10 "Adulting" Tips for Young Women

[@jessicasprague51]

I'm a 20 year old woman attending college at Cornell University and I cannot describe how refreshing it is to have a female role model that is modest and confident in her values. I am a big fan, and your material is inspiring and helpful to keep me grounded while being surrounded by peers that love frat culture, hookups, drugs, and alcohol.

[@charlowalliset1484]

J. Sprague same thank god for mrs.midwest

[@effiegianitsos8926]

Yesss! retweet! -student from Syracuse Uni

[@elizabethanne8729]

Hi everyone, I’m from Binghamton 👋

[@AnnaleishaMae]

Keep being you.

[@simply-living8523]

Exactly. I couldn't have said it any better but I was definitely thinking the same thing. All my friends party, drink, and sometimes do drugs and even do little hookups and I know I'm worth more than that and sometimes I tend to be the outsider friend bcs I don't do these things with them.

[@מיכאלמרטיןבנדיקטוס]

Against the cultural current: "beauty is not a vice. And when a man notices you are beautiful, it does not mean he believes you are not intelligent."

[@PaigeWatts]

European Federalist LOVE this!

[@RC-dp1gu]

I would say attractiveness and intelligence go hand in hand!

[@angelvalentynn]

My mom has been telling me to clean my room for weeks and I hadn’t done it and Mrs. Midwest says it once and I’m like “Okay guess I’ll reorganize my whole room” I’m cleaning rn and omg I have never had a mess this bad

[@Ash_Queen16]

I can so relate to the first part of your comment lol

[@amyj3692]

This is weirdly accurate rn 😂

[@MrsMidwest]

Yes sister! I am so happy to read this. Cleanliness is key to peace 🤗

[@angelvalentynn]

Mrs Midwest Omg!! Thank you so much for replying! You’re an angel 🥰

[@alissaride117]

Also, keep your email inbox clean, keep the inside of your phone clean! Delete any apps you aren't using and delete unnecessary photos and videos that only take up space. I'm setting aside time right now just for that since life happens and my virtual inventory has gotten a little out of control.

[@miriamo.8631]

That's really important!

[@continuousself-improvement1879]

1. Cleanliness (fail) 2. Driving (fail: I did two driving lessons and the instructors were frustrated with how bad I was. 😭) 3. Paperwork: success 4. Cooking: success 5. Care for pets: success 6. Appointments: success 7. Money: fail, I'm not in debt or anything,but I don't exactly have a plan for managing it 8. Learning: success 9. Safety: success to the point of subclinical paranoia. Lol 10. Technology: sort of success?

[@arletbode4847]

Continuous Self-Improvement don’t worry about the driving. Practice makes perfect!

[@MrsMidwest]

I failed my drivers test when I was 18. I was so embarrassed, but that’s life! We’re all on our own journey towards improvement 😘

[@sahlahkondiah2707]

This woman is such a beautiful breath of fresh air on youtube, so real and genuine

[@oliveb6318]

I have a rule that I will never change. I never ever answer phone calls nor text messages while driving. If it is urgent they can leave me a VM or if it is an emergency I pull over and answer. One second of distractions can be a reason for death. Grateful to my mom, my house is neat and clean. Everything is organized and clean.

[@LuvKitKatt]

You can hook your phone to your car so you're able to answer without physically picking up the phone

[@h.s2737]

God is using you to influence young women in this suffering generation! Keep it up.

[@renaribeiro]

This is like my 15th video I’ve watched of yours and so far : I’ve painted my nails Cleaned my kitchen Care for my body Making note of my tone and attitude towards my husband💛 Thank you so much for all the encouragement!!

[@ellenkurghinyan1582]

Same❤

[@Hannaheh94]

That girl who called you toxic conveniently forgot to watch this video. From one young married woman to another, holding it down with a husband on night shift, balancing a career and homemaking with her own personal care: you are killing it! Keep inspiring others.

[@sophiathesophisticated1383]

I’m so glad you pointed out that this world ISNT safe despite what people want it to be. Many people say they shouldn’t be responsible for their own safety, instead the crimes should be prevented better. But women can HELP prevent those crimes!

[@2write2sing2dance]

Cooking is a LIFE SKILL and everyone should know how to do it. Managing paperwork is so important too. I also enjoy grooming and taking care of myself. Excellent tips!

[@grethermanzo8111]

Could you please make a video for early teenage girls with out a mom? It would be very helpful to have some type of guidance (a good one ) to go to when teens get period for the first time tips to handle feminine hygiene. It would be wonderful to have a place where they can get all those tips that topically a mom will give a girl when she starts changing to be a woman. That’s the perfect time to set a good foundation for a healthy, strong, feminine woman. It could include diet, acne care, how start adding woman clothing,how to maintain their nails and hair, learn what is their role as a woman, developing a student in life actitud, time management etc...

[@amandazplace5663]

I'm 50 years old. Just found your channel. You are just lovely!!❤❤ I told my twin 18 yr old daughters about your channel. So much wisdom.🙌🙌

[@notyourtypicalmidwife9545]

journeyoffaithhopenlove Wish they follow your advice. This is an amazing channel for young girls!!!

[@amandazplace5663]

@@notyourtypicalmidwife9545 It is! Fingers crossed. I KNOW they will love Caitlyn. I've been following DailyConnoisseur for years, so just the changes I've made, as well as our family's christian faith, have all made a difference. ❤

[@miavelletri]

Wow. Your tip about driving struck me. So many female relatives on my dad's side are petrified of driving "I don't drive after it gets dark" "I won't drive into the city" etc. and then so many women on my mom's side never learned to drive at all!! Because my mom was always a fearless driver and I had her as a role model, I never realized how important this is for women!! It's great you're talking about this

[@zz-ic6vy]

right? I agree so much on this..

[@tundihenna3507]

Omg thank you so much for covering this topic, as a 20 year old girl, the eldest of all sisters with a single busy mom, I really needed this! ❤️ Great hug from the other side of the globe, from Hungary :)

[@MrsMidwest]

Tündi Henna thank you so much for watching! So proud of you and sending a hug to Germany :)

[@zeinebnaser2701]

Kitartást! ❤️

[@schwester6523]

Jaj, de jó látni itt is a hazaiakat!

[@jelkel1928]

People love your channel because women need their own spaces. We need our own circles to connect, support, share, and learn with each other. Thanks for celebrating the feminine

[@mollybridgette9103]

I am an 18 year old girl and I love your videos! Thank you so much for these tips.

[@cityfairy6342]

I'm a 19-year-old girl who's just stepping into the feminine world, I'm so grateful I discovered my interest in femininty at this point in my life and I'm so grateful that I met your channel to guide me through my journey. Your feminine sister💛

[@cityfairy6342]

*femininity

[@FemmePistolera]

I never thought I'd get addicted to your content! I gotta admit, the first time I read your titles, I felt slightly iffy on the constant mention of "femininity." My head jumped onto conclusions of instruction for submission, but instead, I found really practical and useful knowledge that I can apply in my own life (which I'm also in process of). It's nice to hear affirmation from a grown woman (other than my mom) about learning basic life skills really and not being judged for being "dull" or "methodic." While I hold modern feminist views, I also highly value my mom's more traditional approaches in life because they are useful adult skills--especially if one plans to live on their own someday. Thank you Mrs. Midwest, you are truly a gem in the KZbin space xoxo

[@winstonsjulia5942]

Would you make a video about family planning (birth control) in a marriage? I think it would be interesting.

[@jacqueline5782]

Yes!!!!

[@PaigeWatts]

Winston's Julia Please!

[@culturecoroner]

Oooooh! Before you do, consider looking into Theology of the Body and Natural Family Planning. I think you would LOVE it! ❤️💪🏼

[@leslieelizabeth8925]

Can you make a video talking about the pressure others put on a newlywed couple about starting a family. I've been married almost 3 years and I don't know how to respond to people anymore. I do want kids but not right now

[@mascara1777]

Married couples should look into Natural Family Planning and Theology of the Body

[@CynthiaL]

It’s so great you brought up safety - so critical for younger women! Sending you love from Canada 😊💕

[@missrosevalley2900]

I don’t understand why there are thumbs down...the knowledge is helpful and not irritating..but seeing thumbs down is obnoxious..ppl this channel is real and informative too..💕❣️from Venice Italy 🇮🇹

[@jenna_maria]

12:38 Also, make sure to take proper measures before your phone even cracks! like a screen cover and a good sturdy phone case, that’ll probably save you money and the inconvenience of having to get the display repaired. ☺️

[@erintrammell6000]

I find your videos to be so relatable and refreshing. It makes me feel not so alone and strange in this modern world!

[@OMGJOELLE]

Even men should listen to this video

[@ulamilaramakosoi2687]

1. Cleanliness 2. Driving 3. Paperwork 4. Cooking 5. Care for Pets 6. Make own appointments 7. Money management 8. Keep Learning 9. Safety 10. Technology

[@asman3209]

You are a real life disney princess love you and your channel so much❤

[@pulchrasum6172]

She's a real life barbie

[@autumxxleaves4186]

Jesus loves you

[@raspberrysoda372]

She reminds me of Sleeping Beauty/Aurora. It is like if Aurora was a modern real life woman with a youtube channel!

[@XGoldenPhoenixX]

I love that you mentioned pets, and mentioned to discipline it and take care of our animal friends 💕

[@ladylanark2773]

Your new hour first floor layout is the same layout as my 1990’s childhood home I grew up in! It was nice to see that layout again! Brought back many good memories 😊

[@joycele7974]

I would like to add that investing is something you can do when you are a young woman, I guess which goes with the financial aspect. I know some people struggle financially and are in debt, and if that's the case of course pay off the debts first. I do drive but I know some people don't because it's a personal choice or because they can't afford it financially. It's okay to drive. It's okay not to drive. It's okay to wear makeup, it's okay not to wear makeup. The life is yours. Don't care so much about what others think, because in the end, it won't matter. Take the advice you want, and do accordingly. Thanks for sharing this video. God bless you all 🥰🙌

[@waterfoodNmusic]

You are so loved. Thank you for these. I'm 25 and feeling behind having to learn and establish these concepts on my own.

[@May-nd2zr]

Not giving up and wanting to have a high-quality life is so important these days when we are said to just enjoy the social media Thank you for the great video! I love the way you talk and the topics you bring up, God bless you

[@faith8953]

I am very glad as a young teenage girl (16 to be exact!) to have a role model that teaches me the beauty of femininity in a world where it is not always encouraged. Thank you🖤

[@kimberlymackey1308]

As a person who works in information technology, I appreciate the mention of technology. I am really enjoying your content overall. Thank you!

[@rizzybone964]

Caitlin i LOVE your consistency and i can't wait for you to hit 50k subscribers, i know its not about the numbers but about the message. But i wanna see this channel grow lol💕 Have a beautiful day!

[@zoeh.4421]

I'm 16 years old, and these tips are definitely things I needed to hear ❤️

[@revatishinde_]

Your video came out at the perfect time, thank you! I had asked the Universe for someone to teach me how to adult, and really learn to take responsibility. This is such a huge lesson for me. I am so grateful, thank you ❤️❤️ And also listening to these aspects from a feminine woman makes a huge difference, it makes me feel more confident that I can do it too. Thank you , i love you❤️

[@MrsMidwest]

Revati Shinde this makes me so happy! Thank you for watching and I’m sending you all my love and encouragement as you grow :)

[@ThePenelo19]

Thank you for this video. It is very helpful. What I love about your channel, is that unlike many channels that speak about these topics, yours is quite visibly directed at women. I feel at peace watching your videos and I feel like you are speaking to me as a friend. With many others I have felt like they aimed to gain male viewers from the "red pill" community. I don't care much about that community so this isn't a comment against them, I just want to say it is refreshing to see a channel that is aimed towards more conservative young women and that doesn't constantly speak about how inherently flawed women are when touching these issues. Thank you and God bless :).

[@ashburnt1167]

In our modern society, it is so incredible to be able to keep myself in check with one of your videos! Thank you for what you do, you are so amazing!

[@mikayacox3035]

Turning 23 this October and getting married that month as well and this video is so helpful

[@EmeraldOctober1]

You’re such a mother figure to me, I can’t stress how much you’ve helped me!

[@MariaWendt]

Caitlin, I just want to say thank you! Video by video, you are shaping me into such a polished, refined woman, something I never thought I’d be. Do you have any book recommendations? I’m going to the beach for 2 weeks and I’d love to read something you’d recommend!!

[@MrsMidwest]

Maria that is the kindest compliment! We are all in the process of being shaped :) I have a few book recommendations on my blog listed in the “top tips” categories! Xoxo

[@wildflowersmile3224]

Thank you so much for this. I have a 12 year old girl who started living with me last year. She has been surrounded by only men for years. She has very low self-esteem and felt very anxious and self-conscious at her new school this last year. All your tips are helping her transition into a more confident young woman.

[@VeronicaMxoxo]

I loved how specific these "adulting" skills you mentioned are! This was so helpful as I've been trying to grow in skills and confidence as a college student 😊

[@HaMa-cm3dt]

Honestly! I cannot decide what I like most about you! Is it your beauty, your attitude, you intellect and way of thinking, your down to earth and well mannered way of speaking, the elegant way you speak or way you dress.... I just can't decide

[@KD-hd3wt]

I love this video. I turn 22 and I need to adult and really wanna go about it

[@mascara1777]

Learn about personal finance! It's so important for women to learn this! You don't want to be like one of the millions of babyboomers now with no retirement money. The earlier you put money away, the more it will grow.

[@DelilaFarrell]

Who else found this so helpful?! Love what you are doing girl! Keep up the good work! Love from a new channel💕

[@alyssamonsma5993]

If you want to learn to cook, things like hello fresh, or home chef are really nice! I used one of those programs for when I was first learning

[@TheMagicCrafter]

I love these!! ♥ Although I'll admit that I have some work to do in most of these areas, I do feel that I am making improvements! ♥ I am very proud to announce that this past Tuesday my sister and I decided that we wanted to get up-to-date on our vaccinations. We dug through my mom's old file cabinet, found our vaccination records, made copies, scheduled an appointment and *WILLINGLY* let a woman stab needles into our arms! 😆 We were both nervous but both extremely proud of ourselves and each other for taking action to better our health. It felt SO good.. well... the shots weren't pleasurable, but the feeling of having done some serious "adulting" felt *extremely* satisfying! Thanks again for all you do, dear. You are such a positive force in this world! Loooove ♥ ~Phantom

[@kayland.5724]

Do she have a podcast? I would listen to it all the time

[@mariedelgado1384]

Shout out to tip #4; I'm in the kitchen cooking right now as I'm watching/listening to this video! I love watching KZbin videos or listening to podcasts while cooking. Great advice :)

[@marlenek3412]

This video is amazing for young women. Excellent job!

[@fatemaali6891]

I am going to live alone since I am studying abroad and I am facing a difficulty starting to learn cooking, mama cooks for us at home, thanks to her, but I think I should learn to cook since I will be in my own very soon. Could you please make a cooking video as it will be super helpful since you don’t present it as a difficult science 😂😂😂. Thank you for what you are providing us with you are wonderful ❤️.

[@selinaschmitt1821]

I love every single of your videos! Thanks so much for your content. Big hug from Germany :)

[@ajoyfullsound]

These tips are so true!! When I turned twenty it hit me,... you aren't a kid anymore😭. kind of struck me lol. don't really enjoy driving, or cooking but I am trying to learn to like it. Thanks for your encouraging words!! God bless👍🏻😊❤

[@cheerfullycourtney123]

I'm the same age as you and certainly look up to you! Thank you for serving as a virtuous, positive role model for women young and older alike. Xo Courtney💕

[@caseyquinn2495]

as a young woman who does get fulfilment from learning and implementing these learned skills in a working environment, i didn’t think this channel would be for me. However, i’ve found that there are many tips and tricks that i could implement into my everyday life. Different ways to combine femininity with being independent, they do not have to be opposite but they work together to create strong women. love your energy ❤️

[@JmenChristpas]

Do a vidéo about basic cooking skills please :)!

[@Sarahnotsayruh]

Yes!!!

[@allisoncole8223]

These are actually really refreshing and practical tips. A fair amount of which are not discussed very often. I think it’s wonderful you’re encouraging women to be responsible, independent and confident in themselves and the life they lead.

[@Holistretch]

Fantastic advice! It wasn’t until my 30s that I really got a hold on my cleanliness and finances. Great advice about being careful not to get drunk also- anytime I was taken advantage of it was because I wasn’t sober. Be careful ladies! 😘

[@verenicecalderon6687]

thank you so much for inspiring me to get up and take care of myself and my environment! was having a rough week(depression) and this was so helpful :’) it’s really hard to do basic stuff like cleaning but it’s a good start! Love your content! I have learned from all your videos 🧚‍♂️ keep it up sister

[@icygyal2555]

can you please make a video on your hygiene routine like what you use in the shower and how to smell good

[@stilettosandjuadeviv]

Yay! A new upload! Tomorrow is payday, and it also happens to be my day off! Usually I'll sit down and go over my budget after checking my account, and I'll run some errands. This video has given me several ideas of things to add to my list for tomorrow. Thank you!

[@brunab6474]

This video is so helpful! I'm very grateful for you because your content has been making me feel so much more connected to my femininity and its making me thinking outside of the box(i used to be more connected to radical feminism, thank god people can change). I also love your blog! I'm always learning something with your posts and it makes me feel so calm and grounded during stressful times, has been helping me a lot during finals week. So thank you so much for this, i feel like i can finally embrace my femininity with grace. Lots of love from Brazil.

[@shanaeb4814]

It’s sad that these have to be reintroduced in current day. But great list, thanks for sharing! 🙂

[@audreymereu]

I am so glad I found your channel! What a rare woman and truly an inspiration! Thank you for all your well stated and thoughtful tips! God bless you and your family! P.S.: my husband is in law enforcemnt as well! I feel like you are my sister!

[@beforeido6265]

Thank you so much darling. God has greatly blessed you to be a blessing in my life. A proverbs 32 queen you are.

[@schwester6523]

Yes

[@Deborah_Princess]

You’re so peaceful ❤ I love watching your content because I love femininity!

[@barbiedolldrip6899]

yes! these are so helpful! as an 18 year old navy wife these help so much! lots of adulting so fast aha.

[@allyhvis6046]

Wow, I'm 19 and I couldn't imagine being married let alone my husband be in the navy. What's your love story?? :)

[@barbiedolldrip6899]

Ally Hvis grew up in the same city but met over instagram :) 8 months later we were married and i moved to japan!

[@allyhvis6046]

@@barbiedolldrip6899 Wow, thanks for sharing :)

[@canisrah]

My god. This Lady is beyond delightful.

[@victoriagouv9932]

You are a real role model. Thank you for being you

[@strcd]

Driving was always the bane of my existence. I started learning when I was 15 but I never got the hang of it. My mom would always have anxiety attacks when I was in behind the wheel and when my dad tried to teach me he taught me alot of bad habits. So I took the test 5 times and failed. Another thing that contributed to the anxiety was being watched and graded. Afterwards I the testing center mandated I take 6 official driving classes, which were very expensive, but the instructor there were used to dealing with nervous drivers and with people who had failed the test multiple times so they taught exactly what was needed to pass the test. Next time I took the test before I started I told the grader that I have anxiety so please bear with me and he acknowledged it and after I did the 90 degree back he told me I did well and that gave me confidence to pass the rest of the test! I've been driving now for 5 years and it's the most freedom I can describe. Being able to go anywhere without relying on others or waiting on the bus schedule for 1 hour. To anyone struggling with this stay strong! It is worth it.

[@weloveTM123]

Thank you! I really needed to hear this today. I failed my first first driver's exam and the second one is in few days. I am kind of nervous but at the same time, I want to be confident since I practised a lot. I just hope my anxiety does not mess me up.

[@ashleyrobinson8114]

Yas girl yasss- very well said! Similarly to what others have already commented, this is such a breath of fresh air. Especially being a fellow believer, seeing biblical principles of stewardship and responsibility highlighted in practical ways is such an encouragement! Your videos definitely spur on my desire to continue developing feminine qualities and unlearning what much of what modern feminism has taught. Random curious sidenote: Do you have favorite podcasts or perfumes?

[@Nikcholey]

I am SO happy every time you upload a video! So encouraging!!

[@EdgyIntellect]

Loving the stripes!! 💎 Love all of these tips!! As a 20yr old woman these will help me so much in my life!! Please do a makeup & hair tutorial!! 💜

[@Iris-ko6wt]

When did you even get to watch the full video?? How do you love all the tips? ....

[@melissas4734]

@@Iris-ko6wt Watch it for six minutes then take a break and watch the rest If you dont want to watch the whole video

[@Iris-ko6wt]

@@melissas4734 what I pointed out was the fact that she left the comment on the first 5 minutes that the video got uploaded while the video itself is 14 minutes long. She couldn't have possibly watched the full video to say thay she loves the tips. That is what I'm saying.

[@sklanguage589]

Iris I have noticed that the first comments are posted by people who haven’t watched the video yet.

[@melissas4734]

@@Iris-ko6wt Oh that makes sense.

[@kayladavis4574]

YES uploads from you make me smile like fresh blueberry muffins :) im serious lol

[@MrsMidwest]

Kayla this is THE sweetest compliment. It made ME smile like blueberry muffins too 😘

[@gaudiumrome]

These points are so excellent and important.

[@ReneeSLiu]

I found your channel not too long ago and I love it! Thanks for sharing!

[@rosem7042]

The driving one hit me hard... especially since I always volunteer to drive, because I have more competence and more miles behind the wheel than any other person I know. People who are uncomfortable/irresponsible/inexperienced driving their own vehicle make me scream internally, as do people who drive even when they clearly shouldn't. Get to know your vehicle until it becomes an extension of your body and treat it at least as well as your favorite pet. Or just Uber everywhere.

[@MrsMidwest]

yes mam! thank you for sharing this.

[@user-kr5dn9xm8x]

I love your videos❤️ you always make my day, and help me improve myself in so many ways! I also love to keep my home clean and tidy, very important part of my life! Love from Finland❤️

[@user-kr5dn9xm8x]

Kia Peltonen Caitlin on ihana ja inspiroiva, antaa paljon iloa omaankin arkeen. Upea ihminen.❤️

[@debieangel5948]

Thank you so much for your tips. Im blessed to found ur channel. Im just beginning my adult phase and I got no idea because I used to be having my parents to take care everything for me. Love 😘

[@doubles1545]

4b- start gardening. If you don’t have yard space, try a window box herb garden or container gardening on a balcony. Growing your own food not only saves money, but you will get higher quality, better tasting food as a result.

[@gaudiumrome]

The safety one is so important. A lot of women, mostly teenage girls, put themselves and their safety at risk in the craziest ways and then wonder why we consider them to be children still. Adults prioritize their safety and are aware of the state of the world, especially over hedonistic pleasure.

[@queentinadoire6931]

Thanks for the information. Your hair is so pretty.

[@kayladavis4574]

Hey Cat. How can you tell your parents that you're more into being a homemaker with an average job as a mom other than being a CEO,000,000 that really doesn't interest me as much as God and building a family.

[@thomasb.2506]

Maybe start with showing them this Channel so they can "meet" Cait and also everyone who comments here. So they can see there are 1000s of woman like you 😍

[@kayladavis4574]

@@thomasb.2506 Yeah that sounds good!! Thank you for taking the time to respond.. YALL PRAY FOR ME LOL

[@thomasb.2506]

@@kayladavis4574 welcome :-) But then... as long as you are not married, not have your own family... I guess you don't? Why not just wait until you meet the man you want to spend the rest of your life with, and than speak with him about your feminine wishes? ♡ Or is it, you don't want to shock your parents but rather prepare them? Than you could maybe do it in wearing very feminine clothes, listing to music from the 50s, learning to sew... So they can see already where you are going ;-) Wish you a happy, feminine and joyful day ♡

[@hannahdeforest9148]

Your parents probably want the best for you. If you have some good reasons you want to be a homemaker, they may be more open to it. For instance, Caitlin says that she stays home because her husband's work schedule disallowed for them to have time together. And for me, I am a part time homemaker working retail to make ends meet so I can stay home and be with my one year old son. Remember, ultimately, your life is your own, and you make your own decisions. No one can tell you what to do. Disclaimer: Full- time homemaking is not a good option if you live with your parents. Responsibility means taking at least a part time job to help pay rent. Part time homemaking can be really beneficial too. 😊

[@notyourtypicalmidwife9545]

Tommy & Leyla Brown I totally agree with you. There’s no need to tell them. After you get married that’s a decision between YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND! I can’t emphasize that enough. At that point your parents will have nothing to do with your decision. Also, you don’t know if at the moment you get married you will see the need of getting a job until you can be a full time homemaker. Demonstrate your parents that you are becoming into a responsible adult in all your actions and behavior so they can trust that you will make a good decision when the moment of getting married arrives. Don’t abandon your career because you never know if you will need it.

[@dianabanana08]

honestly, i thought being adult was just something that would happen automatically when u reach a certain age. I didnt realize til recently that it had to be a long list of intentional and conscious choices to do things that normally my younger self wouldnt choose to do :o

[@jiliciar.1423]

I realized the same too.

[@HousewifeInTheWoods]

I stopped driving after a very bad accident. (Brakes went out with my suburban full of children at the very top of the hills in duluth, mn... bad bad bad news... just not ready after that) At this point I'm just not comfortable getting behind the wheel. Maybe someday.... right now I can hardly be a passenger 😕 this was a wonderful video and you have a beautiful presence ♡♡♡

[@Lia-vg4nd]

This year I'm going to start college, I feel as if I need to grow up a bit now since things are changing and, well, I need to adapt to those. Thank you so much for this video. I love your content and specially how you show to everyone that mixing up femininity with stupidness and weakness (misogynistic thoughts by the way) is a huge mistake. Again, thank you so much, you clarified a lot of thing to a confused teenager. ❤️

[@Emily-pl7fv]

I feel called out... 😂 Lately I’ve really felt that changes need to be made in my life, especially with my finances and my health. Your tips are very helpful, so thank you! 😊

[@cmiss2724]

I love your valued tips and I wish I had someone to teach me when I was a young girl. Always enjoy your videos 💕

[@guttergrl4982]

Please do I video about your fashion and general feminine role models!! You mention them but as a fashion lover I would more details! Also I found your channel yesterday and I’ve been binging ❤️

[@mikalakeith12]

I love your videos!! I’m always excited to see your notifications 😁 you’re such a role model and your advice helps me a ton. It’s like having another big sister to look for help from! 💖

[@gracefullioness2262]

This was helpful Caitlin, thanks for sharing! 😊 💕

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I have several disabilities (Mainly relating to mental health) and I struggle with indepenance, I've grown up a lot in the past year, but I do struggle with indepenande, and I am trying to do better. I have EXTREMELY bad driving anxiety, so that is a huge struggle. But I am happy I am doing quite a lot she mentioned. So I feel less like I failure. This video both made me feel better and want to improve.

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Thank you so much for posting this video! I am in a season on learning to launch into maturity and this helps tremendously! Thank you

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I think you should start your own podcast on spotify or itunes or something.

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Thank you for this! I’m about to attend college. This couldn’t have come at a better time. ❤️

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So glad I found your channel. You are truly an inspiration!