15 MISTAKES THAT ARE RUINING YOUR FEMININE HYGIENE

[@John-zf2ph]

I have no idea how this video showed up in my rotation but thank you. I am a single father of a daughter and have had conversations with my daughter about this. Very uncomfortable conversations but I believe that as a single father of a female I must have these conversations. I am going to share this with my daughter to watch on her own time privately. Yes she will be like "dad omg this is so embarassing!" Listen child your father talking about these things will only benefit you in the long run for your personal heatlh. I already supply non-perfumed wet wipes and installed a bidet. All I can say is I am trying to be that dad that is informed and learn and help my daughter as best I can in a very sensitive but informed way. Thank you for all you are doing. Little ladies, grown ladies, and MEN should be informed. I wish there were better vidoes out there for Men too. Men can get nasty as well! Cleanliness and personal hygene is important.

[@tracyjacquet1902]

I am so happy that you are willing to be informed. Some Men feel like personal hygiene only applies to women when it doesn’t. As a normal human being we would want to smell good and feel good, and be clean so that we don’t get sick.

[@evettepierre2262]

God bless you Dad ❤️ I commend you

[@cwinton7505]

PROUD OF DAD

[@noticekerry]

Q. W×××W Wge

[@sheilaadoeaddison5965]

Thumbs up 👍🏽 to you Dad 😄

[@blueturquoisett8448]

Using panty liners can help the scent down there as well. I also sleep with no underwear at night, helps her breathe after being cooped up all day. 😊

[@AAA-ys9jv]

To me panty liners has opposite effect, they always smell bad even after short period of time. I prefer using tissue down there. Yes it is less comfortable than liners but tissue don’t trap an odour as liners

[@marciaanderson668]

Panty liners may help when you have a heavy discharge but it's best to get the proper treatment for the cause of the discharge. I've worn panty liners from I was a young woman and got hooked on it. However, it can actually exacerbate an issue because it holds moisture and can cause bacteria to build up hence creating a bad odour. If you can sleep comfortably without underwear when possible, that is a plus.

[@igletmolatudi3321]

@@AAA-ys9jv Tissue is actually not good for you

[@stewleo]

I was advised that panty liners should be changed every 4 hrs

[@yvonnewood7757]

My doctor advised against using panty Liners. Most of them have a plastic lining which helps create moisture which aids in the production of bacteria. He advised that I should use a good hand towel. At first, I thought he was crazy. He said that handtowels are simple paper which is a natural product. I did what he said and I noticed the difference right away. I was drier than with the Liners and the persistent infections were gone.

[@Marcie_does_it]

I love this video and wish I’d had something like this growing up. One thing I would like young ladies (and grown ladies) to know is that if you have issues with sweating and odor, it’s okay to shower multiple times per day. I’m not a one shower per day girl, or a bird bath girl. I used to think that something was wrong with me, but my body is just different. If your one shower and deodorant routine doesn’t last the whole day, take another shower, sis. You’re not alone!

[@tenwaystowearit]

This is 100% true and great advice Marcie. My BF sweats a lot and she showers multiple times per day. She always smells amazing too as a result. ♥️

[@Denisebemmett]

I totally agree. Definitely can not do a bird bath. Sweating, urinating, bowel movements, working, and other daily routines requires showering for me. Morning and night.

[@burniccollie7665]

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[@ElleS572]

Have you tried Lume?

[@cathyopthof8136]

Thankyou for being totally honest! Nobody ever talks about cleaning our vagina!!!

[@shanimajones1983]

Buy a tongue scraper and brush your tongue. Keep your skin moisturized. Maintain feet even in the winter 💛

[@theolakim5720]

As a woman in her 60's it is never too late to learn and or reset. Love the razor tip. I went to the Target website and ordered the razor gift sets for the year. Once my husband got over the shock of all of the boxes and I explained... he said, "that is smart". Yes it is! Blessings

[@tenwaystowearit]

That’s wonderful to hear Theola. I’m glad the hubby was on board. And you are so right. It’s be we too late. Sending you lots of love my sis. Happy Holidays to you. 😘♥️

[@cynthiaphirie3541]

You are beautiful Theola! I'm in my 60's too, & I constantly pick up tips from our younger counterparts too.

[@virginiawilkinson5038]

@@cynthiaphirie3541 me too!

[@tinawilliams2158]

Add me to the list of older women still learning. If only the products and knowledge available today existed when I was growing up. It's a good thing I had a smart grandma and mom because a lot of their teachings still hold today. But of course the products are infinitely better. Also a lot of medical rules have changed. Ex. Douching.

[@paulinehayles8856]

@@cynthiaphirie3541 I herd that wen you use vagisal it will make you dry

[@geekybill]

Love this video! And I love how these issues are addressed in a nice and empathetic way, it really makes a difference! 💖

[@forgoogletotrack7181]

I was raised to use five towels/washcloths per bath or shower - one for the upper body, one for the vulva, one for the butt and the other two for the legs and feet. I have seven sets on rotation and launder and air dry my washcloths and towels on Sundays. I have feminine wash for the vulva and have never douched or sprayed because my best friend's mom is a nurse and she told us never to do that when we were tweens. I wear 100% organic cotton underwear and use a women-specific probiotic. I eat a pretty omnivorous diet and drink lots of tea for my water intake. And I'll always use a feminine wash, never bar soap, shower gel or just water alone.

[@SHAWNTESH]

I grew up doing the whole douching routine, the water bottle, water and vinegar or the store-bought ones. I did that as well as well as bathing.I used to get all kinds of vaginal infections so when the gynecologist told me that those were what caused them, I stopped cold turkey. She explained to me how our vaginas are self-cleaning and regular washing was all that was required. Since I stopped the douching which was over 10 years ago, there has been no vaginal infections. And I’m sure my vagina thanks me😌

[@dorothylee4270]

Bidet,bidet...Bidet was my Best investment of 2022!! I keep a stack of wash clothes just for the V-J-Jay! Not able to use all those fragrant products. Yep..120 oz daily!! Great video for All!!

[@opaldixon3032]

Hello I see your comment I have the same issues too...I went to doctor servaral time for the same complain please can you tell me what you do..

[@SHAWNTESH]

@@opaldixon3032 Hi Opal I just stopped with the douching altogether. My gynecologist told me that douching increases the chances of infection and not only that whatever the doctor could test has been washed away. But it only seemed to serve as a temporary fix to stop itching when I did douche. Now I just make sure I throughly clean from front to back. And I never use the same washcloth for my face.

[@opaldixon3032]

Its the same thing the doctor told me to wipe from front to back but I continue to see it still..

[@anitaphillip8772]

Is washing with the vinegar ok

[@Denisebemmett]

Great tips. Your teeth are beautiful. Proper mouth care is very important. The only thing I have an opinion on sis and not being rude, sheets should be wash once a week. When you wash your clothes on Sunday your sheets should go into the wash,dead skin cells, sweat, sex etc.We are all on a journey for information, no one is perfect. God bless you.

[@Meow4B]

I have been washing my sheets every Sunday my whole life lol it’s easy once it’s a routine.

[@MsNdrstd1]

thx for the honesty, we all know folks who have the same sheets for months. if sex happens, yes.....immediately to the wash but i bathe morning and night....i go 2 weeks and sometimes 3 nut i am single.

[@AAA-ys9jv]

@@MsNdrstd1 every week is a minimum to me, if I had more time in a week would do every 3-4 days. Dead skin cells every day, dust, sweat, is like wrapping yourself in t- shirt every night on freshly washed body. Going weeks or months it’s just big no for me

[@hschultz3975]

People on fb say once/week ideally, but no longer than 2. Helps stop skin cells, microscopic skin mites, etc. from filtering down into mattress.

[@cynthiaphirie3541]

Beautiful advice Alicia! I would also add washing one's hair regularly. There's nothing as off putting than a rancid scalp...all the perfume and freshness elsewhere will be in vain if the hair isn't clean. Thanks 🌻

[@MsYeahman1]

Rancid! 😂😂

[@torimcallister-423]

You are so awesome I thank you so much for sacrificing your precious time to give back . I know you must be getting paid as you should bc you have revelant content . My God bless you girl

[@torimcallister-423]

You are so transparent I appreciate it

[@marilynleewilliams1497]

I am a woman in her mid 60's and your advice was like receiving that grandma advice that I would have love to have gotten but didn't. I'm making some changes. Thank you so very much. GOD bless you honey!

[@yvonnecooper7507]

Hello I really enjoyed your presentation, any suggestions on face cleanser and moisturizer

[@moniquewest3277]

My face has it's own towel. Concerning my teeth, I used to brush nightly with baking soda and it made my teeth whiter than the whitest filling my dentist used. She told me to stop because it was too abrasive. Now, I rinse with peroxide before brushing. When I gargle with it, I notice that it loosens food particles stuck between my teeth.

[@brendarewan7441]

Gargling with peroxide and water mixture will also clear out phlegm in your throat.

[@patriciadavismoore4310]

Great tips. I think younger girls should start with a depilatory on underarms and legs before graduating to shaving. It’s simple and they can learn how fast the hair grows back and the pattern it grows, so if the decide to shave it will be easy for them to know what direction to shave in. The Salux towel is my every day washcloth, I discovered them while living in Japan; hidden secret that I share with everyone. Thank you for telling people that face wipes do not equal cleansing your face! And yes, clean sheets and pillowcases will keep you blemish free.

[@MissLondonE7]

The Salux cloth is the truth!!! I've put A lot of my friends up on this cloth....so good!👌🏽

[@ShalontaEdwards]

Baybee! Who is guilty of going to sleep and not washing their face??! ✋🏾 And during that part of the video who was thinking, "And I don't change my pillowcases as often as I should." ✋🏾 And BOOM! Here she goes talking about pillowcases!!! Note to self: Get it together Sis!! ❤️

[@MsYeahman1]

Also the rest of your bed linens Shalonta. 🙂Dust mites.

[@elithiswilliams6673]

At 86 and always willing to learn something I hadn't really thought of before as I should. I am going to be a regular watcher. Thank you so much. Blessings to you and yours.

[@donnies4693]

For down there care, my Gynie recommends unscented Dove soap & 100% cotton underwear for comfort, coolness and breathability!😀😀..Great video! So glad this was recommended! Really good tips! Thanks!👍🏽👍🏽

[@kdooley41]

Such great advice, thankfully I already do most of these so I can vouch that you are giving excellent advice.. The younger you start practicing good hygiene the more graceful you age!! I can't think of anything to add, but what I will put a focus on is drinking water and facial care.. Water is essential to health of every thing you covered.. And practicing cleaning and moisturizing your skin is so important.. My mama is 70 and people always tell her she looks no older than 50 and she has minimal health problems.. Her secret is water!! She has no wrinkles!! None!!

[@marimayn716]

Great tips! I’m 38 and my mom never sat me nor my sister down for all things hygiene related. I’m Obsessed with my hygiene now!

[@Dual971]

Really? Your mom?

[@Randomperson16-q4j]

​@Dual971 Yep. My mother only told me to wash well and not take too long in the shower. That was it. Everything I learned was from books, movies, social media, and my friends.

[@RMW22222]

Great tips and advice Alisha! I'm with you, 2022 will be the year for better self care physically and mentally. Thank you Girlfriend! 💗💃

[@tenwaystowearit]

Thank you so much Mel! We gotta live our best lives in 2022 babe. Let’s do it! 😘♥️

[@lyvoniarivers9489]

@@tenwaystowearit Great info! New subie here. Another note, Hair deets please? It's so pretty! 🤎

[@Meow4B]

I got strawberry legs and ingrown hairs my whole life, laser hair removal fixed that it was one of the best things I have ever done for myself. It was affordable because I would buy groupon deals or use coupons. And now my showers are so much shorter! I used to get stubble about 12 hrs after I shave. And Yeah change the razor every 10 uses at the most.

[@killerlalu1]

I get stubble while I'm shaving. no jokes. To even be kind of smooth, I would have to shave twice every time because I would get chills and immediately get stubble anywhere from while I was literally still shaving up to when I was drying off... never longer than that. I'm disabled and bed-ridden now, so I don't shave at all anymore and I'm so freaking happy about it!

[@desireewright4894]

When I started using Cetaphil Smoothing body wash on my arms & legs, and also their body cream, it helped SOOO much. They’re available at target, a little more expensive, but my skin has never been so smooth and calm. Fragranced products always made them more irritated.

[@judithstevens4323]

I use 3 different soaps. 1 for face & neck. 1 for body. 1 dial antibacterial for the pum pum , under arms & booty!! NEVER an issue.

[@imnewhere8482]

Haha same... I thought I was the only one

[@SayItKey]

Same lol

[@luvjazmine241]

dial for my pumpum , works miracle ! DOVE could never

[@Marcie_does_it]

I also use use antibacterial soap. Especially when I sweat.

[@brendamonteiro6311]

Love your advice. Not bragging, but I must admit, I do most of everything you advise. To me it is just common sense.I have been washing my face every night for over 50 years. Since I was 15 years old. Change my washcloth everyday. Can't imagine washing with the same towel 2 or 3 days since I've been an adult. I don't grow much hair on my face However, I change my face razor and pillow cases weekly. Brush my teeth 2-3 times a day. My teeth do not feel clean unless I floss and use a tongue cleaner. Brushing does not remove all of the food between your teeth. I appreciate your advice, and happy to hear someone confirm my hygiene habits have always been on point!

[@CLCCOTTON1]

OMGGGGGGGG I struggle with drinking water too. I am so guilty of this. I am guilty of not washing my face at night b4 I go to bed & flossing. Girl, this video was for ME! Thanks for the GREAT TIPS & thank you for the tips on the panty sprays. Will buy them. Great video! Ohhh your Christmas Tree is BEAUTIFUL

[@tclark8205]

Alicia this video is great!! People shy away from these conversations and you made the conversation informative and dare I say "entertaining".

[@sheilakosoff5806]

Thanks for another great video! I sleep with a silk pillowcase and every night I put a few drops of eucalyptus oil on it and it’s changed my skin so much. My skin is not dry; it’s smooth my daughter even asked me what I was doing to my face . And all I do is I I wash my face every night and then that I put a few drops of eucalyptus oil on my silk pillowcase. I don’t know if it’s the silk pillowcase or eucalyptus oil but I know sleep really well in my face looks really good.

[@MsYeahman1]

I just started Lume Alisha! I swear by it. It works everywhere! (Not sponsored). No soap in bottles for me anymore, only hypoallergenic bar soap. Thank you for all your hygiene videos.

[@tenwaystowearit]

I am definitely going to try it Evelyn. You’re the second person to suggest it to me so I’m going to take that as a sign. Thank you. 😘♥️

[@virginiawilkinson5038]

I love Lume..sent some to my sis.. She loves it too

[@dorothyknox5649]

Thank you Evelyn I have been WANTING to try Lume but I have tried some MANY kinds and this Cost a lot. But it works I will buy it I hope it works for me

[@ednagordon803]

I have tried Lume and it did not work for me. But some things are not going to work for everyone 🙃 ijs...God bless ❤

[@MsYeahman1]

@@ednagordon803 I understand. I am now going back and forth between the Lume and Native. 😊

[@kristiguinn433]

Every time I shower I use a clean towel and have done so all my life

[@Jaham771]

I use two wash cloth each time I shower, Terri for the front or baby wash cloth and regular wash cloth for the rest of my body. A new set each time.

[@Hfg904]

Thank you for sharing this info! You’re wisdom is Golden girl 👍🏾😁🙏🏾 You’re like a friend who cares enough to help the rest of us! And I really appreciate it ~ Yes I have learned a lot of hygiene lessons the hard way So I’m taking in everything you’ve mentioned ~ I’m not a spring chicken anymore ~ but I still want to live my best life while still becoming that better version of myself ~ warm hugs! Peace ~ Love ~ Light and many Blessings to you! 🥰💗🤗

[@gerrymarie1891]

This video was great!! I use a water flosser for my gums and it’s better than string floss and it kills bad breath odors..🥰

[@lydiarillo4334]

oh my, your great the entire video 2 thumbs up love it!!!

[@naya50]

Great video. I am a pelvic floor therapist and strongly support your view on separate towel and no perfume soap to clean the vulva

[@DogMommy.]

Hi r sometimes I feel like my underwear smells like urine and I'm not sure why . Any ideas ? I'm not sure if it's cause pelvic floor or what else it could be

[@louisenixon4936]

Great tips that can't be said enough for our young Queens in training 👏. Thanks

[@cassandrafleming7123]

but some ladies are just more sensitive than others my mother told me as a baby here I was very sensitive and now that I'm a grown woman I'm still very sensitive so she's correct about that that's just a very sensitive delicate area and you have to treat it as such

[@reneelovejoy5302]

Hold tf up now lol ain’t no way I’m using the same towel for a week🥴 I use all white towels & I changed them out daily……I lovveeee white towels, I use so many towels🙈when I’m taking a bath or shower.

[@myrthasmascary4086]

Right all the dead skin bacteria and oils. Built up on that towel 4 a week

[@so.many.obstacles]

I use separate towels for my face and body and I change them after each use. I got those thick super thirsty white towels from Sam’s club.

[@EmancipateMee]

She said she washes her towels once a week. Not use the same towel for a week.

[@gigishair4u]

When you said you do not wash you bedding every week but the pillow cases is a non negotiable! I hit subscribe 😆 🤣 😂 It's the realness for me@

[@MaLiArtworks186]

Yes, sheets should be washed once or twice a week.

[@gigishair4u]

@@MaLiArtworks186 absolutely

[@bradinabraxton8836]

Very good video, some people truly don't know how to take care of themselves. We are never to old to learn.

[@NCREqueen777]

Thank you for adding this video I always wanted to talk to women about their hygiene. Thank you for the two towel method . I have always used two towels, but one was for my face and one for my body, now I will have to use three because my miss V.V needs her own towel. Thanks.

[@pauladowdy4881]

My female do said use baby soap instead of the female washes cause they do more testing on baby stuff. I finally have stopped getting yeast infections and only use my hand to clean down there.

[@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds]

Yeast infections happen on the INSIDE. You use soap on the OUTSIDE. What type of soap you wash with externally, should not have any bearing on whether you get an internal yeast infection. If it does, you may not be using the soap correctly.

[@thehardyteamrealtor6040]

You are my favorite you tuber !! Thank you and I nearly spit out my tea laughing when you said , unless you are out there servicing. Love you and your fashion vids are super helpful

[@hollylawless5469]

Who knew?! Thank you for this video, I learned so much. The links are great too. I exfoliate BEFORE I shave. If I did it after, my legs would break out in a rash.

[@MsYeahman1]

Also remember to clean from front to back, wipe from front to back. Wash frOM FRONT to back. Do not use the same part of the wash cloth to wash different areas. The vagina also cleanse itself. Lol! The scalp is the “mons pubis” or pubic area. You are so kind Alisha. Thank you again. 😚😗😘

[@soniamyspacemyworld6047]

It’s incredible how u touch base on such relevant topics without sounding all preachy preachy…..no wonder I SEE U babe…wonderful video great tips n awesome guidance…LOVED THE VIDEO…much love girlfriend 💕💕

[@missrobin2088]

Thank you for the reminder to take care of ourselves.

[@chipsnana6852]

Just ran across your video. Everything about your video is beautiful, yourself, background, content, the whole esthetic. Great, new subbie.

[@tenwaystowearit]

Thank you so much my dear. I truly appreciate the wonderful feedback. I’m so glad to have you here. Big hugs! Happy Friday. 😘♥️

[@helenwalker9751]

In regards to drinking water...sometimes water is just too bland so try taking it up a notch by flavoring your water by putting a packet of Crystal Light, or flavored Tea or Lemonade etc (from the Dollar Tree) or just add some Cucumber slices or Lemon slices.

[@hschultz3975]

Read stevia label. Sometimes there are other sweeteners in it. Some people are sensitive to sugar alcohols, like erithritol - makes them hustle to bathroom. In the last year, I've had 3 GI & 1GP doctors tell me to stop consuming artificial sugars. I guess new research has come out. The body reacts as if it was real sugar.

[@fbiinternalcoop]

@@hschultz3975 I thought I posted something about Aspartame in sugar free drinks being dangerous for our health🤔I truly don't think any sugar is good for us to be honest.I only allow myself sugar substitutes once every 2 weeks or once per month in some type of homemade baked good.My goal is to ween myself off sugar completely.Even sugar from really sweet fruits.My end goal is to only have berries and low sugar fruits regularly.The other sweet fruits will be treated as snacks because the way fruits are bred these days that's exactly what they are,sweet snacks.So my goal is to basically be completely sugarless in the next year or 2.We should only have like .2% of sugar in the blood at all times.We consume dangerous amounts of sugar and the Pancreas works overtime to clean all the sugar from the blood to keep us alive and then it gets exhausted,then here comes diabetes,heart disease,etc etc.And we think it's perfectly normal to develop these diseases because of commonality.Im just not willing to take medicine ever some ppl are willing and that's perfectly fine too.Thanks for commenting and spreading awareness!

[@hschultz3975]

Regal Above Pettiness I abbreviated 3 gastrointestinal & 1 general practice (She's actually an internal medicine Dr, now that I think of it.) doctors.🙂

[@hschultz3975]

oops, I mean erythritol.

[@leahcardzansi3924]

Thank you for sharing my tip is to clean your makeup brushes if you can every week especially if you wear makeup everyday and your makeup sponges the same day I clean my sponges straight after my evening wash so that its ready for the following day 😊 love your eyemake up its on point 💚💚💚 Be blessed always 😊 🙏🏼

[@tenwaystowearit]

Thanks so much Leah. That’s another thing I struggle with and need to work on. I’m going to do better. ♥️

[@ccshomebeauty3042]

Cootie cat 😂I haven’t heard that since my grandma!! Nice tips TFS

[@blueturquoisett8448]

My mother used to say butterfly ☺

[@jenniferlewis3393]

I agree with you sis. I wanna add, 3 rags. Your face needs its own rag also❤

[@newjerseylove1373]

ABSOLUTELY

[@OracleLoveLight]

Great content love! Beautiful tips. Just wanted to add the number ONE thing in cleaning and maintaining a healthy vagina and body. Be super intentional about what you are eating. Alll of the topical ways to keep her clean is beautiful. However, if you are not feeding her the proper healing foods for a healthy vagina and body it's no need to try and clear her up superficially. The food that we ingest is the first step into healing her and our body. Work from the inside out. Food play a major role in skin and our lady parts care❤️

[@MsYeahman1]

So very true!

[@stellaadler120]

What kind of foods?

[@nanaabaafriyie2453]

@@stellaadler120 just a balanced diet and water but it is believed vaginas love yoghurts,cultures, cranberry fruit/ juice and pineapple fruit/juice

[@sarahawkins1917]

@stellaadler120 fresh whole foods, fruits and veggies

[@dplj4428]

Sugar of all type and especially if you have diabetes.

[@donnajohnson3699]

I love that you are talking about this. The one thing I wish you would cover is waxing the vajaja! Too many women think they should wax. But waxing is not always the best.

[@joycepenn6123]

I loved your hygiene tips!! Also, the whitener purchased through my dentist made my teeth sensitive. I purchased Intelliwhite which is like a feathery tip similar to nail polish. This contains 14 percent peroxide versus 10 percent like the dentist's product. It has whitened my teeth to greater than I've ever seen!! I now can smile..... They have come out with a blue light treatment I plan to buy, too.

[@tenwaystowearit]

Thank you so much Joyce. I’m going to try that one for sure. 😘♥️

[@effem9366]

Where did you find the teeth whitener. I need something.

[@effem9366]

18 is NOT an adult.

[@michellefigueroaguzman6177]

Love this video.... water make you have beautiful skin too!😁

[@MissLondonE7]

I was told by my wax lady that wearing jeans or close fitting pants makes the strawberry skin worse because of the friction caused by the fabric. Also, one more thing to add....everyone should get a handheld shower attachment ($20 or $30) to rinse out your Vagina/Hoo Haa/Pum Pum/Pocketbook/Friend😂 It's selfcleaning so no soap needed inside, soap outside is ok, but if there's any odd odors or sightings, SEE YOUR GYN!!!!✌🏽

[@MsYeahman1]

True: self cleaning and what we put in our mouths (food, medications, etc).

[@loresemorgan1787]

Thank you i love the way you explain things please give some lessons how to get rid of stinky under arms ouders i love your hair it is beautiful some tips about those long shiny curls 😀

[@dplj4428]

Make sure the shower head is regularly cleaned to avoid mold buildup.

[@TRC.323]

Love the info you have provided! 💝😃🎉

[@tenwaystowearit]

Thank you so much Theresa. 😘♥️

[@TRC.323]

@@tenwaystowearit I want to thank you for sharing your experiences and advice on improving our feminine hygiene🌹😃💝🌻🎉You remind me of the talks I used to have with my Mother when I was younger and as a young woman... and I still practice those teachings today in my older age! 😊💝🌹#forever youthful&fresh🙏🏽🌹

[@tinaphillips9620]

Firstly this is a great topic! I have no idea why some people say don’t use soap on a vagina. Who wants to walk around smelling like a fish outta water? There’s no alternative to just using soap to clean the vaginal 2 sets of lips & the man in the boat and the space between front and back holes (perineum), avoid going inside. Only the D was made to go in there if you ask me. That’ll help people understand to leave it alone outside of that or it’ll be a problem. I think washcloths should be changed per shower. I also suggest doing a smell check before thinking you’re clean Bc some time you have to wash more than once or change soaps if the smell refuses to wash away. A hoe bath on hot days is good too, 1 or more quick washes of private part’s in a day or use wipes. Keep it dry down town until it’s time to party! Rule of thumb, smell check to know when and what to clean every 8 hrs, and scented lotion and smell goods extends bath times. Try not to stress Bc that’ll speed up your need to wash again.

[@ahtouyamclennon8603]

I love this message, it was very helpful love love love

[@kamwilliams5541]

Yes big sis always come through with the great tips and advice. I love it!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😊

[@maryjenkins286]

Thank you Sweetheart for this video. I agree with everything that you talked about, but shaving the face. Shaving the face - adds more hairs onto the face and the hair grow back thicker. Plucking the hair is better for me because you don't have to pluck often like shaving the face and the hair takes a while to grow back. It's painful, but you don't have to shave like a man. I'm 63 of age and I get the same two or three hairs under my chin since I was forty. My mother told me when I was a young woman never shave the face unless you want a beard or mustache. Your other advice is 💯 correct especially drinking water. Keep putting out good advice 👌. Thank you again!

[@JourneyToMyDestiny]

Never shave your face 😧!

[@darkiejames6807]

Oh you preached my sister 🙌. I agree 1000%

[@crystalthomas819]

Sis, I just found you and I am hooked. You are so straight forward with the information! Thank you!!!

[@marionwright7788]

I'm 72 and learning a lot from your videos. Thank you

[@tenwaystowearit]

Thank you so much Marion. I truly appreciate it and I’m grateful to have you here. Have a wonderful weekend my dear. Big hugs. 😘♥️

[@marymerrill6379]

Another bomb video!! Thank you for the inspo. You're my best friend, and we haven't even met!! 🤩

[@appiah2f]

Girl, you are spot on on the towels

[@lisaedwards6354]

So true about changing your washcloths. Because I was reusing mine for several days. I couldn't figure out why I had reoccurring infections, because at the time I was celibate. Then I realized my towel felt a little slick when I wet it! That's when the light bulb went off!!I realized bacteria was setting up in my cloth!! I now use a NEW washcloth daily! I'll NEVER use a washcloth twice for my V again!!

[@juliaaquaamateur1573]

Thank you for your tip about water! Everyone says that we all should drink more water, that it is beneficial for our health, but I've never heard the exact reasons why it is so. Thank you for opening my eyes to the issue! I've always had a problem with being dry down there, even when I was 20. I even consulted several gyns about this, had hundreds of any kinds of checks, tried any kinds of lubes and even took hormones, and noone said JUST DRINK THAT F****NG WATER. Thank you sis for saving my love life! Now I know what to do. You gave me hope😊

[@cassandrafleming7123]

and this is address to all ladies cuz I'm a lady one thing that will keep your but JJ healthy it's not sleeping around if you are sleeping around with multiple men I'm going to tell you right now and the OBGYN can tell you this you going to keep all kind of vagina infections like seriously even if you use a condom because there are still so many things you can catch with a condom cuz you got all the skin around the condom that's open so I don't know I don't remember her saying this sleeping around with multiple partners would keep you in the doctor's office and this is true no lie

[@terrycampbell5380]

Great tips I definitely practice many of them and love my water! My good friend and I, just began a Reset Sunday regimen! What I struggle with is a great skin care routine and your tips were appreciated!

[@joeyloves2travel]

Great tips I am so guilty about the water intake

[@km-qc3iv]

My routine is to first floss, brush my teeth, tongue and swish with hydrogen peroxide. I was taught to use washcloths, never loofahs. Also I use a different washcloth for my face. Now I use different soaps for different places. I stopped using the scented cute liquid soaps and now I use the following in order. Dial antibacterial bar soap on all parts of my body except ms. kitty. I let the soap sit for a minute, paying particular attention to armpits, neck, under my breasts, belly button, butt, feet. Then I follow with castile soap and or tea tree soap. I might use the dial again. My final round I use a microbial skin cleanser like hibiscrub on my armpits, butt, neck, under my breasts and feet. Finally I use vaginal soap on ms. kitty. Now I have had lifelong acne so I stay working on my face it and stays pretty smooth. I have oily skin as well. I use Paula's Choice Clear Skin trio which has the facial soap (with salicylic acid), toner and benzoyl peroxide. I get the following equate (yes walmart) brands: -Grapefruit face scrub, -Dual power moisturizer -advanced firming day cream -eye cream Finally I use at least 50% sunscreen on my face. I never leave the house without sunscreen. Now the after shower routine starts. I spray my armpits with a mixture of apple cider vinegar and water, coconut oil, dial deodorant and mitchum. I use coconut oil on armpits, under my breasts, and feet. Coconut oil has antibacterial properties. Yes it seems like a long routine but I have it down to a science so it goes pretty smooth for me. Also, it doesn't hurt to take baths and put either some organic apple cider vinegar or hydrogen peroxide in the water.

[@TLMatthews2010]

Love it! Can’t wait to share this with my 16 yo goddaughter! Definitely will be making some changes to our hygiene routines. Great video! 😍💖💪🏽

[@Alice-fr1ef]

I like Dove soap too but no perfume soap or toilet paper for down there back or front. Only white toilet paper. I was going to mention the bath gloves. They are great but I don't use them on my face at all. I also have the little blades from Amazon but not for my face. I use Nair with almond oil and also flawless hair remover on my face. My dentist always said you don't have to floss your teeth, only the ones you want to keep. Water is so good for us for sure. I don't drink anything with sugar, no juice, sodas and only one coffee. Thank you so much for all of the tips for they are really invaluable to us. I thoroughly enjoyed this video.

[@neycep1823]

The scalp.... y'all know 🤭...Love it❣️

[@1angel25]

Great tips! Ladies if you’re shaving your face, chin or neck area be careful of folliculitis. If you do experience folliculitis, grab a bottle of Bactine Max and Hibiclens. These help to cleanse the skin of bacteria. Always do a spot test before using these products.

[@Jaham771]

If you can afford it wax the underarms. For darker skinned girls hyperpigmentation is real. Noticed a huge difference when I stopped shaving that area. Thanks for the advice Alisha. Happy 2022 to you!

[@tenwaystowearit]

I have terrible hyperpigmentation under my arms. It’s gotten better since using kojic soap but I’m going to try waxing. I bought an at-home waxing kit and have never even opened it. I think this is a sign. Thanks boo. 😘

[@monil1019]

I used to have an issue drinking water too. If it’s ice cold it’s easier to drink and try infusing your water with fruit like lemon, lime, or pineapple. I also switch it up by using crystal light. One thing that’s also important is seeing your dr. at least once a year for a physical. A lot of ppl feel fine and just assume that they’re ok.

[@susanoline5823]

That should be the number one tip!

[@hschultz3975]

👍except my 4 doctors have told me stop Crystal Light, etc. Fake sugar is bad for you, they say.

[@Filofrance]

I just love you and even if I knew most of what you talked about , I was thinking of how many women don’t . Thanks for helping and inspiring so many . I just love sooooo very much , sorry for repeating myself . God bless ❤

[@geishrodgers5245]

Hiii Love! It's all the things for me! Hair, skin and that color green on you!! Pretty!!

[@tenwaystowearit]

Thank you so much Geish! 😘

[@nicolehargrove6454]

Kudos to you for making this video Sis!! Well said.

[@kekeweems2321]

OMG!!! I’m exactly the same, I love love to smell like my soap, I like the mixture of it with my body moisturizer and the scent of the day!!!❤️❤️😊

[@corlisslove4610]

Thank you some of your tips and comments made me realize I have been doing a few things wrong. I appreciate your video. Thank you 😊

[@queenritawright8531]

The bomb 💣 and I love how real you are about lady hygiene. Very powerful keep it going God bless!

[@vickiesprague3600]

I have a long career in the cosmetic field with some of the best lines in the world. In all my years of makeovers I just about faint when I touch a women who has been shaving their face. It's the long term effects that you'll regret. If you continue, in time you will get a 5 o'clock shadow and you will be doing it twice a day and will have stubs that your partner or anyone can see and feel. There are many creams that you apply a few minutes before u shower and the results leave your skin looking beautiful. If u have a real issue with hair there's always electrolisis [sp]. It can be a little expensive but a small area at a time can be done. Also, if u talk to your physician your hormones may need to be corrected. In any case, do yourself this one important thing, never, ever shave.

[@hschultz3975]

I have allergies to skin products. What about using a scissors?

[@aewell77]

Hey Alisha great video. I like you have a hard time drinking water. I notice when I’m not getting enough cause my lips gets dry. My hair. And I was always sluggish. So I’m getting it together. Thanks for the tips. I need to invest in the shaving kit instead of buying seperately. I love those razors too so it makes since to get the set🥰🥰

[@anitadelacruz4897]

I'm here drinking a hard cider while watching you...gonna drink water tonight! Thanks!

[@chastitybarnett1818]

Great info!! Thank you for being transparent.. (I need to drink more water as well!)Your tips are very helpful & I will definitely try some of the products you mentioned in your video!! 🙏🏽❤️

[@tenwaystowearit]

Thanks so much Chastity. I really appreciate it love. ♥️

[@kdzelaya8373]

Great advice! I have done some of these things before. Some don't apply at the moment like shaving my face, but I will be changing some things like using different towels for washing my body and using a sensitive fragrant free soap for my precious. Thank you for making this video.

[@jwatley313]

Thanks new products I never heard of! Awesome video!

[@susanharris3092]

You can simplify the number of wash cloths you need in the shower by installing a bidet attachment onto your toilet for cleaning your bum. We invested in a super cheap one (about $60) and it gets the job done.

[@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds]

And, if that's outside of your budget, you can literally just keep a bottle in the bathroom, and fill it with water and use it to cleanse before wiping. I personally prefer to go to the dollar store, buy a bottle of either cheap shampoo (which I empty into another container and use it as hand soap) or conditioner (which I use when I shave instead of shaving cream--game changer, trust me!), and then wash that bottle out, and use it. Also, if the cap isn't ideal for some reason, such as the opening being too big, the cap on your dish liquid bottle is usually PERFECT.

[@kharris572]

I love this video and learned so new tips. I have creating a binder for my grand-daughter .

[@kelleyfurline2305]

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve watched this. I love your hygiene routine videos and all the different products you use. They are so helpful and have introduced me to products I’ve never thought about using. I’m new to your channel so I have some catching up to do 😊

[@pathunter4988]

I enjoyed your video. Good advice. My daughter turned me on to you. Thank you for all you do.

[@cspann33]

Wonderful tips! I’m glad you found something better than the Summers Eve sprays. I stopped using the brand 20 years ago. I started using unscented washes from then and organic sanitary pads. I had a whole life shift after going vegan. I’ve since gone back to meat but mostly organic when I want it.

[@restoredtoroyalty7960]

First Of All Queen 👑 You're beautiful Thank You For Sharing With Us. Keep the Videos coming 👑

[@virginiaa.w.996]

Wish your grandma would have been my grandma. Stunk for so long despite bathing and being conscious of odor. Using lavender epsom salt foaming bath. Feeling fresh. Good plan shower more than once a day. Thank you. Never had anyone tell me anything. Great help.

[@hschultz3975]

If you have a strong odor, you might have a bacterial or yeast infection. May want gyn. to check it.

[@jennifernurse5963]

Always giving great info and advice. Thank you 💓

[@cdk1473]

Thank you for your video. I became a subscriber because of a similar video that you had. I just wanted to include my thoughts about drinking more water. It’s a great message we all need to hear. I recently had issues with my left kidney and this past spring it was removed. I like to believe that I drank plenty of water but some days I drank a lot of soda. Before my kidney was removed I had a lot of issues and one issue was very embarrassing as a woman. And it was not resolved until my kidney was removed. So to anyone reading this please drink water and in moderation have juice or soda if you choose. But drink water. Having a kidney removed is not fun.

[@daniellaandrews]

I love the one with the towel

[@tinainthehousetoo2510]

Very great and informative video! The past year I’ve got away from some of these habits. They really matter. Thanks for the reminders. ❤️

[@carletta4116]

Loved the tips and great video!!! You look fabulous☺️

[@lisabailey5373]

Thank you for sharing this important information. What type of moisturizers do you recommend 🤔

[@egary56]

I really loved listening to your video. I look forward to more.

[@tenwaystowearit]

Thank you so much my dear. I truly appreciate it. I will certainly bring you more. Have a wonderful weekend. 😘♥️

[@siquellathomas3770]

I love this video... see the time🙄 and am up watching it I couldn't help but listen to the end.i appreciate your pointers

[@marylou80]

Thank you for all of this information. I’m feeling very enlightened. 🌻