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@montanamtngirl Жыл бұрын
Women want these same traits in a man. Add on loyalty, honesty, trustworthiness and someone that will not cheat!🤘
@eveadame1059 Жыл бұрын
GREAT POINTS! 🌹🌿
@LeonEdwardsAesthetic Жыл бұрын
Yeah. Let's put money aside coz money matters everywhere not only in a relationship. Even you are single money still matters in your life. So money is very common thing in our life.
@fly463 Жыл бұрын
Is that why you guys keep nagging all the time?
@ChenBeixuancultivatingnshieeet Жыл бұрын
more woman cheat now, they don't consider it cheating though
@michaelrodriguez332911 ай бұрын
Marry the Pope then 😊
@kinndah25198 ай бұрын
They want agreeableness but still want us opinionated lol.
@madly_beaver87485 ай бұрын
There gotta be a balance to it
@kinndah25195 ай бұрын
@@madly_beaver8748 Yes it's called Compromise, which EVERYONE should be like.
@macxavier1683 ай бұрын
Share your opinions in a polite, respectful manner. Simple.
@kinndah25193 ай бұрын
@@macxavier168 Most of us do. Then it's labeled by an inadequate husband as "complaining." Then if we keep asking they call it "nagging." When we've had enough and divorce and get our equal share...we're called "bad women" or "gold diggers." At least by Western men. This is why I stuck with a man from our Arab culture. They're a lot more compassionate, stronger, educated, generous, and not competitive with their women.
@AutumnRain11113 ай бұрын
Lol i caught that too and they were back to back lol . That was kind of funny though
@whyjustwhy2168 Жыл бұрын
I have all of them still single
@McNotSassyLostChild5 ай бұрын
Yeah same but I haven’t been actively trying to date since high school lmao
@LizaS191Ай бұрын
😊😊
@angelabell72546 ай бұрын
Far Out Man! Anything else? Would you like Fries with that list? 😂
@kathart.617234 ай бұрын
Loyalty should be at the top of the list.
@lex28lush10Ай бұрын
What he means is if we lack any of these qualities, then men would wander off someone else... I'm just done with men
@geraldineharvey680415 күн бұрын
Amen
@leelee25148 ай бұрын
Agreeable and opinionated 😅
@WoWBloodrend6 ай бұрын
Glad it wasn't just me 😂
@lex28lush10Ай бұрын
They always say somewhere in the middle
@Notmyrealname099Ай бұрын
Yeah, I guess it means she has her own opinions. But going with the flow is not agreeableness either.
@SeoJun-Sara9711 ай бұрын
‘opinionated’…don’t be afraid to share them? When we do…we are called stubborn.
@bubbles685310 ай бұрын
maybe your opinions are stupid and led by emotions instead of logic?
@Yan_Yan2098 ай бұрын
Some opinions have boundaries.
@eac-guy72727 ай бұрын
Men will say you're masculine not stubborn
@JustMe543286 ай бұрын
I think expressing opinion in a polite way is very welcome, and MOST opinions donot have to be binding.
@eemeitang5 ай бұрын
Some opinions are more eq than others
@makai2174 Жыл бұрын
I never heard a guy say “I want an independent woman”😂…independent literally means independent of men🤦🏽♂️
@annikajade3577 Жыл бұрын
Oh please, you’re also probably the type to complain about clingyness and a lack of adventurism in a woman.
@makai2174 Жыл бұрын
@@annikajade3577 wth that gotta do wit anything I just said
@thealienwatcher540 Жыл бұрын
Some of the Tibetans, the Somali etc kidnap women and force them to work for men for the rest of their lives while men do little. There are so many cultures out there that consider themselves conservative that actually do that
@looking4therealrepairmanjack10 ай бұрын
@@makai2174Hi! I think what he means by independent is a woman who can take care of herself, by herself. That she can live alone and doesn't *need* to constantly be in a relationship, that she's just fine being alone. That she can handle her business without help from a man, like paying her rent and all of her other bills. I don't think he meant it in the very "woke feminist" way. I know you've heard or seen these women that very loudly and very often say "I don't need no man! He better feel lucky to have me! He better not think I'm going to take care of him, cook and clean for him!" etc. Basically, a woman whose life wouldn't fall apart financially if you left her. I hope I was able to clear that up for you. If not, let me know! I'd be happy to answer any questions! ~Signed, A very happy woman who lives completely alone (my son is grown and has his own life) and would love to start dating again and share my life with someone who has those same qualities mentioned in the video because I have all of those qualities, too! (I'm not ugly or obese, either! Lol!)
@rickilake48389 ай бұрын
It’s men who love that and made songs about that ( blk men) so they won’t have to be the provider and fit the bill by themselves!
@kanhuspooja Жыл бұрын
Sense of humor Intelligence Kindness Opinionated Character Affectionate Independent Confidence Ambition Humility stay grounded
@happyhappyjoyjoy327511 ай бұрын
Opinionated
@happyhappyjoyjoy327511 ай бұрын
Humility
@mahhim709011 ай бұрын
All check …..but trying to be more confident and improve my self ❤😊
@looking4therealrepairmanjack10 ай бұрын
@@mahhim7090Lol! I grimaced on that one, too! I guess 10 out of 11 isn't too bad, though!😅
@eileenstasczak660610 ай бұрын
Thank you for the list! Did you mean "opinionated" and "humility"? We've all been too quick on the trigger finger and checked spelling!😄
@teaparameter5721 Жыл бұрын
Don't really change yourself for the sake of a partner though. Find someone that loves you for who you are/ who you are working to be
@zayyantariq298 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@iwanttokillmyself20610 ай бұрын
😂😂
@sonam948710 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@lex28lush10Ай бұрын
What's so funny with those 2 .. ? Why are they laughing ?
@godxrocker8684Ай бұрын
Don’t hope that a man will love even if you’re a red flag.Change if think you are not good enough to deserve that kinda love
@habibaroyees Жыл бұрын
A man who will not cheat,kind and strong
@lumity238 Жыл бұрын
Right
@MichellesdesignsEtc Жыл бұрын
Agreeableness but is opinionated.... hmmm men want a paradox lol
@MA-202010 ай бұрын
I lost at that too. It would make more sense if he said easy-going instead of agreeableness
@kinndah25198 ай бұрын
That's what I said lol. I was looking for someone else who picked that up. They want us to agree with everything they want and say, but we're supposed to also be opinionated. Wtf?
@Cierajewel7 ай бұрын
Balance, ladies, balance. He wants a healthy mix of all of this.. they like the dance.. keeps them coming back for more.. remember, too much of any particular thing isn’t good. 😉
@macxavier1683 ай бұрын
You can have an opinion and still allow your man to make decisions that affect both of you.
@blessinguzoamaka965510 ай бұрын
Many men don't even know what they want
@LaceAndCorsets7 ай бұрын
It's mostly subconscious
@santsrp9526 ай бұрын
These are boys
@Suhani_Paliwal19784 ай бұрын
Looks..and looks...perhaps is the only quality they seek for...those aren't men actually...still kids or boys merely
@randyrodriguez61182 ай бұрын
The same goes 4 women
@danielleo68558 күн бұрын
Honestly! I hear all these things and think man there's a side they ain't going to like about each of these... And they aren't able to verbalize what that particular thing is ...
@snehadhanawade9867 ай бұрын
What i like in a man ,is can he do sacrifice, compromise, adjustment for me , does he keep me happy, does he have integrity, empathy, understanding, honesty ,respect , does he treat me more specially than others around him , does he value me,my opinion,my advice, is he trustworthy, responsible, loyal ,faithful, God fearing etc .Just to name a few.
@lauriejordan27168 ай бұрын
I don’t know if this was meant to be sarcasm or not. However, pretty much half of the list is just the exact contradiction to the other half. Agreeable - opinionated Confident - humble Ambitious - submissive Men don’t even know what they want. Lol.
@rakashael8 ай бұрын
I also think it all untrue. How often we hear "women can't be funny" "There are no women at the top of any field" "No one likes a career woman" The only thing that make sense is the "agreeableness" because men as far as I can tell from the internet want quiet, pretty little doll that will do everything they say.... so they really mean obedient. :/
@steffischnoor2342 Жыл бұрын
I'm a normal good woman, most of my life i was invisible for men.
@michaelrodriguez332911 ай бұрын
Maybe you were A I ... Artificial Intelligence
@coco838611 ай бұрын
Wait until you get older. It gets worse.
@iwanttokillmyself20610 ай бұрын
@@coco8386lol shouldnt it get better ? It reassures me
@logout749110 ай бұрын
Same here, i get you 😂😂
@lanazak77310 ай бұрын
He left out be at least a 7 out of 10 on his beauty scale
@lebogangmoloi311 Жыл бұрын
How can I be 2 and 3 at the same time
@BTS_BULLET_20259 ай бұрын
Yeah woman want the same thing its hard finding a loyal man tbh😂😂😂
@ryokohonda461911 ай бұрын
Anyone with self respect and common sense would like this type of person
@maevav56457 ай бұрын
I like someone who laugh at my stupid jokes and references too🤔 I'm a coach potato, I will study and work because I need to, and kind of enjoy it, but I also prefer to sleepxd And that won't change. I think what you are saying is reasonable, also can work to what women could like in a men.
@Jules-7407 ай бұрын
I think both men & women like this in not only romantic relationships but in general for friends too.
@buckyflex1 Жыл бұрын
Yeah an agreeable opinionated women umm humm
@monikap877710 ай бұрын
Also sense of humor, but you should laugh at his jokes 😂
@johandemos4808 Жыл бұрын
This is not accurate....
@logout749110 ай бұрын
Be yourself is the most. Not be fake.
@DougIIGB10 ай бұрын
Literally 70% were absolutely false. This guy is telling women what they wanna hear.
@mitch18477 ай бұрын
Yep. Facts.
@chloezapata4152Ай бұрын
What would be your top 10?
@x-pilot61806 ай бұрын
Most important: take the initiative and ask him … … or make at least clear that you want to know him better … … and be consistent with this!
@PrettyM_theasianmovielover7 ай бұрын
I'm sure there are men that will disagree with these..
@lalaycoco946710 ай бұрын
WHEW CHILE the impossible standards men have for women is ridiculous. Just BE YOURSELF baby because that is MORE than enough ❤💅😘
@michaelrodriguez332911 ай бұрын
Men want A I ...Artificial Intelligence in a woman .😂😂
@indiclare6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@lex28lush10Ай бұрын
I knew it way back.. Men are complicated and hard to please llol
@TinCanTap Жыл бұрын
bro please center your audio i am dying
@serebear755 ай бұрын
Agreeable and opinionated, good luck, men. 😂 It's usually one or the other.
@LittleCreationsETH9 ай бұрын
how can you be all these things at once?
@mahsamoadeli529429 күн бұрын
I have all these minus confidence. That ones work in progress. I've recently become an orphan and making it on my own will force me to realise my innate strength.
@shaquilleoatmeal85435 ай бұрын
Since when do men make a list of things that girls NEED to follow…? Since when society got so damn twisted that girls are sitting here saying ‘oh yes I have this oh I have that oh I can work on this to impress him’? Baby do that for yourself not for a man. Men aren’t the same as they used to be. I am not talking about all men here but there are barely anyone with the provider mentality, the protector mentality, the kind spirit. We are unfortunately in a time where dating is just so we don’t feel alone or we say we are in a relationship. Not because we truly LOVE and APPRECIATE EACH OTHER. Breaks my heart seeing how a lot of good people out there can’t find good people for themselves because we can’t trust now… the idea that a lot of us were born in the wrong generation will forever haunt me. I pray one day we will have some happiness, calmness and peace of mind in our lives 🤍
@lex28lush10Ай бұрын
Yer, whatever 😂
@ninastars770 Жыл бұрын
I have all of that and he doesn’t want me😂oh well his lost
@vidhunsarena3339 Жыл бұрын
Because this video is wrong, u dont have to be independent or life confident to attract boys, you just wants to be good looking loyal thats all you have tomake him attractive
@faridatheabundancequeen29578 ай бұрын
😂 i feel you
@Suhani_Paliwal19784 ай бұрын
I think I am all of them...still nobody ever came liking me
@kobra44222 ай бұрын
It turns out all the things women are told to be: submissive, quiet, not expressing emotions and personality is not really what men want from us.
@Didi_blessed3459 ай бұрын
independent confidence opinionated leader
@professional.on-line10 ай бұрын
Hello In my surrounds its crazy 🤪 shit stupid shit and super shit What to do? Best 👌 regards ✨️
@SatyaKaliYam2 ай бұрын
I’m all that and a bag of chips. 🙌🙌🤣😂😜🤪
@Cierajewel7 ай бұрын
Balance, ladies, balance. He wants a healthy mix of all of this.. they like the dance.. keeps them coming back for more.. remember, too much of any particular thing isn’t good 😉
@lex28lush10Ай бұрын
I'm done with men. I don't really like them all that much.. v snob. They want kindness but most of them are unkind, selfish...
@hughesjill097 ай бұрын
“Don’t be a couch potato “ Meanwhile we cuddle on the couch together
@tammyrudolph568113 күн бұрын
Lovely, Thank you!
@piyabiswas947510 ай бұрын
Good message . Thanks
@Latierraeshermosa5 ай бұрын
She has to be intelligent and laugh at dumb jokes.
@helenjacob952322 күн бұрын
Great man.thank u
@karishmasahu8499 ай бұрын
Damn … I am a catch 😎
@JETTSTACHI7 ай бұрын
You mean men want someone who will center him in their universe; although men, in a patriarchy society in general, don't reciprocate). Tides are turning on THAT philosophy.
@user-ni3ww4ib6j7 ай бұрын
You have to be flexible in all aspect!❤❤❤
@Miss_PANDASКүн бұрын
Agreeable, as in easy going and not getting worked up over small things. Opinionated, as in having your own thoughts on things and being unafraid to share them even if they conflict with his beliefs or others. They are not mutually exclusive.
@AfiDeSouza-qf6nfАй бұрын
Thank you.
@AkabaPulcherieRose2 ай бұрын
Very accurate 💯☝️👌👍🙏🙏
@mannygalvan8351 Жыл бұрын
I don't agree with most of these traits! Almost sounds like he's talking from a woman's point of view!
@CrystalBbyUSA9 ай бұрын
What traits would you list then?
@mitch18477 ай бұрын
He is.
@mitch18477 ай бұрын
@@CrystalBbyUSA What men want in a woman? Fit, feminine, friendly, with a positive attitude. She's not argumentative, not combative, agreeable, knows when to keep her damn mouth shut so she doesn't embarrass him in front of his friends and co-workers, NOT a 304, is able to listen and take his lead, and knows how to cook and clean. All of these are in her control and can be done now.
@hope44636 ай бұрын
Wow! Where is this woman? Is she beautiful too! Self sufficient. She doesn't need a man.
@bluliite2 ай бұрын
Lost me at 7 lolll
@sallysmithy98609 күн бұрын
Thanks. Good info 😅 yes who wouldn't want all that.
@jeredinejimmykanji9640 Жыл бұрын
You're awesome
@mahsamoadeli529429 күн бұрын
For men I'd add loyalty, dependability, and honorable character
@mitch18477 ай бұрын
0:01 tells the story with this simp. He's a used car salesman of dating advice. Attracting a man is easy for 95% of women, it's the retaining part they have a problem with. Women initiate divorce 80% of the time and only 1% is due to infidelity, abuse, or abandonment.
@MadinaVadache4 ай бұрын
man keep saying, intelligent woman, intelligent woman, but when they meet intelligent woman, they ran to other side😂😂
@maryw46097 ай бұрын
Thanks❤
@isis921010 ай бұрын
jesss !!! we have a lot to be 😂🤓
@sharky8882 Жыл бұрын
1) Laugh at his jokes ≠ sense of humor because those are the same men who get so rude and offensive when the woman is funny, they feel the need to be the only funny one
@jl4260 Жыл бұрын
You’re right about this. Most men love when women laugh at their jokes, but if a woman is funnier than them and generates laughter from others they get threatened by that and they’re not attracted to it.
@shanialee736110 ай бұрын
I actually never laugh at their jokes because most times they are about farts and misogyny. 🤷🏼♀️
@andread45952 күн бұрын
This is a description of the healthiest, most adjusted person out there, man or woman lol. A lot of guys say they want these things but then they’re intimidated by most of these traits when a woman presents with them lol.
@srikrishnavasanth38954 ай бұрын
As long you don't confuse confidence with cockiness I am fully agreed that I attracted to confident women. Self assured is a better word to explain this.
@rc24875 күн бұрын
It’s common sense, women should know that men want a woman that demonstrates those traits. As far as a serious relationship. Men are wanting a woman that gives consistent sex, has traditional values like cooking and cleaning. A woman that’s not going to nag and complain. Traits of a woman that men don’t want are women over the age of 30, since men are biologically wired to be attracted to youth, beauty and fertility or a single mother.
@cocoaocean9 күн бұрын
Don't confuse being an attentive mother with a lack of ambition. My brother told me I had no drive and he's right. The world out there isn't as important as making sure your child is secure. Don't be afraid to drop men that pressure you for what they want but have little curiosity for you. Men need more interest in womans intuition. That's my 'opinion ', until then, I'll go with the flow. PS I pity a man saying I lack ambition because I need to sit down and rest on the couch. Thank God my man doesn't expect me to run the world. Although he has helped me in that department. Men want a woman to say no to thier sexual advances. Say no to everything. 😂😅❤😅😂They like that.😶🌫️😶🌫️
@letseat286510 ай бұрын
Almost everything❤
@rominazoto3 күн бұрын
This is me❤ but so difficult to find a man like this
@sanjanabhosale613316 күн бұрын
Wow! So many traits... all in one! And what about the same traits in a single man?
@kx38134 ай бұрын
Hello, I would like to ask your opinion about a situation...I am a girl who went to a store a while ago. So the shop owner asked me about my age and residence, but I did not give an answer. He asked me about my age and also his answer.. He asked me again about my name, so I answered him, but in a dry manner. He even looked at me with annoyed looks and continued trying to talk to me, but I did not respond and remained silent... 4 months have passed since this incident. And from that time until now, every time I walk next to his shop, he keeps staring at me with serious looks without smiling! Even when I look at him, he continues to look at me in all seriousness without taking his eyes off me. And when I am far from his place, he recognizes me from afar and keeps staring. Does he hate me because I did not answer his questions and answered him rudely? Or does he like me?
@mariepetterson728118 күн бұрын
Male definition of a woman with a good sense of humor - she laughs at his jokes. But what if she's funnier than him ?
@danielleo68558 күн бұрын
I want him to laugh at my jokes too, and he asked for it when he said he wanted someone who thinks her own thoughts! Be careful what you ask for you just might get it
@ruthgarcia65892 күн бұрын
I have been dating my man 9 months and be have been seeing each other every day and it seems like he is falling away from me
@TianieMitchell4 күн бұрын
Because being hot s*** was one person doesn't mean you're going to be hot shyt with someone else. Because of course Beauties in the eye of the beholder
@jodiburnett62119 күн бұрын
Funny, us ladies like those same traits! ❤️😎❤️
@donniedorn1751Ай бұрын
Sounds good to me I do laugh sometimes Most like 75% of all divorce are instigated by HER
@glenfe761.9 ай бұрын
I have these❤️
@rakshamoodley6410 Жыл бұрын
Woman need loyalty. That's only 1 THING. 11, Wow !! that's a lot to offer. That's a joke. 😊😊😊 I have an incredible life without a man..thank you..
@jasonsmart314127 күн бұрын
Opinionated is definitely NOT something men want!
@AscendingsolАй бұрын
Pretty much the same that I look for.
@Riri-hv6zm9 ай бұрын
Agree ❤
@erendiraolsen48438 ай бұрын
❤❤
@srikrishnavasanth38954 ай бұрын
Agreeable and opiniated? You have to agreeable enough to consider others ideas following it or not it's an another thing. Well, we like if you know what food do you want to eat.
@_cosmic_aurora_gameofcones8 ай бұрын
Ladies , Ur first priority should be being self independent, confident, be goal. Oriented, having money and a good job. Relationships ,marriages are not at all imp. Just be yourself ,focus on ur goals,set up ur career, be bold,learn martial arts. Do not run after asshole men,No need to pay attention to guys and if they try to force u,just kick their balls .
@Lily-ow5wm8 ай бұрын
I’m going to approach a guy tomorrow who asked for my number a month ago but never texted. Usually I know that means they aren’t interested but I feel like it’s possible I gave him wrong # b/c he seems interested in me. What’s your thoughts?
@_cosmic_aurora_gameofcones8 ай бұрын
@@Lily-ow5wm I think u shouldn't meet him in person because he never replied to ur messages, It can be unsafe . If u know him personally or something like that then u can meet him somewhere which is not isolated. If he seems interested in u and talking to u nicely with respect then u can consider him but do not make a decision on just first meeting. I think u should message him again if he wants to meet u or not ,if he don't reply,then there's no need to carry on this thing
@Lily-ow5wm8 ай бұрын
@@_cosmic_aurora_gameofcones I worded it a little weird but he actually never texted me at all after I gave him my number. I don’t know much about him, only talked to him the time he approached me. However I definitely would be talking to him in populated space. Thank you for the response
@_cosmic_aurora_gameofcones8 ай бұрын
@@Lily-ow5wm ur most welcome dear
@mitch18477 ай бұрын
You're either a female or a simp with a comment like that.
@MirandalindaL.A5 ай бұрын
I'm hoping he can see all these traits ❤
@SeekingGod777 ай бұрын
Most men are not independent
@SuperMonaLisaBros8 ай бұрын
Is that why I was getting hit on at work? 🤔
@user-cy1fj8gq9q2 ай бұрын
I don't need no man😊
@sansvlogschannel46292 ай бұрын
❤
@lydiaortiz7493 Жыл бұрын
11/11 ❤🎉
@traceyduxbury42896 күн бұрын
Anything else????? Life is hard enough without all these lists, it gets very boring.
@victoriaporsiempre Жыл бұрын
and the traits that women want in men…a bit more than that
@MadinaVadache4 ай бұрын
How about 25 trades women need to have in the man in order to fall in love?
@Pako03704 ай бұрын
😴 I just like to sleep
@CarliLindstrom23 күн бұрын
i have all of those what is my man
@sarahmatthews587815 күн бұрын
I see no ring on this mans hand. So, not sure if hes just regurgitating info hes heard or what, but....