15 Life HACKS for the Modern GENTLEMAN

[@AndreyZenperial]

1. Know how to dress for every occasion 2. Know how to wear a suit 3. Cook a knock-out signature dish 4. Have some healthy, easy to make go-to recipes too 5. Learn the basics about wine varieties 6. Be able to do basic car repairs 7. Know how to ask someone out on a date and how to accept a no 8. Be good at personal finance😉 (I am dedicating my whole life to this)🔥 9. Know how to relate to kids 10. Learn basic first aid skills 11. Respect a different point of view 12. Make well-thought-out logical arguments 13. Know how to entertain yourself or a group - without a smartphone 14. Learn to make cocktails 15. Give a good massage Bonus 16: Stop talking about yourself

[@timothyelicada2630]

I love comments like this. Saves time ⌚

[@AndreyZenperial]

Timothy Eli Cada Exactly! Entrepreneurs don’t have time to waste🔥

[@ashiks.a.4560]

Thank you

[@MrSuperj1one]

I failled all of them

[@stromhold87]

Thank u sir...

[@utkarshtripathi9118]

Your channel has changed our Young generations thinking & mindset

[@alux]

So glad you find our content useful! See you tomorrow!

[@msed8297]

Sure has

[@adobotravels]

@@alux but we dont know how the narrator of alux looks like?

[@evanalper8493]

@@adobotravels That's a good thing.

[@shivatrivedi6964]

true....❤️❤️💖

[@AndreyZenperial]

Life hack #16: outwork every single person in the room to maximise the probability of your success😁

[@reverse5596]

In other words Be the hardest worker in the room. -Dwayne Jhonson (The Rock)

[@AndreyZenperial]

REVERSE EXACTLY🔥

[@aisforappol689]

#17 humility goes a long way, don’t be a show off that’s a turn off. #18 listen to learn

[@provolone5336]

19 know some basic martial arts so that if a fight does break out at least no one gets harmed

[@sinuslebastian6366]

Asher Alonso can't stress this enough.

[@georgeskourgias2196]

In my opinion being a gentleman depends from man to man. I think every man should be aware of his character's "advantages" and be able to use them in the best possible way.

[@VinyZikss]

1. Know how to dress for every occasion 2. Know how to wear a suit 3. Cook a knock-out signature dish 4.Have some healthy, easy to make go-to recipe too 5. Learn the basics about wine varieties 6. Be able to do basic car repairs 7. How to ask someone out on a date and how to accept a NO 8. Be good at personal finance 9. Know how to relate to kids 10. Learn basic first aid skills 11. Respect a different point of view 12. Make well-thought-out logical arguments 13. How to entertain yourself or a group - without a smartphone 14. Learn to make cocktails 15. Give a good massage Bonus: Stop talking about yourself and stop mainsplaining

[@suryajeet74]

And you are still lonely 😁

[@amitasthana]

Do all these things and you never see her again. Do not take dating advice from Alux. I love Alux but not for Dating Advice.

[@mobius1965]

@@amitasthana Care to elaborate on this? Why do you believe a woman will leave a man who follows these steps? Just curious.

[@sinuslebastian6366]

Amit Asthana these are not "dating" advice. And if you're looking for that here, you're in the wrong place. Being a gentleman is not only about impressing women.

[@mobius1965]

@@sinuslebastian6366 Alux kind of makes it sounds like these are ways to impress women though. They do mention learning how to accept rejection, which I personally find it odd that they would include that in a list like this. Stereotypically, men act like gentlemen for the ladies, so it’s usually heavily implied here and Alux didn’t really specify this as something to do for ourselves like they did with the modern ladies video.

[@CosmicNomadis22]

Another hack: Always have a good perfume/ cologne

[@sanjarsocool]

That’s a must

[@David-vz4yk]

Emmanuel Bryan Wandera no

[@CosmicNomadis22]

@@David-vz4yk what do you mean no??😹... it's a must

[@CosmicNomadis22]

@John Smith 😂👏🏾

[@evanalper8493]

@@David-vz4yk What do you mean no?

[@Treisiess]

My #16 Always two handkerchiefs: one for you and one for whatever else you may need it for.

[@CindyLim-RumbySugarcane]

Good manners. Etiquette and politeness never out of style.

[@rainynight02]

"mansplaining" my ass. That term came from a woman who was insulted because a guy was *Excited* about this new thing he learned and was talking about it, not realizing she was the one who wrote the book. She was insulted by what anyone else would take as a compliment.

[@thatwasprettyneat]

i guess we're allowed to manspread though, so that's a consolation

[@bryanalstoncoxing]

Mansplaining is different than talking about something exciting, it’s condescendingly coming from a place of authority on a topic that may be pretty basic or the woman may already know about

[@rainynight02]

@@bryanalstoncoxing That's called being an ass and, you know, condescending. No need for an obviously sexist term demeaning men needed to describe something we already have words for. It's nothing but an insult to men in general.

[@rickc.3552]

Mansplaining: telling a feminist an uncomfortable truth about her paltry behavior and/or lack of knowledge.

[@Snowboarding2020]

A real gentleman marches to the beat of his own drums.

[@ManlyHK1]

I love your raising the awareness of how important it is that we bring back the long gone gentlemen in a world full of rough men with the worse mannerism!

[@davidalter7057]

If you’re reading this I hope you have a good day and be blessed with good vibrations

[@sayonmitra2425]

16. Hot to talk. Or speak publically 17. How to walk. The way one walks tell a lot about a man. And to be distinguished as a gentleman one must walk like one

[@shashankkumar1736]

I AM THE SUMMARY GUY WAITING FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO SUMMERISE

[@lindad7775]

Hahaha

[@lindad7775]

I cant wait for tomorrow...iam a lady ...it will be greate.

[@shashankkumar1736]

@@lindad7775 I THINK THEY WILL UPLOAD YOUR PART NEXT WEDNESDAY

[@stylebyjoe]

I thinking maintaining a sense of humor about life, including themselves, is key. Life is so serious and heavy... being able to laugh is amazing!

[@zianvalderrama4698]

The world is starving of good gentlemen.

[@vedshinkre1530]

Having a control on your temper and language, people try to bait us a lot to this but we should not fall for this. Language control is very vital as no person cares about an abusive person's opinion

[@thebookwasbetter3650]

I have a Michael Mann suit. Its the suit Bobbie DeNiro and Tom Cruise wore in Heat and Collateral. Its pretty awesome.

[@bapdc]

Thank you for using varieties in the correct tense when referring to wine. I it a BIG pet peeve of mine, when I hear "wine varietals" used out of place.

[@Odin31b]

Nothing about self defense? Verbal judo? How to handle a firearm, even if you don't own one. Basic navigation without a phone. Basic knowledge of electrical power. Basic understanding of the government, law, and court system. Yeah, cocktails was not even on my top 30. But I do respect your point of view.

[@alihaider5190]

Odin31b at least some sane people alive in the world. First aid was good though . . .and also personal finance .... learning to sell urself would be another one

[@amitasthana]

Dont taking advice from Alux or women in general, Alux great content on business, but they have no idea about a Man for a Woman should be.

[@gabbydoesmyhair1268]

"STOP PATRONIZING PEOPLE WITH OBVIOUS ADVICE" Ugh guys watch this video everyday until you get it! Im begging you!

[@utkarshtripathi9118]

Your channel is better than College & University's

[@utkarshtripathi9118]

Only your channel in this world is deliver Truth & Motivated vedios

[@reverse5596]

Indeed, Truth has been spoken.

[@alux]

Kind words indeed.

[@reverse5596]

Utkarsh, Alux just hearted our comment and replied 🙊🙊🙊

[@reverse5596]

@@alux You guys have always exceeded our expectations. Thanks for the amazing content and keeping us on our feet.

[@ATasteOfBeauty]

The ones in the beginning were best- dressing well (hello from Silicon Valley), wearing a suit, a signature dish, wine.

[@andrewhenley2161]

It’s 7 months later when I watched this but proper dining etiquette is extremely important, especially in certain situations

[@wallaceford4951]

Alux, I would love to see a video on how to dress classy or look wealthy for men. Thanks for your great content

[@CloudTribe]

This list is pretty good. My biggest things to work on would probably be wine tasting, mixology and cooking.

[@RationallyMe]

Get one of the "Pampered Chef" cookbooks. They are simple, yet creative recipes for beginners because many of the recipes use some packaged elements. It's a way to look like a great cook without being one-- until you actually become one.

[@adhish_dutta7266]

Show genuine kindness to everyone without any expectations

[@jiovani1074]

Thank you for making this video. It definitely changed my view on how a gentleman looks

[@dirghayujoshi4827]

Atomic Habit was one of the best life changing that alux recommended me... For those of you having problem with self-discipline; should definitely check it out..

[@crawfordkmcdonald7313]

How long is it.

[@debasisht7269]

I don't know as I am yet not adult, but people says that a gentle man is good with emotions and it's expression as he has many eyes on him from the society.

[@deez6005]

Please keep this series going please.

[@czrbumm.5290]

Check, check, and check.. Thx ALUX. You forgot to mention 'good cologne', every gentleman needs their own distinctive fill, keep it fresh, clean and discreet gents.

[@denver-roseashwell8895]

This channel is so ENTJ and I love it. -admiring ENFJ

[@monkeymouse1403]

Apparently I was the modern gentleman back in 2001 when I moved to my own apartment. Probably the reason I did so well with women...

[@chaostheory2742]

Be a peaceful warrior... don't allow yourself to get distant from your family.. appreciate a challenge.

[@Chahlie]

Seems to me these are all civilised PEOPLE tips, regardless of gender.

[@amitasthana]

This makes sense, which proves these points have nothing to do in being a Man, these are general tips and should be not identified as Man Tips which means they can't be Man Tips at least in terms of dating advice.

[@Manuel-gu9ls]

Thanks for the tip much better than other channels about being the best man

[@nish2997]

1) Don't be with Negative people 2) Accept if it's your fault of mistake

[@weiyuan20]

Know how to relate to kids. My 15 year old life: Ok

[@CadyVirina]

All random individuals who like this will be able to survive their hardships in life. Stay Strong!

[@ralphmanasse3501]

Don't you know that modern cars are not so easy to do any kind of repairs. I use to be able to change spark plugs, headlights bulbs, batteries, and other parts of a car. However, with these modern cars today, the only thing you can change is a tire.

[@papamike225]

A good massage leads to amazing outcomes 🙌

[@alihaider5190]

mikey lol you make me smile in sad times .... have a blessed day

[@jemelaberdeen7226]

Know the right type of compliment to give to the right tpye of ladies.Thank you once more.

[@modernclassics4033]

Alux is the best thing in youtube💪💪💜Lots of love, Alux !!! "The place where future billionaires come to get inspired "👍🧚‍♂️

[@Smbizmd]

The ones who disliked the video, are the "non-gentleman" 😂

[@Rastalion93]

Yessir, the dreaded anti-seducer

[@DeltaEagle7700]

The beta-males, no doubt.

[@LoralLee]

It's a dead giveaway, isn't it? Likewise, the nasty remarks about the highly disrespectful habit of mansplaining.

[@sopharpro]

😂 😂

[@youknowwithMartyKauffman]

This is some great insight thanks Alux oh and I think you should always carry a pocket knife with you because you know you never know when you need to open a box or cut a piece of thread

[@landwekanyanta9203]

Hi alux I'm asking for a video on steps to self motivate. Just as you did with self discipline it's my favorite video so far

[@vigneshlalgudi7292]

I enjoy watching your videos because they give me hope that I can and will change myself. I suffer from extreme anxiety to the point where I have trouble doing things that I enjoy, but watching your videos is helping me get better video by video. Thank you Alux😁

[@javiermonge6285]

-Learn some French -Know how to dance

[@richardlowry9663]

As a group, not as individual, will be surprised if check court cases between men and women who have most child abuse cases?

[@kanchangusain]

Great video..to the point ..crisp and well researched...

[@uniqueobject9218]

Point number #16 here in NIGERIA means *resist the urge to shalaye*🇳🇬🇳🇬

[@olzovjamero6908]

1) have a strong technical skills.

[@manikandan4904]

I'm addicted to this channel

[@paolosantiago3163]

"Me too the best channel ever .?!"

[@VentressRose]

Can u make one lifehack video for modern elegant woman?

[@dylanmorgan17]

This is a great channel. I never usually shake my head with what they have to say, but when I heard "stop mansplaining", I threw my hands over my head. Is there a less sexist synonym for this?

[@LoralLee]

There's a very good reason why this word was created exactly as it is--because men have a deplorable tendency to speak patronizingly to women, stating the most obvious things as if the woman is too stupid to know that herself. You might not recognize it as such when you're young, but the older and more experienced you get, the more it becomes glaringly obvious when it's happening. It's a huge sign of disrespect, and women who have become somewhat masculine also do this to others, especially to other women. Not every man does it, of course, but enough do that it warranted the creation of a new word to describe it.

[@gruveinca]

useful, respectful and honest

[@paolosantiago3163]

"All of your advices are great but one thing I wish you add more: He must know at least one particular technical skills like welding, etc. in case of a situation. By the way Alux is the best channel that I have been watching since then .?!"

[@BusinessMadhouse]

Great video! Really inspiring. Your work Inspired me to start my own channel :)

[@ritwiksen868]

Good job Subbed

[@eishashewakramani6868]

I really like your content!

[@tahafarhansiddiqui6018]

Even if you are the best , let others feel they are good and important as well

[@AHARIEFG]

Love your page and inspired☺☺..😍..keep sharing cool videos and post ...love to follow you...😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇

[@sunnysuraj197]

My country's temperature is very warm,so also suggested some wear for such places.

[@prateekchaudhary8910]

_RESPECTING WOMEN_ Worthy inclusive point in this list.👍

[@Mansi.goel.offical]

I have shared this video with my male friends who should know this information... I am so happy, i am a subscriber... Waiting for women's video❤❤

[@alux]

Let us know if they learned.

[@Mansi.goel.offical]

@@alux you have 6 new subscribers nowww.... They have joined the club🥂

[@i0wny0upl20]

These are suggestions (tips at best) not hacks. "If you wear a suit, make sure you look great in it." Thanks Alux! What would we do without you guys? The only hack here is the person who wrote the script for this episode.

[@dp3170]

Thought I was the only one. I was really expecting to learn something outside of the obvious. 😒

[@BobF510]

This content is superior. I found a book with related themes to be equally pivotal. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

[@makarand1985]

Great Video ALUX team as always, Lot of love from India !!!

[@basawarajpattar6148]

You just reached tat level of top class in your content providing ..

[@oxfordenglishlanguageacade9939]

Please make the video on 15 tips to live healthy life

[@javlonbeknurullaev2146]

Can you make a video for young man who is studying in college how to win at college and life pls

[@mucheq5386]

1. Drop out

[@Gdcrow293]

Woow i didn't know any of it. Thanks for useful information(actually this video gives you nothing and most of them are known to anyone)

[@josephmorgan3396]

Being a full stack and of-all-trade man has been my desire At first I thought it’s a ideal and impossible wish, but I’ve seen many of those men right around me... unbelievable but happening.

[@CaseyBurnsInvesting]

Dudes are too busy being simps, not increasing their value, or not knowing what they want out of life to comprehend this list.

[@vadalawrence8146]

Ikr chasing women instead of they purpose in life! Smh

[@LoralLee]

Mansplaining is all about insulting the other person's intelligence and is typically done by men to women, hence the name. Of course there are exceptions, such as my aunt who is fairly masculine and does this to other women. To me, a gentleman is respectful of others in his words, his manners, his hygiene and appearance, his capabilities, the ongoing development of his mind and conversational skills, and boundaries--his own and other people's.

[@jaesgarage615]

Chivalry isn’t dead it’s just rare.

[@consultorialatinoamericana3231]

Really usefull these kind of Hacks I applyed every method succesfully making life better.

[@JesseGuelfi]

Modem gentlemen should avoid eating meat, drinking alcoholic beverages and stop smoking. Become responsible parents and treat women in a respectful way. This is what a real gentleman should behave. Thanks.

[@alexisxander817]

My suggestions: 1. Keep your body fit! 2. Listen more! 3. Smile more!

[@Je.rone_]

I definitely need to learn how to dress better

[@siddharthbanerjee7455]

Grt content always. Grt effort. Besides a grt content the voice is charming with a fab presentation

[@owenkellogg3130]

It's probably better for a modern gentleman to not poison himself and those around him, thus I will not worry about being a wine expert or mixologist. Though, I do want to respect the ideas and opinions of others, so, it might be a good idea to know how to choose good wine and spirits to cook with. (Grand Marnier, orange juice, cornstarch and a pat of butter make a good sauce for duck a l'orange.)

[@olahuuber6595]

Hi Alux Thank you for making me a better person.😁😍👍💐👌

[@Supriya_Singh_Gaur]

My first question was going to be, "Alux, WHAT ABOUT FEMALES?" Thanks a lot for letting us know that in the beginning..😁😁 Can't wait for tomorrow.😃😃

[@allenthomas1717]

a good firm handshake

[@luckykhumalo9305]

Number 8 is number 1 thank u so m8ch 😎👌

[@fatimahammadi881]

Alux you should definitely do a video on the ladies

[@eternalkino34]

The dude in the thumbnail is lit🔥🔥🔥

[@yassinal-mahdi8669]

I see so many people skip the video and read a comment of someone who wrote all the 15 Points and think by that way they are saving time. If you just Read the steps and don't listen to the explanation Firstly you are not a true Aluxer and you won't be able to Implent the Steps Into Real Life because when you will be In a situation needing one these steps and your brain won't remember the steps cuz the way your brain will work Is firstly get familiar to a story or a reason first and then remenber the steps.

[@cwoherem]

I get what you're saying but you have to understand that there are possible reasons why they have to look at the quick versions, they may be in a rush with little space during their daily schedule. And just because they look at the quick versions doesn't ultimately mean they do it for all the videos, it would depend on their time, so we shouldn't be too judgemental. The fact that they at least clicked the video should also mean something, because there are many people with problems that want answers but procrastinate and would pass self help vids on a whim.

[@derekmcintosh6925]

Gin and tonic isn't a cocktail but it's the first one in your 15 cocktails video....?

[@sanjarsocool]

If you don’t drink do u still keep some for others?

[@NATUREEFGEFGELITF]

It's just a bad day, not a bad life. You are strong, everything you do is enough, you are enough... It will be alright very soon. You are not alone, I love you. I love you Who else is here because quarantine messed up your sleeping schedule?

[@mauricioweber8879]

Bonus was the best

[@cervgiovanni]

Wow all I need is the cocktail making

[@EulaBiezen]

# 17. Only paragon gentleman can do. Help her ( or on any case another) with or in something that is meaningful to her (another). One true gentleman recently, left his office work to help me with saving some cardinal chicks that fell off the nest. This gesture melted my heart.

[@shalenmohod663]

Live below your means when developing wealth and once you reach at the top follow delayed gratification and do whatever the heck you want (of course with financial planning), dress cool , buy your favorite cars, houses!

[@johnlane753]

Learn how to properly clean every type of appliance material in home etc

[@charbeltannios546]

Treat yourself as king

[@tasneemxmustafa]

Where are all my ladies at?? Are there any ladies watching Alux??

[@jaydenboesten6198]

Dear Alux, as always you made a great video for which you have my gratitude. I just wanted to take some time to give you a small tip. And yes it's about the word mansplaining. The term has become very political and is often used outside there original context. This can put viewers of especially the newer ones. They will dismiss the channel as a political channel and that would be a shame. Maybe try to phase it this way 'Stop being arrogant' or 'stop giving advice about everything'. I hope you will take this in consideration when you can. Have a lovely day