8 Revealing Questions You Can Ask Him on a Date

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Dating is tough. The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition?
The #1 way to separate ourselves is through great conversation. And yet most of us spend all of our time trying to look hot without ever thinking about what we’re going to say when we get there.
I’m sure you already have the “looking great” part taken care of. But in today’s video, I cover the “what to say” part-specifically, how to stand out by asking one of 8 tried-and-tested questions I’ve put together for you.
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[@karlbriancruzrce5997]

I need a "How To Get A Date" video first.

[@Cinerouquine]

LOL

[@clarajimenez3386]

Lol, same here!! Great video though, nice tips!

[@lukapuka5132]

🤣🤣🙏🍾

[@77raymann]

😅✨💖✨

[@lesliekaddie]

Just be yaself Karl. Be a nice and polite man. Make sure you truly love yourself, and you’ll easily get a date. It’s alot of single women sin the world and we’re waiting to meet a good man. DONT JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER. 😉 (some have told me i have a mean look, but I never realize it. And I would love for a guy to approach me and have a nice date)

[@alisoncurran9631]

* goes on a date, forgets immediately * 🤣

[@renette0506]

Yeah, I'd have to write them down 😅😂

[@jummaijoseph5069]

Frfr 😂😂😂😂

[@Mahaloshell]

That would be me!

[@activedogzz100]

😂😂😂

[@nayr.8319]

(0:55) 1. Who is someone you really admire? (1:50) 2. What kind of vacations do you love the most? (2:14) 2.5. If you had to spend a year in a different country, where would you choose? (2:30) 3. What book do you think everybody should read? (3:05) 4. What do you love most about what you do? (4:12) 5. What's something you love doing but don't do enough? (4:40) 6. What do you suck at? (5:52) 7. What is a film you are embarrassed you like so much? (6:26) 7.5 If I looked at your top 25 most played songs, what's the most embarrassing one? (6:47) 8. How would your closest friends describe you?

[@rachelhamilton8669]

Dang! These are great questions!

[@sheilapauley5131]

Love this thank you Nay R.

[@andreahoyosl]

Love u

[@ImogenShade]

It’s missing one. 1. Are you a man? There’s way too many chicks with d!cks & guys with tits & if that’s something you’re not into then it needs to be clarified!

[@bindicat9070]

Thank you Dang 🙏

[@DancingMermaid88]

1. Who is someone you really admire? 2. What kind of vacation do you like? 3. What book do you think everybody should read? 4. What do you love the most about what you do? 5. What is something you love doing but you do not do it enough? 6. What do you suck at? 7. Which movie are you embarrassed of liking? 8. How would your closest friends describe you? You're welcome ✌.

[@user-wb6bw1dc9n]

Thx I was looking for it 😁

[@AnthaKharana]

Thank you for saving me 8:39, + multiple ads!!

[@Joannekrill]

Thank you 😊

[@thekale3480]

God bless you!

[@anneliesewright662]

Thank you for listing the questions! Very helpful.

[@k123x9]

Feels a bit like a job interview

[@amandapirot1022]

Good open ended questions. Another question (along with "how would your closest friends describe you") is "how would your siblings and parents describe your role in the family"? This question allows you to see who you are in interpersonal dynamic, ie someone is a caretaker, mediator, the spoiled one, the responsible one, etc... Another... "in past relationships, how did you know you were loved?" Speaks to potential love languages and what someone values in a loving relationship. These questions might be for dates 2,3,4,5.

[@andreagarciafernandez9222]

I love he mention the responsibility to have our answers to the question we ask for the other person. The date also need to know us.

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*Going beyond surface-level conversations and asking meaningful questions can help establish a deeper connection.*

[@DomCOuano]

these are also great for catching up with friends and family you haven't seen in a while or maybe a distant relative you haven't met yet. these are great ways to just connect with people and get to know each other too

[@literallyheather]

I love how much latitude you give to people. It isn't this person is boring or a loser, it is they don't have the same standard of passion that I do. So gracious. Lovely. 💙

[@jessicacarron8117]

I love these. I have often had light hearted “20 questions” on dates. I like books/movies/historical figures + why kinds of back and forth questions. A night will pass so quickly, and many tangent conversations can be had. It’s a great litmus test of compatibility too. ❤️❤️

[@stephh_nz]

This is great - also gave me a bit of anxiety because I realised how much I don’t have in my life outside of running a business and being a full time solo parent. I will use this to work on myself first

[@KatieKirkLoves]

I love these kind of practical tips I can use on a date, thank you! It’s good to have things in mind especially when you’re nervous. Keep them coming.

[@Alex-dk1um]

“It would have been if it should have been” helped me get back on my feet. Thank you for all your help ♥️☺️

[@MariyaTerzieva]

Great questions ideas, Matt! I am all covered for a date now. Loved that you responded to all of the questions! Lots of love to Audrey!

[@kimmiel6825]

I love these questions! They help to dive deeper and find out more about a person by their responses. I’d love to see more of these kinds of videos. Thank you!

[@robertrussell7241]

Going on a first date for the first time in forever. Thanks a ton for this. Also, just bought the audiobook of 4000 weeks. Thanks for that book suggestion Matthew!

[@claudiapurcell8687]

I can't believe I'm the first person writing a comment on my favorite coach!!!. I am a fresh broken heart...and I feel like I'm melting off pain... Mathew's videos helped me to go through a crucial pain. I do not know...his talk sounds so grounded, healthy... equilibrated. It makes more sense.... without sliding in so much drama...

[@nikolaus9487]

feelings mutual ahah and im a straight dude who finds Matt super helpful

[@wildberries81]

For question number one my answer would be Matthew Hussey! Why? He inspires, guides, opens new worlds of possibilities, his kindness, shares stimulating information, he's charismatic, helps others discover their full potential and introduces his listeners to many other wonderful people. I have a great appreciation for your work obviously. lol! Thank you! 🙏🥰😇

[@AysoodaAgh]

Agreed.

[@valeriadelfina]

Finally a video which suggests TRULY revealing questions

[@JR-sx3gl]

When you ask those don't go from one to the other, because it would seem you are drilling this person while you came prepared for the test. Some of the questions are better for introverts and others for extraverts. You can either ask a question that the person would probably already have the answer to or challenge the person out of their comfort zone. It depends if you want to break the ice and maybe make that person comfortable to open up about other things or if you want to challenge the person to give you an answer they'd need to think about a bit. The risk is the person might get anxious about not being perceived as either interesting enough or intelligent enough.

[@clairexxx0405]

Absolutely Fantabulous video as always Matthew 😁 My experiences in the world of disability dating are slightly different but great questions 👌

[@carlabarkley3286]

I love these questions. I’ve got a team building event coming up that I might use some of them as ice breakers for. The answer for the book is Team of Rivals by Doris Kearns Goodwin. Talks about how Lincoln built his cabinet with people of differing views and how that gave him diverse information to create policy from.

[@lisaverbosky7022]

Love each question Matt. Thanks for the inspiration.

[@Bisidicem]

i dont get how hise videos and self marketing doesnt get annoyıing lol. Great salesman and GREAT and accurate advises its insane. man he's good

[@moppypuppy781]

After watching this video I feel fully prepared for my first job interview and I will surely get the job.

[@jackiehudson5752]

Great questions. I would add one more about their vision for their future, once I know them a bit better. I have been burned by discovering later in the relationship that their dreams are so different from mine that it would mean we couldn't be together unless one person gave up their dream.

[@tarataramyfriend]

Very smart and fun questions, Matt, thank you! I enjoy your attitude and the style of offering the tips you came up with! Very suitable for my type of mind:)

[@heidibraun3847]

That point about how to respond to someone who doesn’t love what theyre doing is gold. As a driven person who is always eager to learn, it is absolutely terrifying to me to date someone who has no passion for life or learning.

[@jemmawhitehouse1043]

Thank you so much. These really are brilliant questions

[@mistical1000]

Oh my God Mathew!!! Where have you been all my life??? How come I did not see you before! I love your advices, I am just watching some old videos but I love it!

[@carolinan.813]

These are also great questions to ask a new friend to get to know them, even when there’s no a romantic interest behind it.

[@brianaphillips7650]

Literally going on a first date today so perfect timing! I’m taking notes over here😅 ✍️

[@life-is-here]

This video provides great advice for first dates, with eight questions to help get beneath the surface and build a connection. The last question is the most revealing and is sure to make a date more interesting and likable.

[@annewrites...8385]

Thanks, Matthew. You are so sensible and practical xxx love it!

[@lizzieschuch2800]

I do really like the number one question. ty for the tip. your answer is adorable! Also like #6 and #8

[@gia4957]

What a fun idea! It breaks the initial awkwardness.

[@belindam.8096]

These questions were inspiring to me. Thank you!

[@TheGoddessEnlighten7]

I suck at building things! 😂 I love Mr. Rogers! People thought I was weird for this!!! Love him 💖 my niece discovered this on my Spotify 😂 Lil Wayne “ Got Money” My Type Saweetie. I literally had to give the explanation it’s because I use to manifest money 😂 i was embarrassed and I don’t really get embarrassed, but she thought I was cool! For whatever reason! She’s not a hugger and all she wanted to do is be around me and actually gave me a hug! 🥰Fun video!!!

[@mundea]

Happy Sunday Matt, and everyone in the comments!

[@ejw72]

One that I use: "If you won the lottery, what would you spend the money on?." Very revealing.

[@johannafritz4255]

“4,000 Weeks” Just got on Audible. Thanks. 😊

[@naturejelisabeth]

Great questions, thanks for the inspiration! :)

[@RestlessHarp]

These are great questions! I'd like to do these with my family and friends as well!

[@linavaisnoraite]

Cool! Deep blue sea is a good movie! Watched it like 10 times at least😄 That was my favorite question! Thanks! I'll definetely use it

[@paul-dstephenson1703]

Definitely using these questions on my next date. Lots of fun!😁

[@deymimartinez530]

Great video and great questions! Thanks!

[@88cake]

Come to Japan, Matthew! Thank you always for insightful videos.

[@kasiakwiatkowska5816]

I’m back on the dating scene, being 40, and it scares me to death! Love this vid M and timing was perfect! 💛🤗 thank you for all YOUR work!!

[@ramparkash2318]

Kasia Kwiatkowska. Ur words are so soothing.

[@anyeshreebrightness982]

Good luck wishing the best in your journey of finding true love 💯❤️🔥👏

[@clairec8496]

Hey.. same here! So daunting isn't it?!!

[@aminaadam3617]

Hey Kasia,your absolutely gorgeous.I'm 38 been divorced 2years.You would be amazed at the level of men that want to date experienced,mature and older women.My one piece of advise is to not limit yourself and just be open with sincere good intentions.Be confident and true to what you truly need.Good luck girl.

[@arunakarthigayan2207]

Same here Kasia, putting myself out there at 40 too and it’s been a little challenging, but I’m not giving up just yet 😎

[@guillermogonzalez3088]

What I really dislike about this questions is how you can easy into them and not make the other person feel lime you are interrogating them. Curiousity about what you are asking is a must but how you transition the conversiation into asking them is a big question mark

[@MusclesMcLargehuge]

Undercover guy here, sleuthing for Intel. Solid questions I'd love to answer as well as ask myself.

[@annienewton3999]

But not knowing what you want to do can sometimes be because you’ve never had an opportunity to do something that inspires you. Life can confuse you and you lose yourself x

[@Charles-qi9hb]

Oh my goodness! Just looking at your pictures will make anyone who's having a bad day happy. It's obvious you must be very special,what am amazing smile. How are you doing today? Love to hear from you

[@17h127]

I didn't know what I wanted to do until my late 20s. Some of the most interesting people still haven't figured out what their passion is by their 40s. Most people have jobs, not careers, and find their passions outside of work.

[@Kate-kj2ti]

These are brilliant! 100 more please 😂❤🙏🏼

[@_unfiltered]

I'm so glad to finally be in that place where this video will actually help me cuz I've actually got a date😂

[@michael_the.girl.]

This is so fun!! I really enjoyed Matthew's answers, but I also did it journaling with myself, and it was pretty fun to get to know myself a bit too! 😄

[@neesemma4082]

That's a good idea

[@bindicat9070]

I agree, loved this!

[@RegenaO]

Love this video and topic! Thank you 😂🎉

[@eclipsechen7553]

I feel like this Video actually taught me that I should prepare for the answers for myself……

[@Betterboundariesnowteensupport]

We love that you love Steve ❤️ that's Australians enthusiastic and optimistic

[@jamiejohnson7390]

These are just good questions for a lot of situations. I could tweak them for friends or networking as well. A great video!!

[@mtdebh20]

One of the things I live about Matthew is that much of his dating advice is applicable to all kids of situations.

[@plamitodorova5952]

Love this video! My answer to question number 3 is “Get the Guy” 😁

[@aleashasimons]

These are really great questions! I am taking notes.😊

[@7346ful]

Can't believe we share the deep blue sea , I said it just as you did😂

[@Annieqt]

As someone who needs to be more flirtatious on a un first date and less "listening to guys talking about themselves" (or worst their EX!) I'm a afraid I would so be in my head and I will have the impression of interviewing for a job rather than connecting. I have a date tonight and I'll probably go with: "What do you love the most about what you do?" and "What do you suck at?"

[@Verase787]

How was the date 😊

[@samanthaaranibar5060]

I think we should ask ourselves these questions first.

[@aminaadam3617]

Question number 1: Matthew Hussey.Because he has shown me true connections are made by being open and willing to give, expecting nothing in return but what the other person is ready to give back.

[@AAC9991]

I was looking for excatly this by you, can you help me with more questions to ask ? or even activites youd recommend with a partner? thank you so much Matt! legend

[@smbessone]

I think that these questions are amazing, especially because I need a connection to the person before anything else, but I am finding people that sit with me at a bar to have a talk and drink and they are empty, they respond almost in a monosyllabic way... Of course I cannot connect to them, but these cases are piling up... Why dont they like to think? I find it scary that so many seem zombies like this 😮

[@JonathonAslay]

Matthew... Deep Blue Sea is a good choice. Sadly, I've watched it maybe 10 times. LOL

[@alwaysandi5867]

Love these! Thank you!!

[@xAnicsi]

I started asking 'What's the craziest thing you've ever done'? and it's so interesting what everyone comes up with. Sometimes just because defines 'crazy' differently. It can be reckless, it can be weird, it can be fun... Everyone usually thinks a lot about that one, but it always gave me a glimpse of a 'spark' in a way. Your list is quite interesting, it should keep the conversation going for a while for sure :)

[@tacrewgirl]

I like this question and idea. Thanks!

[@eveeboss]

These are actually quite good!

[@rob6345]

I agree with everything except for the job thing. Many people in the population have no clue what they want to do with their life nor do they care as long as they're having fun and happy. And the moment you take Your passion and turn it into a job, it's not a passion anymore. You just ruined what Was enjoyable to you. Not to mention not everybody's goal in life is to accomplish one thing after another. Some people just want to be with family and friends and make memories.

[@matthewhodgins5241]

Great info here but the most valuable thing I learned is that 'ventriloquize' is a word.

[@tashas3465]

Great questions Matthew!

[@karalianisthmus8548]

I really appreciate your expertise!!

[@huangyanjean2570]

2024 the first video I saw, so blessing! Loves these questions, but about the eighth one, whey if if they heard how their friend described them??

[@dianaalonso9696]

Love the questions! Perfect to keep the date interesting 😃

[@Shaye208]

This is perfect I am going on a first date in two days! I went to dinner with my best friend & our server was super sweet & funny so I wrote my number on the check & he texted me! Hopefully things go well:))

[@wattsnxt4747]

Good luck!☘️

[@noober2174]

Good luck!

[@Talkwithdulci]

Matthew, Deep Blue Sea is one of my top movies as well LOL

[@Joejoesan]

Great questions when you meet someone (new) anyway. So I'll remember it as PAVBWASED (People you Admire, Vacation, Books, Work, Activity, Suck, Embaarrassed, Describe). Thanks, Matthew

[@tacrewgirl]

I like acronyms too

[@sindhuchinniah4363]

Thanks Mathew!

[@Neshwang1493]

These are great for research questions.

[@Jessica-kk1cz]

Many of these are great job interview questions also. (Though there are some that would be bad - even illegal as they are - so be careful>. Or repurpose and rephrase it).

[@is.b.1185]

Beautiful questions. Beautiful!!

[@laineslowski]

These are a great roster of questions I'd like to keep in my back pocket the next time I go on a date! A question I've enjoyed asking is 'what do you consider to be your red flags?'

[@tasbar7743]

I love vacation chat. I definitely want to know if we're compatible in that area.

[@annienewton3999]

I want to travel more but life gets in the way x

[@ModernJewelryMakers]

I’m going to write these down & take them on my next date (assuming I have one!)

[@tan380]

Gracias por estar tan bueno 😊

[@brandongutierrez7049]

Hey Matthew Hussey do you have any videos of advice for men?

[@user-wb6bw1dc9n]

Good questions. Lemme try😬 coz I never reach deep with others. Just superficial contacts

[@loveonlyvibeseveryone1533]

Awsome thanks ❤❤❤❤❤

[@inanna3957]

This video is fun ❤ Thank you handsome 😄

[@anastasiabetskova1875]

I don't know how to answer who is someone I admire with a concrete answer.

[@coly4ever]

Good video!

[@Verase787]

Why am I not embarrassed either with my movie nor playlist choice? But if the date will laugh me out or try to make me feel embarrassed the date is over.

[@KenriqueMaling]

I admire “Matthew Hussey”.❤️

[@sarahschouveller1993]

1. My mom 2. Staycations. I don't like traveling, at all 2.5. the Bahamas 3. More Now Again, A Memoir of Addiction 4. Working with people and animals 5. Snorkeling 6. Math 7. Superbad? Pineapple Express? 7.5. Boyfriend by Justin Bieber? 8. Reliable, loyal, consistent, smart, funny, unique

[@brunadube9749]

Great questions

[@helenaevaherczegh8895]

Thank you....