12 POWERFUL LIFE LESSONS I WISH I KNEW EARLIER IN MY 20s

[@TheHumblePenny]

Which of these 12 powerful life lessons really struck a chord with you personally? Please share why it really resonated with you below :)

[@chrisclarkepiano9335]

"You don't have to be perfect". Struggling with that even now, I would rather skip posting a video than post something that I think people might not want to hear. Also no.7 make learning a lifestyle. I actually hated learning when I was younger, it's only now that I'm nearly 30 that I'm actually starting to love it so much! Thanks for your help man, love your videos!

[@johnnyosemwengie2122]

For me, Prayer, embrace who you are, your name and believing you are enough already.

[@johnnyosemwengie2122]

Thanks Ken Emeka Okorafor. I can relate to all you said in this video. God bless you for being of value to many of us out there.

[@YogendraJ]

For me, You don't need to fit in was spot on, Ken. I have the same kind of nature and I was able to relate it. I am on the journey to find my true purpose in life. Hopefully as I live and learn, one day I will find out my purpose on Mother Earth

[@downeyjr4423]

So so glad you made this video Ken. It really resonates with me. I think in order to plan and stick to it,you have to have some mental clarity and focus to move forward. It's all in the mind. Words are so so powerful, I remember my friends who have a hang up about their feet,or colour or some feature that someone made a passing comment on that has scarred them for life. I have always tried to live by the rule that"if you can't say something nice,then don't say nothing at all" . Also,I'd like to add that be kind to yourself too, I know that a couple of years ago I was running around doing things for others and putting myself last,until I felt resentful and would burn out. It has made such a difference to my mental health to feel that I can say no if I'm not up to doing a chore or run an errand for someone. I have to rest and recuperate too. So true about protecting your reputation. How many times have we heard in the media about someone being dropped from an important position or role because of what they wrote/did years ago.... Prayer is power 💪 Well done Ken for sharing, I'm sure it has helped a lot of people ❤

[@TheHumblePenny]

Hi Downey Jr I wholeheartedly appreciate your message! 😊. It really means a lot. And I love: "If you can't say something nice, then don't say nothing at all". I'm still teaching our kids this important life hack!

[@downeyjr4423]

@@TheHumblePenny yes,very important!! Thank you 💞

[@sorochi996]

Igbo Kwenu! :D With a name like Nkeiruka, I definitely remember the awkward pause and giggle when it came to my name in the class register. Every. Single. Time. It did shake me but after a while, I realised that name is powerful, beautiful, a representation of my parents love for me and completely, impossible to separate from me. I have become more fierce when it comes to my name. I protect it. When I succeed, they will say my name correctly and other Nigerian/African girls and boys will be proud of theirs.

[@maame6768]

Igbo names are beautiful! I really love. My favourite. My teachers name was Ms Nwachukwu and my partners name is onyekachukwu. I love!

[@pandabossanna]

I love these sorts of videos, it's such a shame they aren't as popular as investing videos! A lot of these hit hard, especially about validation!!! This is a BIG one for me, honestly although my rational mind knows I shouldn't care - I still struggle with this point.

[@TheHumblePenny]

You're not alone, Anna 😀. The best of us struggle with these issues tbh. It's usually a sign that you're on a growth journey.

[@venessa8005]

Such an amazing and inspirational video - so many powerful gems to take on board as a young woman in her early 20s! Prayer is key, as a christian, my faith in God is the ultimate motivator to achieve all that I believe God has in store for me. So happy I found this channel, it has honestly transformed my life. Thank you Kenny & Mary!

[@TheHumblePenny]

This means a lot, Vanessa! You're most welcome 😊

[@rsf4129]

I enjoyed this whole vlog! I believe "Words are powerful" and "Prayer is Oxygen" are intertwined. Those words that you put into faith-filled prayer can definitely be life changing.

[@ifyokolo4950]

I'm sharing this video with my family because it captures so many important lessons, many of which I'm still working through. I never comment but I genuinely find you and your wife so inspiring. Thank you!

[@TheHumblePenny]

Really appreciate that, Ify! 😊💛

[@charlieoben]

Fantastic video Ken. Really enjoyed it thanks. Especially don't try to fit in, protect your name, and words have power.

[@MissEze16]

Thank you so much, I have been sad because I wasn’t where I wanted to be in life. This video helped me so much.

[@TheHumblePenny]

This means A LOT to me, Federica. Thank you for sharing :). Please share this video with others.

[@jaybee6382]

Thanks for being so transparent. It certainly was not wasted. Deep insight bro.

[@coachgeraldlami]

Thanks for opening up bro, very useful advice. Absolutely with prayer anything is possible! 🙌

[@TheHumblePenny]

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[@esopipafrica]

Embracing your name!!! That is amazing. I am Nigerian and even Nigerians cannot pronounce my name ( which I don't fuss about really) I wrote a piece about names on my Facebook page some years ago and I got a lot of responses to it. It is amazing how many people have stories about their names. I am really enjoying your content. Keep up the good work.

[@TheHumblePenny]

Thanks so much 😀

[@timmya200]

Yes, prayer is a priority, great to hear it!

[@katelynd9098]

Another wonderful video! Favorite lesson is number 5, you don't have to be perfect! This is a hard lesson to accept at times when you feel you have to always do your best, but it is the reality that needs to be accepted!

[@mwakananyangwe7943]

I have been binge watching your videos. You have opened my mind. I have decided to get into real estate and buying shares

[@TheHumblePenny]

We appreciate you binge watching! :). Thank you and wonderful to hear that we've helped to open your mind :)

[@ienobik4414]

Fitting in. Yep, join the club. I can relate. A fellow Ibo mate of mine that lives round the corner changed his name from "Nnabuike" to "Ryan".

[@TheHumblePenny]

Wow! Fitting in is a biggie!

[@funmianjorin8089]

No 9. Is really a blessing. I’m 100% convince that prayer works. God Bless!

[@kenaddoh4693]

Brilliant advice! Thanks for being so candid.

[@TheHumblePenny]

You're most welcome 😀

[@isaacmereku1236]

Very sound advice, thanks for sharing. Stop seeking to fit is one that I'm working on. I'm currently trying to find what works for me. I like the 'prayer is oxygen'. Prayer has helped me to keep my head clear and I can actually say, the periods in my life where I've been praying consistently, I've had consistent peace and confidence. I've also got a gratitude list of things that have materialised, that I had been praying for, which I use to encourage me with current prayer requests, as well as appreciating the help I've received.

[@TheHumblePenny]

Isaac, keep going, bro! 😊🙏🏽

[@leesmith2651]

These videos are always uplifting

[@enjay4real]

I loved this video, Ken and Mary. I can relate to every single point! Way to go, guys!

[@TheHumblePenny]

Thank you, Nengi! 😊

[@Raetalkss]

Another great video! If my future husband does not talk about me they way Ken speaks about Mary I don't want him hahaha. I honestly thank you both for this channel! I always feel charged when I watch your videos! I am in my late twenties and feel so encouraged by this! I could not agree more prayer is oxygen! Thanks Ken and Mary!

[@TheHumblePenny]

You're so sweet! 😊. Your comment made us LOL

[@jeffreykw5328]

Love the video Ken.. I have been watching for a little while but first time commenting.. loads of points I can really relate with but what I loved most was the fact you were open about your faith.. To God we give all the glory 🙏🏾🙌🏾 Prayer is Oxygen!!

[@KessaBeth]

This was great!! I'm glad you touched on the power of prayer. Everyone keeps telling me Prayer CHANGES things and I have had faith and prayed and seen the truth behind that quote... need to prayer more though. I hope to apply it to my life as much as you do.

[@JakeHooley]

Thank you for this video Ken, I’ve really learnt a lot, I’m 20 and wanting to go into finance so it was very relatable 😁

[@BoluAdekoya]

Awww thanks for the vulnerability on this. Consistent learning and prayer really stood out to me!

[@TheHumblePenny]

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[@lhg2353]

I love you and your wife, you're both amazing. What an honest person you are to share such personal information. Thank you

[@Komolafe90]

Thankyou Ken, Nearly all points raised really hit home with me i must admit.

[@TheHumblePenny]

Great to hear, Paul :). I appreciate you watching

[@lillybee1822]

Beautiful video! Ty :)

[@ninatladi4132]

This was an amazing video, I watched it twice, thank you sharing. I could relate to each lesson, but i teared up at "you don't have to be perfect." I wasted my 20s trying to be perfect in order to gain validation from others. I know better now.

[@TheHumblePenny]

Wow, Nina! I feel your emotion 😊

[@danielserjeanton8309]

Great advice as always Ken. 👌🏾

[@TheHumblePenny]

Cheers, Daniel!

[@maame6768]

You've gained almost 10k since spring!! Well done guys!. Found you at 18k!

[@vattwal4176]

Love your advice ken 👏

[@thetribeless.2959]

Thanks bro, those are definitely important reminders. Keep the good vibes

[@elvisnchonjhon522]

pray is oxygen this is so powerful thanks for this amazing advice

[@TheHumblePenny]

😀🙏🏽

[@sionv2009]

Dude at least you don't get food stuck in your teeth and have an amazing smile💕

[@TheHumblePenny]

Haha, that's so true about having food stuck! 😆. Thank you :)

[@mayaszweda9182]

Love this video, especially about accepting yourself as you are...i wouldn't be able to do that :/

[@TheHumblePenny]

Why not? :)

[@mayaszweda9182]

It actually made me tear up when you talked about accepting your name, teeth etc. As trivial as it may sound to someone, to me it is a really big deal because there are not many things i like about myself. Im 37 and i dont think i will ever be able to accept myself (as i am now) so seeing you talk about that just made me sad...but i do admire your honesty and i am glad i found your channel because you do give out really good advise on stuff :) so thank you

[@TheHumblePenny]

Hi Maya I'm really sorry to read this. This whole thing is a journey tbh. Do hang in there and start by loving yourself for one thing first and gradually things will improve. How can I help you further? Where are you from? Were they difficult experiences growing up that gave you the current view of yourself? Btw - 37 is an awesome age! 😉💛

[@abidhussain901]

Good vibes Ken!

[@TheHumblePenny]

Cheers, Abid! Hope these life lessons resonate with you :)

[@psmart4948]

"Talk is cheap" was a part of my awakening 2yrs ago. rude awakening actually. my Tourettes has never been so far gone in 41 yrs. Caants!!!!!

[@Firepotz]

Love your channel. My name is unusual and prone to all kinds of vulgar variations but it was ok because my Dad always made it into fun while still being proud of being a Hartas. Ok, who's going to write out every rude varient you can think of? I can take it! :)

[@TheHumblePenny]

😊. Thanks for sharing! And watching! :)

[@MrAmanze]

Igbo and proud!

[@TheHumblePenny]

👊🏾

[@akib2377]

My name has always been mispronounced and I think part of embracing your name means to correct everyone who does mispronounce it. The second you stop, you have failed in embracing and being proud of your name and where your name comes from. But seriously, some people are just silly, they pronounce my name as “Akeeb”, and sometimes I even say “I don’t see a double e in my name”...so I think there’ll never be a time where I will be able to think “nobody will get my name wrong now...”

[@TheHumblePenny]

Powerful!

[@juliagardner1383]

How do you have such a british accent when you arrived in the uk at 15/16?

[@chrisclarkepiano9335]

I've known people to have a complete accent change in 3-4 years. I find it so fascinating!

[@MrsB_MM]

He has been in England for about 20 years. That’s long enough

[@juliagardner1383]

@@MrsB_MM but people who arrive and are older, they tend to keep their accents!

[@juliagardner1383]

@@chrisclarkepiano9335 would like to see. Have been abroad 6 years personally, still got accent

[@chrisclarkepiano9335]

@@juliagardner1383 I think it depends on the person and why they came over. The people I'm thinking of came over to study and so were speaking advanced English every day. I'm assuming Ken being a public speaker has a lot to do with it.

[@MySideHustleStash]

Grind in your 20s Find yourself Enjoy your life Have a purpose and a plan ♥

[@TheHumblePenny]

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