10 Reasons Why You Have No Motivation In Your Home And What To Do About It

[@Cookies-i2f]

There are so many ways we get bunged up...grief, inheriting stuff, illnesses, difficult times.... our homes bear the brunt

[@bonnie5596]

Great tips Nikki! When my kids were younger, I used a desk calendar and hung it up in the kitchen. We referred to it as The Hub. Each child was responsible for one room a week. On Sundays, the kids were rotated to a different room. There wasn't much time that was spent cleaning. It was only maybe 60 min. or less a week. Kids spend more than that on screen time. In the beginning, I would work along side them, to show them how to clean. If the situation was over whelming at times, I would again work along side them. It taught them responsibility and lessened the stress on the family because everyone was involved. My husband and I had responsibilities with in the home as well. If a parent wants good results, they have to set the example. You have to work into it slowly with them. Understand that they won't be good at it in the beginning. It takes time, be patient, encourage them, and praise them.

[@AtHomeWithNikki]

Thanks Bonnie! Sounds like you worked out a beautiful system for your family when they were younger. Thanks so much for sharing. This may help other families. Love it! Hugs and Love, Nikki

[@glovebc]

Wonderful introduction plan! Thanks

[@bonnie5596]

​@@AtHomeWithNikki thank u ❤

[@pheralyndove6611]

Excellent advice and strategy!!!

[@jeanettehowell8906]

💕💕💕oh thanks for sharing,brought back memories of my deceased Mother teaching us when I was a younger child

[@chemicagriffith689]

My dad passed away last year July and my home went in a down spiral. I am only now coming to grips to start getting my home back in order and as you said, I will start small! I needed this terribly! Thank you so much for sharing!!!

[@urbangirlresin]

Sorry for your loss 🙏🏾 I understand 100% I'm in the same boat I've had a lot of losses over the last 3 years and everything spiraled as a result. Trying to get back on track and dig myself out as well. What I'm learning is take baby steps, don't be too hard on yourself, give yourself grace and reward yourself (things I've always struggled with 🤦🏽‍♀️) praying strength and healing for you and your loved ones. You can do this 💪🏾

[@luminousforthelord1587]

This is the same situation I am in at the moment. My sweet Mum passed away last October! My life turned upside down. On top of that my son got married this past January. Talk about an emotional rollercoaster. The process of decluttering and organizing has begun. It's overwhelming, but as you say "start small" This is where I am at. Blessings to you!

[@pamelabalboa5174]

Love the idea of including 1 hour to work day to clean your home.

[@cynthiaakacyndsmith6539]

Oh my Nikki, I flat out love you! I will be listening to this, again, my husband was hearing what you was saying. And asked if he did enough to help…. I said I would appreciate more help.. at least he asked. That was a huge win for me. He retired 6 months ago and is feeling a bit lost. We both need a bunch of help. we will be listening again. Thank you 1

[@checat001]

That's a big win! 🎉

[@desertrat5543]

Now that’s what I’m talking about 👏

[@AtHomeWithNikki]

Hi Cynthia! That was a huge win! YAY!!! This makes my day! I love it!!!! Hugs and Love Nikki

[@deec3561]

He’s a good husband. He tries

[@surewhatever8843]

All my life, I thought I hated laundry. When I downsized homes, the W/D downsized as well. Turns out, I hate *large* loads. I can churn through many small loads without feeling crushed. I wish I’d learned it sooner but grateful I learned it. Life changing!

[@ms.bglamdecor8684]

OMG! I think everyone dislikes folding and putting away clothes. I love washing and drying.......it smells so refreshing.

[@rose-ld1mo]

Girl I stopped buying multiple colored socks 10 years ago. Such a time saver when doing laundry which I dislike. The visual clutter bothered me as well as the crazy time it took sorting all those out every week. My son and I wear solid black and dad likes solid white. Grab them out of the dryer and throw them into the drawer and BOOM! Done (with that part anyway). Also when you get a hole you throw away one sock instead of a whole pair. I'm constantly looking for small ways to reduce time while doing the same tasks everyday because all that little stuff really adds up. You guard your weekends. Me, I guard my energy because I burn out very quickly with the hours I work and I'd much rather put that energy into the people I love. Much love to you! ❤️

[@stephaniec.5851]

Me too! It was amazing, immediately saved 20 minutes every laundry day

[@paulinelockhart3576]

I love the art of organization my home and a business

[@ms.bglamdecor8684]

My home have to be cleaned and organized. It really annoys me when things are out of place...... even the pillows on the sofa have to be right. People say I have OCD......no I'm just that neat clean person. Clutter can clutter your brain and everything has to be organized. 💝💝

[@angeloverturff7323]

As a stay at home mom I have made it a practice to give myself a day off. Because I stay at home 24/7 I can get wrapped up in the managing of my home and forget to give myself time to rest and rejuvenate. Excellent video and great tips!!!

[@natalievegas]

Hi Nikki, I was watching Clutterbug and she told me ( a cricket) that we crickets would love your channel because you’re a cricket on steroids! Well as this is my first video, I can already tell you’re speaking my language. I’m going to watch every video you have. New subscriber here. Thanks for this video. It truly made sense to me. ❤

[@meman6964]

I love your pure white kitchen that is in the background. Lovely.

[@mirakostova6633]

Great tips, I suffer all problems you mention😢 have 2 small Kids and the min I clean its mess again and every cupboard in my house is a mess. I feel like hamster in a wheel

[@maiskitty]

I love this - common sense and nonjudgmental. I have an anxiety disorder and depression so when things slide... It's such a vicious cycle and can be sooooo overwhelming. Really love that you validate adapting conventional standards to more do-able approaches. And huge thank you for addressing out dated gender rolls that many of us are still fighting. ❤

[@Lorrainecats]

That's me, too. Anxiety, procrastination, depression, ADHD.

[@cheryl4926]

I totally understand the vicious cycle of anxiety, and yes, it is so overwhelming. My quiet, internal anxiety has made me dysfunctional for years, and it's like a living hell. This is a great video with common sense tips. I think I'll start with 10 minutes a day, and not put so much pressure on myself. And then I'll take it from there. I think there are a lot of us that get overwhelmed easily, and people don't understand unless they are the same way. You are not alone. ❤ Blessings!🙏

[@chickaliciousnyc]

​@@Lorrainecatsme three - twinsies 😢

[@cindyb3174]

OMG, so true! sending you love 💗💗💗

[@quetzali8654]

10 years with anxiety 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@MrJojomylove]

Your style and way of organization is right up my alley. Thank you so much for sharing, its a huge encouragement for me.

[@petramccraw9960]

Thank you so much Nikki for your videos. My dad passed away in 2015 and my mom died in 2022. I have stored their belongings in my garage. I am finally ready to part with them. I purchased your Beautifully Organized in 52 Weeks card deck and will start implementing the steps today!

[@Cookies-i2f]

I finally started. I am working on my guest/craft room. Oh my I' m keeping at it.

[@maryfalckslus]

Really needed this video today. I am about to get married, and just moved to a new apartment a month ago. Things are looking much better than when we first moved in but i have been feeling so uninspired and overwhelmed. This video reignited my gratitude for my space and I already feel more peaceful. 🧡

[@paulinelockhart3576]

Hi this has been so helpful to me. I live in an apartment but building our retirement home. I will call upon you again

[@alexvega7527]

I love your videos ! I just be lazy watching your videos in bed and fall asleep after 😂 the truth

[@cornishcottage5432]

Oh my goodness Nikki, it's as if you've made this video just for me! I've said for a very long time that I don't look at one section of a room, I look at the whole room which then turns into the whole house and I just close up. My constant thoughts are "I can't do this, what's the point". I'm taking on board all your tips today and break things down and do a section at a time. I work full time and live alone, I'm always to tired when I get home from work and do nothing. From now on, I'm going to make time slots before I sit down for the evening and get one small job done. Thank you Nikki, I feel like you're my life saviour today

[@AtHomeWithNikki]

I am so happy that I could share this with you my friend. Please let me know how the new routine works out. It really worked well for me. I also want to mention that my Facebook group (the Friendgirls) is a great place to share updates if you use Facebook. You can get there by going to Friendgirls.us. I am excited to hear how it goes. Hugs and Love Nikki

[@breeanders15]

So glad I found you! I decuttered and organized my mom's senior apartment from 30 years of stuff from her single family home. Everyone is telling me I should start a business. I decided I would do it when I retire but now I am thinking to do it now. I have one business now (independent consultant under an LLC) but think I have room to do another business. It was so rewarding helping my mom and she is so happy. I am going to sign up for your course.

[@mandySIMS6319]

I love this video, thank you. I've been drowning, doing less and less over the past 2 months. I live with 4 others, and I feel exhausted because the majority of what I clean outside my bedroom is everyone else's mess. I can't stand living in these messes, but I decided that I would back off. Proves to others I help make a difference 😂 My rooms not great, trying to declutter and hope to move my room around. I just wanna relax all of the time and I know that isn't realistic. Motivation for me is always lacking, so these videos really help me. ❤

[@tashad2201]

I have always wanted to help people organize. Going to make taking tour course a goal.

[@timpool1404]

One thing that was actually a game changer for me was the realization that just because I started something doesn't mean I have to finish all of it... Like ugh I don't wanna clean out the shed... So I just tell myself I don't have to finish the whole thing, go spend 5, 10, 15min and it's ok to stop part way through... More often than not I actually end up doing way more than I said I was going to do anyway, but even if you don't, something is better than nothing.

[@Januarygaby]

While watching your video I just finished folding the laundry that was sitting in my living for 3 days. 😆 Your voice is so therapeutic Thank you! 😁

[@SherryGlow1]

I have no motivation because I get very little help. My husband fights me about everything in this house....so I do what I can do on my own with decor, paint and organization. He said don't change it if it works. Well I changed every single light fiixture, flooring, paint and decor and it brought value of house way up. I did talk him into new kitchen countertops but only butcher block counters. I changed all door knobs to glass...the house was his grandparents 1940s home. It was renovated in 2000. I came in and renovated what I could to update it all over several years. The only thing is why am I putting all this money into something that is not mine; also, and it has been said when we die it all goes to his kids and not mine. Kind of one-sided, but God will take care of it all. I wish I had somebody who helped me build things. Oh he did help build me a laundry folding table because he wanted to do it.

[@DimaRakesah]

I find it helps if I keep certain things from getting overwhelming, and then when I have those things clean it tends to motivate me to do more. Keeping my kitchen clean makes the house instantly feel better and motivated me to do the rest, so I make it part of my routine to do a basic clean of tbe kitchen every day. Do all the dishes, wipe the counters and sweep.

[@AngelaLuciano-s2x]

I work 8-5.30 leave at 7am at home 6.15pm my husband is retired he cooks wash clothes and dishes everything his way. Weekend i will fold clothes organize and clean the stoof to tired myself to start every weekend SOS. The whole house and yard is a mess. I love coming home after work but all the 10 reasons you gave im really stressed do not know how to plan anymore. All my money wasted each time with projects. He cant do nothing. No DIY. Happy for your video i know i tried everything. I gave up.WONT HELP TO HAVE THE❤TALK.

[@Cookies-i2f]

Lustening as i work through my crafts.

[@teresaoshlo8257]

I’m not gonna get anything done? 😂 you are so awesome I just want to binge watch all your videos again!

[@michelledehaen8997]

Thank you very much Nikki, many interesting ideas. I have subscribed, greetings from Belgium, Europe. 👍👍

[@denicepapesh4852]

Love that saying : If you do one load of laundry a day, it keeps the piles away 😊😊

[@katsfarm2062]

I watched this and thought maybe my clutter in my bedroom was making me not sleep well. So I started decluttering and it feel great

[@TJ-ni2og]

THANKS SO MUCH, IT'S LIKE THE UNIVERSE KNEW I NEEDED TO SEE YOUR CHANNEL TODAY!

[@charitysmith5245]

I use the hard boxes that electronics like phones come in to organize drawers. The top and bottom are hard and work so well for small stuff

[@lindamcadarra402]

❤ hi Nikki! For someone like me, who feels so much sadness, once the alarm goes off in the morning, can you tell me how to start. I’d be starting from being stuck on the couch a very long time. TY Nikki, I appreciate YOU

[@lynnfox2359]

Nikki, where have you been all my life? I am so glad I found you. Thank you for this video!

[@aprildawnsunshine4326]

Thank you for mentioning those of us with energy or other health barriers! The biggest help I've found has been keeping a small trash bag within reach. I also remind the kids at least once a day to go around and pick up their trash etc. I still sometimes end up with a pile of little trash bags by the door, but then once I'm feeling up to it I just have to take those out instead of filling up a kitchen trash bag (or three lol) with the piles of cans and wrappers I've been surrounded with for days or weeks.

[@cg478]

You are a blessing to me. You are refreshing and have an incredibly calm demeanor. Thank you

[@TNMountaingirl]

You are such a smart and kind person. And very inspiring and such a calming way. I appreciate it.

[@Designsyn7]

Your calm and genuine love for what you do is beyond inspiring! The most important words I took to heart are for us not to look at the whole house as a whole project, but to start small in just one area and erase all the other areas from our minds..... I was picturing a literal eraser wiping out all the items and only zeroing in on the task at hand......not feeling unsuccessful for being unable to do it all, especially in one day, one hour or one minute! Thank you for this beautiful presentation and for your special, unique way of explaining the old motto of "take a big job and break it down into small manageable tasks"!!!

[@maggiemay7040]

I definitely am feeling overwhelmed.

[@kierstenridgway4634]

I just happened upon you. Distracting myself from the linen closet that i just completely emptied onto my couch! 😂 I will continue to follow you and get the closet back together. ❤️✌️

[@Skhere256]

Please make more videos like these. Especially for new couples who are trying to create a home...this is really helpful.

[@debfiel6585]

I, for one, really appreciate that you said that we don't have to follow all the new trends in our home decorating. I admit to getting a little offended by decorating or organizing videos that tell you this or that is out of style. If I like it, it stays. I personally feel like the millenials that are getting rid of all their parents fine china will be regretting that decision in the next decade. I feel, like you, that if it makes you happy, then you should definitely hold on to it. Thank you for this sound advice.

[@kenya1067]

I was just thinking about your dogs for some reason (because I want a pup probably lol) and I hadn't seen any videos in a while. I open KZbin and right here suggested to me lol and I wasn't subscribed for some reason smh. Thanks for the content!

[@dannieden4596]

I think this was great video. I'm glad it didn't include anything like saging/smudging. Saging/Smudging (even though it's not new) seems to be the trend now-a-days and regarding cleaning/organizing one's home. This video was a breath of fresh air. Thanks.

[@aranahawave2570]

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[@cindyb3174]

God knew who to send. Keep it up, we need you!!!!

[@empoweredbynatasha]

This all is so true. Currently, I plan to not add much more in terms of furniture or decor pieces just to cut down on the extra cleaning it takes to maintain those items. Basically, I’m becoming more in line with minimalism. It feels so good to just have clean and neat spaces without every inch being take up.

[@DailyreadwithNee]

I was just thinking to myself I miss my girl Nikki and you came up on my feed. I simply love all your tips. I stay motivated with my home because I like to change things up from time to time. I love your channel. Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤

[@AtHomeWithNikki]

Awe!!!! Thanks so mucho my friend! That means so much to me. Sending huge hugs and love your way. Nikki

[@debbiemize2269]

I am so glad you’re back! I bought your cards, “Beautifully Organized in Fifty-Two Weeks,” and have been following them faithfully! I love the way you have us take it slow so I don’t lose momentum. It also allows me to keep up with my other routines and chores. I have your book, “Beautifully Organized,” too! Thank you for all your fantastic videos!♥️

[@AtHomeWithNikki]

YAY!!! Thank you so much Debbie for getting the cards and I am so excited that they are helpful!!! Hugs and Love Nikki.

[@rahshielawhite8150]

This was really helpful. Great tips!

[@jacquelinebeason1360]

Thank you for sharing. I have come across your video, for the first time. Greetings from the UK 🇬🇧

[@AndreaSooHill429]

YT Suggested your channel ❤ I love that we both love the Lord!!! Your voice is so calming ... thank you! Also thank you for the scriptural advice as a Momma and wife bc I AM STRUGGLING AS FEELING LIKE A SLAVE AND MAID AROUND HERE, as a Stay at Home Mom.... they do not listen to me

[@beverlytaylor1745]

How wonderful to find you again! I love your personality, and talent. I would have loved to see your home. You are a homemaker of the highest caliber - an absolute delight. Seeing you again made my day. I subscribed immediately!

[@shareka1825]

I love this!

[@gabriellamilgromco]

Thanks for the great points about the different ways to look at our homes and the "dissatisfaction" that we may be feeling. I often find that the immediate reaction is to renovate, remodel, gut it out, when sometimes the solution is a lot simpler and sitting right in front of us, but it seems overwhelming and too much to take on, even though the bigger idea would be more. Starting small, decluttering, organising, rearranging furniture and items until it clicks and makes sense for us in our lives are all great points in how to make small changes that can really impact our homes and how we perceive them.

[@bonniewilliams5016]

Just found you on KZbin! Hi! Thank you for making this video, a lot of the reasons resonated with me, especially the overwhelm and not really knowing where to start. I love the idea of starting small and then building. Again thank you!

[@suhailah7170]

Thank you so much. I needed to hear this 🙌 🙏

[@v.llamas]

Thank you Nikki. I needed this. So much love to you. 🙏🏼 I just wanted to add: I have been a viewer for so many years my mother was not a very organized person and I never really learned how to be organized and thats how originally found your channel. I started watching before I think I was even an adult. I started watching before I was a wife. I started watching before I was a mother. All these different life stages and you have been there for me. Its so easy to lose track of “what works for your family” with new milestones or even setbacks. I need to “reorganize” for what what works for my family at this current time. My husband is in the service and we’re currently in South Korea and the layout of our apartment is not necessarily something I’m used to so I’ve just been lost thinking we needed to buy different organizers and such but really just need the home to be clean and not have everything everywhere. Its also harder now with a toddler to maintain the house but I know it doesn’t need to be picture perfect just safe and clean for my almost 2 year old ❤ thank you I know you dont have kids in the house but can you possibly share what worked for you when you had little ones in the house? I am so overwhelmed with all the laundry and so many things! This video really helped. Thank you. 🙏🏼

[@AtHomeWithNikki]

That means so much to me Vicky! I am so happy that I could share some valuable nuggets with you over the years my friend! Sending huge hugs and love your way! Nikki

[@djlivvy46]

Clean Mama has lots of advice for mothers with children!

[@djlivvy46]

You can also start your little one with their own little jobs too. My sister started her sons with light dusting when they were 2 years old, and now they are older they know how to wash dishes and iron their own clothes etc. If you give your children chores from an early age, they just think it's normal because they don't know any different. Most mothers start far too late and that's when they get pushback from their children.

[@fujastar]

#athomewithnikki I love the glasses on you!

[@lynnshute9914]

Great video! It’s three AM and I feel like jumping up and decluttering!! I need your cards, I’m not playing with a full deck!!😅 Again, great video!

[@catfancier270]

My grandmother had a hardwood sideboard everybody always admired for decades. She had bought it at Goodwill.

[@chelleychelley8299]

Excellent common-sense advice! Appreciate your insight!

[@coradixon7785]

Thank you so much for this video I have watched you from the beginning for years but this topic was on time it really bought tears as what I felt thank you as always

[@gwenwilliams7881]

Girl friend you must be clairvoyant,I fall into some of those situations, I thank you so much needed to hear all of that.

[@joleencox5900]

New subscriber! Just started watching and I’m SOOOO excited!!

[@nykeak]

This video is the bomb!!! I just got up&started cleaning .

[@twebs9459]

Thank you Nikki, I just moved and I was so overwhelmed with unpacking and weeding though things that worked in my last home and no longer work in my new home.

[@gailfairweather1515]

Awesome video get ideas that are helpful. I do laundry often. I put laundry in when im watching t.v. or when I get home frome work. When I'm going to sleeping I put laundry in first.i cleaned my spare room today and my floors . I love how a clean house smells and looks. I do give to charity too😊

[@canaldeautoayuda6089]

You voice is soo nice I actually stated to organize while I was listening. I did only my bathroom but then I stared at it wth afeeking of graititu

[@klmjtr]

This is the first video I watched of yours. I subscribed I think in the first minute. You really have wonderful information and advice. I especially loved when you mentioned that people physically can’t do what the mind wants to do! I always feel that I am lazy but it’s actually the thought of the pain I will be in that deters me from getting things done. I want to get some help with cleaning but I feel I need to declutter first. 🙃 Thank you for this video. 🙏🏼 Love your blue top and your beautiful kitchen! 💙🩵🤍🩵💙

[@FlowerPowerWV]

Woah you did in one hour takes me 3. Including making dinner? But I do love the idea of keeping that work vibe going! Thank you

[@irishyouwereherewithme]

Thank you because I have depression and don’t have any help. Hoping I can get help from someone here in Orlando. I hope to find the finances to get help.

[@BirthBabyLife]

LOVE the tip to have that "work hour" on your home when you get done with your workday! Thank you!

[@MsMalorable]

Thank you, Niki. This video was right on time. I was feeling down today thinking about how I cannot seem to get motivated to get things done around our home. I work a lot outside of the home and my house has gotten away from me. I decluttered months ago and it felt amazing! My next step is to finish organizing a few small spaces and then I can begin making some changes/upgrades. Bless you for making this video. ❤

[@AngelaLuciano-s2x]

So true

[@ChanningAyers]

I’ve been watching this channel since my first child.. He’s 7 now lol. And now that we have 3 children and I homeschool, I do find myself feeling overwhelmed and anxious with certain tasks I would just tough through before.. Thank you for the advice and validation to take these daily tasks steady ❤

[@katieb1836]

Hi Nicki, I just found this video. You are a beautiful lady! I just wanted to ask if you have considered not having music in the background during the content portion, it's understandable in the intro. I really wanted to listen to the video, but the droning in the background is very difficult for some people. Thank you for listening.

[@katieb1836]

Sorry, I believe I misspelled your name.😊

[@RMFtheclumsy]

Your tips are so true. Just now my biggest struggle is the communication. I'm an introvert and my com skills are almost zero. So I end up nagging, we quarrell, sulk, but except for bad mood there are no results.

[@beverlydonaldson3205]

I have found when my husband goes away for a day or so I wash all of my floors on my time schedule, in between my deep clean I put wet wipes on the floor and then I use my feet to spread it over the floor, job done

[@moniquegreen861]

Thank you! Very helpful I was overwhelmed of where to start in my home. I would always start a project and never finish.

[@osheajackson1898]

Thanks for this video, I really needed to hear how to start one space at a time. I'm the person that tries to do two rooms at a time. I will keep in mind that I need to start small

[@cherylliz99]

I need your help!!!!!!!!!

[@karengreene1999]

This video is very helpful to calm the overwhelm that comes with wanting to declutter and get more organized. Thank you Nikki!

[@StarryRoses]

I'm so glad this was recommended to me. I've realized this week that I leave the house to feel recharged. And it's not just my current apartment, its everywhere I've lived. I'm excited to implement the advice you gave because I can't keep feeling this way. Edit: I've put your link on my calendar so if I'm still not organized by fall, I'm going to schedule a Zoom session. Thank you for offering that!

[@therealnnairda]

I appreciate your's and Mike's partnership. You too complement one another well. Thank you for sharing!

[@wanda726324]

You are really a jewel of a person!

[@MindiiSimii]

I just found your channel and I love it! You have a calm demeanor, and peacefulness about you. Thank you for these tips! I resonate with almost all of these.

[@dorafisher7084]

Thank you for all the tips you shared in this video. Have a blessed day.

[@patrician7445]

It helps me to decide I will spend one hour working. I set the timer for the hour, and oftentimes I go longer, especially if I'm in the middle of what I'm working on and want to finish it. Getting started is so much the hard part, and this often works for me.

[@theladynextdoor313]

I implement many of these things and have to say having a system that works for me for over a decade now has definitely helped and improved my home and life. I learned tackling one project at a time goes a long way to overall goals. I’m very tidy and a touch of OCD 😂 but I’ve gotten better over the years of letting go of the idea of perfection. I got a book over 15 yrs ago called Home Comforts- The Art & Science of Keeping House and it helped change my perspective and give me ideas. That was before the world of You Tube reigned and people now have all these wonderful videos to help. It’s finding the joy & gratitude in the little things. I’m so grateful to have a home to keep clean 💜.

[@jamesbriggs5740]

I love that book! I reread it every so often. Kathy B

[@yokokato2908]

Hello! I came across your video by accident and am I glad I discovered you! Your suggestions are doable and reasonable , and I feel I can organize my life and feel better! Thanks! I subscribed! ❤

[@paulaberg9275]

Thank you so much for this video. I listened to it while I cleaned and my mindset shifted from feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and even resentful, to a place of feeling like the small steps matter, and that I'm on my way to creating a more beautiful & welcoming home. Thank you.

[@cherylwin9364]

YES MAM OVERWHELMED AND DONT KNOW WHERE TO START 😢😢😢

[@healthyInsideOut]

Thank you for this! It’s so great to hear your perspective. It’s safe to say, my household knows your videos 😂 and we needed this! As a wife & mom of 6, I’m trying to learn how to keep from being so reactive & overwhelmed. I’m going to try harder with the things you’ve mentioned. May God continue to bless you as you’ve continued to bless others❤❤

[@mhtammi]

We recently downsized and I thought I’d decluttered enough, but apparently I did not. Then both of our moms passed away and we inherited their stuff. We’re working our way through it, but it’s a struggle. It’s hard when you are grieving. We take it a day at a time.

[@nelp7935]

As with all of your content, this video is jam-packed with wonderful tips! I especially like the one about protecting your weekends, & am going to try & implement the straight-after-work routine. Thanks lovely Nikki… many blessings to you Friendgirl 🥰♥️