10 Taboo Questions in the USA: NEVER ask these questions

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[@donho8610]

I'm from Vietnam, and we talk about everything and anything, of course you would start a light conversation with stranger, and the more you know people, the more personal questions you can ask. One thing we try to avoid is to bring up some questions that would stir up their emotions and make them cry, like asking about a closed person to them who just passed/died. We are still considerate to not upset people unnecessarily. I have lived in Canada for 30 years, and wish I know about this earlier, so people don't look at me in strange ways when I ask the wrong questions. Thank you very much for your lessons. You're are one of my best teachers. And I appreciate your lessons very much! Stay well and happy!💯❤

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I love the way you said they are all Americans. That's really kind.

[@蔡英语-x6q]

Now, I finally know why people start a conversation about the weather.

[@jane0001]

Because all the other things are "none of your business." Thank God we have at least weather which is common business.

[@suaptoest]

Political correctness has ruined the possibilities for normal debate.

[@azraahmed2891]

Same here

[@jamrodrigoquezada3906]

that's universal

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[@Hiandeveryoneji]

Hello palak

[@mdsadabalam9434]

@@Hiandeveryoneji mind your own business

[@pasqualesimonelli1513]

@@mdsadabalam9434 American moment

[@himanshurawat9933]

Wow! Keep enlightening us. Congratulations on the birth of your sweet baby!

[@lalakids497]

Hello I am Korean 👋 This is the first time to see U :) it was very useful video for me. Several questions are taboo not only in America but also in other countries. I totally agree with you 👍

[@SpeakEnglishWithVanessa]

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@@SpeakEnglishWithVanessa Trump has overtly insulted a Chinese- America journalist, to go and ask something in China! That was scary!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@مختاراتمنالشعر]

@@SpeakEnglishWithVanessa it's a great lesson I got blocked in Facebook because I asked someone what he is doing for living. also I am wondering what is the name of your baby?!if you don't mind to say that.

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You're the best English teacher I've ever seen on KZbin. I love your tone of voice and your facial expressions. And your baby, he is absolutely adorable!!!! Have a lovely day : ) ♡

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[@afridi609]

Yes my dear friend

[@fy9602]

@@janhavi8217 Does this teacher teach American English or Canadian English?

[@janhavi8217]

@@fy9602 Hello! She teaches American English

[@sellesor1]

I am from the Philippines. I don't think we have a Taboo in our country. Most of the people here are always curious to someone else's life. 😝 Thank you so much for your video. It's my daily dose of English. I always start my morning with your vids. More power!!God bless you!

[@lolitahaze02]

Some people don't they take it too kindly when tourists are honest about how dirty our streets are. Lol.

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[@lizajha-1o]

Vanessa, Thank you very much for this important information. Really, you're the best teacher in the world! Love from Canada. 🇨🇦❤

[@mohammedrashid7550]

You are the best English teacher and your smile makes me feel positive

[@alexa9771]

I was working in US and my colleagues where all day long talking about salaries (I worked in 2 companies btw in different states) u are too polite ☺️☺️

[@mohammadkarimi4495]

It is a good idea. We all learn different cultures in this lesson. The best teacher and we all respect the culture of each country.

[@patriciafiguereidodesousa9037]

"Are you pregnant?", it's a rude question in Brazil too.

[@milaozz3522]

This is a very rude question to ask in Russia as well!☺

[@biancalima5341]

@@milaozz3522 In Brazil it is taboo.... only if it is when the woman doesn't know who the child's father is ...hehehe

[@thomas7726]

I don't think so! It is a taboo if someone gives pregnancy tips to a pregnant woman, but this question "are you pregnant" is ok...

[@vocesabetudo]

iae Brasil

[@nargesmoradi4055]

But in Iran its not

[@amirebrahimi2130]

I saw this video today. I think your beautiful baby is now older and can speak native English by herself and strengthen our listening skills! Thank you for your great KZbin channel

[@josealvarez3045]

The cute baby looks like "who is talking with my mom. I can't find any person"

[@SpeakEnglishWithVanessa]

Yes, he was so confused. haha! 😊❤️

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[@nicocool7992]

it's what my English class looks like, I mean my teacher speaking something and I try to catch! except my face doesn't look so cute.

[@PauloCaze]

The baby pays attention to Vanessa's hand movement... so cute! 😍😘

[@freefiregaming-gx5jf]

@@josealvarez3045 hi

[@remicottin2443]

Vanessa, this lesson is so important for each of us. In France, as you probably know, you generaly avoid to ask directly about political opinions and choices to people you don't know very well. Whereas in Poland it's a very common question... So from one country to another, it varies so much.

[@martinberan2136]

In France, it’s better to be quiet if you don’t know French. Otherwise French will be very rude and will not answer even in the store…

[@michelle-ni5eu]

see, im from the netherlands, and the people here are very very direct. we would as those questions in a heartbeat. and ive actually heard from many americans that of course they find it a little strange but that they actually really appreciated it. what’s so bad about being direct?

[@mariaalexandragutierrez6810]

Wow. I think these are valuable life lessons. Thank you Vanessa. Greetings from Colombia.

[@simayyldz5259]

These are questions that should not be asked in all cultures. If everyone could be this way, I'm sure the world would be a better place 🌻

[@englishwithmiranda]

So true ❤

[@gunner678]

Exactly. An SBO A statement of the blindingly obvious.

[@dalesplitstone6276]

Why? The only one of these questions that could possibly trigger me is "Are you pregnant?" As a 67 yo American man, I have always found it humorous when somebody addressed me a "ma'am", but I suppose that I might be triggered, if they caught me in the right mood, by asking if I was pregnant.

[@aeganratheesh]

Not really.........Other countries don't worship gays like Americans do

[@vusalnovruzov5412]

@@aeganratheesh They dont worship they respect their rights. Not only theirs but also all the people's rights no matter what their sexual orientation, race, heritage, financial situation and etc are. That's why they are the best.

[@jessiezhang9089]

Wow! So happy to see your baby . Your baby was learning as youtube viewers were. Thanks for your teaching. What a wonderful mommy you are!

[@MachadoMadeiras]

I suffer with a family question situation. A lady that I use to work with got too shocked with my question. At the end, she explained me about the culture in US.

[@architas.anubha3447]

Love you Vanessa Your lessons are always great. I am learning American English with you

[@pinapon8026]

When I had just moved to London, my neighbour - who is from India - asked me about my husband’s job, and the name of his company, when we were having small chat at our parking space. I felt a little uncomfortable with that, because I thought it was a very direct question, and we just met. But at that time, I wanted to have good relationship with him, so I told him my husband’s name and his company's name. I expected him to tell his company’s name, too, but he didn’t; and I couldn’t ask because I had my hands full trying to understand his fast English.😅I don't know if it's common in cosmopolitan city. I am Japanese.

[@SpeakEnglishWithVanessa]

Thanks for sharing, Heichi. I have the same feeling as you. In the US, it would be rude to ask specific details about someone's company or where they live, etc. when you first meet. Usually we ask general questions, so "What do you do?" (this means "What is your job?") is possibly okay if you have been talking for a few minutes together about small talk. But it's more unusual to ask about your husband's job.

[@amolsamant9348]

Even in India it's quite rude to ask this question when you meet someone for the first time .

[@VeraPlatonova]

Culture is soo interesting thing. It makes us to think and to act in certain way.. I think it is more serious thing then the language barrier. It was interesting to find out your experience) After that I've started to think about culture at all.

[@Phoebegb.A]

It's same happened in Malaysia.. As a foreign who stay at that country I really feel sick of their taboos

[@twinkle334]

In India, It's quite common to ask what somebody do, and also, asking name is very very common, but asking for income is rude.

[@marwanelmoiz5665]

I'm a new immigrant in USA I live in Michigan and your videos are useful for me Thanks a lot Vanessa keep going

[@assia3041]

I speak English like you the American way I hope I'm more fluent than I'm now... I'm so grateful to you 😍🤗🤗

[@verasilva7643]

I loved your baby! Thank you very much for your lesson and for showing us your baby!

[@thuhuyen4603]

I love you Vanessa! 🥰 You are the greatest teacher i've ever watched.

[@mateo_on_youtube]

By the way, although this is not a question, saying I love you to an American is a taboo, too. Using the word "like" is more correct in your context, unless you are a ... Oh another taboo again😅

[@samiabensalem19]

May God bless your toddler ! So adorable!

[@jameshan1720]

Baby is cute. His eyes are tracking mom's hand moving. Cute 😙

[@imanemahou3062]

i agree

[@rexceldejesus3807]

Hi Teacher Vanessa, .im from Philippines and always watching your lovely and knowledgeable English teaching video, .So helpful; especially working abroad and speaking English all the time.Thank you.God bless you and your whole family.

[@twinkle334]

Hey Vanessa! This is Twinkle from India. We have the same taboo topics as in US and even more. Asking about family, kids and marriage are a kind of taboo talks, but actually, in our nation, these are really common questions one asks, usually in small towns and villages and also by elders in city area. These questions are not considered good and old fashioned but still there are many people who ask. But it's considered as a bad manner.

[@prabhatksri]

It does not come as taboo in India. We, the Indians are very much considered with each other. Asking such questions are not taboo. We share each other’s feelings.

[@navoditadas6162]

Warmest congratulations.....your baby so cute!! Lots of love!!

[@Stella_Del_Mattino]

Down here in Italy, taboo topics are pretty much like the ones you'd been talking about in your clip, Vanessa. Take care. Love from Italy 😘

[@justahpersah2232]

What about pineapple on pizza?

[@Stella_Del_Mattino]

@@justahpersah2232, pineapple 🍍 on pizza 🍕? Pizza "was born" in Naples. Hey, no pineapples around Naples, right? So......., no way, man. Forget it. 😉😉😉😊😊😊

[@hussienmohamed464]

these taboo topics that you talked about is exactly the same in the majority of world countries and in egypt as well as, i really appreciate your lessons, and await them every week 💕♥️

[@danieleoduro3829]

How many cultures do you know?? Stop generalizing because it doesnt apply to all cultures!!! Just because you agree with her list doesnt mean it applies to ALL cultures. Rather talk about your culture! Grazie

[@jultenthuba3241]

I live in Indonesia, the most of our people do not like to be asked about the family, and sexuality questions, too personal. All of the taboos you have explained it is better if the questions are not asked in our country 🙏. Even in ourselves, we still do the unrespect questions lol 😀

[@qudsiaanjum8382]

I like you very much. I love your way of teaching. It's natural and friendly. Thank you for your time. I also want to speak English fluently.

[@ektapandey7109]

Really ! Beauty with brain is back 💗 God bless ❣️ and helpful lesson .

[@mohammadsayfaddin1215]

Thanks for your information you are really a good teacher.

[@Rhea9991]

If it's a taboo then why do I get asked by "Americans" where I'm from? Always. It's super annoying.

[@JY-um4su]

Because u might be obviously from outside the US (hint by ur accent).Then this becomes a proper context where they could raise that question.

[@Rhea9991]

@@JY-um4su I get that question sometimes even before I speak. But the point here is if you don't want to be asked where are you from then you should not be asking someone else that question too.

[@Rhea9991]

@@JY-um4su that is what I was trying to say that it is not a taboo atleast with what I have experienced.

[@juventiniindonesia8715]

@@Rhea9991 i got same experience LOL

[@Mountshasta]

Yeah, me too¡¡¡¡¡ All the timeeeeee¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ I hate that¡¡¡¡¡ and I usually reply: why? They answer: oh I was just curious 😒😒🤨🤨

[@BoldBass24]

100% agree with you. In my country you can hear any of topics you mentioned but it’s absolutely inappropriate for me. You are cool. Thanks a lot.

[@vimalprakash4851]

Thank you so much, ma'am! I have learnt a lot from your videos.🙏🙏

[@nalinikrana15]

Hello Ma'am, I am Nalini & I'm 16, one of your students and I have started watching your videos from the beginning (which you posted 5 years ago) and I really liked this video. I'm from India and yep, almost all the taboo topics are same in India and in the US. I really wanted to ask you how is Theo? Cuttuu Cuttuu baby... ☺️☺️ Well, I also have a little baby Brother, he's 2 years hahaha..... 😊😊

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Thanks for learning English with me! Theo loves his baby brother. 😊❤️

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@@SpeakEnglishWithVanessa Awwww....😊😊 This is really so heart warming.... ♥️♥️♥️

[@이금재-b3u]

Thanks Vanessa. I watched this program yesterday, and now, I'm watching it again. Your baby is very very cute.

[@JesusGonzalezzz]

We ask these 10 taboo questions all the time here in Mexico even with unknown people and I always have thought these topics are rudes and innapropiatte talk about with strangers, great video!

[@alaaelsyed9446]

I am alaa from Egypt . Your lessons helped me alot to improve my English and not just that you make me love speaking English alot and make all i can do to speak like you 😍😍😍❤❤Thanks to you alot ❤❤❤❤😍

[@user-lv6dy4tc9k]

The most important topic in my country Morocco is don't say to your friend your sister is beautiful or I love your sister or how old she is And don't ask someone are you divorced! And finally thank you Vanessa!

[@nethus1635]

I think Vennesaa, you have done a great job teaching us how to be polite in this video. When people are forgetting to be polite, I'd recommend them to watch your videos.

[@healingremedy708]

Thank you so much for your great lesson, Vanessa. Let me share my experience with you and others. I'm from Korea and have lived in an English speaking country for over 11 years. Once I worked with such a lovely and sweet girl who is originally from this country. One day, we were chatting with another colleague who is from China and he said he has a young sister who is 9 years younger than him in China. Then she asked him if his parents divorced and his sister was his half-sister. I am so sure she never meant to hurt him and I understand that it is so common(?) to have parents separated and to have stepbrothers and/or half-sisters in Western culture. But in Korea (and possibly in China)we never ask this kind of question and also never mention to the person even though you know it unless he/she wants to talk about it. And one more thing, I seriously want to ask Europeans, Please stop asking me(or to other Koreans) if do I eat dogs when we just meet!!!!!!! When I travel to Europe, I had that same question over and over. It was like this, European: Where are you from? Me: I'm from Korea. European: Oh, Korean! Do you eat dogs? Me: (Oh, not again!!!!!!!!!) This question is like, you ask Germans if their grandfather was a Nazzi!!!

[@lifeinsequence]

Lol

[@kevinwalsh1619]

If they ask me that, I usually say that as far as I know my family was kicked out of Germany in the late 19th Century before that went down. I did once meet another German-American whose grandfather was the commander of the submarine that sank the Lusitania. Koreans do sometimes seem surprised when I tell them I knew someone who visited Pyongyang.

[@Reggre14]

OMG, I used to ask someone about their originally contry. Thank you for the lesson!

[@thusaigon5452]

The questions on marriage, children, general are taboo everywhere, but they are common topics among relatives in Asian countries. “When will you get married?” to 30s age or “When is your plan to have baby” to a some-year married couple always cause uncomfortable 😞

[@sumithrahj6951]

Ever I came across a teacher like vanessa . Your explanations had improved lots of english skills in me tq very much vanessa mam😍😍

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Your kid is really adorable! I hope I can compliment you on this))

[@monteiro5306]

Many thanks Vanessa. Greetings from a Brazilian subscriber.

[@adrianm.1732]

My main take from this video is that is not taboo if you say "If you don't mind me asking" in front of the question. Thanks Vanessa! 😅👍

[@loganmoody1816]

Be careful, "if you dont mind me asking" can imply that they shouldn't be offended. If you say something that offends them a lot after saying "if you dont mind me asking" it can make it worse.

[@miraada7979]

It always gives me the joy to listen to you. Thank you for your lessons again.

[@seanc2298]

Oh my, I feel pretty embarrassed. Cuz I've already asked soemone about these questions. I really need to pay attention about these later. Thank you for your this video.

[@mateo_on_youtube]

It raised a question to me. Is it grammatically correct to say "your this video". In my native language we have it. But in English I haven't heard such a thing?

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@@mateo_on_youtube oh, it was my wonder too!

[@PMA65537]

@@mateo_on_youtube your or this - not both

[@dalesplitstone6276]

@@mateo_on_youtube Oh, get real. I am a native English speaker and have often made mistakes like this in comments, especially when I change my mind about how I want to say something, and forget to backspace to delete the original word/phrase.

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Hello Vanessa teacher again! I adore all the lessons that you’re adopting are so incredible for me.

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Hello!

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@@sachiniramasinghe9678 Yeah! You're totally right here, she's a positive 'n' radiant person as well and I do love her as a teacher 'n' maybe even just as a woman (why not?..) And certainly, teacher's technique of hers is also beyond any praise.

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@@sachiniramasinghe9678 I saw her several times when I was living in the Louisiana (a while ago) I used to live in the same state as her, when she hasn't been a famous blogger yet that time. But she was already a well-known English teacher with a big enough audience. Are you satisfied with my reply?

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[@shakoushshakoush2718]

Here in Egypt if we follow these rules we will live in comfort thank you Vanessa very much I benefit from you so much and I really love you so much thank you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@anaismenival3566]

Hii, I'm a french student and I can tell you that we have the same taboo questions in France! :)

[@thankuslay6766]

Do French people hate to speak English?

[@imreachingthetop1057]

@@thankuslay6766 no , they want to speak it but they find some difficulties to do that !

[@mateo_on_youtube]

I have heard that they are told that French has been going to become the International Language and because of that the French hate English(language and people) By the way I love French and I'm learning that in parallel with English. So I guess this is going to be a taboo question in France: Vous est marriee? Ou sur d'argent de un personne😉. Am I right?

[@Ja-wu2jc]

@@mateo_on_youtube hi 😄 I'm French and I can assure you, we do not hate English people or language, it's true that a lot of French people don't speak English but it's just because of the teaching at school 😅 and yes, asking someone how much they make per month is super rude and "are you married? "is not that rude, it's just considered weird 😅😄 that is actually so cool you're learning French ! 😄😄

[@mateo_on_youtube]

@@Ja-wu2jc That's weird. I thought in the Europe the teaching methods, esp. for languages are quite well and it's only a problem for developing countries like Iran(my own country). If it's not right so why do people come to Europe to study(if they don't know how to teach their own students English!?)

[@ratanmonisaikia9239]

One of the cutest babies l have ever seen, little angel with his mom.Your style of expression is exceptionally brilliant, mam,waiting for the next one with your gifted child.

[@elisaember9084]

In Brazil it is not polite to ask someone how much he earns per month, his salary.

[@YJoey27]

I think this is not an appropriate topic in all countries.

[@bernanribeiro3329]

And the most importantly, don´t tell to you mother-in-law!

[@thankuslay6766]

Literally in every country

[@vivicarme]

Really @Elisa Ember ... then ... How much money do you make per month?????

[@MultiBupa]

@@YJoey27 You're wrong. In some countries like China this is very common, even with strangers. That's cultural 😁

[@insanarif301]

❤ My country from Indonesia, I enjoy how you to speak in English, and I follow it

[@alekalekwise2312]

I have lived in the States for 30 years and finally I learned that all this time I had to be silent!

[@carloscastrowilenmann321]

It,s very saf

[@nuckensdorvilier1007]

Hello miss ,are you fine , I really love the way you speak and you are here for helping all English learners

[@giovannacarioca3538]

Seeing as we are talking about prejudice and all, I think it's important to implant the culture we have 3 Americas, and the "american culture" you reference in the video it's just the north American. This subject is growing nowadays, and I think we have to talk about it (sorry for my mistakes, I'm learning English)

[@drrodriguez9530]

Only America that counts 🇺🇸 they know who she referring to 😂

[@lindsaybabcock1207]

I’m a native English speaker (from the US), and I loved your video, lol!!! I watched it from start to finish. Also, your baby is precious!!!

[@justaiming5587]

Awwwww, vanessa mam your baby is sooooo cute, really he's super cute, I can't move my eyes from him😍😍😍btw, you're an amazing teacher, hats off to you mam😊

[@nilofarsharifi945]

Vanessa, thank you so much. God bless you. I just love the way you talk and explain.

[@breath3127]

I have one taboo topic that is about Rich and poor kind of person's. And love from India 🤗🤗 plzz Ripley me

[@mohsinazhar1127]

Great teacher ever seen in the world❤❤

[@artanbehmard151]

3:25 I'm still thinking how is it possible for 2 really close friends to ask each other "are you married?" 😂

[@anabass8556]

I love your explanation , you are the best. I am from Brazil.

[@honeydew75]

I'm Russian and I find a lot of these topics are also taboo here in situations when you don't know each other very well, at least for my generation(under 25 years old)

[@МашаКулага-ю4з]

Да)) согласна

[@alexander7178]

poxui ))

[@paulstrahnickiy1724]

Yea, your remark about age is important :)

[@Александр-р7ь8х]

Ага, Дудю это расскажи

[@alexeizuzin]

Зэтс интернейшенэл коммуникейшкн рулз. Бат уэн ю хэв смол дикшенери, ю вонт то аск самсинк стрэйт.

[@dianagovasary]

Dear Vanessa, I so much love and adore your English Channel!!! It so much helped me!!!! Thank you so very much for your great work!!!!! 🙏❤️❤️❤️ God Bless you and your beautiful family 😊🌸😚😚😚

[@robsonfaxas]

I think all of these questions are also wrong to ask in Brazil, the majority of our people don't respect it! ^^'

[@douglasdeoliveira1905]

Eu só li verdades .

[@shrosha]

The same here, in Georgia.

[@Beatriz-tm1rh]

"None of our people" is too much, there are many polite people here

[@denisefernandes8975]

@@Beatriz-tm1rh I agree🙃😊

[@mihot5307]

The same here in Japan. Especially older generation don't care. Most of them can't be polite 😩

[@francomarini560]

Good job, as usual, Vanessa! In Italy too those 10 questions are taboo when we are talking to people we've just met or collegues at work. It was so nice to see your child looking at you as if very interested in what you were saying....so cute!

[@joy2000cyber]

I went to America to learn English and expected people correcting my grammar in my talk. But nobody ever did that. Later I found out it’s not polite to correct others’ grammar if it’s not in English class. Same way nobody ever reminds me I am asking taboo questions, because itself is not polite.

[@kevinwalsh1619]

I think part of it is that many Americans have different standards of grammar. For example, some Texans use "fixin to" to make the future tense, though that isn't taught in standard grammar.

[@yacinemechachebi74]

You are the best teacher madam , thank you so much , merci beaucoup .

[@busayovictorosuntuyi4716]

Hello Vanessa, Is this question right: "how was your night?" One of the taboo questions in Nigeria (in Yoruba tribe expecially) is asking how many children one has

[@SpeakEnglishWithVanessa]

Thanks for sharing this taboo question!

[@alinemendes937]

I'm brazilian and I am loving your channel! You are amazing! Sucess❤😊

[@leilaahmed3327]

The taboo questions in my country are asking Male's salary and female age and weight.

[@minukarodrigo]

It's kind of common, isn't it?

[@dontcare1818]

I am sure Arabian country

[@thalitapimentel6376]

Is it ok to ask about a woman's salary?

[@mohamedel-kiran1265]

@@thalitapimentel6376 probably women don't work in our counties Men are the breadwinners In most Arab countries

[@thalitapimentel6376]

@@mohamedel-kiran1265 I see...

[@anselotsaintelus1253]

I just like the way she pronounces the words honestly she’s inspired me so much ❤️❤️

[@ruthgosa2634]

In our country it is taboo to ask male's salary and females age

[@NickName-mn6jm]

Hmm isn't this the case anywhere?

[@SpeakEnglishWithVanessa]

This is another taboo topic! Thanks for sharing.

[@Thomas.Deverell]

Sexism!

[@thankuslay6766]

That's common thing. Smh

[@suchanaakter3402]

I'm learning so much day by day through your lessons. Thanks a lot teacher. Stay safe and secure.

[@raffaelevalente7811]

7:18 Here in Italy it is normal asking "where are you *really* from?". They asked me a lot in the 70s when I moved from Naples to the North-West of Italy 😂

[@dalesplitstone6276]

I worked with a woman who claimed to be full blooded Italian. I said, "Strange, because you a handsome like many Cherokee women." After this, she admitted that she was mostly Cherokee. Interesting note: In many early westerns Native Americans were played by Italian actors, so some Americans think Native Americans look like Italians.

[@ezequielgervasio]

I like to hear you because the way you speak is so easy to understand that it make me feel as if I were native English speaker, but I'm at intermediate level 😁

[@riehafsah4469]

I'm not a US citizen, but being asked all those questions makes me frown too. But I can't help it. People here won't let go the intrusive manner

[@joeycheung4885]

It is a very very very nice video. I have lived in U.S for 10 years, and I witnessed so many times that people were accidentally offended. If more people have such social etiquettes, less people would be hurt.

[@ngontran]

I guess the only person who can ask "Are you pregnant?" is the Doctor! :D

[@dalesplitstone6276]

Well, maybe a woman's husband.

[@aidaabtahi2929]

Wow!!!how smoothly you teach us

[@celiacurry3058]

HOW LOVELY YOUR BB IS.

[@sandhusabb0]

I study in 9th standard. Wholeheartedly, ur the best teacher. I catch you very easily

[@akruijff]

In The Netherland you can call someone your partner if you are married. You can ask what something cost but not what someone makes.

[@jamespatrickpope2567]

It is the same in Australia