10 French Dressing Rules to FINALLY Look Effortlessly Chic

[@MademoiselleSpends]

What video would you like to see next?👇😊

[@silviamahutova301]

Definitely about building a simple, universal and chic capsule for autumn and winter.

[@kathebrank]

I loved your summer video and would appreciate a Fall/Winter one. Thank you! Your videos are beautifully done

[@meMYSELFnU]

More about colour combinations

[@JK-cf3id]

What to pack to travel in Europe for mix and match outfits please

[@jocelynwoltersworld]

I'm quite curious how you found Vivaia shoes. As to specific videos, I'd appreciate a video on scarves. I often use them to change the look of my travel capsules. But I know I'm not using them to their best advantage.

[@ИринаКоротаева-э8х]

Please do more videos. Your channel is wonderful!

[@MademoiselleSpends]

There are so many good ones coming up, excited to share! 😃

[@valariegreer6822]

Thank you for your wonderful advice! I am 73 years old and use a wheelchair. Following your tips has been of great value to me. The use of scarves, earrings, and a touch of makeup have elevated both my look and my confidence. ❤❤❤

[@MademoiselleSpends]

I am so happy for that! ♥️♥️♥️

[@InfiniteStudy130]

Please do a review of the outfits in Emily in Paris and the Do's and Dont's from the same!

[@MademoiselleSpends]

That's a really fun idea!

[@dendritolotl]

Yes please!

[@heenarangwani2175]

Loved the tips at the end. Especially the one about pointing the toe while seated and not starting the movement with the hand but rather with the elbow. And yes, the one about holding the glass. Merci!!

[@avazhou9603]

I love them!

[@cats9164]

Thank you, please more of graceful movements😊

[@MademoiselleSpends]

You got it! 😊

[@marta_na_moto]

agreed, I do take a little bit of inspiration from ballet - the hand poses are graceful. But those were awesone tips. Bring more :D

[@SuplementoFormulleAge]

❤❤❤❤

[@MetyloEtyloMakeup]

Watching other creators taking about style and elegance, I have an impression that it is very hard to find a balance between actually giving advice and nagging ppl. But you're doing an amazing job! 🫡👏 after watching your videos, I feel motivated to improve rather than terrible for not doing it like this before ❤ thank you for that!

[@lilisomogyi7235]

I really like your videos. One thing though, not everyone looks good with golden jewellery :) On me silver looks more elegant, I look cheap and tacky with golden jewellery because my skintone is cool olive. I think it'd be a better advice to find the jewellery that suits your skintone and wear that :)

[@cloudy7235]

Gold jewelry also doesn't just have the "connotation" of being expensive, it actually IS expensive! So, y'know, not all of us can afford it.

[@Sophia-h1k4c]

I used to believe the modern advice of some people looking better/worse in gold or silver metal because of their skin, but then my grandmother (who used to work high up at Vogue) laughed and said that literally everyone looks good in gold. The whole skin tone thing was made up by fashion marketers in the 50s who wanted to convince women that they need different jewelry 😅 So idk, I bet you look great in gold too!

[@athenathegreatandpowerful6365]

For some reason gold looks fake on me. No idea why but it looks like cheap gold plated jewelry so sterling silver or nothing.

[@LexiePersonForever]

I agree, so I usually go for a white gold!

[@athenathegreatandpowerful6365]

@@LexiePersonForever I'm beginning to think I'm allergic to gold. I got contact dermatitis from my class ring, 18kt, Class of 1980, my finger is still sensitive. A bf gave me a gold necklace and same thing happened, ditto two gold crowns on molars, and those were 23kt dental gold. That was a mess.

[@daphnevanemmerik4711]

Love your content! Thanks for sharing your ideas and tips!

[@zuzannavee9558]

I love this! Kind of like etiquette - fascinating and some good tips for looking & feeling confident. I look forward to watching more.

[@janitapanos240]

Fun, beautiful and practical tips and I love your tips on moving gracefully, merci beaucoup!

[@MademoiselleSpends]

I am happy it was helpful!

[@queenofswordwthrone]

i like the elbow before hand trick 😆

[@dehaan714]

It looks like a ballerina 👌🏼

[@Lovenarek]

Same! Such a difference.

[@ismiregalichkochdasjetztso3232]

Your videos are so incredibly useful! This is information that's hard to find elsewhere.

[@evelynfajardo3768]

These videos are so so so awesome, thank you! I’ve been trying to elevate my workwear and these tips have been wonderful. You’ve both affirmed things I’ve intuited on my style journey AND given voice to new things. This is high value content!

[@MademoiselleSpends]

You are so welcome!

[@urvashivalecha3825]

love the gold jewellery tip!

[@Cheri94]

LOVE this channel! You have such great advice, and find myself following them more each day❤️❤️ Your hair is beautiful, would love curls like those❤️

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Thank you so much, I love to share them with you! 😊♥️

[@morningmoodmagic]

Love your content. Please do more.

[@jadebez]

I'd love a video on Good brands on a budget and What products to start with. I love your videos. I've watched everyone one.

[@belenbarriostrincado772]

LOVE THE TIPS! Can we get a video with more tips like those? Best regards from Chile

[@buchyvon]

Very nice! Subtle changes that make a real difference!

[@SashaHighsmith]

Love this channel! I’ve read and watched quite a bit about French style but there’s always things I’d never heard before here!

[@MademoiselleSpends]

I'm so glad!

[@rrosaseconda]

Brilliant new title! Thank you. And the content looks intriguiging!

[@LiNa-yl8qs]

What a wonderful video! Super interesting and helpful! ❤

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Glad it was helpful! ♥️

[@deborahmichele]

Love you and your channel. You have a clear and non-judgmental way of communicating information and seem really comfortable in your own skin; all of which make you very likeable! Really interesting tip on starting a movement from your elbow - like ballet!

[@mariana257nnkj]

I truly love your videos, I was waiting for a new one. Please do moree I love it

[@professormustard75]

Great content! Stylish, practical and easy to implement. Thank you!

[@caribecker5236]

Love this!🥰

[@Annette-ou2bo]

Thank you for your very informative suggestions. I'm going to watch again to really let them sink in.

[@Ms_Wheng]

So great and big help. Different elegant winter hats or caps please. My head gets easily cold also😂

[@jaclynd7342]

You’re brilliant and inspiring, the little details you share about gestures and mannerisms are exactly the kind of things I’ve wondered about but didn’t know what they were or how to learn about them. Thank you!

[@heidytl6114]

Omg I just found your channel and I love it, perfect 🤩

[@utrigg2082]

Amazing business ansd stylish tips! Thanks! It makes my Sunday day ;)) ❤

[@MademoiselleSpends]

♥️

[@caddielovesthebeach6531]

Love your channel, such a fresh perspective! 💖

[@MsFlufette]

Love your channel! Bisous! ❤

[@oksananeven7788]

I am so happy to find this channel! This girl is so pure , grateful and full of serenity….

[@xwkwarw208]

Thank you so much for your great video!! This is exactly the information I have been looking for for years.💛 Not only are you so helpful and concise, you seem like such a lovely person.

[@hunglinliu]

I am just so happy to have found your channel! Everything you said, I have just wished my mom would have known.. and just the way how you balance your way of saying things and show much respect to other ideas, yet to remain clear about your own ideas! Would love love to know more about your opinions on jewelry and how a more curvy women should wear! Also exciting to see if different color women could also pull out the French elegance! Thank you so much!!

[@Catty19748]

I love your hair absolutely beautiful!

[@elisabe2210]

J'adore (en plus du reste) les tips sur la posture, pointer les pieds, commencer le mouvement depuis le coude et tenir du bout des doigts !

[@celinefederici6951]

You have a very kind way of offering advice. Tres Bien and Merci Beaucoup!

[@amandabecker642]

These ere very helpful, thank you! I hope you continue making many more videos; I love this channel.

[@MademoiselleSpends]

I'll keep them coming 😉♥️

[@jenafter40]

Absolutely love your videos and style tips! Thank you!

[@MademoiselleSpends]

You are so welcome!

[@barbarellla1553]

I love your hair❤

[@CathyDahut]

GREAT TIP'S!!!! MANY THANKS!!!!

[@bernardinedevine6055]

I love these. Thanks so much. More please. xx

[@valamiot7066]

So concrète and effective ! 👌❤

[@barbarellla1553]

I love your french English ❤

[@Nature_Gemini]

I love this video. It would be cool to have one that is for how to dress elegantly if you're short/petite. I'm a little dubious that a coat that long would look good on me - I tend to go for knee-length or slightly below and I still feel like it's giant and swimming on me lol. I love the rest of the outfit, though, and the little hand movements. Lots and lots I can learn here.

[@pollykent2100]

Love the hair bun idea! My hair is wavy, but not as full or curly as your beautiful curly hair. When I was working, my perpetual hairstyle was to twist my long hair at the back of my head to conceal the ends, and clip it with one of those toothy hair clips. Kind of a quick and dirty French Twist.

[@BrainGiggles]

Excellent tutorial! Thanks for making this video!

[@chantelouverbojarski6116]

I absolument love your Channel !

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Thank you so much! 😊

[@petraschepeler6383]

Beautiful Video and Great Tipps. Especially those movement hacks are so easy yet make such a difference. Thanks ❤❤

[@MyFocusVaries]

I'm enjoying your content. Thanks for the tips.

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Glad you like them!

[@beatalogioco3990]

I love your smile and positive attitude.

[@beripafi]

J’adore votre page ❤ vous etes charmante.

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Merci!

[@AdelineDurie]

I love your videos so much! Very comprehensive, and not just a wear-this-not-that. I love your entire personality, and your laugh is so cute and engaging. Please always make videos. ❤

[@KaylaDixon-q7m]

Thank you for sharing the makeup and hair tips! I’m so glad to see that my low maintenance hair styles are the same as yours! I also wear very little makeup because I’m concerned with the ingredients affecting my skin negatively. It’s nice to see a more minimalistic perspective of looking elegant.

[@sofipecan8853]

I loved all your tips, they are really helpfull. Since I'm not a girl anymore neither feeling a complete grown ass adult, I'm in the middle of two stages of my life and really needing to start changing the way I dress. so I guess this tips are really convinient when one is trying to change to some style a little bit more elevated but not feeling confortable enough to chage completeley! Thank you so much. PS: I would love to see a video where you could explain in wich ocassions is it better to add a belt to the outfit. Sometimes I feel lost at accesorizing. See you next video!!

[@barbarellla1553]

I was thinking: how old is she🖐️😻

[@FrenchRoseGoddess]

What outstanding tips for elegance! The last, subtle tips, are truly…. fabulous. Thank you xxx ❤🌹❤️

[@ootusscops]

Thanks for a great video. You’re so natural and charming at the same time 😍

[@casebased8391]

Your channel is a gem!

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Thank you!

[@the_heart_knows]

Love your coat, is it from Norway? Lovely videos ❤

[@lady_pink_kurama]

Chère Ariane, J'adore tes vidéos! They are what I was looking for YEARS about being chic, ladylike, effortless etc. And so well explained...! I am amazed. Looking forward to your videos, but no rush, better quality than quantity ;) Salutations chaleureuses de la Suisse

[@MademoiselleSpends]

This went straight to my heart, merci!

[@AngieYoungBeautiful]

Hi! Such a nice video, thank you! 😍Could you please make a video about jewellry rules for elegant looking?

[@RescueDog346]

Thank you so much for this excellent video. I’ve always used cc cream w sunscreen instead of foundation and my skin is thanking it for me now that I’m in my 50’s. I will say your formal gold earrings looked perfect once you added the formal coat and structured bag. Without these elements, I’d tend to wear the simple hoops with a t shirt to keep the vibe consistent. That’s the only area we disagree, but I love how you present your authentic self to the world. I live in a California community with a shocking amount of Botox & plastic surgery. It’s the opposite of authentic & it’s really quite sad.

[@eph·emerald·a]

This is wonderful advice! Can you please do one for short + “round” people? I have now been on antidepressants for a few years and then got cancer (all sorted now) and have gained 30+ kilos from being already a bit overweight starting off. I have no “comfortness” in my body and absolutely hate showing my body. The idea of pretending there is a waist makes me panic and I know that my flowy dresses make me look even larger, but I just cannot see my belly (where most of the extras landed). I am certain I am not the only one who could do with some help!

[@bnielsen6262]

Great video, will definitely have this in mind. I often get overwhelmed because I have a -'all in all out mindset' whenever I do my makeup or have to look put together, which often makes me look overdressed. Thanks!

[@christinestewart2504]

also your hair is gorgeous!!

[@jlyew1898]

I just discovered your channel today, I could not stopped watching your videos! You are elegant, intelligent and awesome! ❤

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Thank you so much for your kind words!

[@jenn976]

Merci, thank you so very much. I LOVE your videos and wish I’d had them 30 years ago. Bur having them now is fine. The tips on the hands and feet are something I’ve never, ever heard of and I used to play for ballet classes. All of your tips are superb, really. And may I say, I love your hair.

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Thank you for your kind words!

[@nargesghorbani6719]

Please do more videos. I really like your content. Always check your channel

[@Tenwii]

Wow! Thank you! I want to look elegant, but wind up looking a bit "close .... but not quite". I start with flowing gestures today!

[@ching-yaolo8242]

I tried the puffer jacket underneath my coat today and it was great!!! It's getting really chilly now here 🇳🇱 and I love this simple hack. Thank you!!

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Oh I’m so glad ☺️

[@Emma_Reed]

I sincerely enjoy this channel. Thank you, Mademoiselle Spends! My mom has taught me a lot of tips, and yet there are still nuances I picked up from your video content. The links with the items you wear/talk about are very helpful. I love the Pablo pants, and if I figure the sizing I'd order one. Hopefully they ship to Germany.

[@jennifermoss6882]

Your hair is so beautiful 😍 You're just so cool

[@annmasaltseva1081]

I just love your energy and the way you put the information together is perfect. I understand everything and I feel inspired to put on my clothes (or go shopping). As opposed to feeling lost usually in a store and in front of my wardrobe. Please do more videos:)) It's a pleasure to look at you and listen to you

[@alperry02]

The tips at the end are amazing! I never thought about slightly pointing my toes while seated. But now that you mention it, I see so many models do this. Your videos are wonderful!

[@courtneymayo_]

Would love to see chic winter outfits and shoes. Just because it is getting very cold now and I'm working on figuring out outfits that keep me warm but also look put together

[@OlgaZatovska]

I've seen just a few videos but I liked them so much! Very interesting, useful with that charming smile and effortless performance!

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Thank you!

[@evalindell2757]

Anything French, real French like you, is good enough for me to follow along! Have soo many fun memories from trips to France and have always loved the country side, the small towns, the west coast, the food, the wine, the fashion and some parts of Paris! Lots of love from Sweden 🇸🇪

[@francescapeters7005]

I’ve just discovered your channel and it’s amazing, I’ve introduced my daughters to it as well 😊

[@oichi222]

I love your videos so much, all of them are to the point and very helpful. You taught me how to dress elegantly after I've watched just 3 of your videos. Each one of the rules you mentioned includes and excludes many items of clothing which taught me how to dress elegantly right away. Plus, I didn't feel the need to go out and buy new items, everything I needed I already had in my wardrobe. Your channel is the best channel *To learn how to dress and what to buy and avoid buying*, I told my friend about you and I want to tell everyone 😂

[@christinagerontaki3486]

J'adore french effortless chic!

[@mariajoseclimentramirez]

for hair, my best trick when its no longer clean, is to make a high ponytail, and braid it, it gives a bit more of a sexy look since i've got long hair, but it truly works with pretty much everything

[@thelittlefoxy]

The start the movement from your elbow is something thought to ballet dancers! We get taught that to indeed make our movements look more elegant and less stiff 😊

[@sandrar477]

J'adore les astuces !! Les gens me disent que je m'habille plutôt à la française - mais j'apprends bcp avec vous! Juste une question - je ne connais pas la "cc cream" - puis-je avoir un peu plus d'informations là dessus ? Avec mes 39+ ans je ne mets jamais de fond de teint et ma peau et lisse - tout de même, je cherche qqch pour les occasions spéciales - si vous avez des informations, j'en suis preneuse volontaire ! Merci et bonne journée !😊

[@barbarellla1553]

Try It Cosmetics or Erborian. Or Korean one❤

[@FreeSpiritinLightandLove]

Love your video! Thank you. New subscriber. ❤

[@lartdelavivre1]

Like you advice on "little subtle things/movements" that make huge different. Thank you and keep "little subtle things/movements" which make us lady more feminine coming.

[@flamingofan5411]

Great advice! Thank you!

[@MademoiselleSpends]

You are so welcome!

[@athenathegreatandpowerful6365]

​@@MademoiselleSpendsperhaps an odd question, I don't wear trousers. Would you do a video on elegant skirts?

[@fabulousfamily564]

I want to know which hair products you use, and more info on hair tricks.

[@ankesperinger2182]

Great video! Thank you very much! Does this also apply to curvy women or should I pay attention to other details? Maybe you can also make videos for special body shapes in between, if that makes a difference. ❤

[@SerineSahakyan-xd2nt]

Thank you so much! I did enjoy the video.

[@katyelizabeth8594]

Love your channel :-) Could you do videos on hair and makeup? Thank you

[@chronic2023]

Amazing how small things can make an impression.

[@elainekolmar6898]

Thank you very much. Could you please make a video about what kind of “bag, purse” to use with casual shoes. I appreciate it

[@annak1371]

Thank you.

[@natalianosova-sexton6128]

I was a bit sceptical at first, but you make amazing videos and great points!

[@MademoiselleSpends]

Thank you!

[@evagyurkovics4506]

Great video again! 😊😊😊 Thank you ❤❤❤❤

[@kasondaleigh]

Excellent advice.

[@LaisDelay]

What an wonderful channel 🤗 Could please share an old money makeup video? Thank you!!

[@irnalonso]

At last someone with take the word effortless seriously! I loved the video because I really can implement this routine in weekdays and I would love more effortless outfit ideas. What would you recommend instead of mascara? I wear glasses and I don't like It that much. Maybe some eyeliner?