10 Shoes Elegant Ladies NEVER Wear

[@MademoiselleSpends]

What do you think? Any shoe you'll start/stop wearing?

[@BlackGirlTrekker]

Please review Vivala!

[@abrilaltes6032]

After watching your video I just deleted forever my old shoe wishlist and will start from scratch. 😅

[@ranmount]

Very high high heels. They are not so comfortable at all as I nearly stopped wearing them and after this video, it is justified as well. 😂

[@kirstimeretearnesen1202]

I might try to find some flats with black toe. I have seen them in another French ladys KZbin chanel, and they are really nice. My crocs are only for the garden, I then chose comfort over elegant. In the cold winter of Norway I will still chose warm over elegant too, I have my very frown upon seal skin boots, but I need them to keep warm in the winter.

[@alinaweber1278]

@@MademoiselleSpends I will stop wearing the MK platform shoes and the Loboutains. No need to draw un-necessary attention..

[@dianejones4276]

Finally, someone who doesn't like birkenstocks or crocs. Bless you

[@AnthonyKellett]

Hear, hear!

[@BehindTheBush96]

I thought everybody hated crocs? 😂

[@jadormycc8819]

Dislike crocs. They’re not comfortable at all. Love Birkenstocks Becuase they’re comfortable but they are ugly lol.

[@t.v.4551]

I never liked how they look & for this reason didn’t use them for the longest time. Sometimes there isn’t just enough of choice for comfort.

[@annadancen127]

as a German, I do love Birkenstocks! but only the classic looking ones in earthy colors with one strap

[@MrM1lkcoupon]

What is crazy to me is the defensive comments I see on videos about elegance that read like they're being attacked?? They say they're not trying to be elegant always and defending crocs or uggs. No one is expecting anything of anyone, the lady is just trying to help you lol 😅 why even watch these videos if you are so sensitive?? 🤧 love your videos

[@elll3s]

Agreed!

[@ms.ednapost]

Totally agree! I’m here for the art of elegance…if I wanted to be basic I’d watch another channel🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Martinique_36]

Exactly it’s a personal choice for instance when I am away from home I take my flip flops to wear in a hotel room and the shower.

[@deborahcordova187]

I agree w/ you. She was just explaining how to be more elegant . Not everyday you need to have elegance in the way you dress ( gardening/ picnics/ hiking, etc. )

[@QRKYclips]

💯

[@AZgal2210]

Wow… what a refreshing take on how to style oneself in an elegant, tasteful way. Also, I appreciate how she provides alternatives in case a viewer likes a particular look.

[@agentlola]

Great video. The keywords here are French elegance. Going to a prize ceremony, first dinner with potential in-laws, job interview at a fancy workplace, upmarket art gallery opening... these kinds of occasions. We don't have to be elegant all the time, but when we need to be, these are perfect tips. I have lived in France - outside Paris - and you are absolutely right. I feel that nowadays people are trying too hard to express their personality through flashy clothes. Elegance is not boring, nor is it taking away one's personality - it's letting your intellect, kindness and other qualities shine. But when you don't have those, it's true that the clothes need to do all the 'shouting'. Keep up the great work.. Loving your videos so far 🙂

[@AmerieMarina]

Elegant ladies don't say the f bomb either.

[@chocolatecaramel4447]

@@AmerieMarina Yes they do. You will just never hear them say it. We are not monolithic and we are all human with faults.

[@dr.haloperidolum1368]

Or maybe it's quite the opposite. A well-thought-out style with bright accents requires much more intelligence, erudition and courage than dressing in clothes with a complete lack of any character. Elegance is a good word to cover up your mediocrity and at least due to this to feel a little higher than others, which these people who wrinkle their noses at any bright accessory clearly really want. And of course, the more complexes a person has in his head, the more he tries to go out of his way to give the impression of belonging to a higher economic stratum.

[@alinaweber1278]

Your perspective is amazing and timeless, because you value (like some of us) the notion that people ought to look their best, be their best, and do their best both at home, and in society. This value system is worth preserving, and I could not be more grateful to you.

[@KaryJacobsen]

I have to say I agree with everything you said. Elegance is the art of symplicity and understatement and never being too much.

[@burcuozkaptan2465]

I really love the effort she makes for finding and presenting the looks. Lovely😍

[@jsi4064]

Lol

[@ChanSylvia]

Babe! Just wanted to let you know that I've been SEARCHING for a channel like yours forever! Super classy, great explanations, universal tips. Thank you for being here!!!

[@justasystem1]

Well -6C is actually when it's warm in a Québec winter perspective 😅 so I will stick to my timberlands laced boots that covers all of my calf. You are right though that they are not in the classy side, but they are on the survival side when you walk a lot outside in Québec winter 😂 I discovered you recently and I love your videos! You are really good at explaining without judging, and I find your vibe quite comforting ❤ I would love to see a video on makeup! 😊

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Thank you for your kind words!

[@KatarzynaSzaniawska-tj3cm]

Yes! Make up.

[@cloudy7235]

Nothing speaks "class & elegance" like keeping all 10 toes intact, even if it means you're wearing your grandma's natural wool felted Valenki, as you're stomping through Siberian blizzards in -40 °C

[@onetwotulip]

Yes please to make up

[@sparkybish]

I love watching these videos, but I think I will always have an element of artsy/chunky/bright to the way I dress. Fortunately nothing in my life needs 100% elegance 100% of the time.

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Love this!

[@softsophisticate]

I like your three personal style words.

[@sparkybish]

@@softsophisticateI think overall they are comfortable/artsy/classic. My favorite outfits are a little bit of all of those.

[@Soulstice1319]

I love this and agree with you! I also think nails are a great way to add that fun pop of colour/artsy vibe whilst still wearing sophisticated outfits. I do this all the time with my elegant/ elgant-ish fits

[@kozypug]

😂same

[@Kate.Sangalang]

Elegance is an attitude; what you wear comes second, and that’s what we call classy.

[@MeiKasai]

The reason I bought Birks for the first time this past summer is because they actually have arch support. So many sandals are flat throughout and as someone who walks a lot I've been unable to wear sandals in the summer because I can't find any elegant sandals with actual support. I would love it if you ever had any recommendations to share them as I'd love to find an elegant pair one day.

[@monikakrakowska2983]

I am so amazed at the way you describe controversial topics in a subtle way. This is how an elegant woman do this. Really liked your movies and staying for longer 🙂

[@taramelody7542]

Any boots that can keep me upright on icy concrete are the boots I will wear. For me, it's not about elegance, but traction. Now for the rest of the year, these tips are great.

[@SilentRunningRedux]

Merrill if the hiking look is AOK for your use purpose (they’re 3 season, non-Alpine hiking boots). TODs, if price is no object and if not put off by their cautions on at least some boots and shoes (and handbags/briefcases), on “avoiding water.” Some TOD boots I got that look like some “young people’s” ideal of fashion, and that everyone I consulted told me to KEEP, including for wear under trouser suits etc. are superb in terms of COMFORT. The TODs boots are apparently often made with comfort in mind (and not only their flat “driving shoe” which is great if your feet aren’t already too far gone…). They don’t look like what to wear “for first impressions” unless rocking a “cool” vibe will work. They DO “fit” in multiple senses for other city/business use scenarios. They can be worn hiking but are not hiking boots… definitely rec serious hiking boots like LOWA, or MERRILL, for serious outdoor sports esp LOWA for Winter (made in or via Germany, available via CT and AZ stores and online in USA). GOOD LUCK.

[@elizabethliss2301]

I wasn’t aware of elegant style much, but somehow I always avoided crocs, uggs, bows and laces, and high heels. I will probably get a pair of shoes with black toe, loved those :) Thank you for the video!

[@bcagnol]

Thrilled that you think VIVAIA are fashionable shoes. I’m in love with the waterproof boots I got from them. I get loads of compliments from my Parisian friends and colleagues. I splurged on summer shoes from them too. And I am highly tempted to grab a pair of black toed heals. Definitely recommend the brand. And no, I’m not working for them. Just a happy customer! J’adore vos vidéos ! Merci milles fois !

[@lisaclark6044]

I have several pair of this brand. Its the only dress shoe my post-operative feet can tolerate!

[@SYt-z6t]

You introduced me to the *regbags* bag and I fell in love instantly! When I went to the store I was totally sure I would get the mini size but after trying them on I ended up going with the medium. Somehow I felt like the mini was too small for my body and the medium was too big when I was wearing fitted clothes haha. But I went with the medium anyway because I tend to wear oversized clothes.

[@rebolognesi]

I agree about so many points, but I think there is a couple of warnings to underline. First one: classic is classy, but it always needs a touch of fresshness not to become old and a little boring, expecially if you're in your sixties and over. Second one, what you wear needs to be coherent with who you are. As an artist I feel the need to always have a "point of interest" in my outfit, may be just an unconventional jewel or a surprising colour in my very classic shoes or bag, for example . It might as well be anything else, but I need it. And you have to cope with your body, too. For example I love flats and ballerinas and wouldn't wear anything else... but I'm petite: if I wear too low heels with a formal dress I don't look elegant at all and seem to be wearing slippers. So sad but so true! 🥹 Thank you for your video, it's always a pleasure to have a nice talk about style, isn't it? 🌹

[@carolk2299]

I'm 68, and I can certainly relate. I'm actually afraid of falling if my heels are too high! My way of coping is wearing a flat with just a hint of a heel - maybe one inch. I just bought a pair of shoes that have a heel of over two inches, and will probably save them for dressier occasions, but the heel that they have is a bit chunkier than most, and, therefore gives me a bit more confidence than a skinnier high heel would.

[@ArtU4All]

Standing ovation to you. Very important, crucial! points 👏👏👏

[@autumn5852]

Classy is never boring.

[@FuchsiaFire444]

Classic isnt boring it is timeless. Thats why its classic. There is a difference between old frumpy and stuffy ... and classic. If you believe in yourself you dont need flashy. If you are very artistic and expressive it could be you dont want to express yourself as understated which is perfectly wonderful and fits your style and creative intelligence. Classic is understated and maybe understated doesnt reflect the freedom you want to express who you are. What is considered elegant does have a constricting restricting element to it as its associated with money status and certain restrained inhibited behaviour relegated to societal constructs and expectations. At the same time plastic carries a cheap image not just related to price but to its identity, and lack of innate value and beauty.

[@rebolognesi]

@@FuchsiaFire444 a personal touch can be a silk foulard, a bag or a pair of shoes with a surprising color or pattern, as Pucci teached us many years ago. Or a vintage jewel, as well. As for plastics... Iris Apfel nobilitated it, with her unique talent for mixing and matching rich and poor materials. She was a queen of style and followed her own personality, I don't think it's a good idea to try and clone her. But one of her incredible pieces alone is able to upgrade an outfit, even the most classic of them.

[@EveningTV]

I am very petite (5'0") and hardly ever wear flats, but the thing is when it comes to a heel, a platform is much more comfortable. I like it best when they are an inner platform (meaning covered with leather and built into the shoe rather than stuck on the bottom) and this type of shoe does not have the look of stripper heels which is an extreme look. I've heard this before about platforms, and if comfort wasn't an issue, I like the look of sleeker shoes better probably, but they kill my feet in a fraction of the time.

[@marenlatham4349]

I really appreciate how clear and straight forward you are. It might be a cultural thing but I have noticed that french people don't pull their punches as much and are less apologetic when explaining themselves than English speakers. Don't let people being offended change the way you give your information. I thought it was very helpful and straight to the point.

[@LLR2025]

You do a great job of clearly explaining why certain articles in fashion are distasteful! I am 66 years old and I 100% live by your guidelines as taught to me be my mother as well!

[@samanthasmith9472]

Feels good I was already following these rules without realizing it. 😅

[@emilymln4779]

So true what you say about Louboutins. Unless you’re wearing all black or all cherry red, the red sole tends to really clash with a lot of outfits.

[@melcandeline3422]

Although I agree with the esthetic point of classy looking shoes, one thing a lot of these aren't is practical or better yet healthy for your body (we are talking joints, posture, bone structure etc.) I believe it is more than ok to wear them from time to time but is not something that should be worn daily 'cause in a long run they are not good for your body

[@anatolia0222]

Agree 100%. You can find some nicer looking shoes that have actual comfort and support, but most of the suggestions aren't this.

[@tangerine33]

2:58 I'm sorry, but if you really need to walk a LOT, these sandals aren't comfortable at all (maybe if you have flatfoot). These slide-on sandals are only good to pop in and out of the car, maybe walk a few blocks in the city. I get that shoes with thick soles are never going to give that chic look, but this is where it's not worth looking elegant, if you're feet are going to hurt at the end of the day.

[@lillianvaldi7669]

I loved this video but I do admit I wore those flat sandals in Italy and that killed my trip altogether. I am curious to try the sandals she’s recommended though … starting at home ..

[@tangerine33]

@@lillianvaldi7669 I really hope you will find them comfortable!

[@stephaniecampannella6023]

She's talking nonsense. I'm French, we prioritize comfort and elegance. We wear a lot of sneakers with fitted pants. Look how many sneakers have been sold in France this year! We only wear them to go to work (the bosses are OK with them, they don't want our feet to hurt, it's allowed for women. Even 40-year-old women wear sneakers. My mother is 68, she asked me to find her a comfortable white model). The more sporty model is fashionable among teenagers and young adults at university. We have influencers who promote this model of sneaker and it has sold out in droves.

[@stephaniecampannella6023]

The first thing we teach children here about fashion: "always have good shoes, comfortable and suitable for the weather. If you don't have good shoes, you won't get far". Shoes are the biggest fashion expense and we have very few of them. We pay the price to have quality. Look at the feet of the French, you will be surprised to see so few women in heels. We hate having sore feet (even at work we wear sneakers) and the French walk a lot, the streets are still not suitable for heels. So unless we go to an event, we never wear them.

[@tangerine33]

@@stephaniecampannella6023 thank you so much for explaining it, I'm glad to know all of this!

[@MrM1lkcoupon]

I just binged your channel, i love your personality. Very honest and you have many tips I've not seen on other channels that reiterate rules my grandma and mother followed. Love it ❤

[@ivnehaas]

There's nothing wrong with wearing something outside of "elegant" if you want to go for another style or blend. If you are feeling "sexy", "punk" or "playful" today, by all means go for it.

[@ItsLeviOsaah]

Fun fact abour crocs, they went popular because of the film idiocracy, where you can see everyone wearing them. They wanted shoes that match the lazy vibe of the society portrayed in the film, and needed them to be extra comfortable, and they find those shoes made by an unfamous designer at the time.

[@SilentRunningRedux]

VIVAIA shoes are superb in terms of comfort, and one can even wash them in a washing machine on their own of course. (One cannot dry them in a machine however… leave in a shaded place to dry). Most are made from recycled plastic (bottles etc), though they do not appear to be. Great shoes for feet healing from injuries, late recovery from surgery, bad bunions, etc. They are not THE most beautiful shoes, however I’m very glad these shoes made your list due to their simplicity and perhaps also to give those who can’t worry only about the appearance of their shoes an extra option… (with your mark of approval). PS VIVAIA doe shoes and boots come in many colors, which is “fun.” PLUS EASY TP SMASH INTO A SUITCASE without any worry about damaging them!

[@dogma505]

Thanks for the comment on Vivaia. I am a digital nomad , live out of a suitcase and typically find myself out walking around 4 miles a day. I want to look stylish and yet need comfort. Have been wanting to try them.

[@maureenrhysjones4643]

I really like your videos, so nicely put together, thank you! Here in Australia, where Ugg boots originated, they are mostly worn INDOORS!!!! I cringe every time I see people wearing them in the street, especially in UK. It's a big NO! Mind you having said that, we do have people who wear pyjamas and ugh boots to do a late night shop and think they won't be noticed!! It's very entertaining!

[@frankiett7676]

We get people walking around in slippers and dressing gowns in the UK and in the middle of the day

[@SusanBame]

I guess I won't be going for classy & elegant on my trip to the Olympic National Park in a couple of weeks. I just received a fantastic pair of Keen hiking boots, brown with green laces, and I am so excited to wear them! Also packing for chill and rain every day, lots of socks, hats, merino everything. And bug spray. I'm looking forward to hiking and reading and writing, and big trees and moss, lots of moss. When I get back to work I'll promptly return to my Burberry trench coat, jeans, ballet flats, and a lovely cashmere sweater.

[@daan8336]

Thank you for the guidelines! Comforting to hear that chunky boots are considered okay for snowy weather. Regarding that, could you perhaps do a video on how to dress elegant and feminine in harsher winters? The -15, -20 degrees type.

[@adrianaolimpiailea2260]

I am also very interested in the topic. Waiting forward 🙂

[@alomaalber6514]

I never had a casual friday at work not one, until it snowed and I dressed for it with alpine boot, full climbing chic except the rope and my team was nearly cheering me, sometimes you just have to show up! with a bright lipstick of course!

[@danahashcroft9482]

Much like the top comment i saw. When you have foot injury you are relegated to sports sneakers. I can't even go barefoot after major reconstructive foot surgery

[@ellegaunt]

Surgery - inelegant.

[@a.b.4727]

I love your videos that make obvious what I passively absorbed growing up... Yet I can't help but think that you'd look fabulous with slightly shorter hair that would be allowed to curl up naturally. Best to you!

[@oanawannawatch4053]

I love how you put a good light on the promoted style without bringing the other styles down, each with their own likings :D

[@oanacristescu9543]

I agree with 90% of what you say. The one exception I take is about the high heels. It takes a woman who knows how to walk in those to be elegant, but it is entirely possible. Just look at the princess of Wales and the queen of Spain! Thank you for your balanced and thoughtful perspective!

[@julygod6654]

I was thinking about the Queen Letizia of Spain while watching the video, exactly!

[@den8127]

Please make a video talking about elegant hair styles for women… 😊

[@chocolatecaramel4447]

Only if she include women of color. There women of color all over the world including where she lives in Norway.

[@j.p.p.1964]

very good experiance with Vivaia. l purchased a pair of boots and they are comfortable an chic. And, really important , you get their shoes even in big sizes!! l have 43 and l m glad to get some elegant, stylish and comfortable shoes there

[@GGFOREVER111]

I’m so happy I found your channel! Keep thriving! ♥️

[@Linhbae388]

What's fun about being elegant woman? If there are so many beauty standards like this? I'd rather be a funny person and add color to my life, being confident in myself and never afraid of what others think of me....

[@teresaintrepid7632]

I love your videos! I just ran across your channel yesterday, and I am enjoying it so much. I tend to be adventurous with my clothing choices and I do not always dress elegantly (sometimes I do), but I love fashion of all kinds and I love learning more about it all the time. Knowing all the ins and outs of the different looks and how to create them helps me make good choices, and helps me create the kind of vibe I'm going for every day. Thank you!

[@themaskedredbandit]

I have to defend Birkenstock a little-they offer a model called Madrid, which can look casual yet still elegant and feminine, especially in the big buckle version. The Arizonas mentioned in the video are just one of their designs. While they are iconic, I have to agree that they are indeed chunky :)

[@bkrindy9856]

oui oui!

[@j.p.p.1964]

l also defend my Birkenstock Gizehs. If wearing them for example in gold its not elegant, but a kind of comfortable chic. Ok, for me..🤷‍♀️😉

[@vanessaboyd8676]

Birkenstocks rock. Anywhere. Subvert the norm.@@j.p.p.1964

[@suzicq]

I don't wear Birkenstocks, but they look fine. I find it a bit ironic that the sandals she suggests instead don't look less chunky and are much less attractive.

[@kawaiimetalrebellion]

i still love sneakers esp new balance. I have to be comfy when i work and travel. I agree with most

[@nardanavarro2988]

I would love a Vivía review! ❤ Thank you for your videos, they're great.

[@mariamiller3457]

I need you to come over and fix my closet n go shopping. Love this. Thank you ❤

[@carolk2299]

What I noticed about your makeup is the LACK of it. I am 68, and completely agree with this. It took me years to get here. When I was young, I wore WAY too much makeup, instead of just accenting my natural beauty. Now it's just a touch of concealer for my under eye circles, some cream blush, eyebrow pencil, and lipstick. For evening, I add a touch of eye shadow and mascara. And that's it! Oh, and sunscreen moisturizer - I have worn this for 40 years! By the way, Vivaia shoes are lovely, and they make them in Narrow width, if you need them! How refreshing! If you are also a Narrow foot, you could try Vaneli, although they are a bit pricey! (I get them vintage). For sneakers, I always order a regular width, but one half size up, allowing for movement when you walk fast, and, because you can pull the laces tighter, this pretty much takes care of the width issue. If you were a narrow width and ordered narrow in sneakers, you would find that the shoes would fit too tightly with a sport sock. I keep praying that shoe manufacturers don't stop making Narrow width shoes. They seem so hard to find!

[@alomaalber6514]

in retirement my solution to not finding narrow has been the less than elegant but very comfy SLIDE in shoe with no back. That Vivaia sling back might work also.

[@AmerieMarina]

Wide shoes are hard to come by as well.

[@Melissaa43011]

Thank you so much for this video. I have been transitioning to cleaner, classier items of clothing and footwear to simplify my life and was feeling like my lack of enthusiasm for overly high heels was just because I can not walk comfortably in them. Though I applauded those who can. Thank you for the contentand showing that classy and comfortable can co exist. ❤

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Thank you for your kind message! I am happy you are finding a way a dressing that feels aligned ♥

[@katariina7697]

Love the tips, but I would be careful with some words you used: a woman is a human being and therefore is not "high value" or "low value" no matter what connotations she conjures up in the viewer's head. Those words are objectifying. Other than that, great tips, great video, thanks!

[@mollyh9356]

This

[@Nirrini]

Exactly. And the comment about bows was off too.

[@penelopemorales4326]

Appreciate the thought-provoking wisdom, Karen. Right up there with Einstein's best.

[@EvaDoczi]

The point flew right above your head.

[@dreamer6943]

You don't know what the phrase means. "High value" is meaning you value yourself and have standards, boundaries, and good self esteem. "Low value" means you need to work on these things because you're accepting unacceptable behaviour from others and treating yourself as if you aren't worth better than that. It's a way of being, it's not a value someone else places on you, it's not anything to do with objectifying women.

[@Hedd.Somewhere]

So I'm new to your channel, and I appreciate the content that I've seen so far! I found I follow a number of the shoe tips you talked about, but I will still wear my Birkenstocks. My style is relaxed casual with a little bit of funky, so chunky sandals it is. Sometimes (only sometimes) I think functional outweighs elegant anyway. x

[@deborahparis1713]

Thankyou!! I am really enjoying your videos!

[@PriscillainPearls]

Happy to have found your channel honestly. Thank you for sharing and being a breath of fresh air ❤

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Thank you for your kind words!

[@RinahRejoice]

This was so fun to watch! Thank you!

[@MademoiselleSpends]

I’m so glad 😄

[@shannonsullivan2109]

I love your channel! Very helpful with elegant, classy and respectable dressing. Thank you for reminding and informing others about modesty.

[@marrrtin]

The complete professional wardrobe for a serious woman. love it

[@theresaleduc]

What do you suggest for a winter that reaches -40C? Its hard to stay elegant while trying to avoid frostbite.

[@aubrieghhudson]

Yes, please review Vivia! =) Thank you for the great content!

[@emilyevans6989]

Just asking. . . much time spent explaining how AWFUL plastic shoes are. . . what do you think VEGAN LEATHER is?

[@autumn5852]

It doesn’t really matter because they have to wear something if they won’t wear leather.

[@karinaw977]

I think she’s talking about how the look of most plastic shoes appears cheap. Vegan leather if it’s well made looks like leather. She’s talking more about the appearance in this context.

[@keptthekisses]

I think she could do better with calling audiences to action in advocating for more sustainable options at affordable levels-there are mushroom, pineapple husk, cork, and cacti, based vegan leathers if you can find the brands doing it. However usually being that in the know when it comes to sustainable/ethical fashion is a sort of luxury in itself. And I assume a French woman living in Norway who can comment on fashion as an influencer is in a very different circle and perhaps even income bracket for standard of living than most of the average viewers of this channel who probably don't come from such places of tradition and relative standards of wealth. So while I appreciate her subtlety in confronting a lot of much needed issue like consumerism in fast fashion and it's environmental impacts, I think we all benefit from learning and more squarely addressing the root environmental and economic factors beyond just brushing into them with product and aesthetics as the core focus of the videos too.

[@mmejasper]

Vegan leather doesn’t have to be plastic anymore. It’s not everywhere yet, but mushroom leather and pineapple leather have been around for maybe a decade.

[@brittanywilliams4174]

It obviously went over your head if you think she doesn’t have the ability to understand it’s a different different material and it’s probably probably made of something like that

[@asmrcrafts9279]

Yesssss x 1000 on the review of your new shoes🎉

[@ktenidoua5155]

Your ideas are amazing 🤗

[@LomitaAnn]

Classy and elegant is timeless. Great advice.

[@sweetsixtee]

Hi, I love your videos. They’re so elegant and classy. I do have one thing to say about the Louboutin heels. I have the 3 inch black patent leather and they’re stunning and very elegant. They’re not too high. They’re just perfect and I always get compliments.❤

[@carmenlai6992]

Yes please do a review of VIVAIA🤩 I've been thinking for a long time of buying

[@leamubiu]

Bought my first pair of Vivaia flats a couple of months ago. My only real complaint would be the “no blister” pad at the back, which actually gave me the worst blisters ever. The fake suede inside produced balls of lint that made my skin blister within 15 minutes during my first wear; they even rubbed holes into the protective skin tape I applied, and dislodged bandaids. I advise applying some friction prevention cream (got a stick from the pharmacy), VERY GENEROUSLY, so that it absorbs into the fake-suede fabric over the first few wears. Another minus would be that there’s no genuine leather at all, and I find the interior of shoes much more comfortable and breathable with leather insoles and lining. But they definitely feel great in the front part, especially not compressing my bunion. The rubber sole feels a bit heavy, but absorbs shock pretty well. Now that they don’t skin my heel raw, they’re great flats, and very stylish ✨

[@Rositasparks]

I have 4 different styles of Vivaia shoes. They are absolutely lovely and comfortable! ❤

[@kathleensouthern7437]

Please review Vivaia! They are in my ads but I’m afraid to take a risk! 7:31

[@Nurzatlight]

I think I found what I needed for years. Thank you a lot for your videos.

[@jenniferworthen3833]

I have watched many elegant videos non compares to the settled silent style you mention I love it

[@Abigail-gw4md]

Wunderbar erklärt! So schön dass jemand versucht die Eleganz zu retten! Leider, die jungen gehen einfach mit dem Trand, ohne viel nachzudenken......

[@beripafi]

Vous etes tres charmante.. merci pour ces bonnes informations. Je regarde votre videos comme des fables. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@HollyJoseph-b4e]

Love watching your videos. You express each point very well. Thank you for this great content

[@reneesuisse]

Heels are not inherantly sexual and directly reminding people of a h**ker just because they're tall and skinny... You keep repeating that, however personally I find it's similar to the whole "tattoo's are unprofessional" thing. It was a view very old fashioned and irrational... More like a generational trend that has died. People don't view plain heels that way anymore especially if they're nice leather, suede or other luxurious materials. Or nude heels are timeless... TLDR: Heels are'nt sexual just because theyre skinny and tall

[@celparas9792]

Agree❤ But between TATOOS (no matter what it conveys for some ladies) n' "Comfortable yet Sexy" Heels 7cm max, on special occasions, I'd choose the latter 100x over😌☺️

[@chocolatecaramel4447]

I agree. Shorter women like myself will want at least 3-4 inch block. Not necessarily stiletto and if it has a platform to help offset heel height that's even better.

[@sellmav]

Just bc you don’t like it, doesn’t mean it’s not true. All hookers wear high heels bc they hypersexualize them. Tattoos are not elegant or classy. Ever. If someone i was interviewing for a job showed up in hooker heels and had tattoos, they would not get the job. Period. Those are TRUTHS. Life’s tough, get a helmet.

[@TheMoonTarot1919]

I agree ! High heels are elegant and sexy and that is not bad. Being sexy is a gift not a curse and not everyone can have it so some people they jealous of that and trying to make it look cheap like in this video that I heard so many stereotypes. Some of the shoes she suggested as elegant are about elederly women and can cause health issues in the feet like ballerinas.

[@mollyh9356]

Agreed. Some of her approach to fashion is suuuuuuper dated

[@soniawings]

Please do a review of the Vivaias! I've been eyeballing them but prioritize comfort and support over most other factors in shoes.

[@cherylgolding7990]

Even though I understand what your saying. Unfortunately elegant ladies will not look elegant if they wear stiletto pumps their young life because once they reach a certain age their feet will be mangled and not be able to work beautifully. So I disagree because in the modern world women are not just home all the time. Today they are working going to workouts, errands, etc. so thankfully there are so many styles that fit the occasion and women can look beautiful and elegant in a chunky comfortable sneaker.

[@Marguerite-wu3nw]

I agree with you. Fashion is art. Great video!❤

[@paintboxplayer8810]

Please make a video on hairstyles. Many thanks for putting into words what we knew but didn’t know the “why’s”. Super!

[@AphroditeThePriestess]

I am very much pro elegance ( strong Venus placements 😁 ), but with high arch and my love for 10-15k steps city walks - I don’t have much choice, but to opt for super comfortable NB shoes… 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@TatiG-yc1xt]

I couldn't agree more with this entire video. Great post!!

[@toughr1506]

What is wrong to be associated with a sex worker or a stripper? Have been wearing wedges and gonna wear them. They are elegant.

[@AK20741]

Being tall needimg longer shoes, I am able to wear a higher heel & still be elegant in a way that with a shorter shoe wouldn't. Visual perspective etc Birkenstocks Gizeh are great to & from a swimming pool and with casual beach / summer wear - neutral colours only.

[@huskysc7415]

Excellent Information. Thanks ❤

[@joannatstudent4625]

I really love this series! And your videos are amazing! Please keep it up!

[@Annacoolman]

Please do a video of brand recommendations for elegant shoes, accessories, and clothing! You mentioned a few but I’d love to learn more! A lot of products sold in America are not comfortable or well made and it’s hard to where to buy from!

[@Cjslady]

Hi. New sub. I’m French and Portuguese and love all your elegant tips, do you have a video on technology, I wonder what phone you carry etc. ❤

[@SilviaArias-df6eq]

I just took a pick of the VIVAIA shoes and they have very nice and chic models. I will try a pair!

[@Melodymist]

to be fair, vegan leather is also plastic. It might looks better than "regular" plastic, but that's still what it is. It still doesn't have the same properties and lifespan of genuine leather.

[@PrincessTala83]

Love this video! Shoes are such a crucial part of an outfit and can really make or break it! As for the winter shoe attire, my hubby and I also live in Norway and have always thought it’s so frustrating not being able to wear the shoes we’d like to wear in the freezing snow heavy months😂

[@MademoiselleSpends]

I couldn’t agree more 😆! I miss it too!!

[@paulatogashi6280]

Please do the review video on vivaia shoes. I'm looking at them for the last year but don't feel comfortable enough to buy them

[@kate4cards]

This made me think of platforms as more of a "desperate" attempt to be sexy/attractive, which is not elegant. Elegance to me is basically "natural beatuy" accented or accentuated with color and fit.

[@soheston]

2:30 Sorry to not agree when u live by the sea, there r plastic sandals u must wear in the beach and leather just look stupid, they get broken in 1 time, they r not practical and they look stupid, there r very beautiful sandals to look classy in plastic in the beach, like the Ipanema brand, if u live by the sea in Europe, then u know

[@MISGummiBears]

I would love to see a review of the shoes. Also enjoyed the video😊

[@WhateverBella007]

You’re funny 🤩 I love your commentary and accent

[@lorainisrael]

Yes, please do a review for the shoes you ordered. Love your videos.

[@jackielouise7538]

Thank you so much for all this information and advice. You present it in such a lovely way too 😊

[@carolmelancon]

I HIGHLY recommend Jeneba Barrie (she is also a lawyer) shoes; I own two pairs since I tan easily to match my skin in summer and winter. She offers a very large range of skin tones, in multiple heel heights including flats. I ordered the leather swatch book (the cost is credited to your first order) to be sure I got the best match. The shoes are beautifully made.

[@mehitabel6564]

I just took a look at her site. What a fantastic recommendation, thank you! I love her innovation of the leather swatch.

[@petgranny194]

I love my Vivaia. Very comfortable. They should sponsor a video!

[@zenobiapalmyra5670]

Oh, gone are the days when I could wear, walk, Greek dance and even run in my beautiful high heels. Right up to my mid, late-50s, I was fine. But as an ex University librarian of 30+ years, I always wore low, comfortable shoes, as my library had lots of stairs and endless reshelving of books, so comfy shoes were a must. I'm now 62 and no longer working as I am riddled with arthritis, 🙄 vile lower lumbar back pain, and, in my knees and feet. I've just had two knee replacements, and I can no longer wear my beautiful shoes.💔😭

[@r.altman6458]

It was two decades ago but hooray for living in Norway! It’s very special.

[@svenska81]

I love my ballerina flats with black toecaps. A friend once called them “princess shoes”.

[@marzeneg]

You mention shopping for shoes at Vivaia, yet most items are made with plastic which you suggested I shouldn't seek out. Should I still go for the shoes though?

[@DeepEssenceHealing]

I'd love to see the Vivaia review. Great job doing all these videos. It's in fact what my mother told me, too. Although she's not French. Bisous Paulina

[@claritycoachhuzurkabayel7167]

Merci 🙋🏻‍♀️ I loved this video. Can’t wait to see your next one 🥰