna proposed, to assert his "dominance" even though he issued the ultimatum

Honestly I'm watching this show for the first time just to be able to understand what you guys debrief about 😂 It's such a bad show... The men are horrible characters. Scotty is so aggressive and manipulative. Aria won't say yes I think, many times she mentions things that make me think she will stop the relationship, especially after a positive and respectful experience with Caleb. JR's not posting girlfriends on social media is just to keep the DMS coming, who's blind enough not to understand that? And Nick's emotions need a therapy process. This guy is so unstable he must have been through a lot of weird stuff in his life. My expectation is Caleb and Mariah engaged, the rest not and Sandy and JR on perfect match 😂😂

I am 37, work hard, love fashion but I can't afford luxury. Last year I found out about kislux where I bought a real leather Fendigraphy for about ?50 (more than I usually spend)... I love it so much and it makes me feel good... I don't show off it's fake but anyone who knows me and knows the prices of Fendi knows it's not real... Maybe one day I will own a real Fendigraphy but for me I am happy with my fudge

I feel sandy was way more dressed up when she was with JR then when she's with Nick. She is in more comfy clothing with Nick and way more sexy with JR.

Something i was confused about maybe someone can explain to me. Didn't JR say he was a pastors kid but then he said they went hungry? Not saying kts not possible just seem loke unreliable narration

I don’t get why they didn’t put Mariah and Nick together… I feel like they kept them separate to make Nick go crazy, which feels super unethical not to mention the fact that it completely goes against the premise of the show.

I just love yall and I like that you guys go on tangents before and in between the tea it’s great!!!!

girls I started laughing out loud when they said they kissed 2 times. I knowww more happened

There are no cameras in the bedrooms

Never realized Sandy is a people pleaser….so true

Are We Dating The Same Guy groups have saved lives I'm sure 🙏🏾

Isn’t it sad how we’re all becoming more and more introverted or ambiverted, (new word I learned today lol) but it’s so true I was always a people person..I work in the service industry and can connect with literally anyone, but as I get older I prefer being a homebody and keeping my circle small. I had a wedding to go to this past weekend and I Irish exited 2 hrs early 😬 I ended up feeling so terrible after. I enjoyed myself for 3 hrs that was my limit lol

I wish they put the pictures of the people they are talking about. Even though I watched the show it’s hard to keep track of who they are talking about a lot of times

They definitely hooked up! That’s why she didn’t want to have sex with Nick. He would for sure know.

I like your voices ❤

I really appreciated your perspectives in this episode! I feel like it was very compassionate and also very perceptive . It was a great balance between calling out bad behavior and also being compassionate and noting the peoples good qualities and what they’ve been through.

Omg Mongolian cashmere is very well known of its luxurious high quality!

I love the friendship between you two ❤

I love the friendship between you two ❤

definitely feel that Sandy was playing both JR and Nick, making sure to keep Nick "secured" in case she wasn´t convinced by JR.. that constant crying with Nick after being with JR definitely guilt tears. I can almost guarantee that this was THEE excuse JR and Sandy were looking to stray from their relationships

My bet is on, they are keeping the tapes from the bedroom for the reunion to put them on the spot. Unless they don’t show anything then I may change my mind.

I definitely think J.R and Sandy hooked up. I feel that J.R loves Zaina but he’s not inlove with her therefore he’s teeter tottering between her and Sandy. I think he feels that the grass is greener on the other side. And Sandy doesn’t like Nick, she’s tolerating him!

I bet JR doesn’t post his gfs because he’s afraid ppl will dm them and expose him for cheating or acting out-the “protect my wife” thing is such BS.

I don’t GIVE a FUCk about JR’s past. I’m sorry it’s been years and he’s doesn’t get to be a menace and weaponize his bad experiences.

a part of me doesn’t think zaina and jr are in a relationship because they did not care about each others trial marriages or the kisses in question. like girl i would have lost my shit like you did what?!!!! lmao and scotty has a psychotic stare that is so chilling.

I’m sorry, but Deepti really gives pushover vibes like WHY are you defending these horrible men all the time

Kyle always seem fake to me, he was definitely using Deepti for clout. I didn't buy he was into her for real.