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@nadjeschda76339 ай бұрын
Same to you and everyone💖
@ritacarpinteiro81425 ай бұрын
Lisaaaa are you going to be the one interviewing Irene Lyon??
@MandyJRoss9 ай бұрын
If you're reading this I pray you receive the highest form of love. You deserve the best.💗🙏🏼
@OneWhoKnowz7 ай бұрын
Thank u ❤
@kathymiller43856 ай бұрын
Thank you, and I pray the same comes to you also.
@mariami82685 ай бұрын
Amen. Thank you. Wish you the same !!
@ambition1129 ай бұрын
0:00: 💔 Recognizing signs of trouble in a relationship and finding a stable version of love. 11:47: 🔒 Setting boundaries can lead to backlash, but it's important for personal growth and healthy relationships. 22:55: 🔍 The video discusses the tendency to make oneself smaller in relationships as a response to potential love or connection, leading to a loss of self-recognition over time. 34:27: ⚖ Learning conflict resolution skills in adulthood to navigate disagreements and create a path forward that serves both partners. 45:28: ⚖ The video discusses the importance of clear communication and understanding in relationships. 56:47: 🔍 The speaker discusses the importance of trusting and validating one's intuition in a past relationship. 1:08:22: ⚖ Creating a safe and secure environment in a relationship can lead to positive changes and better communication. 1:19:37: 💔 The video discusses the guilt and fear of sending a potentially final email to a loved one, and the importance of holding space for these emotions. 1:31:12: ⏳ Couples discuss and respect each other's different interests and needs for alone time to avoid feeling neglected or dismissed. 1:42:58: ⭐ The importance of speaking up about your needs in a relationship. 1:53:02: 🤝 The purpose of a relationship is to encourage independence and emotional bonding, not to limit independence. 2:03:20: 🤔 The video discusses the challenge of changing someone in a relationship and knowing when to walk away. 2:13:44: 🤔 The speaker discusses the concept of borrowing and letting go in life, and the importance of understanding the 'why' behind our desires. Recapped using Tammy AI
@lilylelob8 ай бұрын
It looks like it’s hyper-complicated and dangerous to be in a relationship. After experiencing more than 10 years married life and 15 happy single-hood I wonder how this psychologist would comment if she experienced the blissful peace of a single life. Why to be in a couple if there are more headaches than positives? I can’t get it.
@smith26489 ай бұрын
This woman is an infinite fountain of wisdom. I wish they would play these interviews for teens in highschool.
@jayl17124 ай бұрын
Wow she is just letting out all this immense wisdom .
@OneWhoKnowz7 ай бұрын
This is Absolutely GOLD ‼️‼️‼️ I don’t know who else balled 😭 I’m blown away everything I’ve known my whole life yet experiencing the complete Fckn Opposite wow wow wow thank u for the gift of this episode. I hope we can all lovingly moved to the more de-conditioned self but still holding space to what we learned to be ❤ as we hold on to ourselves as we heal yet stay open to being our whole selves whatever that IS‼️
@jennifernguyen3578 ай бұрын
I agree, it’s imperative to teach our children the aspects of how they feel and think so they are aware of how they are being treated and what to accept from others. And for them to have their own mindset of thinking instead of following others for temporary gratification instead teaching them what it takes to have long term friendships and who they choose in their lives that needs to be meaningful. Also the more in depth communication as they grow into their ages and to respect each other and support each other.
@Fuzzyblossom6 ай бұрын
✌️💖🪽🌈🪬🌸
@chriskvasnicova9 ай бұрын
This is extremely educational and a beautiful extension of Nicole’s published books and workbooks. Thank you Lisa!
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj9 ай бұрын
I was living in toxic turmoil and now am living clean pure better way of living l don't know if all ever go back two my old ways am living way differently now
@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool9 ай бұрын
Happy to hear of your growth! congrats ❤
@cdragon18296 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr.Mandela, I had brain surgery 9 weeks ago today and I really want to get toxins form antibiotics out out my body and needed this as a daily practice. I came home with thrush and it got worse went to my esophagus then my intestines, and then my Colin, so I ended up having Candidiasis! I was totally allergic to the 3 rounds of Ancelf during surgery and then they gave me doxycycline two days after surgery and I was totally allergic to it. I had nine side effects so I am trying to get all these toxins out of my body and get my good bacteria back and I think that doing all this to hand draining my lymph node system is just what I needed very much for detoxing and draining my lymph node system. You are a great demonstrating and easy to follow and remember because it’s not too much info a one time. A Great Big Thank You!!!!
@livinmabestlife6 ай бұрын
Lovee the psychological aspect. This doesn't get talked about enough
@SunnyinHTX9 ай бұрын
I’ve needed to hear every second of this video 🙏🏼💖 sending peace love and light to everyone
@josiepalmer62409 ай бұрын
Lisa, Thank you for asking the question “how to know the difference between real emotion and gaslighting?” I find that this is a common question I ask myself… it’s a struggle for me to decipher the difference between the two, I am often left wondering if I am “damaged”, believing the opinion of the person I love… but also fighting something else within me… Haven’t been able to articulate it to myself or out-loud yet. Thank you for all your words of wisdom, different insights, and motivating self confidence.❤
@Portia620Ай бұрын
It was an extremely important question because it can be extremely insidious and it’s very toxic gaslighting is
@Portia620Ай бұрын
It was an extremely important question because it can be extremely insidious and it’s very toxic gaslighting is
@Imskyhighy9 ай бұрын
I blew up, because she would call me from a private number. Promised me she would come 3 days in a row. For me it’s about her not keeping her word. Then blowing up my phone but when I do it it’s a problem.
@joanmu10536 ай бұрын
This woman is not breathing while talking
@jennas.90639 ай бұрын
I LOVEEEEE this lady. I always watch her and Dr. Ramani ❤
@artifundio19 ай бұрын
Oh yes! ❤
@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool9 ай бұрын
two legends ❤
@andreaholmquist52819 ай бұрын
I❤Nicole & Lisa!! Thank you both for sharing your light.💛
@MamaMilkBubbles9 ай бұрын
Omgggg!!! You got Nicole on the show 🎉❤ yaaaay this is going to be great. Take notes, everyone!
@Diana-sb4yl9 ай бұрын
Self healers. Circles
@taniagil31229 ай бұрын
Amazing. Thank you for this podcast.
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj9 ай бұрын
Beautiful ❤️😍❤️
@Escapingabuse1019 ай бұрын
I think its because everyone has the perfect picture of the ideal partner and jus falls for the fascade then when they are deep in the relationship and see their partners true color, they realise its not what they want
@Portia620Ай бұрын
Not me I don’t believe the BS and I’m very wide-open eyed maybe a little too much sometimes
@forensicbadassprofiling9 ай бұрын
I've been completely alienated from my own three grandchildren for expressing my boundaries for safety peace and security. The punishment of seeing my beautiful grandchildren used as weapons and turned against their Memaw was nothing less than heart wrenching. There seems to be a cruelty and a punishment for any woman to be able to express her needs for safety, and that's been going on for millennia. I think Society is groomed to react in defensiveness.
@Portia620Ай бұрын
I felt this one!
@JavieraCorrea9 ай бұрын
I am SOOOO excited for this interview!!
@cherylannebarillartist74536 ай бұрын
IF a partner is able to understand the other is reacting to some trauma that happened in their past, it is NOT ours to attempt to fix. The same if it is our own trauma. We can only help guide them to the clarity of 👉This is where professional help is needed. IF either of you knew HOW to do it differently you’d already be doing that. Get the help. And if the other is not willing to do that you then have to make a decision for yourself. Our well-being and eventually our physical health too, are NOT the price we pay for a relationship. And then too, get the help.
@Portia620Ай бұрын
The therapist will tell you you gotta heal in the relationship so you can get the help while you’re in the relationship. You can sit in Therapy for years and never heal. It takes relationships to finish the healing part, but you have to be conscientious of your traumas and your triggers.
@johnjosiah88399 ай бұрын
Girl your 'accent' ❤😊
@karynwebster63849 ай бұрын
This is such a great episode!! Thank you!
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj9 ай бұрын
I won't never be the same that l don't know
@heckyesitsjess849 ай бұрын
"Facts are stubborn things." 😊
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj9 ай бұрын
I was in a lot of unhealthy situations toxic turmoil relationship's before l don't know why l was ever in a toxic relationship
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj9 ай бұрын
I shame myself alot when l was living toxic
@nilepearl19979 ай бұрын
21:10 well said
@melissasmess27739 ай бұрын
💯they only last a year and I am done with relationships and all their BS 💩👋🏻
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj9 ай бұрын
I got almost on year soberity
@nj31954 ай бұрын
Sorry you lost me on the supporting the erroneous emotional perspective, because the person is going through a phantom trauma in a relationship ( actually felt or not) that no longer exists. I won’t support the negative bias of the trauma or be a crutch in any way to that old pattern. I want my partner to grow new emotional limbs that can learn trusts so they gain the independence to build real boundaries on their own, and not just psycho babble that is not a path but a crutch for a traumatized person who doesn’t know how to make new patterns. I don’t support emotions related to my partner’s feelings related to this trauma. I need my partner to take the risk of trust and I reward them with my words matching my actions. I’m intuitive and consistent to create trust in my partner’s.
@Portia620Ай бұрын
I have yet for any therapist to help me make new patterns or any of the bs! I worked hard to heal myself as many don’t then know what abuse is sadly and allow us to sit in therapy and pay them as they listen and not once try to help us when we have small babies being abused! The system really helps people and trauma can be healed in a realionship after the prison has worked hard on themselves but healed is a joke!!! Here’s a little spoiler alert no one heals from trauma completely. It’s always there. I guess you call it a scar later on after you work through it but you don’t get over it because the brain is meant to protect us. It’s a survival mechanism. It is drained in the brain you can’t fix that honey .😂🤦♀️ these therapists are still trying to figure out how to fix it. What they need to do is help people learn to cope with it and be healthy.
@rcz20239 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@samsamsam824 ай бұрын
Mind twisting. Do this don’t do that say this don’t say that. 🥴
@johnjosiah88399 ай бұрын
🔥
@rahmasamir9099 ай бұрын
I have high values if the man cross my boundries one time I say bye good Luck
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj9 ай бұрын
I feel like l have been startled by a lot of folks l don't understand why l was ever living like that childhood wounds and my toxic lust life . This religious stuff two this god and devil thing it's just l don't know what to believe about alot of things
@Portia620Ай бұрын
I get too sick from the high highs of a relationship so I prefer the comfortable part and not all that other BS!!! I prefer real and not fake or masks and all the other BS also!!!
@LightWork44449 ай бұрын
That vocal fry is CRAZY!!
@louisa40129 ай бұрын
Omg I know I couldn’t watch the video her vocal fry is so distracting
@towritemichelle2109 ай бұрын
I like it! Different strokes
@LightWork44449 ай бұрын
@@towritemichelle210 I thinks it's very attractive in a way 😎
@karadaniel63348 ай бұрын
I feel bad for her, but I think it would be helpful for her to work on that. It is very distracting and very hard to listen to.
@ciggytwiggy8 ай бұрын
What is a vocal fry
@ClusterB-Magnet9 ай бұрын
Am I the only one thinking... WTF is Nicole even trying to say? She seems to be glorifying her recovery from lets just say a "difficult" personality type.. lol. For Example.. My partner better have the dishes done and hot meal on the plate when I get home or else Im going to give them the silent treatment and stonewall them? WTF? Or she had to restrain her instincts to "dominate and control" in order to listen to her internal whatever? WTF?? Or in her last family story her natural instincts were to blame her partner for her internal distress?? Sorry Lisa but you shouldnt have fawned on this woman so much. It was slightly disturbing. Id be mortified if she was my "hollistic" psychologist 😂
@Fuzzyblossom6 ай бұрын
I think it's all insiteful+ she did remind me ov my X's mens attitude in my life, @ least she's learnt, I can honestly say all males in my life wudnt even want to change, ..just change partners to a more submissive un Woke new female, so growth is only positive if Ur prepared to self reflect+ try to learn+ understand, I'm going to single forever out ov choice now as I'm not prepared to teach support wait for a new partner to choose to grow emotionally ever again, less triggers+ headwork, I'm not bitter I'm just not wasting my life+ compassion nomore✌️💖🪽🪬🌸
@rupinderrandhawa54859 ай бұрын
🙏😘🥀❤️
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj9 ай бұрын
My sister Kim is way two controlling her attitude stinks she wants the best for me
@Portia620Ай бұрын
I get too sick from the high highs of a relationship so I prefer the comfortable part and not all that other BS!!! I prefer real and not fake or masks and all the other BS also!!!