19 PRACTICAL Ways to Flirt and Create Chemistry in Early Dating

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What’s the secret formula for flirting?
It’s one thing we all know is important in getting attraction, but rarely are we shown how to actually do it.
The truth is, there isn’t a “one size fits all” approach to flirting that works for everyone. But there are things you can do to subtly add flirtatious chemistry into any conversation and make it feel completely natural.
In today’s new compilation video, I’ve gathered my best flirting advice from over the years, giving you a total of 19 flirty ideas that can help spark chemistry on your next date . . . or get you to date #1 in the first place!
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 - 0:26 - Preview
0:26 - 1:50 - Look More
1:50 - 2:21 - Mouth “Hi”
2:21 - 2:49 - Express Excitement
2:49 - 4:00 - The Exact Look
4:00 - 4:57 - The Off-Balance Text
4:57 - 6:06 - The “Definitely Not Thinking of You” Text
6:06 - 6:40 - Getting Momentum
6:40 - 9:01 - Hogging the Coffee Machine
9:01 - 10:05 - “We’d Be Trouble”
10:05 - 10:50 - Touch
10:50 - 11:28 - Take a Sip
11:28 - 12:06 - Glance at His Lips
12:06 - 12:46 - “You Can’t Look at Me Like That”
12:46 - 13:20 - The Cute Act
13:20 - 14:28 - Slow the Pace
14:28 - 15:07 - Desire-Based Compliment
15:07 - 15:57 - Hug Like You Mean It
15:57 - 16:46 - Be Observed
16:46 - 17:35 - Playful Tease
17:35 - 20:40 - Post-Date Text

[@jenniferhenriksen6801]

I love how Mathew is always on a date with his monkey 😂

[@liekelieke]

😂Me too 🙊

[@redridgemedia3771]

#spankthemonkey

[@Sophia00077]

„What part of the jungle were you in when that happened“ still kills me 😂🎉 lmao

[@elizabethmcqtv4589]

That's so funny 🤣

[@bridgetdelahunty2671]

So fucking great 😅

[@itscoachrum]

The different hairstyles had me

[@user-wo2hf2fp2l]

😂😂😂

[@Venusya1]

🤦🏻‍♀️😅

[@carolzaher2655]

I love the longer ones ❤❤❤

[@igobyjazz]

LEGITIMATELY LMAOOOOO 😭 a man with style

[@princymadotyeni2467]

Stop it😂😂😂😂😂

[@ThESicKdiStuRbED]

instructions not clear, fell in love with the monkey

[@la.femme11]

This video showed us how many times Matthew changed his hairstyle in the past few years 😄 And the monkey segment will forever be epic ✨

[@LaLaBlahBlahh]

I love videos like this soo much! Not only is the production quality insanely good but I love the realistic and practical tips

[@SelfLovewithAT]

The monkey was the best actor in the production 🤣🤣This was a great movie clip 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾‼️💓

[@My2cents1844]

I’m married and I’m using these on my hubby! Gotta keep it fresh 🫶🏽🌺😉😏

[@lonewolfheart1697]

I love the format of this video where the actors are mouthing Matthew's words... absolutely brilliant and engaging... plus these tips are brilliant!!

[@frantastic101]

The current podcast-live-chat style he uses these days with his girlfriend and bro is great, but man do I MISS the days when Matthew was making these amazing, thought out & edited instructional videos. It’s a lot more work but man it is way memorable

[@seastarr8666]

These tips are great, but I can see it going horribly wrong. Awkward is my middle name, so I'd probably use them in all the wrong moments and the man would think I was mental. "You can't look at me that way"... he's not even looking at me. 😂

[@stacielara9856]

OMG that would be so me.....oh well, worth a try, don't you think?

[@titustaddhaustaddltentakel9987]

About the hugging. There was a situation once. I meet this interesting woman, we talked for some time and drank tea and the I asked if I could hugg her. Neither of us pulled away for at least five minutes and it felt like we knew each other for 20+ years. Then we evantually stopped and looked into the face of a complete stranger. It was magical and I still have her in my head sometimes for this reason and other's.

[@jenn8179]

I was told once that I'm terrible at flirting. Eye contact is difficult for me 😂

[@shopnancyiee8093]

This was hands down the best video ever!!! From the actors mouthing Matthew’s words, to so many gold texts to send, to flirting with the monkey!! 🙈 🙉 🙊!! Loved it and appreciate the time and effort you took to make this video. Thank you!!

[@proudally6662]

Why am i watching this when i know i wont be flirting anytime soon in my life

[@shakingbirdart]

So you'll be ready when it happens. Good luck! 😊

[@MeggyMoVlogger]

Fell in love with the monkey lol

[@redvine1105]

“He knows” “We don’t know” Truer words have never been spoken. You don’t need to hit us over the head with a sledgehammer, but perhaps a gentle tap with it

[@andrewhammond8852]

This content quality from the insightful advice to the superb editing/filming is outstanding! Great video.

[@Tassie71]

The scenes with the monkey are the best! Had to laugh so hard hahaha.

[@lonewolfk.n1101]

This is so good and so funny at the same time!!

[@sumayaumaiza2494]

OMG, "U can't look at me like" will have u building the highest tension ever❤😊

[@tashussain560]

This is a such a cleverly put together video. Engaging, funny and informative!

[@mmm24ist]

The scenes, their quality, lip sync are just sick! love them!

[@arcticfox8779]

I like this flirting advice, the nuance aspect and playful texting makes total sense! Thank you!

[@emmaloves23]

You just put all my favorite Videos of you together 😂 love it!!!❤️😉

[@anjastrubel1885]

So I completely forgot why I was watching this and now I'm in love with you. Is that what was supposed to happen?😂

[@galdevina1224]

I learn so much from Matthew Hussey! He's such a gem!

[@jasminegutierrez7251]

I like these flirting tips, I can't wait to use them

[@btstakescareofmewhenimsick4892]

Legend says, monkey proposed already

[@thejeff2469]

Hey guys,by the second day of texting ask her out. Tell her"we should see if there's a spark". Keep it casual and make it proper. I know a cute little restaurant across from a museum. Find somewhere cute,nothing too big. You're looking for dates on the apps,not pen pals. Victory favors the bold!

[@filipinamomlife7497]

This is validation on my flirting skills!😂 Thank you!❤

[@harmonythroughconsciousnes5749]

Pure gold. On so many levels. Thank you 😂❤

[@claudiaReyna324]

Right! I loved it😂

[@YogaconMarinaBuedo]

Love your videos Matthew!

[@saminirgirl20]

Loved this video❤

[@user-fn6kw7mv2h]

finally some good tips this guy is insane

[@MimiBelvoir]

Loveeeeee these😍😍😍😍😅

[@dustinpendergast]

The production quality on this is epic!

[@aloishe]

This video totally made me laugh. I love it.

[@alonbiran2011]

One of the best videos I've ever seen on dating

[@asnoopy]

We need more videos like this

[@openyreyes]

Haha ..made me blush , and I am over 50 😂

[@zahra_life7156]

I enjoyed while watching i was smiling, thank you for this good content ☘

[@nuwanda3333]

MATTHEW CAN YOU PLEASE DO A VIDEO ON HOW TO FIX IT AFTER WE'VE BEEN TOO HONEST AND NOT FLIRTY? Like, if we said we liked a guy and he rejected us and now we need our confidence back, lol.

[@cleopatrajones7096]

@nuwanda Either let him go or just say a simple hello next time. Been there and done that. I think the right guy will like you if you have been too honest and find it quirky. I would take it as a lesson learned and play coy with the next one. You don’t need a guy for confidence. You already have it. When you play it calm and cool, that’s an attractive quality ❤

[@nuwanda3333]

thank you so much!@@cleopatrajones7096

[@coutureleotards]

Nuwanda I just got out of a long toxic relationship. What I learned is rejection protects me from making bad decisions and is actually a very responsible thing the other person could do. Thank him for not wasting your time and stringing you along just to realize he's still not interested. Accept rejection, it nature's way of keeping you out of trouble.

[@IntuitiveWellnessAdelaide]

😮ohhhhh I’m doing the hi 👋 thing LOVE IT!!! Silent and no vocal 🎉🙏🏼

[@amandasmith8108]

Same. And look 4 x more...I'm rubbish at that too!!

[@Talkwithdulci]

Can we just take a moment to appreciate Matthew’s hair and the versatility it holds😭

[@leonaldn]

The office scenario and the monkey scenes had me! 😅😂

[@lt4568]

I'm dead hahahaha.... I have to tell you Matt.....when I'm out on dates putting my flirtation in action, I bust out laughing thinking about you and monkey! I love your videos.

[@rocksroll6841]

Thank you so much! I’m a female and soooo bad at this I’ve dropped the ball countless times get in my head super shy and go blank 😢 the whole video is great loved the couples used love you w the monkey ❤

[@carolzaher2655]

Very practical!! I'll be using those!!!❤

[@rachelokotete2007]

The ad lip is chefs kiss 😅

[@englishwithmarie5000]

This is so cool😅❤

[@KarimovaMashhura-rq5cq]

Love is difficult than I thought

[@liekelieke]

Love is simple but being attractive is about more than just appearance.

[@ararune3734]

@@liekelieke That's women's mantra, until a short guy approaches.

[@rivetal]

Thank you🙏🙂

[@akumacode]

Thank you for making this for the women. I've been dating and the women I've encountered don't know how to flirt, but I'll flirt with them. They often pick up on what I'm doing and use it on me. But it's so masculine that it actually has the opposite effect and TURNS ME OFF (I know because they literally said the words, "I don't know how to flirt" to me)

[@QualityIsQueen]

Sometimes that might come trying and it not working. Guys don't always let them know it worked

[@amber4027]

I’d be turned off and not flirt if your energy matches the way you verbalized all this.

[@Babesinthewood97]

Oh wow. I’m in this stage of flirting right now. Like, otherwise I haven’t been interested in anyone for the past 4 years. So, no pressure or anything :) But yeah.. the problem is that this guy is in a work environment and I don’t want to make a fool of myself. But actually my strategy is working. It just took a few smiles for encouragement and not trying much at all. It worked :) I didn’t think it would because I’m not really doing anything.

[@Moonlight-yi3kp]

I needed this ❤

[@MimiBelvoir]

Right!!!😊

[@Moonlight-yi3kp]

Totally agree 😅

[@qwertpoo1]

but are you going to actually use this

[@talesfromtheroad9530]

OMGSH this was EXACT question I had on my mind yesterday--took myself out and about in my little town for fun (farmer's market, two book stores, two cafes, library, outdoor bluegrass concert) and passed by many attractive young guys and froze every single time. Didn't even manage to make eye contact when passing (I always look too late??). Talked with a bunch of elderly ladies about goats and carrots, so it's not like I'm deadly shy. I just choke with guys my age. Trying to get braver. Can't wait to watch this!!

[@yeuruuerueeheue]

Goats and carrots 😂😂😂

[@talesfromtheroad9530]

​@@yeuruuerueeheue Can you tell I'm an amazing conversationalist 😂 🫠

[@kimcarr3741]

I've done this same thing.....get out and about and I freeze. I'm ok until I'm with guys my age.

[@squali1930]

I feel the same way with girls my age, but not women above my age. Do you choke when talking to guys above you age?

[@talesfromtheroad9530]

@squali1930 Not in the slightest. Got cornered by an old man in an antique store the other day who talked to me for 20 minutes... I joked with friends later that I wish guys decades younger would come up to me and talk about washboards and butter churns, but it just hasn't happened yet 🤣 But yeah, easy to talk to any guy that's out of my dating age range. And I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way!!

[@cleopatrajones7096]

It takes two to create tension. Sometimes that guy can get defensive when I’ve tried to be playful. I’ve had to tone it down because sensitivity is set to high for many of us. I think this humor works on a certain demographic and not to all. So if this doesn’t work for you, it’s not all hopeless. There’s a pot for every lid.

[@thomashenshallhydraxis]

It’s not sensitive; it’s about, what do women bring to a man’s life? And for me, it’s drama beyond anything I want. So I think about all the things that can go wrong if we make it to a date. So if a women is flirting, my mind starts going to what does she want from me? And I stop paying attention to flirting. 😂 the Metwo era really messed dating up. Like women getting half my stuff on fake dv. Or loss of job, I lose more things from the breakup then I would have if not dating at all. I have so many fake DV’s in my life. I avoid showing women I like them, it’s safer in long run.

[@cleopatrajones7096]

@@thomashenshallhydraxis Well that makes sense. I rarely use dating apps so I can see why you’re trying to protect yourself. You’ve helped clear that issue up. I’m definitely low on drama and also try to steer clear from it when a guy just raises his voice or acts strange. I work in tech so some guys are just awkward around my flirts. I have to just be very polite and curt. Yeah so I think it still takes two to tango!

[@TheLunablackheart]

Dude I wouldn't take advice from that previous person, he's the last person you'd want to listen to based on that comment alone. Any man with that attitude towards women shouldn't be dating women at all until he sorts out his own misogyny.

[@jennajacobs3700]

I have been following this man for over a decade and I feel like I'm just getting it.

[@WonderWoman1984-uy5yn]

Same - it's been about 7 years for me and I'm finally like "Ohhhhhhhhh...!"

[@cosmicbrambleclawv2]

*takes notes*

[@mfancyketchup6701]

Ugh I should have watched this before my first date!! LOL

[@Gabitachikita]

That’s some professional flirting 😂I wouldn’t be able to come up with lines like that or would be too embarrassed haha

[@cocoariche]

The monkey 😂 I love it!

[@dudebogus6424]

Brilliant

[@jenm8550]

I love the monkey!!!! So hilarious!!!

[@CabinQueenYoga]

Matthew, Your info is great. Ps you look and sound like the perfect Hallmark movie character 🍿🎥 Thanks for dating info , no one has your advice !! ❤

[@meowismyhello5100]

I can’t wait to see where you and monkey are headed. 😜

[@RafiBarides]

The lip sync bits were so clever lol. Small detail that elevated the video by a lot

[@coreybrownart]

this editing is great!

[@crazystuff5229]

flirtation is keeping someone off-balance is the best advice 100% agree

[@NessaMagic]

Damn..... Was so excited when a new video dropped.... 🤔 Only to realise its a rehash of old vids! 😭

[@lisbetsoda4874]

There are only so many ways to say the same thing. Just follow his advice, why don't you?

[@shampoochampion]

Nothing is more frustrating when you are hitting it off with a man on a dating app and you suggest giving him your phone number but he wants to chat on what’s up instead.

[@aeriebae88]

And thats where I draw the line. Lol. Texting is okay, but I love to hear a man's voice after a long day.

[@boxerusx5530]

To be honest, this is an eye opener for me. I'm one of those guys 😅

[@Danifn123]

Hi, You look good in this t-shirt! And… I’m hugging you a few seconds more than I would hug a friend Mathew😝😅

[@persianqu33n]

damn those are some really good actors and the memorizing script skill is on point!!!! holy

[@persianqu33n]

also the chemistry between the first "couple" .. theyre both so hot!

[@MysteryofMakeup]

Please tips for LDR 😊

[@laandreaellis268]

This is too cute and funny 😄

[@RachelLenina-pd5gl]

i just love it this video 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@geepotter9726]

Love this video,you and the monkey are so cute I can’t stop smiling 😆

[@LilDevs]

Awe Matt plz do more funnies with monkey. This is sooooo funny. You are very witty, we need to see more of that! 🙂

[@Asal-qz2xc]

Love the monkey business 🙈

[@Men6brave]

Frank James was right.This guy is TOOO GOOD

[@angeliquebel]

Omo!! 😂 best!

[@jasonfanclub4267]

I am a guy very bad in flirting at it was very helpful for me. thäääänx

[@olenkagamboa1djb]

“What part of the jungle you were when that happened” 😭🤣🤣🤣

[@amiramahgoub]

I wasn't mean before! I 👍 this video to remind me how too be friendly and kind again. Something happened to me when me and my husband separated.

[@itsclairewest]

Hilarious and educational

[@jelenacherevicki394]

that humor 🤗🥰

[@cet1069]

I'm happily married and totally not looking for anything else romantically but loved this video... so entertaining... the scenes with the monkey are HILARIOUS! WAY TO GO, Matthew Hussey. You can sell your dating knowledge to people who aren't even looking to date! :P

[@TheMathias95]

Well it doesn't hurt to keep flirting with your spouse

[@joellemartin4466]

I’m sure your husband would appreciate some of these tho.

[@Universeiswithyou729]

HAHAHA I LOVE THIS VIDEO

[@podcast885]

this was 2 good sir.

[@sanasiddique333]

That was too funny 😂

[@alaalfa8839]

Make sure she falls in love with your lifestyle, not necessarily just with your looks, because your lifestyle is part of your charisma, looks may change over time, but charisma rarely changes, good lifestyle rarely changes for worse. but looks may change for better if you exercise and makes you look healthy etc For example, if you are a kind guy who likes people and humor and helps people, and has a bunch of friends, It's called lifestyle, you share advice about sports, music arts, and culture with friends. Charisma is part of lifestyle and lifestyle is part of charisma. She falls in love with it much more than just with looks. If she sees he helps his friend or colleague with something, she sees his priorities. The spiritual priorities and his humility, which is an attractive thing. Maybe therefore long-term relationship works with people who work in the same industry, for example, music, playing violin or instrument. So she feels safe because all the people colleagues around him feel safe, and she will feel safe with all those people. For example musicians, and athletes. Except if she is the kind of person who wants to live in isolation from people or doesn't have time for them.

[@irsprst]

the monkey always gets me 😂

[@kati4521]

My God. Now I understand why am still single woman with some failed relationships at 36. Never knew how to flirt 😮

[@pageremick5504]

LOVE the monkey!..... and Matt was OK... I guess.

[@coachdumont9284]

🐵 don’t look at me like that😂

[@libbypaige6160]

I miss dating. Didn't realise how much until watching this.

[@Z-Interceptor]

i'm not, so exhausting...

[@heatherduke7703]

No you don’t… When’s the last time you did it? I’m so exhausted ☹️

[@dwanhd590]

So entertained, my laughing mao

[@Linda-ot3pj]

The monkey part was sooo funny. Ooooo. Ooooo oooo

[@melmelsontv6259]

I like the little movies