15 Signs He Totally Adores You | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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@morecakeplease995
@morecakeplease995 5 жыл бұрын
1. He is active in his pursuit for you, you are on his mind 2. Hes present when he is with you. We pay attention to what we value most. 3. He pored maximum investment with you, pouring his own creative energy. 4. Hes focused on you, remembers what matters to you. 5. He is mr. Progression not Mr stagnant man. 6. Hes vulnerable with you. Willing to open up. 7. Public displays of affection. 8. He wants to be with you even when you're not at your best. 9. He is willing to be influenced by you. 10. He mentions you In future plans. 11. He remembers the little things. Your favorite food. Ice cream. Restaurants. 12. Your comfort is a priority for you. 13. He offers to help even when its inconvenient. 14. He wants to please you in bed. 15. There's is no doubt in your mind that he is Into you. You're welcome!
@sezza271
@sezza271 5 жыл бұрын
Thankyou! 😄
@zoepayne3297
@zoepayne3297 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! My attention span barely lasts 5 mins 😊
@mistyprice361
@mistyprice361 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks! 🙂
@WhiteAngelLovesEarth
@WhiteAngelLovesEarth 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Dear Universe/dear God, please... hope my(future) husband will be like this. 🥰😘💖💕
@baby24142
@baby24142 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@gelita32
@gelita32 6 жыл бұрын
I can't believe every single word you said is what the man I'm dating does when he's with me... the toothbrush, he bought sleepers and pijamas so I can be cozy in his apartment. He takes me to restaurants Friday, Saturday and Sunday, we cook together, he has confessed some secrets about his relatives and himself. He is never finished until I get 100% satisfied in bed, public affection, gifts, he got my back when I moved out, he took me to the bar he used to go to and showed me off like if I was a queen, road trips, laughs, I met his brothers , mom, auntie and best friends, all these things feel so surreal. I never thought I would meet someone like him 🤴🏼It took me 15 years to find him 💘I always prayed for the time I'm living now 🙏🏼
@pvaz
@pvaz 6 жыл бұрын
AngeLa tina sounds like he’s definitely in love. Don’t forget to reciprocate. Be the one that makes him a surprise every now and then, or the one to start sex some of the time. I’m saying this because I’m in a relationship where I was doing all the stuff, while the girl was mostly passive. After a year and a half I started feeling as if I was not being loved back in the same way. Having to be the one initiating sex 95% of the time was very down casting, as we men know we have more desire for sex and we try not to demand from someone we love and nothing turns it down more then thinking the other person is not attracted to you in the same way.
@sejj1819
@sejj1819 5 жыл бұрын
gelita3 ok, maybe i’m too curious but what happened after that? Are you engaged?
@lornasmith1286
@lornasmith1286 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe if If we prayed more and let GOD give Us a SOULMATE..We would be less frustrated or hurt...GOD Knows each person involved...and whether there is lasting commitment love and affection Trust and equality in meeting the other person's needs..especially compatiblity! We pick and don't always know the person..we sometimes pick someone who hints they are not ready..or gives attitudes behaviors that actually turn us off...but we just SETTLE and hope it gets better or that they will change with time! That is no guarantee!
@veronicasmith1332
@veronicasmith1332 4 жыл бұрын
happy for u
@maryadeledavis8577
@maryadeledavis8577 3 жыл бұрын
gelita3 what is his sun sign? Sounds too good to be true! Good for you both!
@michaelaferrar3927
@michaelaferrar3927 5 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is all of this. I had to date several jerks before finally meeting the one and falling head over heels in love!! Anyone who is discouraged, hold on, let it happen naturally. He IS out there, and there are good people in the world still!! Being adored and adoring in return is an incredibly special thing ❤
@natashaalexander4651
@natashaalexander4651 6 жыл бұрын
My baby does all of those things. He is a rare gem. I hit the jackpot with this one. I swear I'm the luckiest girl in the world.
@Heirphoria13
@Heirphoria13 5 жыл бұрын
I'm sure this doesn't apply to you but your post reminded me of a couple whose hair I cut. She would always talk about her man being the best guy in the world. But when I cut his hair he'd tell me about the women he met while on the road. 😒🌞
@pinkmuffin9842
@pinkmuffin9842 5 жыл бұрын
Hey, out of interest: are you still together? :)
@valeriac4035
@valeriac4035 5 жыл бұрын
He is still gonna cheat
@paulinemugodo589
@paulinemugodo589 4 жыл бұрын
are you still together
@yotashabhama2063
@yotashabhama2063 4 жыл бұрын
That’s sweet. Very happy for you :’)
@sadibarry
@sadibarry 6 жыл бұрын
My baby shows all theses signs 💖, I went from toxic relationship where I cried myself to sleep to a healthy relationship where we fall asleep otp every night ❤️
@Gilded-girl
@Gilded-girl 5 жыл бұрын
My husband and I were originally in a long distance relationship and he used to write me the sweetest love notes on beautiful stationary every week. I know this sounds weird, but he loved my red hair and since we couldn't see each other a lot at first due to him living far away, I sent him a little locket of my hair wrapped in a ribbon. I would also send him little gifts of things I knew he liked. Or when he came to visit, I would cook his favorite meal. Going on 5 years of marriage now, so it worked. lol
@loveinautumn3978
@loveinautumn3978 4 жыл бұрын
Not weird at all
@terriesmith8219
@terriesmith8219 7 жыл бұрын
My man does all of this. Damn, I truly am lucky. 😊
@MarkBH70
@MarkBH70 7 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! Wow! My woman is wonderful! She's stood up for me in an awkward social situation.
@terriesmith8219
@terriesmith8219 7 жыл бұрын
Aquarian Christianity~That's wonderful! I am so happy for you! Finding a quality partner is so important and it is so good to hear you found a fantastic woman as your partner. I bet she's lucky too. I truly am happy for you. You deserve it.
@MarkBH70
@MarkBH70 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, ma'am!!! I am happy you are happy too!
@jacquelinedunn536
@jacquelinedunn536 5 жыл бұрын
Me too! I’m keeping him!
@lovemecom3832
@lovemecom3832 7 жыл бұрын
If a man is in to you he will not waste any time to show to you how important you are in his life and you can see it through his actions that he is afraid that any guy might steal your attention from him and that is the time he want exclusivity between you and him.
@MarkBH70
@MarkBH70 7 жыл бұрын
I asked her to marry me. That made an impression! We're planning on wedding. I knew her from our church-group for about 6 months. Bam! Great Points! You know your stuff, sir!
@willy8703
@willy8703 6 жыл бұрын
Aquarian Christianity congratulations! I hope your marriage is full of blessings and love
@sophialewis5474
@sophialewis5474 5 жыл бұрын
A little fast Sir. Good luck to her.....ok both of you. Don't change. Learn from this video. Hope to hear success in 30 40 50 years
@shellyswt
@shellyswt 7 жыл бұрын
This was depressing. I've never seen a man act like this.
@JuliiRockeriita
@JuliiRockeriita 7 жыл бұрын
Shelly D. you'll find someone that will love you, don't be sad ❤
@shellyswt
@shellyswt 7 жыл бұрын
Julieta Espinosa Thank you, sweetheart.
@adrilovesjc
@adrilovesjc 7 жыл бұрын
it took me 6 years... he's on his way
@sosmcs
@sosmcs 7 жыл бұрын
Shelly D. yup, me neither.
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 7 жыл бұрын
he's on his way?
@spetersen2173
@spetersen2173 7 жыл бұрын
My man does all this and has since we started. That's how I knew he was so different from all the rest. 5 year anniversary next month, he's my soulmate ❤️
@TheLovely990
@TheLovely990 7 жыл бұрын
I'm dating someone new, and he meets all 15 of these. Maybe he is a keeper.
@ATrueLoveOfficial
@ATrueLoveOfficial 6 жыл бұрын
These are all true. I saw all these signs from him when we were just dating. And even until now, I can still see and feel all of it. :')
@karonhutcherson5430
@karonhutcherson5430 5 жыл бұрын
A True Love Official mm. m
@MsAvaDee1
@MsAvaDee1 7 жыл бұрын
This made me sad and depressed. I'm afraid I'll never find anyone. I'll do all these things for a guy (love or not), but they won't reciprocate. I hope this information helps people.
@brittanywalker7425
@brittanywalker7425 6 жыл бұрын
Ava D. I feel this way too at times
@Eternity0123
@Eternity0123 6 жыл бұрын
Me too
@ankitahota6382
@ankitahota6382 5 жыл бұрын
I think so too.....this is depressing by all means
@Little_Disciples1273
@Little_Disciples1273 5 жыл бұрын
Never say never! Just keep being you and do the right thing. At God's appointed time it'll work out for your good. I share your pain, and at a time, I got tried and decided to just give it to God in prayers while I focused on God and me. Not long after, just what I wanted came after me and that's because God was now in charge and he knew what was best for me and today I'm happy by his grace. Give God the chance.
@sohinisarkarblogs
@sohinisarkarblogs 5 жыл бұрын
It is true what Mathew has told. In my case it happened but the only tragedy is it came from a man whom I could not accept in my life. The man i hoped for, never acted in this way...😁
@yoonji1369
@yoonji1369 3 жыл бұрын
He did all of these even more than what you mentioned in your video until we got married , he slowly changed and left me literally disappeared. It's been almost 3 years now. That's why it's difficult for me to trust men now, even if the man has done all things you mentioned above, if he doesn't want to stay no matter what he will leave you , people change seems true. 😌
@mpavan1818
@mpavan1818 7 жыл бұрын
Mat this is so true. I've finally met someone just like this. Right on point. Woman really need to wait for the right man it is so worth it. I definitely have seen all these qualities ❤️
@lavannyalaxmiedevi3470
@lavannyalaxmiedevi3470 7 жыл бұрын
When im totally into him, I want to cook for him, buy him gifts or things tht he needs or things tht will remind him of me. I want to do things for him tht he needs to pursue his career
@colleen7549
@colleen7549 7 жыл бұрын
Cooking is fine, leave the purchases to him and let him make his own decisions regarding his career.
@sranyak
@sranyak 7 жыл бұрын
Lavannya Laxmie Devi You're sweet! But I've learned some men are takers and few men are givers. So hold back on all that gift giving, cooking is cool. Keep your money for that rainy day, trust me you'll be glad you did...
@ninamina1718
@ninamina1718 7 жыл бұрын
REALLY YOU'RE AN ANGEL
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 5 жыл бұрын
@@colleen7549 Sexist. Why can't she help with a career?
@veronicastewart3162
@veronicastewart3162 4 жыл бұрын
When my man faces challenges,I show I adore him by shining a positive light on the situation. I help him to see the opportunity in the challenge and build him up to rise to the challenges. It is important to me that he feels capable and empowered.
@petershuri4008
@petershuri4008 3 жыл бұрын
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@kellymccarthy2138
@kellymccarthy2138 7 жыл бұрын
I was choosing between 2 men, one that was new, but was doing all these things, and another I knew a awhile, who was doing almost none of them. I made the right choice. Thanks for the video!
@TheChristyto
@TheChristyto 5 жыл бұрын
Kelly McCarthy the right choice is always obvious 🥰💕
@irinad4081
@irinad4081 4 жыл бұрын
They say, always go for 2nd. If 1st would be good enough, there will be no 2nd.
@NAConen
@NAConen 3 жыл бұрын
Irina D ...Neh. Not always. It could just be “The grass is always greener” syndrome.
@musicfanatic4138
@musicfanatic4138 3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@dellchica2373
@dellchica2373 5 жыл бұрын
Wow!! for the 1st time I have found such a man. He's 60 and I'm 48.....guess he adores me :) finally !
@ichangedmyname3487
@ichangedmyname3487 5 жыл бұрын
Awww 48 is not late at all.
@dellchica2373
@dellchica2373 5 жыл бұрын
Galaxy :) thnx
@sandramullen7804
@sandramullen7804 5 жыл бұрын
We have a saying here in the UK . Better being an old mans darling ...than a young mans slave ... 💙
@joshua2222ful
@joshua2222ful 4 жыл бұрын
Sandra Mullen I was an old mans darling knew him 40 years married to him16! He was my second husband and the love of my life. He passed away three years ago and now I just exist. But I ha d wonderful memories. Love him for eternity and he was from uk!
@chrysichrysi7889
@chrysichrysi7889 3 жыл бұрын
48 and 60? You've been chosen to be his care taker for the future. Good luck anyway.
@caitlynbaxter6260
@caitlynbaxter6260 5 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend does all this. He’s the best. I’m so blessed to have him in my life.
@Desunooto
@Desunooto 5 жыл бұрын
It’s exactly like this. My boyfriend is like this. It’s impossible to doubt his love. And I guess I never really loved anyone before him. He made me see love differently. We’re always in peace, harmony. We act like a team. I can tell what he’s thinking without he saying a word. I totally adore him as well.
@hugolottie
@hugolottie 6 жыл бұрын
Something I do because I adore my boyfriend is I try to show him that I can be the best me for him. Like keep a positive atmosphere when we’re lost in the city or staying motivated with going to school, taking care of many many things at home and with family, and still finding time to workout. I like to show him I’m independent and always want to help him too.
@selfconnection6345
@selfconnection6345 6 жыл бұрын
Matthew my husband did ALL of these things. All of them. For 19 years. He was a covert narcissist that was so nice, so pleasing, so accommodating, responsible funny,capable, good father, hard working.He was leading a double life and a pathological liar liar pants on fire. It wrecked me. Almost killed me. The pain and betrayal was unbelievable. Looking back, your last item ‘does it feel right to you?’ Is the only one that I didn’t have, as I was not connected to myself, my instincts, my gut. So it wasn’t right and I let it happen. Only hindsight and distance and a lot of therapy and reading has helped me see clearly. You are a great guy with awesome advice for ‘general’ people.Then there’s the rest of us!! Thank you for your good work-but this was my experience.
@Jan-qv8ku
@Jan-qv8ku 4 ай бұрын
Same. Decades. Glad to be out of it. We are survivors!
@sarahjane8054
@sarahjane8054 7 жыл бұрын
i always like him to know what is going on in my life. he will be the first person i go to when i have a problem. I talk about my family to him. Maybe it's just me or idk.. but i love to kiss him and cuddle him a lot.. and really dress up extra good whenever we're going out. I always ask him what dress he would like me to wear or what he thinks looks nice. I rarely praise any guy in front of him.. he gets terribly jealous.
@NotYours565
@NotYours565 5 жыл бұрын
A guy told me he adores me but doesn't have this qualities towards me not even one. Well, time to move on, it's better not to assume.
@BhavnaFowdur
@BhavnaFowdur 5 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend does all of this! 😊Feel so lucky and blessed to have met him (especially after having met so many players and jerks).
@noone597
@noone597 7 жыл бұрын
I love the way you explain everything..my man shows all those signs 💟💟💟
@moe3385
@moe3385 6 жыл бұрын
no one same were lucky girls then😁
@-Raquel-
@-Raquel- 7 жыл бұрын
Hi to all of you. When I was into a guy I showed him how happy I was with him. I made him feel comfortable in any way I could. And I showed all the affection and love possible. One feels the other person fits you like a glove. Big hug !!!!! Thank you Matt for the video. You are precise, clear and charming in your talk. 😊
@christynadaisy6467
@christynadaisy6467 6 жыл бұрын
When I adore a guy, I gave him all the time I can, cook for him, say yes to the things he asked of even though I am a bit reluctant, surprised him with gifts or excitement events, remember his birthday and the things he likes. Also introduce him to my family and closest friends. But the ultimate is that I am not afraid to show him my weakness, lowest moment, or the darker side of me. Doing so, it allows me to see if he truly cares, understand, can handle me, and also show him that I not only adore him but also trust him.
@portugueseprincess6943
@portugueseprincess6943 7 жыл бұрын
I love your videos!! You have helped me in sooooo many ways so thank you!! :) As for signs when a woman (or me personally) is into a guy... 1. Cook for them. Not talking about making a sandwich lol, making him a meal that he enjoys. 2. Make him feel comfortable. Same as you described. I do a toothbrush, towels, razors, body wash, movies, his favorite beer or drink etc 3. Bring him around our family and friends. 4. We make sure we spend quality time with them 5. We will help clean their home lol...help out with dishes, mop, vaccum etc... 6. Surprise them with gifts, notes, poems, cards, weekend get aways etc.. 7. We show we care and think about them by texting or calling. Even if the phone call is 5 mins long, it shows we are thinking about you. 8. Some woman put a guys needs first in bed...just saying lol I think I pretty much covered it haha
@tamikak9411
@tamikak9411 6 жыл бұрын
I never seen a man do any of this I just gave up on love, and I live vicariously through other people relationships
@lisamojica4340
@lisamojica4340 6 жыл бұрын
When I adore a man, I put my full attention on him. I always want to be with him, talk to him, know what he's interested in. I am supportive of him and cherish him.
@rezotydnic
@rezotydnic 6 жыл бұрын
I see almost all these things in my bf. I can totally give him space when he needs it and I feel confident. Which is new to me. I compliment him and tell him how proud I am of who he is. And I love seeing him excited over things he likes to do. And the pleasing and taking care of, goes both ways. There's nothing I wouldn't do for him. Example. I drove 230 kms one way to take him to lunch, spend an hour with him and then drove back.
@peterdelray4689
@peterdelray4689 7 жыл бұрын
I think most men when they find the right woman would be interested in a long-term commitment I didn't for a very long time until I met one woman that I fell in love with
@soniaindigo
@soniaindigo 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Matt, my guy, has an artist hand, and on our 3rd meeting, he offered me a beautiful drawing of two harms, giving hands together. He said that's how he sees us, walking together side by side, giving hands, supporting each other .
@petershuri4008
@petershuri4008 3 жыл бұрын
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@proyc95
@proyc95 7 жыл бұрын
i really like the signs about sharing vulnerability, loving when they are not at the best, remembering little things and being influenced by each other and respecting one and another. :) great video and vibes
@emilyaponte3847
@emilyaponte3847 3 жыл бұрын
The way that I can see that my boyfriend adores me is when we stare at each other, when we make eye contact and can see his soul loving me 🥺❤️
@JuuC
@JuuC 7 жыл бұрын
I've never seen a man like this, it's sad
@juliecarter7772
@juliecarter7772 5 жыл бұрын
Ju AC I’ve never seen a man like this either - so sad... never really had any of this happen 😢
@arielklay23
@arielklay23 3 жыл бұрын
My shweetie pie have been friends for a long time and just started dating and he is hitting most of these as applicable to our stage in the relationship, but the biggest indication I have is I feel totally at peace with him. He has a warm, compassionate, but lively personality, so being around him, or even thinking about him makes me feel like I'm slipping into a warm jacuzzi, bubbly and soothing! ☺️
@janed3148
@janed3148 7 жыл бұрын
when i adore a guy, I'm ready to give him as much space as needed, of course i want lots of attention, but if he's a busy person, i won't nag him for not giving me the attention i want, cause it may appear as needy, and if i really want the guy, i wouldn't wanna annoy him lol (does it even make sense? lol😂😂)
@SkaBayb
@SkaBayb 7 жыл бұрын
Jane D Hello Jane D. I undersrand whatnyou are saying here.
@jeanbeme3539
@jeanbeme3539 7 жыл бұрын
Jane D yes it does, he got 11 out of 15 , what u think about that rating?
@janed3148
@janed3148 7 жыл бұрын
Jean Williams Sowell hmm it's very useful I'd say, however individually I think it works a bit differently.. for instance, my man is MAJOR busy, so he's not always close to me physically, however the fact about knowing when he really adores you is super-true! I just feel that, and him forgetting some stuff I tell him and working late doesn't really influence that. I just know he's there for me if something serious happens..
@jeanbeme3539
@jeanbeme3539 7 жыл бұрын
Jane D very deep, love that answer, I need to take that in to consideration and support him
@janed3148
@janed3148 7 жыл бұрын
Jean Williams Sowell glad to be of use😉
@tammiehilliker6600
@tammiehilliker6600 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Matthew. I have to share something with you that is very cool. When my boyfriend andI first got together he told me that he did not like public displays of affection of any type. I was shocked because I had never experienced this before. Apparently, even something as simple as holding hands was off limits. I was disappointed and was unsure how to proceed. I decided to not make a big blow up deal out of it and decided to be respectful of his boundaries. Guess what happened.....yes it did.....he all of a sudden started holding my hand and reaching for me and hugging and kissing me. He did this naturally on his own not even realizing where he was. he saw me and was with me and he was happy. I will also add it did not take him long to start to do this. For me....that was an ultimate feeling of love and acceptance.
@DarthFurie
@DarthFurie 5 жыл бұрын
This is why I appreciate my husband so much 😍😍😭💜
@goldenretrievermom7945
@goldenretrievermom7945 6 жыл бұрын
When I adore him I definitely let him know by remembering all the things he likes. I know my husband's favorite foods up and down everywhere, every place we go I have it memorized. Then when I go to order I just get what he likes since he never changes it. He loves to be taken care of so I do that to make him feel loved.
@crisc9678
@crisc9678 7 жыл бұрын
i make my man feel that he has the exclusivity, and when we talk i give him my entire attention especially when were on a date. i listen to him i remember those things that is important to him and i make it a point that even in tight schedules if he needs my support i would always be there to give him a support. And honestly im not a good cook but i try to learn bit by bit. 😊
@rosaliebedford5229
@rosaliebedford5229 7 жыл бұрын
criszel caballa rose
@wholeliferita
@wholeliferita 7 жыл бұрын
When I love my man I show it through acts of service. I cook for him, I make sure his home is clean, I research things for him. If he's busy at work and has to work late nights or Saturdays, I'll offer to go in and help him. I have found this does a couple of things in our relationship. First and foremost, it shows absolute unselfish love to him. Every single thing I do for him is done through a compasionately loving and moved heart and a gratefulness to have him. Secondly it allows him more time with me, less stress to feel and worry about which also gives me more dedicated quality time. I find that truly loving someone allows them the freedom and focus to truly love me back
@josefine1664
@josefine1664 5 жыл бұрын
Bless my husband.. He fulfills all of these points. He's just the perfect match for me
@arezourose1
@arezourose1 4 жыл бұрын
Mathew is on point. My partner does all that, I feel lucky and blessed, I'm grateful for having him in my life
@Natketty
@Natketty 7 жыл бұрын
First time I am in this kind of relationship *-* And at First, I followed some of your tips Mat!! Thank you so much!
@Grace.Margate
@Grace.Margate 5 жыл бұрын
How I Express love and care to the man I love is by expressing it through genuine care and interest in his family, supporting his career, caring for his health, and knowing that even if his financial status changed for the worse.. that I could and would continue to stand by him and be his partner.
@sharongreenwood1850
@sharongreenwood1850 6 жыл бұрын
This just solidified my thoughts that my soon to be ex husband never loved me.
@exposingliars9824
@exposingliars9824 5 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@tooniemama6959
@tooniemama6959 5 жыл бұрын
Very true and great information!! I adore my BF and I'm very vocal about that. I give him plenty of compliments and tell him how much I love his personality and all his wonderful qualities, and how amazing he makes me feel. Men are happy when they know their woman is happy! They need to know that they are doing "their" job well.
@flomar111
@flomar111 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mat for sharing this. I was married to a man just like this, but unfortunately he was in bondage to porn and thus he decided to leave me for he could not stop his addiction. I hope one day I can find another man like him minus the addiction.
@sohinisamanta1480
@sohinisamanta1480 7 жыл бұрын
My man truly shows all these signs. thanks man. Nd when we adore a man, we do the following things: 1. his every joke however boring it is becomes funny for us. 2. we start planning for things by which we could spend more time together. 3. we become possessive nd try to keep a check on all his activities. 4. we become very comfortable when the man is with us. 5. when we are in trouble or might be in some silly upsets, we search for him.
@1920Mel1920
@1920Mel1920 7 жыл бұрын
I become more domestic. I want to learn how to cook new recipies; clean his place- like dishes or sweeping; I give children more affection; etc.
@karenjensen7566
@karenjensen7566 4 жыл бұрын
Today is my 2 month anniversary with my new boyfriend. I got to say he hits almost every one of your 15 points. I takes me out, he loves being seen with me, he volunteers to help when I need it. I was sick almost continuously for a month and a half after I met him. He helped put together Christmas dinner under my instruction since I didn’t want to contaminate anything. When my sister was coming to visit he helped clean my house because I was too weak to do it myself. He texts and calls me several times a day. We aren’t exclusive (I’m not) because we are polyamorous but we heading toward primary partnership.
@alexandreamcclure9628
@alexandreamcclure9628 7 жыл бұрын
You have high quality videos compared to your competitor. I still don't understand why they have more views than you. You tell women what they need to hear they tell women what they want to hear.
@MagdoleenRafla
@MagdoleenRafla 23 күн бұрын
I compliment him for everything. His appearance, his actions and his passion.
@fatmaggot123
@fatmaggot123 7 жыл бұрын
He was perfect and he did ALL of these things and more, but he still texted his exes and tried to hook up with them during our 2.5 year relationship. What gives? I did all of the same back to him as well. I guess it is time for me to order 32 cats because I have lost all faith in men and humanity.
@deannario
@deannario 7 жыл бұрын
I have to send a HUGE thank you for ALL your videos. They have helped me in how I talk and more important react to my boyfriend. We have become MUCH closer and he has been talking about our future together. I'm happy to say that he does every one of these 15 things (and I do them for him :-) ). Thank you again!!!!!
@123kelena
@123kelena 7 жыл бұрын
Hey Mat! Thank you so much for all that you do for us girls!!! Your videos changed my life over the past year! Love you and soo sooo grateful for your efforts! I am currently in a long distance relationship with an incredible man for the last 10 months and it's truly a story out of a movie! We both have been through a LOT of hell in our lives and truly realized that we are the people we've been looking for all along! Totally complete each others needs. He actually Checks off EVERY DARN requirement I have for my man! I wrote it in my diary January last year and manifested him in August of that same year. It's unbelievable how the universe works!! I honestly would go through all my heartaches and self worth struggles all over again just to be able to feel the way I do now. If it wasn't for you I wouldn't have gotten here. So you truly changed my life, and I'm forever grateful💖 When I adore a man: -I express my love in words, in physical touch, in making him feel good about himself and appreciating every step he takes towards me, I ask how I can be of help, I am there for him in good and bad days, I give him space when he needs it, I take note of things he likes and doesn't like, I respect his opinion and if we have a disagreement, I weigh things and adjust accordingly without an emotional explosion. At this point in my life I've been through the wringer and so so appreciate my man for who he is and can't wait to see where we will both be together a year from now, for we truly grow together to be the best people possible, add value to this world and just take over as a power couple:))))) One more thing - when the man I adore makes mistakes I am careful to guide him in the right direction calmly and constructively. Communication is key:)
@karenrawson4887
@karenrawson4887 6 жыл бұрын
These are all ringing true for me right now and I’m mirroring them back. I show my own appreciation for my new man by being 150% passionate about anything involving us/him. My self confidence is through the roof (newly found I might add) and he sees than my desire to learn more about his likes (music activities) is very encouraging to him. This 6 weeks has been amazing. Only felt like this once before in my life.....he got away. (I’m 48). This one is not getting away keep the advice coming Matthew!!! Thanks
@septemberdawnluketz
@septemberdawnluketz 6 жыл бұрын
Damn, my ex boyfriend actually loved me. I missed the signs.
@AshleyBTibbetts
@AshleyBTibbetts 4 жыл бұрын
Same :(
@avacado9689
@avacado9689 3 жыл бұрын
You messed up!!!😱😠☝🏻
@zinthin8456
@zinthin8456 5 жыл бұрын
He does all of this, and he gives me unlimited love & attention everyday. I feel lucky but at the same time I have childhood trauma that is limiting me to accept this kind of abundance. My parents relationship & my childhood experiences really led to me believe that I have to fight to be loved as I don’t feel I m good enough or deserving enough of this kind of love. I m always attracted to men who are emotionally closed off or keep me awake at night. That kind of relationship excites & thrills me,when I receive some small love and attention from them, I feel like I m the girl they fall in love from their cold broken heart. I m glad I became aware of this now so I can improve myself more to receive abundance of love from this man .
@Micaela1527
@Micaela1527 7 жыл бұрын
Some men aren't so outward in their signs of 'love', some might be 'less outward showing'..
@blubayou4654
@blubayou4654 5 жыл бұрын
omg i'm going to cry!!!! My sweetheart does alllll those things and way more. It's crazy!! He has all my checkmarks and is highly respected and successful too. Having come from a bogus heart wrenching relationship in my past, i'm considering myself Highly Blessed. Ladies, keep the faith and hope, your romeo will surely come.
@dorthysmith33
@dorthysmith33 4 жыл бұрын
My man literally does all this thing 😍he's the best!
@petershuri4008
@petershuri4008 3 жыл бұрын
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@cynthiaclarke4224
@cynthiaclarke4224 3 жыл бұрын
I started dating a wonderful man three weeks ago and he already ticks all these 15 boxes! I am 61 and it turns out my next door neighbour is this wonderful man!
@happiemganga1563
@happiemganga1563 7 жыл бұрын
Hey Michael, thanks for taking your time to write all this signs to know if a guy adores us. But i have a question ; What about a long distance relationship? how will these signs you said can be applied there?
@Komorebidreams
@Komorebidreams 7 жыл бұрын
When I really adore a guy, I feel it from him, which enables me to be myself and love him back. I go the extra mile by cooking amazing meals with love, being extra joyful around him when he gives to me, and I want to move to the next level. Things are great in the bedroom and fights aren't really bad-if you're with a man who adores you-they're pretty much the same things you stated men do-
@kimberlyhorne3435
@kimberlyhorne3435 3 жыл бұрын
Matt I absolutely love your advice I’m recommending you to my sister. You have helped me so much and I’m greatful for you I’m 60 and back in the dating world and you give a girl the best advice. I am now dating and in a relationship now for 5 months he had gotten out of a 2 year one and started dating me. He ‘s doing good about it now I’m just waiting for the words I love you. I don’t know when but I will cry because I love him dearly. He does so much for me and I do the same for him. Thanks Matt keep us in your prayers
@lindashepherd3968
@lindashepherd3968 6 жыл бұрын
Effort, compliments that are personally designed to him, honesty, vulnerability, sexual tension, flirting, easiness of being together, riding out the rough spots knowing we’ll come out the other end.
@winilau2380
@winilau2380 7 жыл бұрын
when I adore/love a man, I can't take my eyes off him.❤️❤️
@exposingliars9824
@exposingliars9824 5 жыл бұрын
creepy
@myholisticnurse7914
@myholisticnurse7914 3 жыл бұрын
My love is distant physically but does as many of these as he can... I am so grateful to have found a quality man who adores me... now just need to get comfortable with this gorgeous, caring and loving approach to relating!
@aali1134
@aali1134 5 жыл бұрын
My beautiful, gorgeous, handsome man does all of these! ❤
@dashiajames1882
@dashiajames1882 4 жыл бұрын
He can look for: 1. A big happy attitude every time I see him 2. For me to help out any way I can help 3. Always have meaningful deep conversations with him 4. Me taking care of him any way possible ( especially he's sick) 5. Strong deep bond from me And soooo much more...!!
@Michellemybell739
@Michellemybell739 6 жыл бұрын
Lucky wife you have Mathew! Blessings to you both! Thank you for the advice.
@akshatakamath7074
@akshatakamath7074 4 жыл бұрын
I think what I do to show interest is: 1. Be my best self. Take efforts to actually be my best self- mentally, physically, emotionally. 2. Becurious about his life and note the small things that matter to him
@cherisesoon3911
@cherisesoon3911 7 жыл бұрын
Damn, I'm lucky and I should appreciate him more 😢
@tabbee2980
@tabbee2980 4 жыл бұрын
I'm big on acts of service. When I adore him, I do little things to make him comfortable. I pick up his plates and give him more food or I make the special desserts he mentioned randomly that he likes. I start to dress in his favorite colors if they look good me (if they don't then I wear jewelry of his favorite color). I also laugh at all his jokes and I give a huge smile and giggle (plus sometimes an eyeroll) whenever he is a good ball. I remember what he likes and check out shows or music he is into.
@petershuri4008
@petershuri4008 3 жыл бұрын
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@Diamantesytacones
@Diamantesytacones 7 жыл бұрын
I loved this video! by the way i miss the other background! I really appreciate you!
@serenityoasissparetreat9357
@serenityoasissparetreat9357 6 жыл бұрын
To show someone that I am really into them in addition to everything you mentioned in this video I; 1: always give them gifts; 2: ask if they have a significant other before I engage myself in a conversation or invasion of their personal space; 3: manage to have a friend tell them my desire. (That's why sometimes it's good to have a male friend who can speak the truth on your behalf !) 🤗🙄
@CynthiaRaspin1977
@CynthiaRaspin1977 7 жыл бұрын
I witnessed all these and paid it forward to him
@Nthabeleng_thedj
@Nthabeleng_thedj 7 жыл бұрын
I love all your advice, on point. I've had so much relationship drama. But now I think the right one has finally found me.
@stephanierichardson6031
@stephanierichardson6031 6 жыл бұрын
My gorgeous boyfriend shows me these signs EVERYDAY 💗💗💗💗
@gingermariska198912
@gingermariska198912 6 жыл бұрын
An action I do when I adore him is to give him random hugs or to touch him. 😍
@ILoveAstronomy
@ILoveAstronomy 6 жыл бұрын
Wow. Essentially my boyfriend and I have been unknowingly reciprocating almost this entire list with each other within the past three months. He and I have been dating for six. The only one that is in progress is #7 (PDA). He is HFA with ADD so getting him comfortable with potential PDA is a work in progress. I just make sure that he feels physically safe around me, that I am receptive to his requests and suggestions, he can be vulnerable around me without being judged, and I remember what he likes that brings him comfort and relaxes him. Helping him with his nephew and around his home unasked while we teamwork helps. Working my way to his heart through his stomach isn't a bad approach either. 😁 Edit: He and I are in our early thirties. So emotional maturity may play a huge role here.
@CJ_536
@CJ_536 Жыл бұрын
These are all SO true. I have been married 23 years. My husband does all these things. I tell my children they don't need to marry a prince; they just need to marry someone who treats them like a princess - and this is exactly what I mean. (Although - he's not so much a planner - I tend to plan our dates. But he always talks about me with him in our future - he's just not picking out the restaurants!)
@colleen7549
@colleen7549 7 жыл бұрын
When I adore a fella I'm cooking for him. As the old saying goes, "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach."
@jenniferwebb5954
@jenniferwebb5954 5 жыл бұрын
Nope, its through his chest 😉
@kikusama
@kikusama 6 жыл бұрын
When I adore a man, I do thoughtful things. For example, cook his favorite dish. Give him something that he doesn't have but would love, like something he is missing from his collection.
@LADYtWarrior
@LADYtWarrior 5 жыл бұрын
Ok so the question is. Does these apply to long distance relationships? I wish you could do videos on long distance relationships.
@elktail
@elktail 6 жыл бұрын
I'm always making sure that I touch him and look into his eyes.
@Carolechichi
@Carolechichi 7 жыл бұрын
Matt ! why didn't I find you five years ago ! I would have known the guy I've been dating at that time wasn't in love although he said he was. I understood it the hard way after 2 years of relationship. He hadn't any friends, so being in a relationship helps him not to be lonely. My biggest mistake was to think that if he said something it was because he truly felt it because it's how it works for me. I'm a very shy person, and I only can speak my mind when I truly love somebody ( friend or boyfriend) . otherwise I stay quiet 😁. He kept forgetting my birthday, the things l love. He was an heavy smoker, which wasn't ok with my allergies, but he kept saying I was a liar about my allergies " creations of my mind " ... I was the one who asked for dates, planning holidays, showing affection and excusing when he hurted me. Until I told him he had to invest more in our relationship if he didn't want me to quit. I quit. As soon as I quit , he could call me 10 times a day , and promise me to plan out next holidays. Lool . But I said yes, because I was young and not really self confident . after 2 weeks, the real him just hitted again : he was the one who came back but put no effort in gaining me back. so I quit for good
@Carolechichi
@Carolechichi 7 жыл бұрын
the guy told me he didn't understand why I asked him for kisses or hugs once a day , for him I was needy. Lool. and he explained me his ex didn't require them : he didn't realized her ex didn't love her , she broke up with him after five years , just after he asked her to marry him 😂. this guy was a total mess and disrespectful , emotionally unavailable. I Am so Happy to have escaped this relationship. but three years after I still feel unable to date , and that I won't attract a great guy.Im not beautiful, and everyone around me has found his /her special one. I'm the last single lady among my friends​....it seems stupid but I fear to be single for the rest of my life. Right now I just use my energy to heal... I hope it'll be with the wait..
@angelamoraglia3531
@angelamoraglia3531 5 жыл бұрын
My man does all of these for me. My goal is to always make him smile. Any relationship needs play time. Start with a massage, make him a cup of coffee, have a candlelight dinner even if it's grilled cheese. Play his favorite music. Share Hope's and dreams. Never tire of his touch or telling him what he means to you.
@linasolomatina
@linasolomatina 7 жыл бұрын
Well, I guess I took a fucking wrong turn somewhere.
@ericdell1819
@ericdell1819 6 жыл бұрын
Lina Solo big turn off.
@cassandrawilson6442
@cassandrawilson6442 6 жыл бұрын
Lina Solo Lol
@user-zx5xw4yw2e
@user-zx5xw4yw2e 6 жыл бұрын
No man has totally adored me😕
@westcoastsands
@westcoastsands 7 жыл бұрын
When I'm into a guy, he becomes my trusted confidant; a strong person I open up to about how I feel, who I truly am. I show him physical affections and treat him in ways only for him. I appreciate him everyday and let him know my saying it, letting others know how great he is, and by showing it through practical actions like cooking his favorite meal, or organizing an activity that he's always wanted to do (fun adventure time together).
@daisymaisymae8788
@daisymaisymae8788 7 жыл бұрын
When I adore a man I want to play with him and be playful.
@ulat14
@ulat14 4 жыл бұрын
Omg, everything is check with this guy I’m dating now-- god knows where this is headed but grateful I found a guy who adores me and treats me well
@petershuri4008
@petershuri4008 3 жыл бұрын
The spell caster solved all the problems in my life, he can also help you WhatsApp. +2349031195702. The spell caster who helped me attract my ex after the breakup can help you too. Good luck
@MarkBH70
@MarkBH70 7 жыл бұрын
WARNING: As several women have noted here, he just might "love" you for the passion and to burn your heart: a conquest. Dump 'em!
@lovedogs8378
@lovedogs8378 7 жыл бұрын
Aquarian Christianity how would you know he only want you for passion ? not for a long term?
@MarkBH70
@MarkBH70 7 жыл бұрын
love dogs I think if the relationship proceeds too quickly or you become fast friends, or if you can tell it's only physical or superficial: Superficial relationships don't develop; they just happen. Beware of SUDDEN LOVE! There is no such thing. You should ask yourself, or ask others, what he sees in you.
@juliaarnold1078
@juliaarnold1078 4 жыл бұрын
Aquarian Christianity didn’t you propose to someone you only knew for 6 months
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